My thoughts exactly.

Bingo

Yep, totally. And I‘m sure he is making her situation now even more worse, so put him away… Such people aren‘t worth it. He can have his own opinion, but to tell it someone and to want someone changing for his own taste is awful. Poor girl… This mess just for a jerk, I really feel sorry for her.

Perfect 🤣😂

Well said 👍

Kinda insecure, aren't you? Sometimes partners want to change their other half for better. Probably never heard of boyfriend/girlfriend effect😂😂😂 My fiancé supported and gave me a lot of confidence to grow my hair. I always dreamed of long hair and I finally grew them. I get lots of compliments because they are well maintained and healthy. That makes me feel so much better 😊

My ex SIL did that to me. She would come over and cut everyone's hair (she was licensed). I didn't even want a cut, but said what the heck, I'll get a trim. She decided I needed 4 inches off. I was furious.

Exactly! Years ago i went in for a trim of my waist lenght hair And the first cut I felt was metal against my neck And immediately felt the cut. I am still furious about it. To this day i refer to him as Edward Scissor Hands

But if you go to a professional and ignore the advice, don't be surprised I'd things go wrong, if you went to a doctor and he said you need surgery, don't be surprised if physiotherapy doesn't work

@@karencooper3428 a bit overdramatic response. Your own personal clothing, makeup and hairstyle choices dont compare to having surgery 😂😂😂 I am a little shocked at myself for responding to this message.....but I continue...Also, all of our above messages where not about not taking advice...we were never given the option. Edward scissorhands made the decision for me.

@@Lovinvallarta 😂😂😂

Indeed

yuh, and I wonder how the boyfriend who pressured her to change her hair feels about the result. I really hope she goes to someone else, does a color correction and a big chop but this is not her fault as she tried to vet her stylist. the only thing she could have done better is to speak up more quickly, but I don't know that it would have changed the overall outcome

Exactly it was beautiful like it was

Yesss. Took me so long to learn to love my hair. ❤️

I wonder if her boyfriend was one of those people painting natural hardwood fun and interesting colors.

Indeed

That’s when she should have told him to stop. That was the first sign of disaster coming, yet she didn’t say a word. She was crying and he did nothing but add to it by chopping more.

I cut my daughter's hair much better than that. In 2cm thin combed sections. Not professional but way better than what this poor woman got.

I am mean. I cut a strip of paper to the length I will allow to be cut off. I also take my ruler. I show it to the stylist and say "This is the maximum I want cut off." When they make their first cut, I ask to see what was cut off. I apologetically say I got a bad cut once where they cut so much off now I'm scared. They all comply.

This is a big fear of mine with new stylists, and I will take note when I have a consult of how well they seem to listen and how pushy they seem to be. I definitely like to know what they think I should have trimmed off, but I also expect for them to respect whatever my final wish is for how much to cut.

My daughter has her Mum trim her ends after so many bad cuts.

Me toooo I still have trauma around it. My waist length hair was magically at my shoulders.. I still torment myself wanting to destroy their business like they destroy peoples hair.

Yeah I've had my hair styled by students and they did AN AMAZING JOB. The bleach was a little patchy but they managed to cut my hair EXACTLY like how I drew out my design. So this guy just sucks.

I asked for 3 inches off and when I left, she had taken 11 inches off. She acted like nothing was wrong. I cried for weeks. It ended up being so choppy, I had to go get it redone by someone else who said the only way to truly fix it was to take off a few more inches. Had hair down to my hips, ended with it up at my collar bone.

Well I once wanted a layered bob and ended up with a bixie. I didn't went to a hairdresser for 3 years after that.

How does this happen? They cut it in front of a mirror. I watch every snip to make sure they don't take off too much.

@@jerseytomato100 “Can you please take off your glasses?” BAM! I’m blind, literally blind. Can’t see the E on the top of the eyechart; can’t even tell what wall the eyechart could be pinned to. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I really wonder if those who cut 6 inches instead of 1 or 2, failed elementary school. That’s really basic.

Good luck in your future as a stylist!! Its loads of fun when you get to do colours 💜💙💚 on people. My moms a stylist,(80 years old and still doing a few clients a week); my niece is training.

As a hairstylist I can tell you HairBuddha is hands down the best!!! *And* he gives the BEST advise and the info and his judgement is always 100% accurate!!!! Don't listen to these "hairstylist" that have graduated from you tube university they don't know crap!!!

Look at cutting videos too like Kenneth Siu's.

@@ella_cinder4361 Your mom is amazing to still be a hair artist at 80! Wow. Maybe you can make a video of her and share. I think she'd inspire so many others

I hope you’re doing well and enjoying the job! 💕

Right though? That's straight up rude af. He could've shut up, or found a nicer way to communicate that HE was bored with her hair. Her hair wasn't boring. He was bored with it. BIG DIFFERENCE.

Wow he was honest 😂 I understand that most people prefer to be lied too😂😂

@@ronidm7052 Most ppl prefer someone who cares about them.

I agree with you!

Yeah at least the ones I've been to are the same way.

I think it’s the training I’m a hairdresser in Australia and we do a 4 year apprenticeship From what I understand online a cosmetology licence in the US that covers hair, nails, beauty and makeup takes 12 months ! How can anyone perfect their craft in 12 months ?

Yes! It’s so difficult finding good and professional hairdressers 😩

Here in our state of Utah, I believe it's 2,000 hour of training/practice then take a test to get your certificate? Still not enough, as I cut my own hair after many disappointing experiences.

@@amandarobbins2530 you are correct, not nearly enough and not fair to us. Luckily I was living in the city and had the opportunity of attending continuing education classes.

Ahahahaha, he was so serious while emphatically pointing at the color chart! I giggled out loud. 🤣

Similar situation, a have alot of hair, wavy, virgin ash blond hair. I know what might be possible with my hair and what is not. I feel bad because I explain and I am very specific, something that I think I shouldn't need to explain, but do just in case. SO, I have learned to cut my own hair from videos and I have done a better job than professionals (I understand, maybe I need to go to higher end salons. Because I know there are amazing artists in the hair industry! Way better than what I do to my hair, but . . .)

Quite a long time ago now: Lots of fine medium-dark brown hair that had violet put over it (the color shone in the sun but was stealthy under crap office lighting.) I went to an expensive salon for a treatment to put it back to my natural color and some repair so I could grow it out from a bob. The owner did my hair, but I waited ages and ages. It was a dual appointment with a friend and we were sat at opposite ends of the salon, but then they made me wait until she was done before starting on me. There were no other customers, the other hairdresser was just hanging out. They opened a bottle of champagne everyone had a glass (while at work, begore cutting my hair?? I should have left, but I wanted to spend time with my friend.) It didn't turn out an unsalvageable mess, but between telling me that I absolutely should not adopt because I'll get [racist code words] child addicted to hard drugs and being absolutely certain they were gossiping about me (because they were gossiping about my friend when they got to me) I was not terribly happy with the service. For the cut: the layering was much more than I'd ever had despite saying I was growing it out and put it up for work. After a few days I realized that without a lot of product the shorter pieces were just permanent flyaways. A French braid was the only way to put it up for work without them escaping because of how short some of it was, with less than half my hair going past my shoulders anymore. Hair nets [ugh so hot and ugly] were what I had to deal with for a long time. But the worst part! For months after I got uncountable calls, texts, and emails harassing me to make my next appointment. Instead of doing that I called to cancel the one I had made that day and eventually blocked their number after they started up again a year later. 🙃 I've never had to block a small business before or since.

Yep..I relate to that! Do you too have long hair by any chance? I haven't been to the hairdresser in about 6-7 yrs lol..I follow a Brad Mondo ' lockdown hair cutting guide's video..holy crap the trim ( 2 inches ) I took off my long hair I impressed myself.lol x

"Sections"! Lol.

Oh man! All the crazy things I did when I was 16 to my hair. And now my son is doing the same. He has bright pink hair and is wanting bleach tips. I said no but we are actually having more fun than ever just hanging out and experimenting with his hair. My girls never let me do this and when my son turned out to be a cis straight male, I thought fun hair stuff was over, but we have a great time together just being silly.

Mine too

You’re probably safer with the wood than the whisk (if it’s metal), wood is less reactive

Some of the interpretations of color differences might be a regional too. In the US my natural color (think Let Go-era Avril Lavigne, or Emily Blunt in Into the Woods) was considered blonde, but I come for Finland so when I think blonde I think Khaleesi, Elle Fanning in The Great etc.

My hair base is like the girl in the pic... definitely dark ash blonde but so many ppl think when I grow my hair out it's brown.. I'm always having to correct.. if you compare the tones of brown hair to dark blonde hair you'll def see the difference..also by the way it lightens

@@amandaashley8631 Exactly. My hair is light brown but the ones in the chart look darker (I think it's a difference between one swatch and a look on the whole head). My light brown is similar in lightness with a dark ashy blonde, but in reality the dark blondes look different than mine light brown. There's different hue to it, different color reflexes, mine are more brassy/browny than ashy. It's light, but definitely brown.

I agree there are more bad o es than good!

odkedy kozmetička strihá vlasy ?

@@beno2767hairdressing is a part of cosmetology

It looks like this hurt hb so bad it made his ears itch

The same thing happened to me. 😳

Thx

That’s the problem with a lot of hairdressers. They refused to listen to what the client wants and do whatever they want. It is highly frustrating.

I agree, I have had some horrendous hair experiences too.

Same struggle

This is why I'm doing research and bleaching my own hair. I really don't believe in most of these hairdressers after my own struggles and witnessing my mother's disasters at the salon. She's a hairdresser and does her own hair because of these types of experiences.

No it’s not ? Who did your education ?! Balayage is a technique not a style.