Real fam, do you think men don’t want a woman who is 100% self-sufficient?
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@rhondarosoboro78745 жыл бұрын
This version of Adrienne is who we want. Thank you! Let these people know!
@NellieKAdaba5 жыл бұрын
Rhonda Rosoboro Amen!
@minenoturs42715 жыл бұрын
1:41-1:59 👏 👏 👏 👏
@ladyc85815 жыл бұрын
About Time "A:
@MW-qv5ox4 жыл бұрын
"if I choose you"? lmao the man decides who he marries not the other way around
@mariovandeneede39294 жыл бұрын
Don't listen to these women. They will fill your head with dreams and they don't know anything what a man is and what a man wants. A man does not....I repeat.. .does not want a feminist woman. A man wants a feminin woman, who acts feminin, who has her head on children and not on a career!
@shanicewebb17275 жыл бұрын
The New Yorker in Adrienne came out...
@carlaj3225 жыл бұрын
Yup !
@Tallgorgeous5 жыл бұрын
Shanice Webb Rightt
@Sza_translator5 жыл бұрын
Shanice Webb JUMPED out
@lcm23514 жыл бұрын
💯
@aaronjohnson66224 жыл бұрын
The ugly in her came out. That wasn't attractive at all. No masculine man wants a woman like that. I'll bet she talks to her husband like that. I'll bet when he talks she cuts him off. I'll bet she makes all the decisions. How can a woman be happy when she has a man that allows her to go on tv and talk like that? That's a reflection on him
@ashleypulido20424 жыл бұрын
"his validation is based on women needing him, that's a weak man" UFFFF
@ROCKSTAR1236204 жыл бұрын
Nope cause he dont need em
@arminiusofgermania4 жыл бұрын
Shaming tactics aren't a good look. A woman who doesn't need a man has no reason for having one.
@jamescollins63474 жыл бұрын
Ashley Pulido women don’t understand men AT ALL
@arminiusofgermania4 жыл бұрын
@@roxjnie9028 It's not insecurity. It's evolutionary hardwiring. Men are inclined to protect, and provide. A society that denies him of that, is denying him of his personhood.
@rayejohnson9924 жыл бұрын
@B0omer96 you can't even spell stfu
@musicmusic35795 жыл бұрын
Loni is me hyping my friends uppppp!!!
@joycemulinda69465 жыл бұрын
Music Music 😂😂😂
@JA-ul5ue5 жыл бұрын
Getchu a Loni😂😂😂
@Neo.Jordon5 жыл бұрын
Loni straight up lied. He literally did not say what she said he said.
@ayjaybay935 жыл бұрын
Jordon Bear it Loni lied about nothing, she never quoted or paraphrased him, she only stated her opinion.
@Neo.Jordon5 жыл бұрын
@@ayjaybay93 very misleading
@meiy095 жыл бұрын
I just clicked on this to say Lonnie looks sooo beautiful!! 😍
@cwchris_5 жыл бұрын
Mommy & co. Sis is looking great and you can tell she’s feeling great 😍
@Sevenia.5 жыл бұрын
She deff. Is
@andrewgadson895 жыл бұрын
Loni is full of the devil. Look at how these women push the satanic agenda of i don't need a man. Women came from man's rib. Meaning you are a part of man ladies! You need not just a man but Christ led men.z That gives your life balance ladies. Self centered people saying they don't need a man or don't need a woman is full of pride just like Satan! Satan in his beauty said he didn't need god🤔 some women saying the same thing about not needing a man. Not true. Loni is trying so hard to push the devils agenda on Tamara in this clip.loni is against God's order that's why she's loud,stubborn, and unsubmissive. Ephesians 5 22-31,1 Peter 3 chapter,proverbs 31 10- 32,proverbs tell ou about the contentious woman, and the loud and stubborn woman. Read God's word for truth . Do not listen to what these shows or society tells you. Satanic Agenda!!!!!!!
@NM-rt9im5 жыл бұрын
She looks glowy
@sunnytarvins18035 жыл бұрын
Andrew Gadson sit down sir before you hurt yourself 😂
@takhemaziya4 жыл бұрын
'A real man is not intimidated by a woman who doesn't need him' YAASSS A!
@arminiusofgermania4 жыл бұрын
An independent woman doesn't need a man. Because then she wouldn't be independent. Common sense seems absent amidst empty-headed floozies.
@rafaelremoroza65344 жыл бұрын
believe what you want to believe american but a real man will not be define on how he treat a woman,, but how he treat people be humble always... A real man is not a man who says nice things to women. a real man is a man who says nice things and his actions back those words up... just an asian guy passing by peace :)
@rafaelremoroza65344 жыл бұрын
@Delonte Hollister not all.. bec women here in asia is not like that only women in america and i dont understand why
@ParadiseLordRyu4 жыл бұрын
takhemaziya if she doesn’t need him then she’ll just go to some guy with more resources. No point in a guy keeping her around.
@mimia.48104 жыл бұрын
Arminius of Germania It's not about NEED, you can survive without him. It's about WANT, wanting love and a relationship like every human being.
@Frances865 жыл бұрын
*Loni and her side comments* .... *I CANT* 🤣
@joycewible88165 жыл бұрын
"Cuz you don't know how to drive yet!" 😂
@Simplykiebby5 жыл бұрын
“You got a bank account!”
@savannahrose96805 жыл бұрын
Frances2012 when they clap back on her fat back she crying, 😅😅😅
@savannahrose96805 жыл бұрын
Joyce Wible Loni when you lose 200lbs, I will drive you to the gym to lose another 100, bet she shut up 😅😅😅
@Simplykiebby5 жыл бұрын
Savannah Rose First of all, relax. Loni wasn’t saying anything negative about Adrienne
@Leocalamb25 жыл бұрын
Honestly, a real man doesn’t want a woman to “need” him, he wants a woman to WANT him. That speaks more volumes, cause it says she didn’t have to have you, that you’re not in her life because she couldn’t live without you, you’re there because she didn’t want to live without you. That means so much more.
@MaishaOnTop5 жыл бұрын
YOU BETTER PREACH UP IN HERE!
@allysonmessina17855 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!!
@elodief.31695 жыл бұрын
Leoca yo literally what you said was what I was thinking big facts
@nabrna36635 жыл бұрын
Say it louder for the people in the back! 🙌🏽
@meliabelle09105 жыл бұрын
BIG FACTS!
@sena18994 жыл бұрын
Boy when Adrienne gets an applause she gets hype AF😂
@lifeisgolden414 жыл бұрын
Pretty Chic bro she just needs one clap to get her going stg
@yuvireyes76004 жыл бұрын
she used to clap for herself to get the claps going 😂 it was cute
@vm67965 жыл бұрын
PREACH Adrienne! Couldn't have said it better myself x
@officialqueen88785 жыл бұрын
V M faxs
@minenoturs42715 жыл бұрын
right!
@clarifyingquestions5 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!!! And a man should not want to take on being responsible for a dependent woman. If she is not an independent woman - run men run!
@faithgreene35745 жыл бұрын
Preach!
@UnexpectedWonder4 жыл бұрын
They completely were not listening.
@TheQueenyla5 жыл бұрын
Lonnie‘s comments while Adrienne is speaking... 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Btw best wig of Lonnie ever!!!!
@cxdubose55 жыл бұрын
Yesss. She was cracking me up!'cause you don't know how to drive yet'😀😂😂😂
@Sssssssslf5 жыл бұрын
The wig was awful! That parting!
@NA-sv6so3 жыл бұрын
*Usually Adrienne is mad annoying during relationship topics* but she spoke *PURE FACTS* here ! 👏🏽
@deeqaisse69365 жыл бұрын
Loni’s side comments had me dead 😂😂😂😂
@anthonyhenderson83714 жыл бұрын
Always 😆😆😂
@alissonbate8424 жыл бұрын
“I have my money it goes in the bank , you buy me dinner” PERIOD 😂😂😂
@thomasgabriel4424 жыл бұрын
I thought you were equal to men. Pay for your own food.
@ES-cl5hi4 жыл бұрын
Oh so you're only independent until it's time to pay the bill? typical 20th century entitled woman
@creativefantasybox24624 жыл бұрын
@@thomasgabriel442 wait on the hit the Wall
@alissonbate8424 жыл бұрын
CLRSMTH lmao she was joking and it was funny. It’s a girl thing. I’m not entitled to anything but my standards so if i want a gentleman who is confident and selfless i won’t settle for a man who thinks a woman wanting a man to at least offer is entitled.
@alissonbate8424 жыл бұрын
Thomas Gabriel i am , i thought you were a provider ? Lol JUST A JOKE
@juliandstewart56605 жыл бұрын
I hate the fact this dude keeps saying “A real man” A real MAN is never threatened by anyone. He prides the woman on independence because that is the example I want my daughter to live. He sounds easily emasculated and that comes from insecurity. He’s a child trying to play real man role. Tamera is right he’s weak
@annawalcott74875 жыл бұрын
Agree with you 💯, he not a man he a boy still trying to figure out life and the true meaning of of love.
@moonstar2475 жыл бұрын
Amen, Julian brother you hit the nail in the head,
@tgrice6015 жыл бұрын
Now this is REAL
@kennedy66325 жыл бұрын
Alex %oool I happen to know plenty of woman who make more money than their significant other and happen they have a very healthy relationship. My mom makes more than my dad and he loves it. He calls her his sugar momma, jokingly, all the time.
@Simplykiebby5 жыл бұрын
Alex %oool You sounds like you’re projecting. Nobody said half of the bullshit you’re spewing. Sit
@preciousbrown79625 жыл бұрын
You tell them Bonnie Besos😘 She got her red lipstick on and mad ASF 😂😂😂😂
@nay97025 жыл бұрын
Precious I forgot about Bonnie Besos 😂😂
@grechellgodoy30555 жыл бұрын
Danasia Allen 😂😂😂😂 love her
@fireesaphh99185 жыл бұрын
LMFAOOOOO IM WEAK I FORGOT THATS HER NAME WHEN SHE GOT RED LIPSTICK OM 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀
@preciousbrown79625 жыл бұрын
@@fireesaphh9918 that's my Cheetah "girl". Love her personality and singing. She was popin on the Disney channel, now she grown up and spicy👏👏
@malakali69505 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@professorbland4 жыл бұрын
there is a good reason why "independent" women have a difficult time finding mates. The higher they achieve and the more independent they become, the smaller and smaller the dating pool above them becomes. If they "date down" they will hold that man in contempt. No successful woman will marry a janitor. A successful man will marry a maid. If women can't "date up" they will say "where are all the good men?"
@mcadaal Жыл бұрын
At least they will have their cats. 😂
@alicerayne9461 Жыл бұрын
or maybe they do not want a mate or care to have sex, in this sex sick day and age, there are no good men just a lot of gay ones : )
@craniax_editz2458 Жыл бұрын
@@mcadaal 🤣
@Herozonex200 Жыл бұрын
@@mcadaal plants and dogs too
@beemocha Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@sbbb36845 жыл бұрын
Adrienne is killing it...the inner scorpio came out♏️😎
@Beyondme77005 жыл бұрын
Cusp on a libra huny
@alishax56265 жыл бұрын
Adrienne needs to keep that energy with all the other celebrities that they discuss on the show. If it was a bigger celebrity, she wouldn't be directing all of that at him.
@MaishaOnTop5 жыл бұрын
Ikr? What if Kanye West said that...
@michellemcgee865 жыл бұрын
I was kinda of wondering that myself..agree Ayesha
@adrixo92745 жыл бұрын
Yes, I was looking for this comment! She always keeps her mouth shut when they talk about other celebrities. She only went in because he isn't known.
@DaniielaVergara5 жыл бұрын
YESYES YESSS THANK YOU
@emmarsha5 жыл бұрын
Right, she gets on my nerves
@rorosung10265 жыл бұрын
I left my ex for the same reason, a man who doesn't support your dreams and appreciate your success ain't worth a damn thing
@micahwright59014 жыл бұрын
If he doesn't support your dreams or appreciate your success, that's one thing. But this guy is saying he doesn't want a woman who doesn't need him. Who wants to feel useless?
@indiaxlovee4 жыл бұрын
Micah Wright a woman should NEVER be dependent on a man. Men have never been reliable enough for all that lol. What about simple companionship?
@Lucas-ym7di4 жыл бұрын
@@indiaxlovee If it wasn't for men you ladies would have been eaten by that apex predator a long long time ago. It's always been men who have held up society to protect you ladies, but now your so-called "independent" then fix your own damn issues.
@randomgen92184 жыл бұрын
@Emmawat What you need tp gather some knowledge sweetheart .... men used to hunt and women just sit on their asses and eat
@2livenoob3 жыл бұрын
A woman who doesn't support your dreams and appreciate your success ain't worth a damn thing... cuz if she's "strong and independent" she can't do both.
@xoGodiva4xo5 жыл бұрын
Adrienne SPEAK 👏🏾ON 👏🏾IT!!!!! Im so happy I watched this clip. Because it brings more clarity to my decision I made to get divorced.
@andrewgadson895 жыл бұрын
Sister if you didn't divorce your husband for a biblical reason you need to repent and get right with Christ. Cause god said the only way you divorce is for adultery or if your husband dies,otherwise if you marry again or have sex with someone else, God's word call u an an adulturess!
@YourLocalPaintshop5 жыл бұрын
What she decides is between her and God. I’m sure she has thought long and hard about this. Marriage isn’t bondage or abuse. We can’t speak for God on her situation nor can we try to condemn her. I speak peace over you and your decision even if it is to dissolve the marriage or of its to work through it.
@thusharasiv5 жыл бұрын
Do what ever makes you happy sis.
@xoGodiva4xo5 жыл бұрын
Andrew Gadson thank you for your kind words.
@hananea.70495 жыл бұрын
Eboni Caprice sorry to here that ❤️
@JDMHelloKitty915 жыл бұрын
Yas Adrienne! You let them know!!!!
@l.j.67294 жыл бұрын
These men want women dependent on them financially, then they go round trash talking that women are gold-diggers 👌🤔
@kayla_battle4 жыл бұрын
Exactly i never understand them.
@sandrayazin32924 жыл бұрын
So true
@abigailbecerra28024 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@niecyh23134 жыл бұрын
Not all men are like that!
@deadcell14 жыл бұрын
It took me a while to learn this but the one shoe fits all approach doesn't work in dating because the things that people value and the things that they want can differ vastly from person to person. There are some men who prefer traditional women and some men do not. If you started a company that specializes in manufacturing baby products you wouldn't waste your time marketing to singles without kids because you know they don't want what you have to offer regardless of how valuable it may be. If you are a traditional woman don't waste your time seeking untraditional men and understand you are going have wade through a lot of men before you find someone matches you.
@wateva265215 жыл бұрын
A relationship thrives on interdependence NOT independence or codependence.
@dr.dermixgirlmd74795 жыл бұрын
This comment needs WAY more likes. 👍🏽👍🏽
@UnexpectedWonder4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@UnexpectedWonder4 жыл бұрын
@Brad Smith Facts!
@trw4war4 жыл бұрын
wateva26521 Precisely!
@elasticheart12454 жыл бұрын
Strongly agree! Just most people in these comments have no idea what you're talking about
@yasmine1997705 жыл бұрын
ADRIENNE LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
@theofficialkimkira4 жыл бұрын
Y’all men say you want to provide, Adrien made a joke about you paying her dinner but you still out here complaining that she a gold digger and needs to pay for her own dinner. 🤔
@StuJones-gn7te3 ай бұрын
If she claims to be an independent woman who doesn't need a man, then she can pay for herself. If she wants ME to pay for everything, then she has to give up these ideas.
@CarolsVideos5 жыл бұрын
I LOVE when Adrianne goes off...! I felt like she held back in prior seasons but now she's just like, SNAP.
@owen56403 жыл бұрын
The healthiest relationships are the ones where both partners rely on each other for different needs, while both respecting each other. It's a give and take, you sacrifice and compromise for your partner, they sacrifice and compromise for you. Men and women NEED EACH OTHER for different reasons.
@noorulamin89903 жыл бұрын
interdependence is the key man .
@owen56403 жыл бұрын
@@noorulamin8990 Completely agree with that, I was talking about traditional relationships which aren't really possible now
@gamingupwithtj55933 жыл бұрын
Factsss
@nottheone8313 жыл бұрын
@@owen5640 If traditional relationships aren't possible, then why are women seeking traditional men without wanting to be traditional themselves?
@NappaDaGOAT2 жыл бұрын
@@owen5640 they are bro. My girlfriend is Filipino, 100% Filipina from the Phillipines. Their culture is different than ours. Women from the Phillipines are raised with a traditional mindset. My girl has never been to America and honestly I’m proud of that. She’s coming next year to stay but she’s 26 and her mind is already fully established and I love her so much. What I’m trying to say is just because our culture in the USA may not be ideal for a man who’s looking for a traditional woman doesn’t mean they not out there, there’s a whole other world out there man. It’s just hard to see when you live here and don’t search
@babyyodachelsea70345 жыл бұрын
“Are you protecting my heart??” 😂😂😂 I love Adrienne
@aaronjohnson66224 жыл бұрын
Who is going to protect her when she starts loud mouthing or disrespecting a man in public and that man turns to her and gets in her face? I wouldn't protect her; not with that mouth. She's an entitled woman. Forget strong; that's code-word for loud, combative, and disrespectful. She's not strong. She's barely a woman
@marianfoutsitzis5 жыл бұрын
I love how Loni hyped up Adrienne!!!!!🤣❤️
@kadiatapanbhai25604 жыл бұрын
Likewise
@kadiatapanbhai25604 жыл бұрын
Any chance i connect with you outside youtube?I’d like to know you more.I’m Adnan by the way. Here is my WhatsApp number if any chance you would want to reply this message. +971 52 487 2250
@stephanieachane91545 жыл бұрын
I totally understand where he's coming from!! He's not saying that you shouldn't do anything for yourself, what he's saying is, don't act like you don't need anybody for something. WE ALL NEED EACH OTHER, whether WE like it, or not.
@joeclement7373 жыл бұрын
Well said 👍.. how're you doing Stephanie.?
@esetdey4955 Жыл бұрын
We all need each other.. We just don't need yall for money 💥💥💥
@carmenniutili17445 жыл бұрын
"I don't need you, but guess what? I want you!" There's a difference between needing a man and wanting a man. A real man wouldn't say something that ignorant💁
@richym38994 жыл бұрын
C Niutili the irony is you probably came from a broken home
@The_Lovey_Informer4 жыл бұрын
@Maryam Abbani You told him to stay lonely, dafuck.
@BrightOrange174 жыл бұрын
C Niutili guys don’t wanna just be your little puppy dog companion. They want to feel needed like they are able to provide and do something for you. They want something in your in life to be because of them
@RicktheRecorder4 жыл бұрын
Want him for what?
@masterblackshugaa13674 жыл бұрын
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@bucketadee5 жыл бұрын
“He isn’t independent, he is codependent” -Tam Truth
@avlieox4 жыл бұрын
He? I'm confused ... i thought the clip is about independent women. Is there a twist?
@isaiahpadilla35884 жыл бұрын
"I have my money, it goes in the bank, YOU buy ME dinner". Ladies and Gentlemen... we got her.
@aaroncain44524 жыл бұрын
Isaiah Padilla top comment! Lol
@Sam746684 жыл бұрын
That sounds selfish tbh. In a world of equal rights and equality, he works just as hard as she does. Why then does he have to pay for her as well.
@CrystalDatingCoach4 жыл бұрын
I agree. My money's mine. Your money is Ours 😉
@CrystalDatingCoach4 жыл бұрын
@@Sam74668 Because he's her HUSBAND. She's taking care of much more than him! He comes home to a Beautiful and comfortable home...That's mainly because of his Woman.
@isaiahpadilla35884 жыл бұрын
@@CrystalDatingCoach sounds like a raw deal.
@aakindiya2685 жыл бұрын
I love the vibrant & funny duo with Loni and Adrienne 🤪 and I also love the calm & loving duo with Tamera & Jeannie ☺️ #friendshipgoals
@Chaptersaudio5 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I don't NEED a man, but I WANT one. There is a difference. Real women that are independent and in control of their lives, don't have to rely on men for anything, but we WANT men to enrich our lives. I don't want any man's money, I have my own. What he will have to do is kill spiders, hold me when there are thunderstorms, and be there to cuddle and just talk about life. I am so sick of guys acting like there is something wrong with me because I don't bat my eyes, talk like a little girl and play dumb. No! I'm not going to pretend I am something I'm not.
@Raja19385 жыл бұрын
I catch spiders and release them outside. If that’s not good enough oh well
@sbusisiwelinshaba78415 жыл бұрын
Amen sister
@janettejack73165 жыл бұрын
Belinda Joy beautiful words. I wanna man to love not an ATM
@ericb54575 жыл бұрын
This is why your single ladies wake up to the truth
@dr.ryanmd83135 жыл бұрын
For how long do you need a man to enrich your life? Just long enough to cash in on that alimony or child support after a set number of years?
@itskimduhhh4 жыл бұрын
Adrienne was NOT having it and I can’t take loni seriously 😂😂
@joeclement7373 жыл бұрын
Lol 😅.. how're you doing Kimberly.?
@kassiea74485 жыл бұрын
Probably why he is single lol. His definition of a "real man" is just him explaining what type of person he is. A independent woman is so sexy, ladies I hope that if any man makes you feel otherwise, you walk away.
@NellieKAdaba5 жыл бұрын
Kassie A I agree.
@etf425 жыл бұрын
you cant decide what men should find and should not find attractive. thats not how attraction works.
@misternobody63895 жыл бұрын
@@etf42 If a man doesnt find an independent woman attractive, he's either insecure, controlling, or a misogynist.
@etf425 жыл бұрын
@@misternobody6389 no, that is a false equivalence.
@misternobody63895 жыл бұрын
@@etf42 I'm not equating anything, I'm just stating a fact
@sifa40485 жыл бұрын
It's because of these women I've become more confident in my thinking and have made me realize things I never thought about. Wow preach👏👏👏👏
@djphantom210 Жыл бұрын
I love how women will really sit there and say that a man cannot tell a woman how she is supposed to be traditionally but yeah they always sit there and tell men how they should be traditionally because they are traumatized by all of the bad men that they've dealt with 🤦🤷
@MariaRhuna Жыл бұрын
2 wrongs dont make a right, it's time we get rid of these "traditional roles" for both genders in my opinion. Its not the 1940s where women could not work so all the pressure was on the men.
@djphantom210 Жыл бұрын
@@MariaRhuna there is nothing wrong when it comes to women having jobs but when it comes the dating and relationship world, most men are not viewed the same as females in fact they are viewed lower then females when you consider all of societies double standards
@djphantom210 Жыл бұрын
@@MariaRhuna and you making this argument towards me seems as if your implying that both men and women are equal when we are not, yes we are human, yes we do live life equally but both man and woman go through life completely different that is the reason why we say there are still "TRADITIONAL ROLES" as a man and as a woman
@djphantom210 Жыл бұрын
@@MariaRhuna and it's interesting you say it's not the 1940s where the men have all the pressure on actually making society the way it is when if you sit there and look at society now we still have men doing the hard work because females are too emotionally privileged to actually go and do the hard work, most females aren't that dedicated or disciplined
@MariaRhuna Жыл бұрын
@@djphantom210 exactly! "societies standards" hence why im saying we should get rid of these unrealistic standards.
@MIRAKAY5 жыл бұрын
I love how Adrienne went in on this topic
@sagala305 жыл бұрын
I'm a dude and I don't agree with him and here is why. Guys like him are too controlling. Guys like him you can't argue with. Guys like him a woman will never get her way. He's the type who would cheat and deny it and say it didnt meant anything as if that's ok. He will use his charms to manipulate any bad situation to win his woman in his favor. Stay with a guy like this he may even raise his hand to a woman. I know his type. I've been around his type. I'm just a gay guy who has female friends who have been there. I'm that friend who sees bad straight away and if I'm not getting a good vibe then I'm the friend that will look out for my female sisters that this dude ain't for you. Women today are in power to do whatever the hell they want without any mans approval or permission. My final words to this dude. Boy bye.... If he still single then how is his theory working for him so far? I'm with Adriene 100...
@Pony22ilh4 жыл бұрын
You put this to a tea sir that's exactly what I'm going threw my man cheats when he feel.i don't need him or allow him to make all the decisions
@joredhen85954 жыл бұрын
And no man is independent either. If you're independent then you don't need anybody, so what a guy need you for? A female who said "I don't need no man, im an independent woman!" is so unattractive to a lot of guys.
@RC-fe9py4 жыл бұрын
This snowflake just said "boy bye" nuff said...
@taracorcoran81924 жыл бұрын
I’m glad someone finally understood the point Adrienne ,Loni, and Tamera were making,and ngl it’s really refreshing to hear a guy agree with their statements .
@taracorcoran81923 жыл бұрын
Delonte Hollister I’m currently in a relationship so I’m not by myself ( oof the ignorance ) and she was just saying he wanted his gf to be dependent on him because he cheated on her and he wants her to be weak and to keep coming back to him.
@starhamilton10724 жыл бұрын
But when Steve Harvey said they same thing in his book “think like a man” a man wants to feel like he is doing for his women. U can take care of yourself ladies but still act like u need him for SOMETHING! Use this to your advantage
@santanagamingcinema4 жыл бұрын
I was going to write this looong response about his comment but you summed it up in a very good example
@UnexpectedWonder4 жыл бұрын
Exactly! They're not listening!
@kd-xp6eg4 жыл бұрын
i think the right man won’t need u to “act like” anything just to preserve his ego
@sydneydevlin19094 жыл бұрын
kd you said it best. It’s alllll for the sake of their fragile ego
@magu98414 жыл бұрын
King Javonique So man love being used???
@DearKeith5 жыл бұрын
Drag him, Adrienne!
@umelkayeryusuf4965 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@MajesticMyronn5 жыл бұрын
A man who doesn’t want an independent woman is clearly an insecure man that wants to feel like he is NEEDED! That is so dumb and sounds so immature to me ! You can take care of a woman that is also willing to care of herself !
@jeremy191755 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@NicieWilliams5 жыл бұрын
This type of man cant handle a strong woman
@kingd-lite36745 жыл бұрын
A man that doesn’t want an independent woman is a masculine man that hasn’t been emasculated by this feminized western culture. He is a masculine man that desires a feminine woman. Unfortunately most women in western culture are not feminine anymore, one of the reasons being that they have this independent mindset.
@dr.ryanmd83135 жыл бұрын
Yeah, because how dare a man not want to tolerate a walking talking liability, who complains constantly, right?
@kellyempress69434 жыл бұрын
Moh Shuvuu so single mothers don’t exist all of a sudden
@medialogie4 жыл бұрын
"CHEETAH GOT HOT TODAY" Should defenitely be the title.
@AbbyliciouzChannel5 жыл бұрын
I partially understand what he means. He just didnt articulate himself well.
@LivAlexa324 жыл бұрын
karell t I agree with Abby, I think what he meant is those woman who say “I don’t need no man” and don’t make any space in their life for a man and express no interest in dating.
@LW7333LW4 жыл бұрын
@@LivAlexa32 truth..
@ALTheFreeMan4 жыл бұрын
Exactly... he didn’t articulate his point well, and none of those ladies stepped up to bring some clarification. They’re doing their audience and viewers of “independent women” a huge disservice.
@ALTheFreeMan4 жыл бұрын
L Nixon Exactly!
@UnexpectedWonder4 жыл бұрын
Naw...They just didn't understand what he's saying.
@chautang30555 жыл бұрын
If someone, man or woman tries to control me or would want me to depend on them? They should keep looking for someone else because don't mess with me. I am very proud to be independent. I do not need a man for protection because I am resourceful and am a fighter. I do not need you for financial troubles because I'd rather work and have a job and I absolutely do not need you to validate me. I can validate myself.
@Troy_Johnson5 жыл бұрын
You will forever be alone or cheated on
@chautang30555 жыл бұрын
@@Troy_Johnson LOLOLOL YOU ARE TOO FUNNY. Honestly, I would like a strong minded individual who respects that. If they don't and they have your mindset? They are like 5 years old, a child who is entitled to protect a woman just because society says that's the rule. lol, sweetie. You'll forever want a weak minded woman who's easy to control. Wish you the best. Cause I'm out here living my best life for real.
@etf425 жыл бұрын
you are free to do as you wish you will have a hard time attracting a man with that attitude. masculine men run away from women like this. there is nothing feminine about this attitude, and masculine men love feminine women. you do not get to decide what men find attractive, just like men do not get to decide what women find attractive.
@brandontaylor25415 жыл бұрын
Chau tang 1 Corinthians 11:11 But among the Lord's people, women are not independent of men, and men are not independent of women.
@indiaxlovee4 жыл бұрын
TroytheGamerHD why do you her to be depended ? 😂
@zen_mindset14 жыл бұрын
I don't believe in depending on a man! You need to depend on yourself. Love should be secondary.
@theflyguy59762 жыл бұрын
This is the reason why so many women who don't want to be single will end up single. If you want a relationship and a family you will have to depend on your man. Sorry but that's just the reality....
@adolfiabuckley88712 жыл бұрын
U can't anyways...they aren't that dependable.
@Chachaluss5 жыл бұрын
I need a friend like Loni in my life 😂😂😂 PREACH ADRIENNE
@therealensign23 Жыл бұрын
Single women keep other women single and that’s facts
@VoirJour5 жыл бұрын
Adrienne giving that real real for realllll!!! Damn straight!!!
@jonathanpierce28584 жыл бұрын
I dont know about you guys but I love a strong independent woman. I also encourage all ladies to be as such. Respect
@anthonyhenderson83714 жыл бұрын
Same here
@blulexus6885 Жыл бұрын
Jonathan Pierce You're a good man
@spike6487 Жыл бұрын
I guess that simps have their place. Enjoy today's modern woman. They are just so awesome.
@estellaf40725 жыл бұрын
I wish this could be replayed in mega sound around the world. Like can we emergency text this to everybody's phone. Lordt.
@minenoturs42715 жыл бұрын
😅😆 RIGHT
@n4musica5 жыл бұрын
“He’s not independent, he’s co-dependent. Because his happiness is dependent on a woman needing HIM. And that’s NOT a real man.” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I truly believe that until you are a WHOLE person and meet another WHOLE person, that is when you are ready for a relationship. So many people are looking for their other half, no I’m looking for another whole to match my whole
@mwansakapambwe9683 жыл бұрын
so what your mother and father..are you saying your father is not a real man🤣...he's not an insecure man..he's a traditional one
@StuJones-gn7te8 ай бұрын
How long will "wanting" me last? If you want a husband, esp if want one for life, you need more than a want. "Want" for women changes constantly. If it didn't we wouldn't have new fashion trends constantly.popping up. A guy she "wants" is just the latest fling. He isn't A husband.
@oliviaboyd28334 жыл бұрын
I'm a proud single independent woman who doesn't need a man for anything. I'm perfectly happy going my own way and not feeling trapped and not being a man's doormat.
@Adam-cc9ny4 жыл бұрын
There is actually a very large group of men who practice that very thing. I believe they would cheer you on. They're called Men Going Their Own Way, or their acronym MGTOW for short.
@oliviaboyd28334 жыл бұрын
@@Adam-cc9ny Good for them👍👏
@Adam-cc9ny4 жыл бұрын
@@oliviaboyd2833 lol quasi-Monasticism is making a comeback. Man Caves are the new Monasteries. Not me tho, I have a Fiance. Take care.
@charnelecastillion29795 жыл бұрын
Adrienne was preaching it !!!!🤗🤗🤗🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️
@drtash215 жыл бұрын
OOH LAWD!! Adrienne is ON FIYAH🔥!! I haven't heard her spit this many facts since the time they debated about adoptions. #todayigottimecuz
@emurr20094 жыл бұрын
Independent when it suits them.
@michelleespinal115 жыл бұрын
Yo Adrianne snaaapped 👏🏼 y'all saw how the new york came out 😂
@trisht62795 жыл бұрын
I get what he was trying to say but he fell all the way off with the point. 😂
@marioher49785 жыл бұрын
Elaborate please
@wendyellis37385 жыл бұрын
Do u really..hum😒
@allysonmessina17855 жыл бұрын
YES!!! I understand too!!!! Its true!! He did...
@marylinehappy85045 жыл бұрын
Yeah me too , his words were not wisely picked but I get the depth of his message
@UrbanDecayLova2475 жыл бұрын
Maryline Happy the depth of his message was really what Tamera was saying in terms of letting Adam do things for her sometimes, but he failed miserably getting that point across.
@UnexpectedWonder4 жыл бұрын
She literally did NOT listen to anything he said. 🙄🙄😒😒😑😑 He's right!
@uKANdoanything5 жыл бұрын
whew chile... some of these comments.... Because a woman is self-sufficient and independent doesn't take away from your role as a protector and provider if that's what you want to be as a man. I'm not sure if this guy's wording is just wrong but if as a man you are turned off by a woman's independence as you prefer someone who will out-rightly need and depend on you, it might be an insecurity thing where you want someone who is seemingly "weaker" than you as an easy ego boost.
@allysonmessina17855 жыл бұрын
Yes!!
@Rio_Monique5 жыл бұрын
Adara Nelson I think his wording was just wrong because he did say that being self sufficient is cool & all that. I think he was saying for the girls in relationships who don’t let a man be the things that a man by nature (God) designed him to be.
@etf425 жыл бұрын
@@Rio_Monique exactly, i love how everyone is just cherry picking the part of his words they dont like
@lonelion11655 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@14BlackGoddess5 жыл бұрын
GIRRRRRLLLL... WOW Did you do PSYCHOLOGY, cause you nailed that! 😵🙌
@tamlynadolph92415 жыл бұрын
Not everyone wants to be with a man like him. I most certainly would hate to be. Adrienne said it best. I believe that we all have to be independent in an amazing way so that if things go down, we still have a great part of ourselves to rely on. However, we have to depend on our spouses in a way too. At some point in your relationship, you'll be weak and he'll be strong, vice versa, and it's good to depend on each other in those moments, because as humans, we are not meant to be in solitude. It shouldn't mean though, that if they leave, you will sink. P.s. I'm super independent. I'm strong, I run a successful business, and organisation. My husband is most definitely the realest man I've ever known, and he isn't threatened one bit. Because REAL men aren't. They see what you bring and they're secure enough to know what they bring is invaluable too. They don't need your light to be dim so theirs can shine.
@cleophussilverman64774 жыл бұрын
We actually DO want independent women. It actually turns us on when women can function without help. We hate the mindset and attitude some women have. That’s what turns us off about the independent woman. We don’t want to hear “I don’t need you” all the damn time. WE KNOW THAT! That’s why we’re with you. You find a lot of women with that independent woman attitude are single or can’t keep a man.
@dishadogra42334 жыл бұрын
Seems to me that you got the LOSER attitude...
@cleophussilverman64774 жыл бұрын
Diana Diara ok....you point? That’s your best comeback after all this time???
@dbrown57844 жыл бұрын
@@cleophussilverman6477 I think what Diana is saying is if a woman don't need you why would she be with you? If you are just an option to her you will be around till a better option comes along... The primitive part of your brain is warning you to stay away from these type of woman.
@cleophussilverman64774 жыл бұрын
D Brown I think Diana is delusional. An independent woman is simply a woman living her regular life. Going to work, earning wages, and paying bills are normal life activities. Just wondering how I have a “LOSER attitude” for not being attracted to a woman with that “strong, independent, don’t need a man, I can do all bad by myself” attitude is all. That’s a huge turnoff. You notice how we don’t say “I don’t need a woman. I’m independent” at all.
@jj47k.4 жыл бұрын
Who's we? You speaking French or something...you got a simp mindset bruh
@naemamohamed50795 жыл бұрын
Insecure men don't want independent woman
@The_Lovey_Informer4 жыл бұрын
Shaming tactics. Thanks.
@darrinm4864 жыл бұрын
I guess I am not secure. I am okay with that.
@tasongmbunyaoswald35144 жыл бұрын
you are wrong. two persons cant be masters. one must be. Two independent people will rarely have an ideal relationship. Im not the type who refuses a woman from being economically viable but come on any economic activity a woman engages in and knowing she has family and husband to attend to is my ideal. my opinion someone needs to be incharge i love being incharge
@UnexpectedWonder4 жыл бұрын
No, you completely missed the boat.
@chinedunnabugwu14165 жыл бұрын
Did you really listen to this young man before bashing him and calling him immature and a boy? He didnt say men dont want an independent woman, He said men dont want a woman who's 100% independent and by the way no one is or can even be 100% independent. We're all interdependent whether we like/want it or not
@UnexpectedWonder4 жыл бұрын
Thank-you for listening and understanding.
@karlmoore98203 жыл бұрын
I think people are confusing the two. Do I want my wife to be independent?? No. Do I want my wife to be self sufficient?? Yes. I'm I scared of a independent woman?? No. The purpose of a relationship is to NOT be independent. THERES A DIFFERENCE!!!! If your a woman and you want to be independent soooooo bad, spoiler alert, STAY SINGLE....😱
@bradanims26162 жыл бұрын
*YEEESSSS!!! LOUDER TO THE PEOPLE AT THE BACK!!!* 😄😎
@beemocha Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@imanmohamed87135 жыл бұрын
You’re also reducing men to an ATM and a muscles when you say they’re there to protect women. Men are also worth more than a dollar and their brawn.
@UnexpectedWonder4 жыл бұрын
What are you talkin' about?
@barrontrump39434 жыл бұрын
Blind Squid based and redpilled
@WomenofHighValue4 жыл бұрын
What if we WANT to be ATMs and muscles ? That’s what most men want. To the RIGHT feminine women. Not the independent ones.
@shareeligons37865 жыл бұрын
I cosign everything Ade just said.👌
@Ashley-mo4zq9 ай бұрын
I agree with Adrienne. Women can be independent. Just because women are independent and make money doesn't mean that we don't need you. Men can do their own thing and women can do their own thing.
@marketaharris77135 жыл бұрын
"I don't need a man, I want him" speak on it!
@katricestrand-moore30925 жыл бұрын
Maybe he means to say its ok to be independent but dont be stuck up but Adrienne spoke the truth too
@AV574 жыл бұрын
Let me give you a sports analogy. Do you want to pick someone for your team that thinks they never need to pass the ball, never needs to strategize a defense with the rest of the team, and will only look at the rest of the team as being in their way? Or would you rather pick a teammate that is looking to compliment their strengths with the rest of your team’s strengths? Men aren’t saying (metaphorically) that they want a teammate who sucks so bad that they have to win in spite of. They’re saying they want a teammate that understands the value of teamwork and realistic enough to realize that even a team with great players can be ruined by one player being arrogant about what they bring to the table.
@mtsad86193 жыл бұрын
They literally said that
@joannamonique7072 жыл бұрын
The problem is people always have a problem with a Lisa Leslie being a ball hog but when it's Kobe it's all good. That's the issue.
@AV572 жыл бұрын
@@joannamonique707 it’s funny you say that, because I hated the way Kobe played. The way he and Allen Iverson hogged the ball made me stop following the NBA.
@jesuzee115 жыл бұрын
a controling ,insecure boy doesn't want a independent woman a real man will let her do her own thing.
@NellieKAdaba5 жыл бұрын
jesus hollman Exactly
@ericb54575 жыл бұрын
He will but these women are crazy
@OSOLovely935 жыл бұрын
Yes Adrienne. I love when you speak like this
@scarlove505 жыл бұрын
I think I just broke the replay button... Adrienne and Loni are both my mood all this week. And the audience is feeling it. Yesss Adrienne 😁😂😎😎 All because I waaaaant you don't mean I neeeeeeedd you.
@lysiannebalonga9205 жыл бұрын
Adrienne is just the best.
@lovexoxo2515 жыл бұрын
Nah she wasn't a mood when talking about the girl that is posing as a black woman online. But I loved this reply
@bridgettedenise5 жыл бұрын
This was a great clip. I rewatched it too
@vindozadm77724 жыл бұрын
As a man, I like watching this, I learn things
@vindozadm77723 жыл бұрын
@Snark L E mind your business. You watching this too obviously.
@kissgiordano5 жыл бұрын
I think what he meant was that it’s good to be independent but don’t have the attitude that you don’t need a man like don’t be rude about it and make sure you still respect your man. You can be independent but still respect men and don’t think your better than them. God put man and woman on the earth because we need each other. We need each other emotionally. Men like to help us lift heavy things ect. Let your man lead but you can still help him lead the right way.
@imanmohamed87135 жыл бұрын
Kissondra Giordano respect goes both ways.
@kissgiordano5 жыл бұрын
Skeptical princess I totally agree. A real man wouldn’t be disrespectful to his lady. Same with the woman.
@GoldGollum5 жыл бұрын
@@kissgiordano There wasn't a lot of comments with common sense here, but yours seems definetly interesting. Many of these independant women don't respect men, they consider them as expendable lol, so some of the Real men like he said will not invest time on these so called Independant women "Who don't need a man!" (Yeah right, they still love to feel desired by a masculine man... he he) I don't see no problem in what he's expressing... But as women and men seems to be more and more pit against each other thanks to feminism and other ideologies, I think we'll keep misunderstanding each other and develop toxic behaviour... lol
@kissgiordano5 жыл бұрын
GoldGollum I agree. Because of feminism people are forgetting why God made man and woman both to help each other. Both genders have qualities that the other doesn’t have but both together make a great team if you have respect for each other. That doesn’t mean the woman can’t be independent though. You know?
@etf425 жыл бұрын
finally a sensible comment
@Wildyoungbilly5 жыл бұрын
This was glorious. Absolute gold. Loni and Adrienne are like me and my friends hyping each other up “LETEMKNOW”
@sweetsingz19024 жыл бұрын
If she acts like she knows everything, and can do no wrong, then there's an issue with overconfidence and superiority
@joereal90124 жыл бұрын
Never know, it may truly be the case sometimes and vice versa
@713denim5 жыл бұрын
At the end of the day, it’s all about balance. We all want to feel needed at times. I’m independent b/c I have to be. I have to take care of myself. I don’t need a man to take care of me b/c before he entered the picture, I was taking care of things by myself. I want s man in my life...a partner so we can make each other lives a better and easier. There are things women need from men and vice versa that does not include financial.
@ekell7472 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you on this because if you’re not adding value you are subtracting value. One should strive to never be the one who is subtracting more than he or she is adding.
@niarawilcox23715 жыл бұрын
To add another perspective: I think in a relationship people want to feel wanted and needed by their partner. I think his phrasing could have been better but I agree that I don't want to hear "Oh, I don't need you yada yada" from my significant other. Which is what I think 100% self-sufficient means. Like if you got everything, why do you need me? That's my take on it.
@thrilla725 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! You actually listened and gave a balanced view on it! Adrienne already had her back up so just heard the trigger words and not the whole message. Who wants a woman to look at them like they are worthless just because she ALSO has a job.
@shiraetzioni65843 жыл бұрын
Literally Adrienne's finest moment on the show
@Jenaeworld5 жыл бұрын
This was literally the best convo they’ve EVER had! So many people need to hear this! 🙌🏾
@getthiswork2104 жыл бұрын
If you don't check certain boxes from the jump with a woman. You'll never get the chance to love, respect, kindness or prove your loyalty.
@UnexpectedWonder4 жыл бұрын
Facts!
@randomdude22873 жыл бұрын
(sigh)..........If you don't respect and cherish my presence, invariably you will appreciate my absence. -Good men
@dudet2tamata5 жыл бұрын
“I have my money, it goes in the bank, but you gon’ buy me dinner” hehah
@xmeeeeeeex5 жыл бұрын
It’s true men want to protect and provide MOSTLY! And I want to be protected and provided for
@tiffanyj.72063 жыл бұрын
Provide and protect means having control, having power and dominance over you.
@moshediquel4 жыл бұрын
It’s not about being intimidated. Woman that are independent also have the worst attitude.
@fan188power63 жыл бұрын
These girls not trying to listen
@deadcell14 жыл бұрын
"A real man isn't intimidated by a woman who doesn't need you" when a woman talks about a REAL MAN she is imposing traditional values on a man that she herself wouldn't want live by. Just imagine the backlash if it was the opposite way around and the man said "A real woman isn't intimidated by a man who wants to protect and provide"? I'm not defending the guy and I'm not condemning him either because I understand there are other nonsuperficial elements that goes into having a successful relationship but I feel women (and men also) need to understand you attract what you put out. Real women attract real men. Don't impose values on someone seen in the 40's and 50's and you don't want to live by them yourself.
@Marcos-hf4cz3 жыл бұрын
You dont seem to understand the difference between giving an opinion and imposing, saying something with confidence isnt equal to imposing
@imitatorofJesusChrist3 жыл бұрын
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@krioatic2 жыл бұрын
Lol u see thier isnt amy yasss or anything on this Comment😂
@mike72042 жыл бұрын
Facts
@Inari19872 жыл бұрын
Notice she inserted the word "intimidated." She's assuming a woman who doesn't want the "I don't need no man" sort of woman is intimidating. Nope. That sort just puts traditional men off.
@ceelipa5 жыл бұрын
Alotta women are independent and want a man yeah but some women be coming with attitudes because of their Independent status. I think that's what he meant. You're independent? great. But if you also want love than you gon have to humble yourself & show him you ain't better than him coz of your independent status. All he came to do was to love you & not put up with a woman who has her nose high coz of what she already has.
@Neo.Jordon5 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@CoachDarren5 жыл бұрын
Christine Gauna you see it just as I do. I think that is all he was trying to say. And some of the other comments here show that there are many with nose in the air. I only date independent women and I am their biggest fan I believe in people being their best. But your comment is spot on!
@Jadedyxy5 жыл бұрын
Exactly and that's why there are so many divorces.
@kellyempress69434 жыл бұрын
Coach Darren I mean when you word something incorrectly you’ll offend people. His whole wording was off and that’s why he got the responses he got
@robertcampbell99464 жыл бұрын
A lot of women like these think that they better than anybody not just men . They have very nasty attitudes & think they always right no matter what they say or do. I've seen many of these women have good men in their lives & as soon as they achieve their goals, they start throwing their success in mens face which drove him away.Very few women these days can be independent & keep it real with the men in their lives without letting success get to their heads.
@g.h.standifur16244 жыл бұрын
men love independent women, we just don't want anything to do with the new age "independent woman" and that attitude that comes with them.
@_luis_dsgn3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!!!
@justbeingme0033 жыл бұрын
Lies, no ya'll don't love independent women.
@alina99243 жыл бұрын
@@justbeingme003 right, with attitude they mean someone who won’t tolerate their disrespect. The goalpost for the perfect woman keeps changing 💀😂
@shayla47773 жыл бұрын
You just contradicted yourself in the same sentence.
@reshmathomas41973 жыл бұрын
Exactly, they call it liberation but it's just pride and envy
@valeriaruiz5955 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with Adrienne!!
@Naomilove27985 жыл бұрын
Yassssss Adrienne let them know Sis 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@MaSa-bp5qe3 жыл бұрын
I’m investing in cat food. I’m gonna be so rich.
@owen56403 жыл бұрын
Cat food, ice cream, and wine
@MaSa-bp5qe3 жыл бұрын
@@owen5640 Don’t forget dildos and vibrators.
@anewloveofficial91375 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree with you Tamera and I don't really think that there is something wrong about that.
@BurritoMassacre5 жыл бұрын
Adrienne and Tamera went in today! they spoke their minds! LOVE IT!
@JvoDre2 жыл бұрын
He’s 100% right. That’s why them independent women single.
@lakarox67775 жыл бұрын
I think the dude had a sense of what he was trying to say but his delivery was bad It's all about trusting the man you love. Knowing that no matter what happens he will be there to take care of you, providing with the basics (money too), offering a safe space and protection which is what Jeannie was trying to say when talking about Adam and Tamera's marriage.
@aads18235 жыл бұрын
Yeah I think I get what he is saying... men want to be chivalrous with women... like opening the door etc. .... and if your all like " I dont need you" "I can do it myself", I think thats what he was getting at
@kebrinabrizan11275 жыл бұрын
Y’all just missing his whole point....!!!! He never said he doesn’t want an independent woman. He clearly states he doesn’t want a woman with the I’m to independent and don’t need no man mentality!!!!
@bloodyredpill30274 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@viciousreasoning5044 жыл бұрын
Everyone missed it.... including the real lol
@indiaxlovee4 жыл бұрын
viciousreasoning504 but that’s still a bad mindset for men to have