THIS is Why Your Ex Hasn't Come Back... YET

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THIS is Why Your Ex Hasn't Come Back... YET

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Күн бұрын

“Why won’t my ex come back to me?” ...this is a question I get almost every day in my work as a breakup coach. It’s a natural question, right? You want your ex back and you wonder why they don’t feel the same way. You hope that you can wait them out and they’ll come running back to you. What’s stopping them?
Well it’s important for you to consider several factors here to figure out WHY your ex hasn’t come back and what you can do about it, so that’s what I’ll be unpacking in today’s video.
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@TangledBranches24 5 ай бұрын

I want to write a testimony to Brad’s one on one coaching service. I went through a really difficult break up and was left heartbroken and after watching many other dating coaches out there, I found Brad on KZfaq. I’m the kind of person that needs to feel like I’m doing something so other coaches advice of going no contact until my ex reached out to me, felt like it wasn’t proactive enough for me personally. I liked Brad’s style of videos and how he broke down each of the components to winning your ex back. I used his guide to no contact and also re-establishing contact and both worked! I found myself at a point where my ex and I had exchanged some pleasantries but I was stuck on how to build momentum and how to level up our communication. So I decided to sign up to the monthly email coaching (promise this is not an ad, I’m a real person and I paid for this service with my own money). Brad has offered me advice on what texts to send, how my ex is likely feeling, and just overall been a massive support. My crazy brain can run away from me at times but just having Brad’s help and reassurance that I’m on the right track is making this whole process a lot easier. And it is a process. It’s not going to be an overnight thing. My break up happened 4 months ago but the relationship was falling apart for a good 2 months before that. I get excited every time I see a new email from Brad because it’s comforting and reassuring to be told im making progress and to have a fresh set of eyes on the situation. Even if you can’t do the email coaching, at least follow this man’s videos cos he knows what he’s talking about. My ex has recently told me that he still loves me and every recent contact we’ve had has been initiated by him. I’m going to do my best to update this comment if people want to know how it’s going.

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

Wow! Thank you so much. Much appreciated. :-)

@Rraide3r Ай бұрын

How’s it going now?

@TangledBranches24 17 күн бұрын

@@Rraide3r So after my ex told me he still loved me, I still maintained a slow approach. I didn’t want to act too excited and potentially scare him off. Currently we are in a dating phase again however it’s actually him that’s chasing me this time. My no contact stage made me grow strong, possibly too strong and I just don’t feel like I would be that affected if we weren’t to work out again. Last time our break up devastated me but if it happened again, I know I’d be good. I would say that my three biggest tips for winning back your ex are: 1) absolutely go no contact. It worked for me because it gave me space to think more clearly and calmly and it really did get my ex wondering about me. 2) when you begin contact again, never appear too eager. Always seem like you have somewhere to go or you’re just getting back from somewhere and don’t reply to their texts immediately. You need them to see that they are not the priority anymore. 3) when re-establishing contact, it should be kept light and easy with zero pressure. You need to remind yourself that you don’t need a reply from them in order to go about your day.

@Karidugan 5 ай бұрын

Because they are waiting for there ex to change their mind about their behaviours around you, and when they are respectful manner while there was their friends and families, not to backstab you like my ex did!!

@Ken_Johnson 4 ай бұрын

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

If it's only been a month and you want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bbaTmaqWr9e5iaM.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qpx5aM5mmtbSc3k.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com

@kanereall 4 ай бұрын

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bbaTmaqWr9e5iaM.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qpx5aM5mmtbSc3k.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com

@TimRyder2.0 5 ай бұрын

Been no contact for almost two months now, last time, I greeted her happy birthday she responded, but when I asked for my remaining stuff back she totally blocked me everywhere, so I just decided to just date someone new and move on... I really have no intention to break up with her but damn, her family and environment is toxic, and other people always getting involved and not respecting the boundary of the relationship, it's exhausting.

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

Hi there! Yes, like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!

@TimRyder2.0 4 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning thank you for all of your advice, I used them to at least try to save the relationship, but instead she only misinterpreted it as chasing her, she even tried to ruin my life after the breakup, she reported me to the police, accused me of threatening her, hold my stuff hostage, pit her family against me, your methods are good but I guess I was just using it on the wrong person, but damn I wish I could get all my stuff back.

@cherylu9716 5 ай бұрын

So, when we broke up, we both had had a lot of personal growth. I told him several things including that I love him and wanted to be with him. We both cried, he was pursuing a couple of other women. He told me that...😢 I've continued growing and loving myself and I know that I am my own dream woman. It's been a while since we have spoken.

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

You ought to be keeping your options open too, especially if it's been more than 6 months. Although it's quite obvious you love him, he can't realize your value if you keep pining for him... and that's key if you want a future with him. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ibp8ndyT3s_FcoU.html

@cherylu9716 4 ай бұрын

I'm not on telegram... but I am on Instagram

@JohnWilliams-by1xf 4 ай бұрын

I’ve got 2 children with my ex and we have been staying together at her house until at random she doesn’t want me to stay . So I can’t stay. I really am so frustrated with this . And she says at times I don’t want to be with u . I’m struggling to find suitable housing . For my nights away. It’s difficult we are on and off again. She’s says I’m like another child making mess and what not. I have picked up my game ten fold being an active parent actively completing many of the daily tasks I had not done as much of previously. And in my view I have made significant changes in the way I am as a person

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

It's another story if you live under the same roof after a relationship ends. I suggest you do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!

@comradeking4427 5 ай бұрын

Hello Brad, You are definitely an expert on no contact. Its a signature mark of yours. I have a question : You said in one of your videos that an ex misses you 30 days after no contact the most according to psychological studies. May I read the study? In my case I was needy and got blocked. I reached out after that and asked why I was blocked in a group that we are in (I deleted all other members of the group for the group to be a place of 1 on 1 communication) and got replied back and told she wants space. After that I have done everything right. I stopped reaching out, said I respect her wish for space and am in no contact for two and a half weeks. I dont know whats in her head, but I think shes probably surprised that I stopped reaching out. Perhaps this is why she did not leave the group chat and didnt block me anywhere outside of whats app. Its possibly a test to see whether or not I respect her wish for space. When do you recommend breaking no contact? Should I go for the 30 day rule or longer?

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

If you've been bothering her for quite a while, chances are she felt relieved of you finally giving her space, so it's important you stick to your resolve so the reality of you doing you and being busy in your own life will start to sink in -- assuming she still cares enough about you. So my suggestion? Stick to the no contact rule for the remaining 4- 6 weeks. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ibp8ndyT3s_FcoU.html Also refer to my other vids for more tips. Your situation is also very delicate so once you start to see some progress with your ex, then don’t go at it alone, especially if you're in doubt or don't know what to do next. Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Either way, good luck!

@michellelambert6321 5 ай бұрын

what do you do if you have kids, and they have someone else, and they tell you that they don’t want you? like… how do i get him back? i love him.

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that. How long have you two been broken up? If your ex shows most, if not all the signs here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ibKIosiExsi0nqs.html then it may be best you do the same. I understand what you're going through. You know, moving on is a tricky process and the emotions come in waves. This video is for you: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Zpenqa-Exrmdj30.html And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/aKmRnrKAuN2tmY0.html or get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup guide as that will help you and your mindset to evolve from the breakup and therefore become the best version of yourself. Check it out at www.beatmybreakup.com

@davidallahgod3217 5 ай бұрын

Ex is ex for a big reason, Why go back to a old bike you sold!

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

Yep! As what I always say, the decision to get an ex back is totally up to you. Over time, you know your ex's true worth to you as well as the value of your relationship. So only you can decide whether this is someone you want to go back to or not. All the best!

@clarkpatrick123 5 ай бұрын

I’ve been with my ex for 17 years I have been fully faithful and gave her complete love the whole time I’ve been with her and she told me just before Christmas Day she don’t want to be with me no more and in January she started seeing someone else I can not believe how she has changed she is a completely different person and she has broken out kids hearts

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that, man. It's always sad when I hear these kinds of stories but I do know this happens every now and again. Respect your ex's decision for space and let her miss you. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ibp8ndyT3s_FcoU.html And if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!

@lorenzaicha Ай бұрын

10 wks since he broke up with me, after a long stressfull period on his job. I was nc 1 month, he kept texting me and calling for different reasons, but not ever talking about us, or relationship. He broke up with me, says him, because felt that i never accepted his help, didnt need it, or cause felt critucised, neither this was true. 14 yrs LTR. Yesterday admitted he s not well, have strong feelings for me, regretted every day the broke up. I asked why he didnt come back, says he didnt know. Latest, his messages are not so often, specialy after the NC period. I didnt ask to take me back or something at all. I dont know what to do to not scare him.

@BradBrowning 29 күн бұрын

Those are good signs from your ex and 14 years together is no jokke. You can reach out to your ex after the 30 days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bbaTmaqWr9e5iaM.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qpx5aM5mmtbSc3k.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com

@AussieRic 2 ай бұрын

I followed the no contact advise and she came back, a few months after seeing each other I asked her would you ever cheat on me again, she said....... I can't see the future so I don't know.

@BradBrowning 2 ай бұрын

If you can't rebuild trust or if she can't seem to commit fully to you, then that's a huge red flag you best not ignore. Remember, you teach people how to treat you. What you tolerate and don't tolerate is up to you.

@AussieRic 2 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning Sad but true, thanks mate, just needed to hear an opinion, cheers👍

@slaanacuric2069 5 ай бұрын

It's been a month.6 months of relationship,after 16 years of friendship.Left me with message.I didn't ask why,what happened.He said he thinks it would be best if we are friends.I said that I respect his decision.Decided to go in no contact,but we had contact.He asked how am I.We met 20 days after a break up.I was surprised because he as an avoidant never showed anything in the public,that day he hugged me and kissed me on the cheek.He was persistant to have a cup of coffee.We spent 2 hours together,talking,laughing.No one mentioned relationship,break up.He asked what am I doing in the evenings and if can call me sometimes to go out.We never had a fight,never said anything bad to each other.

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

So what really happened? Being friends isn't a good idea though. Watch this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ptyPls2rzbyvcY0.html Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@Jakuboooooooooo 2 ай бұрын

Atp I don’t even know. Abt 11 months after we split, she started looking at my stories. We didn’t end up talking until a few months later but lately we’ve reconnected and it’s gone well for the most part. Lots of flirting, double texts from her when I don’t respond quickly, her asking to FaceTime, her getting visibly jealous and upset when the topic of me seeing other girls comes up (even tho she brings it up), etc. But, when I asked if she wanted to grab lunch or something before she leaves town, she said “I don’t think that’s a great idea. Texting and calling is already kinda pushing it.” I didn’t respond and then she texted again 30 mins later saying “I promise it’s nothing against you, I’m just only comfortable with occasionally texting.” Like huh?

@BradBrowning 2 ай бұрын

Focus on texting and try not to meet up when one or both of you aren't ready yet. The phase you're on (assuming you've done the first phase correctly which is the 30-day no contact rule) is the second phase where you're rebuilding attraction. It's part two of the 3-phase system in my guide but here's a quick overview to help you understand better: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but as you go on this phase, you'll notice one or more signs here: y2u.be/nmRM3dZAzDA and the best you can do is to continue to play your cards right and move to the third phase when you're both ready. Good luck!

@Jakuboooooooooo 2 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning makes sense. I will add that she’s still dating another guy (and has been for abt a year), but it really seems like her heart isn’t truly in it with him, especially since she flirts with me so much when we talk. So that just adds to the confusion. And every time we have a good interaction, she goes and pulls away for a few weeks.

@user-uc6pp4xu8s 5 ай бұрын

Hi brad. Im unable to sign up for your coaching as paypal doesn’t seem to allow recurring subscriptions in my country (india). I tried with multiple debit and credit cards and on the last screen, it shows the amount to be charged as $0 instead of $97 and thus fails. I even wrote to your customer support to ask them to send me a manual single paymenf link for $97 so that i could start the subscription. Unfortunately, they just sent me the link to the coaching mail page. Please help!

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

Hi there! Sorry for the trouble but thank you for patronizing my program. I'm afraid there's not much option about the payment restrictions but have you tried with Clickbank? It's the other payment option shown when you sign up aside from Paypal.

@roguefilmproductions7565 Ай бұрын

What is your advice for someone like me who currently lives with their ex? She may not be moving out until August...

@BradBrowning Ай бұрын

@andrewrussell5925 5 ай бұрын

I'm now in the texting phase after a few months of NC, and she seems interested in talking back to me. How often should I reach out to her if I want to get her back?

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

That's good! This depends on the situation though and how receptive your ex is when it comes to communicating with you. Allow your ex to reach out to you instead of you doing it all the time. Just learn to feel out the situation and be careful you don't appear too eager. Your situation is also very delicate so once you start to see some progress with your ex, then don’t go at it alone, especially if you're in doubt or don't know what to do next. Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@geneyumang9554 2 ай бұрын

why would you want your ex back to you! when she get her back blown out already by other dudes

@User-wollswoycegawage 5 ай бұрын

Because There looking for someone to rent them a blue sky

@patriciaharker4804 5 ай бұрын

I been 2 months broke up now I messaged to be friends he never text back he blocked me on everything it was a silly post broke us and I said something bad to him by angry but I said sorry straight away but he made his mind up he is stubborn I got over 60% on the quiz.

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

This isn't really a concerning issue, at least initially, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a7uEbJV6p5vZl6c.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : kzfaq.info/get/bejne/epd3o7VmsqfUgZ8.html Good luck!

@nimishapathak199 4 ай бұрын

My avoidant ex never returned. We didnt have a major issue to break up on. Its going to be a year and he never reached out. We both wished eaxh orher on our birthdays and thats it. No effort at conversation. What does it mean? He doesn't care?

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

He may still care but is reminded of the reason/s why you broke up in the first place, especially if the breakup is still fresh.

@heladds Ай бұрын

😳...guilty..stayed connected with my ex bc i dont want to lose him...now I realize I shot myself in the foot 😭

@BradBrowning Ай бұрын

Don't be so hard on yourself...because you're definitely not alone and this is the number one common mistake people make in the wake of a breakup. But how long have you stayed in contact? Watch this first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/hq52obVesrPLmKM.html Don't forget to check out my other videos or check out my 2.0 Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com/ so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bbCkoLmTqdHGnKs.html Best of luck!

@dEagz13 5 ай бұрын

What if you live together... own the house together. Dating for almost 9 years.

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

@cenius2370 5 ай бұрын

Hey Brad, sorry for the bother, haha.. I did the no contact rule. My ex was starting to date a new guy in a long-distance relationship.. But it turns out the guy has ghosted her for a week now she is scared something happened to him because he hasnt been online in any social media , and she is waiting until Monday to finally move on.. I keep trying to re attract her and it seems that she likes texting me and calling at night.. I can't seem to get her to flip the switch just yet. Granted her, and this guy never really started dating, I mean, he never asked her.. but I just can't seem to get her to stop feeling sad for him and notice me, haha To be honest, if this persists, I'll have to buy your coaching sessions. xD

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

No worries, I like helping people! :-) I suggest to strike a balance between trying to re-attract her and living your own life. As much as you're into this girl, it's important you don't appear like you're pining for her because if you do, she will never see your true value, yeah? And yes, hire me as your coach so I can be in a better position to help you further, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Talk soon?

@elpe7488 2 ай бұрын

What if during breakup and arguement you reached out to police or talking throughout lawyers for 3 months relationshipand sthg severe occured??

@BradBrowning 2 ай бұрын

There must be a good reason why authorities/lawyers have gotten involved, so think twice before trying to fix the relationship.

@Dayz_Ex 2 ай бұрын

I made all of these mistakes

@BradBrowning 2 ай бұрын

Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/heCGrNCK07eqhJ8.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nJ2qqLucktm6o30.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bLFjq9iXqt2pdps.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com

@user-zk7mc3jv5m 4 ай бұрын

I had a gut feeling from the start of the break up that he was seeing someone else. He lied to me as well as the new woman. He said that he loved her but now she has found out that everything he said to her was s due she has ended it and he has come home. Obviously I never stopped loving him I changed from looks, attitude, worked on what he said peed him off.. So what do I do now? The woman he cheated on me with has lots of yhe same traits as me. Very strange. Only difference was she was younger and had dark hair. Can I reattract him?

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

Is he making an effort towards you now and does he still respect you after what happened? Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, you have quite a unique situation and there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@Rjnsg77 5 ай бұрын

I texted my ex after a year of no contact and he didn't even answer me.. it was a casual text with no pressure.. I'm even more heartbroken now that he doesn't even care to respond

@jik7724 5 ай бұрын

Jesús loves you just heal it’s not worth it ❤

@dorotamartadzikon4157 5 ай бұрын

Don’t worry he will get a hit Just stay as far U can!!!!

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that. That's your biggest clue to consider moving on from this, especially if he's not single... and especially if it has this effect on your emotional well-being. This may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/beCgarZ3x8ungok.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com Take care!

@chrisdowning7543 5 ай бұрын

Hello Brad, you were Very helpful regarding me asking you about my ex unfriended me on Facebook. My question is should I wish my exs kids a happy birthday via her WhatsApp? Iv always got on with her kids. She dumped me August of last year, but we had a holiday booked to Dublin in December last year with myself and my ex and her 2 children. He had been together for over 2 years. She was reaching out with indirect direct messages up until going away to Dublin. When we got back that’s when she unfriended me on facebook. It’s been 3 months now of no contact on both sides. Her son’s birthday is in April next month. Do I wish him well? via her? she is a dismissive avoidant I’m almost sure of it. Thank you. Chris

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

Do you have direct message access to her kid and greet directly? You can do that instead of contacting your ex. Here are some (hopefully) helpful tips to guide you when it comes to an ex being avoidant: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jtWjZr1lzZqsfnk.html

@OzuahChiamara-hw4jx 3 ай бұрын

What if we agree to be friends but then i ghost him for 3 momths and then reappear

@BradBrowning 3 ай бұрын

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Do you think you're ready to give it a try? Watch this first to help set your expectations: y2u.be/82uUJ7kPXhE and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/b7JzZMiozKjPeYU.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working ONCE things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and the golden rules here: y2u.be/1kJ1ybuFIHE And lastly, depending on how you handled things all throughout the process, you may have to wait longer, which I’ve discussed here: y2u.be/OzVymYnQFTk Good luck!

@yunitayunita4060 4 ай бұрын

Hi brad, my ex texted me in no contact that so hard to move on from me, he asked me to move on and be friends, what should i reply?

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

Watch this first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ptyPls2rzbyvcY0.html

@abhishektripathi8526 4 ай бұрын

And what if its have been 4 years of no contact period

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

Do you want to test the waters with your ex? Since it's been many years since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/j7yGnL2evpjcYH0.html and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!

@khushbookhobragade007 5 ай бұрын

My ex unblocked me a few days ago and he is not talking to me I want him back what should I do please help me please please please 🥺🙏🏻

@oussamarizk758 5 ай бұрын

As a first step, you can know that he is opening a closed window for a communication. you have to wait, he has to reach out first. you can use the social media to post stories and events to allow him to reply or to say anything he can use to open a discussion

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

this really depends. How long has it been since the breakup? If it's within the 30-day period, I suggest to not pay attention to your ex's page/s in order to protect your own emotional/mental wellbeing, because folks do often tend to overanalyze during this stage. Here's a quick overview to help you familiarize things: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bbCkoLmTqdHGnKs.html

@Myrabug4444 5 ай бұрын

Hi what if they are a DA and they are always around for the kids.hes curious about me and shares info on his life which isnt much.

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

It's a good thing he's being responsible for the kids. Keep it strictly about the kids for now and remain cordial. Here's more information about attachment styles: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jtWjZr1lzZqsfnk.html In the future, if you're still not sure about what you're doing, I really suggest you sign up for my coaching program so I can assess your situation properly and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@roshainedimas7361 5 ай бұрын

I scored only 69 in your quiz? What should I do right now i really really want her back

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

Fading fast and therefore the need to act fast means to play your cards right from the get-go and not mess things up further, basically. Here's a quick overview: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rs2CY5aDyLucnas.html It's time to find a more positive outlet for your emotions. It's totally okay to cry your eyes out (just NOT in front of your ex and definitely not in social media), this is healthy, but try to balance it with other stuff. So keep your mind occupied, get busy with a lot of stuff like hobbies, work, etc. focus on what makes you feel good and take time to heal as well. Also read my Ex Factor Guide, which covers commonly possible ‘what if’ scenario and will give you pretty much everything you need to know, so read it many times over until you master it. The aim of the guide is basically to put you in the best position to get your ex back...and to avoid the pitfalls to increase your chances altogether. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!

@harshadajadhav3492 2 ай бұрын

Hey Brad...Thanx for the videos. Much appreciated. I went through a tough breakup, where things became nasty. My ex was in the complete scenario in moving on, without giving a hint of it and later I felt cheated by her being getting involved with one of my friend's. I didnt even have any idea about this whole scenario/ that this much was happening behind my back. Now that we are parts separated, I assume that she is no more in contact with that guy. I have tried to give her the complete space she need after a long chasing, which i realised much later. But, I don't know why, she is not really making me keep the space or even she's being jealous of me hanging out with few of close friends. She keeps on reaching out to me for some weird or silly reasons and blaming me now and then, where I have completely given up on the past negative feelings inside me. Could you pls advise what should be done,in such case?

@BradBrowning 2 ай бұрын

She's clearly projecting her own issues onto you and blaming you so she won't have to feel so guilty of doing what she has done. I suggest you consider moving on from this. I understand what you're going through. You know, moving on is a tricky process and the emotions come in waves. This video is for you: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Zpenqa-Exrmdj30.html And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/aKmRnrKAuN2tmY0.html or get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup guide as that will help you and your mindset to evolve from the breakup and therefore become the best version of yourself. Check it out at www.beatmybreakup.com

@harshadajadhav3492 2 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning Thank you Brad....this is much helpful!!!

@user-lw9xg2qj7p 4 ай бұрын

I fall for one guy with my whole heart but he clearly told that a guy talk with girl either for physical or for future motives..he clearly mentioned that future not possible between us and m not ready for physical without future..we haven't seen each other as person just connected online for few months..whats your view here to proceed @Brad?

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

He's hinting that he may not be ready for a committed relationship so unless you're okay with that, I suggest to open your dating pool and consider your other options. Give yourself the chance to give your heart to someone else, someone perhaps more compatible and who lives in your area so you can gauge chemistry and compatibility better. Good luck!

@user-lw9xg2qj7p 4 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning actually he is unstable due to his ongoing divorce & financial issues. While talking he gives me indirect hints like asking my home address, I found out partner, miss you, sending kisses..He also mentioned if practical possible marriage also wat if I go to outside for satisfaction..He loves to talk in that sense but I have never done that with him..m not sure if he feels m sexually incompatible due to my health issues? I asked him why I feel so much for him not only physical sense, he told I know that we both are spiritually connected to God..4 years back I texted him for marriage and this time he initiated..He says there is a loneliness killing me inside, emotions, love, attachment is what matters to him..there are lot of physical options to him bcoz he is dam handsome but he avoid them mostly..He told I never taken time for myself anyday, working day & night for family stability..2 weeks we r disconnected & will continue till 30 days...wl see what happened next, wish for us the best❤

@vaishnaviagarwal5311 5 ай бұрын

I don't know what's happening with mine one some times it seems that he is playing mind games and reverse psychology so that I can chase him from last 3 months we had been fighting and we use some bad words that hurt each other from last 1.5 months I have been trying to sort things and start a new fresh but he has been stuck on brk up and things lastly we broke on Monday and I didn't contact him but he call me yesterday and talk like nothing happened he still kept my gifts safe and with him can any one explain me what's going on or help me out could I still save this

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

What do you two always bicker about? Fighting is often unavoidable, but when it becomes too much, it’s time to nip the problem in the bud if you still can. So it's either that or you go on a break and discuss the logistics as well as how it should go and how long it should be. It's best to consider the relationship overall first, so watch this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jtt6eclmsMnMZaM.html Anyways it's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. This may help: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/eKh1m8SKmM2weas.html Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? It could also be you're too incompatible or stubborn to meet each other halfway. If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship, as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral. Here's how it can help you: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw

@knickstealeyedye7625 5 ай бұрын

Do you offer one on one coaching/help? I really need advice

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

Hi! Yes, I do. Check availability first at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@gtgauzy1031 4 ай бұрын

i got over my ex recently and she seems kinda angry

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

How long has it been since you two broke up? A breakup brings up all sorts of emotions especially if it's still fresh. Additional details here, too: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/hrRdY5qcptqtmqs.html

@user-mi6jv7mo4n 5 ай бұрын

my ex broke up with me yesterday. It mainly happened on religious basis. He's muslim and I'm hindu but i told him i dont have any problem in converting to islam all he have to do is convince his parents. Still he says there's no future of us altho we both love each other a lot. He couldn't sleep last night and he kept texting me from time to time. Told me that he is not able to sleep, he texted me in the morning too asking if i had waken up. I dont know if i should reply to him or maintain no contact but seeing that he is not able to sleep i wanna talk to him so bad. What should i do? Is there any chance it could work?

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

It's important you let him really miss you and let him think about stuff. If there's indeed a solution to the religious dilemma, he has to accept it on his own as well and own up to his feelings. But be sure to give him time and space to do that. So unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/m9GPZ9qh0LyaZpc.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jZ2ZdpCYrdO-YnU.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fbqaeKR4r724pXU.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mM1_epyklszFk2w.html

@user-fn2vh6ek8n 5 ай бұрын

Hey brad, me and my girlfriend of a year and a half broke up 2 weeks ago and am in no contact. Nothing bad happened in the relationship and we both made it clear that we love each other but we need to work through somethings. The first year was amazing and I had never been so in love with someone in my life. The spark we had was unreal for both of us. Long story short my dog passed away in December and her grandfather past away during the same time. Both of us fell into a rut for a couple months and stopped going out to dates and doing stuff together and just became home bodies. I was also going through some gut issues that consumed me and was destroying my skin and my confidence. Now I have figured out my gut issues since being split up and have began healing and feeling better. Im not sure where we stand with one another, the last conversation we had she said I will always have a special place in her heart. I want to reach out and tell her that I am getting better now but I know I should wait a little longer. What are your thoughts?

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

Give it at least a month where you take time to work and focus on yourself first, especially with regards to your health. So wait AT LEAST 30 days and don't rush, okay? You can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bbaTmaqWr9e5iaM.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qpx5aM5mmtbSc3k.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com

@Shahid-ld6wb 4 ай бұрын

Respectful brother : I begged for her and she didn't accept me now i understand the situation that i should not begged for her she has feelings for me but when i started begging i pushed her further away and i can feel it 😞 now i am in no contact for past 3 months and i said that i will back after somedays she the one who proposed me shes attracted to me now can i send her a mail that i have moved on or should i show her that i am not waiting for you ? I am so confused pls cure me if ok to send mail what should i send Tnx

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

Let your actions speak louder than words. Since it's been many months since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/j7yGnL2evpjcYH0.html and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!

@esegift9169 5 ай бұрын

😂what if you have tried to make up but still didn't work Best is to move on even If u still love him ❤ 7:42

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

That's right. Pat yourself on the back though because at least you tried? Oftentimes I find with my clients, the mistake is they appear way too eager with their exes when it comes to reconnecting and end up shooting themselves in the foot because that kind of eagerness actually pushes an ex away. So did you appear too eager? ?Without knowing anything about your situation I obviously can't tell but if you're convinced you've done everything right though and still got no results, then it may be best to move on from this. You can also get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup at www.beatmybreakup.com to help guide you on what more to do during this grieving process. Take care!

@LEE_EDITION11 5 ай бұрын

Couch we had a break up month ago I have gone for no contact she started stalking me and putting story sad and she want me to talk she showing she in pain so I have break the no contact and text her she was very happy and enjoyed the time and I have called her she was excited and enjoyed she want me to talk with her more so I have gone to meet her and ask to fix the relationship she is telling she is missing me and she is not want any commitment she want me to be in her friendzone so I have rejected her offer I want only commitment not a friendship with and again I have gone to no contact now I have blocked her in all the social media can I get her again for a commitment

@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын

Blocking her was unnecessary. I noticed a bunch of people having some problems reaching out later on because they've either deleted their ex, blocked (especially everywhere) or unfriended them, which creates an unnecessary dilemma really, if you ask me. The only reason why I suggest NOT to unfollow/block or delete an ex (that you want to get back with) is because you can, in fact, leverage social media to your advantage. Here's how: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/epd3o7VmsqfUgZ8.html and if you still want to find out what your chances are, please take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz

@LEE_EDITION11 4 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning yes couch now i have unblock her still now she is staking my last seen clearly she was curious and checking my last seen now what should I do to get her back