How many fathers are here?

As a Father whatever war you are going through look for the best outcome for your baby but as a person protect your health, heart, and mental health because we are Men. Nobody will care for us while we worry about everyone else. Best of luck to the great Fathers out there

I was 22 years old. When I got custody of my son he was one years old at the time I got full custody. He is now 19 years old and still living with me you have to fight.

I will say if you are a father/parent who now has to fight to make sure you can be a positive force in their life, do not give up! Cost a little money. But then, when you go pick up your child and watch the look on their face when they see you and stop everything they are doing and run full tilt at you yelling "daddy" (in my case) you know it was worth every penny! Thank you everyone on here for your kind words and encouragement. I now see my son all the time and he is a complete daddies boy. I never get any sleep anymore. Never have privacy in the bathroom. Have even memorized the first three seasons of Thomas and friends and that stupid intro song. Get random kicks in the head. Have to constantly leave work early to pick my son up to do one thing or another. Have more laundry than any one person should have piled up in my laundry room. And I wouldn't change a second of it. Ive never felt more that I have a sense of purpose in life. I feel to this point going and fighting for my son was the single most important thing I have ever done in my life. Its even helped my sons development. His daycare noticed a huge positive change in him since I have been involved. If you are on here looking for advice from this channel you came to right place. And Ill say this, Do not give up! Fight! Fight to be a positive force in your child's life! No matter what it costs, how long it takes, keep fighting. It will pay off in the end in ways you cant even imagine!

The Custody Court system is a sham! It's bias against good Fathers is sickening and the harder you fight for your children, the more the system will restrict your Parenting time.

50/50 Parenting Time Legislation needs to be law. Fathers deserve same rights and choices. The corrupt family court system is using Child Support as a means to prosper and judges too are taking advantage of this. This has all been well documented.

Politicians and judges always do what’s in their best interests. Not anyone else’s including kids.

Awesome message. Fathers! Please educate yourselves about the laws and your rights as a parent. Your children need you weather she believes it or not. Every child would say YES! To having their father in their life unless they were thought to feel otherwise. Children 1st. 👍

“The opportunity to pay child support” 😂

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They calling it winning. But it's not even a game. One parent just wants their child equally. The other refuses because of a grudge. It's chaos. Single mothers don't get it. What do you have to gain from denying your child their father? How would you feel if you were denied your dad. How would you feel if your son was denied his child or your grand child? You bitter mom's are your own poison

Custody Battles: It’s truly sad for the children that it has to come to this.

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Thank you so much. I am so grateful there is advocacy for Father's in today's justice system. Thanks again

Very informative video and a true help. I'm going into court today and want to be prepared. The video did more than just that. Thank you, Damon!

Thanks for the information, it definitely is well needed in a biased system when dealing with custody. I myself am in the midst of a custody battle of my 11-year-old daughter. It's been an uphill battle proving the man I am, which started in July 2022 and so far, I have been awarded temporary emergency custody (a victory in itself). I am absolutely positively the best parent of the 2 of us, providing a clean, stable, loving, nurturing, and positive environment for our amazing daughter. She went from an average A, B, and C student with her mother, not spending a minute investing into her education, to now A STRAIGHT A+ HONOR ROLL, PERFECT ATTENDANCE STUDENT every marking period, IN AP CLASSES, being with dad who makes education a top priority. She is beyond happy and prefers without a doubt to be with her daddy!!! It's simple, love on them, guide them, make them your priority, PROTECT them, motivate them, allow them to make mistakes and learn from them, talk to them, support them, and show them that you will always be there for them NO MATTER WHAT!! So far, my BM and I have had a total of 4 court hearings, and I have won each and every one, by providing straight facts, documentation of everything, and showing beyond a reasonable doubt why I am the clear choice to raise our beautiful young Queen. In May of 2024 will be our final chapter and ruling. I'm not only doing this for my daughter's happiness and future, but for ALL men fighting this biased system. I wish all men in this situation, the peace, strength, and the mental & emotional toughness for victory. Do your homework, get yourself a competent and understanding lawyer if you can (money well spent), prepare, prepare, prepare, keep the faith, and STAY STRONG!! ✊🙏💪👨‍👧

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Thank you sir. There's some valuable and actionable (no pun intended) info here!

If your a father don't count on getting full custody, that does not happen. Just hope that she does not prevent you from visitation, because all she has to say is the kids don't want to go, the kids are sick ( next week too) and your relationship ends with your children. It's that easy for her. The courts won't really care as long as your paying. Divorce with children is a bad deal for the father.

Thank you for such awsome insights. God bless you.

Excellent information and insight.

Very informative, thank you

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This is very helpful. Thank you

This is exactly what I needed to hear

I'm facing a manipulative and deceptive ex in a week in a temporary orders hearing. The questions regarding her parenting in a negative light really lifted some weight off my shoulders as I can answer yes to 85-90% of them.

Thank you for this

I appreciate this video , I’m going through this right now . I’m quite thankful for the additional advice that I’ve not quite heard from my lawyer but I am sure he’s doing his best . Thank you

Great video my brother. This has helped me extremely alot. Thank you

This is a great checklist of setting goals for your children. Great advice!

Thank you for putting yourself out there and thank you for making this video.

Thank you for sharing this will help a lot

First able, thank you so much for this useful information. My ex-wife became so careless since she got a new man and a new baby, that she forgot about my kids. Leading to our oldest son(not biological) to commit suicide. She was so happy with her new love life and made it hard me to give spend more time with my kids. Since she changed so much and she is psychologically hurting my princess and I’m so scared of having such a nightmare again, but I know Gos is just. All I can add is, the most valuable thing you can ever give to your child is: YOUR TIME. Blessings!

Thank you so much.

Thank you brother

I have a custody case coming up in an hour. I just did a search on here and glad I found your video. I wrote down a lot of key talking points and I'm more prepared. I have had my son for the past 2 years as his mom dropped him off and just has been out of the picture. Don't want to get into more details but I hope that I win for my son's sake as he deserves a great father like me.

My son was born a year ago and have only seen him 5-6 times. And when he is with me he loves every minute. Falls asleep in my arms. Wakes up from a nap and almost cries till he sees me. She holds him over my head and doesnt let me know how hes doing other than saying "hes fine" when I ask. Ive done nothing but prepare for my child since day I knew she was pregnant. she attacked me while pregnant cause I wouldn't give her weed... I got protective order. She has kept him from me saying that I chose not to be involved because I had a protective order on her. She has used this child as a weapon against me from the start. Had a seizure while pregnant and refused to go get the baby checked out because she was afraid that she will lose her license. Had one seizure after he was born too, and she only knew about it because it was caught on the baby cam. She lied about her seizures to the mediator during mediation. She refuses to let me have any contact with his drs or the daycare where she sends him rather than to me. I feel so lost. I dont want my son to have a hard life like I did. All I want is chance to be there for him. Teach him. Be a father to him. Like I never had. I feel so lost right now. Just trying to hold on till court. Just keep hoping the judge will see her for what she is and what she has done. A child needs their father and shouldn't be used as a weapon against them.

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This is fantastic and very helpful content Mr. Moore, you shed light and give hope to us self represented fathers who can’t afford an attorney. If you or someone would be able to discuss this, is a video and audio recording of my child, crying stating she doesn’t want to go with her mother because she is afraid of her admissible in a custody case? Thank you 🙏

Thank you

21 year old father. They’re trying to keep him away from me. Saying I can’t do anything about it. Well I am, and I’m getting the right information

Ty Kind Sir. Wish me luck for this coming Friday please in Helsinki

@Damon...we should talk some time about how to fix this broken system. I mean "real talk, about real solutions"...I think you have it in you. Let's do a call or a zoom sometime.

This is awesome! Thank you very very much. I've got a custody hearing in a week and I you've helped me get all my ducks in a row. Prove why I'm a good father and prove why my ex-wife isn't a good / responsible mother. I'm on it.

thank you

The only thing of importance is to make the other parent look very bad assuming you are the father. Advice from a retired lawyer from Denmark.

Why aren’t you the first video any of my searches for custody cases, I know this is for men but this is so informative for my case and answered many questions in the last minute searches on my case Monday . Can we still meet for a strategy session before my initial court date.. I needed you months ago lol.

This is not just for Dads. This is for either parent who is fighting for their kid’s best interest.

I won custody of 2 of my children. Im a man. Yes the judges are extremely sexually discriminative. But I won because oen of my baby mama's was deported. Another, she had been in jail 3 times throughout our custody case. One of her bail amount was 95k. Enough for anyone to say, well that's alot of drugs on her.

I got custody of my son, three months ago. Best advice I can give….when they go low, you go high. The truth will come out.

Thanks brotha

great video

Great video I have custody of my child.

I want my son but my ex said if we're not together then i cant be with him. I just don't wanna be around or deal with her explosive anger anymore. I'm praying i get custody

Great video. About to start this process to have full custody of my daughter.

I do agree that fathers have to prove they are great fathers and also that the mother is a bad parent, especially in a high conflict case. Otherwise, you leave your child's future to the whims of a judge that may be biased in favor of mothers... Or, in other words, a judge who is acting in the best interests of the mother instead of the best interests of the child.

I’ve been paying child support for more than 21 years my only child passed away over a year ago and I have only saw him 2 times. But I had to look for him for 5-10 at a time and when I find him and was able to talk to him for only minutes. And when I try to call back the same day. The phone is change or no longer in service then the hunt begins again for years. I have always wanted to be in my son life and I blame only myself because his mom wouldn’t let me even know where he is and also when my son passed away his mom didn’t tell me until 2 months after he had passed away and now im still paying rears for the time I was out of work but to her and her mother my son grandmother now if you or anyone can give me any information on what to do I truly appreciate it …

After my first marriage failed, the father and I split everything…time with our two daughters and financial responsibilities. He had 51% conservatorship and I was ok with that because he is a wonderful dad. The girls are grown and have children of their own. Today I am so incredibly thankful that we did not “bash” each other. The mistake I made was thinking that my 2nd husband would also have our only daughters best interest in mind. Wrong!! It’s been 4 years since our divorce and he has yet to assist financially or emotionally with our teenager. Unfortunately, it’s time to go to court to get our daughter what she deserves. Another problem is that he cannot hold a job due to substance abuse and recently got a DUI. His behavior with our daughter has scared her so bad that she no longer wants to visit him. He moved out of state right after the divorce. I could go on and on but I’m sure y’all get the picture. I totally agree with dad’s getting custody and it says a lot about a man to fight for his child in my eyes….as long as the child’s well-being is always put first.

Thank you sir

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first of all, good advice. second; it pisses me off that men have to go to this extent.

I will really would love to have a one one talk about my case with you thank you for the information 🙏🙏🙏 blessing

I live in Ontario. For child custody, there is a list of criteria the judges goes trough (Children’s Law Reform Act, s. 24(3)). The list is not complicated to understand and makes perfect sense. The problem is for the most part, the father works more than the mother. Mother is in general more involved in the children's lives (doctor visits, extra curricular acivities, packing their lunch, etc...). The judge goes trough the list of criteria examining facts after separation, but also (mostlý) before separation. 99.9% of parents are unaware of the list of criteria until they go to court. It makes sense the parent with higher income works more. It makes sense the parent with lower income sacrifices working hours to take care of the kids. The bread winner, by working more, acted in the best interest of the family. And at the same time, was unknowingly hurting his/her divorce case that was to occur 2-5 years later. There is some overlap between "best interest of the child after separation" and "best interest of the family before separation", but it is by no mean a perfect overlap. The applicable laws change overnight after separation, and it's like "a new law" is applied retroactively.

I'm battling a narcissistic woman and she is greazy. I never thought my wife would keep my kids from me, but here we are. I'm just tired, but I'm not going to give up on my babies...

Play the Shinning NIGHT Judges.......its amazing what men have to go through.

Things must change

As a single mother not living off of child support, I feel so bad for those good male parents out there denied custody because of implicit bias.

I answered yes to 5 of the questions.

I love this video. It’s all true. It’s game theory 101.

So it really don't matter if she is withholding your kids from you or anything. It only matters that she is taking care of the kids. Granted withholding them and acting irrational is not a way to when a case. But God forbid the father say or do anything, than he is screwed. How does any of that make sense

Let’s be honest, the courts need child support from title 4D to stay in business. Granting men custody would sever that money stream.

Children do need their mother, especially the early years but they look need their father. The cost on the Children and parent's when being alienated from a loving parent is heart breaking.

Can you give me any advice on the best interest standards you explained when it involves a young? A child unable to speak but showing signs of less than appropriate care or less than what would be given in the other parents home? A lot of the examples you gave make sense, but I don’t see how to apply them to a 2-3 year old. Preschool will start next year, the distance between homes is too far to support a 50/50 timeshare. “Best interest” standards per Florida statutes seem to lean heavily towards alienation or patterns of. However, it still doesn’t seem to really be the standard for legitimate, favorable rulings when I hear it discussed amongst attorneys, both local and nationwide .

What about a mother or her family members not stopping her one year old from drinking out of everyone's alcoholic beverages not once but repeatedly, then have enough nerve to say "it won't hurt her and my mom let me drink when I was two and I been drinking every sense"

All my son knows is his mother so of course he’ll want to be there more but that doesn’t change the fact that’s she not in the right place mentally at all.

Let me get this straight. You have a child, and someone else decides if you get access to them. And you have to put on your clown suit and tap dance for a person in a costume in hopes that it reduces the most probable scenario of removing your child from your life. Is anyone else understanding this? You need to go to someone else to get permission to be with your children. And this man talks about it so casually.

I am going through all this now. She wanted to do verbal agreement out side of the court system but refused to sign anything to guarantee which days i have my son and which days she has him. She has been off her ssri since being discharged from hosipital, and she has sent me messages stating if i wasnt home at a certain time or left work early that she would just leave my 5 month old son by himself because she needed a break. I hired an attorney due to only a week after we split, she was threating to call the police and put kidnapping charges on me. All i did was take my son to my moms to see them.

I'm a man and I won custody of my son so men can win. I just sucked up to the judge, addressed him as Sir, etc. My son's mother was actually a good mother but I took custody from her as a punishment for the relationship ending haha. the judge just decides which parent they like and which parent to punish and sucking up will help

Politely said

Guys and fathers , Judges are lawyers . They don’t give a damm about child or best interest . Their only interest is to get their colleagues (lawyers ) more business . That’s why men become visitors to their own children. If men started getting custody easily then how will divorce lawyers survive ? Whenever any state tries to pass the law for equal custody, lawyers and bar association are the first to oppose it . Be wise . 1 custody battle provides salary to at least 2 lawyers. Fathers , next time you vote, ask the congressman or representative if he will support the law of presumptive equal custody . This is the only way and KY has done it. Else fathers will be just visitors for their children an still end up making their ex rich .

Our system is broken... it shouldn't be this hard to be a father. It's blatantly obvious if you compare any lawyers advice to mom vs. dad. God help us all!

The judge was shown a journal where 8 yr old wrote about abuse done by their mother.... the judge refused to talk to the children and took the mothers word and took my visitation away and made it supervised... but the child are still scared and alone.

Unless you are wealthy, you are screwed if you are the father. When I divorced by narcissistic ex-wife, I became the ex-father. Your children get twisted, manipulated, and alienated from you…..completely weaponized. The courts don’t care. Unless you can afford to hire an expert on parental alienation, the courts are gonna miss it, trust me. The children get completely brainwashed and objectified by a toxic mother who is a master manipulator and is engaging in coercive control over their ex-partner, which is a form of domestic violence no one talks about. “You left me so I am going to control you and make you suffer by keeping the kids from you. I will not let them love you”. It’s a tragedy and the children, who are forced to choose between their mother or their father, are punished. After 10 years of police investigations, false child abuse allegations, family services investigations, depositions, court hearings, mediators, guardian ad litems, quibbling over custody agreements, forced interviews with therapists that only get one side of the story, I finally gave up. I had a choice…..keep fighting and have my kids get punished more for trying to have a relationship with me or walk away and hope that when they are adults that they will want to see me. Pick my poison. Hardest decision I ever had to make in my life but I did it for them. It burns AND I still have to pay child support for children my ex-wife will not allow me to see. Fathers do not have a fair shake within family courts and abusive mothers are not talked about or held accountable. Enough. If you are a father and you have been through this….speak up. It’s time to bring the darkness into the light.

Iam a good father. I was married to my wife for 10 years and we have 2 kids together 4 and 9. She from Africa and I helped to bring all of her kids to America. All of them over 18. When all her kids (grown) got here they all kind of pushed me out. Now I can't even see my kids. DONT KNOW WHAT HAPPENED. Just want to know what to do cause it's so unfair

I can only encourage you to visit Michigan and the friend of the court in Michigan. Men walk in guilty until proven innocent and the only thing enforced is the money that comes out of their check each week. Mother can violate the court order for visitation the day after the judge signs an order. Father calls the police to ask for a police officer to escort him to the agreed upon pick up destination and the agreed upon time and they will be told that it is a civil matter and that they will have to go back to court. Miss a few child support payments and that same officer who was unwilling to escort you to pick your child up will wind up at your front door with a pair of handcuffs ready to take you away for noncompliance.

Maybe the attorney can answer this question; Where is the father’s due process rights in family court? Since when is a court that can issue orders be allowed to withhold due process rights to father’s? Whatever happened to the right of a jury trial?

Thanks for this video..it's definitely an eye opener...is it though a good idea for the father to make damaging and false accusations about the mother just to make her look bad in front of the judge? What are the consequences if he cannot prove his allegations?

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My babe mama left me with my son when he was 2yrs and dated a different man who’s well to do with and had a babe for him, right from age two I have been playing my responsibilities as a father, providing for my son and he now 8 years. She recently called wanting to come pick up the boy because she says she wanna play her motherly role. 6yrs she’s been outta our life just walk in to say she wanna live with my son

If I could give my lawyer a zero, I would. He's inexperienced, and he did barely the bare minimum for the 3,000 dollars I paid him!, dont believe those reviews and awards on lawyer website, he got his retain fee and left. I hired lawyer in June 2022 to fight my child modification case, and then what he said was an easy win since the other party abandoned the child for almost 4 years and guaranteed me a victory. lawyer through his email, court documents, and writing, sounded like he was a good lawyer that's fighting hard, but sadly, through writing that's were his zeal stopped. Court day came in August, and he was a deer caught in the headlights before the judge. The judge would ask me a question, and I would reply, lawyer, what do you think? Lawyer was quiet and seemed he didn't know what to say, literally being bullied by the judge. As the judge determined, I and the other party needed mediation, which I looked at lawyer like how are you not fighting for my concerns. After the hearing was over I spoke to lawyer on the phone as he charged me money for it, he told me "that wasn't the outcome he didn't think we would happen" but im like you was a deer in a headlights. A month later, in September, during the mediation again! lawyer balantly sat there and again I was like lawyer are you going to say something? he utter well she should do reunification therapy, I sat there and was like I sought full custody and the other party is still getting their rights!.... after the mediation lawyer said and I quote said to me "this is the outcome we wanted right" No you told me and assured me a victory and since it's "not going to plan" as you said you're folding. In my last verbal conversation, lawyer told Im glad we settled since if we go back to court, it's going to be more expensive, and I quote he spoke, "Good luck." Good luck, lawyer? leading me to believe after he saw the retaining fee has been used up, he's out now. lawyer thought this was a walk in the park type of money child case. Fast forward to November of 2022, I fired lawyer and the response was he was satisfied with our results. Im like, really, what did you accomplish other than reunification therapy? So lawyer worked for me about 5 to 6 months before I fired him, so afterwards, I filed in December 2022 to change counties and venue's since I mentioned to lawyer that Ramsey county shows favoritism and let's move to Hennepin so I could have a fair outcome he said let's see how Ramsey judge will go. December 2022 court date came I won on my own change of venue which Lawyer couldn't do when he worked for me.... In January 2023, I sought child support since lawyer refused to put the individual on child support, so I won that as well without lawyer....fast forward I reapplied for full custody in Hennepin county on February 2023 and court date was set for May and guess what I won sole legal and physical custody on my own without the lawyer the same amount of time I hired him it took me as well the 5 to 6 months on my own and won!!! ....Im a single father, and I beat the odds with very little legal help to all you fathers and some mothers trust in God and his son Jesus for these battles! I won with the Lord's help! I would never recommend that Law firm period!!! now me and my house are moving the hell out of state 🫡✌️after 5 years of fighting.... At least refund my 3000 grand retainer fee for the bare minimum ass job 😑

Mental evaluation and compatability b4 marriage is very vital than love

The most important thing any man should do before a custody case starts, is ask "what is the best thing for the child". Not for you. Not for the mother. What is the best thing for the child. Once you can answer that without bias, then you can start tackling the case. So many times we use our bitterness towards the mother to fuel our fight for the children. Also, try and use the term "time sharing" instead of "custody". You'll thank me.

Virginia has a "10 factors" checklist that goes along with motions for discovery

Not sure if you can but I live in NY and have private insurance for my daughter. I have joint legal custody. The mom wants me to cancel my insurance for her so she can apply for child health plus which would cover more. I feel by doing this, it would hurt me in the eyes of the support collections unit bc my income is nowhere near the poverty line. If you can let me know your thoughts it would be greatly appreciated. Great video!

My son's mom abandoned him the day after his first birthday. A year later she drug me to court 4 counties away with a legal aid lawyer just to get visitation rights. Over this past year, she has came to see him one single time, because her mother made her. Now I have a court hearing in the morning, where her lawyer is asking for joint conservatorship, but SHE gets to decide where my son will live, and I will have to pay child support. This is incredibly stupid. For over 3 years I have supported this boy completely on my own, and she has seen him about 4 times. How is this even right? I'm actually worried about losing. We celebrated his 4th birthday yesterday and we didn't hear from her at all.

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My kids mother took our son to a bar at 1 o'clock in the morning and superior Wisconsin cps is involved I live in Minnesota I have to go through the same treatments that she did for doing that and I have my other children and I feel like they're violating my rights and it's hard for me to find the attorney let alone afford one...

It needs to be 50/50. Not rarely that a man gets his kids. Kids need fathers