Have you completed the series how was it for you hope it is helping your daughter 😊😊😊

Thank you for that

Same here.

you apply these tools to yourself and your own traumas f you have been following and doing the work which is recognize what these are. The work is the most difficult as it is the most painful.

Yes. Work on yourself and improve yourself. If you are autentic, he will perhaps open to the mending.

It helps you survive

Have you dealt with the shame? It sounds like the shame is running the show. If we are in shame, we cannot heal. It is a barrier to healing...as it lies and says that we are "bad" or "good" as an identity, vs that we make poor decisions at times. What we do and who we are is mixed up in shame. Then we become very defensive, resistant to change...because we feel we are being called bad, labeled bad....when that isn't the case. We can not heal until the core wound of shame is addressed, dealt with, fully and completely. Tim's series on shame are a great start.

@@Alphacentauri819 this program makes me feel shame saying this is wrong with you that’s wrong why bother trying and why bother changing No hope . I should of just not joined it it just made me me feel worse poking at myself constantly

@@lawrenceleclerc6664 our wounds distort our perspectives greatly. It changes our interpretations, of what others say...especially if we have a deep shame wound. That shame wound will make things sound shaming, when they aren't. It is the powerful distortion of shame. It keeps you imprisoned and unwilling to look inward. I haven't heard anything shaming from Tim. I can see that it can be taken that way, if shame is not addressed. He shows compassion towards the trauma that got a person to where they are. Shame keeps us from seeing/hearing compassion. Shame makes everything seem like a criticism of us, no matter if that is what's happening or not. Shame makes us hyper-defended. Shame resists healing...because one has to look at where one can change (which isn't saying a person is "bad" but needs to go in a diff ent direction to succeed). Shame wants to keep a person small. Shame is a liar. If you feel bad based on what he is saying...that means shame is driving the bus of your life. Knowing who you are, accepting yourself (flaws and all, we all have them) is the only way you can heal...and not feel pummeled but the idea that someone is putting you down. When we have inner confidence, we aren't affected by such things. Shame doesn't allow for inner confidence. We only can feel bad by what others say, if we already feel bad within. If we feel good within, love and accept ourselves...we are barely moved by what others say. Additionally, we hear other's messages more accurately...no longer warped by shame. Shame will keep you from becoming who you truly are. Shame will keep you trapped and helpless. There is no true self agency or power in shame. Please look up healing the core wound of shame. The personal development school has some stuff on it. (KZfaq) The crappy childhood fairy does too. I hope that you can hold space for yourself, shine light on the shame, become empowered and transformed in a way you never dreamed. It is possible. I have healed so, so much and am still on that path. I don't take the same things personally anymore. I feel much more at peace. I question my narratives. So many things. I wish you healing and peace💫

@@Alphacentauri819 You are well spoken and right about shame. Thank you for your kindness and compassion for others. God bless you always 🕊🕊💕💕

@@lawrenceleclerc6664 Sometimes it has to get worse before it gets better. Like an infected wound you have to cut open and clean out before it can heal.

No.

@@olgakim4848 why not? 🫡🇺🇸🇮🇱

I don’t like Jordan. He just likes to hear himself talk. He is an emotionalist and just go off peoples emotional responses to grow his audience. He speaks a little truth mixed with a whole lot of fluff.

Tim and Jordan both helped me a lot. But it would be an inevitable political powderkeg. I don't think Tim would want that target on his back. I know it's a pity but that's the world we live in. ❤❤