But murugi really has pretty eyes

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Lol, It’s Lydia realising there are avoidant women 😂 and as a representative of the avoidants, waahh si mlitukujia hii episode, si pole bas 😢 It’s just easier to switch off our emotions and go into robot mode to avoid hurt, it’s self preservation, we are really just scared little kittens on the inside 😅

Lydia's comment about rewatching girlfriends reminds me of something i came across... that people with anxious attachment styles like rewatching shows coz it gives them a sense of ease, coz they know what will happen next in the shows and how it will end

Am 21 years old but am learning my worth through this show..you ladies are like sisters I have never had..love your make up and outfits💥

Everytime I told this son of pharaoh 'I love you' he just smiled...one day I brought it up and asked why he never says it back and he responded ' but I don't hate you'....I just left....praying so hard I don't go for closure😂

My hot take is that men are just naturally worse at sustaining relationships. And I say this as a man who understands how patriarchy can isolate and distance a man from his own emotions. Where women will have close and intimate relationships with other women through out their life, (male friendships are not intimate or vulnerable 9 times out of 10) most men will never experience emotional and intimate relationships outside of their romantic ones. This makes it almost emotionally overwhelming to deal with another human being in this way especially if you weren't in any meaningful relationships prior. (Also why most men have avoidant attachment) This is why a lot of relationships end because the man was being distant and seemingly uninterested a few months down the line; which, in my opinion, is sparked by "burn out" from having to be vulnerable so often, having to look after another person's mental well being, and other stuff that are easy to do when you're in love. But fade after the honeymoon phase where that emotional inexperience starts to show. This can be overcome of course with therapy, self reflection, and a healthy growth mindset (measures I've taken myself) and may be less common than I lead on but I feel is true from my experiences and observations. Keep up the good content, you two are inspiring.

Despite having anxious attachment style and my man having avoidant, we compliment each other in the sense that, we are aware of our traumas and are working towards being better versions of ourselves. Sometimes it doesn't even feel like I am that anxious anymore or him avoidant. Thanks to Lydia and therapist Jeff, we had some of those serious conversations before, and I had my bare minimums....especially emotional security and how he treats me.

Who else feels like time is flying, literally 😅 unafumba kufungua macho wiki imeisha 😂 Anyway it's good coz it feels like Wednesday isn't that far away 😊❤

I loooove this episode, because it shines more light on the quality of a relationship. Even if a man doesn't necessarily do things that show that he hates you, it is more beneficial to know whether he actually loves you through these signs that you have given in the episode.

Lyd is making murugi think about he relationship even more this avoidant and secure attachment styles hits her deep down

“Red flags aren’t red flags if they’re what’s familiar” I needed to pause after that one!😮‍💨😮‍💨

This video is an hour long but I watched it for maybe an hour and 20min because i had to repeat so many good points. Yall are easy to watch and listen. In fact let me repeat some of your episodes whilst i wait for the next.

We always love love it here❤️❤️... The host looking good as usual . And yes today I've learnt my attachment style through the link you guys shared below. I'm Team Secure💯 .

Episode 111🎉 We thank God for TMI ❤

the test says am a disorganized fearful avoidant😪😪yawa

Definitely TMIIII 🎶💃🏿. Quick recovery Lyd❤. Love that lilac colour on Murugi🔥. I love how we are redefining some as Bare Minimum😅. Standards raised🥂😎.

Yes that part on going for holiday and not having the impulse to post. I'm with you on that

These days I just download. I don't even watch online anymore. I want to take it all in! Like a nice cup of coffee.

I am this old to learn about my attachment style. Thank you gals. The love for TMI glows and grows

Paused to just come and acknowledge that Murugi & Lydia's edges are giving life!!!!!! Now back to video

Thank you so much for this beautiful episode girls .. 💗💗

Only discovered you and love your podcast. 2 young ladies with alot of great advice. Well done you 2. You're doing a great job

That colour looks so good on you murugi ❤

Hey Queens looking gorgeous😍Lunch breaks are for TMI❤️

I the jiggling before starting when I saw "he loves you if "😍

Im inlove with Lydia's outfit ❤

OMGGGG!!! I loveeee The new intro This might be my favourite episode And its episode 111 I love it

Love what Murugi says. I also want to talk about things or know when to talk about them and solve them. When dating I was an avoidant but after marriage, you don’t want to be mad for days .

Definitely taking the test. Interesting. Thank you for sharing the link

"Those who don't trust,control" wuuuueh

Thank you for letting know my attachment style

It's great discovering my attachment style as secure

Such a good episode 😊You ladies are everything amazing.

I'm an avoidant, my man is secure. He is absolutely amazing! and being with him brings me closer to being secure...They exist for sure...but a rare breed... I value him deeply.

Am a new member to this channel and am glad to be here . Watching each episode is enlightening me to be better for me .i love what you ladies are doing keep it up.

My friend introduced me to TMI and I'm obsessed!!!!!!!!!!! My standard are on top rynooww can't even lie..... Its funny since I learned a lot of things I didn't know about myself and I'm not experiencing some things alone ,,,,like oooow woowww!!!!!!!!!!!

This was hilarious and also eye opening since we are single 😂😂aki my man

😂😂😂,not the little " herpe"😂😂😂 am on the floor,,,,Lyd soo funyy....im definitely getting my bar high with every episode too 💯💯

Love the lighting in this video, its giving 🥰

I think anxious are attracted to avoidants because in the beginning, avoidants give cool, calm, collected vibes that anxious attachers crave. It gives stability

The last last chapati waahhhhh🤣🤣🤣🤣That's true love right there

Yoh !!!just the other weekend his friends were like we've never seen him like this😂😂

Here for my weekly dosage😊😊🤗

I've been in situations where a guy I'm dating is jealous of how I talk about my dad. I'm still young, so I hope I'll figure it out and keep my husband to be first. I'm extremely sapiosexual, Murugi I feel it, trust me I've stayed in a toxic relationship coz the guy was so smart. He lacked emotional intelligence though ...pure madness

Am loving TMI,.....BEST PODCAST 💪keep up girls am in my 20's am learning and unlearning........🙏

"If you don't love us just say ,so that we can block you😂😂😂" we love you big sisters❤

You ladies are hilarious😂. Love.

The parting shot😂😂😂

When is government allocation security to these two treasures ? Murugi and Lyd ♥️♥️

Wow🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 You guys mentioned my comment. I love you guys

Love this ❤..love your intro❤

Murugi I loved your makeup. So on point

1.spiritual 2.mental 3.financial 4.emotional 5.physical

It's a mystery how I watch TMI for 3hrs and it's originally for 1 hr😮😮😅but I'm always posing and taking notes literally 😂😂😂😂

Love you all❤

A single babe here,will be back to give reasons of how "my man " loves me😂prayers queen betweeners

That 'wasilipe tu' took me out🤣🤣🤣🤣

I agree with Murugi about sex in marriage...the pleasure after marriage can ease things into conversation. Also duty! Because he has to be dutiful ama?

You r such an encouraging soul,,, from Lyn show

I LOOOOOOOVE it here!🥰

Do we really have to wait till nextweek😢😭loved this episode ❤

My man for sure loves me❤

I love you ladies ❤❤❤ I took the attachment test and I came out *secure* I think my parents did well with early childhood. Only that our relationships has become quite challenging, because I wouldn't allow them project their fears and disappointments on me. I feel like that will be a lot on my shoulders. I want to live life to the fullest and not leave in someone else's regrets in life.

What a way to end 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Murugi umeguza wengi

hoping to see "she loves you if" version :>

I really needed this session 😂😂thanks

Murugi is sooo perfect 😭😭

"Don't come here telling us he loves just because he brought a glass of water "😂😂 Murugi u are an attacker😂😂😂 jokingly

Re-watching...i really need to.. this show is👌

Yassssssssssss🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤... I love the duo and I thought they should know it ! ❤❤❤❤

😍Wednesdays are definitely for TMI😘 I LOVE EVERY EPISODE

I knew my husband was the one when he stood up for me when his friend was being racist in my abscess...

I'm here and I can't even relate a thing.😅

I normally take like 2hrs watching tmi coz I have to rewind till my mind processes but this one I'll watch twice for sure

Always waiting for Wednesday❤

Always waiting for Wednesdays❤🤗

But surely Lydia 😂😂😂😂😂😂aty the quality of heerr husband

Anytime❤❤❤

As for us, we are just there

It's the 'That's really dump' for me 😅

My take home from this episode....alooooot 🤗😍☺

The shade in this episode 😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂 the bar is higher than your man bringing you water 😢😂

Y'all are looking freeeeeeshhh

I always sing with you guys tmiiiiiiiiii❤😅😂 content is on firee

"5 page power point presentation as to why you should get 300 bob" 😂😂😂😂😂😂very funny

Fearful avoidant here😂

Waiting for next episode upload🥳🥳

am a new follower here and am loving it 😂❤you guys are so real

Did the quiz and am secured I felt good. Hahaha

Wednesday class in session. let's nduthis!!!!

Lyd's Outfit 😍😍😍😍😍 puurrrr

Wednesday Therapy 💆🏾‍♀️

It's my birthday but I have been waiting for this episode like my life depends on it🤣🤣🤣Best birthday gift.

That guy Lydia was talking about the one with the secure attachment...I feel really bad guys my bf is like that but I took it like a bare minimum 😢 feeling so guilty right now

I'm a secure beb 😚😚 but with an anxious default 😢

i have done the attachment test. I am a Dismissive / Avoidant Attachement

Needed this 😅..love from Uganda❤

Whats a lil herp,a lil gonnorreah,lol.....i lve the sarcasm.

"am I a spoon or fork to you"😂😂😂