Lmao Morgan & Morgan aka Ambulance chasers 🤣

lmao get that bag booooo! 💰💰💰

I’m obsessed 😂😂 I can’t believe Morgan and Morgan are now doing sponsorships! Get it. Love it.

The take nearly half your money. 😂😂😂

Girl I never saw this sponsorship coming lmaooo

Idk I’ve been put in psych wards a few times and we all make fun of our mental illness and how’s it’s ruined our lives bc some ppl cope with humor. However I understand what you mean, and don’t want to invalidate how you feel- just sharing the opposite side. I guess I Interpreted what the two girls were saying as a joke- bc you’re right no one actually loves a brain that’s trying to kill you.

I honestly stopped trying to look decent because of the way I feel. Bipolar affective disorder SUCKS man like I really really don’t love any part of it. Even when I feel “good” I worry it’s just mania and it’s gonna get worse until it’s really really bad. I’m also pregnant now and it’s harder than ever. It makes everything so complicated. I wish I could say I loved it because it is me, but it’s not a me I enjoy and that’s okay to say out loud.

Without context it seemed like a joke, tbh

ok karen

True

Just shows their intelligence which seems to be very poor

exactly- it would have been a fair take if she hadn’t insulted her

Exactly like if the only way you can “win” an argument with someone is when you make fun of their looks then that’s a lot about you

LITERALLY just commented about this. I couldn’t agree more

Clearly they were trying to be pick me girls in front of her. Trisha was just expressing her illness

I couldn't have said it better!!

Fr Sofía gives pick me energy

💯

Seriously those girls privilege was showing soo hard. Embarrassing 😂 Trish was right.

She didn’t even say this tho, she said it’s okay to not love it, she didn’t even disagree. Crazy the reach they made

Thank you. I’m so comforted by this comment section. It’s not a cute little quirk for us, it’s debilitating and unavoidable. 😑

Agreed. I think it’s great to embrace your mental illness or disability though. If you love it, that’s great, if you are neutral about it that’s great too. If you hate it, that’s okay and completely understandable ya know? At the end of the day if someone has a chronic disability/discord we/ etc, it’s apart of them and it’s up to us/the person to find some sort of acceptance or peace. The two girls although it’s good to spread mental health awareness came across very unaware of others / privileged. Although they didn’t need to address the privilege they have or how great it is that they got to where they are now, I still feel like them screaming about their mental illness came acrosss…odd?

I have diagnosed depression and social anxiety... Possibly something else but like you said, I can't even afford to go to a psychologist to get diagnosed, and can't get pills for my depression... Like, I would literally sell a lung if they said I had to for a cure of all mental illness. I also had maladaptive daydreaming disorder since I was 5-6 and I am so fricken lucky, happy and grateful that it went away this year, while it is showing signs of coming back it's still maintainable and my brain has been quiet for sooo long. I used to love maladaptive daydreaming, but it was because I was so unhealthy and brainwashed by it! It helped me with any problems, if life was going bad i could just dissociate into my dream world and call it a day, but it also ruined my life. Made my depression worse, bad school grades, dissociating during conversations, never fully being there, always on autopilot mode... Sure, as a defense mechanism, MaDD looks good, feels good, but it's actually a life ruiner....I only loved it because I wasn't healthily or mentally well enough to spot it as the harmful mess it was. As someone in such a situation, I am not sure what mental illness those girls had, but as someone in college for psychology, I cannot even FATHOM why you would love a single one.. I understand just taking it as it is, because there is nothing much you can do about it, and striving your hardest to fight it and become a you that is more than your mental illness, but loving them, and feeling special just because you have one is something I will never understand. Mental illness is called an illness because its awful and eats at you from the inside of your mind. This might be a horrible comparison but its like someone with cancer saying they love their cancer, or someone with Parkinson's saying they love it. Mental illness is not a personality trait, sure you can love it, but I don't think you are actually healthy if you love your mental disorder/illness. My personal opinion and take, hopefully on my journey to be a psychologist, I'll learn more and see from the point of view of those who love their illnesses.

Sofia seems so fake getting riled up for no good reason and throwing insults unnecessarily

Or the type to claim they have ADHD. I have ADHD and it is awful. And it was always embarrassing in school. As I had an IEP and had to have extra time on my tests and be in a room by myself. I'm glad I had an IEP but it was so embarrassing when I was taken out of the classroom when it was testing time. I was bullied a lot for being "special Ed" and etc. ADHD is awful. And social media has people thinking they have it when they really don't and I blame social media for making those of us with ADHD look bad, and look normal. We are not normal. Our brains are wired differently. . . Almost similar to Autism. It's a neurodevelopmental disorder. Sure, borderline personality disorder may have it more rough, but all mental illnesses have their own debilitating (I think that's the word) symptoms.

​@@caitiecatcreatesthis! I have autism and getting diagnosed was so hard. And it is absolute hell for me to just be everyday. But with social media, everyone now claims to have autism and ADHD and depression or bipolar. And everyone is so OCD because they like to be perfect - ignoring the very real and dangerous side of these disorders. I don't want to invalidate anyone (and women have it really hard getting diagnosed), but mental health struggles aren't quirky or fun or for attention. And it now has become so much harder to get people to take my struggle and need for accomodation seriously because of this.

⁠@@marissaleroux8553 im so so tired of seeing people using the things I’ve struggled with and fought tooth and nail my entire life, as cute little accessories to flaunt on social media.

@@caitiecatcreatesokay I have also have adhd and I just disagree. I have the stereotypical inattention-hyperactive combo presentation. I wasn’t invited as many birthday parties or sleepovers as a kid and experienced different levels of social ostracism because I was seen as different. However not everyone presents in the same way. Most femme people I know mask and internalize their symptoms and act “normal” their fixations are seen as normal their expressions as normal. It’s not until you actually get to know them that you see their messy car, or their fifteen todo lists and all the extra structure they require to appear as normal. I have helped some of my friends get diagnosed later in their life after bringing up the idea. One friend specifically desirables how after their sibling got diagnosed they resonated when the diagnostic criteria, but didn’t seriously consider it because “they could sit still, and remember to turn in their homework”. I honestly appreciate how more people have access to information and are able to consider explanations for who they are. I could do without the misinformation or oversimplification surrounding the topic but generally I think it has done so much more good than harm. So some people misdiagnose themselves. So what? As long as they don’t dismiss other’s experiences and are just looking for a better understanding and tools for their life it’s really not a bad thing. ADHD is both a very real medical condition and a socially fabricated identity. The boxes we put around human psychology l really other serve a purpose for insurance companies. At one point in time we would’ve just been useful people to the tribe. We wouldn’t have been expected to be exactly the same. Instead we would’ve been recognized for our strengths . Today our society has been created anyway that excludes people like us. So in actuality I think that a scarcity mindset only hurts us in the end. Wouldn’t it be cool if the accommodations you experienced were a given? If instead of being othered some kids could just opt in or out of accommodations? Wouldn’t it be cool if it was generally accepted some people have different capabilities for different tasks and we should be accommodating and understanding. Wouldn’t it be great if we could once again, just be recognized as another member of the collective .

@@caitiecatcreates self-diagnosis is sometimes the only relief that women with ADHD get. i can’t imagine the struggles of having a diagnosis early on and living with the stigma of it, i can imagine trying to make it through school without that help. i also know what it’s like to have your ADHD clocked by every therapist but they don’t want to diagnose it bc “it’s more complicated than that” until you run out of money and have to start over somewhere else. having a meltdown bc you’re dying from your own executive dysfunction and no one will listen bc they write off your outbursts as BPD. i agree with you, and i’m with you. but i would say most people that truly claim to have ADHD (ESPECIALLY women) do have it. to me, it’s not a quirk that i want to claim. it’s what i believe is an answer to a lifetime of dysfunction. it’s relief knowing i’m not alone in this.

agreed. trish didn’t say anything bad, and she said that she was happy for those who do love their illnesses. wish these ppl watched videos before commenting rudely 😭

BPD gang

Exactly!!! Trisha is destigmatizing mental illness, those girls are glamorizing it. Trish didn’t discredit their feelings, she was speaking to those who have SUFFERED with mental illness. I also hate that my brain doesn’t work like a normal person’s and i was really comforted to hear Trish express that.

exactly this!!! making it sound like its a quirky thing makes me feel like they have a silly little selfdiagnose or something. I get making a joke about it to friends sometimes but genuinely do not know a SINGLE person who actually loves that they suffer from mental illness 😭

Mental illness is becoming glorified. I knew this would happen when i started seeing all the marketing videos of dumb products promising to make ur mental health better ie kalani’s entire brand. Kalani loves her “mental illness” because she doesn’t actually have one and is making $$$ promoting her self care products to people who actually suffer. No girl ur sleeping mask and headband isn’t going to help my mentality.

I also agree i wouldve called those bitches out on their bullshit. I think she was nice about it because majority of social media caters to our snowflake generation now.

I completely agree. Couldn't have said it better

Yeaaaah sofia didn't make herself look good here 😬 yikes. mean girl vibes

Especially with ADHD. It’s not fun at all to have and yet people think it’s a fun, quirky thing.

this like idk these girls at all but to say so confidently your mental health gives u personality it just odd

Romanticization is dangerous and that’s exactly what Trisha was saying

agreed. we can love who we are despite our mental illnesses without making it seem fun or quirky to suffer from the symptoms.

YESSSSS SAY IT AGAIN FOR THE PPL IN THE BACK

she really has changed so much since becoming a mom. i think what she had to say was so important because there are days when i can't get out of bed and feel so defeated by my mental illness. i also hope she continues to thrive, it's really beautiful seeing her growth.

@@kathleenuclear exactly! you won’t catch me being the person that refuses to let her grow. this is the trisha we need.

I would like to not OCD about my next breath and how calamity befalls me with each decision. It sucks. I like to be extra clean and some of the OCD planning that I do. It makes sense. But the actual feelings r consuming. When I worked at the hospital, u would want me to be OCD about steps to ensure safety, cleanliness, and Ms checking my work. But it takes so much longer. And it's so exhausting. My illnesses so not make me happy.

Exactly.. denial or ignorance was behind the “ I love my mental illness “ comment

The only thing good thing that has come from my mental disorders is I have more empathy and patience with people. I still wish I didn’t have it. Because it’s caused me to suffer so much. It makes me miss work, have relationship issues and hygiene issues because I’m so depressed.

Or u might not have a mental.illness, just spoiled imo.

That part. All these high school drama loving mean girls getting massive followings and thinking it makes them invincible.

THISSS!!!

literally they’re so out of touch

@@aaliyahturcios945ur so right

Totally agree here. It MUST be a coping mechanism to act like your mental illness was a quirky charcter trait, right? Reminds me a lot of 2010s depression and SH romanticization on tumblr. Nobody actually enjoyed struggling but they bonded over being broken and tried to make themselves feel better somehow.

Definitely! It's very problematic to say "my mental illness is me".

Agreed I’m so pleased to see Trisha growing

I have mixed state bipolar disorder (so I get mania and depression at the same time. It's one of the most dangerous types of bipolar there is because a lot of people unalive themselves when they are in this mixed states), panic disorder/generalized anxiety disorder, C-PTSD, and ADHD and I'm on disability due to my mental illnesses because they are so debilitating I can't hold down a job (it also took me nearly 5 years of fighting to get on disability to get awarded to me. If it wasn't for my man and my parents helping me financially and emotionally while I fought my case, I don't know where I would be! It was a huge struggle/pain in the ass to get awarded the measly amount of money I get to live on every month but it's better than nothing.) I WISH my brain was "normal" so I could live a "normal" life and work a "normal" job but that's just not the life I'm ever gonna have and I've sort of come to terms with that and I also have physical disabilities now as well which also are difficult to deal with on a daily basis. These girls think mental illness is "cute and quirky" when it's not AT ALL! I spend the majority of my days in bed/in my apartment away from people and the world because I just can't deal with a lot of people and how harsh the world is for people like myself. Also the stigma surrounding mental illness is tough and people don't take you seriously especially now a days where it's become "trendy" to struggle with mental illness! As one bipolar person to another, wishing you all the best! 🖤🖤🖤

I have BPD and ADHD. I started really loving Trisha lately as she gives me hope! (Didn't think I would ever say it) I watch her podcast and videos, and I think to myself if SHE of all people can get better and work it out, I can. Especialy since she talks about her struggles and I finally feel represented. It's so hard having mental ilness, but BPD is litteral hell (in some countries you can get "medically unalived" for it) and seeing someone talk about mental illness as "loving it" is just disrespectful for those of us who actually struggle with it

This. This is the boat I have finally found myself in.

Exactly.

We don’t have to love it, but accepting it and working on it is good

@@katieobrien3505 it’s all we can do! Take it one day at a time and learn coping skills that work for us!

This exactly. There is a big difference between loving it and accepting it.

If she even has any at all I mean ppl lie all the time. Her saying how much she loves it honestly makes me think she doesn't have any at all imo.

​@@_Vonore_literally I would bet my life that sofia is that girl who thinks mental illness equals her having a few toxic traits or her doing a few "quirky" things and is like "omg im so ocd, ugh I'm so depressed today. Omg I was gaslighting him, I'm so toxic" 🙄

Yeah, that was truly pathetic. Seriously embarrassing on Sofia’s part.

Right. When that’s the first thing someone says in a response to something everything else after that is negated to me. It’s immature and shows she doesn’t have anything substantial or constructive to bring to the conversation. Trisha also wasn’t telling people how to feel about their mental illness she was literally making a video just for people that don’t feel that way. I’ve never heard of sophia but I definitely don’t like her.

People who don't actually have a mental illness and are bandwagoning for attention..which is weird. Idk either of the girls so I could and probably am off but they're just coming off as mean girls trying to keep up with the "trends". Not saying mental illness is a trend but it's a hot topic nowadays and gets attention which is why it seems like these girls are doing it for attention.

Because they don’t really have a serious mental illness. Sofia has daddy issues and prefers toxic men and as someone who also has those things, it’s not great but apparently she loves it 🤷🏼‍♀️

exactly! she just shared her own experience to help others see that they don't have to feel badly if they don't love their mental illness. she didn't say the two girls were wrong AT ALL, she was just sharing a different perspective/experience and i loved what she had to say.

Literally this, most of the creators I watch do this I, enjoy it🤷🏽‍♀️

the thing is anyone who says they love their mental illness most likely aren't actually suffering from one, they might just have a rough life patch - sure, but you can't convince me they're actually suffering from an illness. people who've been in the pits of hell solely because of their mental illness don't think it's fun and quirky. it's called illness for a reason. the actual horrors of mental illnesses haven't been destigmatized yet, they've been just superficially presented as a quirky relatable personality trait so it can be commercialized and monetized. the moment you exhibit any sort of actually odd mentally ill behavior, these same "i love my mental illness" girlies would look at you weird with zero empathy.

@@coniglianathis is so true.

@@conigliana Fr cause like anyone with an actual mental illness will tell you it's not something to love. I have an binge eating disorder and I don't love it because it's not only causing me to gain weight but it caused me to get type 2 diabetes at the age of 15 I just turned 20 in July

​@@ZionDoesMakeup i'm so sorry to hear that. i understand how real the struggle is. i've been having extremely hard time regulating my very intense emotions, especially bad emotions, something similar to bpd. it's nothing fun and quirky, it ruined a lot of good relationships with people i had in my life and isolated me completely for a very long time. i felt like i was trapped in those patterns of behavior, like i was an observer to my own doom and could do nothing about it to make it right. it's only as of lately that i've found the strength within me to forgive myself for all of that and then to consciously start changing my ways and learning how to deal with it in order to be more functional. stay strong. i'm sending you love and strenght to get better💗

@@conigliana God bless your heart I'll pray for you 💖

If you listen to the old episodes of CHD, Sophie was definitely the problem the entire time. Some random guys even had a spin off podcast to make fun of CHD because of how horrible their views / opinions were in the beginning

@@Dr.LongMonkey I think it's normal to get a second opinion, maybe even a third....but it seems like Trisha kept looking till she found someone who would diagnose her with something so she could use it for sympathy.

I’ve never been 😭😭

No, she's an awful person who's hurt so so Many and deserves nothing but the worst ❤

The garbage pos? No

N o

It’s Trisha Paytas. She would quite literally d*e if no one was talking about her.

For real leave her tf alone your not god damn special