TUA # 26 - Better Quality Women Do This - Green Flags
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Күн бұрынMany of you have appreciated my chapter on "Red Flags" to look for in women, and have asked for guidance on positive traits to look for in women.
In this video, I'll be reviewing what "Green Flags" to look for when selecting women to invite into your life.
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00:00 - Intro
01:51 - The Essential Red Flags
03:25 - Green Flags
03:41 - She Has a Good Relationship With Her Dad
06:20 - If You Get Sick, Does She Take Care of You ?
07:51 - She Stays Away From News/Media
09:11 - She is Generally Positive And Cheery About Life
10:10 - She Has a Purpose in Life, But is Not a Boss Girl
11:37 - She Takes Ownership in Life
12:52 - She Doesn’t Compare You With Previous Boyfriends
15:07 - She Doesn’t Nag You
15:47 - She Supports Your Purpose
17:04 - Low Notch Count
18:22 - She Works Out
18:57 - She’s Got Culinary Skills
20:26 - She’s Tidy and Cleans Up
22:46 - She Treats Your Kids Nicely
23:53 - She Doesn’t Seek Attention on Social Media
25:48 - She is Obedient to You
27:30 - She is a Complement to Your Life
28:56 - Q&A - Superchats
35:10 - Live Caller - What If Her Father is a Beta ?
39:44 - Live Caller - Focusing on Green vs Red Flags
42:53 - Live Caller - Working on Yourself vs Chasing Tail
50:24 - Live Caller - The Emasculation of Men
1:02:37 - Live Caller - The Road to Becoming The Unplugged Alpha
1:08:16 - Live Caller - Getting Over Oneitis
01:22:14 - Live Caller - Dating Single Moms
1:36:48 - Q&A - Superchats
1:40:16 - Channel Sponsors
1:41:16 - Outro
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@danielduke5463 2 жыл бұрын
Went out on a limb and purchased your book, I could have use this many years ago.
@jenc9511 Жыл бұрын
Its crazy that I am a red flag single mom, but then I fully agree and do all the green flags..gonna have a woman who wants to see the best in you...and helps you to grow and learn to be the best version of yourself....and keep you full and empty your balls :)
@jamesthomas8376 5 ай бұрын
Rich. Love your work man. What's the link to the Instagram profile you recommended please?
@user-es5gx2di7h 2 жыл бұрын
Takes care of you when you're sick. This one hits me hard. We dated for 6 months, high levels of enthusiasm, seems to be going really well. Just before a couple's holiday I get really bad food poisoning. She only gets me something because I ask, but otherwise doesn't take care of me during the holiday. Goes out with my friends while I go home. Later blames me for being cold and distant. I felt so guilty but realised that it's a basic rule: when you're sick, your gf should make you a priority and care for you, even if you don't ask for it.
@AHouseDivided1998 Жыл бұрын
If she can’t handle you being sick, she won’t be able to handle your future children being sick either.
@bethg.5611 3 ай бұрын
Do boyfriends take care of sick girlfriends?
@MrReyjulian 2 жыл бұрын
Huge green flag in my opinion: she is kind to elderly people / she is polite with hospitality staff
@InternationalHealthCoach 2 жыл бұрын
Good heart Manners
@saelaird 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, completely agree. Every woman who does this is generally decent and has class.
@kimkimpa5150 2 жыл бұрын
Beware though, there's a difference between kindness towards elderly people and chosing to care about the elders as a profession. Women in geriatric care are usually batsh1t, the "care" for elders due to superiority complex.
@AudiFanPK 2 жыл бұрын
I don't disagree. But it's a sad world in which common f4cking decency is a plus instead of the norm.
@princesssharkie 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏻👏🏻
@zajarcairuda 2 жыл бұрын
as a female, this informations is outstanding. High quality men and women seem to be having the same issues. Thank you, Rich, for calling out the bullshit. As a woman, I take this information to better myself because I am DONE finding these low quality men.
@laurel237 2 жыл бұрын
Same. There are so many low quality men out there who feel they are entitled to high quality women and then have a tantrum (or worse) when they get rejected.
@shayorshayorshayor 2 жыл бұрын
Just make sure you deserve them.
@sweynforkbeard8857 2 жыл бұрын
No, No, No This is all wrong, you are supposed to get all your life advice from other females.
@insomniacresurrected1000 2 жыл бұрын
You are subscribed to Anna Bey, drop that shit!
@sweynforkbeard8857 2 жыл бұрын
@@insomniacresurrected1000 Good point. All you are giving women from these "green light" videos is a clue as to how to fake being virtuous. I'm not worried as their true nature always appears eventually. Just be wary and observant.
@Matthewsala 2 жыл бұрын
Polar opposites of the red flags. Good relationship with her father, and speaks respectfully of men in general. Has affinity for strong, masculine men. Does she take care of you if you get sick? She stays away from news, drama, gossip, cable TV, etc. Generally positive and cheery outlook on life. Has purpose in life, without being bossy. Takes ownership for choices in her life. Accountability. Has a low notch count. Doesn't reminisce about past men. Is able to form a healthy pair bond. Pleasant, and doesn't nag consistently. Time spent together is uplifting and interesting. Encourages and supports your purpose. Active and exercises. Culinary skills. Tidy and cleans up on her own initiative. Reliable and consistent. Engages with any children you might have. Low profile on social media. Willing obedience.
@direwolf6234 2 жыл бұрын
18 good traits .. would you settle for 12 .. ??
@charlesmorello5641 2 жыл бұрын
This species became extinct many decades ago.
@ludaMerlin69 2 жыл бұрын
Sound just like all the women pining for "Mr right"
@END-THE-FED 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah woman that fit that niche are about as plentiful as unicorns.
@RJay121 2 жыл бұрын
How old is she? Any woman under 50 is infected by Social Media.
@ellaenchanting2122 2 жыл бұрын
Not all women who had bad fathers are toxic. If she has forgiven her parents for the mistakes they made, that is a virtue.
@melodyw1917 Жыл бұрын
This is true I had an absent father but I have worked on this over the years and have forgiven my father for leaving my life and forgiveness is key.. I am currently in a good relationship now and have been for a year. He had a stable childhood and compliments me well…
@dinaf.k5372 Жыл бұрын
Yes. Although my father had been living with me throughout my life, he was truly absent emotionally and not 100% supportive during my teenhood. It was those times where we just grew apart and we never get to spend time together. He is a busy man and everytime when I was sick, he was not there for me nor was he ever spiritually supportive when I became closer to God. Anyway, it is the past. I shall continue to be present for those who weren't loved because I noticed during those times my father was never present with me.
@jwill9877 Жыл бұрын
Its risky. A major influence on how we act and think as adults is developed in our childhood because of the relationship we had with our parents. As adults, You will always seek to replay those childhood trauma issues with your significant other. It's human nature. Women with childhood trauma, usually jump on the CC in an attempt to fix those issues.
@DrFrankenschtein 5 ай бұрын
Can we stop with the damn NAWALT arguments for once and for all? Ffs
@John-vc1kz 2 ай бұрын
It takes an investment of time, somewhat, to discern if a woman who has red flags is salvageable. Always approach with caution. All women lie,all women will glom onto you for short term benefits. They'll monkey branch when they can. ( Hypergamy)
@T..C..M 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, my wife has ZERO of those 20 red flags, I need to appreciate that fact more. Things aren't always perfect, but damn, not a single red, but most of the green.
@danielplowright5701 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing is ever as it seems.
@nyceteris 2 жыл бұрын
If ZERO red flags and most are green, what is the third color if not red or green?
@bruswain9158 2 жыл бұрын
@@nyceteris amber 🔥
@Asdfbedffhdsxe345 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! A lucky man
@seamusburke9101 Жыл бұрын
Lucky man!
@GodlyDownloads 2 жыл бұрын
As a Woman, i enjoy watching your videos. I agree with a lot of what you say. Femininity and masculinity compliment one another and both play it’s role in a healthy relationship. I grew up with a good example of what femininity and masculinity is, and saw how well they both balanced one another. I for one, love a masculine man who appreciates my femininity. I let a man be a man and I like a man to let me be a woman.
@talisikid1618 Жыл бұрын
I just realized what makes your site better than all the others. Truth. Honesty. Integrity. You make everyone take personal accountability. Male and female alike. That’s exactly what this crumbling culture needs the most.
@mikemcgarr7881 2 жыл бұрын
Moff in the chat = "A lot of Captain Save a Ho's in the military though". 🤣Absolutely 100% spot on my friend.
@JustActNormal 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for pointing out that quality women deserve quality men.
@patricktraichal9287 2 жыл бұрын
The word "deserve" is problematic (passive). "Earn" may be a better choice. Yes, it is reciprocal.
@Roger-of5ij 2 жыл бұрын
My wife of 20+ years: Good relationship with her father, and speaks respectfully of men in general. YES Has affinity for strong, masculine men. YES Does she take care of you if you get sick? YES She stays away from news, drama, gossip, cable TV, etc. YES Generally positive and cheery outlook on life. YES Has purpose in life, without being bossy. YES Takes ownership for choices in her life. Accountability. YES Has a low notch count. Doesn't reminisce about past men. Is able to form a healthy pair bond. YES (she was a virgin before we were married) Pleasant, and doesn't nag consistently. Time spent together is uplifting and interesting. YES Encourages and supports your purpose. YES Active and exercises. YES Culinary skills. YES Tidy and cleans up on her own initiative. YES Reliable and consistent. YES Engages with any children you might have. YES (we have two kids). Low profile on social media. YES (Isn't on social media) Willing obedience. YES Fellas, I shit you not, I really did hit the jackpot with my wife. Also, she is STILL beautiful with a great figure, not from me just saying this but from other people saying it to her.
@geoffrygifari3377 2 жыл бұрын
Teach us sensei
@TreeofLife_111 2 жыл бұрын
So I’m basically all of these … the only thing is I was raised on simple foods and my father was the one who cooked. When I was in my ltr in my 20s, we didn’t have money, so we ate very basic meals. I did most of that cooking. But then now I have been seeing a man who is Italian and grew up with French cooking. I am not at that level but have shown interest in learning. He says no hunny you can’t cook, so with that I have been baking him things. But I don’t think he wants me to improve with my cooking skills. What can I do to show him I want to cook the way he likes with lots of flavor? Do you have any suggestions?
@TreeofLife_111 2 жыл бұрын
Also… I’m in school and he wants me to also work a traditional job full time as well. Do you know what this means? Are all men like this?
@Roger-of5ij 2 жыл бұрын
@@geoffrygifari3377 to find a girl with the qualities all men want, marry a girl who, previous to marriage, isn't self-absorbed, isn't heavily on social media - no social media is best and she has a STRONG family unit with her parents...these women don't live in the West. Beautiful girls like these can be found in northern India, Nepal, Bhutan, the outskirts of Russian cities and remote but civilized areas in Africa. In those regions alone that I just mentioned, there are likely millions of the kind of women all men seek. Hope this helps.
@Roger-of5ij 2 жыл бұрын
@@TreeofLife_111 There's an old adage about the only thing men need from women: "come naked, bring food". The food part seems to be sussed out by your new partner but I would work on the naked part (ie. please him with what he likes) and at the same time, work on getting better with your baking. You can also experiment with other types of food he doesn't know. Surprise him......not sure why he wants you to work a f/t job and no, not all men like that. At the same time, we live in a two paycheck world but if that's not something you want, I'd have a serious talk with this guy. He may be broke which is never good.
@ChefBurns1 Жыл бұрын
My ex was a walking red flag. I had major surgery On my birthday. Not only did she not take care of me. She called me lazy and dumb because I couldn’t sit down on my bed, because I was in so much pain. “you didn’t listen to the doctor” didn’t even pick Up my meds, and went out and got shit faced with her friends. Truly a disgusting person.
@HeathcliffeJ 2 жыл бұрын
One of the hidden traits that I have found in a good women is if a women makes the effort to make amazing food then she is prepared to make the effort to make you happy. Just down to the amount of effort she is prepared to bring to the table
@apontutul Жыл бұрын
Cooking skills or willingness are essential but That can be a bait as well.
@lexiegirl1494 Жыл бұрын
@@apontutul hahaha...bait???? You must really like food lol
@rm6857 2 ай бұрын
it can change in any day btw
@angusharley5947 2 жыл бұрын
Rich has basically told me that the women I date have had multiple red flags and although I may have been somewhat to blame for my relationships with these girls ending, I now know that the vast majority of it was not my fault. I feel like the red pill massively lessens your options to date quality women on a long term basis, but when you see through all of the red flags, you end up with better quality women. It is also better to be alone than with the wrong person. Keep working on yourself lads, and eventually the cream will rise to the top and you will find someone worthy enough to compliment your life. If not, just make the most of having no romantic commitments in your life.
@messenger1556 2 жыл бұрын
Rich, you have saved me a ton of grief and heartaches, thank you sir.
@fivestepsforward4723 Жыл бұрын
Love how you asked him where “HE” thought he was on a scale of 1-10? He was honest….and then you told him. Why go out and spend money and attract Women that aren’t genuinely attracted to you. You told him to “Level Up” and the experiences will be better. That was great advice. Also…maybe he will have to find some new friends. I like that the caller was trying to improve himself. He is almost there. Leave those negative influences alone…and stay on your mission.
@unclegunnysack4895 2 жыл бұрын
My wife's only red flag is hardcore gamer. Sounds like I got a keeper. Thank you for the list.
@erikandreas4896 Жыл бұрын
Biggest green flags are -minimal or no social media/ phone usage -Headstrong and healthy and won't take any meds/injections -Is always outside and busy being active
@optiksmatter 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a fan and get a lot out of your content and views. One thing I think is missing from your Red Flag list are things related to Cluster B type personality disorders. Narcissism and Borderline Personality Disorder both tend to involve someone that is effectively two people. The external personae that most know and the private personae that is often only revealed to the love interest. Often it takes months before the revelation happens but there are many red flags and hints as well as tests one can conduct to flesh it out. The point being a person can appear to be high value and together when in fact they are a masquerade or an act that is a form of a trap that reveals itself once you get invested or locked in.
@AK-hp8pc 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely correct and well summarized. I'm going to guess that you have had a relationship with someone with one of these personality disorders?
@apontutul Жыл бұрын
All the red flags are part of Personality disorders
@Asdfbedffhdsxe345 2 жыл бұрын
I love everyone of these podcasts.... this has completely changed my life... Thank you
@mile3018 2 жыл бұрын
This is going to be in the later chapters of education as my son grows up. I found this after the fall. Never hearing this coming up, I will not allow a repeat.
@jimmycees4042 Жыл бұрын
Bravo Jenna, it was a pleasure to hear your conversation with Rich today. You were respectful and clear of thought. Good advice Rich, i hope these young men get to understand what and how to make their lives better.
@david021291 2 жыл бұрын
Great analysis Rich! Thanks a lot!
@ericrathjens8847 Жыл бұрын
Appreciate how Rich interacts with the audience and allows them the space to integrate the concepts. Thanks Jenna!
@Moraima_Buonafede 2 жыл бұрын
This video was so so refreshing, I always knew in my soul that even though society had turned men and women into what we see today, there would come the day that true masculine men would come back and would welcome high-quality women. High-value individuals are hard to find for both sexes but not impossible, there is too much to say about this video but it's amazing!
@isis9210 2 жыл бұрын
Impossible is made by I am possible
@jorgeberdecia772 2 жыл бұрын
Great content Rich thanks for that. Great book as well Brother!
@billy5077 2 жыл бұрын
More conversations with ladies like Jenna. F&F and Kevin Samuels are great but this just seems more productive. Cheers men!
@AudiFanPK 2 жыл бұрын
F&F and KS deliberately scrape the bottom of the barrel to stir up the muck. If what you see there is close to what you consider normal, you need a change of social circle.
@kekeivopatzschke4879 2 жыл бұрын
Best content within this topic. Thanks and greetings Form Germany 🇩🇪🤗
@Nick-ue9of 2 жыл бұрын
Love this vid. Sometimes it’s easy to just focus on looking for the red and we miss the greens. This vid opened my eyes to a lot of the things my new one is doing. Although it’s been a few months, I’ll be aware that these green flags are consistent.
@tjhammer24 2 жыл бұрын
Ya know, after reading this list. I actually see my woman more optimistically. I'm a hyper critical fk and I do think that over the years, taking in a lot of content and analysis of female nature has made me even more critical
@Nick-ue9of 2 жыл бұрын
@@tjhammer24 it's ok to be hyper critical. There's a lot riding on us to not be. I was burned about four months ago so I focused so hard to find the reds, I didn't see the green.
@tjhammer24 2 жыл бұрын
@@Nick-ue9of second sentence is key fact
@robertbeckham3091 2 жыл бұрын
“Behind every successful man there’s a woman who betrayed him”
@letsgetjackdup9952 2 жыл бұрын
lol
@c.q.mcwilliams282 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely...
@sb83236 Жыл бұрын
Word.
@paulariese260 2 жыл бұрын
A guy who “spins a girl like a plate” would be dropped like a hot potato. This is not a top-shelf guy. if he did it to her, he can do it to you. If I see signs that the guy has used women merely for sex that is a big red flag and a big NO.
@talisikid1618 Жыл бұрын
Yep.
@momma_goose 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome podcast as always ✌️
@celisachoo7900 7 ай бұрын
When I was young my adopted mother used to say that I’m always hiding my figure. And, she would tell me that if she had the figure she would flunt it. But, on the other hand my adopted dad always says that if a man buys you with money you are easily replaced. I looked up to dad because he was intelligent and sensible. I liked the fact that he had the last say in the end.
@goldenremnant2610 2 жыл бұрын
For what its worth, many of these can be developed in a woman (or a person in general). I have a wife that follows me no matter where we go in life and that unlocks a great deal of potential in her because it allows me to focus on getting myself to the “top shelf” status while at the same time, bringing her along with me. In fact, let me say that a woman willing to submit and follow a man is key - it creates a tremendous amount of potential for both of you.
@pablorages1241 2 жыл бұрын
Just remember even though she has the green flags OVER TIME SHE WILL CHANGE ! ... you need to be on top of her behavior and address any change !
@Charles-vd3vc 2 жыл бұрын
Pre-nuptial and post-nuptial, even if you do not get legally married, ensures you remain in control of that behavior, else you can walk and not lose everything.
@caterinadelgalles8783 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, men women pretend to have these qualities. It's her neuroticism that will show up after a few months.
@haselbasil2488 2 жыл бұрын
I say the same thing about men, they will change over time and not for the better. I tell women not to put up with that.
@pablorages1241 2 жыл бұрын
@@haselbasil2488 No ... men become who they are early ... they change little ... that's why women get so frustrated trying to change them ... the old adage "Women want their men to change, men want their women to stay the same" is very true
@haselbasil2488 2 жыл бұрын
@@pablorages1241 No I don't agree, I see men change all the time especially in marriage, in fact I think it is why so many women lose attraction to their husbands because after some time they are not the man they married.
@teenindustry 7 ай бұрын
If she is not living with you why would she be the one to do your laundry or jump to do the dishes???
@Son-of-Krypton 2 жыл бұрын
Thanx Rich….every episode is like a college year 😎
@talisikid1618 Жыл бұрын
This is a great site. I like how you remind us guys we have to be what we expect her to be.
@TruckersEd 2 жыл бұрын
I sent this to a girl "friend" so she can know what to focus on. She's a TradWife widow, one marriage and one notch count. So she's maybe a good catch, just not for me. Hopefully it will help her be more green 🤠
@drip369 2 жыл бұрын
The only way to tell if a woman is going to reflect her contentious mother is to see if she behaves like her mother, but if she is the opposite and she tries to mirror her father, and she actually expresses and shows favor towards her father, then she likely doesn't want to be anything like her contentious mother
@centurioncorso7131 Жыл бұрын
Love some rich !!! He’s like the stern uncle every guy needed to have to teach some additional life lessons . But you can always count on his class I’ve catch phrase “ rabbit hole “ will always pop up in the first 2-3 minutes of any videos he’s made 😆. Oh well , love ya uncle Rich !
@damianstachelski775 2 жыл бұрын
Embracing all this red pill knowledge has definitely made me more conservative. Dating some left leaning ultra feminist woman sounds like the ultimate nightmare. Could we say her being more liberal in her political views is a red flag?
@gamintrucker1016 2 жыл бұрын
I you want be in a LTR don't mess with liberal women. I rejected a woman for not letting me touch her tits. She had her panties down and her hands all over me. She said: I'm not ready for you to touch my boobs. What????? Wha
@gamintrucker1016 2 жыл бұрын
Liberals are mess up.
@damianstachelski775 2 жыл бұрын
@@gamintrucker1016 Lmao. Fuck. That. Shit. You did the right thing by rejecting her.
@Bwh-rm3py 2 жыл бұрын
Liberal women tend to complain a lot.
@JAKEBrakeModel94 2 жыл бұрын
Hard pass IMO. I’d even say, look out for some feminist conservative women. Sounds like an oxymoron, but They’re out there believe it or not. No matter what, formulate some questions that reveal this information to you.
@bodazaphfa 2 жыл бұрын
All of the ladies responding positively to this content, you should be spreading this truth to your female friends and family members and make sure you overtly / publicity shame th0t behaviors mercilessly. That’s when we’ll definitely know you’re sincere in your positive comments. And if you already ARE doing the above-said things, then my hats off to you, because I know it’s VERY tough for you to do so with the sisterhood and all.
@gkcmcs 2 жыл бұрын
One thing I’ve found is that a healthy relationship with a father is one that also doesn’t over value daddy. The woman who’s daddy hasn’t let go and who has not let go of being his little girl is not likely to see you as her man, you are second at best, expendable, and daddy will always be the man she revolves her family around.
@bybyebuyforfourfore3800 2 жыл бұрын
So true. I lost my family to her father. She will always be daddys little girl. She wasted 10 years of my life and we have 3 beautiful children. She dumped me out of nowhere.
@mile3018 2 жыл бұрын
@ 34:45 Thats what got me. I put it together as it was coming apart.
@hi90163 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the time stamps!
@TheJonathanWatkins Жыл бұрын
Awesome advice and snazzy sweater, Boss.
@whitelightning90 2 жыл бұрын
Great show
@ChrisProutyVideos 2 жыл бұрын
Your video is so valuable, I can't thank you enough for sharing this with me.
@paulgonzalezcooks Жыл бұрын
I just realized you helped me get unplugged. Thanks for everything Rich.
@shugabuns8255 5 ай бұрын
The "red flag" issue Rich lays out, which I can relate to, is what relationship a woman has/had with her father. Even though I had my father growing up, I was never lavished with positive attention or love from him. I was never a "daddy's girl", and had to learn for myself how to be a "green light" supportive partner for my spouse. Daddy issues are real. It's not our fault, but it is up to us women to work on them and heal.
@ianthesiow3013 Жыл бұрын
Another great sharing. TQ.
@maueenali8056 2 жыл бұрын
Rich, shared your content, book and merch with our sons- thank you for being such an incredible influence in so many lives- more than you know thank you !
@turnbucklemagazine7296 2 жыл бұрын
Pleasant change to see the other side of the red pill coin addressed.
@binkawy 2 жыл бұрын
Great show, Great discussions and very insightful.
@maril1379 2 жыл бұрын
Thumbs up. Yes I agree watch how she treats other people. Is she appreciative of little gifts. If not well she is there if sick BTW there are great divorced women with kids. There are lovely widowed women with/without children.
@gkcmcs 2 жыл бұрын
Great video.
@sergiogonzalesYT 3 ай бұрын
Great video, thank you.
@123tonyking 2 жыл бұрын
Rich is the big brother everyone wants 🤘
@punerebel 2 жыл бұрын
Do red flags and green flags in Men!
@nrmanzanares 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@EntrepreneursInCars 2 жыл бұрын
Welcome!
@jamespowers8142 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, for this great information. Rich your a wise man I’ve been learning so much from your videos
@saadk8905 2 жыл бұрын
Finally some green flags.
@wm2828 2 жыл бұрын
Good advice.
@thegovtard1872 2 жыл бұрын
The biggest red flag in any person is how they treat their waiter/ waitress. If the first thing out of their mouth is "I want" there's your neon red flag
@emmiestegmann2997 2 жыл бұрын
I have a little giggle when I see how you struggle with the 'green flags' but what you say is a lot like what King Lemuel's mother told him about women and the green flags he has to look out for in Proverbs 31 Solomon had also a lot to say about women in Proverbs: “Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.” Prov 21 I'll share this video with my grandsons. I still think you must make a video for "boys'' age 15 to 20 English is not my first language.
@NofyahShemTov 2 жыл бұрын
Will have to remember for my book unicorn or cat
@jonathanmott7434 2 жыл бұрын
Rich just Thanos snapped every option. Thanks 😊 keeps it simple 🤣 😂 🤣 😂
@ManoftheMostHigh 2 жыл бұрын
"After you been run through the grinder" Important , experience is a hell of a teacher.. Younger men pay attention...
@g-man3093 2 жыл бұрын
Plate spinning sounds good in theory, but guys do get hung up on a look and can't help fixating. You can walk away and wait, but it's not always easy to quickly replace candidates.
@talisikid1618 Жыл бұрын
Plate spinning is wrong. Simple.
@siggyrides Жыл бұрын
In the next book, please break down working toward becoming. How to become. That would be a huge.
@driftlesswindsfarm2129 2 жыл бұрын
For Vinny...the first thing that stuck out to me was that you went over to her place first. The other thing for Vinny is there is a "moth to a flame" thing that can happen with red flag women who are smoking hot. It is actually easier to develop onetis to a certain type of empowered, interesting women. But agree with main points - should have kept dating other women until SHE brings up the conversation about relationship. And, it sounded like frame issues in that relationship from the beginning.
@PanSearedRibeye68 2 жыл бұрын
1. Vinny needs to put on a shirt. ;) 2. Why would you suggest that Vinny date early 20’s women if he doesn’t want to have any more kids? Women in their early 20’s are fertile and wanting to start families. They’d let themselves get pregnant to trap a guy like him.
@manishgiri354 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Rich, How to be more captivating? I am improving my life and having a routine based life (gym, work, eating clean, go out on weekends for game, reading, meditation, others self improvement stuff).
@PSKuddel 2 жыл бұрын
Really great list of red flags (mentioned at the beginning) and green flags, thank you. Do you have a similar list of red and green flags for us men?
@JamesParus 2 жыл бұрын
24, in shape and has a job. Sounds like perfect position to go out there.
@user-bu6vg8zo2u 10 ай бұрын
Disobedience/ obedience / compliance? What? I cannot even imagine that any golden relationship revolves around any of the above. Women are not dogs to be told what to do or be obedient. Not right! I really like some of what you say. Certainly accountability is a two way street. Men need to bring a lot to the table as well. More now than ever. This is 2023 not 1950. However, I do see your point on many things.
@twinblade63 2 жыл бұрын
dang, too bad i missed this while it was live. i would have called in to ask: how do you handle a woman who demonstrates both red AND green flags simultaneously? i suppose the "weighting" of the various flags would be up to us and we'd have to do some math to determine if she's net-red or net-green
@rickracer78 2 жыл бұрын
Red flags might be misconstrued for shit tests.
@danx1216 2 жыл бұрын
Good channel One additional thing to think about Introvert vs extrovert Introverts are not party girls will more likely be there for you but hv higher neurosis possibility
@sheldajacques2562 6 ай бұрын
I like your content, I like it when you talk about top-shelf men. Some men need to know how to be a top-shelf to be an alpha.
@edub8803 2 жыл бұрын
Jenna said she and her friends "may be able to make some concessions if he's not the highest earning"??? But we still can't see Jenna and her friends... 🤔
@drip369 2 жыл бұрын
Women sure do love the texture of men in cardigans 😁
@shanemenger7937 2 жыл бұрын
Great Show!! Your correlation between red and green flags were spot on. Thanks Rich!
@yankeedoodle6293 2 жыл бұрын
Groovey 🐐
@steelethescene 3 ай бұрын
No one should “put up with crap” including drama, entitlement, assumptions, and self-absorption. Terms in relationships might sometimes need to be renegotiated. Men AND women should seek someone who complements them. I’ve been in situations where i’m told what to do and THAT is crap. Where is the mutual love and respect in all of these relationship guidelines?
@warofhell2 2 жыл бұрын
Well my lastgfhad every red flag in the book sad part is i never would of dated that girl before but seriously everything being listed by rich is soo true of lots of the weman in my area its pretty messed up
@maxwell-cole 2 жыл бұрын
This is spot on, well-articulated, and every single point you have articulated is something men need to understand, accept as true, and follow 100% of the time, or else their lives will be a nightmare. I agree we this is spoken from experience. I am 44 years old and have encountered and dated women that are exactly what you have stated. The boss girls are the worst. Accountability is always an issue with women. Let me. It even get into the salsa dancers who think men of value are going to put up with that nonsense because they like “dancing.” Salsa dancers are the most promiscuous women, as are the men that go to the club to pick up the low hanging fruit. Social media is absolutely important. Many of these girls are seeking attention, half naked, and selling themselves to men on social media. Many women in relationships use social media to post thirst trap videos to beta males who sit there all day filling them with validation. Stay away from narcissistic women. Male friends are future fucks. Or past. Or present fucks or beta bucks. Keep up the great work RC. Men: When you’re making bank and have dated and matured as a man, this stuff is absolutely important and critical for men to follow these standards, always have boundaries to ensure a better quality of life. Excellent video. More men need to see this. Share this with everyone to avoid a train wreck later.
@maxwell-cole 2 жыл бұрын
@@LA-wv7gf very similar experience here in LA for all of the reasons you so eloquently articulated. Thank you, for sharing your thoughts on this and regarding the scene in FL. I found out the hard way, having dated a woman who had so many red flags, each one Coop had already outlined in previous videos, and the book made it all come together. She told me from the jump she was a salsa dancer, had a history in the dance club with various men. Her friends were worse, all failed relationships and marriage. Many of these salsa "friendships" carry themselves beyond the salsa scene. I bring up social media because I think more attention needs to be made to it. It's a place where women post a variety of thirst trap videos and about a year later I found out that she was hitting up a lot of men, private conversations, non-business related. This particular individual was often taking selfies from my place, often from her car, and was an absolute nightmare to be with. She had 3 kids that lived with her ex-husband, who also I later discovered a lot of casual conversations with as well. Many of these individuals are narcissistic too (men and women). If any man is dating a woman that's salsa dancing on her own or with her friends, stay away. It doesn't matter how hot she is. Next or plate only.
@mzwandilenzimande4621 2 жыл бұрын
1:01:42 "OH WELL"
@northsouth8884 2 жыл бұрын
I was just in a relationship a very fit woman who didn’t even know how to cook Mac n cheese. I swear to God. She added the macaroni to the water cold.
@evelic 2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Ace.0.0.0. 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Just wow. How did she feed herself?
@tjhammer24 2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@paulprice1705 2 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of the skit in Big Bang, where Penny asks Leonard "How is the spaghetti?" reply "Good, good... I prefer it a little less crunchy, but good"
@kschrop 2 жыл бұрын
Finding one without one of those red flags is like hitting Powerball
@geoffwaterman6560 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 58 and here is the answers - wait in a relationship to find out if a girlfriend is going to be there in a temporary hard time or if I get sick with the flu . Says a lot about them and whether you're much of a priority. Second I like to wait until there is a major difference in opinion to see how she behaves. Does the veneer of the princess you thought had a lot of class descend into swearing calling you names and throwing her wait around being emotional? Does she dig up ancient issues that should have been dealt with a long time ago? A huge green flag is being able to complain or object with a logical opinion, in a respectful manner and tone of voice with a view to solving a problem with objectivity. a woman who is truly a classy deal. SHe doesn't swear. She doesn't tolerate men being disrespectful. She's elegant and doesn't dress like a slut .She has table manners and can eat with a knife and fork at the same time.( sorry counts out Americans). She can walk and deport herself with Grace. She has discipline to know her own limits. She doesn't drink excessively and embarrass you in front of your family and friends. She is encouraging loyal and proactive to contribute to a joint future. She definitely needs to have some culinary and domestic Engineering skills. She needs some ambition be a planner personality and be able to organise tasks and her time.
@RJay121 2 жыл бұрын
And she's a 5 or 6 best
@skicoach477 2 жыл бұрын
well said Geoff
@talisikid1618 Жыл бұрын
Sad but true.
@wmpower Жыл бұрын
"women are the gatekeepers to sex, men are the gatekeepers to relationships" 100
@mattgraves3709 2 жыл бұрын
You...a freaking McLaren? Gah so envious...I can't quite swing one of those yet :) Maybe a new Corvette...but so shit I go to the McLaren site and fell in love. Now it's all I want...if I could just own a McLaren the world would be ok.
@thomasnjs7448 2 жыл бұрын
What if her father is an alcoolhic and violent man who made her suffer in her childhood so she maintains distances whith him but whithout keeping talking shit about him especially?
@PissedOffRedneck1 2 жыл бұрын
green flags, I like it. I don't want a horrible one
@carolineh8605 2 жыл бұрын
Her house is a frickin' zoo! Haha!
@VoiceOfThe 2 жыл бұрын
Had an ex 10-15 years ago who’s house was a shit-hole. Cat hair everywhere and she’d smoke weed every evening before bed. A warning I failed to heed. Ended up buying a place with her believing I’d get access to the box on tap. All I got was her cat marking my new place as it’s new territory! She ended up getting baby rabies, by which point I ejected. Last and only time I ever lived with a woman and won’t be going there again.
@Dub636 2 жыл бұрын
@@VoiceOfThe sometimes you gotta learn the hard way but good on you for getting out somewhat unscathed
@olanderdecastro52 2 жыл бұрын
Ask your wife or girlfriend if they had two options, which would the pick? 1) 27 YO fitness model/trainer guy 2) John Dutton at 71 years old, physically beaten up, scorned, reviled and admired but always victorious. Every time, they would pick whatever remaining years they could get out of Dutton and it's not even close. Women want and need that kind of a guy.
@T..C..M 2 жыл бұрын
A real 27 year old vs a made up tv character who is an old limp guy? Sorry, bro. They all choose the 27 year old, women don't always wait at rhe finish line, many do like a man with a plan and a bright future.
@olanderdecastro52 2 жыл бұрын
@@T..C..M Hey McCartney you know exactly what I mean. The image of a masculine successful male versus a pretty boy.
@paulprice1705 2 жыл бұрын
@@T..C..M Yep! Well unless they want him to die and they in the will
@Margarro23 Жыл бұрын
Well, the pickings are slim.
@KenHicksJr 2 жыл бұрын
1883 is good. It's a prequel to yellow stone. I've become a Tim Mcgraw fan just because of his body transformation.
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