I require them to be actually holding a sign that reads, "I am attracted to you."

Don’t forget sportflirting. Some people will just flirt for the ego boost, or they’re just bored.

I've found the following to be true: They give me a head bump They rub their body against my ankles They give me a slow blink They snuggle up against me on the sofa and start to bathe They purr when I touch them

I met a girl who kept starring at me and I thought she was attracted to me until I looked in a mirror and realized I was bleeding from a shaving cut.

Guys, also note that none of these apply to the barista. They're just being polite.

Just follow the two rules of dating: 1) Be attractive. 2) Don't be unattractive.

“If you’re on a date with somebody, there’s a fair chance that they’re attracted to you.” 🤔

In 7th grade, I had a classmate with really bad acne and I was staring at it one day. About 15 years later, I ran into him and he asked me, remember when u had a crush on me? I was baffled and asked him what he meant. He said, you used to stare at me a lot. I just left it at that. No need to bring up his acne

"5 things ive never had happen to me"

Sees title: “Dr. Grande, are you hitting on me??” 😂😂😂

So a restraining order isn't just playing hard to get 😂

In addition: Person A knows about these signs, panicks at the thought of being too obvious and overcompensates by avoiding to show them (avoids physical or eye contact, doesn't ask you out, doesn't really talk much at all and dies alone).

How to tell if someone is attracted to you? Step 1: be attractive Thanks for this groundbreaking piece of info 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I really hope person A gets person B and the marry and have a lot of kids and name them kid C, kid D and kid E

Possible signs: 1. Physical attractiveness. 2. Volume and content of conversation (Personal information) 3. Somebody says they are attracted they say they are single, they compare you to an celebrizy, person they like 4. Laughing and smiling, forward body leaning, touch 5. Longer eye contact than normal, somebody is looking at your face when you are looking away.

It’s weird because I laugh at my own jokes so I’m not sure if this means I have a crush on myself. I’m so confused

“They should be called 12 made up signs...” 😂 Dr. Grande’s deadpan low key throwdowns give me liiife

I love how honest this guy is.

I have been accused of flirting so many times when I was absolutely not trying to do that. Sometimes just being an active, personable data-centered listener can get you in situations you don't want to be in.

My cat's name is "Person-B" and I often find him staring at me! I must be attractive!

Dr Todd, You really need to make a merch t-shirt with "Person A and Person B"

When I'm attracted to someone, I can't help smiling and there's nothing I can do about it -- very embarrassing. I can see why some people defensively pretend to hate someone they're attracted to out of fear of rejection.

Great video Dr. Grande 👍. As a single woman on the dating scene, I have to agree with your analysis. Eye contact, laughing, smiling and actually asking for a date are strong signs that someone is attracted to you. Sadly, the superficiality of all this will NOT lead to a fulfilling relationship because shared values and commitment are required to build lasting love 💘

Factors: 1. Sensitivity to Stimuli 2. Context 3. Baseline Behaviors 4. Reciprocity Signs: 1. Physical attractiveness 2. Volume & content of conversation 3. Laughs/ smiles at you 4. Physical contact 5. Eye contact

1. You are physically attractive (4:53) 2. They will talk to you about personal things and compare you to attractive people (5:35) 3. They will laugh at all of your jokes even if they're not funny. (6:39) 4. They try to be physically close to you or try to touch you (7:04) 5. Eye contact longer than usual (7:33)

It’s clear to me now that I really love my dog! She makes me smile and laugh out loud at her shenanigans, she loves to snuggle, and I’m very concerned that she is as happy and comfortable as possible. She makes serious eye contact while wagging her tail and smiling at me, which delights me to no end. Sure, it’s her dinner time and she knows how to play me, but who cares? She’s adorable all the way around, even when she snores, snorts, and farts in the middle of the night!! 🥰🐕

I'm going to be very honest, here: My husband is not classically attractive. I was, in fact, shocked that he had the temerity to come onto me. But he is a highly amusing, sweet, good-natured person. Everyone adores him. We've almost been married for 2 decades. Previous marriage was abusive, and I think that played a significant part, re:That I fell for him...hard. Love that man!!

Dr. Todd dry humor on any of his videos is my favorite🤣

Hahaha! Dr. Grande, you’re so funny! *leans forward*

Sometimes I can work out a women "was" interested in me once I begin to receive the cold shoulder after they've given up

Funny. My husband has told me that other men think I “like” them because I look them in the eye when they’re talking. That seems so strange to me. I had been raised to pay attention to others and look them in the eyes out of respect and politeness. I hate it when I talk to people who look away or even worse, look at other “body parts” as we’re conversing. That’s creepy!

I’m at the point in life I don’t care about this anymore lol.

"You know that look a girl gives you when she's really into you?" "No. Me neither" Steve Martin.

Recieving compliments about being pretty because someone can tell you put a lot of time into your aesthetics is also not always flirtation. It's just appreciation.

Best feeling in the world: she's with her friends and they all smile and glance your way. When her friends turn away she's still looking at you

I have been secretly attracted to Dr. G. He becomes more and more attractive with each video I watch. Now that my secret is out, I’ll turn on the notifications so I don’t miss any of his amazing content. 😘 😊 By the way, I’m a happily married woman who’s husband also likes the channel but doesn’t find Dr G attractive 😂

Me: Hi, how are you? Her: Fine, how are you? Me: Fine, how are you? Her: *blank stare* Me: *walks away quietly*

I’m secretly attracted to Dr. Todd Grande 🥰

I totally missed it when my husband began showing romantic interest in me due to having self esteem somewhere in the gutter. That was 42 years ago and this is our 40th year of marriage!

Maybe this happens: Introverts become extroverted when interacting with crush. Extroverts become introverted when around crush. How often is the body language mirrored?

"Eye contact?" BUT I'M AUTISTIC! Thank you, Charles Darwin. I only know if a woman is interested in me when she flat out states so.

One of the takeaways for me here is the importance of getting to know someone well enough to see what is normal for someone, before expressing interest in him, or her.

I’m someone who’s easily amused and I tend to laugh at things no one else finds funny so I now understand why I’ve kept having to fend off romantic suitors. I’m also positive and friendly which people tend to perceive as interest. Guess I’ll just have to learn to suppress my laughter and be less amiable.

"The number one sign that person B would be attracted to person A would be...if person A was physically attractive." Well that was pretty straightforward. Lol

Deliberate avoidance of eye contact could also be a sign, especially if the person has no problem looking in the eyes of others. Lack of eye contact is indicative of hiding something...such as a shy person or a person who doesn't have a strong sense of self worth. Going through this dynamic presently with someone.

Turns out my wife and I are attracted to each other. I’ll have to let her in on that later 😎

When I'm attracted to someone, I pretend they don't exist.

This is the first video of yours that I have come across and I am in major admiration of your ability to cut straight through the nonsense and deliver evidence-backed information. Thank you.

The law of attraction, opposites attract but don't last is one. Another is we have real chemistry together. A person that laughs at your jokes. Eye contact is a subtle attraction. Longer the better. My field is psychology and I can relate to your podcast. Thanks for your channel Dr. Grande.

You should have called this video something like "5 Not Made Up Signs Someone is Attracted to You"

My best advice in finding out if your crush likes you...is to go talk to them. I'm the last person who should be stating the obvious, because I avoided people like a pandemic survivor *BEFORE* the pandemic; But after years of isolation and deep thought, I just gotta say: "JUST DO IT!" Go talk to your crush, and if you get rejected; then take heart from the fact that you showed enough courage to put yourself out there. That courage will make the next time easier.

OMG Thank you SO much for emphasizing the element of PERSONALITY! I wish every person could hear this.

4:53 “The number one sign that person B would find person A attractive would be that if person A was physically attractive! “

"The number one sign that someone would find you attractive is if you're attractive." Dr. Todd

Always laying down that humor. Love it Dr Grande!

My neighbour fancies me and it's getting creepy. I used to smile and laugh while chatting to him, but that's before I realised he was attracted to me. So I disagree that smiling and laughing could mean I am attracted to someone, it's just politeness. However, I avoid him like the plague now, it's very awkward.

If it ever happens that I meet Dr. Grande in person, I will unquestionably be manifesting every one of those signs (and then some...).

Really love hearing your assessments of different topics and on different people. No drama, name calling, or any of the things that make it so difficult to actually base an informed opinion on. Thank you for your knowledge & videos! Hope you’ve had a great weekend!

Thank you for this, Dr. Grande! catching up on the videos I have NOT seen!!! Your channel is a treasure chest to me!

Wow! I just watched this video- just excellent Dr G! You should definitely re record this with your new background and new plant friends. It’d be interesting to see if they begin to lean toward one another! (Slight touch to your arm..)

Slowly but surely this channel is teaching me that most people are repulsed by me, disgusted by me, and no one finds me attractive. :( I appreciate the intervention. I shall have to have some deep reflection and continue to hide from all humanity until I can function somewhat normal. 🤔

I really appreciate your work. Never have I had the sense that you're only hypothesising from anecdotal life experiences. Your scientific rigor is attractive.

Dr. Grande out here being everyone's wing man. Giving top tier flirting and dating advice. Sir, you need to be dropping love songs next. Album to be expected.

"If someone says they're attracted to you, that's a good sign." Really? Lol

Being in customer service, I get "I'm attracted to you" A LOT. I get more phone numbers and invitations to go out on dates than you could ever imagine. I've had marriage proposals and offers to give me whatever I want--if I just ask for it. Honestly, I'm not interested in any of it. I know better than anyone the real person I am inside and that nice person, the helpful employee, is because I'm on the clock. I have no desire to date, see someone, be taken care of, or spend my life with anyone. I am content where I am in my life. And even if I did want to date, I can't. I took a vow of celibacy.

This is an interesting subject. If possible I'd would like it very much if you could expand a little more on this subject ! As always your videos and topics are very interesting and to the point !

Okay, the laughing thing got to me! I suspected it ... Excellent video, as usual!

"somebody's just having a good day" LOL

Great video as always! Can you make a video about child grooming and how online predators such as youtubers can show red flags of predatory (pedophile) behavior? I believe it’s very important to spread awareness on this topic with KZfaq having such a large impressionable young audience. Thank you!

I don’t know how you ended up on my suggested KZfaq but you make some awesome videos and talk about difficult subjects in an impressively objective manner.

When someone says they’re attracted to you, and you’ve made it clear from the get go you don’t want any relationship, thats a very clear sign.

I love this common sense, no nonsense, AND backed - up - by - studies videos. A straight voice in amongst the wild and wooly

If they sleep with you might also be a sign.

I did not expected this video too be this on-point this is like the best video of its kind.

I hav to comment again 'cause I love your content. You're the only youtuber so far that makes me laugh out loud regularly, and I don't even watch all the videos you uploaded because you're hillariously funny inthe first place. I just think, what you do is interesting and informative and I really enjoy watching that stuff to learn things.

1. Physical attractiveness 2. Volume and Content of conversation (mentions relationship staus; you remind them of someone else who's attractive) 3. Laughing at jokes, smiling 4. Moving close, forward body leaning, physical touch. 5. Holding eye contact longer than normal.

Hi Dr Grande. I’m sure you know everyone was gonna watch this video...LOL! I never considered that there was a scientific aspect to attraction, even though it IS part of the human condition. In my opinion, at least back when I was single and dating, the biggest sign was prolonged eye contact while smiling, not on my part, on the guy’s part. Problem for me was I couldn’t see a damn thing without my glasses on, and I NEVER wore them when I was out! You know, my insecurities about having glasses on! I memorized my way to the bar and the bathroom, the important stuff! LOL! So a guy had to be in my face for me to see he was attracted to me! I’ve heard that women tend to play with their hair when talking to a person they’re attracted to. Whatever it is that two people do, I feel it’s they way that person makes you FEEL when first engaging in conversation that’s a dead giveaway to if they’re attracted to you or not. So just to amuse you, the night I met my husband he was performing at a club, he’s a musician and was touring at the time. He had no shortage of girls hitting on him because of that. He could tell I had no idea who he was, and was really glad I didn’t. He could tell I really liked him, not the guitar singer guy! Remember, I’m the girl who never wore her glasses so the band I’d go to see, I really DIDN’T see LOL. After about 2 hours of blabbing, I finally asked him what he did for a living. He said “I’m a musician” I said, “ Really? What band are you in?” He replied with a smirk...”The one you saw tonight” ! LMAO! I guess all the years of stumbling around the clubs worked in my favor, it’s almost 30yrs later and we still crack up at that. Now that I got Lasik I bet it be a whole lot harder to navigate the dating scene! LOL! Thanks as always for your hard work! This video was extra fun!

Thank you for grounding this in science.

I really learn a lot from what you share. Thank you! Sadly what I learned was that I was, and I say was, attracted to narcissists because my parents were narcissists. I have realized my patterns and now listen to what people are saying, and listen to what they are not saying. I’ve also noticed that narcissists or some people use sexual energy to attract people. My experience has show me is that those types of people lack depth of character and empathy. These are only the people I have met. I do not judge an “everyone”.

This is your BEST work so far! I only have two remarks. You did cover base line personality traits in the atractee, but not so much in the person who is "attracted" to someone. The second point is you didn't cover imature personality attractive indicators; such as - time that person spends intetacting with you, focus on you (positive or negative)

Fantastic! Thank you Dr. Grande. You broke down something I’ve never understood all my life. :)

You are awesome! I like you doctor Grande. In a respectful way. You are unique! Very intelligent and sensitive.

Wow, I was blown away by that. I knew it. Thank you. It confirmed my doubts.

👍👍 Excellent description of true attraction The part about looks is so true and pretty shallow Thank you for another good video

"they should be called 12 MADE UP signs" I'M DEAD LMAO!!!

I just loooooove your analytical approach.Considering baselines of human behaviour is something so many people don't even take into account. I've had many "false pings" while dancing at a party (not suggestively, just pure and unbridled joy :D), because that just makes me happy and joyful.SO many people interpret this as ..suggestive..or I don't know, having a certain meaning.It kind of pollutes my experience.

I think be attractive might also just mean Look put together. You gotta work with what you got. So its important to flatter your best assets. Wash. Comb your hair. Put on well fitting clothes. Smell nice. And you're instantly more attractive then you were before.

Dr. Todd, you are by far my favorite on UTUBE! TYSM for your expertise and intelligence.

Listening to the list of actual signs just gave me so much remorse! It's definitely the case, I think, that if you are romantically attracted to someone as opposed to just sexually, you will be much more likely to brush away even clear signs that the person is attracted to you, especially if you already have a friendship that you could ruin.

Thank you for all your videos Dr. Grande.

Such valuable content!!! Intelligent doctor. Love your channel regardless of the topic.

great video. You are different and I always learn something from your videos.

What about nervousness? When I've been very attracted to a guy I tended to stumble over my words a little.

I think Dr. Grande is adorable too! Unfortunately for me, I am old enough to be his mom soooo...that could put me in the "How can I be less creepy" video!! But hey...a girl can dream right?? 😉😉🤣🤣🤗🤗

Best advice for guys, if you're in a group, be the quiet one. Not the edgy loner type, just wait for the "crab antics" to die down. Always best to be quiet and appear stupid than to open your mouth and remove all doubt, lol.

Laughing and smiling absolutely ( with out a stupid mask). Yes eye contact also. These apply to anyone you like, not just in a romantic way.

Number one: That person might be a narcissist

Yes. I agree completely. I recognized these signs on my part and from my ex-husband when we were first becoming close. Very good list! Thanks.

Listening to this freshens how I fell for the love of my life!! Remembering him smiling back at me and the tender touches. Purrfect 😻

I used to love a narcissist, it drove me crazy with a full tank of gasoline. I crashed, and learned to LOVE MYSELF like a narcissist. Exercise, healthy eating, fulfillment in hobbies, and focus on my own business. I stopped caring what anyone thinks about me and learned to be happy with myself. I go out to enjoy the fruits of my own labor, women smell confidence and I notice eyes in my direction. I don’t need the validation of someone else to feel good, and people seem to be attracted to that.