How to Be Successful in Life with these 6 Steps

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Learn the 6 secrets to success to change your life and become the best, most successful, version of yourself.
In this video, I will teach you 6 science-backed tips that will help you become successful, by changing your mindset and using your body language.
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In this video:
0:00 Intro
0:22 Do I need to have a high IQ to be successful?
1:10 What is the 10,000-hour mark?
2:00 PQ & EQ - Reading people
3:13 Succeed at failure
4:10 Mentorship
4:57 The power of body language
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Vanessa Van Edwards is Lead Investigator at Science of People - where she unlocks the formulas and patterns behind human behavior for hundreds of thousands of students in over 200 countries. She is the national bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding With People, available in 14 languages around the world. Her work has been featured on CNN, NPR, BBC, Fast Company and dozens more.
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@ScienceOfPeople 2 жыл бұрын

Want more details on being successful? 👉 www.scienceofpeople.com/10-ways-to-hack-success/

@seyfun1452 6 жыл бұрын

1. 10,000 hour rule of success 2. Read hidden emotions and invest in learning emotional, social intelligence 3. Plan to fail and don't worry about succeeding in the beginning 4. Have a mentor or a partner to your goal 5. Power pose, work the body language outside in

@rocketassistedgoat1079 4 жыл бұрын

6. Don't forget the mayonnaise when making sushi. * *...just thought I'd add one, as I couldn't find 6 either.

@VITALSPARKMEDIA 5 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad I stumbled onto these videos. They’re like little nuggets of gold. Thanks Vanessa!

@michaelrust8256 5 жыл бұрын

I’ve been binge watching Miss Van Edwards videos all week. Love them! Great voice, intelligent life-changing topics and I could look at at Miss Van Edwards all day!

@sarahschuette515 5 жыл бұрын

Plan to fail! I love it and hate it at the same time :) It’s like practicing being rejected and uncomfortable. We tend to avoid discomfort, but if we can embrace it then we are not afraid of it. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take!

@sarafam8724 8 жыл бұрын

Fantastic as usual, many thanks Vanessa. I am a big fan and admirer of what you are teaching us.

@samire.tarcheh9651 5 жыл бұрын

You’re great Vanessa! I love all these useful information you keep sharing.

@arinolaokusi9617 5 жыл бұрын

I always look forward to your feeds. They are very insightful and come in handy from time to time. Arinola from Nigeria Regards

@larryvoight5266 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this content!!

@waargs9824 5 жыл бұрын

thanks vanessa i gain and think more on how to commucate right to people am a waiter and am always shy to approach people but watching this-.am realy now think what the missing formula on my life.

@theemperor2506 7 жыл бұрын

Vanessa You are toooooo Good more than what You say I love the way You say it, You make the things very Lively and I feel to keep on watching your videos.

@neiturelover 5 жыл бұрын

This is what I was looking for . Your videos are absolutely fantastic 👍👍 The way you speak, the cconfidence you have!!You are really talented 👏. Keep up the great job of enlightening us.

@shannonaree1445 6 жыл бұрын

Vanessa, have you seen Angela Duckworth’s Ted Talk called Grit? Or read her book (Grit)? You may find it fascinating, I sure did. She simply describes Grit as passion and perseverance. Anyway, I would just like to encourage you to keep sharing your wonderful gift. I’m geek’n out hardcore to all your little tid bits of information and really enjoy how you personally apply your findings. You Rock!

@MeredithMynroseUniversalHealer 6 жыл бұрын

Shannon Aree love what you share !

@shakeel.design 8 жыл бұрын

Great content as always Vanessa! I'm surprised that you don't have over 100k subscribers yet, that's a very achievable milestone - keep it up!

@robertomedrano277 4 жыл бұрын

Vanessa I love watching your videos they really have helped me to understand the importance of body lenguaje , etc. thank you

@hammadarab2955 2 жыл бұрын

This gives me hope, I’ll try it!!!

@waqqarahad8762 4 жыл бұрын

You have answered to my many questions i was trying to know from my childhood. Excellent work. Keep it up

@classicsforeveryone2927 8 жыл бұрын

Really great conversation. You always open up new perspectives in interesting topics. Thanks!!!

@jdhsingi 8 жыл бұрын

Another phrase that you may like regarding the value of failure is: Invest in loss. In time you will gain experience, skill and success.

@ClearlyHinze 5 жыл бұрын

This is something soo against me! Fear of failure is my biggest fear which must be my biggest stumbling block.

@abrahamolvera2340 3 жыл бұрын

I loved!

@rodrigofernandez9055 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for posting. I like your videos.

@shwetas97 6 жыл бұрын

I love the way you explain and make it look so simple ..I 'm learning a lot from you :)

@tiniciayoung 3 жыл бұрын

Such good tips!!!

@Belkhedimjo 5 жыл бұрын

You are so inspiring!!!! It’s too bad that you don’t make videos anymore !

@jburckhardt33 8 жыл бұрын

I was not giving any hope to this video, but it seems pretty accurate, I like it

@remnant.watchman 3 жыл бұрын

Great tips, Vanessa. Success does not depend so much on our talent as on our energy and willingness.

@hisaddle 5 жыл бұрын

really like your videos. You are a great communicator. Wishing you much success.

@sadikimusimwa3554 6 жыл бұрын

thanks Vanessa cause, i learned something so important what i was ignore and somebody's said: learn something about something. so happy to have knowledge about it, also i'm not well-spoken by the way i speak french.

@smfitness4777 3 жыл бұрын

you rock,vanessa!!!!

@ClearlyHinze 5 жыл бұрын

Love Love Love it!

@HappinessClassroom 7 жыл бұрын

I Love youuuuuu so much help for self-improving

@tejuswadbudhe7909 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@g6mogulthepeoplesmogul 5 жыл бұрын

I love your advice. It help me when I was speaking to my spouse. His body language wasn't happy..smh but the good news is I caught it, and I got my way.

@hectorrazo8110 5 жыл бұрын

She is awesome!!!

@TiagoSoares17 8 жыл бұрын

Great tips Vanessa. I want just to bring the attention to the viewers that in order to achieve mastery in something you will need around 10 000h of "deep work/concentration". If you do it for 10 000h but you are constantly distracted and not looking for ways to grow you won't be a true master.

@taniaangeliz 6 жыл бұрын

Tiago Soares

@hernanperez912 5 жыл бұрын

Right on

@priyaravikumar3384 3 жыл бұрын

I just want to feel happy again. Like when I was a kid I woke up happy now I roll out of bed looking for an excuse to keep living. Recently I started using Forwago and I think it helps me. I feel that I am on a good path to become a happier person. Wish me luck!

@tanyajames9267 4 жыл бұрын

Great video, actionable tips and solutions!

@shankerprem28 8 жыл бұрын

Can you please make a video giving tips to stop procrastinating? I love your videos! THANKS :D

@antokindness 8 жыл бұрын

+Prem Shanker Tomorrow it will be posted for sure :)

@shahidramzan5164 4 жыл бұрын

Fantastic marvelous 👌

@MK-tx8ig 3 жыл бұрын

Hye veneesa.....I have found this information truely helpful...

@mauricefemenias9752 5 жыл бұрын

Love your videos ,,,

@ivyavery9391 4 жыл бұрын

I was afraidng about my dreams are so big bt ths video give me hope😊. Thanks

@swetarupala2488 6 жыл бұрын

You are my mentor 😊

@busker153 3 жыл бұрын

The problem with "mentoring" is that most successful people are also pioneers, and pioneering is, by definition, going where nobody has gone before. LOL (No, I'm not a 'trekie' but that was funny!) When you said it can be a peer, that made a lot of sense, and if that is included in the idea of mentoring, I fully agree. (You are the only one putting that idea out there, by the way! You really are quite awesome!)

@antoniodossantos5960 3 жыл бұрын

Very nice..

@joaoaugusto4873 4 жыл бұрын

Now, you are my mentor Vanessa 👍

@sumitbudhani1749 6 жыл бұрын

Doing great work

@SUKHDEEPSINGH-on8eh 5 жыл бұрын

Really interested ….................... thanks

@therealtchalla3778 6 жыл бұрын

great advice, quite attractive as well.

@burtoncrowell4371 3 жыл бұрын

I very much enjoy your segments and have learned quite a bit and enhanced what I already know about socializing and the way you use your voice tonality I learned a lot of that from Tony Robbins you seem to be able to bring out a better example and a better point and I enjoy watching as well as listening to you and hope to learn all that you have to offer because I think it will make everything you do easier and a better outcome thank you hope to watch more of your videos

@sepidehmollaee3563 6 жыл бұрын

love it

@MrBlackretreat 7 жыл бұрын

Amazing

@jamesfigueroa382 2 жыл бұрын

God bless Vanessa for her wisdom..! :)

@asdrubalenriqueagueromarin581 3 жыл бұрын

Very interesting Vanessa....!!! I love 😘...

@abujaafar313 5 жыл бұрын

I love this video

@SC-cq9ie 8 жыл бұрын

Very nice video thanks

@serafinaobi 5 жыл бұрын

great tips

@Kojiro_10H 4 жыл бұрын

What i LOVE about these success videos are definitely the comments. There are some gems 💎 and advices more beneficial than whats in the videos.

@karthikrajgopal8627 5 жыл бұрын

Super mam.. Keep it up

@Bl4ckFin 7 жыл бұрын

IIIIII LIIIIIIIIIKE YOUUUU, seriously!!

@timmer693 5 жыл бұрын

I like "Go fast, go alone", "Go far, go together". What do successful people do when they see contempt in a facial expression? Eliminate, avoid, or draw closer the enemy? Tell me.

@TypeTipsLeonTsao 6 жыл бұрын

This interviewer has fantastic skills. Spot on interviewing.

@theschoolofbodylanguage 6 жыл бұрын

I love all videos :)

@youthf7c343 5 жыл бұрын

I really the color of your top Vanessa!!

@artisticagi 4 жыл бұрын

1. The most skilled people are not the smartest. They have at least 10,000 hours of practice 2. It’s about pq and eq.

@MiikeyFreshhBeats 6 жыл бұрын

mastery.

@Patricioordonez84 6 жыл бұрын

This is good

@busker153 3 жыл бұрын

I wonder if that feedback loop, where a smile makes you happy, is your brain recognizing the smile, wondering what it missed, and trying to play catch up? That is a new ides!

@lawrencegleason4666 5 жыл бұрын

After watching a few of your videos- after seeing your TED talk- I should subscribe. Doesn't hurt to follow a happy face. Well. Maybe. You are too damned happy.

@created4passion442 5 жыл бұрын

Good video

@vikashbabu3321 Жыл бұрын

Nice

@MS-vz7pg 4 жыл бұрын

I know the steps. Hard work

@muhammadiqbalchaudhry420 Жыл бұрын

love

@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching! ❤️

@gokulrawat4654 4 жыл бұрын

Your smile is very nice

@shijinthomas7375 5 жыл бұрын

I love you

@busker153 3 жыл бұрын

Ok, this was awesome! What a great time of continuing education you have provided for me today. I pray that God uses my comments to boost your channel's visibility online. (I know comments are part of the algorithm that does that.)

@gjain179 7 жыл бұрын

Insightful! Can you direct me to a video that addresses procrastination?

@jellybeanbear7017 5 жыл бұрын

This channel is pure gold

@curtisfoster4256 5 жыл бұрын

👑

@WILLYLYNCH. 4 жыл бұрын

So 5 years of 5 days a week, 8 hours day, I can master anything that's within physical reason? Do you think I could be an astronaut in a little less than 5 years?

@tamanhn5261 5 жыл бұрын

Love all your videos Really helpful for people doing business professionally in many ways. Thank V you are empowering women

@Passiyona 6 жыл бұрын

It's weird that I checked an article for you on FB last night and it said that smiling to feel better is a psychological myth and here you say it helps. So what is the truth?

@mrimatt6210 5 жыл бұрын

Great advice, but please don't always interpret a smirk as a sign of distain. Some folks have facial asymmetry, like maybe they once had Bell's palsy, and that's just their natural smile.

@busker153 3 жыл бұрын

First Worst Theory -- the idea that anything you do you will get better at, which means the first time you do anything you should, quite literally, suck at it. :o) If you are not doing what fools call failing, you are not growing. I say fools call it failure because a failure becomes a lesson the moment you learn from it. When you have learned from it, it stops ever having been a failure. Any suffering we experience is correction until you accept the correction; then it becomes tuition.

@sarinamemo9189 3 жыл бұрын

In my opinion, it is important to learn how to be happy and to learn to enjoy everyday life. I have to mention the Forwago program because this program was a life changer for me and helped me to realize how to love more myself and my life, and to focus on what is really important in life.

@pradnyayadav9053 5 жыл бұрын

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@surayarahbarzada6665 6 ай бұрын

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@ScienceOfPeople 6 ай бұрын

❤❤

@maryroseblase440 3 жыл бұрын

I tried Forwago way back in a private group, don't know if it's publicly available yet

@jeanperceval6198 3 жыл бұрын

The program that really helped me to improve my life quality in many aspects like mental and physical health, positive thinking, and building habits and self-confidence was Forwago. I use it almost every day.

@Battleganz 3 жыл бұрын

What Gladwell actually said is that success is mostly luck. He said that elite performers are LUCKY because they were allowed to have a deep, intense amount of study at their own pace, something that the rest of us will never have access to. Read closely.

@phk8411 2 жыл бұрын

Wow...you look fabulous..you looking More beautiful as you get older....... mahalo for the video s...... Loving life in Hawaii...

@mailorlee9383 5 жыл бұрын

So I'm a little confused with the contradiction. In this video, you say to seek for a mentor, but in one of your recent one titled "Five stupid questions," you said to not go ask someone to be a mentor. So which one is it? Maybe I understood it wrong?

@pnaraktas3530 3 жыл бұрын

How can practice acting daily in home?

@hansnobelstar77 4 жыл бұрын

L o v e i t !

@created4passion442 5 жыл бұрын

Someone that knows about the topic would be a good Mentor sometimes people pretend what they don't know and then 2 end up in the ditch

@NS_ramgarhia 3 жыл бұрын

The one thing that really helps me to keep focused on my goals and to make constant progress is Forwago. I would recommend everybody to give it a try.