Dating - The good, the bad & the ugly

Dating - The good, the bad & the ugly | Episode 131

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For all those dating put your hands up 🙌🏽 and for those who aren’t, do you remember how your dating experience was ?
In this episode we will be talking about all things relationship mostly DATING 🥰 as we look at both the good side and ugly side through our eyes 🫣
Be sure to share with us your dating experience below in the comments and also let us know can you relate with some of the things we’ve talked about? 👀
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@beatriceamundi4000 4 ай бұрын

I'm here to remind the babes who download to watch later...lets appreciate that we are able to do that but also as you download remember to like and on the process of download let them ads run so our girls continue to bring us all these rich episodes...Ameeeen sambarry?

@princess_keri_precious 4 ай бұрын

Imagine because of watching tmi I feel so matured in my twenties. No way im people pleasing ...im extremely intentional about the dating. Its about my self worth on the line😑no wasting any bit of myself 💯😐😐

@ashleynganga 4 ай бұрын

Righttttt

@user-rj6po5dy4f 4 ай бұрын

Me to gosh I feel like I know everything, 😂I love tmi😢

@user-qt6wr4pf4k 4 ай бұрын

Ikrrrrrr tell me about it. I feel so mature for my age and mind you I'm just 20

@nalwovie954 4 ай бұрын

One thing about Murugi, “I feel like we should do an episode on….” is always at the tip of her tongue!😂 I love it!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@maremboke 4 ай бұрын

Now I really miss the singing tmi 😂

@alicewambui3420 4 ай бұрын

Me too😂

@neemanduta104 4 ай бұрын

Me too 😂😂😂

@rachaelwanjiru4207 4 ай бұрын

Same

@lynnetirungu3021 4 ай бұрын

Me three😂

@joynderitu34 4 ай бұрын

Me one hundred 😢

@Augenia 4 ай бұрын

There is something about Lydia's honesty ❤❤❤

@mitchellmaina83 4 ай бұрын

Shiv and shiku met in their 20s and it still worked , so did most of our parents. You can meet the love of your life at 21 . There's no age limit for finding a lifetime partner, it just takes a lot of work and understanding each other.

@ANM657 4 ай бұрын

Im I the only one who has noticed Lyds jeans have one thigh looking like the African continent? Anyway I digress, real conversation here. Dating in your 30s is definitely very different. Especially when one has done the internal work and understood themselves and what they want.

@lornahbuffy2201 4 ай бұрын

Okay, u have prooved your point..you were right singing is better!! Lets do that. Let's go back to singing...we apologize

@flonya1334 4 ай бұрын

I love your shows ladies! Good job. Being a single lady, never dated, very financially stable and own my own house in a gated community....I can't imagine sharing my beautiful space with a man, with all the inconveniences that would come with that.

@edinahkendi9871 4 ай бұрын

gurlllll tapping into that financial stability

@mercythairu2943 4 ай бұрын

Is it just me or I feel like Murugi is always targeting Lydia for things that she thinks Lydia "should" have. Lyd is so matured and has grown and I love to see that about her😍

@patriciatum1677 4 ай бұрын

Met my man on bumble, marrying him in a month 😌

@edinahkendi9871 4 ай бұрын

gurlll congratulations....am on the app trying trying

@lilianemwaura7218 4 ай бұрын

Ah😮 After I uninstall it jana😂😂

@lilianemwaura7218 4 ай бұрын

Congratulations hun. All the best❤

@sellahchabe1248 3 ай бұрын

That's nice congratulations

@paulinekwamboka121 4 ай бұрын

This episode is eye opening. Take home message: 1.) Don't assume. Define who you are to each other early on in the relationship. 2.) Ask those difficult questions like are you going to marry each other. 3.) Date other people as you wait to find a suitable partner for you to marry . 4.)Meet family and friends of each other early 5.) If you removed money as a factor, would you date the person you are with now?

@ichooseviolence2532 2 ай бұрын

If you remove number 5 many women will run away

@richardjoelweaver6949 4 ай бұрын

Murungi whoever does your make up does phenomenal job!

@marythuo8404 4 ай бұрын

did @Lyd say she's dating 🎉🎉 yaaaaay.. congratulations big sis..

@muthonimwirikia 4 ай бұрын

Loving Lyd's blazer😍🔥🔥🔥

@maryirungu8521 4 ай бұрын

I really love this conversation cause i really need it as a single 27yr lady

@franciscaampratwum8397 4 ай бұрын

Naaaa...let's go back to singing 😂

@stellamuthoni6291 4 ай бұрын

Ikr🥲

@herb_a_day 4 ай бұрын

About the cheating, it's rampant. I personally turn down more married men than single ones. And running into people's husband's on dating sites is what got me to leave dating sites 😂. I am not saying there are no good men, I am saying majority are vile and don't even think they are.

@missinjairu1448 4 ай бұрын

I think Ivy's point was pretty much clear, most of us just got triggered 🤣🤣🤣.

@petronillahmueni7577 4 ай бұрын

That woman is really triggering intellectually,very wise,she leaves me with panick attacks anytime I listen to her😂😂

@missinjairu1448 4 ай бұрын

Foreal foreal 💯💯@@petronillahmueni7577

@yourstrulyKe 4 ай бұрын

Y'all are preaching!!! These are the good old days❤🎉

@shelmithmuthoni3841 3 ай бұрын

I feel like the chances of a woman staying unmarried after they hit 30 are very high cos they are soo much aware

@ichooseviolence2532 2 ай бұрын

It's not about them being aware.. it's about many men's preferences as they age. Her age mates and even older will always go for the younger babes

@sherrynjoroge5467 4 ай бұрын

You should now start doing movies or documentaries. Its such a joy listening/watching you guys i need waaaaay mooooore tiiiiiimmmmmeeeeee lol

@MinPatience 4 ай бұрын

Dating in my 30s and YAS! No time to dwell on what’s not working 👐🏽

@beloncekamz2821 4 ай бұрын

Yaaay! It's Definitely TMIIIIIIII 💃🏿. Happy belated birthdays Queens 🎂🎂🎉🎉. Aki mapenzi wewe😅🤭.

@vivianrono6287 4 ай бұрын

This is really the best episode. I'm definitely making wiser dating decisions.❤❤

@mercypeter402 4 ай бұрын

I'm at work but I can't miss watching your episodes among the first people😍

@scovie6926 4 ай бұрын

Belated Happy Birthday, girls..and yes, it's definitely Tee-Mmm-Iii Let's keep it at singing, ladies ❤

@_mumbinjenga 4 ай бұрын

It's definitely TMIIIIIIIIIII❤🎉

@sibagumede1469 4 ай бұрын

We can download now again🎉 am I not a happy subscriber, I've been missing episodes cause of work buuut now we back!!!

@wanjiku805 4 ай бұрын

Not 62 tomorrow 😂. Lyd you have a way with words.

@faithmwanda9818 4 ай бұрын

I love you addressed the issue from last episode. And I get what Ivy was saying

@buyisilembatha3854 4 ай бұрын

Another beautiful episode...Related so much ❤

@sheyogutu 4 ай бұрын

I have been sleeping on this channel😮 time to set camp ❤😂

@sellahchabe1248 3 ай бұрын

I agree with Lydia 💯.Dating in your 30s is totally different from the 20s.What I know and what now at 32 is totally different from what I wanted when I was younger.And about the high level of prostitution on dating apps it's totally true aswell.Its so sad when all men see their on the sites is a booty call.I am a high value woman I have my boundaries and men get shocked when I tell them am not on the app for prostitution.And all yes its raining everywhere even here in Zambia the dating pool stinks.

@user-mz6zm9oe5i 4 ай бұрын

In love with this already ya'll look stunning ❤

@edinahkendi9871 4 ай бұрын

am like lyd rightnow...more intentional..im on bumble and the experience is nice,,not yet gotten anyone compatible like that but am more vigilant and not just dating

@deemb5284 4 ай бұрын

I'm happy with the intro it's giving 35

@vanessalusi2590 3 ай бұрын

My biggest question has been ..What would you do if your boyfriend was asking another lady for a chance to date them and even named you a bestie?

@LuxuryDazzleRings 2 ай бұрын

He is still looking,. Maybe also keep looking

@hakayi9130 4 ай бұрын

Lyd, your outfit is it hunny!🔥 Sometimes i worry am just too healed 😂😂😂 it will take a miracle🙏🏽😜

@tendokaren4418 3 ай бұрын

Wonderful wonderful wonderful intro 🎉🎉love it love it .... we're back to it😊I won't stop reminding you guys 😭❤

@olivianorah4742 4 ай бұрын

In my introspection about dating I was thinking of the same thing..... extending grace. Literally a few minutes ago 🤯

@alicewambui3420 4 ай бұрын

I'm heree🎉🎉 Wednesday made check☑️

@joyceyugi9266 4 ай бұрын

Lyd you look amazing in this episode. Love the fit.❤

@perismkala4275 4 ай бұрын

Happy birthday to you my loves though it's late 💞💞💞 nawapenda sana

@josiegacau 4 ай бұрын

met my fiancee on ok cupid cheers to finding our people!!!!

@joycekimuhu8426 4 ай бұрын

Did you pay

@GirlThatVlogsKE 4 ай бұрын

Its Lydia's Hair For me 🤩🤩

@sharonwanja7303 4 ай бұрын

Hi thanks for this episode,, How long should talking stage last?

@LivingWithFareed 4 ай бұрын

Funny thing if you wanna search it up there is a trend called gwababa which is the fear of approaching women so when you talked about are men still approaching women sometimes you don't to be put in a humbling experience

@melissamay6974 Ай бұрын

True true, what you focus on grows... that's why I am always a fan of kina Wajesus and Dominion fam for being loud with their working marriages and relationships... they are fr standing in a gap, and despite any drama, they're being brave. Loved this episode❤

@Sherri997 4 ай бұрын

I always resonate with Lydia's POV, especially on relationship matters. Every time she speaks, I'm like, yaass! Giirl same, that's something I would say /do.

@mercythairu2943 4 ай бұрын

😊 I love how Lyd had grown

@thehkc.collection 4 ай бұрын

i can hear your whispers lydia☺

@baddieszn5599 4 ай бұрын

Happy birthday guyss ❤😊

@SunshineVickie 3 ай бұрын

Why do I usually envision Eli as Lyd's match!? 😂😂😂 y'all tell me it's not just me please

@ReneeKe-hx4ih 3 ай бұрын

Same😊I swear they can make a cute couple

@SunshineVickie 2 ай бұрын

@@ReneeKe-hx4ih soo cute

@suzannembithe9221 4 ай бұрын

I was used to 'its definitely tmiiii... ' I'll get used to though 😭😂😂

@dewpew4714 4 ай бұрын

Yes I would still get married to my husband if he didn't have money. Because that is not what attracts me to him. I am attracted to his genius mind, maybe because I am a sapiosexual. Never met a man like him. Then couple it with he is kind, composed, honest, good in...🤭many years later, I still look back and smile that I landed him😍

@BintiPritty 4 ай бұрын

Love this for you ❤😊

@adventureswithphi405 4 ай бұрын

imagine saying the intro with you guys and there's no singing!!! please bring it back. Hii ya sahi haibambi!

@akiinefaexperiencinglife 4 ай бұрын

Happy new year ladies🎉

@maureenndinda3001 4 ай бұрын

Congratulations Lydia 😊

@eshycmwangi 4 ай бұрын

Great 💎💎💎 on the GREEN Couch🌟⭐️🌟

@yolz555 4 ай бұрын

How do you change your mind about those beliefs of men you have seen around you growing up .

@graceguya1682 4 ай бұрын

Interesting episode as usual. However the ending was abrupt, Lydia was cut off mid sentence and there was no montage after the episode. Error during editing in post production ? 🤔.

@Monicahkabaria 4 ай бұрын

Topic on how to get feminine/femininity energy back😅..am on my masculinity energies ever

@skebaso 4 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤ love the TMI talks

@shanicemumbi6993 4 ай бұрын

Can we sing please 🥺😢😢 eeeey!

@brighterdays1322 4 ай бұрын

That men are not capable part, weh. Felt it to the core.

@odufaikogho5674 4 ай бұрын

Love you ladies!!! ❤

@noellaliz5911 4 ай бұрын

Just to add on, the ugly in dating, when money is involved. You've gotten to a point you are comfortable with one another and you lend him money out of goodwill then hapo kwa malipo!!!Yooh!sh*t becomes the ghetto 😢

@lianawangari1586 4 ай бұрын

A man who loves you will never ask you for money hunnie... Run!

@carolyne8813 4 ай бұрын

I met my fiance on tagged. It's been 10months n going strong ❤

@rhodesmugo 4 ай бұрын

Happy 😊 birthday 🍰 hunnies ❤❤❤

@abbykykys4586 4 ай бұрын

Hapana hapana I shiver when you do the compromised TMI statement/song 😢 it's good to compromise on some things but somethings are just good. Plz go back to singing not singing feels boring like an intro to a boring lecture 😭😭😭😭

@deekmuninga 4 ай бұрын

Sasa now that you’ve removed the singing part, what I am I supposed to do with my life?🤔 Please bring it back abeg.😀 Much love from Uganda.🇺🇬

@natashamuronji102 4 ай бұрын

Not lydia pushing it even further from 40 to 62 for Murugi😂😂😂😂

@GirlThatVlogsKE 4 ай бұрын

We hate change😂😭😭 you've changed everythingg

@janiceaoko4586 4 ай бұрын

Why are we not singing "it's definitely tmiiiiii," 😢😢now there goes one of my underated pleasure of life 😂😂

@carrielmike 4 ай бұрын

Waaaa. .we stopped singing TMIiiiiiiiiiii😢

@banterwithqueendess7376 4 ай бұрын

Lydd that wig hairstyle looks perfect on you.

@juligamineofficial734 4 ай бұрын

Inlove with Lydia's dangaree

@rizikiokumu 4 ай бұрын

Yes Lydia the good, are few. That is for sure

@faithwambui2641 4 ай бұрын

It was an awesome episodes🥺❤

@nisamusyoka9917 4 ай бұрын

Personally I miss the old old intro, the sass in its DEFinitely Tmi was it!😂

@ayikiriizemartha4640 4 ай бұрын

Can we bring back the singing?

@veronicahwekesa4845 4 ай бұрын

Now am left singing alone

@TheUgandancook 4 ай бұрын

Lydia, that BLAZER, 🔥 🔥🔥

@Jules_Kenya 4 ай бұрын

I missed the part when you started dating

@mwangi_mweru_9599 4 ай бұрын

I need the song😢😢

@naomisheezy 4 ай бұрын

I met my husband on Bumble 🐝🥰

@winniewixakiror 4 ай бұрын

Aah dating in 30… talk about the struggle for of meeting people because of our schedules.. like after work all I can think about is getting home

@rizikiokumu 4 ай бұрын

People underate marriage. Its a lifetime commitment and it has little humans involved that need you more. I wish People do it by choice and not societal pressure.

@joycemburu8041 4 ай бұрын

Dating outside Kenya is worse especially in the Gulf nations. It's hard to know if the guy is truly interested in you or he's just interested in company (sex) and that has worsened my avoidant nature.

@CarenWangare 4 ай бұрын

You are right

@mutegikanana2085 4 ай бұрын

Weeh and the fact most are married back at home and cheating on their wives without even a hintof guilt. I couldn’t do it always wondering whether you are just a placeholder?!!

@ichooseviolence2532 2 ай бұрын

Gulf also has the worst type of ladies to date. I tried dating two of them and they are the worst type of exes I ever got in my life

@marywanjiku1586 4 ай бұрын

I stream live to like and comment...then download for my data😂😅😪

@cynthiachege6242 4 ай бұрын

Is age difference a factor when dating .. maybe in a scale of 2-8 years

@jenniferodera598 4 ай бұрын

Is it just me or did this ended abruptly? Lydia got cut off mid sentence.

@paxliviacherono7157 4 ай бұрын

We can call it a Wednesday

@andabwarosekiarie5477 4 ай бұрын

Lyd you look amazing 😍

@TheCollectiveMinds 4 ай бұрын

Is it me or did the video just cut abruptly mehn 😭😭😭

@Spinkly 4 ай бұрын

Did this episode really end, or is my TV broken?

@eve5939 4 ай бұрын

Me i just want Lydias Therapist I know she has posted like 44 Therapists in her IG Stories but Lydia Please share the therapist you use and whose helped you Please dont Gate Keep 🙏 We all need help.