The second story, OP is just kinda pathetic

Well, i understand he don't want 2nd priority for his wife.

stupid for getting their careers ruined before alimony

Oofy doofy Betabuxx deluxe lol sub 5 redditor

Story number one: son you are dealing with a textbook narcissistic abuser. She keeps pulling you back in, that's called hoovering. She keeps looking for sympathy from other people by destroying your reputation. That again is textbook. Your best bet, is to go NC or no contact unless it is strictly to deal with your sons. There's an application, that you can get and she can put on her phone and that is it that's the only way you should communicate from now on.

I often get mad while listening to these stories. What's happening to people nowadays? Why are so many people turning into spineless doormats? The OP's fiancee in story 1 got drunk and bad mouthed his family not once but twice, and the guy still comes here and asks, "So, internet strangers, what should I do?"

He now knows and accepts you don't respect his boundaries and never will for him. OP was happy to destroy her relationship with her BF and he knows it. OP's BF has done his duty in getting her back on her feet and now is done. Even without the SA, I do not think OP is the right girl for her BF. OP sounds like a modern woman that does not for a moment consider her BF's feelings or boundaries. Let him go, he deserves someone better.

This is why til death do us part should be law. You get to do this he should get to pull that clause out of y’all agreement. 🤷‍♂️

St 1, she/he wants you to PAY for her transition. Do not b3e a sucker

This reminds me of a story exactly like this but from the Guy's POV.

Seeking out a non- binary therapist who started throwing out slurs? Time to call the licencing board over massively inappropriate and unprofessional behaviour!

I gave her my word I'd never leave no matter what, she said don't let me leave.

I am in this same state except she's removed me to forget and not report it in fear of loss of her job or judgement. I would like for her to report it.

The fact those 2 pos showed up to the funeral like really...fucking really

Listening to these stories about families pressuring inheritors makes me want to update my own final wishes. I might include a clause to protect my beneficiaries, stating they cannot gift any part of their inheritance to certain individuals. Have you ever thought about how you would structure your final wishes to protect your loved ones from similar pressures or disputes?

Last story she sounds controlling but want to do whatever she wants so let her go cuz shes already left you so kick het out

Tell her sistet and her friends that your not into sharing your girlfriend

Deal breaker bud she wants security and to screw around. Shes already left you bud so now its time for you to end it since she wont

What a fucking simp, should have left her right then and there

Your wedding is a celebration, it is to celebrate the joy and love you have between you and your new bride. Inviting those two would be just toxic. They would bring your celebration to a screeching halt. Tell him they can surrender your son for the day and they can stay home. And tell the rest of your family to go piss up a rope. Are you holding a grudge, most definitely! Is it justified, absolutely! Can you ever trust the scumbag again? Absolutely not. So how can you trust him at your wedding? The answer and short is you can't. Don't let him f*** your day up.

Actually, if a wife wants to come back after a divorce, you can change the relationship dynamics considerably and put forward your demands, wants and wishes without restraint. i think it is a good place to be in as a negotiator.

I will never understand why people test their relationship by putting themselves in scenarios that could potentially be bad. A lot of you like to say "Oh yeah I trust my partner" or "I am not insecure about that" and it has nothing to do with trust or being insecure, it has to do with what you are willing to risk. Imagine this, you have the strongest arms and hands in the world, but would you hold a baby over the edge of a balcony just because you trust your hands ? No, because no matter how much you trust your hands ut is simply not worth what you are risking.

In story 1, i guess the only thing husband didn't do is trying to put his wife back in her place when she started to blame him for bullshit reasons. It seems he was madly in love and couldn't even imagine that his wife's accusations would have been a sign of an affair. Can't blame him, though. When you give yourself fully to the person you love, sometimes you are blind to some shady shit they do. That's why it is important to stay cold-headed and prepare for the worse, when your partner seems to act cold, indifferent or hostile towards you.

He was not working 24/7, he could have come home earlier. He chose not to do so, because he did not want a partner, just a housemaid, servant, and personal, unpaid, sex worker. He thinks that mass-produced tat, like takeout food, candles, flowers, 'movie nights', silly, infantile, computer games, etc are enough. Such 'gestures' are mass-produced tat, requiring no thought, time, or effort, and are not personal to anyone. He should have tried LISTENING TO HER, and TAKING HER SERIOUSLY, pulling his weight with the housework, focusing on HER, not himself, sexually, RESPECTING her, treating her as his EQUAL. However, he is an American man. Therefore he will have cheated, and thinks that men have no responsibilities, and need make no effort. Not ONE of you has the balls to reply politely, or to take a WOMAN seriously.

Story one no just her was supposed to see other guys openly and he playes good emotional tampon like she wanted. Shoulf have changed the passwords first. Also not breached the point to have a password to begin with. Pount out to the sister that no she was fully a hole enough to cheer on her cheating. Thats as far from it as can be.

I love these stories, i day dream a lot about getting into a rerelationship but these bring me back to reality

And I want a dad who wouldn’t betray me but seems like we both want things we’ll never have.

women moment 🥵

A little late but let me explain: It wasn't that she didn't like doing backdoor fun and all the other things, the problem is she didn't like doing those things with HIM. He wouldn't have had a problem if she did all those things before their time, the reason he lost respect is because she lied to him and played him. OBVIOUSLY she didn't see him like those other guys and didn't like him like that. The thing cheaters and liers don't understand is saying "We can do those things now!" just doesn't work. Look bro. I don't want to force you into doing some things in the bedroom, that doesn't sit right with my spirit. That's not the man I am. Again you're making me feel like I'm the crazy perv forcing you into taking it up the a and all that stuff and you're the innocent prudish angel, enough is enough. Thank you for finally showing me that I'm just not like these other guys and that's it. No man wants to feel like he's the weird one for liking certain things when in all reality she likes them just as much??... Just not with him tho. That's the issue here and to go on lying to someone for so long is crazy. I always say how important compatability is between a guy and a girl when it comes to the bedroom and it's actually true. Might just be the second most important thing all in all, no lie! Communication yeah bla bla bla we've heard it a million times yet it's kinda true. It won't work unless both of you at least like SIMILAR things in the bedroom, you can disagree but that's my opinion. These things are important and need to be talked about, that's like 50% of all relationships, so talk about it and be honest. If you hide something from somebody, force somebody into something or get forced, you have alterior motives and will NEVER be happy with that person. Just think about that and talk openly about your desires to your partner, trust me it's worth it. Once you find that girl or guy that's into the same "crazy" stuff you're into (trust me it's not as rare as you think, you'd be surprised, people don't just talk about stuff like this that openly, obviously)... The feeling you get from finding somebody you love AND that someone being someone that shares the same wants and needs when it comes to those things, it's the best feeling. Some advice I guess, just be honest bro, people are "weirder" than you might think, they haven't got much to judge since they're the same with different things. No reason not to have a talk about things with a person you call your gf/bf, WIFE or HUSBAND. If you haven't opened up for so long you MUST have alterior motives. Trust me, it's worth it.

This story sounds like 3 tons of bs crammed into a 1 ton bag. Either she lied about it being non-consensual to some degree or she deliberately put herself into a risky situation in order to assert her dominance in the relationship. Either way i dont think i could be with her anymore afterwards.

One of my ex’s was my friend after we broke up. I told her I didn’t like a guy who was a mutual friend dating her. She blocked me and went to a Halloween party with him. Found out about 2 years later that he got her drunk and raped her. I spent years being scared to speak up to her just to find out I was fucking correct.

“I’ll never love again” Lady Gaga have a heart people he’s dying.

She lied because she felt guilty. Don't ever believe women

Story 3.. simp doormat of the year medal goes to you... wimpy fool

It’s an open relationship, for the second story. Obviously if you want to do it, he agreed and would do it too….. Why did she get so mad that he’s with another 3 women. I personally don’t approve of these open relationship matters, but based on the situation, she couldn’t have gotten mad because she’s doing the same thing…

"We have five kids together..." ... No, you really don't.

Thats the jew family court system for you! If this was done to me they would all end up underground.

Icky.

Story 2 is a pretty horrible situation. If there is one thing the kid deserves is knowing the truth before she starts thinking it's her fault

This is why open marriage or relationship are doomed to fail. It brings nothing positive to the relationship and brings drama. Unless youre in a poly relationship it's never going to work. I want to try it since I'm single. I at least want one guy and one girl or girl and girl. I'm not to picky and I'm up for anything. Gotta try it at least once.

When you were a child, and you loved your daddy, did you think about the importance of being conceived from his ball juice?

Enjoy box wine and cat land.

can someone explain me how grown man can be mentally ill after getting "raped" by a girl? cant imagine that.

Dtugs

What did you expect? You cheated first! But you’re not happy that he now cheats on you! What should he do?😮

😂😅😂😅...if he has to support the kid...he deserves it for getting married in a state with those laws. I have no sympathy for stupidity 😂😅😂😅

"Left me to die," thank goodness he's no longer a simp. He got dumped, not blown up in a war. Op loves drama and pain. No wonder these toxic women hated him. He's just like them.

She should of known better!!!!

Shes lucky for him its not ab the number of guys bc for most guys it would be, but the real problem isnt that she did that stuff, but that she lied ab it and rejected him from stuff

I wouldn't have aloud Sarah to come to the funeral