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They don't look for a husband, they look for attention.

These women are already married. Their husband’s name is Instagram.

When I was young, 50 years ago, these women "who wanted husbands" were said to "want a meal ticket." This problem recurres generation after generation. Men are accused of objectification, but really, it's these women who objectify themselves and men.

They forget that men are looking for someone who will love them.

i betting 90% arent looking for a husband, they are just taking part in the latest trend for likes and attention

Just a tick looking for a dog

The signs should say, looking for an ATM.

Walking the street dressed like a streetwalker is only going to get you attention from a certain kind of man.

I wanted a wife but all I got was court papers and an alienated child. Good luck out there.

Men should not walk away from these women. They should run.

Every time I hear "I'm a strong independent women". I just want to reach through the screen and tell them that is incredibly unattractive.

"Looking For A Rich Husband" Translation: "Maintaining my puffy lips is expensive!"

Dear strong, independent women: you don’t need a husband, you need a handy man. Good news, you’re making money now you can hire these men.

A woman that can be bought isn't worth having.

I'm turning 40 in a month. Been single for the past 8 years. Haven't had one relationship since. I'm just minding my own business (literally). As a male you want to start a family and have a wife and kids that love you and rely on you. I don't see that happening for me because women have changed their mindset quite a bit in the past 20 years. I don't see myself being compatible with anyone but then again I'm not actively looking for someone either. I guess you can say I enjoy my peace of mind.

Women today don't want to be married, they want to get married.

Modern woman are not looking for husbands. They are looking for a sponsor 🙏💯

" looking for a rich chump that I can leave whenever I change my mind"

My dishwasher stopped working...so I kicked her out.

All I can hear is that creature from Star Wars “it’s a TRAP” 😂

85% of the men on this planet know that this Invitation is not meant for them.

The greatest trick women ever pulled was convincing everyone they're not predators. There are two kinds of predators. One stalks, and the other lures. Sometimes it's both.

12:40 This woman at the end is amazing. I think that's what most men want, someone who will stand by you and make the relationship more important, while you do the same. I remember when my Ex bailed, we had 3 kids, and she had a daughter from a previous relationship... She just moved out, leaving me to work full time, and take care of 4 kids! She simply said, "Now you can see what it's like to have to take care of kids all day!" Yeah, I actually loved it. The youngest was 2, the oldest 6. We had a lot of fun together. She missed out!

Married so she can divorce for a payout and move on to the next

Their signs should read: "Looking for future alimony & child support payments."

Sign should read ,"I'm looking for attention."

They are like any other product: If it has to be heavily advertised and promoted, you can’t afford it!

Woman looking for a rich husband is like a 4 at best. She would be better off looking at the guys she friend zoned and settle.

Of course she wants a rich husband - there is no point in divorcing a poor one…

"I want to get married" and "I want to be a wife" are wildly different statements.

These women are displaying their masculine nature, not a feminine nature. They are hunters of men not hunters of dinner.

I applaud that black woman talking to her man when he was down and out. She is strong and independent and yet knows how to properly be in a sharing relationship.

They don't need a husband but a man-servant and a handyman.

Social media has ruined women and society.

Alex, I've watched countless KZfaq videos of yours now, and I can't go any longer without commenting. Your insights are absolutely brilliant. You are articulate, and intelligent and you express your ideas clearly and concisely. And without a teleprompter! I don't know where you gained your wisdom in your short years of life but your knowledgable videos are a gift to men and women everywhere. I'm in my seventies now and living ecstatically single, so your practical advice doesn't always relate to my situation or my life. But your insights are brilliant and I still learn a lot from you. I had to finally speak up and give you the compliment you deserve.

I gotta figure a real quality woman wouldn't need to do this.

I don't want a women who advertises herself on the internet.

When I do handy man chores, I charge $50/hr. Single women who sneer, it’s $75/hr.

Beautiful video one of your best ones, u were so engaging and your explanation so on point, with no shame or misoginy whatsoever

Thanks for the warning ladies!

In the 90's we called those knee high boots "fukk me boots". They were only worn by women who went to nightclubs, looking to get laid.

Most women are just along for the ride, they treat relationships like a theme park; jumping from one ride to the next trying to find the perfect experience.

Alexander, your keeping it real and raw, mah dude! Thanks for exposing the tomfoolery!

That video from HustlersNTheHood made me cry. 25 years of marriage, 5 kids, 2 divorces and I've never had that. I finally just gave up on it. I've been 100% single, celibate and alone for almost 15 years now. Gave the best years of my life to them and they took everything from me. Now I'm just old, sick, broken and nearly destitute. No one wants a man like that. No woman wants a man in failing health that's all used up...

As a male, I dont want to be a husband anymore, because I believe I cannot find a woman who wants to be a wife these days, so I just gave up...

Husband = provider-object. This is pure objectification of men.

Luckily, I've stacked up on popcorn. S1E1: Need no Man, E2: Rather with a bear, E3: She HuntsMan. I like the plot.

That clip at 12:41 literally had me in tears. *That* kind of thing is what so many men want; the love, the support, that stability even when crap hits the fan.

I remember one time this girl at work was talking like this but she emphasized she wasn't looking for a relationship. So I said, oh, so you want all the benefits of a relationship but without all the responsibility. I'll never forget the look on her face. Lol. Talk about a short circuit.

Just a tick looking for a dog.

True love ❤️ and devotion is sticking with your partner through the tough times in life; my marriage, I got seriously ill with 12 months to live and she stood by me, a few years later she was diagnosed with fatal cancer and even though I was shocked stressed etc I new I had to man up and look after her until the end ❤😢 RIP 🙏 love, thinking of you always xoxo 😘

GOOD on you to find this niche!!!!

They've been saying they don't need no man for decades. Now their crying they need a man. Let them soak in it for decades more.

Modern women have devolved into time, energy and resource vampires.

Girl in black: Looking for a husband Girl in white: Cooking for a husband Me: Girl in white wins.

If she's out on the street with a sign saying she's looking for a husband that's a bad sign. Its means they've forgotten how dating works.

Marriage is a financial trap. Very financially reckless. I lost 70% of my money, assets and home equity in my UK divorce despite her earning more and us only having 1 kid. Do not do it. It just takes 1 judge to ruin your life. Once you get married, she has all the leverage and power in the relationship because she can destroy you financially.

“I’m looking for a husband…. That meets my demands.”

Outraged Alex is the best Alex

That's a every poor expectation that women just need to catch meal ticket and they don't have to do anything for rest of their lives!

funny, she is holding up a sign saying she is looking for a husband and then when you walk up and say your looking for a wife she says "ohh sorry, not you"

Had a friend of mine marry a woman that thought like the young black woman that basically wanted a mechanic/bodyguard/servant. First time he asked her to make him a sandwich while he was mowing the lawn, trimming trees she refused. He took the time to explain that he didnt care specifically abou the sandwich, but that it was about equal effort. He was doing harder work for hours, so she could at least contribute support by ensuring he had the energy to continue. The sandwich was a "tool" she was handing him to help. It was her effort to help mow the lawn. She got it......for a while. The next time, he was building a bed for her, from scratch. He asked her to go to the store for glue and screws one day when he had to stay late at work, sent her a picture via text of EXACTLY what he wanted and which aisles they were in at the local hardware store. She didnt go because it was "too intimidating." When he got home he dismantled the bed to the point he had gotten it to and said since he had never built a bed before, finishing it would be "too intimidating." Again, she got it for a while. The last time, after doing a ton of work on her car and again asking her to do something dor him, she explained she was too busy with "her show." He finished the work, but then went in to have a conversation about contributing. He asked why they were married and what she thought she was contributing (they had no kids yet). Her answer was intimacy, loyalty, and good looks. He went into his office and wrote up bills for a weeks worth of mechanical work, yardwork, cleaning, cooking (which he did most of) carpentry work, bodyguard duties, groceries she ate, etc. , and then gave her a cheque for "escort" services for her contributions for a week plus her bit of cooking contributions. He explained that since all she contributed was intimacy, loyalty, and good looks, he was going to fire her and simply hire an escort since the transactional balance favored her so much, and she financially could not afford him and his time while he could easily afford hers, yet could live far cheaper and with fewer headaches without her. She sat stunned while he went and got her bags and told her to pack and get out. While he may have embelished a little bit, I've known the man for decades and trust that whrn he described these events to me, he wasn't embelishing. The actions he described also fit his nature, and knowing her for years, her actions described also fit her. Its a shame that feminism seems to have taught women that everything is transactional and they deserve the best while contributing nothing, that men are just servants. I feel sorry for any young man looking for a PARTNER in his life, someone that contributes as much as he does, because society hasn't taught women to do that. They want to be wives, but as you said, they think that is the final outcome and that they've made it and will now be treated like queens. I wouldn't want to be looking for a wife nowadays and fear for my son's future.

Very proud American men. Someone really needs to make one for team! And Mary one of this very attractive ladies. My great inspiring wisdom for today. Have a great fabulous wonderful day.😀

That last part made me tear up! Wow! Brothers, I hope you ALL get a woman like that. It’s your birthright.

100% just for clicks, they don't search for a husband one second.

I see this and imagine a snake laying on the sidewalk with a sign asking for prey to come to it and be eaten because it can’t be bothered to hunt.

Sign should read, ‘looking for a hand out 💰’

I get up in the morning and the first thing out of their mouth,or at they’re thinking the same, WTF are you going to do for me today?

The woman in the car talking to her boyfriend about having his back and not letting him fall was incredible ! Most men will never hear a declaration of love like that in their entire life.

You over-estimate the modern woman. "Me, me, me, me, me." And they'd be content to sit on a sofa surfing social media 12 hours a day if it's an option.

Excellent perspective

Bingo! You hit on something major at the very end! Our upbringing! I'm the product of a tragically dysfunctional family. My "slow-motion trainwreck" of a childhood basically set the stage for everything that went wrong in later life. "Pulling myself up by my bootstraps" was never an option. The psychological damage was complete by the time I was nine years old. It's for the best that I never married or produced children.

Women define success by the amount of work they avoid doing, sad but true.

Beautiful women with a sign saying "I'm looking for a husband" is just looking to get clicks and followers and monetize their looks. I'm positive that thousands of men said they would love to marry those women but they never looked though their comments. They don't really want a husband, they want someone to give them a life of a ease and no responsibility.

To be challenged & overcome ❤ is the only way towards growth 🙌! #reality #proverbs #wisdom

For that lady on the plane, if she can get that face put back the way it was, she might have someone take her up on her offer.

I'm laughing so hard my sides hurt. If these women think that walking down the street with a sign that says "looking for a husband" is going to work, I got news for them. Any man with sense that reads those signs coming at them should turn around quickly and RUN! Run fast, run far. If you're not that fast, just toss a few dollars in the air to divert their attention while you make your escape.

Hate to tell these strong and empowered women who are convinced they've got it so tough; you've got it about a easy as anyone will ever have it, or has ever had it, in the history of the world.

After my last girlfriend turned into a disaster and ended, I asked myself a very simple question, what am I doing wrong? I asked myself also what do I need in a woman? What characteristics must she have in order for it to last? It took maybe a year, but I came up with four characteristics that don’t just work for me, will work for everyone. It will work for women. It will work for men and they must have all of them. There is no compromise or you will fail. Those characteristics are: patience, understanding, steadfastness, and warmth. These four characteristics might sound similar and they may overlap, but they are very distinct. I looked back on every relationship I’ve ever had and every woman I have been with and realized all of them lacked all of these characteristics. You must have patience because everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect. Understanding, because much like patience everyone makes mistakes, and you must be willing to carry forward. Steadfastness, because much like the marriage vows you must be commited to being there through thick and thin. And warmth, because everyone needs someone to lean on, like that song. Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on. No one wants to be dealt with harshly when they stumble or fall. You definitely do not want to be left behind. Do not ask me what about this or what about that. Obviously things like loyalty and all of that must be there but if you have these characteristics, those things almost go without saying. And I’m telling you I’m 50 years old and I was married for 20 years. I’ve been in many relationships with all sorts of diverse women and I’m telling you I don’t care what you say You cannot compromise on this. The next person that you may try to get involved with if they do not have these characteristics you are better off on your own. It will not work, PERIOD!

The blob flight attendant just smiles and nods

Biggest difference between men and women. Women "I want a man who will love me and support me and do things for me." Men "I want a wife who will be my peace and I can love and build a life with." Men want someone to love but women want someone to love them.

my sign says IM looking for a rich wife. i will stay home raise the kids i will work out everyday and stay in shape you will take care of me. naturally i hold this sign shirtless.

I was thinking that maybe I'd get a maid. Find a place nearby for her to stay. Just someone to keep my house clean, fix my meals, and go away...

imagine a lion walking around with a sign: "I'm looking for a meal." expecting a gazelle to actually listen.....

They are not looking for a husband. They are seeking attention.

I have a covered wagon and oxen to pull it. I have it loaded with supplies to last a year plus tools to work the land. I am going to travel west until I find fertile farmland, and then I am going to stake a claim, build a cabin, plant crops, and raise a family. I am looking for a good woman that wants to come with me on this adventure. You will have to fight off Indians, deal with bears and wolves, help plow the fields, raise the children, and work your butt off. You will also need to slop the hogs, when I pull together the weans to get some. You should be willing to chop firewood. Women be like "I want a man that is already rich to pamper me and give me lots of money to spend on lavish shopping trips and vacations. My primary job will be keeping myself attractive, external affairs, and nagging for more money."

Always remember Brian Eno's song Cindy tells me "nobody wants to be a labourers wife saving themselves for insane readings" the rubicon was the seventies it's all over now

Wonder if they'd be willing to add, I'll even sign a prenuptial to their signs? Yea, like that would happen. 😅😅

25 yr old and here’s what I learned about women: they are a waste of time and money, and in most cases leave you broken. And I’m not quitting which is the hard part😂

Well, we knew the 304s were going to get desperate after being thrown off the carousel. It is still sex for resources. What is that called?

"I'm a strong, independent woman..." "I'm a nasty woman...." ...thanks for the warning. You just saved me a lot of time and effort.

looking for a husband... and filming it.. dont need more to say..

That's why in video games, if you play on hardest difficulty, you are respected. But if you play on easy difficultly, you are a filthy casual. When you overcome challenges, you feel rightfully rewarded.

They say they want a Husband, but they haven't changed their standards for what that man will be. 6'2" and have a million dollar income. So nothing has changed.

That clip where the woman was telling him he's not broke and is fine and supporting him is awesome Whoever that man is, I hope he works hard even if it's just for her because she's a real one

THE LEGAL SYSTEM Are any of these women seriously fighting for the divorce laws, child custody laws, domestic violence laws and false accusation laws to be made fairer to men???

They are looking for likes and attention. None of these silly TikTok trends are about finding a husband

You're exactly right. I figured out a bit late, that as a husband, I was like "an employee". I've been happily single for over 40 years and loving it. Possibly, some of these lovely ladies could benefit from some counseling and learn that a good man is a life partner, to be honored and respected. If they could learn that, they might be able to be married and stay married And, where are the pastors who should be teaching and counseling along these lines and looking for these wrong thinking attitudes? I don't see them out there. =PC=

Sign should read, “Show me the money,”.