While most women appreciate these videos on how to engage with men romantically, I have to dispel a little gaslighting when I see it: Ladies, let’s not fall for the okey-doke about a man’s testosterone controlling his conscious mind. If a man sees you, is attracted, approaches you and leads you to believe he wants a relationship but then as soon as he gets the loving, leaves you…he was scheming all along. Let’s not blame a hormone over the powerful mind and choices of a whole grown man. If we keep our legs closed until commitment, that will ward off a lot of playas.
@MySingleLife444 ай бұрын
YES! THANK YOU!!
@lavernejackson24743 ай бұрын
Let him go stop wasting your time move on with your life
@janakoncekova44423 ай бұрын
I never chase a man. I have my pride. If he pulls back,I pull back too.
@reneehaynes82895 ай бұрын
Just stay single and don't ever give him anything. Even if you wait to give him what he wants, the guy still ends up getting bored and moving on to the next. It's not worth the BS.
@user-hv7rk8vk4v5 ай бұрын
I agree some men just don't care no matter what
@Aditi19515 ай бұрын
Eye Bull's eye
@impulse0344 ай бұрын
Even us men feel like that. We are here dealing with women who want no commitment, they look you dead in the eyes and tell you they will bang you but they want no strings attached, but they want to waste your time and have you take them out to expensive resturants, shopping and all that crap. Money I can make back but time is precious when you have 2 jobs and a business to run to be wasting time on women that are liabilities rather than assets to your life. I see your point don’t get me wrong but both genders are playing games and are both losing
@kdcreative95414 ай бұрын
Amen to that
@kimthomas40474 ай бұрын
Agreed
@Leahmoonbeamflower5 ай бұрын
I think the key to life is too not expect anything from any human except for yourself. Men are not worth the stress they give. It’s better to keep yourself healthy and happy.
@vmjames7125 ай бұрын
Yes exactly! And I couldn’t help but notice how beautiful you are! @Leahmoonbeamflower
@Leahmoonbeamflower5 ай бұрын
@@vmjames712 oh ☺️thank you.
@brownjaded5 ай бұрын
Don’t GIVE IN AT ALL to avoid this ladies!!!
@saras.21735 ай бұрын
“You’ve been distant, I don’t want you no more.”
@CC-pu6qn4 ай бұрын
Some men intentionally do this. I had one guy say, why don’t you chase me. Turns out, he had mental problems, very insecure and always needed reassurance and someone chasing him.
@e.watson6346Ай бұрын
😅
@user-zz4pm5ll9r5 ай бұрын
I LOVE matching a man's efforts. I will fall back, its an art.
@luna84_5 ай бұрын
I dont lol but I'll do it til i get bored myself too...where i just stopped caring anymore
@ShadaeMastersAstrology4 ай бұрын
Like a slow dance. I didn’t understand the energetic dance until my mid 30’s.
@shieldoffaith70994 ай бұрын
Absolutely, it's beautiful you get to see the side they pretend to be, charming delightful and generous. If you slow it down the fake ones, players, those in relationships will get tired of play acting 🎬 and disappear. They will ALWAYS show their true self eventually if you observe and let them lead.
@TheMallyjoe4 ай бұрын
I think he is dead on with this video.
@TiaPickens4 ай бұрын
IN REAL LIFE
@jaylynnfarr12765 ай бұрын
Love this message and love that women are realizing that giving it up is a bad idea. Make him wait and prove that he's serious. If he's not, he'll drop off.
@lisalyte76564 сағат бұрын
This is the best advise all in a short 10 minutes. Sweet. Repeat. Share this with your daughters ladies. Thank you so much Kirk🙏
@yudollia5 ай бұрын
I love these types of videos on men. It really helps me understand
@joyfulfrazier29965 ай бұрын
I understand what he's talking about now. The feminine energy and the masculinity of a man in giving to him. I realize this, I would be on 💯 and he would be way behind . I have to look back and check myself. If I want to give I will give to myself.
@lesliethomas50885 ай бұрын
Same! I'm all in
@denises37794 ай бұрын
I'm glad I no longer care. When a man pull back he gets BLOCKED AND DELETED. It's sad relationships now are nothing but mere games instead of partnership
@lila80085 ай бұрын
The consistency and reassurance is missing from a lot of men. They don't understand that is what is needed if they want women to tolerate distance. Distance to us seems like men are hiding how they really feel. Sure, you can sort out your emotions on your own, but honest, deep communication is still needed. That is the foundation of a healthy, mature, emotionally safe relationship.
@user-hv7rk8vk4v5 ай бұрын
Pepo
@MySingleLife444 ай бұрын
So true!
@AlexisNexia454 ай бұрын
I’ve learned their communication is through action. I’ve rarely met a man who could match my verbal communication. As this man implies, pay attention to what they DO. When a man is consistent, he wants you. When he’s distant, he doesn’t.
@Hilary9455 ай бұрын
If a man pulls back, block and delete. There is absolutely no time for this.
@porschewalker56524 ай бұрын
🎯
@ninaziva46394 ай бұрын
All men do that at some point. So you'll just end up alone if you do that.
@auralionasol22054 ай бұрын
@@ninaziva4639 how do you know its all men?
@SR777364 ай бұрын
@@ninaziva4639 so?
@SsookawaiАй бұрын
@@ninaziva4639 False and I'm saying this as a woman. Most men do, and those most men aren't just ready. That same man who ghosted you, you'll find him after a few years with woman, married and all. He wasn't meant for you, that's all. As soon as we understand this, all is good... just move on and meet people, be good and work you keeping yourself healthy (mind and body), a man who's ready (who might have ghosted or ended stuff, "pulled back",etc) will definitely stick up with you.
@kamama8225 ай бұрын
So true... Never lower your standards, want for nothing, and you do see it's all friends with benefits. Marriage is investing in each other to accomplish more together. ❤️💜❤️
@MySingleLife444 ай бұрын
Last summer I hit it off with a family friend. I knew him for a while but we never hung out. We decided to date and he sent me flowers and took me out often. Well as soon as he gave me the key to his house he pulled back his energy. Idk if he wanted me to chase him but I let him know I dont chase. He said he didn't know how to be in a relationship so I gave him his key back until he's ready 😊 He made me feel inadequate
@mom2suns8574 ай бұрын
I know how you feel
@user-hv7rk8vk4v5 ай бұрын
Men in there 60s still trying to play games as well they are no different
@Ashleycycle4 ай бұрын
Amen
@cherryfranklin4 ай бұрын
Amen Amen Amen!
@bonitablack83064 ай бұрын
True
@kimberlymay94975 ай бұрын
I’m 53 and these videos have helped me so much. After divorcing I admit I became a lil desperate to want someone, ended up with a whole narc and dabbled in that over a year. A year of mostly misery. Discovered these coaches and became so much wiser and smarter when it comes to dealing with Men. New subbie 🎊 you make much sense.
@MelissaThompson4325 ай бұрын
This is the sort of thing that makes me glad I'm ace. If there's no sx there's no bull 💩.
@KefiraChosenRoyalty2 ай бұрын
If a Man says he found someone then I will certainly leave him alone. Thank You.
@eli300135 ай бұрын
It’s best to accept the reality/outcome often times we are driven by our egos/neediness that we over do our role. I leave people alone often & do my own thing & if they want to talk then we talk. When you chill out folks come back real quick lol I apply this to all interpersonal relationships.
@achieveelevatewithselenac.56385 ай бұрын
This is sooooo true. I KNOW FROM EXPERIENCE. IM 47 YO. THIS IS FACTS. I ENDORSE THIS MESSAGE....
@d.thompson74642 ай бұрын
Men put women in categories almost immediately. Men usually don’t tell you their intentions but they know very quickly and post-nut clarity is absolutely a real thing. Understand that if the energy is not “hell yes” then assume it’s “hell no”.
@originalmix25464 ай бұрын
Many men do not want to give, they will lift their hat and leave quickly even at the thought of giving..They will only stay as long as there are no indications of them giving...
@chastityconnor41484 ай бұрын
Put feelings to the side match a man's effort that part thank you sir
@KLPS-fk5mu4 ай бұрын
The last time I told my ex partner I don’t want to be in a relationship, I was fighting for my life in hospital, he didn’t try to change he just got violent
@sindyt15895 ай бұрын
Such beautiful truths, Boss! I am so eager to understand this! Thank you so much! 🙏🏽💯🥇👏🏽
@konsciousKirk5 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@Michelle-mu1wp4 ай бұрын
The thing with women... it's my opinion...we are wired to Love unconditionally our babies...to see and project their potential! Be a woman...not a Mom
@terrytrowbridge27304 ай бұрын
I love listening to this man talk. His voice soothes my spirit for some reason.
@betsyakoko68105 ай бұрын
😂😂😂We say curiousity killed a cat
@dona_grace5 ай бұрын
Thank you for dapling more into that topic of matching the effort. I was just meeting someone when I first heard it from another video of yours, and I actually decided to bow out of that situation being that it was just 3 days from the number exchange to his good mornings without further conversation.
@konsciousKirk5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing! Very smart of you to do. Sometimes we just gotta bow out
@marissahumblytherealistone89505 ай бұрын
Thank you Sooooo much Good Man ❤ i truly appreciate ALLL ur videos especially this one bc im a BIG GIVER, bc thats just who i am but THISSS helps out a lot!!! Ur the only one keeping it THIS real... Most men will NEVER say they fell in love wit ur "hand" but keep taking but MATCHING the EFFORT males soooo much sense!!! Yessss!!! Ladies BOSSS UP 💯 THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL KING 👑 and GOD BLESS YOU ABUNDANTLY 🙏
@jennifereastmond44155 ай бұрын
I experienced it. I wish I heard your message before.
@tawandahaulcy87004 ай бұрын
Thank you for helping women understand men. Loved this
@kingltllifalami68845 ай бұрын
😂Wow that is true my Teacher❤️
@konsciousKirk5 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
@kathycoates43335 ай бұрын
Facts💯💯💯 so true especially for a giver from the heart 😯😊 not speaking of the sex😂
@monit49765 ай бұрын
I can see clearly now. Thank you Kirk!!
@user-zz6kv3sd9g5 ай бұрын
Thank you, I appreciate what you had to say.
@konsciousKirk5 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@lorettajnpierre17765 ай бұрын
Love your advise....great stuff....refreshing info....thx
@konsciousKirk5 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!❤️❤️
@MelitaLabort5 ай бұрын
Beautiful 🥰 Thank you so much coach 🙏🏽💖 I'm learning, healing. I feel calmer in dating.
@cleovernebaptiste27474 ай бұрын
I need this word thank you first he give consistency then he stop fall back
@lisaclarkson76285 ай бұрын
When I say THANK U,THANK U! for your teachings. ❤❤❤
@Sonyb3ats5 ай бұрын
I really like the things you've been saying on your platforms. You popped up on my feed when I was listening to Miss Faye, and I must say, I've been listening to you ever since. I did that exercise you suggested about looking in the eyes of my ex on their pictures and saying that I rebuke them being in my mind, spirit and ORA! Really needed to hear what I've been hearing from you. Bless ed. 🤗
@jazzys82405 ай бұрын
It’s so true. Thank you brother ❤
@priscillasmith93095 ай бұрын
I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THESE FUKED UP GAMES
@opaqueluna58514 ай бұрын
DAMN RIGHT!!
@EleutheranBeauty5 ай бұрын
NOTHING BUT FACTS BEING SPOKEN HERE
@hemamadhuri85355 ай бұрын
Wow . Super. Amazing 🎉well said 👏
@traceey702 ай бұрын
Match his energy every time
@missyt032445 ай бұрын
I'm so happy that I found and subscribed to your channel. ❤ I always learn something new. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom. 😊
@stacieescoffery73935 ай бұрын
I just love the stuff you say
@newyorkdiva35 ай бұрын
This was a really good message.
@melawieeinapfel85944 ай бұрын
In the end there will be two people who are interested in each other but will not show interest to „keep the other one chasing“🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
@AmericanDreamer4 ай бұрын
indeed and - what a waste of time!
@zahiabouras85335 ай бұрын
Kirk, Thank you for your time, God bless you😊
@Alexis-ed8km5 ай бұрын
Great video. Just plain and straight to the pointe.
@maryannkeenan8515 ай бұрын
I will maych the effort from now on. Thank you, appreocated you.... more power 😊 From 🇵🇭
@Peacelove10105 ай бұрын
Thank you brother!!
@prettyricki22225 ай бұрын
You are so helpful!!!!!! Thank you!!!!!
@tainahernandez48254 ай бұрын
Thank you. Very straightforward and simple advice.
@olisaboden-ts5sb5 ай бұрын
This has helped me so much today ❤😊
@konsciousKirk5 ай бұрын
Awesome ❤️❤️
@Touchedmymouthministriesint5 ай бұрын
Wisdom we need to practise
@konsciousKirk5 ай бұрын
❤️❤️
@napagaportuphy85095 ай бұрын
Wonderful video for all ladies. Thank you
@angelaharry381414 күн бұрын
So true 👍
@carolynmerritt71004 ай бұрын
Testosterone ugh. Hate it. Ooh so i should make him believe i am desperate then he will leave me alone. I don't want him but he keeps pushing. So peaceful without his vampire energy clouding my space.
@marysalami20465 ай бұрын
Thanks very much for sharing your knowledge 😇👍❤
@LoveBeautyFun74 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@AJ-jf2ui5 ай бұрын
Thats right ladies. Dont sell yourself short.
@ririfaye1455 ай бұрын
Good teaching 🔥🔥🔥‼️
@alomalashley11855 ай бұрын
Never thought about matching his effort...sage advice i will practice from now on🫶🏾
@angelalynn42254 ай бұрын
True words
@sheekajohnson22282 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤.
@janettemccuien42495 ай бұрын
I enjoyed listening to your information.
@konsciousKirk5 ай бұрын
Thank you🙏🏾
@MZIAMTHATIAM5 ай бұрын
I can’t wait to take your class, sensai!
@AshzxQuidYT2 ай бұрын
If you give to fast people fall in love with your hands and not your heart.
@bridgetharris84464 ай бұрын
This is GOOD 👍🏾
@shalizalacombe63305 ай бұрын
You're excellent 🌿🙏❤️🤲🙂🌿
@konsciousKirk5 ай бұрын
🥰🥰🙏🏾
@krintinesales26874 ай бұрын
Very well said.. keep it up
@cleovernebaptiste27475 ай бұрын
Yes I'm matching efford
@fuckeries5 ай бұрын
What’s annoying is many of millennials grew up in an era where we were encouraged to explore our sexuality. One night stands could lead to relationships they said. And truly in my youth, there weren’t any consequences, guys always stuck around. However, in my thirties it’s been harder, things feel heavier. People have less opportunity for mistakes plus everything is more consequential. You have to go back to the 90 days.
@VeeKayGreenerGrass5 ай бұрын
Men bond through vasopressin. Sex is never a feature of this. Do activities together outside the bedroom.
@LovelyLisha34 ай бұрын
I think about that sometimes....My experience was the guys sticking around too. Times have changed for sure and I'm not good at playing this new game of relationship monopoly; where there's a gamble at every turn and the game never ends. I rather stay single 🩷💜🩷💜
@VeeKayGreenerGrass4 ай бұрын
@@LovelyLisha3 indeed. The men were different too.
@miajerry52194 ай бұрын
Women need to accept men for what they naturally are!! We have to understand how their biologically wired so we can move accordingly. Princella Clark teaches this beautifully
@mariaclarksoprano75574 ай бұрын
SO......TRUE
@user-dm5em1hi9p5 ай бұрын
LOOOOVVE IT❤❤❤
@sheashearttoheart11115 ай бұрын
I needed this
@angelalynn42254 ай бұрын
Facts
@aladysoldier66045 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@aliciawoods97104 ай бұрын
Facts❤
@tbunnyshy126 күн бұрын
Unfortunately the wonderful, prolonged eye contact, smiles and hugs were simply manipulation. It started after MONTHS of knowing him. It was great til I figured him out. It is what it is.
@relaxurmind88482 ай бұрын
I need your shirts!
@SiSTARWande4 ай бұрын
Subscribed 👀
@2020sweelew5 ай бұрын
💯
@arleenotero32435 ай бұрын
Very good 👍
@aprilfontenot93544 ай бұрын
This is sad but true in my marriage now.
@renestaten52405 ай бұрын
❤
@SS-in1ts4 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@basimahknowshow4 ай бұрын
Its true! You cannot chase anyone! Noatter howuch you like em DONT CHASE OR PUSH FORWARD! KEEP IT CUTE, SEXY AND STAY FLY ALWAYS! IF HE WANTS , HE WILL PURSUE YOU!
@angelgreen99455 ай бұрын
I clicked the like button so fast.
@Holyspirit3135 ай бұрын
Love is not all over the place , it's consistent and unchanging, Love is God . Seems like you've never experienced true love so you shouldn't speak on it and lead people down a path of destruction, be careful when you speak on Love because you speaking on God . ❤ All respectfully