Story 1: UPDATE 4:43 My (30M) GF (28F) of almost 10 years has been cheating with a (50M) former coworker for months Story 2: 6:13 My (21M) girlfriend (20F) just asked to have an open relationship. When I told her I wasn’t comfortable, she said she said she’d stop seeing other people. Story 3: 9:12 Wife cheated, blamed me for digging, wants to stay together. Story 4: 12:13 Girlfriend (29F) asks for a pause in our (29M) relationships because she never dated anyone but me, she feels like she is missing out and asks for permission to date her co-worker while we are on a pause

A chick asks for an open relationship, you show her to the door, you open it, and say "It's open. Goodbye".

“Ends up getting her own place without telling me” Yeah so um that’s a red flag if I’ve ever seen one

I was once asked for an open relationship after 1.5 years so I said go ahead, have your open relationship, our lease was up the previous month, and we were month to month so when she went out that friday night I moved out removed myself from the lease and disappeared, she didnt realise we broke up, tried to get back with me for months promising me she didnt go thru with it, I told her you clearly wasnt happy with me or this wouldnt have come up, she even had her friends messaging me telling me I should have communicated better, I just blocked the whole lot of them after telling them she wanted an open relationship shes free to do so just I wont be apart of it...

if i've learned anything from these askreddits it's that if someone you're dating suddenly asks for an open relationship, there's a 99% chance that they want to use it as an excuse to cheat or are already cheating on you. then they get mad when they find out you're sleeping with other people too lol. i'm sure there are exceptions of course, but most of them seem to end like this.

"And now for some advice... or more like a much needed slap in the face" I openly laughed at this. XD

cut her lose and move on. sell the house your in, get an apartment closer to work. save on gas and and get as much action as you see fit.

What is this BS every f*ing time? The woman asks for an open relationship and the guy's response is "I am not comfortable with that." WTF?! The right response is "Hell no!" Not being comfortable with it means "I kinda wanna say "No." but it's open to debate and maybe you can convince me into it." She assumed they have an open relationship, but then she "asks him that they have an open relationship" and he goes "Should I fight for our relationship?" Her default settings are on "$1uт".

Thotus Begonus, a simple spell, but quite unbreakable

I dont know why people try to "fix" someone. You can only help someone who wants help/to change. Women think that men will change for then and men want to rescue a "damsel in distress"

Op of 3rd story is such a doormat that he should be declared as the king of all the simps.

1st story: So you knew she had all these issues yet you still chose to be with her? You can’t fix her 😂

It sucks dude, but be glad you never married her, or had kids. Cut her loose and forget her. She will probably come back to you at some point, never forgive, never forget.

All these women belong to the streets.

Whenever a person suggest an open relationship, they're already cheating. They're just looking for permission to be out and open about their cheating.

Cmon people, anyone who asks about even the remotest possibly of an open relationship, leave immediately or start planning your exit strategy depending on how entangled your lives are. Almost guaranteed they have someone in mind already or have already been with someone else and dont want to hide it.

I have had enough of these stories because these women have taken these men nuts and wears them as earrings. This is simping at an all time high and all these stories are the same and I am hoping they are fiction because I am 22 and freaking out.

Some of the OPs here need a slap to snap them back to reality.

Break up with her and MOVE ON

Story 3: " now for the advice or much needed slap in the face". Even the narrator had to chip in. Something is off with that man. He should consider becoming a private investigator as a side business. I think he gets a thrill from doing that.

11:00 You know it's messed up when the robot voice has a say in it.

If your partner springs " I want an open relationship" on you, you don't have a good relationship. You're with someone who has hidden parts of themselves from you and is now trying to manipulate you as this often comes with open or break up.

Story 2, Just mentioning going open, would be the deal breaker. That would imply as Jeff Foxworthy once said "whey she says 'we should see other people', they either already have one on the side, or fixing to cut one from the heard"

Story2: An Std test would be one of my course of action!! Good Luck!rekwife

"Now for the top advice, or a much needed slap in the face."

Move on dude. You dodged a bullet. Go NC. Been trying for years to fix her. There was his mistake. He thinks he has a good relationship with her? Edit: Give her a permanent pause dude. She is already seeing the co-worker. Total wimp!

Story 3 ... Doormats should never put their cheating story in reddits

@11:04...i had to subscribe off that lmao

Story 2 : It blows my mind that there are people out there that are this weak and have this little self respect.

Some advice: even being in an open relationship, a person can still cheat. The foundation of any relationship is communication and a healthy open relationship will involve all the members engaging in communication with each other. If one member of a Poly/open relationship is keeping their activities a secret from the others it still counts as cheating.

2 simple rules while entering the dating market: 1.) Stay away from women (more like girls) with daddy issues. 2.) Stay away from single mothers. They are dangerous for your mental and physical health. Btw my comment got featured for first time in yt video at 3:17 😌

She knew they didn't have an open relationship. Why would she ask for one all of a sudden.?

Guy in story 3 is reddit in human form

"Now time for the top advice... or a much needed slap in the face" XD

It's so incredibly immature to want to get attention from the opposite sex when you already have a committed relationship. Addicted to infatuation and lust like some dumb teen. At least she was up front, but I'm sure she cheated though

Simp phrase #7 "am I a fool"

You can not fix people. People have to want to get better and also take initiative to heal. Don’t become someone’s doormat for years trying to get them to do better. OP in the first story needs to know that it’s okay to care for someone at a distance even though it freaking sucks. You’re better off without her. She’s playing a dangerous game and as an adult she definitely knows better. If you stay you could very easily end up spending the rest of your life watching someone destroy themself and continue to hurt you in the process. You have nothing to lose here, except a cheating wife who won’t provide you with anything. Cut your ties and move on.

Once someone asks for opening a relationship, she is cheating

Whats the point of collecting all this evidence if you're not gonna leave? If you're gonna stay, then leave her alone and let her cheat.

Only simps reconcile with cheaters!

NO ONE goes into a relationship assuming it's an open one, without planning to make it such... "She brought up she wanted to have an open relationship" She said she would close it and stop hooking up with people... Which is it? Was the relationship assumed by her to be open? If so why would she later ask if you wanted to open it up?? Also how did this part not click with you? She was saying two different things at the same time... HOW DID YOU NOT CATCH THIS THE SECOND SHE LET THE WORDS PASS HER LIPS?????????????? You can tell so much about someone within their word choices... past present tense inclusive exclusive language etc...

Okay everyone repeat after me. Open. Relationships are not the default. Say it slow if you need. This is reference to the second story. You make 169% percent sure that it is open if you think it is.

10:58 Lol a slap to his face😂😂

what is wrong w OP 4. apart from getting crowned as king of the simps

If two people have only ever been with each other... they need to break up for a time and see other people. If at some point they both decide to come back, then marry. Every time I see “we’ve only ever been with each other”, I know cheating is on the horizon.

When I first started dating my now husband we had been seeing each other for about a month when I asked him if I was his girlfriend at some point you should be asking about exclusivity. I probably wouldn’t bring that up on a first date but I also wouldn’t see somebody for months or even years on end without confirming that we were in an exclusive relationship and I think at a certain point it becomes assumed that your only dating that one person. She obviously didn’t believe she was in an open relationship if she was asking you for one so she obviously knew that you believed it was exclusive and let you believe that all this time even though she was seeing other people. Dump her. Even if you guys didn’t have a talk about exclusivity she obviously knew that you believed that you guys were exclusive and basically lied to you by not saying anything and is now trying to use that to backpedal. I do think it’s always a good idea to ask people what their expectations are in a relationship if they’re dating anybody else just in case but it’s still a really shitty thing for somebody to let you believe you’re in a exclusive relationship when they’re off seeing a bunch of other people

FFS, " I tried to fix her" 🤦

as soon as they ask for open relationship its over, either she has already cheated or she has someone in mind, you say no, she will do in eventually, delaying the inevitable, i could no longer see them as a person to have a serious relationship with, u consider it over and prepare to move on, you cant delay the inevitable, once they convince themselves they will do it, oh he will take me back, and too many guys are weak

Story 1 and every story that involves it: real, diagnosed depression alters the chemistry of the brain, it changes the context of your mind and effects how you think and the choices you make, you cannot expect someone who is truly depressed to make the same choices or behave in the same manner as someone who is mentally well. One of the most common symptoms of depression is self destructive behaviour and someone who is having those impulses won't behave in the same manner as someone who is well and it is unreasonable to ask them to. The OP in story one says "Mental Illness, anxiety, depression are all valid but don't make her actions OK" which is just pure ignorance, her actions would not be OK for a mentally well person but for someone who is suffering from depression and anxiety they may have been the only choices she could make. If someone has a limiting physical condition then we as a society don't expect them to function at the same physical level as an able bodied person, the same should apply to someone who has a limiting mental condition.

Story 1 Girls with drug problems and daddy issues should never be married Story 2 she belong to the streets Story 3. If you can’t get it up she’s gone and has checked out a while ago

Textbook daddy issues, she isnt worth the time, or the pennies to keep her happy. There are better not broken women out there.

For the first story I would never date a girl like that I'm just being straightforward

why even get into a relationship with someone so broken? "I've been trying for years to fix her"

Dude in the last story is the biggest simp in all of simptown.

#2-3-4 geezzz.. if she want to live as a single person (sleeping/dating around) let her go before she give you that nasty STDs ffs!

80% percent of the cheating stories on reddit start with "She wanted an open relationship i said no". Takes notes guys if your SO ever said this start preparing for a separation and the fallout

Some of these people in the stories shouldn't be with anyone.

st1- you dodged a big one

I hate how disrespectfully the other redditors speak about the ex gf in the 1st story

Third story is a S.I.M.P The fourth is even worse!

It sounds more like he dodged a bullet. ----- So she's been cheating the whole time and she's... CONFUSED? ----- Give her the pause and make it permanent. She clearly doesn't love him nor want to be with him if she wants to be with someone else. "I want her to cheat on me if the attraction is too strong" oh well he's not going anywhere. I don't feel bad in the slightest.

Holy LOL @11:01. Nice editorial comment in there! I really wonder at what point men lost their spine. it really seems like a generational thing, at least in terms of the frequency of these types of stories happening. Sure it's always happened, but to this extent?

4th story. Ok you can have a pause. But if you date that co worker it is un pause and I am gone dont look for me when he dumps you.

Story 1: Oh well. The trash took itself out. Story 2: So she outed herself as a cheater?....wow she's a real brainiac.

First off. How you finna date, someone, for 10yrs and not get married? It takes the average guy 183 days (around 6 months) to determine whether he wants to marry his girl or not. So 10 yrs without marriage is just a waste of time. Secondly, that girl was the definition of daddy issues. Also OP was simping too much fam, he ignored all of the signs

All need to loose them.

What the f*ck is the point of BIENG IN a relationship if you are seeing other people??

why is his girlfriend 10 years old in the first place?

The guy in this last story smh, 🤮 for crying out loud

That first guy I learned at a very young age thankfully, that when you date someone it’s not your responsibility to fix what’s wrong with them you can support them but if you keep trying to tell yourself I can fix them you’ll just it won’t end well. And also that last story it’s pretty much the woman saying I don’t feel attracted to you anymore I want to randomly fuck other people.

1. Story: sadly it is not an unusual story ...

I don't think she knows what an exclusive, monogamous relationship means. Thinking you're in an open relationship before asking for one is backwards on many levels.

Man the last 2 stories, in the 1st the parents of his kids friends now you'r wife is easy and seek to hookup and the last one Op asking how to handle this with dignity, the answer is easy break up with you'r girlfriend

The open relationship story, OP just dump her and find someone else. When a person becomes a boyfriend or a girlfriend, it means the relationship is NOT open, unless you both agree before you both become boyfriend and girlfriend. Last story, OP, dude have a backbone. She has Zero respect for you and your her backup option. Have some pride and dumb her because she has and will cheat on you because she knows that you don't want to lose her. Well dude. There are very beautiful women out there with average looking guys because those average guys have confidence and wont take crap.

Mkay I might seem like an asshole but for 50yo to steal 30yo his 28yo chick is quite an outtanding move.

Last one the GF should be careful as most workplaces realationships between co-workers are a no no

Yo you know you need to get out when the narrator has to come in and say something

Yeah #4 She's definitely done it before. I'm sorry it's over. If you can repair the relationship. I'm sorry but likelihood of this unlikely.

So shes an unemployed cheater, who you aren't married to, and you're upset that she's leaving why???

Bullet dodged.

This guy is neo dodging bullets

small town people moving to a city its a disaster in making and sorry the female is usualy the first to go down

2nd story, OP your not a mind reader. OP NTA 3rd story, OP just divorce this train wreck of a women asap, because she doesn't understand what s marriage is. OP NTA

Guy cheats, its his fault, girl cheats, its guys fault. Lol

I’m reading between the lines here on the first story. She’s with a guy ten years and he never married her. He gets a promotion and wants to drastically change their lives by moving from a small town to a big city. She’s not really on board. She goes for him probably because he pushed her to because he wanted the promotion and larger salary and a big city life. As a woman I can tell you that we do know when we’re last place on your priority list. It’s obvious. Chances are, he’s gotten too used to having her, of calling the shots, making the decisions, and ignores her feelings. I’d bet the bank on it. She’s tired of it. Now she’s making a series of rash and stupid decisions based on emotion rather than sense because someone else showed her attention and love. She probably hasn’t felt loved in awhile despite what this guy says. She’s desperate for it, and jumping at the chance. I have a husband that I’ve been with forever-I know how used to you they get. Sometimes you become a fixture in the house-someone to wash up after them, have sex as needed, cook the food, etc. It’s like they stop seeing you really unless they need one of those things done. I totally get the feeling of wishing for more love or romance. And there have been times that other men were willing to provide that for me if I was willing. I wasn’t. The difference here is that I know better. I understand that “new” doesn’t always mean “better”, and new wears off. I’d just be in the same boat with someone else in time, and maybe in a worse relationship with a worse man like this girl. She let her heart lead instead of her brain. That’s not always wise or best for you. She’ll likely end up ten times worse off in every way than if she just stayed put and fought for what she needed. You can’t let them continue to treat you like an old shoe that’s comfortable and convenient to slip on. If you want to be valued as more-you have to demand it and not give in. It may be an inconvenience to the men up front-but your relationship will be better for it in the end, the sex will be more exciting, your confidence will be higher, and you both will be more happy together for that uncomfortable little adjustment that he had to make. It reminds me of an old country song “shake the sugar tree”. “Love you’re getting lazy, forgetting to give me sweet sugar words that I want to hear.” She goes on to sing about having to shake him up to wake him up to make him love her like he used to. So true of long relationships. They require maintenance checks, basically. You either grow together, or fall apart together. Your choice on how it ends.

never too old for daddy issus, huh?

Say NO to "open relationship" . She was a cheater and be thankful you didn't marry her. You can't fix someone. They need to fix themselves. Mental illness is NOT an excuse to cheat. Story 2: She was gaslighting you. RUN FAST! Story 3: She is a liar and a cheater. She is gaslighting you, and it is time for a divorce. Story 4: This one is funny. She wants to bang her co-worker and that is why she wants an "Open Relationship". Don't be someone's plan B. Leave and find someone who can be faithful.

Weak

That robot voice is when you know it’s a mediocre channel. Idk.

Change the Channel name to beta male questions on Reddit.

Pause = no relationship No such things as a pause... God you people are weak af...

Feminism has made this the norm, males have all the power, so cheating is not the same, blah blah blah, look what Jordan Peterson has to say on culture Marxism,

story 2: "i thought we were in an open relationship but i guess i'll stop seeing people on the side now" bitch you been cheating since the start? out in the streets with you

4:43

1 Corinthians 15:1-4 Authorized (King James) Version 15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2 by which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; 4 and that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:

6:13

Why is EVERY SINGLE story posted on this channel of the woman cheating on her husband/bf? Surely that's not all that's posted on reddit r/relationships. Surely women also post about their relationship woes on that subreddit. Why don't those stories ever make it to this channel?

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