To every single one of you who reads this comment, You are BEAUTIFUL, STRONG, WORTHY and LOVED. Just the way you are.

Just had to tell this bubz.....I went to a new shop to get my hair trimmed. The hair dresser had a beautiful braid and ending up telling me that she learned how to braid from your video. We totally bonded over watching you....I think I've been watching since you got engaged. I never expected to meet someone else who watches you. Much love from Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada.

I'm glad you're becoming more active on this channel 💗

I cried laughing when she was fighting with Siri 😂

“Can you see me scratching my butt? I’m sorry I got a wedgy” 😂😂😂 one of the maaaaannnnyyyy reasons why I have been a fan even before engagement, marriage, and the two adorbs kiddos!👦🏻👧🏻 I just really don’t comment very often. I am more a silent viewer type.

Omg i really really loved and enjoyed this type of casual laid back video!! Im so happy youre feeling like making more videos without limiting yourself to beauty only. I honestly just want to "hang out" with you, i dont care what the content is really😂❤

Bubz, i have to say i stopped watching ur vlogs for awhile but when i click onto this video, i knew why i watched you from the start!! continue to have personal q&a and vlogs!! LOVE U BUBZZ

Love you so much Bubz. I’ve been following you for a long time now and I’m so glad to say that I’ve stuck around to watch you grow. You’re a beautiful person. xx

I had a toxic friend who would make comments about what I posted on fb. She would comment on how bad I looked if I posted selfies and the final straw was commenting on a post I shared that wasn’t even mine. I cut her off right then and there and realized she was never really nice to me, always put me down and always made it about herself. That’s not a real friend.

I love this type of videos from you!! I am still using your brushes btw!! 🌸🌸

Bubz! Love this. This came at a perfect time because I held on to so many toxic friends. I keep making excuses for them, they only contact me when they need something, always puts me down esp when good things are happening in my life, and found out they talked crap behind my back all this time when all I did was help them out. They cause me to doubt myself and just treated me with no respect. I always tried to believe the best in people but honestly it got so draining and affected my physical and mental health so much. Now that I'm almost turning 30, I cut a lot of the toxic friends out of my life and feel so much happier and so much more positive. At first I felt so guilty for cutting them off but as you said.. why keep these people around? They are like frenemies.. they were toxic, jealous, and mean. I kept some good friends in my life though and making new friends that are genuinely nice people. Life is Soo much better . Anyways thank you for the video! I wish I knew you in real life 🥰🥰 you seem like such a grreat friend to have!

Self love is to walk away - such a gem! Im in my 30s im still learning about it. I hope younger girls read it and have the courage and determination to walk away from people who put you down

Hey Bubz, throughout the years of growing up, your videos have really lifted me up. Through my broken engagement, relationships, careers, I felt like you were always the big sister that offers the most real and raw advice. Thank you for all you do. Love you.

I had to cut off two friends like this. I always felt like crap after hanging out with them, even came home crying to my bf. I cut the friendship and apologized as well if I had ever been toxic to them but also told them that they were toxic to me. Im very happy now 😁

When u said he loves it and thats all it matters. Kinda kick me in the heart coz knowing that the fact u gave more than what u receive...

I love this comment section. Full of positivity 😍💕

This motivated me to finally cut my toxic friend out. We’ve been friends for about six years and she was never kind to me, constantly comparing me to others or even herself. It really took a toll on my self esteem. Now, I feel as if a huge weight was lifted off my chest. Thank you so much Bubz!💗💗

I have almost no friends...because most were toxic. I am a playful and clown like person but seems others think once they become friends they can treat you like crap....me trying to be respectful while they think friendship gives you the privilege to be an ass...it doesnt

What I love most about your channel is your advice and the warmth in which you give it. Also, you always remain the same with no gimmicks. You are completely right on how influencers affect our lives. With your channel, I always feel good because you are relatable and your content is relatable to my life. I am genuinely happy for those KZfaqrs that become wealthy because of our views and likes but when all I start seeing are boob jobs, tattooed eyebrows, eyelash extensions, fake fingernails, $100K vehicles, $40K watches, Gucci clothing and accessories, and seemingly trying to keep up with Joneses - I just can’t relate anymore. It stops being fun and it becomes a show. Nothing is wrong with those things, it’s just not relatable to me. Thank you for remaining to be genuine and enjoyable. My husband even likes to hear your advice. Much ❤️

You are the best Bubz! Thanks for sharing your wisdom. I've been a bubscriber for over a decade now and I'm always glad I clicked on your video that first time. You are such an inspiration!

I used to follow all of your beauty and lifestyle advice videos over 5 years ago, and I was nearly devastated when you decided to take a break a few years ago. Of course, I understand now and I'm glad you're doing well and that you're happy! So happy to see you back. Hope you're doing well and I look forward to more videos

Bubz! I've been watching your videos since I was 12💞 And now I'm 20😂 it's been a solid 8 years which makes me feel old and probably just made u feel likewise 😆💕 you're among the first KZfaqrs I ever followed, when the KZfaq beauty community was pure and a breath of fresh air. I love you so soo much and you'll always be my #1 favorite no matter how the latest beauty gurus explode with clickbaits, materialism and competition😌🌸

I had such a similar experience with the whole "realisation thing" (i'm 29 now). I have had a few friends that are like this. For me I started just "phasing them out" of my group and on the occasion they confronted me, (which was very rare) I told the truth that i was unhappy and i think that we are not good friends for one another. I just made sure to make new friendships before I cut them off because i didnt want to feel alone (i have a tiny friendship group as it is). I recon that "breaking up" with a toxic friendship is just as heartbreaking as a breakup. If you feel like your relationship is unequal, or you feel a consistant (not just a one off thing) feeling of being guilty, judged, unhappy, anxious about meeting etc then its time to reassess and evaluate your "friendship".

I'm approaching 30 and then I realised that I only have 2 friends that I hope to keep for as long as possible. When I see instagram and other acquaintances that always enjoying party with a lot of friends makes me to start wonder whether I am the problematic one that doesn't open up to other people.

Hi Bubz! I just wanna say that you always make my day. Please don't think that you are not inspiring. You are the most inspiring person I know in KZfaq. I have watched your videos from the beginning and your vlogz are the only ones I still watch nowadays. You inspire me to be a better person because you are so real and your heart is so pure. I know you don't really know me but you have helped me a lot. ♥️

This is actually a really uplifting Q&A! Honest and always so cute. LOL at the face palming emoji reaction about Brexit!

Bubz, you never failed to address my issues on hand, maybe it’s fate that this video popped up on my main feed, knowing I need to see this. Things have been busy and overwhelming, I missed being less busy and anticipate your videos weekly. This video really speaks to my heart. As this past year I’ve been fighting toxic people, which had been playing with my mind and made me question myself. I’m really tired, Bubz, I really wish to dissociate from them entirely, but my career circle is very small, we’re bound to bump into each other at least annually. This really demotivates me.

I've recently been let go from my job, so hearing you talk about self love resonated with me so much! I'm currently focusing on myself and what I want before I pursue my desired field of work!

Omg yes!! “Friends” the same ppl who called me a bad mother, stupid, and poor. And when you finally cut them out you’re the bad one. They go around talking about your personal life to anyone and everyone. I will forgive once but not ever again.

thank you Bubz for being like an older sister to me. You’re so wise and so beautiful inside and out ❤️❤️

Thank you for all your life lessons bubz! I've been watching you since 2009 (literally only started watching you because I had a crush on a girl who watched your videos) and I feel like I've grown so much from all these educational/inspirational videos where you just sit and talk to us ❤️❤️

Love this video, Queen Bubz! I've had fair share of encountering the so called "friends" who use "concern" as a disguise to put me down, specifically in terms of size. I eventually cut ties with that person altogether and didn't bother to talk to her ever since. However, I had a crush on one of my friends for almost three years now, but that person constantly gets mad at me for petty things and tends to keep a record of other's wrongdoings. Even my appearance, that person didn't exempt in pinpointing and criticizing, sometimes that person didn't seem to care about my efforts and my concerns towards her. I feel distant to the point of just leaving, but I thought of not wanting to lose another friend.

I love seeing how your content has grown along with you and your audience

Bubz you have no idea about how much I wish you were my big sister at home! You're such an inspiration!

I had a group of friends in high school and they generally were good people but time past and they would judge and talk negatively about me. They just were never happy with whatever I did. Wasn’t until out of high school in 2014 when this group didn’t wanna be friends with me anymore. I was really upset but as time past I realised I was better off without them, i was happier even tho I only had one friend. Now I’ve meet a lot of nice ppl but I still only have one solid friend. DON’T DEAL WITH TOXIC FRIENDS THEY RIP YOUR SOUL AND MENTAL STATE APART

Thank you for talking about self-love. I've been having a very difficult time lately and watching this helped me a lot.

Bubz you're one of the few KZfaqrs that I've followed for many many years and its because you're really inspirational and genuine. So many influencers or KZfaqrs out there now are just a pretty face with no real substance but what makes your channel still as refreshing as ever is your real and genuine personality. Wishing you and your family all the best :)

I've very recently opened my eyes to how toxic some of my closest friends have been to my happiness. It honestly didn't raise alarms to me until I hit an all time low in my life and their presence and negativity only brought me down more. You have to meet a persons second face to really see their true self.

Bubz, I find it interesting that I’ve never seen your oldest sister! Also, I agree about walking away. In the past month I did some self reflecting and I realized that the friends I am friends with today all seemed to have fulfilled their role in my life. I am becoming more mature than them and my vision for the future is nothing they can really wish for themselves. They make excuses, cant manage time or themselves and there’s nothing inspiring about it. So I realized I’ll just let them go. Even if I’m alone for awhile. New friends are bound to show up.

Whenever I feel lost, Bubz is there to help me out in someway or another. Thank you Bubz for who you are! ❤️

Bubz vlogs make my day, every time i watch it

Thanks for this bubz! I really need this right now. I had a childhood Friend who constantly make me feel bad for not being a good Friend. It hurts when I was outcasted. For years I’ve been hating on myself, feeling that maybe I shouldn’t exist. Whatever things I do she will feel that I was being insincere and would talk to the other girls about this. But because of you, bubz, I feel like I am finally able to walk away from this and start loving myself more. I have just started keeping a gratitude journal. Hope to see the world in a beautiful perspective. P.s. I’ve been watching your videos since the time you were doing those hk skits. You’re an amazing person.

Bubz, I'm one of your busy adult fans who pops in now and then and I just have to say that every time I do, you always make me smile (and shed hormonal happy tears, haha). You're such a beautiful human being, and we love you for that. Keep being you.

Thank u for this. One of the evergreen youtubers. I love u. Ur wisdom and knowledge has saved me a lot from my trouble days. U r like a soul sister. Love from India 💕

Hi Lindy! I’ve been watching you since I was in middle school and I’ve been a fan and supporter for many years. You and your family inspired me so much. You’re so genuine and beautiful! Much love, Di ❤️

Bubz, I’ve been watching your videos since I had my first boyfriend all the way to now when I’m married and I just think about how much aha happened in the past 11 years! One thing that has remained the same though is that your videos always make me smile and inspire me to be a better me :) love you! 💕

I think tomorrow I'm going to binge watch your videos very encouraging

I LOVE YOU BUBZ! I've been watching you ever since I was in sixth grade and now I'm a freshman in college! you actually remind me soooo much of my older sister Abigail and I just want her to know that she is so wonderful just like you. You guys invigorate me and look at life from such a beautiful perspective and I just always feel so inspired. You guys have been older sisters to me and I appreciate you guys so much (my sister is literally my older sister haha).

Im 25 and just starting to realize that I don't need toxic friends/people, I just lost one of my best friends that i have know since high school and i didnt realize it then but this person was really toxic.. They started to show more signs of it after I had my son.. and when you are trying to start your own family its very hard.. and most friends without kids don't realize that.

Bubz, you are THE wisest, sweetest, and most caring internet big sister anything could want and ask for. Thank you for everything 💓💓💓💓💓💓

Honestly bubz, you inspire me every time I watch one of your videos. ❤️ thank you for all the advice and being there over the years. You are like a honorary big sister. ❤️

This video came just at the right time. It's hard to let go of toxic friends because you can feel so guilty and that you are doing something wrong but at the same time you need to look out for yourself. You need to draw a line under people and just slowly let the friendship fizzle out Currently struggling with a friend who only talks to vent to me about how hard done by she is like "our uni course is too hard or I'm so stressed " (but refuses to go to lectures or do any of the revision) and is constantly bitching about other course mates yet doesn't offer any other conversation. Doesn't ask about me at all Only wants me to go out with her on a night out to look after her, (as she drinks to the point of no return) and I will because I worry that she will hurt herself. Before all the toxicity happened I introduced her to my other friend yet she now invites the other girl out without me. Called me saying she hated life and didn't want to live anymore before my examination. I offered that she talk to her personal tutor if she is stressed or the uni mental health helpline but she said it was pointless. At this point, I am shitting myself thinking that she is going to do something the next day she is perfectly fine with the other friend, not going to lectures messaging me that she is stressed about the work. It's honestly exhausting to be emotionally dumped on all the time and just to be there to be bitched at. The other day she commented on me having a cup a coffee the other day saying that I was dependent on it yet fails to reflect on her 4 bottles of wine a week We all went out the other night and I was with my close guy friend and she started insulting him saying he was pathetic for not going out. I now get anxious before I meet her because I have no idea what she will do or say. WHICH IS A BIG RED FLAG IF YOU ARE "FRIENDS" Writing the things a person does is a good way to help you feel like you made the right decision. Time is precious and should be spent on people who make you comfortable and are kind, people should respect you.not use you

Mannnnnn! This just took me back to when I started watching your videos in 2009!😯 I was an 18 yr old and even back then the advice you’d give helped me out 💗💗💗💗

It's like having a personal conversation with you. You do are an inspiration and your mind is beautiful. Whatever kind of video you will make, you can't miss, they are all quality content. Just like your book, golden. Much love! Keep doing what you love

I lost lot of friends throughout the years and I'm okay with it. And love the message you putting out! ❤

I just ceased all connection with my closest friends of 3 and a half years. I just got tired of their pretenses and excuses of understanding and patience when all they actually harbour are fakeness and tendency to always sweep every problem under the rug. And they know I can never do that even if I tried. I don't know whether I made the right decision coz I miss them at times but...now I'm finally free of anger and building resentment. Sometimes I think walking away is the answer when you have nothing left to give that will help others. (PS: I'm drunk on emotions right now and hope to God I can find friends who will actually help me grow)

I’m learning that I can be just as toxic as someone else so I try to keep myself in check. I’m learning that I can be myself without being scared and that that’s what makes me feel most comfortable. At the end of the day you are you and no one knows how to make you feel good but yourself, so treat yourself XD

Hi Bubz, I am really struggling with my career right now. It is really nice to hear about your success story, how grit and stubborness got your to where you are today =)

I love how you are so real and honest with yourself and to us! love your advise!

I’m lucky that I was only able to put up with a toxic friend for 5 years... I know that sounds long but I didn’t suspect anything until I starting making friends outside our circle. She got angry with me and I genuinely believed that I was in the wrong but I realised that she was always making me feel guilty for things. I gathered the courage to end our friendship, and she did still try to victimise herself but I was finally free. My mental health is still a work-in-progress but I feel so much happier with the friends I have now 💕

Often times, people who are hurting hurt others. It's good to keep this in mind when dealing with anyone because it helps keep irrational thoughts at bay.

you inspire me each and every day, thank you for being you, You are like the big sister to me who brings positiveness in my life.

I liked this video as soon as I loaded it. Love you, Lindy! ❤️ You're a true blessing.

This is a great video! Not that I dont love your vlogs, but its also nice to chit chat or ask advice on topics that are on people’s mind.

Oooooh I loved this! More of these please your responses strike me as genuine and transparent- I like that and I trust what you say....I did miss seeing Isaac and Aylah BUT this was very refreshing and insightful....thanks 👍🏽

Women i looove u so much :))) U always remind me be a better person. I'm so proud of the women u become, idk if that makes any sense, but seeing u become this strong women over the years , and not get lost in superficial beauty, gives me a sens everything is possible if we make small good steps.

I don’t know if it’s your voice or something else about you that makes me feel so comfortable

Ah you're so adorable bubz! I've been here for a lonnnng time and I always appreciate how you are always true to yourself. You're still the same bubz that I first watched all those years ago and you're genuinely an inspiration :)

For some reason I felt really gloomy today. This video was just what I needed. Thank you Bubz for making this kind of videos. 😭

Hello dear Bubz it is so good to see you again would you maybe talk more about building our tribe, please? Much Much Love To You! You always remind me of my own pure love and joy! Thank you so much for being who you are!

Thank you bubz for this advice on self love 💜💜💜

Hahahahaha "hello? Hello? Answer!!" while bouncing up and down was so funny and cute xD

Oh my goodness!!! You're one of the real KZfaq OG's!!! I stumbled upon one of your hair tutorial videos at the time! Haha Loved this video😍😘

How your first sentences changed my life in which I was suffering for the last 6 years.

I had a toxic friend that took advantage of me because of my parent's business. Back then, I thought it was because she was in a bad place with her foster parents that I really sympathized with her but found out by my best friend that she talked shit behind my back. Told me that she said I was spoiled, rich, prissy and two faced even though my parents are just well off not rich

Loved this!! This is the most honest and real video you’ve made in a while. Felt so wholesome xoxoxox

Thanks bubz! This video is very timely for me!! I really think you're glowing in this video ! Love you loads

I feel like I'm surrounded by toxic people 🙁 I live with my boyfriend and his family don't like me. His step mom always makes me feel like garbage..they always say I don't know how to cook or clean. But I do know how. And his cousins always say I'm not worth it, and that I don't know how to do anything, and his sister is the same. And they tell him to leave me. And his friends always tell him to leave me because I'm boring and I'm weird... It's so draining.. I have no family or friends here. Everyone is 18hrs away so I have no one to talk to. And we can't stop seeing them because it's my bfs family and friends.

Yaaasss! Love this video. Great advice. Thank you! ♥️♥️♥️ Make up is art and beauty is spirit. Yas!

I've been watching for so many years and this is the 1st time I'm soooooo early!!!!! ❤❤❤❤ love you bubz

Bubz, please film a skincare routine!! you're glowing :)

I love you bubz 💖 your my original favorite vlogger and youtuber in general. 💖💖💖💖

Thank you for always inspiring and helping me through many of my tough times!

I need more videos like this in my life. Bubz is touching as always ❤❤❤ much love from Texas

Bubz!!! You can totally be a life coach!!!

Love you so much bubz you’re like my big sis! I watched you grow as i grew myself thank you for always being you!

since i can't comment on your vlog channel anymore, i just want you to know i don't ever want you to stop vlogging your loving family!

wow so long havent seen this channel. nice to see it again

my goodness you've not aged a day physically, you're SO beautiful! and you've matured. I started watching you 10 years ago, I'm now 23. still sticking around ;) I am glad you took that Brexit question, because you so rarely discuss politics or more serious matter. I'd like seeing you more concerned about climate crisis given the fact you brought two children into a world that's about to be a mess. Sorry to say, but as much as I love you, it breaks my heart seeing the irresponsible lifestyle your pursue. you don't seem to care at all about the environment, given all the flying the two of you do as if it was normal and no big deal. I'd love seeing you respond to the issue.

Thank you for sharing this bubz! it really helped me reflect on some of my past relationships and stuff

Most of the time we hold onto things because we are scared of change and we have put our identity into something

I have dropped almost all of my friends. I realized i am complete on my own and i dont need them. i used to be a people pleaser and would really go out of my way for them. Not anymore. I love myself now to say no without any explanation.

I'm glad you brought up this topic. I struggled to be friends with a girl for over 3 years. She was very toxic and manipulative. she had a lot of trama form past events in her life. that she would relieve some of that emotion through me. I'd be her human punching bag. She lashes out at any given moment if I unknowingly said the wrong thing. She be crude and harsh to me. She wouldn't apologize when she'd hurt my feelings she tell me to shut up and get over it. I'm so happy i have removed her from my life.

Thank you for doing this, I love listening to your insights on life 😊

Your hair color is so pretty in this video :) maybe it’s the lighting and it has always been this color, I don’t know. But wanted you to know it’s nice

This felt like such an og Q&A vid. It's like i'm going back in time.

Thank you so much Bubz, I really love your advice! 💛

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣That's me and Siri Alexa echo everything Single time..grrrrr😂😂😂😂

Sometimes I forget how tall you are Lindy lol you were so adorable when you were shouting at Alexa to answer the call 😂. But I loved hearing you do some Q&As. I’m still learning how to avoid joining in with others in gossip. I know it happens sometimes but I hate that... I never notice until I’ve said something, but I’m starting to catch myself and I’ll let others know we should stop. So I suppose that’s progress. I just want to spread more positivity in my life and those around me. Gossiping is ugly and it just and it makes me feel like an awful person.

The reaction to Brexit - I love you. Best reaction in a while.