👰🤵 wedding photographer sleeps with the groom! 😱

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Vanessa Joy

Vanessa Joy

Күн бұрын

As a wedding photographer, maybe this is a no no?
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In this video, we chit-chat and discuss a wedding photographer who is now facing a BIG problem after the groom had an affair with the wedding photographer's second shooter.
A bride wants a refund after Groom had an affair with the second shooter.The wedding photographer charges for services provided, but the groom goes on to have an affair and now the bride wants her money back.
What would you do if this was your story?
I'll give you a breakdown of the responsibilities of the wedding photography primary shooter so that you can avoid any potential obstacles in the future. Plus, you'll get to hear about the crazy solutions from the commenters!
Watch until the end!
0:00 Wedding Photography Tips you shouldn't follow
0:14 Bride wants a refund
3:48 Responsibilities of the wedding photographer
7:30 Taking out solutions from the commenters
10:15 Share your thoughts and best solutions
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wedding photography business marketing is part of what it takes to know how to be a good wedding photographer. Photography contracts don't cover this wedding photography business problem! Being a second shooter at a wedding shouldn't end up like this.

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@EdKrisiak
@EdKrisiak 9 ай бұрын
The photographer should get a BIG tip!!!!. Bride found out her husband can not be trusted early in the relationship. LOVE your teeshirt!!!
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
haha thx!
@PaulGibbings01
@PaulGibbings01 9 ай бұрын
This is why I gave up wedding photography, sleeping with the bride every time just became too much hassle 🤣🤣
@dw.in.michigan
@dw.in.michigan 9 ай бұрын
Probably not the first person to suggest this, but given the cost of hiring a wedding photographer, it is entirely possible that the bride and groom ARE in an open relationship and saw this as a way to scam the photographer and get their money back. Was there any indication that the bride and groom were divorcing because of the infidelity? If not, I would say it is very possible that they're trying to scam the photographer.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
I would NOT be surprised if you're right!!!
@davesmulders3931
@davesmulders3931 9 ай бұрын
@@VanessaJoy You would be pretty sure if the bride tries to sleep with the 1st photographer within the next month or so 😂
@rudolphvanniekerk2171
@rudolphvanniekerk2171 8 ай бұрын
Nññnnñ Bobby
@jimogden1506
@jimogden1506 9 ай бұрын
Here's my favorite wedding story. My wife and I were hired to crash a friend's friend's wedding. We met the couple once on a zoom call, and we came up with a backstory. People at the wedding had to guess who the crashers (us) were for a prize. It was so much fun.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
haha so fun!
@bkc1965
@bkc1965 9 ай бұрын
If the photographer is responsible for the post wedding actions of the second shooter, then the client should be responsible for the post wedding actions of their spouse. The client obviously has emotionally damaged the photographer by choosing to marry such a person. But in reality...it isn't the photographers fault and not their concern. I wouldn't give a refund, just tell the client I am sorry that they are going through this.
@TheGaudioFamily
@TheGaudioFamily 9 ай бұрын
You can read from the menu, but you gotta eat at home 😂
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
HAHAHA
@n-kphotographyandstudio8774
@n-kphotographyandstudio8774 9 ай бұрын
Vanessa, had me chuckling all the way; (did add your disclosure as a rider though...thx) , had multi day seminar with you a few years ago at B&H; totally agree with Rob; best to you and Rob.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
Haha nice! Great to hear from you. I remember that workshop!
@SDA0271
@SDA0271 9 ай бұрын
I say no refund! The contract was to photograph their wedding which I assume was contractually completed. Sure the second shooter is a POS for doing that, but the groom is far far worse. If he did it this time (and took photos of it) then he's done it before. He's a POS, dump him! The main photographer is not responsible for the behavior of the groom. Get the marriage annulled and sue the groom for any costs you may have incurred for said wedding (assuming the Bride's parents foot the bill OR she put money towards it).
@maggnet4829
@maggnet4829 9 ай бұрын
Yep, I'd even include the day of the wedding for this. Let's think about it, what if the groom would have slept with a waitress at that evening, would you ask the money for the buffet back?
@fgriseta
@fgriseta 9 ай бұрын
OMG LOVE THE KISS SHIRT !!!
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
haha thanks! it was a gift!
@JaskaranSingh-rn7sk
@JaskaranSingh-rn7sk 9 ай бұрын
Oh god I am cringing and loving it at the same time 😂😂😂 and you are really good at this podcast concept, would love to see more (Maybe be a guest on jared's podcast?)
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
I've been a guest on his :-)
@JaskaranSingh-rn7sk
@JaskaranSingh-rn7sk 9 ай бұрын
@@VanessaJoy Oh noo, How did I miss it, On it right away 🙏🏻
@bruce-le-smith
@bruce-le-smith 9 ай бұрын
@@VanessaJoy If there was a recurring unscripted video series with you and Jared ('Philly photographers react)' scrolling reddit and insta I'd subscribe for sure. I find talk radio / podcasts really boring, so I need the visuals to engage with the content (sorry Jared and Steven). I feel like you and he would have a good dynamic for a photo themed react channel.
@neadbejdic9082
@neadbejdic9082 8 ай бұрын
Love the shirt!!! Going to the show in Montreal next month!! Rock on!
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 8 ай бұрын
Ah so jealous!
@petere6036
@petere6036 9 ай бұрын
Wedding photography is an interesting field of activity. The bride should pay an extra bonus for her groom's loyalty test!🤣🤣🤣🤣
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
lol isn't it tho?
@dougtayek4749
@dougtayek4749 9 ай бұрын
Every first year law student is taught that a contract has four components, and when those elements are fulfilled the parties have no other responsibility to each other. The photographer should send the bride a list of divorce lawyers and that’s it.
@brad_in_yyc
@brad_in_yyc 9 ай бұрын
Stuff like this constantly blows me away. It's so crazy! I can't picture myself every doing this. But, never say never, I guess? But I really can't picture it....but I definitely have friends that I totally would not hire as second shooters because I can totally see them doing this. Hahahaha.
@johnhagen31
@johnhagen31 9 ай бұрын
Simple. As with all disputes, Separate The Issues. The only possible response is NO REFUND.
@rukietuchapin3976
@rukietuchapin3976 9 ай бұрын
The law does not necessarily favours award emotional damage. Especially when the contract is not recreationally purposes. The alleged affair is beyond the scope of their agreement. The contract was to take images which the photographer gave to her.
@TheFilmCouple_
@TheFilmCouple_ 9 ай бұрын
Cool new background!
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
thanks!
@lyndonlabayan
@lyndonlabayan 9 ай бұрын
This is gold.
@upliftphotography
@upliftphotography 9 ай бұрын
NO refund for her and not your problem. The bride should be going after the Husband and a loser that's the player.
@dangilmore9724
@dangilmore9724 9 ай бұрын
I wouldn't offer a refund. I would, however send the customer a bill for additional services rendered. That response would be worth the price of admission.
@hautehussey
@hautehussey 9 ай бұрын
The photographer should send an invoice for extra services rendered.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
😂
@cleverkerr3537
@cleverkerr3537 9 ай бұрын
Rob is my lawyer now😂😂
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
😂
@colnagocowboy
@colnagocowboy 8 ай бұрын
Most weddings ive been to have an issue. I shot one wedding (1976,) of my best friend. He was forever grateful i took shots with my Yashica MAT 124. As the photographer fell into the baptismal pool.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 8 ай бұрын
Lol wow. Oops 🙊
@markwang77
@markwang77 9 ай бұрын
'Better Call Rob' lol
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
Haha
@DeaqonJamesLV
@DeaqonJamesLV 9 ай бұрын
The hussy mistress doesn't always get away free. They can be sued for alienation of affection, and yes, in MANY states that is a law. Though I don't know how many people recently have used it. But from a business standpoint while you can be sued for ANYTHING it doesn't seem from my experience, very likely that she would be awarded any damages from legal action she would take against the photographer. In short. NO not going to give any kind of refund as I am not responsible for the actions of the husband (since this happened AFTER the wedding) or the third party.
@Big_Sierra
@Big_Sierra 9 ай бұрын
The truth is, when you enter into a relationship, it’s your job to vet that person to determine if they’re worth your commitment. It sounds like this woman may have had rose colored glasses on and chose to marry a pos. The photog was hired, photos were taken. Transaction complete.
@rebootnut
@rebootnut 9 ай бұрын
When I heard Rob yell "****!", I immediately thought of Jim Carrey in Liar Liar. 😆
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
😂
@MR-si2cd
@MR-si2cd 9 ай бұрын
“…delivered to client…” oh, it was delivered alright 😂😂 too soon?😂😂
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
lol
@geocubano
@geocubano 9 ай бұрын
I'm in total agreement with Rob!!!
@smsphotography2179
@smsphotography2179 9 ай бұрын
Love the tshirt. 😊
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
thanks!
@TC_Conner
@TC_Conner 9 ай бұрын
I’ve not shot many weddings (got a very late start) so I’ve not seen such hanky panky as discussed here. Your, and Rob’s, advice sounded concrete. All put together quite nicely in a very entertaining video. (Is this a podcast?) 💜😎💜
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
I guess a podcast??
@arunashamal
@arunashamal 9 ай бұрын
Hats off to husband! two birds in one wedding!
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
😂
@mikel5094
@mikel5094 9 ай бұрын
Oh 😮damn that beats all my stories 🤣but wow 😮
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
crazzzzzzy
@natestain7103
@natestain7103 9 ай бұрын
She needs to settle that in divorce court. Has nothing to do with a photographer
@stanspb763
@stanspb763 9 ай бұрын
I do not do weddings because of the nature of them where I live,there is 90% of the wedding day and events that are unplanned and involves taking the entire wedding party on a random process of going to parks, monuments, bridges over canals, for many hours and finally converging back for a party many hours later. The ceremony itself by appointment time in an ornate wedding palace, the only part that is predictable so this is not a problem I could run into. I d, however do couples sessions/engagement sets but my main work is studio sessions for actor portfolios and model books. My GF is the dresser and our good friend is MUA, when not on a cinema filming. The photographer is not responsible for the behavior off duty but the assumption that the girl was at fault is a stretch, why the bereaved bride assume the girl was not the victim of an overly aggressive client? In some countries like my native USA, everything is someone else's fault and large sums is sought. Here where I moved to 23 years ago, this case would be laughed out of court. People do not sue unless a serious breach of contract or fraud, very rare. It is a much more calm and relaxed society, where everyone gets along. The only downside is photography has a modest income potential. But the cost of living is also 1/10th for a much better quality of life than is possible back home in California. One additional reason for not doing weddings is total lack of control of sight lines, everyone with a phone or pocket camera gets in the west. I did a wedding for an ex-girlfriend years ago here that was in a spectacular 17th Century cathedral and had the planner sent out the invitations with a statement that a special area for photographers would be provided, so no photos from the galleries, and a box to check if they intended to shoot photos, so to go they needed to receive a entry ticket after submitting the questionnaire. I thought that would solve the problem of sight lines. The security was good because it was a wedding of a celebrity who was a cultural icon. A roped off area with signs for guests who were going to take photos, and they all filled that area early on, until the celebrity came down the isle, everyone crowded around, knocked over the rope stanchions and one one of the 3 shooters had a decent sight line to get anything suitable for the wedding book or publicity. Normally people are very easy going, do not intrude on others, are very polite. To get serious photos we had to arrange a midnight use of the cathedral before they flew off on a month honeymoon trip. I much prefer environments and studio work, portraits are usually nice also. In my studio I have a 36wide corner cyclorama that is demand for product and catalog work, The city is so beautiful, clean and classical that many clients want city sessions or in palaces or mansions, which are everywhere here. The city has 600 beautiful parks so there is no end to options.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
haha I call some weddings a "tour of the gazebos"
@mazzith
@mazzith 9 ай бұрын
As a wedding photographer my first gut is to offer refund for the second photographer. But I still do not think you’re liable for anything.
@NJBoden
@NJBoden 9 ай бұрын
Services were rendered and complete. No reason at all to give a refund since you did what you were paid to do. Plus if they liked your work maybe they’ll hire you for the second attempt ;)
@vacanechaser
@vacanechaser 8 ай бұрын
I was a second shooter with a friend of mine in his wedding business. Had a nice young couple. Did their engagements and never a seconds trouble. Well, wedding day rolls around. Outdoor wedding here in Hampton Roads in July. It was 100 degrees that day, near noon at the time of the wedding. Long period of a few hours between the wedding and the reception. The bridal party went to a friend's house for a pool party between the wedding and reception. Again, nothing hinting at an issue. We arrive at the reception location. Start our prep on shooting the cake and all the other things you do at a reception. People start arriving. Bride and groom arrive. Bride is in a bit of a frustrated stage. Said she had a brief issue with her mother before leaving the house. Well, apparently the mother wasn't a fan of the groom. And I'm not sure, but I believe they said she was Greek. Apparently the culture is if the mother disapproves she wears a red dress to the reception. Weeeeellllll, the mother walked in wearing the brightest red dress you can imagine. The bridal party disappears on us as we were shooting some of the other gusts and the dinning area. Finally after about 10 minutes we see the wedding planner and asked her where they all were? She was just frazzled and a nervous wreck and said and I quote...." the brides mother wore a red dress..thats a sign of disapproval of the weeding. They went to the back to hash it out....and bride proceeded to PUNCH her own mother square in the face!!!! " LMAO. Then she said, this is my second wedding and I've decided I cant do this shit....I'm going back into politics, at least there I know who's cutthroat and who you can and cant trust. We started getting on her like, why didnt you come get us??? Those images of the fight would've been fantastic in the middle of the album!!!! LOL. Sorry this is so long, but had to provide a bit of build up to it. It's not everyday you hear about the bride punching her own mother in the face on the day of the wedding.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 8 ай бұрын
Haha holy crap that’s insane!! I’ve definitely never witnessed that before!!!
@vacanechaser
@vacanechaser 8 ай бұрын
@@VanessaJoy it was definitely crazy. I just went and looked on facebook. That was in 2012...theyre still married with 2 kids. So apparently things are good with them.
@mxilplict
@mxilplict 9 ай бұрын
If it were me, there are no infidelity clauses in my photography contract and said conduct between consenting adults did not interfere with the performance and delivery of the contracted service, so not my problem. If needed I would fight and have them get laughed out of court and countersue for fees and defamation.
@toddlavigne6441
@toddlavigne6441 9 ай бұрын
This bride does not have a case.
@tuesdayswithed
@tuesdayswithed 9 ай бұрын
Funny stuff. Sounds like an episode of Two and A Half Men.
@SuperVokan
@SuperVokan 9 ай бұрын
Groom was the second shooter.
@sleepinglionarchives
@sleepinglionarchives 9 ай бұрын
Golly, you're pretty. I mean... great vid. Yes. Great vid!
@deirdreryan7402
@deirdreryan7402 6 ай бұрын
For my wedding the photographer dated one of my bridesmaids and ended up showing her my wedding proofs before us. Yeah this was during the days of film. She dumped him and called me. Did he get reprimanded? Yes!
@scoylephoto
@scoylephoto 9 ай бұрын
I feel like this is kind of like that thing that teacher's deal with where they are seen drinking a beer at a restaurant and just living their lives outside school and parents get mad about it, only what this second did is actually bad. Outside the school is personal time so they can live their lives as they see fit good or bad. This second photographer and their actions are not the responsibility of the lead outside the working hours of the wedding, they went and hooked up with the groom on their own time. Would this bride have asked for a refund for the price of the dinner if it had been a guest instead of a vendor that slept with her new husband? Seems like bride just wants some cash to leave the relationship with lined pockets.
@BaronStVon
@BaronStVon 9 ай бұрын
Can you share your contract--perhaps make a video discussing the making of it? That would be great!
@erichramone7812
@erichramone7812 9 ай бұрын
Ohhh man great ask??
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
lol
@AverageDadMTB
@AverageDadMTB 9 ай бұрын
Can I get a free contract too? Thanks! Get real.
@lalonkarim1323
@lalonkarim1323 9 ай бұрын
May be the photographer needs to charge more for the extra service provided by the second shooter?
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
lol
@brittmurray9818
@brittmurray9818 9 ай бұрын
Lawyer / enthusiast photographer here. Good clause. I mean, it's missing latin, but I guess that's ok. :)
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
Haha I’ll add some Latin
@degreyphoto
@degreyphoto 9 ай бұрын
That's wild
@tristfularcadia
@tristfularcadia 9 ай бұрын
Lol I just read this the other day
@viciwo3396
@viciwo3396 9 ай бұрын
Need to redo my contract. Will never have thought about anything remotely close to this happening.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
haha always something bad that forces a contract redo
@ademola5803
@ademola5803 9 ай бұрын
I shot a wedding as a 2nd shooter and the bride paid me so much attention and even forgot the name of the main shooter in the feedback video and this made me feel so uncomfortable. I just backed off and never did any exotic killer shots.
@pagpapaitim
@pagpapaitim 9 ай бұрын
well if the groom slept with the photographer at the wedding... it's not really sleeping.
@Eleven.Eleven.1111
@Eleven.Eleven.1111 9 ай бұрын
You all say slept with the groom. However, I bet the issue is that they were awake through the get-together. No refund!..
@enricomarconi8358
@enricomarconi8358 9 ай бұрын
Wonderful! The meaning of marriage these days.... Question did you 2nd shooter overheat at some point?
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
lol
@miam1074
@miam1074 9 ай бұрын
the 2 things are completely not related. Photographers did the job on the agreed day on the agreed terms. got paid, delivered the photos. end of story. I don't understand what the grounds would be for a refund.
@fountainvalley100
@fountainvalley100 9 ай бұрын
Actually several states have home wrecker laws. So the person that interferes with a marriage can be sued. As to this situation I wouldn’t give a refund unless the act happened on the day of the wedding. I would also ask for the return of all work products.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
do they really?! that's interesting
@fountainvalley100
@fountainvalley100 9 ай бұрын
@@VanessaJoy avoid these states if you decide to begin a career as a home wrecker. Hawaii, Illinois, New Mexico, North Carolina, Mississippi, South Dakota, and Utah
@Kim-pc9rl
@Kim-pc9rl 9 ай бұрын
It’s call criminal conversation in some states lol
@Ruscombephotos
@Ruscombephotos 9 ай бұрын
I also thought this was a fabrication to scam the photographer. But, if it is true, the bride could sell her story to one of Rupert Murdoch’s tabloid newspapers, because the fee would more than cover the cost of the wedding photographer.
@AverageDadMTB
@AverageDadMTB 9 ай бұрын
The name of the Redditor is Wedding Dude, Dude.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
😂
@CO8848_2
@CO8848_2 9 ай бұрын
Job perks come in a different format.
@MartinH1701
@MartinH1701 9 ай бұрын
This is all very interesting but I'm still busy watching Yoga for Photographers frame by frame... 🙂
@glynnhendersonphotography
@glynnhendersonphotography 4 күн бұрын
LOL @better call Rob.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 4 күн бұрын
😂
@kyleranney
@kyleranney 9 ай бұрын
Not responsible on the day either. If your husband slept with the checkout girl at Target, you wouldn't sue target. You wouldn't sue the resort if a wife slept with the canaba boy.
@abchappell01
@abchappell01 9 ай бұрын
Damn! 😱
@PRWphoto
@PRWphoto 9 ай бұрын
Here's my wedding horror story: Late 1980s, so medium format for film and full-size S-VHS for video. I was shooting video for this wedding, and the photographer was the local newspaper photographer. The entire evening, anytime we were completing an item on the timeline, the DJ and I would have to get the photographer from the bar firat. The photographer claims he dropped the film off at the lab that night, but the lab has no record of the film. Bottom line, the couple had NO photos, and the technology at the time didn't allow you to grab quality frames from the video...
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
Oh nooo that awful!!!
@bkc1965
@bkc1965 9 ай бұрын
If the two people did the nasty in the back seat of a Chevy, is the bride going to ask Chevrolet for a refund on the Chevy?
@bigbrownmab189
@bigbrownmab189 9 ай бұрын
Sounds like the second shooter is all about seconds.
@Betterifitsfree
@Betterifitsfree 9 ай бұрын
Refund nothing! Send an additional bill of $200+ for proving that the spouse was untrustworthy and a cheat.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
lol - "for additional photos supplied by my crew"
@Betterifitsfree
@Betterifitsfree 9 ай бұрын
@@VanessaJoy 😂😂👍🏻 📸
@UnconventionalReasoning
@UnconventionalReasoning 9 ай бұрын
Completely unrelated, I think I once went to a bar mitzvah at the Pleasantdale Chateau. I was too naive to know if anyone slept with anyone at the event.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
haha nice place right?
@UnconventionalReasoning
@UnconventionalReasoning 9 ай бұрын
@@VanessaJoy It's been a while since I was 12/13, and at that age, I was unable to really appreciate it's splendor. I'll have to visit it again to really see it.
@757GLG
@757GLG 9 ай бұрын
It's called a "follow-up."
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
😂
@up-close
@up-close 9 ай бұрын
In Rob's defense, being a slut is shameful. So saying "we don't slut shame" is like saying "we don't call a snake deadly just because it bit and killed someone. It hurts the snakes feelings."
@bruce-le-smith
@bruce-le-smith 9 ай бұрын
"emotional damage!" {@StevenHe voice} lol. But really, just 'cause some dude can't keep it in his pants, doesn't mean a photographer failed to take photos. If you go to buy a car, and your husband sleeps with someone in the car dealership, you really just need a new husband and not a refund on photos or your car. Next case!
@cosmo0080
@cosmo0080 9 ай бұрын
i meet often with the bride and groom before shooting a wedding. this time the bride showed to much interest in me, after i shot the wedding she just came out and asked if i would sex. of course i said no. and that is the short version
@ebenezermamabolo
@ebenezermamabolo 9 ай бұрын
Where can we get the template of the contract?
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
did it not pop up on the screen when I mentioned it?
@ebenezermamabolo
@ebenezermamabolo 9 ай бұрын
The snapshot of clause 19 on the screen did in a white background.
@angeloplayforone
@angeloplayforone 9 ай бұрын
Great story for Jerry Springer (RIP). The wedding way be of 2 Only Fans ‘content creators’, we don’t know it. If it was the wedding of Lena the Plug and Adam22 type op person then there is no problem, mean open relationship. I agree with Rob, she needs to talk to her husband no need blaming the photographers.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
haha could be
@StunnafulPhotography
@StunnafulPhotography 9 ай бұрын
Wow! It's the wild wild west out there for weddings and wedding photographers! That sex bug is working overtime! 😅
@elmoizme
@elmoizme 9 ай бұрын
Did she provide RAW files?
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
lol - what kind of raw are we talking about here?
@elmoizme
@elmoizme 9 ай бұрын
🤔☠@@VanessaJoy
@Roberto_79
@Roberto_79 9 ай бұрын
I think my response to the bride would’ve been… “ The crazy train left yesterday… Best you call an Uber.” 🤨🤨
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
HAHAHA
@cwugrad396
@cwugrad396 3 ай бұрын
i’m halfway through. i should probably wait till the end. but so far there is really no way the bride prevails. the issue wasn’t one of work quality per se. the work could have been amazing.
@cwugrad396
@cwugrad396 3 ай бұрын
the photographer gets paid. the groom got laid. hard to sue someone when the real issue is not the work but the fact that you chose a shitty husband
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 3 ай бұрын
Exactly
@Snapit551
@Snapit551 9 ай бұрын
At least she got to find out earlier about her naughty hubby
@ereceeme
@ereceeme 9 ай бұрын
forget it that lafyis crazy. it was two consenting adults months after the wedding
@DirtDigglerDetecting
@DirtDigglerDetecting 9 ай бұрын
wow.....
@JamesBond-ke5tp
@JamesBond-ke5tp 9 ай бұрын
Don’t shit where you eat. 😂
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
lol
@chuckrfuller
@chuckrfuller 9 ай бұрын
VJ this sounds like a tv show. I would have saved this story and submitted it for a show. You could have made more money than the photo shoot. What about the husband’s responsibility to be a faithful man. How is he this photographer’s problem.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
haha I should've
@corykphotography
@corykphotography 9 ай бұрын
Leak the photos to the gram or it didn't happen!
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
exactly
@robertleidner9703
@robertleidner9703 9 ай бұрын
Sorry, she’s not getting a dime. Just hope she doesn’t write a bad review. That is a reputation issue for sure.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
definitely
@JamesBond-ke5tp
@JamesBond-ke5tp 9 ай бұрын
Walked in on the best man and maid of honor mid coitus in the bridal suite during the reception. I had went in to grab a light I had left there earlier. I’ve had a drunk bride, this was pre wedding and she had just got her hair and make up done, walk around naked and decide she wanted to do some raunchy photos for the groom. I politely told her I’d be happy to take some artistic and classy photos, but I wouldn’t take what she had in mind. Think Hustler. Her GRANDMOTHER was sitting on the couch about to have a heart attack during all this.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
awwww poor grandma
@hawg427
@hawg427 9 ай бұрын
The Bride should make the skanky Husband to pay for the entire wedding picture included.
@wngimageanddesign9546
@wngimageanddesign9546 9 ай бұрын
WTF? LOL!
@aldrindetablan4358
@aldrindetablan4358 9 ай бұрын
She should refund her husband in the first place. lol and Robis absolutely right.
@timlongstudios
@timlongstudios 9 ай бұрын
Yeah, the Bride needs to get lost.
@aroundtheglobe162
@aroundtheglobe162 8 ай бұрын
She must get money back from her husband
@WaltervonKurzgesagt
@WaltervonKurzgesagt 9 ай бұрын
they must have been really tired.
@Kim-pc9rl
@Kim-pc9rl 9 ай бұрын
Does she have a contract with the second shooter and does the 2nd shooter have to carry insurance ?
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
Not sure
@alfonsosangiao2818
@alfonsosangiao2818 9 ай бұрын
Reality Lol. At least the husband enjoyed the wedding Maybe… half refund ?
@ferdiyansurya
@ferdiyansurya 9 ай бұрын
Was the wedding photography company name ‘jerry springer photography’? That’s really bonkers … On the other hand, there’s a business opportunity here: if we can only get a refund from our ex-es on all expenses & time spent during those years of bad marriages, pretty sure that business will go through the roof!
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
haha true
@pathdoc1701
@pathdoc1701 9 ай бұрын
Her camera must have been irresistible...
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
haha
@krone5
@krone5 9 ай бұрын
I would offer a free session, but not give refund.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
divorce revenge session?
@Kim-pc9rl
@Kim-pc9rl 9 ай бұрын
Dating profile session lol
@Ranger7Studios
@Ranger7Studios 9 ай бұрын
IDK. No photos, no proof Reddit. LoL. I think the photographer did her job and the job was done. The fact that things happened afterwards, not really par of the contract. No where does it say that you get a full money back refund if you sleep with my second shooter. So... Also, nice podcast set.
@VanessaJoy
@VanessaJoy 9 ай бұрын
thanks! :-) haha my dining room table
@VagabondKing100
@VagabondKing100 9 ай бұрын
I guess it’s too soon to ask to shoot her next wedding?
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