During Girl Chat, the hosts chat it up about who pays for the wedding these days. Does the father of the bride always pay? Is this a tradition that needs to stay or go away? Tune in to hear the ladies’ take.
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@tiffanymatsvai19298 жыл бұрын
That person in the audience shouting "whai people" had me rolling on the floor 😂😂😂😂😂
@DaintyDoe848 жыл бұрын
omg yes😂😂😂😁😅😆
@girl82958 жыл бұрын
Why did she yell out like that?
@tiffanymatsvai19298 жыл бұрын
+Girl how am I supposed to know?
@FevenVibes8 жыл бұрын
Lol
@cierrafuller25168 жыл бұрын
LMAOOOOOOO
@Nul7918 жыл бұрын
If my dad pays for my wedding I better not get a divorce any time soon!! LOL
@MARCHAUX8 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@AngelLovv8 жыл бұрын
😹💀💀💀
@sharonoguta85898 жыл бұрын
hahahahahahaa!!!!!
@megblue18 жыл бұрын
as much as i would love my dad to pay for the wedding,I would feel like I own them so I rather paid for it with the Lord's help
@SkatesPraise8 жыл бұрын
hahhah or you be hearing it all day right
@enjinks8 жыл бұрын
I think fathers used to pay because people married at a very young age so they had no money, and most women were housewives. So in this day and age, that's no more a necessity...
@CoCoGemel8 жыл бұрын
I AGREE
@ASmith-jn7kf8 жыл бұрын
No. Father's used to pay because women didn't work and the groom had to pay a bride's price and he had to pay to support the bride for the rest of his life, that is why the father paid. With women working, there is no reason for a father to pay. Do you seriously not know history and you would say something so silly as people getting married young was the reason???
@enjinks8 жыл бұрын
+April Smith I think you should have read my comment entirely, because I mentionned women not working ? And I don't want to sound patronizing, but maybe you would want to try to express yourself without being unnecessarily rude.
@ASmith-jn7kf8 жыл бұрын
+Enjinks Whoa.
@ndnaf37055 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! That makes a lot of sense. I never really thought about it like that!
@kadinea.63768 жыл бұрын
Didn't Tamera perviously said in an older episode that she paid for her whole wedding?...
@rochbramwell8 жыл бұрын
I think she did say that
@girl82958 жыл бұрын
She did say that! 🤔😕
@giulia20988 жыл бұрын
You are so right. She changed her mind.
@kadinea.63768 жыл бұрын
+Giulia SoooCute I remember when she said it I felt bad for Adam, because it sort of implied that he couldn't afford to do more than helping her with her dress.... I love Tamera don't get me wrong, but she didn't even mention that both her and Adam's parents helped. I high-key think that's why she's giving them credit now, because there might have been some sort of drama with the family for her taking all the credit.
@akosuaopoku-berchie47688 жыл бұрын
she said she paid for her wedding dress not her whole wedding
@jchidi8 жыл бұрын
My dad is not spending thousands of dollars on my wedding, he's already spent enough on my college, car, and putting a roof over my head, thats more than enough for me.
@jessig99703 жыл бұрын
That's such a beautiful thing to say. Your dad would be proud to see he raised your right! 😊
@ayanour7 Жыл бұрын
I agree 100%.
@lazylohan53558 жыл бұрын
5:08-5:15 "What does that have to do with?" - Loni & Tamar had me rolling 😂😂😂😂
@natalienicolaides84277 жыл бұрын
"Logan save up your money babyyy" haha loniii 😘😂
@physicostress55163 жыл бұрын
natalie Nicolaides hahahahahahahah
@thelavenderlife8 жыл бұрын
I'm loving how Jeannie pronounced "Whiiii people" 😄😄😄😄😄
@chezzerehinojos93088 жыл бұрын
Tamar acts like my Auntie lmao! "If I like her, I'll pay for it. If I don't, you on your own" hahahaha
@TheGabb18 жыл бұрын
Tamera "Aw, Hell. Whatever." hahahaha
@MyidolGwen8 жыл бұрын
They were so casual too when she said that I remember at one point she shared a story where she told her ex who rebounded her "what the hell!" and the girls all gasped and looked at Tamera like doth thou swearest
@trinigrl098 жыл бұрын
lol I know…..I wish they had let her finish….she was actually on topic…..her point was that In-laws can like the bride….mothers of sons can like their daughter in laws so it is very possible that Logan could marry someone that meets Tamar's approval
@Lee-ii9mk8 жыл бұрын
I feel like they're strong personalities can make her feel like she being patronised
@realmnthrwknives8 жыл бұрын
+trinigrl09 Yeah but she kinda made everything about her lmao. They were specifically talking about Tamar and her son and she pops in "well Adams mom liked me" It just didn't fit well and was a very out of place statement for the moment.
@girl82958 жыл бұрын
+trinigrl09 But we know that in general, Tamera didn't have to say that. That's why Loni was like .."Wait..what" Tamar was making the point that her mom didn't like her bro's girls and she believe she would take after her mom.
@Somegirl101928 жыл бұрын
Tamera said that she paid for her entire wedding in another video. So what's the truth? *cue Oprah gif*
@brittaneymichelle51108 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@fatouceesay76888 жыл бұрын
you're right.. she did say that before... she is lying...
@robinmay48388 жыл бұрын
Yes she said she paid for her entire wedding 😑
@tierradavis22418 жыл бұрын
+You Tried It! no she not
@tierradavis22418 жыл бұрын
+Fatou ceesay nope
@rileywrite23278 жыл бұрын
Well my dad aint in my life so guess im gonna need jeannies mama to help me get a discount wedding 😂
@adrianortega24788 жыл бұрын
LMFAO YOU MADE MY DAY!
@carlybaby425 жыл бұрын
I got the belly laugh I’m dead asf 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣This shouldn’t even be funny
@smokeofspades29744 жыл бұрын
Jeannie momma is phenomenal
@Dr.Nellah8 жыл бұрын
Jeanie has actually become my favourite! SHE GIVES ME LIFEEE hahaha
@lolalove12085 жыл бұрын
I really like your videos! ❤️🧡💛
@yanciarmani5164 жыл бұрын
I cried when tamera said “Adam mom likes me” 💀💀
@97indianuk8 жыл бұрын
Depends on who can afford it and on the situation. Also not everyone has a dad. Times have changed generally it should be both sides who should pay for it equally.
@christinam66638 жыл бұрын
"Times have changed generally it should be both sides who should pay for it equally." Also, with people getting married later and later in life, the people getting married should also contribute, if not pay for the entire (or almost the entire) thing.
@saggyjose857210 ай бұрын
no it shouldn’t because it’s mostly women that want the wedding. it’s their dream day not the mans
@jholarkin77368 жыл бұрын
Loni : w-w-what that gotta do with this😂😂😂
@Cookie202448 жыл бұрын
tamera self centered clearly
@cassandratype48 жыл бұрын
Owwhh!!!! She is sweet, lol, I don't think she is self centered
@julliananne1577 жыл бұрын
Jho Larkin Exactly!
@liseebaby8 жыл бұрын
Waittttttttt Tamera...who really paid?
@sandie46748 жыл бұрын
L M A OOOO! Bruh 😂😂😂😂
@girl82958 жыл бұрын
+OyemehS hahahahahahah😂😂😂😂
@myhextixmind86328 жыл бұрын
I guess they all pitched in.
@Mochab0018 жыл бұрын
She paid the most. What they gave probably couldn't buy a Happy meal. She did say many times, even on her own reality show that she paid for it. TAMAR MADE HER LOOK LIKE A FOOL ...for "paying" to marry a broke man". all vineyards aren't profitable. That's why he don't work there.
@Mochab0018 жыл бұрын
THAT'S WHY SHE CHANGED HER STORY
@aprilinparisxoxo4 жыл бұрын
“Daddy where my coin?” 🤣🤣🤣 I miss Tamar on this show 😩😩
@deem1328 жыл бұрын
My Pops gon look at me crazy if I ask him to pay for my million dollar wedding, he African too he can't wait for my expensive ass to be somebody else's problem lol
@KWatsonMUSIC8 жыл бұрын
Hahaha amen!
@helenatube8 жыл бұрын
lmbo i get the same feeling about my dad
@jamie99148 жыл бұрын
Lol!
@queensspace828 жыл бұрын
hahahaha...oh my goodness.. african dad...typical
@queensspace828 жыл бұрын
hahahaha...oh my goodness.. african dad...typical
@gottaluvpink898 жыл бұрын
Adam must've gotten mad at the fact that she threw him under the bus the first time around that now Tamera is switching up her story.
@meymay118 жыл бұрын
I figured the same thing with her saying she paid for the whole thing herself. Although I believe she probably paid for over 80% of it
@meymay118 жыл бұрын
I figured the same thing with her saying she paid for the whole thing herself. Although I believe she probably paid for over 80% of it
@introvertedoutgoing88 жыл бұрын
+meymay11 she's rich
@serritawatkins81132 жыл бұрын
Right she definitely switched up the story
@ratedr9672 Жыл бұрын
Yes! 😂
@valerierenee71618 жыл бұрын
If Adrienne don't stop pursing her damn lips -_-
@clydejef63478 жыл бұрын
Like a damn duck !
@Notrequired43218 жыл бұрын
Lol I was like what's wrong with her why is she fixing her lips like that 😆🐠
@melissablack14228 жыл бұрын
OMG. IT irks the crap outta me. I wondered if I were the only person who noticed that
@truworship268 жыл бұрын
lol u know what i commented on this already, she is always posing she never looks relaxed she is always watching the monitor to check how she looks
@user-cv5rb5cj1y8 жыл бұрын
lol i sometimes literally put my hand in front of the screen where adrienne is showing. i just cant look at her face when she does that, makes me so mad lol (im not a hater, i love her but she is annoying when she does that)
@datswassup078 жыл бұрын
Anybody else like it when Adrienne says "papi"?
@kevinjohnson48778 жыл бұрын
Me
@Mrszhersheyy8 жыл бұрын
Nope. It's what every Spanish speaking woman says. Nothing new
@briannaelizondo57578 жыл бұрын
No because I think she was referring to her dad when she said Papi and she's always callin men Papi, that's just weird
@bax26038 жыл бұрын
wtf
@Denise-ob8dk8 жыл бұрын
yeah...lol
@myhextixmind86328 жыл бұрын
It was cute when Adrienne played with Jeannie's hair. I love their friendship.
@kamvelihlenqezo17068 жыл бұрын
I know bruh I kept replaying that part😍
@SG12.272 жыл бұрын
when?
@user-eh9vb5sv6i8 жыл бұрын
why is Tamera lying she previously sated in en episode she paid for everything
@97indianuk8 жыл бұрын
I thought she said she said she paid for her dress?
@mjlovahh128 жыл бұрын
Damn if that's true we starting to find out a lot of fuckery about Tamera
@parisgriffin33348 жыл бұрын
no she said she paid for her dress
@littleblushes8 жыл бұрын
+Paris Griffin no I just rewatched the video she said she paid for everything
@MajesticMyronn8 жыл бұрын
she said Adam WANTED to pay for the wedding , but her family did, but she herelf paid for her wedding dress
@Christilayo8 жыл бұрын
am i the only person who realised that tamera's stories don't match......I clearly remember her saying in another episode that she paid for her ENTIRE wedding. Now she said everyone chipped in?!??!! hmmmm
@tashaharris69608 жыл бұрын
She said she plaid for her wedding dress not the whole wedding
@tashaharris69608 жыл бұрын
*paid
@kianah5448 жыл бұрын
+Tasha Harris She said the exact words, "I paid for my entire wedding." In the wedding details video...
@clydejef63478 жыл бұрын
+Tasha Harris she actually said she paid for the entire wedding cos she could afford it and Adam chipped in for the wedding dress.
@Christilayo8 жыл бұрын
+Tasha Harris no said she paid for the entire wedding, listen to episode again.....I clearly remember it coz I thought WTH!?!
@christopherpate95608 жыл бұрын
I think it's ok for parents to pay for a simple yet beautiful wedding but not one of those over the top unnecessary wedding. They're your parents not your ATM.
@Mrszhersheyy8 жыл бұрын
I think that a parent should pay for their babies special day. It shouldn't be limited to cheap it's what the people getting married wants.
@introvertedoutgoing88 жыл бұрын
+Mary Turner no if you trying to rent out the donald trump hotel than pay for your own damn wedding like she stated parents are not their kids ATM they raised your expensive ass for 18yrs after that kids are on their own
@helenatube8 жыл бұрын
Yup, or if your parents do what Adrienne suggested and set up a wedding fund for you to basically use as you please. I think I would like that for myself, and do that for my own kids. It just seems like a nice gesture. No way I'd ever expect my parents to just hand over their cards on any kind of wedding I want though, that is borderline disrespectful in my eyes.
@christengardner14663 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Or maybe just the dress
@sxcgirlieox8 жыл бұрын
Freddie's family got coins 👀👀
@HEIRLESSful8 жыл бұрын
+You Tried It! Oh you tried it!!
@tiffanymatsvai19298 жыл бұрын
+You Tried It! The shade 😂😂😂
@blackbutterfly233ify8 жыл бұрын
+You Tried It! Who cares what Freddie does for a living it doesn't hurt anyone
@mjracle74218 жыл бұрын
+You Tried It! Didn't his family own a farm or somethings? I saw Jeannie taking pictures with him and the horses.
@zora99ny8 жыл бұрын
it hurts the animals obviously
@womanoflove44766 жыл бұрын
Temara must have gotten into a fight with Adam for saying she paid for the whole wedding in the previous video. Now she is saying something else lol
@kelendria8 жыл бұрын
I love tamera but i sometimes wonder if she has her own identity outside being a mother and a wife. Y'all are right, she doesnt really talk about tamera the woman. Maybe the producers told her to be the mother/ wife of the panel, but if i was a mother i would like to hear how you can still be an individual, a woman when you are married with kids.
@Mrszhersheyy8 жыл бұрын
There's a show where she spoke on having an identity
@helenatube8 жыл бұрын
I feel you Jeanne, she sometimes seems so boring and 1-dimensional the way she doesn't talk about anything that isn't related to motherhood. I get that she's really into it though, good for her. It just seems like she could stand to have some independence as well.
@Godlywoman888 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@firebenderkitty3135 жыл бұрын
@martinski but that's how she acts on the show. She only contributes a lot when it comes to conversations about family life.
@alishawalker4055 жыл бұрын
Sad truth.... A lot of moms/wives only identity is being a mom and wife. As a stay at home mom of young children there isnt much that i do that I dont do with my children. Because of that u generally have nothing else to tall about
@nobeautynobrains40036 жыл бұрын
When Jeannie told tamar to shut up I was like “yaassss hunnayyyy”
@GodsGirl4K8 жыл бұрын
"Daddy where my coin" 😂😂😂
@writerspen0108 жыл бұрын
I didn't realize this tradition was still a thing. I thought it ended more or less in the late 70s/early 80s at latest. Speaking as a woman, I would never expect or ask my father or my parents to pay for any future wedding of mine. If they want to contribute, GREAT! but right now, I'm totally expecting for my future husband and myself to be paying for it.
@helenatube8 жыл бұрын
ikr? i'm honestly shocked how many people still expect someone else to fund their wedding. not saying that your parents or family can't make a generous contribution, but to outright expect my parents to pay for my wedding sounds just wrong. i don't think i have thick enough skin to expect that, then again my family is not super traditional or religious either.
@thisnaturalgirlislocd8 жыл бұрын
+Helena I agree with you both!
@jenniferwilliams54782 жыл бұрын
Back when fathers paid for the whole thing or half and had complete control over the wedding
@christabel878 жыл бұрын
I swear tamera said she paid for her entire wedding in The Real’ Ladies Share Wedding Details
@giulia20988 жыл бұрын
"I paid for my own wedding"...
@chanyisme8 жыл бұрын
You're right, I just watched it. She said Adam helped with the dress, but she paid for everything.
@RLZDA18 жыл бұрын
+chany85 Shes the one with the most money in the relationship. She upgraded him
@robinmay48388 жыл бұрын
she definitely said that she paid for the entire wedding 😑
@cassandratype48 жыл бұрын
I doubt she has more money, Adam;s family has a winery.
@venusmoodie48742 жыл бұрын
I love when Jeannie talks about her family
@ntombenhleshange46837 жыл бұрын
AWKWARD!!! "well Adams parents really like me, no they do" lmao and then they cracked up! im sure they kinda know how she LOVES talking about herself that much by now!
@thegoddess53008 жыл бұрын
Oh Loni the shade at 2:46 haha "And they are what?" "The Whi people" haha.
@ItsKendraP8 жыл бұрын
To all of those who were concerned about what Tamera said: She said that she paid for her entire wedding but Adam helped with the dress... I don't think she was lying, maybe people did pitch in and she just neglected to mention that the first time because they were really talking about the dresses on the one titled " The Real Daytime Wedding Details"..
@Drfeelinu8 жыл бұрын
Lmfao ! The white people got money, they pay😂
@Nadirqm8 жыл бұрын
Omg I love Tamar it'll be so boring without her, she's realllll
@AranzaMtz8 жыл бұрын
So weird to see Tamera telling lies, lol.
@MrGodismypower8 жыл бұрын
The bigger the wedding, the shorter the marriage. Keep it simple folks
@MegaCadette558 жыл бұрын
same with the ring lol
@AccessoriesAddict55288 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏
@ACCOMPLISHEDSHEIS8 жыл бұрын
I agree. Pay what your budget allows. If true love is there then the price of the wedding shouldn't matter.
@MrGodismypower8 жыл бұрын
+ME-Tube Your Space! Exactly
@jaspreetdhaliwal49538 жыл бұрын
Indian people would beg to differ 😏
@ellyjm4 жыл бұрын
2:25 the lady in the audience has me rolling 🤣🤣
@GraceRoberts45 жыл бұрын
When they said the average cost of a wedding is $30,000 and they were like “woah” but you could tell from their eyes and reaction they can afford way more than that 😂😂
@pinkp9398 жыл бұрын
That quick "stare and laugh" at 5:09 that Tamar gave Tamera for inserting that self centered irrelevant info😆😩
@marieelisabethm8 жыл бұрын
i don't have a father...
@marieelisabethm8 жыл бұрын
***** nop I never had the chance to meet him
@crybabykermit86518 жыл бұрын
Why ? Where is he ?
@TheSisi4ever8 жыл бұрын
solves the problem! He aint paying!
@teresaguzman91678 жыл бұрын
+TheSisi4ever 😂😂
@marieelisabethm8 жыл бұрын
lavender cupcake I don't know i he's dead or alive
@cookiesncream7898 жыл бұрын
Adrienne is shocked with Tamar's logic. She was like 😱
@ayeshah.62345 жыл бұрын
Adrienne fixing Jeannie’s hair is #friendshipgoals
@johannalouissaint35488 жыл бұрын
When Tamar tilted her head back and laughed, had me dying!!!!
@esetamyreelemanu85846 жыл бұрын
My husband and I paid for our whole wedding and my siblings pitched in here and there. It was such an achievement when we paid for our whole wedding.
@MarkLaw133 жыл бұрын
Tamera lied in this video. She said she paid everything for her wedding in the video clip "Ladies share wedding details" now two years later she's changed her story. Her husband would have been ticked off.
@rharinzala57393 жыл бұрын
Tamara first said on a previous episode Adam helped with the dress and she paid for the entire wedding but now she is changing it to everyone chipped in to help. and all of a sudden she gets defensive(@5:4 where she state that Adams mom likes her so it could happen) when Tamer says she wouldn't pay her son's wedding if she doesn't like the bride.
@takecaretiff29198 жыл бұрын
Damn man, some of these comments on these Father's day girl chat clips are makin' me sad 😕 It's almost like you're unique if you grew up with your dad in your life 😞
@MarieB1148 жыл бұрын
It's tuff, we gotta hang in there!!
@angelderilli8 жыл бұрын
It's like that. If you have a good relationship with your father, that's great! Cherish those moments because a lot of people don't have that.
@kendraroberts71138 жыл бұрын
On an older episode/clip, Tamera said she paid for the wedding herself and Adam paid for her dress.
@MsMaxine298 жыл бұрын
i thought tamera said before that she paid for her entire wedding. sideeeeee eye 👀👀👀👀👀 why you lying tamera?! 🐸
@jackie_02218 жыл бұрын
This isn't the first lie she's told though. In one of the most recent episodes where the girls asked "what can't you leave your house without to look good" she said she doesn't care what she looks like cause she's too worried about taking care of her kids and that's it's difficult at times cause shes "never had a nanny". But in the previous season she mentioned something about Aden loving their nanny and even on Instagram she's posted about having an assistant. - I dunno I feel like Tamera is one of those people who says something in the moment to look good, and what's worse is that actually sounds very sincere when she tells her stories lol.
@girl82958 жыл бұрын
+Jackie Alvarez yeaaaaaa I was like I thought Tamera have a nanny... What is she talking about
@abigailj24858 жыл бұрын
that nanny really isn't a NANNY though. It's just an assistant guys. I don't think she's lying, why she gotta lie??
@MsMaxine298 жыл бұрын
+Abigail Jones she defo used to have a nanny though, she said it before
@tiffanymatsvai19298 жыл бұрын
+max munch yeah she did ! Because I think they were talking about Mariah Carey's nanny and how she's getting too close to Mariah's children. And Tamera said something in the line of ; Aden has the best bond with his nanny and she thinks it's beautiful. Idk why the show is called the real when they be making up stories like this smh 😒
@freakyeah958 жыл бұрын
My dad would be like "Y'all better take y'all ass down to the courthouse." 😂😂 especially since my parents got married at his parents house. I'd also feel bad for making him pay because my wedding is gonna be lit!
@beamerbenz5467 жыл бұрын
My dad payed for my entire wedding as both me and my husband were quite young but madly in love! It was a beautiful wedding his parents paid also and we are forever grateful to them.
@mjlovahh128 жыл бұрын
"Wypipo" lmaooo
@gracechica81823 жыл бұрын
This is absolutely CRAZY. How can the father of the bride pay? If a man wants to marry someone's daughter, he has to carry the responsibility for it and pay the bill. Or at least part of the bill.
@saggyjose857210 ай бұрын
that’s stupid. the wedding is the womans dream day/wedding not the mans. that’s why the womans family pay for it
@cristinasolano64878 жыл бұрын
For the third time, I now understand why Tamar left.
@rochbramwell8 жыл бұрын
Adrienne was laughing as well but it only tamar considered as the bad one 🤔
@rochbramwell8 жыл бұрын
+Rochelle B also tamera was as well
@chanyisme8 жыл бұрын
+Rochelle B I'm over the comments, I saw it as friendly and everyone on the panel was laughing, even Jeannie. I don't get why people are saying she's mean to Jeannie.
@skywalker63278 жыл бұрын
😂😂 im lowkey glad
@rochbramwell8 жыл бұрын
+chany85 I feel the same people are just over analysing everything she does
@bendytheinkdemon29955 жыл бұрын
I would NEVER let my dad pay for my wedding! Even if he offered, it would feel disrespectful tbh, he’s been taking care of me since I was a baby so now as I’m an adult I’m the one who should be taking care of him
@lenmaldita32473 жыл бұрын
I spent a chunk of my savings for my brothers wedding just a week ago. Here in the Philippines the grooms family usually pay for the wedding but since we don't have parents anymore i help my brother pay for his wedding. It was a beautiful wedding, unfortunately i couldn't attend because of some travel restrictions which sucks btw.
@JLenox8 жыл бұрын
I thought on an earlier season of The Real Tamera said SHE paid for her wedding..She never said anything about Adam chipping in then. 🤔🤔
@allthingscreative16318 жыл бұрын
i thought i heard her say she paid for the bulk of the wedding lol
@jchidi8 жыл бұрын
LMFAO Adrienne at 5:20!!!
@zuhippon8 жыл бұрын
second hand embarrassment is strong @ tamera 5:05
@tylerwolff51048 жыл бұрын
SO obvious none of them are friends. Tamera had that hair stuck in her lip gloss and nobody cared to fix it
@cassandratype48 жыл бұрын
LOL
@angelderilli8 жыл бұрын
If my father pays for my wedding I would be so surprised! It'll be a surprise if he even shows up. But on another note. Jeannie looks so beautiful, I love her hair!
@mrkendoll79952 жыл бұрын
5:08-5:15 had me weak Loni “ what that gotta do with” and ((Tamar ))face had me on the ground crying
@elizabeth.19058 жыл бұрын
love their centerpiece + it looks so good with jeannie's hair
@prettienini8 жыл бұрын
My parents paid for a large chunk of my wedding (they wanted to), me and my husband paid for what we could like the DJ and photographer, one of my bridesmaids paid for all the flowers and my in laws paid for our honeymoon. My aunt and uncle had a timeshare so we didn't have to pay for hotel stay.
@santriciajones25798 жыл бұрын
That's awesome. You're blessed or lucky.
@prettienini8 жыл бұрын
Santricia Jones yes very blessed. We didn't have any debt. Wedding venues are so expensive. It's literally a down payment on a home but I felt like since i'm never getting married again, why not go all out lol. The only thing I kind of regret is a destination wedding because they're cheaper.
@Stephyyii8 жыл бұрын
Love Tamar and Tamera they´re so funny and cute
@juanangelom.moralescicala65022 жыл бұрын
If you want to get married, you should pay it yourself. Help will come from family and friends , but it’s your responsability ❤️
@santriciajones25798 жыл бұрын
Wayment! Tamera is definitely gonna have to explain herself after this one! Now who paid for your wedding? You or EVERYONE? LOL
@Hi.Shadow8 жыл бұрын
This topic hits home for me, I got engaged last year and currently am in the process of planning a wedding for the end of this year but my parents are on a fixed income, my father said he would contribute but till this day he hasn't been able to help. I don't feel comfortable asking my fiances parents for money since it is traditionally the bride's parents that pay for the wedding, and they haven't offered to help me not one time. This has been a stressful ordeal as at least 90% of the costs are coming out of my pocket alone. My fiance gave me some funds but even so when I think about how this is going, it is not all I perceived it to be, sometimes I cry but I gotta do what needs to be done to make my dream wedding happen. When I have children I will do whatever in my power to help them and their spouse have a great wedding.
@lifewithsim79538 жыл бұрын
Don't answer till u get married how did the wedding go
@janercherry8 жыл бұрын
maybe you should just take a step back wait another year save more money thats your day it shouldent be that stressful. If every things already payed for I hope every thing go smooth. Good Luck
@SparklingJuice2478 жыл бұрын
U could talk to your fiancée about helping more, or getting his family to help.
@ro35548 жыл бұрын
If a wedding is stressing you out this much then either you should wait and save up or have a small intimate wedding, even if it's not at all the dream wedding you'd want. Remember, you still gotta live after the wedding.....
@__Queen_of_Hearts__8 жыл бұрын
I honestly don't think that that tradition holds fast anymore. Given the high costs now associated with weddings, the bride and groom should have primary responsibility for funding it but I also think that it's great for both families to also assist in whatever way that they could. It doesn't necessarily have to be any grand funding- it could also be something small but meaningful.
@Jan-bc3ed8 жыл бұрын
in the indian culture the bride's parents usually pay for the whole wedding, even indians that get married in america follow the same tradition. I didn't even know americans/christian cultures did that too!
@jaspreetdhaliwal49538 жыл бұрын
Mostly they do that because the parents are the one's who invite all the random people. So they better pay for it lol. If it was up to me I would only have like 80ish people at me wedding.but my mom and in laws increased the damn guest list to 600 people ffs
@lolarosario87968 жыл бұрын
No Christian ppl don't pay for weddings lol. I'm a Christian, I'm paying for my wedding next year lol. We cheap! lol jk. my parents helping out with a few things but I prefer I pay for it.
@cassandratype48 жыл бұрын
+Corina Carmona Our generation does, same thing for me
@ASmith-jn7kf8 жыл бұрын
Traditional biblical culture yes and there are still some traditional folks who do the same, I would if my daughter wasn't going to work and be a housewife. But if she's not I don't see a point to it. My father is a Christian and my husband and I eloped, I would never even think of having him pay for my wedding but I would have loved to have a father who cared about me that much.
@anntoinetteangrum5556 жыл бұрын
Tamara is hilarious!!! Tamara.... you once complained about being called the funny twin, and I feel you, but you are naturally funny, and with you bouncing off these sister's, especially Jeannie, Loni, and Tamar, your hilarious! I've been home sick for a month, and you have kept a smile on my face!!!!
@Natz6828 жыл бұрын
Jeannie said Tamar shut up!!!! that was funny😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@KimaAli8 жыл бұрын
Tamera always steering the conversation towards her husband/kids. It's getting beyond old! 😓
@AlwaysLM20118 жыл бұрын
Well most of the conversations link to her family. Her love is strong, more people need to embrace their loved ones more often because you never know when some crazy person will come up on your ass and start shooting. So let her talk about her family all she wants.
@Cookie202448 жыл бұрын
+wwe creative 5:06 she started to talk about her self suddenly it didn't even make sense
@VONiiE88 жыл бұрын
then you should have a problem with everyone except for Loni on this panel then??? Bc they all speak from experience??? they state an opinion and use their things that have happened in their life to explain why this is their opinion. I'm just really lost as to what the problem is???
@KimaAli8 жыл бұрын
+VONiiE8 please reread what the initial comment stated above.
@VONiiE88 жыл бұрын
+Kima McGaughy and Adrienne with her sister/parents. And Jeannie with her mom and husband. And Tamar with her entire family. Like, my point still stands. ?????
@ItsHannahMarieC8 жыл бұрын
I want a intimate destination wedding and then a huge party once I get back to celebrate. I would ask my parents to chip in on the party, but not the whole wedding. I feel like that's a lot to ask for when my parents have paid for school, living, and anything I ever needed my whole life. I think the wedding should be the couples responsibility
@faresaiaulualo59925 жыл бұрын
Can we like take a moment to watch where it starts at 2:19 where you can hear the lady in the background scream “ WHIIIIII PEOPLEE!!!” 🤣🤣🤣 I was dying at work 💀🤣🤣
@loliloli65825 жыл бұрын
I thought on another show Tamara said I made the money, I could afford it, I wanted to do it and paid for my entire wedding, here she said everyone pitched in hmmm
@JiminieV8 жыл бұрын
Daddy's girl all day, everyday. He'll pay if I ask but I don't mind doing it myself 💙
@gigglyfitzgirl8 жыл бұрын
Father was never in my life. Mother was abusive and is no longer in my life. Godmother is ill and not well off financially. And I'm broke. 😂 So even if I was to get married (it's not happening anytime soon anyway) idk how it would be paid for but God always has a way of working things out.
@nrw77348 жыл бұрын
So happy to see that in spite of all you have been through you express faith in God! He loves you and I pray that He will give you a double portion of blessings all the days of your life in Jesus Christ's name AMEN!
@MegaCadette558 жыл бұрын
+NRW Amen!
@gigglyfitzgirl8 жыл бұрын
NRW Thank you so much! ❤💜 God bless you 💕
@helenatube8 жыл бұрын
bless you girl, my heart feels for you *hugs* 💜
@gigglyfitzgirl8 жыл бұрын
Helena Thank you 💕😌 *hugs back*
@MartinaMcDonagh8 жыл бұрын
Yaaaas Loni - you're absolutely right!!
@mechaelalapuaho2264 жыл бұрын
Lololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololol😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 omg!!! LOL! LMBO!!!!! My throat is hurting!! I’m crying!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Do you know how many times I watched 5:02 on repeat??!! And then Loni getting confused with everyone else like, “what’s that got to do with anything?” I’m dead. I’m SO dead. I am deceased!
@lindsaydrawn57464 жыл бұрын
The tradition for the father of the bride paying for the wedding started b/c a wife was a “financial burden” to the grooms family b/c the wife would go live with the groom and his parents since they would marry young. And so they’re “giving her away” and paying for the wedding in exchange. I believe now a days since its more common to get married when you’re an older adult they are paying for their own wedding because they can.
@julialucas53538 жыл бұрын
Tamara : " I paid for some of it , Adam paid for some of it , his family paid for some of it ... And my family paid in ways they could" Me : Lies ( Tamar voice) !!!
@kellz472 жыл бұрын
2:25 the lady that screamed "WHAI PEOPLE" Tamar dieddd laughing 😭
@Aurora-skiess8 жыл бұрын
"Tamar shut up" that was lovely to hear coming from Jeannie and was music to my ears 😂😭😭🙌
@LaCandy8 жыл бұрын
I agree with Tamar lol i aint paying for something that might not even last i rather pay for a nice gift lmaoooooo
@cindywongsuna50337 жыл бұрын
if I can recall correctly, Tamara said in another episode that she paid for her entire wedding, now she is saying everyone pitched in what they can.. so which is it Tamara?
@williamk70357 жыл бұрын
ha I just watched that clip
@christengardner14663 жыл бұрын
Me and my hubby will be paying for both of our children weddings two girls so far. Definitely plan on getting eloped myself so
@johnle15354 жыл бұрын
Jeannies laugh is adorable lol. Tamara saying "The Why people."
@GonexWithxAxTwinge8 жыл бұрын
What the hell guys?!?! I didn't even know that was a thing. I think the couple should pay on their own but if they need help then BOTH sides of the parents could be used.
@already8use8 жыл бұрын
TAMERA , she once said that she paid FOR HER OWN WEDDING , so I'm here telling you - lies you tell
@Justonevideoplease8 жыл бұрын
I love janine her stories are always the best!!!!!!!!
@sophiarodriguez37064 жыл бұрын
This clip makes me want a Vietnamese wedding, and I'm neither of Vietnamese descent, nor am I sure I'll ever get remarried. That just sounds like such a great and budget-friendly way to celebrate a marriage!
@snoopz25 жыл бұрын
Tamera walk right into one😂😂😂😂😂 if i do have a daughter someday, I wouldn’t mind paying for the wedding, after all she is my daughter.
@MyidolGwen8 жыл бұрын
I was just saying a couple Girl Chat vids ago that Tamar never brings up her brother, it's about time she finally had something to say about Michael Braxton Jr
@cynthiaclemons49874 жыл бұрын
I loved them all in this segment 🥰
@lehonotshepangtshabalalamc2796 Жыл бұрын
This was the best topic 😂😂😂😂 everyone was so funny