I am very Grateful to my brother Ahmed Raidhan for helping me to see my child. May ALLAH give all brothers sabar and may ALLAH unite all brothers to their child/ren Ameen.

I recently found out about an Aliymah who has done this very act, and was so shocked that she would manipulate the courts' biases against Muslim men (structured Islamophobia - but that's another topic) to suit her own agenda, whatever that was. Now, hearing many other cases where supposedly pious sisters are doing the same, I guess I shouldn't be surprised, but my fitra says how can they face their Lord, their Rabb, knowing they lied under oath and gave false testimony, among other major sins? It's so upsetting for me to hear this is going on. May Allah guide those sisters to do what's just, and right, not following their own nafs, desires. Ameen.

Salaam 50yr old single mother. This is all news to me how bad it is. Allah gv us all hidayah Aaameen

This is happening to me and many others I know. Its rife and unforgiveable. May Allah grant justice-ameen

Oh my goodness what a topic, i work in child protection and have seen horrific things from muslim women, calling their husbands "muslim extre*****", so kids get taken away from father. Also, so many of these women try to get back with those men later on but the men are disgusted with them at that point

This happened and is happening to my children.

This is a very important issue. More awareness needs to be raised about this.

Much needed topic to be discussed. One of the many things Br. Ahmed got right that I wanted to highlight was the fact that some women rightfully demand their Islamic rights at the onset and duration of the marriage. However, when things don't work out, they resort to the court system and prefer the secular laws. This is pure hypocrisy and shows their true colors. Some of the stories they told were shocking but unfortunately not surprising. I personally know of at least three practicing brothers who are going through similar situations. In all three cases there was a khula and the ex-wives are collecting fat checks every month, leaving the men in a run-down one bedroom apartment and unable to see his kids at the same time. Men - be careful of this. There are certainly good women out there but sometimes the risk isn't worth it. Use your youth and prime to make money, help family and community out with their financial needs, work on your career and health, fast if your hormones are out of control, but don't risk rolling the dice if you have too much to lose. If you must settle down, make sure you iron out an airtight pre-nup. Spend money on a good attorney to structure it (make sure it's Shariah-compliant).

It’s about time we we started to talk about this issue in the mainstream it’s well over due. I’ve been separated from my son for the past 15 years and the mother and her family completely block me out from seeing him..

Alhamdulillah finally Muslim leaders talking about this issue as its the most underlooked common abuse happening by malicious mothers. It happened to me and many of my friends and their friends and their friends so on and so forth. I spent 1 year in custody battle and even after my ex was caught lying several times of 6 court hearings I was still demoted from a father to a visitor to my boy and girl who were 1 and 3 at the time. Alhamdulillah Allah replaced with much better. But I feel for all the poor father's who were unjustly abused by these women and the feminazi court system. May Allah give us justice in the hereafter. Its no wonder we hear hadith about most women entering the fire may Allah protect our sisters, mothers and daughters. Its a very small minority who don't wish to do this kind of zulm.

Thanks for bringing such a topic up. I knew a brother who took the ultimate fateful decision after his divorce. This is a growing and endemic problem of women weaponising children against fathers and unjustly using the system.

Finally someone is talking about how bad this has become, unless you've been through it, you won't understand. I hope more speakers start talking about it, thank you for bringing it to light

100% What was described in this video is exactly what my brother is going through. As a brother it's painful to see lies being spread by his sociopathic witch of a wife, one can only imagine what he as a father/husband is feeling. interesting thing is that in the case she's afraid to take it to court because she fears the cross examination and her lies being exposed.

I'm surprised this is so widespread but unfortunately it's difficult to deal with people nowadays. People used to be simple and sincere. As a woman I know men can hurt a woman badly and leave her scarred especially if she put a lot of hope in her husband but taking away his kids from him is unacceptable. Not negotiable. I hope these women are held accountable because the damage they do is a lot.

This breaks my heart. The oppression of the children, the injustices done to the father and the evil that is coming from the mother. Its unbelievable.

Our beloved and most respected great honourable scholar Yasir shahab

Ahmed Raidhan is a blessing. So many men suffer in silence.

I am grateful for Muslim Fathers support forum for trying to raise awareness. When will the establishment ‘WAKE UP’. The world is evolving and we speak up for every persons rights but turn a blind eye to injustice and serious breaches to a fathers human rights. Malicious claims divert valuable resources and costs and let’s not forget the biggest impact is the CHILDREN

As Salaam Alaikum 🌿 I hope the panel will invite brother Daniel Haqiqatjou to your discussions next time as he has a lot of insight on this subject matter! I can promise you that you will not be disappointed.

I had to go to court to get parental custody for my kids. Alhamdulillah, worse thing a parent can go through!!

May Allah Accept your works, and make it a means of acceptance and Guidance for the Ummah!

This is great work similar to father for justice. Fathers would need this as this is a trend which has been increasing evrery year.

Jazakallah Khair for raising this issue. Please please keep it up

im a muslim woman. and i support these fathers.

It’s a serious issue for sure. I have seen this A LOT in my community, Bangladeshis. May Allah guide our sisters who would do such an abhorrent thing.

This is such a prevalent issue and one I am very frustrated about. I wish my sisters could fear Allah and stop this dhulm. I know of at least three cases... one where the father hasn't seen his son since he was a toddler and is now married himself. Another father who has been barred from seeing his daughters and another excellent father who has been vilified by his ex in laws and barred from his precious child. I wish I could tell these sisters, what are you doing? Fear Allah. When I hear of "alimaat" doing this, I will clearly say that these people are not "alimaat". A true student of knowledge applies their knowledge with taqwaa. May Allah forgive us and guide our ummah to be merciful and fear Allah. Ameen.

May Allah provide us and you on the truth

Mashallah! Very important yet most neglected aspect of today's family issues!

This can happen to mothers too. I followed my abusive husband to his home country. I followed him hoping he’d be a better husband I didn’t ask any questions I gave him all my trust even though he didn’t deserve it. I made all these mistakes because after we married and I reverted Alhamdulla, I took all my religious knowledge from him and his family alone. Because they seemed like good people, with others at least. I thought with time and proving my loyalty to them they’d finally love me. Divorce was never not an option for me. My parents divorced, all I ever wished for was a loving peaceful marriage. So I followed him to the Middle East. I was having massive panic attacks the year leading to the big move. My body telling me the danger I was in! But I refused to listen. Once in his country he took his mask off almost immediately. Gave me a blue eye that first month for not feeling like visiting his uncle. The emotional, psychological and financial abuse escalated to the point that I was constantly faking respect that I was loosing faster than I could possibly handle emotionally. I didn’t allow the thought of him trapping me enter my mind because I knew it would be tragic. I had an eight year old son and five children under four years old. He had promised me to have the best life that he’d be better and that I’d finally be allowed to visit with my family who I wasn’t allowed to visit while living in the states. I know, why would I believe he’d allow it after we left the country?! After about two years I finally got the courage to ask him to fulfill his promise and allow us to visit my parents. He said no because of his financial situation. A few more years passed, our relationship was deteriorating fast because of my inability to fake respect or love for him. The beatings became more violent the toxicity in the home became overwhelming. I’d often fall into deep depression but would force myself out of bed to care for our young children. It wasn’t until about four years later that he admitted what I was dreading he’d say. He told me he didn’t have any intentions on ever allowing me to leave his country with his children. He said my behavior was the reason to his decision. In other words my reaction to his lies and abuse. When I’d ask him what had I ever done to deserve his mistrust, he’d say it wasn’t a matter of trust. Of course it wasn’t! I had already endured eight years of abuse in America not once did I call the police or even tell a living soul about our problems. But he knew if I chose not to come back after enduring twelve years of abuse by that point no one would blame me. But I just needed a summer break, I wanted to finally be allowed to share the joy of my children with my family like his family did. I never intended on doing what these mothers do to good fathers. Even if he wasn’t a good husband or father I know both parents have rights to the children. He has kept me trapped here for over twelve years now because he’s afraid I might do what he’s doing to me. Alhamdullah we separated two years ago. He’s threatening to kick me out of the country if I file for Khula. He leaves the children with me all weekdays and basically leaves all the responsibility of caring for their upbringing to me alone. Alhamdullah since the separation I’ve learned more about Islam than I ever did in the years married to him. He will not make our American divorce legal in his country saying he will not risk i remarry and ruin his reputation. He says he’s a good guy who made mistakes. That Allah is the Most Merciful and will forgive him. I know I’ll never leave this country because this is where I see my children belong. It’s safe for them. I feel safe here too Alhamdullah. But I’ll be counting down the years until my youngest is eighteen so they can finally meet my family too.

Masha'Allah thats our shaykh Yasir Al Hanafi. Such a G

Jazak Allah khair for bringing up this topic, which is happening in our community.

Masha'Allah much needed conversation. This is a big problem here in the US too. My cousin became homeless because of the struggle of not seeing his children. Personally, i think the solution is not to get married in the West, especially if you're a man. It's good to get married and create a family but if you can lose everything you have in a minute, what is the point of having a family? May Allah make it easy for brothers. 🙏

I am A born Australian and I have two children that I am not allowed to see but child-support takes money from me fortnightly for the past 16 years and now their mother has become a drug addict and instead of a forwarding me the rights to my children they have sent them to separate houses With different families all because I am Muslim

Brother Ahmed’s story is my story here in the States. My ex was coach by divorced Muslim convert attorney to make my life a slow cooking hell in many aspects through straight up lies that was not punished by the court to manipulation similar to what br Ahmed said.

Life seems so unfair , there is so much injustice, but is it not all a test from Allah ?

They encourage our women and children to turn against us and unfortunately the weaker ones do. Of course, not all brothers are mistake free but there are no justification for the use of non-muslim fear and hate of Muslim men as a weapon against the husband by the wife

Am glad such topics are raised.Its so wrong...such mothers should be ashamed keeping the children away fron fathers.

Subhãnallāh, excellent subject. Jazãkallāhu Khayr Hamzah and team for bringing it to the forefront. May Allah SWT grant you all success - ãmeen.

جزاک اللہ خیرا

Need a women on here to talk about this and how it is being exploited

Unfortunately this has happened to me because of my ex-husband. It happens to mother's too

Many Muslim women absorbed Islamophobia (to be fair more targeted by govts) and did not support their own men in times of need

In the U.S., about 65% of custody cases are awarded to the mother. Of those cases, 50% of the time, men voluntarily give up custody to the mother.

This is so sad, mothers don't realise the damage they are doing directly to the children by breaking ties. Fear Allah, Allah has given women such power and status don't misuse it, don't be the reason for someone's tears. Unless there is direct harm to the child. No reason is valid to keep a child away from their father. A mother turns the baby into a boy, a father turns the boy into a man.

Please pray for my brother and his children. Is it bad that I feel I can't forgive his ex for weaponising his children and turning them against him? Is it wrong to hate her to such an extent that I curse her? At what point does a father give up?

Assalamu’alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹🌹

17:44. Wow, same exact thing was claimed against me in court! Is there a manual out there I don't know about??

This is so sad, everyone and everything belongs to Allah first.

Or you have a fathers that completely abandon their children then pretend to be victims to save their reputation

Excellent show would love to have brothers on my channel

There are so many sisters who we’ve let get away with the most jahil things that it baffles me that mufti menk(along with many people( rarely or never bought up what women have done that is wrong to maintain awareness as well But no- women have a literal in grouping that even helps each other when they don’t even have the same values. Very interesting that love and lust can blind your trust off of an innate sense of worshipping women when history shows that’s what many of the most warring societies would be represented off of When you look at the fact that queen ruled regions had a 27% likely of going into war over kingdoms We never talk about the forceful influence of Queen Isabella or Queen Victoria and her neglect on 1770’s Bengal Famine where 30 million Bengalis were starving and 10 million DIED…. This was 4-5 years before even Americas creation. But we don’t see it in that perspective because we don’t see it as an effect on us personally today. It’s about the lack of understanding regarding what’s being perceived and what it actually was regarding how manipulative women can be and how little we know about what to be aware of.

there are many issues here , but one should be mentioned which is that ... going to non-muslim ruling and use it above a muslim ruling whatever the reason is , this alone will take that person out of islam , and become apostate ,,, whether you are oppressed or not , a man or a woman ..

Interesting topic it was ..but if father's don't have good character and involve in bad habits.. then what what should a mother to do .. because she don't want to make her children like their father .. she want to save her children from his hsb in the case of his bad character .

Unfortunately there are well known "Shaykhs" who are advicing and supporting mothers to do this evil acts.

Peace and mercy of God🕋🤲 I am from Palestine, I have orphaned children, and my husband passed away several years ago, and there is no one to stand with us. I have a child who wants eye treatment and I have no one to help us Even most of the time, there is no food for the children, and I live in a rented house I have no money for treatment, food, or house rent, which is very difficult O my brothers, do not forget me By God, I am not a deceiver, nor a liar, and I speak the truth And I have all the medical appreciation that caused it ⁰⁰⁹⁷⁰⁵⁹²⁵¹¹⁹⁶⁹ يارب العالمين.

What do we expect from a hemispheric culture that roots traditional values in the bin - while upholding atomised individualism, LGBT and rampant feminism? What do we really expect from a culture that mutilates young men and women in abeyance to their mental health and trauma - making objective firmness ultimately evadable and nullified? As the ummah of Muhammad (peace be upon him) we can be exemplars in all facets of public and private life - but this starts with bettering ourselves and fortifying our personal connection with the Almighty.

Weaponising can only take place when Allah wills it , because life is a test . 🤔

BUT WHAT ABOUT THE MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How are Muslim weapon who should know better doing this. It’s absolutely abhorrent !!!!

Ladies stop this man! Make sure before you marry you get something financial in the case of divorce so you dont land up doing this.

do these women not fear Allah?

What if the kids don't want to meet the mother as she neglected threatened and abused them and she suffers from mental health issues and at the moment she has been sectioned in the mental hospital for the last 5 months. She was arrested for abuse towards her now ex husband and the 3 kids .

None of ure bussines

It's always about the male , is it? As if women are not oppressed by men at all

You mention that most youth suicide are from fatherless homes. Yet, correlation does not equal causation. Maybe what led to them being fatherless also led them to develop mental health issues.