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@@mynameismelissa58 I have numerous recordings of her bashing me to our son on the phone but I cannot use these against her. I can only let her dig her own hole. We have another trial coming up and she has not followed the courts instructions to provide all evidence 30 days before trial. last week we had a trial set for me getting permission to get our sons passport because she refused to sign and then didn't even show up for court. The whole thing lasted 9 minutes and the Judge gave me an order with permission. She just wanted to waste 4 months of my time is all. This will hopefully all catch up to her at some point soon.

It's great when they dig their own graves. But on the flip side, too bad for the kids, who have to grow up with someone like that.

You will see the evil side of women when it's about child custody and the father wanting something. Not sure why they get so evil.

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How can you word this comment in court? My brothers x-is making false accusations and statements and is trying to take his daughter. He is a good and day. His ex-is evening trying to say -he doesn’t have enough time to spend with her because he work over time. He works only 5 hours a week extra to be able to provide!

​@@vmeza2331213 Without knowing the details of your brother's case and life.... For the false allegations, 1st he should quote exactly what the mother said... Whether she said it in an email or verbally or in a court petition. Quote it exactly in front of the judge. And then you say those statements are false. And then you tell the judge the actual facts. You have to be detailed, precise, and exact.... So that an uninformed judge can understand the difference between truth and lies. And evidence helps to backup his story. As for working overtime and being available to raise his daughter.... He's ultimately trying to demonstrate that he's available to parent the child, when the child is not in school. So he wants to demonstrate how much time during the week his job takes versus the time he is available to raise the child. It is often, but not always, better to have a parent raise the child versus a babysitter. Maybe his overtime hours are incurred while the child is with the mother. Maybe overtime is voluntary and not required...so it's not something that's guaranteed to pull him away from the child. And when he's working who's taking care of the child? Is it grandma or an aunt that's in the home with the child? Just some thoughts off the top of my head...

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It can be tough as hell being a single dad... I talk about my own struggles/dealing with child support on my channel if you think it may help you...just to share stories. Keep your head up and fight. 🤝

Let the fears of what you don't know, GO! If you know you're a loving dad, and want the best for your babies, take into consideration the same tools here, that you would use for a judge, 3 main points, plan 3 things you want to talk about and don't let emotions drive the situation. My ex (male) did the same thing... my child cried when I picked him up, kicking and screaming that he didn't want to go. I can only imagine the things being said to him at his age, that didn't make sense. It's so scary. I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. I used to say, "hey, baby, I see you're so sad". And ask 1 question, "is there something I can do to help you feel better? It went on and on and I eventually would let him know that he can cry with me. Often, these kids can't show emotions with the difficult parent. So when they had the opportunity to be emotional, it was okay only if it were at the protective parents stake. It's quite nasty and I hope in time everything comes to fruition, and you all build a solid relationship on good communication. Put the phone down with your kids, do what they want. Watch them, observe, and embrace being their parent. They are emotional beings who need to find themselves in order to recognize order. Be consistent, and continue to nourish with love and support. Do not ever fault them for being gaslit by the abuser. Xoxox

Keep it that way my friend.

The reality is, child support isn't voluntary. So, that's not really going to help you in front of the judge.