Transform Your Life with www.blueprintreloaded.com/ Headed to New York City for a FREE event Oct 6 - www.owenfreetour.com - and if you can't make it do the FREE call - www.highstatuscommunication.com - both are super helpful free value adds to your life, be spontaneous and click the link and enjoy the free value. We've also got Phoenix, Miami, San Diego and Vegas coming up. Enjoy this video on how to add value and flip the script when people have too much going on in their lives to acknowledge you. Hope it helps, and let me know what you think! -Owen

Can't wait for the future hologram version of Owen in my living room, yelling at me how to get out of my derp state.

So here's the formula in this video: look at any person, ask yourself how many offers they're getting in a day. Offers could mean wanting to talk, wanting to go do something together, wanting to do business or any type of intimate activity together. If that person is getting whatever you're offering too often per day, that for them to say YES to you, they'd be busy all day SAYING YES TO EVERYONE, then your offer is physically impossible to receive. What you have to do instead is switch things up, be more original, remove the downside, add value, have a good follow up system via social media, and then suddenly THEY CAN SAY YES. If you simply take these basic steps, YOU SUDDENLY BECOME THE PERSON WHO IS OVERWHELMED WITH OPTIONS. You in effect "flip the script" and become the person who everyone wants things from. It's all so simple, and yet most people will NEVER DO IT. Why? They're in a derp state, traumatized, and unwilling to "think outside themselves". Then, if anyone gives them a talk like this, they get all upset. So they're permanently stuck. A talk like this won't be popular, but I know that if you're ready to hear it, it will change your life. Good luck and let me know what you think -Owen

These two offer so much much gold for those who are ready. 🙏🏻 Also the introvert thing is 💯 accurate. I'm an INFJ who used to be nervous just going to a Yoga class. Two weeks ago I TAUGHT my first class! Despite my introverted nature. Don't let it hold you back if you are naturally introverted!!! 🧘🏻🙏🏻

I feel this is such an underrated topic that can lead to endless amounts of pain unless taken care of, thanks for highlighting this life lesson!

Best birthday gift ever! This video got uploaded on my birthday. You guys are always bringin' so much freakin' value and the talk about "how to connect with new people" really resonated with me. One of the best things that Julien talks about in his other videos, in my opinion, is around the topic on trauma. When you take "action" and get "triggered", you have 4 options (but only one works). 1: Distract yourself with social media, tv shows or games. 2: Numb yourself with alcohol or drugs 3: Lash out on the person who triggered you 4: The one that actually works is release that uncomfortable feeling that comes up when you get triggered. And you've gotta repeat that every time you get triggered. Same goes for when you can't stay in the present moment and you feel like distracting yourself with something that buries the "triggered" feeling. If you don't release whatever comes up then you're gonna stay stuck in your ego and continue being easy manipulated. Therefore not being in control of your life. I learned this stuff through Juliens TM program and it has changed my whole view on life exponentially. The TM program helped me tremendously when I was at my lowest. To be connected to your emotions is a strength, but being run by an emotional state can be detrimental and cause a lot of self sabotage. Therefore if you're stuck in an emotional state and not letting it go, then you're NEVER gonna reach your wildest dreams or become at ease with reality. Because your self-defence mechanisms are protecting your ego to stay in scarcity. And you're ego is only gonna let you have some success before you start self-sabotaging. Because you can't handle your shit if you aim too high. Why do people who win the lottery blow their money so quickly? Because deep down they don't think they deserve it. The same goes for romantic relationships and friendships. If it gets "too good" then you're automatically gonna go back as quick as possible to what feels the most comfortable for you. A.k.a your comfort zone, a.k.a staying in a "derp state". If you wanna live a happier life and you don't feel like you are, then you've gotta commit to your mental health first. So remember: Action --> triggered --> release --> repeat. You're one step closer if you read all of this. But only a few people are gonna take action. Peace.

That reminder to be present just made sense of so much going on in life I got so caught up in a derp state, thanks Owen

I love how Julien doesn’t laugh

Wow! This one gave me glimpses of the power of old RSD videos. Thank you so much for continuing spreading value till today.

7:46 epiphany. Thanks again Owen. This why I've followed you religiously for 9 years.

It’s such lucky to have owen’s content! I appreciate your work and hope God bless u for many years more! U really change lives!

Just watched a very information hour of Owen telling his fans to stop asking him out to lunch! Love the content

Thank you so much for making the sacrifice and being dedicated making these content,, it's powerful, they really have that immediate effect

Loving the new videos lately, lots of extra gravy! Was tuning in hard right before you stopped yourself.. that’ll be a great one!

Thank God for that 200 page book or I would have never discovered this man. A blessing in disguise.

One of the best free videos I’ve seen on this channel. And I’ve been watching Tyler’s videos for like 3 years now

it's funny how this video got recommended to me. Recently during the workout I had the same exact thoughts Owen is expressing at 3:30-3:50. Objective truth is simple. Most of us, the herd, knows what's right and what's wrong but we can't defend on our opinion. We are afraid of the original thought because shadowing someone else's is safer. This is one of the best Owen's speeches!

"Freeing up mental bandwidth" It's true isn't it? That a lot of us have too much going on inside our minds that it takes away our ability to effectively process the current moment. It's likely painful to be present so what little bandwidth we have left is used to do things that bascially distracts us from that pain and then we're locked into place. Once that mode is habitualized, we're gone unless some outside force comes in and shakes us out of it(like what owen does in almost every video). It's a little mind blowing to think about because the glimpses of breaking out that we get and try to share so that someone we care about could see what we see or so that we can at least be validated, effectively gets rejected. It's like a defense mechanism for derpers. "Oh no! Truth that hurts. Ah i dont like this..." Distraction distraction distraction. And in this current era there it is way too easy to slip into distractions. It certainly takes a special kind of person to break out of it or it takes a special kind of person to help others to break out of it. I'm going to watch this again. Also love the thumbnail toyblock letter font. I take it as a title for kids since mentally and emotionally, a lot of us are(including myself) and the things in this vid are pretty basic in the grand scheme of things... I get the feeling Owen has some mindbenders in his back log that a lot of us probabaly aren't ready for. Bring it on!

Amazing content Owen. Sadly a lot of people need to see this and apply it to their life. 👑🔥

One minute through already and YES!!!!!!! ABSOLUTELY NAILED IT!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks for helping me heal my childhood wounds and design the life and romantic relationship of my own design. I bought Hot Seat @ Home years ago. I plan on coming to one of your paid live events to support your business in helping millions of people like me out. God Bless - Max from Boulder, CO

Owen you look healthy and strong 💪. Keep it up! all the love from Canada 🇨🇦

Had to pause the video and take this in he’s really speaking some facts right now

Love the energy in this video it’s on point love love love it

Spitting truths again. Monster monster speech for one of the most lucid and genius thinkers of 2021 and beyond this space time also. Thanks Owen. This is the new punk rock. This is the new voice of personal sovereignty.

Tyler I love this talk you’re so great at waking me up when I’m in a deep state sometimes. Love the content man!!!!!

Well, people can talk whetever about Owen or Julien or RSD, but my respect and loyalty for the message and movement that this guys do is gonna last for the rest of my life, and no-one can change that. i guess that's the power of realocating your energy in creating something better So Owen, you did a good job!.

I need to watch this 8-9 times. Crucial!

Raw, genuine, unseasoned information by RSD. Great stuff.

Always some lightbulbs 💡 turning on with these guys!! Love it

Great video, I came across the blueprint over 10 years ago and it opened my eyes! Will catch ya next time your in the UK, thanks for the work bro x

Love it! Thank you! 🙏🏻

Watching this was not fun, but it's what I needed. Thank you.

One of my favorites in a while

Its almost upsetting how much i learned from this

There is so much value in this video

Thank you for being a friend.

Absolutely! Truth!

Thanks for the awesome videos!

This is so fkn hilarious. One of your best work!

Great insightful video Owen! Thanks

you been working out owen i wish i could articulate myself better but you look good man!

I love how focused Owen is here

Key takeaways: 12:05 - 13:02, 37:12 - 38:47 Don't try to rebuild the ego when there is an attack on it. Stop making it about you. How can I connect to THEIR reality (Jim Carrey's epiphany) 23:35 - 25:40 There's a key point somewhere in here about finding a "mutual yes" but I kinda still don't get that portion. My takeaway is "just BE a friend, stop trying so hard to go above and beyond yourself" 29:22 - 37:11 (30:00 main point) It's actually a good thing for higher profile people if you can seem as if you don't care if the other person is there or not. Remove downside 38:48 - 39:45 Remove trauma to stop being offended and be able to think where other people are coming from 39:47 - end. Trauma colors how you perceive the world preventing you from seeing how things really are, and gives you excuses to not take action. Micromanaging an image is maintaining a front, it's being inauthentic, rebuilding the ego house.

Awareness..is a pivotal point!

Amazing content owen

Really nice topic! Let's stop complaining and start focusing on what we can do! :)

a lot of this is common sense, but it's nice to get that extra reminder every now and then

Best vid you've made in awhile

Owen is enlightened period !

Thanks Owen. Greetings from Switzerland🤙

Thanks for all the lessons owen

Love this vid

Good shit Owen, looking good bro

Idk why but this video was funny af. Great job

Anyone else want to give Owen a hug when he said "why doesn't anyone want to be my friend?" ??

Thanks, great one !

“Getting to the cause is LETTING GO OF TRAUMA”

"including cutting off your friends". LOL Totally cracked me up. #Awareness

Yes! Yes! Yes!

Owen let's do lunch! Thanks for the perspective and insight brother.

Great video. Lol, poor Julien couldn't finish a sentence. 😂😂 Owen was like a freight train that couldn't slow down.

Perfect Owen perfect!

Thank you

Great vid 10/10

Went out the other night to a local club haven't gone out in a long time but still remember most of the fundamentals dont wanna be Braggy but my friend and I basically owned the club being friends with almost everyone dancing with everyone multiple make outs made many people die laughing, guys trying to be our friends the only thing though is I was super wasted and even though it was the funnest night I've had in a long time and do remember everything I still felt kinda empty the next morning but if it wasn't for you guys my old self would NEVER believe id ever do things like that. My biggest regret is not seeing you guys live when I could of. I need to soon

My man ❤️

Owen that part near the end about the billionaire trust fund painter vibe had me dead! Cheers from Canada.

Very appreciative that you posted this. If guys really understood what you're talking about here, 90+ percent of their social limitations would be handled. 22:18 Ever hooked up with a less attractive chick, just cause she was into you and you were "excitable", then she wants "something more" afterwards? Yup, exactly 💯. 27:47 This isn't complicated, just find events in your area you enjoy, and invite people low-key like Owen describes @~ 32:00 or so. Things you enjoy regardless of whether the other person comes. 37:45 "I always have something to give everyone in every situation...give them the benefit of the doubt, give them an opportunity to be themselves, give them an opportunity to talk to you, and to escape their lives, give them a break". -Brent Smith Lifestyle

~ 26:00 yes: I used to be cynical about stepping up because I wanted it to be convenient, I wanted it to be congenial to my inner little bitch (aka ego), I wanted growth without leaps of faith involved. but as I find myself taking more and more action I see what "effortless effort" truly means. this is what Owen et al reminds (and inspires in) us in these brilliant talks: we must follow our deeper impulse against the grain of our fear (aka collective mushmind) and let the truth (aka God) EVOLVE through us.

PRICELESS

Best video on KZfaq@

Epic!!

The world is a bad and evil place. Not because most people are bad and evil, but because most people are very nice. They are so nice to the point that they can be easily manipulated by the tiny minority of bad and evil people to make the world bad.

In my experience nice people take obedience and convenience as goodness.

I LOVE YOU. YEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAHHHHH

This Owen rant >>>

Ty *prey*

Was letting the video end in the middle of Juliens sentence a part of the "cutting your friends off" joke some seconds earlier? Hahaha

“Alternate crowds” would be like hipsters.. they’re everywhere here in KC. God forbid I order coffee the wrong way & one overhears it

Present...present present!

Owen what are the healthy foods that you recommend eating?

Owen, I'm taking you out on a Zoom lunch. My treat

Thanks for explaining the “let’s hang out” then that never happening even though you weren’t the one that suggested it dilemma 😹

13:53 is kill me 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Hahaha that ending😂

Owen I think you should do something about the loudness level in your videos. In short, there’s almost no dynamic range, meaning the loudest sound and the quietest sound don’t vary much. This leads to the audio sounding “loud” without you actually clipping. If you check out your own video from 7-8 years ago, you’ll notice that the audio level are much less compressed, which leads to more of a natural and appealing sounding audio. (Here compression doesnt mean audio quality, but the compression of dynamic range) In the past few years, whenever I watch ur videos I have to turn the volume almost all the way down, something I never do with anyone else’s videos. I suspect that when your team is recording, the audio level is set too high, and then they are using a hard limiter to compensate, this means the audio doesn’t clip, but that also leads to no dynamic range. That or the audio compressor setting is out of whack when they are editing in post. I believe good video/audio quality is one of the reason you attracted a lot of viewers in the past, I’ve been wanting to write this comment for a long time but was always too lazy to do so, of course it’s just one person’s opinion but I really think this is something to look into.

35:15 LMAO 😂

THIS IS FOR SURE THE NATURAL CURE FOR THE EGO. cracked the derp state armour!!

I love these kind of video where Owen gets salty like

Great vid, Owen. Let's do lunch. :-)

damnit owen. one day ill be your friend. but im stuck in NJ for now. lol. i love ya buddy great video

I so wanted to quote your tirade about comments. Thanks Owen!

It's like hollering at beautiful innocent zombies LOL what do we want?Brains! when do we want them?! BRAINS

Haha aw poor Owen

*he looks like hes drinking a jumbo bottle of cough syrup from costco* 13:08

The trick to getting what you want is to stop caring about getting it. Shoot the arrow and let it land where it lands. Have fun with it. It's way easier to learn without all the pressure. Then one day you'll get to say, "holy shit I got it!".

Julien out here giving a eulogy

I’ve watched this video a few times now and taken a different lesson away each time

Julien lookin like Malcolm Gladwell today lmao