I knew the friendship was over when...💔 - Ep 95

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TMI Podcast KE

TMI Podcast KE

Жыл бұрын

Friendship heartbreaks can leave you wrecked ❤️‍🩹 and no one's ever really ready for it. Today, we're looking at examples of how people knew their friendships were over so that we can all learn about what to look out for.
How did you know your friendship was over and how did you deal with it? Tell us in the comments below👇🏽
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@FirMoje
@FirMoje Жыл бұрын
I knew the friendship was over when there was no favorable environment to share good news or challenges. When all conversations felt like walking on eggshells
@Nyumbazetumgt
@Nyumbazetumgt Жыл бұрын
I agree
@ruthmemo4209
@ruthmemo4209 Жыл бұрын
Word
@gracemukami4557
@gracemukami4557 Жыл бұрын
Same
@doreenonekalit9888
@doreenonekalit9888 Жыл бұрын
Been there too
@preciouschemutai1321
@preciouschemutai1321 Жыл бұрын
​@@Nyumbazetumgt😊
@thediychannelbybecky6315
@thediychannelbybecky6315 Жыл бұрын
I knew the friendship was over when she kept speaking fear into a big goal I was about to execute
@lynnettelucy1551
@lynnettelucy1551 Жыл бұрын
Rule to lending money :only lend a specific amount of money you can afford to lose.. as simple a that
@ken4722
@ken4722 Жыл бұрын
My thing with friendships, I categorize people as FRIEND or FRIENDLY. We could be drinking buddies for years but I do not consider you a friend. You are a good time, but we are not friends. I have seen many people confuse the two and then get dissapointed when people don't meet their expectations. Also, throwing around this friendship tag explains why people are so quick to conclude a friendship is over over petty reasons
@wangarikariuki6522
@wangarikariuki6522 Жыл бұрын
Yup! Co-sign on this. Many people confuse who's a friendly acquaintance and an actual friend
@nikkymwihaki1436
@nikkymwihaki1436 Жыл бұрын
I agree. I don’t put all my friends in one basket,that way I know who to go to according to what I need. The friend I call for mimosas at 11:00am can’t be the friend I’m being vulnerable with.That way,you avoid the petty stuff and you learn to manage expectations.
@_patience_
@_patience_ Жыл бұрын
Okay, i know Lydia said no one likes introverts 😂 but let me tell you there is nothing better than being comfortable in your own tu little space.
@_patience_
@_patience_ Жыл бұрын
@Lydia K.M. Love to see it babes 🔥❤️
@maryritanjoki6794
@maryritanjoki6794 Жыл бұрын
P1
@simplyatosh
@simplyatosh Жыл бұрын
So True there is always something about enjoying your own company 😊
@kazmorich
@kazmorich Жыл бұрын
@Lydia K.M. I am soo introverted, I literally have only one friend a travel mate and we don't really meet that much, so this friendship conversation kept feeling so mentally tiring for me but I really enjoyed the show.
@InspiredFeetSafaris
@InspiredFeetSafaris Жыл бұрын
Great insights TMI. Here’s a suggestion, there should also be an episode of “I knew this truly my friend when… “
@missuniverse7961
@missuniverse7961 Жыл бұрын
true, this would allow us to understand who we should categorize as friends
@wangarikariuki6522
@wangarikariuki6522 Жыл бұрын
A friend sleeping with your boyfriend or your husband is the same. They both got to go. A husband sleeping with your friend is like sleeping with your sister. It matters WHO a husband cheats on you with
@jacklinekendikinoti
@jacklinekendikinoti Жыл бұрын
I knew the friendship was over when they only show up for you when you are wining and ghost you when things are going wrong in your life.
@ichooseviolence2532
@ichooseviolence2532 Жыл бұрын
Maybe you ask for too much??? Coz ladies wueeh!!
@ken4722
@ken4722 Жыл бұрын
I feel like you guys brushed off that money comment so quickly but its valid. I guess it could be because both of you are doing well financially and rarely borrow from each other. Borrowing among friends shows you a lot about people's characters. It reveals a lot about patience, respect, and communication. My friend of 10 years+ and I had to decide we wont be lending each other money unless its really really really necessary cause it almost ended our friendship multiple times
@dorahmulinge3800
@dorahmulinge3800 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree!
@imungukalevera8671
@imungukalevera8671 Жыл бұрын
Yes. Money issues are heavy. If the 20k you lent a friend was your last cash, it can really mess you up when they don't pay up.
@carolinewainaina4426
@carolinewainaina4426 Жыл бұрын
It's weird how people hear different things This was one of the comments that took too much airtime and murugi said they would talk about it more
@ken4722
@ken4722 Жыл бұрын
@@carolinewainaina4426 and thats okay. we all interpret things differently as long no one is abusing the other, it expands a conversation
@carolmutua5266
@carolmutua5266 Жыл бұрын
I agree. I work hard for my money and I budget it carefully. You can't just be playing games with my blood and sweat.
@anitatsaura4707
@anitatsaura4707 Жыл бұрын
I knew friendship was over when she would react differently when i return back the energy and vibes she poses to me🤦🏽‍♀️
@wendywangarew6379
@wendywangarew6379 Жыл бұрын
I knew the friendship was over when she told me her hubby didn't want us to be friends anymore because I was at that moment,single..I had just gotten out of a 9yr abusive relationship.
@princessm2893
@princessm2893 Жыл бұрын
😢
@LolaBugzy85
@LolaBugzy85 Жыл бұрын
Sadly women we will always choose a man over female friendships. That also shows she has a very insecure man.
@deborahmaangi40
@deborahmaangi40 Жыл бұрын
Why am I thinking that she was just hiding behind her hubby! Just come out clear and say that you wanna call it quits. Leave that hubby alone. It is not him who is his friend. It is you!
@wendywangarew6379
@wendywangarew6379 Жыл бұрын
I got the same vibe too
@anneodongo7966
@anneodongo7966 Жыл бұрын
I can relate
@karenmalakwen907
@karenmalakwen907 Жыл бұрын
Ended a 20 year friendship due to disrespect and jealousy on her part. She was the kind of friend who would rejoice when things weren’t going well for me. And went ahead to make false allegations about my life. Good riddance to bitter friends. So much peace and positive energy surrounds me now.
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
Sorry about this. We hope you find the friendships you deserve.
@hakayi9130
@hakayi9130 Жыл бұрын
I totally see how Lydia and Jo's friendship is God-ordained. Its so deep and unique. More like a divine gift honestly. ❤️
@Lily_muthengi
@Lily_muthengi Жыл бұрын
I love this duo
@TheGushy
@TheGushy Жыл бұрын
It’s truly beautiful….I was looking for this comment
@debraotieno5506
@debraotieno5506 Жыл бұрын
I knew the friendship was over when she was consoling my man after the breakup and them making me to be the bad without hearing my side of the story.... The betrayal still hurts
@aphrodite1699
@aphrodite1699 Жыл бұрын
Not everyone deserves a break-up conversation, they know what they are doing. Let it go and move on
@stellahwanyoike7865
@stellahwanyoike7865 Жыл бұрын
👌🏾👍🏾!!!!
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
True
@meganwambui8485
@meganwambui8485 Жыл бұрын
True
@joankamau6669
@joankamau6669 Жыл бұрын
Spot on 👌
@charitymucheru9487
@charitymucheru9487 Жыл бұрын
Personally, I firmly believe in that saying of if am not invited I will not go,if am not told I don't ask,coz I feel if I was really meant to be there,as in, am not an afterthought, they would have straight up asked me,or told me if I was meant to know! Let's be honest, if you are being ignored or excluded,someone is feeling some type of way about you...I am not one to force issues!!This is me matching the energy 👊
@ms.Waldorf
@ms.Waldorf Жыл бұрын
This is the hill I’m willing to die on! Just like that saying “ if they wanted to they would “
@allymwash16
@allymwash16 Жыл бұрын
This one I agree
@shammahnzaana214
@shammahnzaana214 Жыл бұрын
I might as well qualify for TMI ambassador at this point. Always the first to tune in. Telling as many people as I can to subscribe... Crossing my fingers for that Uganda live experience🎉
@kirabozeridahsarah
@kirabozeridahsarah Жыл бұрын
This is so true Shammah am here because of you. Big love
@shammahnomwesigwa7776
@shammahnomwesigwa7776 Жыл бұрын
same here, namesake!!
@wangarikariuki6522
@wangarikariuki6522 Жыл бұрын
About cutting off communication with your ex boyfriend, we need to realize that some people are great humans on their own merit, outside of a relationship. You could have dated someone who had great connections (as a friend) with your friends. This is called adulting and we are not in high school
@surpeleisurpelei7501
@surpeleisurpelei7501 Жыл бұрын
The issue is not the ex was a monster per se. They could've been soild and the breakup cordial. Ultimately, it boils down to which relationship outweighs the other in terms of importance. If it's the friendship, an honest conversation ought to be had on how to proceed. Most often than not, though, even the most cordial breakups need SPACE and TIME for both parties to move on. So, as the friend, centering onself and deciding it's now about you and how both parties have to remain your besties equally does not help either, as now you remain the one that keeps them stuck, reminding them of the ex they are trying to get over. Adulting is understanding not everything is about you and sometimes, you have to take a backseat; pick a side; allow matters to simmer down; people to heal.
@MaryAnneAchieng
@MaryAnneAchieng Жыл бұрын
Mine was a few years later than I should have, but it was over when I had the difficult conversation about how she did a hurtful thing and she said if she had to do it all over again she wouldn't change a thing 👀 🚮
@msnahwera
@msnahwera Жыл бұрын
Who is hitting anyone in this day and age? Also on moneyand friendships, we have a friend who never lends us money regardless what you need it for, we came to a conclusion that she doesn't want to cost the friendship over failure to pay it back, so we also stopped asking from her. It's totally understandable.
@faithmeg9701
@faithmeg9701 Жыл бұрын
These ads are so well timed😂😂Murugi talks of the former friend who said their ideal man was her man. Then an ad comes on😂It's like let's all just pause and internalize the level of audacity the friend had bc it's too shocking to move on😂😂
@ayumasore6931
@ayumasore6931 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@norahkaranja4054
@norahkaranja4054 Жыл бұрын
People got a lot of audacity ...😅😅😅😅😅
@kazmorich
@kazmorich Жыл бұрын
I finally put a finger on the one thing I totally couldn't figure out about your friendship. It is God-ordained. That's deep!
@gracejemimah3182
@gracejemimah3182 Жыл бұрын
I knew my friendship was over when it became emotional draining where i was there for her kinda like I acted like her therapist but when I was emotional down she was always busy cooking, talking to the people around her and I had cut her off twice and she came back and asked what went wrong and i explained how i felt and she was so sorry and asked for another chance only for her to do just the same exact things where when she was emotional down she would even have airtime to call and vent but when i call when I'm emotionally down she would say she's cooking, she is talking to someone random person next to her and when I told her she tried her best to justify and I realized she will never change so I decided it was time for a "girl bye" moment.
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
We’re sorry you went through this
@gracejemimah3182
@gracejemimah3182 Жыл бұрын
@@tmipodcastke thank you
@everlyneoluoch2509
@everlyneoluoch2509 Жыл бұрын
I knew our friendship was over when i was the one was constantly checking out if we were okay. My friend was felt like am the one who needed her as a friend more that she needed me. It was emotionally draining.
@Aswito_MadamSports
@Aswito_MadamSports Жыл бұрын
Girl, been there
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
Again with the one-sided relationships
@KM-Media_254
@KM-Media_254 Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate this episode, You've literally voiced our experiences over and over and probably saved us from impending dangers with toxic friendships.
@judymainalifestyle3005
@judymainalifestyle3005 Жыл бұрын
I love this; kindly do one more episode about friendships❤ Am really learning, happy to hear you'll do more of this🎉🎉
@LolaBugzy85
@LolaBugzy85 Жыл бұрын
Another one... I knew the friendship was over when I was sick and she was working in a certain hospital in Nairobi and my mum took me there. My mum asked her to check up on me before she left for her shift she declined. She was mean to my mum. My mum asked me" hao ndiyo marafiki wako?"😢😢 That and that moment I lost her number and she had the audacity to send me a congratulatory message on my wedding day. 😏
@kuiskitchen4356
@kuiskitchen4356 Жыл бұрын
Maybe she had a bad day? Did you check with her after that?
@LolaBugzy85
@LolaBugzy85 Жыл бұрын
@@kuiskitchen4356 She actually told my mum she didn't have time she was in a rush. I was literally a few metres away from the reception she would not have died checking on me. Halafu huyu ni mzazi. How would you feel your mum being treated like that. Afadhali angesema let me talk to someone to check up on her as I am in a hurry. You treat my mum or even my dad like that I have no business being your friend.
@christinekimeu4539
@christinekimeu4539 Жыл бұрын
I knew the friendship was over when it was only me who had to be understanding , support them, trust them but when it was my turn to receive that back I only got jugded .
@esyesther6282
@esyesther6282 Жыл бұрын
so am 18 and i know maybe am still young and i havent figured it out but i felt the part where you guys were talking about the other persons character and values.....honestly sometimes friends guage themselves in situations( like you said fighting and all that)and expect you to be part of it!which at the end of the day drains your energy and you just dont feel like being part of whatever is going on.....idk if all ot this makes sense but i wish i would elaborate further...
@mukaminkoroi5918
@mukaminkoroi5918 Жыл бұрын
Thoroughly enjoyed this topic🤌🏽 I have truly laughed 😂😂😂I'm down for the friendship segment
@Spinkly
@Spinkly Жыл бұрын
This episode has made me really want to reevaluate my friendships 😭
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
Please do
@akinyisarah305
@akinyisarah305 Жыл бұрын
I think some friends use the words "Lend me money" but deep down they believe you should just give it to them. That's why some give you attitude when you ask to be paid.
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
So true!
@beloncekamz2821
@beloncekamz2821 Жыл бұрын
This topic was so relatable💯friendship breakups😢. Appreciate the consistency warembo👏🏾👏🏾💐💐. Definitely TMIIII🎶
@wellnessbyjf9390
@wellnessbyjf9390 Жыл бұрын
Love the conversation.... mambo ya friendships.. Wueh 😅
@shammahnzaana214
@shammahnzaana214 Жыл бұрын
I have been impatiently waiting for this ‼️
@oyokainzbauer8509
@oyokainzbauer8509 Жыл бұрын
I knew we were done when a friend pretended to not have seen me twice even after waving at her like crazy
@idanjeru6134
@idanjeru6134 Жыл бұрын
I am Lyd's mom when a friendship ends. You're completely out of my mind, to me you don't exist. So yes, we'll sit in the same room and I'll be completely fine with it. Completely at peace. We both deserve to here. Rightfully so. Truth is when i leave the room, I can't tell what they wore, make-up they had on or whatever. This comes with healing from that particular transition though. Infact you feel damn empowered after leaving the room😅😂😂 Healing feels so good you'al 😂😂😂
@stephaniewakesho1264
@stephaniewakesho1264 Жыл бұрын
It's definitely TMIIIII♪🎉❤
@edinahkendi9871
@edinahkendi9871 Жыл бұрын
I would love to see also ..I KNEW THE RELATIONSHIP WAS OVER WHEN..😅😅we could share alot
@cikanyoro
@cikanyoro Жыл бұрын
For me feeling like am being taken for granted. The moment I start feeling like our relationship is not valuable to you. I am out. Being taken for granted is the worst feeling😢😢
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
So true!
@Tessy-Lisanza
@Tessy-Lisanza Жыл бұрын
Ooooooooh l got triggered... I knew the friendship was over when l was really praying she shouldn't text me or call me.
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
This is definitely a sign to end things 🫠
@found151
@found151 Жыл бұрын
I liked the episode. So much to learn!
@dianadavid899
@dianadavid899 Жыл бұрын
I knew the friendship was over when she cropped me out of a celebratory post which 70% referenced a Project that I initiated and build up together with her and another lady. Anyway, we move ❤, we grow , we learn ❤.
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
This is brutal! We hope you managed to get credit for the work and we also hope you went ahead and found amazing friendships.
@lynnetirungu3021
@lynnetirungu3021 Жыл бұрын
This conversation came in soo handy
@christinenjogu
@christinenjogu Жыл бұрын
Yes please on the money and friendships episode
@sincerelysylviaK
@sincerelysylviaK Жыл бұрын
Waiting for finances talk. Thanks for this 😊
@eunicewangari35
@eunicewangari35 Жыл бұрын
I knew our friendship was over when she tried to pimp me to her male friends...then I confronted her and she said she didn't do that
@happinesskipeja1334
@happinesskipeja1334 Жыл бұрын
I knew the friendship was over when I brought up the conversation of the way she hurt me when I needed help and she always turned he back from my need ,,and during the conversation she said very mean things I was so hurt and that's when I let her go
@carolwachira3541
@carolwachira3541 Жыл бұрын
oh yes! we definitely need a part 2 of this.
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
We do!
@boldisbeautiful2684
@boldisbeautiful2684 Жыл бұрын
I knew friendship was over when i moved towns and communication ended. I know distance can do a number...but check up here and there should suffice you know
@cest_sa_belle
@cest_sa_belle Жыл бұрын
I don't know why this video has triggered me so much. I felt bad for losing a certain friend but this video makes her such a huge red flag😢gosh
@evalynesein4798
@evalynesein4798 Жыл бұрын
I loved this episode, just wow❤❤
@minayomuya
@minayomuya Жыл бұрын
Anytime you lend money, you risk to loose either: 1. The money ( You forget about it and you keep the friend) 2. The friend ( You get your money but in such bad terms and you loose the friend) 3. Both ( They never pay back and you are done with them)
@Chepchumba_Barno
@Chepchumba_Barno Жыл бұрын
Am watching this talk and realizing that I have the best friendship circle
@anngracearchie5965
@anngracearchie5965 Жыл бұрын
I knew the friendship is over when i was pregnant with my first child , she was pregnant with her second i was really excited we were going through the journey together, she gave birth first to a beautiful baby girl i visited encouraged her and what not tell me why when she came to see me and my baby her mood instantly changed, and she left my house a few hours calling to check if she had reached home i was blocked!!!
@user-jz7rt7uo2d
@user-jz7rt7uo2d Жыл бұрын
That's weird.
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
This is strange…
@brendahodongo1727
@brendahodongo1727 Жыл бұрын
My two role models,i love you both so much!!!!!❤
@nyamburakimani3726
@nyamburakimani3726 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou for the commitment, actually my most serious commitment right is btwn this podcast and I ,we all in a while blown healthy rshp.
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@janetwakilo3095
@janetwakilo3095 Жыл бұрын
Loved this ❤❤!
@sharonwanjiru269
@sharonwanjiru269 Жыл бұрын
Been waiting for this one !
@LIFEWITHROROO
@LIFEWITHROROO Жыл бұрын
I always wait for the “It’s definitely TMI” part😂🥰
@bettymuthua9106
@bettymuthua9106 Жыл бұрын
Me you same whatsapp 😅
@euniceirungu2276
@euniceirungu2276 Жыл бұрын
Some friends are seasonal and that’s ok. Some friends are like super glue and that’s ok. Learn to embrace both…
@julzkimathi
@julzkimathi Жыл бұрын
Jo, call Lydia, she is giving you details on her every move!😂😂
@dianebrooks5031
@dianebrooks5031 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂How was kilifi? You've tanned!! Good night! This is a very good conversation, I value my friends alot. They are sisters I never had. They are Very supportive and fun to be around. Loved the conversation!! Great tips as well.
@shammahnzaana214
@shammahnzaana214 Жыл бұрын
24:06 PTSD😭😭😭😭😭 30:29☠️no pllllleeeeaassseee 35:07 Yessssssssssssssss‼️
@Bee-wd4mh
@Bee-wd4mh Жыл бұрын
Totally enjoyed this! Please keep the friendship series coming!❤️
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
Will do!
@janetkan3242
@janetkan3242 Жыл бұрын
I knew the relationship was over when she took a loan which I guaranteed as a friend and she defaulted and ran away.
@charity778
@charity778 Жыл бұрын
I know my friendship is over when somehow I feel like a third wheel..nd when you want to outshine me in almost everything we do together rather than being neutral..I believe if we really friends we don't have to compete but embrace each others strengths nd weakens...
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
So true! Their win should be your win and vice versa😊
@ngaatendwechikobvu
@ngaatendwechikobvu Жыл бұрын
I knew the friendship was over when they were not there to support for my wedding literally no interest whatsoever.
@wanjirumuratha8933
@wanjirumuratha8933 Жыл бұрын
I loved this 😁💖
@user-jz7rt7uo2d
@user-jz7rt7uo2d Жыл бұрын
My best friend got drunk and started talking to me condescendingly infront of her boyfriend. She implied that am a hypocrite coz am introverted and I don't warm up to strangers as fast as her.
@nyawiish.2303
@nyawiish.2303 Жыл бұрын
Your best friend is a she?
@user-jz7rt7uo2d
@user-jz7rt7uo2d Жыл бұрын
@@nyawiish.2303 Yeah. Am female too.
@emiendege
@emiendege Жыл бұрын
Well this is alot
@ireneshikami5200
@ireneshikami5200 Жыл бұрын
Gosh am so so sorry ,hugs
@missuniverse7961
@missuniverse7961 Жыл бұрын
i knew the friendship was over when i could nolonger talk about my good moments or evn my bad moments. i was at a point i would block the amount of information i give.
@ivymboya7400
@ivymboya7400 10 ай бұрын
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@Mercieszone
@Mercieszone Жыл бұрын
The conversation i just needed to hear👏
@ivymboya7400
@ivymboya7400 10 ай бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nsqbeaReprrNhHk.htmlsi=lsUbZkJHjxKA8ntw
@stacygitonga5758
@stacygitonga5758 Жыл бұрын
For some reason this episode is deep😢 can't wait for the next two💜
@justneemo_
@justneemo_ Жыл бұрын
I knew the friendship was over when I realized I was the one giving in a lot and most times calling, texting, looking for her while she never appreciated any of my efforts. 😂😂
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
One sided relationships are a no!
@lydiamuthondu8590
@lydiamuthondu8590 Жыл бұрын
Please we need a full episode of friendship and money!
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
We’ve covered this in previous episodes but it’s a good idea!
@joynkatha6893
@joynkatha6893 Жыл бұрын
The refusing to pay back my money, is something that would make me cut someone off
@hwattstuff9822
@hwattstuff9822 Жыл бұрын
Love from Melbourne ❤️❤️❤️ u make my Wednesday evenings 😍
@kerenmaina5430
@kerenmaina5430 Жыл бұрын
Samee❤😊
@MichellMukami
@MichellMukami Жыл бұрын
I am like LYD once am done with you we can be in the same room but in different world as far as I am concerned.
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
Keeping it respectful but distant
@wacukakangethe4281
@wacukakangethe4281 Жыл бұрын
I knew the friendship was over the moment i got pregnant and after delivery our conversations become less also she started to make not so good comments about my daughter. I knew we were done been friends
@shizma7917
@shizma7917 Жыл бұрын
My friend pushed me because she felt entitled to my life!onces i refused to follow her orders😢. Thats day the friendship died it was toxic
@judymainalifestyle3005
@judymainalifestyle3005 Жыл бұрын
Am in🎉
@faithwainaina8504
@faithwainaina8504 Жыл бұрын
You can tell the growth with Joan
@wacekewanjoroge6679
@wacekewanjoroge6679 Жыл бұрын
I think alot of this could be avoided if y'all stop throwing the word "friend" loosely. Some are just family,acquaintances,collegues, school mates period,someone you used to know not FRIENDS.. When you throw in the label friends,you have expectations and when they are not met y'all start labeling them as Toxic friends..they warent friends in the first place hunnie!!
@soniatumusiime6835
@soniatumusiime6835 Жыл бұрын
Right?
@kuiskitchen4356
@kuiskitchen4356 Жыл бұрын
Louder 🗣️
@ms.Waldorf
@ms.Waldorf Жыл бұрын
Your right!
@aliceneba
@aliceneba Жыл бұрын
Hi, it would be nice if the podcast dropped on podcast platforms at the same time as KZfaq.
@_patience_
@_patience_ Жыл бұрын
Yeah, for babes who are on the go.
@ivymboya7400
@ivymboya7400 10 ай бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nsqbeaReprrNhHk.htmlsi=lsUbZkJHjxKA8ntw
@mwendenyaga91
@mwendenyaga91 Жыл бұрын
Unpopular question? What if this friend with no values same as yours is the one friend that really holds you down when you are low and there for your highs.. like thru thick and thin 😮. I think I'd keep them as one.
@Lavvvvvyyyyy
@Lavvvvvyyyyy Жыл бұрын
That one's a keeper♥️
@doreenonekalit9888
@doreenonekalit9888 Жыл бұрын
Some relationships are just meant to be for good reasons. It's always nice to have at least one great friend in a lifetime.
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
So true!
@kazmorich
@kazmorich Жыл бұрын
Totally true! I don't like crowds myself. Others are just acquaintances but one or two real friends.
@edinahkendi9871
@edinahkendi9871 Жыл бұрын
😅😅Not me relating to the Michael and Paul wedding I cut Shelby off immediately when Paul met her before the wedding..
@lindaojoro3375
@lindaojoro3375 Жыл бұрын
Can we talk about business and friendships, do you guys advocate being in business with your friend, I was called bossy just because I handled business differently
@deemb5284
@deemb5284 Жыл бұрын
Shadeee....lakini I still love you both
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
😂🤣
@kadeshnze73
@kadeshnze73 Жыл бұрын
I knew the friendship was over when she was not truly happy when something good happened to me.
@familyhour351
@familyhour351 Жыл бұрын
I knew our friendship was over when she accused me of robbing a piece of land that we had bought as a group....yet the land is intact.
@nellie15
@nellie15 10 ай бұрын
One friendship was over because she slept with the guy I was dating and acted like she was the victim, happened to me twice 😂😂😂. My other friendship ended when I realized that the messy thing she was doing to her other friends like talking negative about them she started to do it to me. And the same friend will be upset or bring me down if someone gave me a compliment. I didn't have the energy to have a conversation so I took my distance. Only to find out a few days ago that she is STILL talking about me even after she no longer have access to my private life.
@Debaye494
@Debaye494 Жыл бұрын
I loved this♥️♥️
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@ayumasore6931
@ayumasore6931 Жыл бұрын
13:20 "coz you're with the husband sleeper with person "🤣🤣🤣
@ivymboya7400
@ivymboya7400 10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nsqbeaReprrNhHk.htmlsi=lsUbZkJHjxKA8ntw
@melonemithamo3258
@melonemithamo3258 Жыл бұрын
Premier gang...❤
@estherwambui586
@estherwambui586 Жыл бұрын
I borrowed money from my friend and when I wanted to pay back she told me not pay on her mpesa so I didn't have cash and fr I completely forgot and I actually thought I paid back 😢I have never been so sorry...I really felt bad when she reminded me
@gracemuriithi4319
@gracemuriithi4319 Жыл бұрын
A proud in betweener and I must confess I love how u guys are just genuine with your friendship. Well most guurl- friendships nowadays ain't genuine, just fake and plastic bitches waiting for your downfall...
@tmipodcastke
@tmipodcastke Жыл бұрын
There are some really amazing people out there. It’s just a matter of finding people who’s values you align with ❤️
@claremungure879
@claremungure879 Жыл бұрын
23:50 when Murugi says why are we hitting then goes ahead to hit the mic 😂
@wanyiriwinfredwanjira1287
@wanyiriwinfredwanjira1287 6 ай бұрын
i knew the friendship was over when me and my boyfriend did for her a service .. that she was supposed to pay for and she didn't pay half of the money. and later she says i am disrespectful for asking for it😊
@Sheisme120
@Sheisme120 6 күн бұрын
6:13 A “friend” who talks bad about you behind your back is not your friend.🚩
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