Some people deserve to be bullied bro xD

Plz teach me some pointers

​@@antonioyeats2149the measure you use will be measured back to you....reality

@@antonioyeats2149 woaah, slow down

@@antonioyeats2149yeah like people who say “XD”

Making enemies is never the good thing to do

@@Unknown-hf8vy well, standing up for yourself or others who can’t is the right thing to do, and sometimes that makes enemies

I don't have any enemies.

@@ItachiUchiha-qm3nk well I don’t live a life where enemies are easily made, but for one benign example if you’re in a competitive industry, you will make enemies by doing a good job and sticking up for yourself and others.

Like when?

Good one!

I love it.

Did laughter ensue?

yes! By all. And after 40 years still all good friends. @@debra97510

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Don't react to a judge and see if you get a lighter sentence. Don't react to a cop and see if you get arrested or not. Don't react to the car heading your way at 90 Mph and see if you survive. Every coin has at least two sides.

I do that and I end up making a fool of myself

I'm pretty clueless most of the time, so I do it on accident near constantly.

@@crazyfakar1 it was for the average civilian; they are not judge parliament or police. People who are not the police/judge are still policing/ judging. no need to pay attention to them. Like babies, shouting & howling.. seeking to be pacified by attracting attention by creating drama. They know everything, love to be in their bubbles. Time will teach them a good lessen. I won't feed them my energy.

@@crazyfakar1 That's not even the same thing. How does an insult correlate to punishments?

It's powerful when you have all the cards to play with, for sure 😊

Back in the day people used to actually study speach and such to be ahead of their enemys and peers. Read 48 laws of power it has tons of storys about how knowing when to speak, what to speak, and how to speak lead to kingdoms rising and falling.

@@iii___iii They are more popular and good as an introduction. If you read 48 laws you will want to know more about machiavelli.

​@@iii___iii you haven't read them, yet you judge them?

That’s like the one thing you want avoid when you’re at g content like this, gotta balance the knowledge with presence

old, overdone

He did way better afterwards in that same video/situation. (Way funnier insults. Probably would have been too much from the same person for the format here though.)

it is a good comeback, but the way to handle that is to say, "And you would like that, but fortunately my purpose in life isn't to make you happy." For that matter, any time a person wishes you ill, you can mock their malicious wish and remind them you were not born to please them.

I work customer service and would never use any of these. Best way to make people feel bad is to be nice and end up saving them money somehow. Gets an apology everytime.

Here's a tip Dr. Spicy: when you get a customer who refuses to get off their phone, to even acknowledge you as an equal human being, remain calm but LOUD. Really loud. So loud that they have difficulty hearing what is on their phone over you. Stay in clerk character but a passive aggressive nuisance to their personal call. They may not care, they may hate it, but they can never prove you did it on purpose, even if you both know it was a shot across the bow. They just have to take it. Payback.

@@JamesRDavenport When they ignore me for their phone I just stare at them and smile until they pay attention to me.

@@skippygirl959 Oh I tried that first, but we've got clocks and supervisors on us. We can't stop the line for anything.

If you reach a level of conflict where you want to piss them off then force them into making a scene by being polite but also forcing them into a hole of dramatic chaos.

Nice one

That’s what Jr would say whenever Jackie Jr would say anything in The Sooranos

"Talk into my good ear", "I hate people who mumble", and "Say that again into my shell-like ear" again and again are good, too.

Jimmy Fallon is such a moron I don't understand how his show is even popular

Yes, and you know it’s the right decision when you have that inner calm feeling afterwards.

Seen on a church sign: "I'm walking away from you; Not to teach you a lesson, But because I finally learned mine."

yeah it keeps you in a space where you retain power and you aren't bought in. If youre attached to someone or a situation you give it power to be your organizing principle. Sometimes not accepting a paradigm is the best way that paradigm falls dead as holding water.

Personal power no one can take away. Versus the negative (scarcity / zero-sum) conception of power where you have to fight someone else to have power

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Why does your comment read like an AI-generated text?

@@royfoy8951 when the demand for sexism outweights the supply, AI always saves the day. This one sounds ripped straight off reddit, I can even see the brainrot minecraft parkour in the background.

Great anecdote; your word choice and alliteration was clear and pleasant. Cheers!

The intent of that topic wasn’t to just laugh when someone insults you, but to train yourself to always see the insult in a positive and playful way so that you can just laugh at it and not be offended by it. Obviously this has a limit to just how insulting something can be, but if it’s a fairly tame thing that can be seen as playful than it makes a lot of sense.

It's much better for you if you frame it as a joke to you and all the people around, not only you show you're strong and not easily affected, but you make everyone else in the room have more fun. Also, you let the offender off the hook, but the underlying message is "I'll let this one slip, but I could make you pay for it if I wanted. I won't be intimidated by you."

I do this a lot. And the curious thing is that if you frame it as a joke even to yourself, you'll barely remember it happened. Just like a conventional joke, it makes you laugh but you'll end up forgetting it in a few hours.

@@lapidationsI don’t see the point in making it a joke. It’s not a joke. The person just insulted you. There’s no point in trying to brush it under the rug

​@@GoldenMushroom64 not one shred of evidence exists that Life is serious. However, you have the ability to interpret anything and everything as if it is. Your choice. If you want to be hypersensitive and easy to manipulate, then continue to choose emotional immaturity and weakness rather than being a positive and constructive influence on others. You do you. I cannot make you recognize your imperfections and desire to improve them, only you can do that. I have my own issues to handle.

The only issue is they give examples of celebrities. They're beautiful. We are not. Our scenarios and world settings are different from celebrities. Sure we can learn from celebrities, BUT REALITY IS DIFFERENT AND HARSH. Planning and plotting like _"today I'll behave this way and answer that way if someone says this"_ Does not work in Real life. We don't have bouncers and security and people behind us if anything goes bad. An average 9-5 working class struggling person doesn't have these.

@@lavatr8322 This is realistic

Rock on! You got this!

"The beginning of strife is like letting out water, so abandon the quarrel before it breaks out." Proverbs 17:14

Awesome! Jesus loves you and died for you! ❤

I also hate conflict, and am often embarrassed how obvious that is to those who dish it out. I've found it easier to be quick witted if I can predict who will create it. No matter how friendly they are, when you meet somebody who is loud, highly confident, and says aloud most of what they think, tell yourself "This person will insult me one day." It may not happen, but if you expect it, you'll remain calm and quick-witted when it does. Quiet people can also be rude, but I find them less intimidating, so I limit mental prep to the loud ones.

I think to an extent, but I do find it awkward when people just Eminem themselves for no reason.

The point is being proactive against bullying.

@@vickibazter3446 No one can ‘bully’ you when you own your weakness. Wear it like a badge of honor. You are no longer a victim to anyone’s cruelty when you’ve anticipated the dig.

Good job, cut out the toxicity in your life even if it comes from parents

@@alexajones4872 💯

i totally relate to you, draw a red line and cut off the abuser, ESPECIALLY if it is a family member is the BEST thing, you can do, no regrets!

Beautifully put - I've never thought about it that way. He's not trying to be better - that's all you need to walk away. Well done.

@@DipityS Maybe one day. I’ll be ready with better boundaries then. Thank you 🙏🏼

Gray rock sort of approach. Works best with narcissists because they feed off of people's attention. Well done.

In places where you have no choice .Like work

Oh wow, you just insulted everyone here. I guess you've never been insulted.

Group gatherings where entire communities are invited. I go to see the 95 percent that are fantastic.

What might help is instead of reacting to what they say, asking them if they are not well in a worried tone and totally redirecting to them. That indicates that they must be (mentally) not well for behaving like that which is actually true and puts them of cause now they have to explain themselves :-)

Move to California

😂😂 damn you got her good

I wouldn’t have stopped there being that her second insult was intentionally meant to upset you, I would’ve followed on from your excellent comeback of ‘same reason your eyes are so small’ with ‘ah, and that’s because your eyes represent the size of your brain heh!’...well handled by you 👏 👏 👏

Indeed, I agree that, with people who insult you, often the best approach is to return the same rudeness (great example, btw). I used to be easy to insult, because I hated conflict and couldn't fathom that some people would seek it out. One day, after I had thrown up in my middle school's hallway because my mother had insisted on sending me to school ill, an obese boy bullied me over it. I realized he was doing it because he figured I was too nice to point out the obvious, so I decided if he could hit low, so could I. I said, "I did it because I never want to wind up as fat as you." While it didn't quite have the clever zing that your comeback did, this boy did realize he had better leave me alone after that.

@lindahall2736 he didn’t need to continue, she stopped as soon as he said that

I've done something similar when people ask rude questions. "I heard you had a miscarriage, is that true?" Why do you want to know? "Do you hate me?" You think I hate you?

I'm confused by the first one, are you asking how to get someone to date you if they don't want to date you?

sara, you can escape the friend zone by becoming physically fit and wearing very high quality clothing - along with great hair, a great face, a great sense of human, a brilliant mind, plenty of money, great dance moves, great singing, great athletic skills, a great job and great friends - that's how you escape the friend zone.

sometimes they are so toxic or insecure they don't care and will keep trying to push your buttons. that's why leaving is oftentimes the best strategy. just find new friends / better ppl

And the stare usually does the trick

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That or a pike to the anus.

Exactly. And then hit them with that, "Why would you say that?"

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Jimmy Fallon is such a clown

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I find this childish and insignificant, I also find people who respond with verbal abuse very childish and have very low communication skills, the respect goes way down after that

@@HUYI1 Yo Mama...

@@HUYI1 You must be fun at parties

​@HUYI1 yeah true, just like yo mama

It wouldn't have mattered. Some folks are just clueless.

"Did you mean to be so rude?" is a good call-out and gives them a chance to backtrack.

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Proverbs 26:18,19

I am a therapist and have helped clients with assertiveness, confidence and verbal self defence for over 25 years. Always try to smile or chuckle in reponse to ridicule or a put down, however unexpected it is. Reply something like - 'Charming!' or 'Any more charming compliments?' If s/he repeats the insults try: 'What ARE you talking about?' For a bigger put down try - ' Oh please...shut up?' or 'Ah shut up!' or 'Rubbish! ' or 'What absolute rubbish!' or 'Hey stop that - behave yourself!' (as if talking to a child). If someone takes the Mickey I always smile and mock them back saying 'that's just pathetic' or 'that's childish' and if they or other laugh at you, keep smiling and say 'what ARE you talking about' or if the attack is worse say: 'little things please little minds' in a SING SONG way, and maybe repeat it if any more comments are made at your expense. As a last resort say - 'Have you always been a moron?' If it becomes a jokey name calling exchange make sure you have 4 or 5 ready memorised. (D^ck head/ar*e hole/moron/douchebag/sh^t face/b*tch/slimebag).Name calling in a jokey, high pitched, silly voice softens their rudeness if necessary. If you over do it apologise in a jokey way: 'Hey/oops, sorry that sounded bad'. If in a group setting you are targeted by the same person again, say 'Oh not you again douchebag' or 'ah shut up douchebag' (or whatever name you called them before). If they attempt to bully you repeatedly at a social occasion call them by the name whenever you adress them, e.g. say 'Goodbye douchebag' when parting. If necessary say 'sorry I did not mean to offend you'

I spent much of my life trying to figure out how to increase my confidence. When I finally discovered the answer, it turned out to be much easier than I had expected. People hate how this sounds when I write it out, but the actual secret is simply to lose respect for everyone else. Let that pedestal you have everyone on drop, so that you finally accept that your opinions are smarter than theirs (in some cases, by quite a lot!). Trust me - this is how confident people naturally think, and when you've lost respect for everyone else, they will treat you better, because you clearly think highly of your own intellect, so they will assume you are suddenly smarter than you were when you gave their opinions too much respect.

@@Dawn737Nope. But you do you.

Yeah I didn't agree with that being included in this list because he was being rude by mansplaining!

How was he rude by mansplaining? And she's not rude for condescending him and mansplaining his actions and intent to him?

@@bryanwoods3373 mansplaining in itself is rude. The word literally means men try to tell women about things women know much more about. Like dudes in parliament deciding over female bodies, mansplaining women how to menstruate or ovulate. It's LITERALLY the rudest thing ever.

@Xia-hu About as rude as using it as a cudgel to not have to listen to other opinions, including those of other women, because you've deemed yourself the arbiter of the issue by virtue of identity alone. Women mansplain all the time. It's just semantics to ascribe connotation to the same behavior.

Considering he was in front of a committee and desperately trying to distract from answering straight questions, Katie got done dirty in this compilation

I'll never forget myself for not having noticed that mistake :o

Maybe that was on purpose. Maybe it's so bad that it looks like an off-brand version of Liu Kang.

100% agree

If you watch enough of this channel, you’ll see a lot of "good triats" are demonstated in men, mostly powerful figures and celebrities.