What Emotional Abuse Does To Your Brain

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What Emotional Abuse Does To Your Brain
Emotional abuse can be more devastating than physical abuse. While wounds and bruises may leave scars, they will heal eventually.
However, emotional trauma can leave lifelong invisible scars that may affect your brain chemistry and change you as a person.
Emotional abuse can affect the development of your brain and your capacity to process emotions.
What is Emotional Abuse?
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Emotional abuse happens when someone tries to control you by using emotions as a weapon instead of physical violence.
The abuser acts in a dominating way and tries to scare and isolate you as a way to control. It can be done through abusive words & statements, threats, and violent body language on a regular basis or whenever the abuser feels like it.
This video will help you understand the effects emotional abuse has on our brains.
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0:31 What is emotional abuse?
1:06 How emotional abuse affects your mind?
4:17 Are you being emotionally abused?
4:58 Heal yourself with self-love
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@bevstrong3651 3 жыл бұрын

The worst part is when you confront your emotional abuser about their abuse towards you, then they deny it and quickly turn it around on you, making you feel you’re the ‘crazy one’ or that it was your fault.

@Sara-so1yj 3 жыл бұрын

yeah its same with me

@sjw4269 3 жыл бұрын

I've been in a relationship like this for 9 Year's.. It started when I was 15. And now I don't know how to leave, we have 3 kids and now I'm financially dependent on him 😭 and it just so bad.. I've mentally and physically just let myself go, I'm scared and embarrassed to get help from my mom because she think the relationship is just so “perfect”.. It's to the point I pray every night and morning for the sake of my kids that an argument doesn't happen, because they always ends up physical. I'm 25, these are supposed to be the best years of my life.. But I just look at my children as blessings and it help me get through it.

@piedramultiaristas8573 2 жыл бұрын

@@sjw4269 You must go take any equipment your cell and record the situation video tape it to have proof talk to the police LOOK FOR HELP AND ESCAPE LOOK FOR HELP POLICE, UPCI CHURCH ((BUT WITH A GOOD SPIRITUAL LEADERS)) , PSICOLOGIYST ((ESCAPE)) On the other hand. 💊I'm sharing Acts 2:38 also look for oneness about Jesus with anyone who wants it bless

@sirenasirian4036 2 жыл бұрын

Same here. He said it’s in the past. Why can I just let it go and love him.

@muskankumari8330 2 жыл бұрын

Yes..

@LilMylesTV 3 жыл бұрын

I feel cold and empty inside because of emotional abuse. God please heal me!

@rasmuslassen6273 3 жыл бұрын

Me too man. It took my soul. Now there is only deadness inside of me.

@iiCounted2134 3 жыл бұрын

same I feel like such a loser

@zanehanayneh8808 3 жыл бұрын

You will be healed god bless u!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

@piedramultiaristas8573 2 жыл бұрын

On the other hand. 💊I'm sharing Acts 2:38 also look for oneness about Jesus with anyone who wants it bless

@piedramultiaristas8573 2 жыл бұрын

Escape from that situatuon if U are still there and let him heal Ur mind study, work, look for him. On the other hand. 💊I'm sharing Acts 2:38 also look for oneness about Jesus with anyone who wants it bless

@jemmaoswald7007 4 жыл бұрын

I feel that something important to note is that emotional abuse doesn’t have to be hostile and aggressive. Emotional abuse can be people who don’t yell and don’t sling insults, and that’s when it’s even more dangerous because most times the victim won’t perceive that the abuser is the one doing anything wrong.

@LeonaMeyer 3 жыл бұрын

Jemma Oswald so often I would find myself feeling totally humiliated and denigrated after a conversation that I could not even recall the content thereof afterwards.. that’s how dangerous it is

@nin0nn 3 жыл бұрын

@@LeonaMeyer it's hard to pinpoint.. I often doubt whether I don't overreact because of former abuse. It's very confusing

@LeonaMeyer 3 жыл бұрын

nin0nn this is now the problem... your boundaries of “give and take” become blurred to the point of extinction... and thinking back now, I think I know what the problem was... the conversations would start on one topic, and some how get twisted around to the focal point of something totally unrelated... now I was trying to unscramble a scrambled egg to try and find the yolk membrane 🙈🙈🙈🙈

@stephaniepynes 3 жыл бұрын

covert. this is the worst one. the covert. never see it coming and it always happens when no one else notices... it seems that you are in your own world and you need validation. i am here to validate you. you are feeling it, it is happening, and what everyone else thinks does not matter.

@mhtbfecsq1 3 жыл бұрын

yes like when it's hidden behind a smoke screen of false concern for you and starts from a young age, as with a narcissistic parent.

@kimbyrd2298 3 жыл бұрын

Invasion of privacy, name calling, shaming, humiliation, isolation and gas lighting and then there is slander. I am in an extremely unsafe and abusive situation

@holuuuuu109 3 жыл бұрын

get out!!

@kimbyrd2298 3 жыл бұрын

@@holuuuuu109 I did. They follow me wherever I go and start the process again in my new environment; basically polluting my new environment. And I am tiered of moving. I am tiered of loosing what I worked hard to obtain. I'm tiered of not having a person on earth that I can trust.

@JB-kk7vo 3 жыл бұрын

I've been bullied, humiliated, name called as "deaf" since I was a child by my mother and my family. They will use it as a joke that they didn't know I was hurting. It became one of my biggest insecurity. My disease started when I was 10 and now I'm already 24 years old. I was suffering from multiple complications after my surgical treatment because it was left untreated when I was young. My mother knows my condition. But she was the one who most emotionally abuses me by name calling me as deaf. Saying hurtful and mean words when scolding me. I just kept it all inside me until I couldn't take it anymore. I decided to ask her about it even though its very hard and heavy for me. And she told me that she didn't let me go through the surgical treatment because she was afraid for me and its acceptable for me. What I didn't accept and hated is how they treat me. It made me feel helpless,depressed, anxious and isolated. I couldn't even ask help to anyone or consult a doctor much earlier because I was scared and ashamed.Its not about financial problem, my parents is very well off and they can just treat me if they want to. Now Im suffering from facial paralysis and hearing loss because of this untreated illness for almost 10 years. I couldn't even blame myself for being weak. I don't know if this feeling of anger and pain is right. I just don't know how to handle this when the only thing I can be proud of is my face and now it's gone.

@mthercrow3818 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry for you... Please don't lose hope! Also, have you tried to tell any authorities? (Even if they are useless)( smh)

@abcefg4504 3 жыл бұрын

@@mthercrow3818 she shouldn't bother. It makes everything worse. Just run until you find somewhere safe.

@tl1033 4 жыл бұрын

Depression anxiety and stress are killing me.

@delaney6066 4 жыл бұрын

TL Hang in there with us. You're not alone.

@ibrahimraheem657 4 жыл бұрын

@TL look up Marisa Peer. What we say to ourselves is important

@tl1033 4 жыл бұрын

@@ibrahimraheem657 Hi Ibrahim thank you for the advice and recommendation. The ironic thing is I am a Mental Health provider and I know what we say to ourselves is important...so thanks for reminding me to practice what I preach. Lol everyday is a challenge but I am slowly coming back to self and reality. I hope you are well and take care. 🙂

@tl1033 4 жыл бұрын

@@delaney6066 Thank you Delaney. You take care also.

@soniachetty6899 3 жыл бұрын

Me too ...can't go anywhere with the lock down

@natalie9884 3 жыл бұрын

Complex PTSD needs to be talked about more

@xahsinor4364 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah cause that's actually what it is when it happens through out childhood It's CPTSD not just PTSD.

@victoryforever1915 2 жыл бұрын

I agree.

@donnabat7808 4 жыл бұрын

It made me extrely distrustful of people. I isolate myself and scared to experience joy sometimes., cause I can't trust it. I also feel unlovable cause Love's not something I've experienced from men. I think they all want to use me or satisfy their egos in some ways. When you've been emotionally abused, it's hard to expect love from others.

@paulacrowder7701 4 жыл бұрын

I know exactly what your feeling I feel the same I was bullied constantly from an early age I had to learn to defend myself then I've been emotionally abused as an adult. I don't trust anyone the only man i ever trusted was my dad he was amazing I'll never trust anyone ever again. I dont believe I'll ever find real love or a loving relationship because of betrayal I cant open up to anyone anymore as I don't trust people for fear of them walking over me again and I wouldn't believe anyone who said they loved me or cared for me I dont believe anyone cares for me to be honest, I feel like there all liars, so I'd sooner not talk and keep myself to myself I dont want other peoples sympathy either. Sometimes I feel like I must be a bad person and I deserve it because if i was a good person this wouldn't have happened to me.

@donnabat7808 4 жыл бұрын

@@paulacrowder7701 Definitely there's a lot of healing ahead for us. I've been listening to some of these videos from Wu wei wisdom. I think he is like a holistic practitioner and a lot of his videos hit home. At the end of the day, we are in charge of our emotions and I have decided not to empower some of these people by claiming victim hood. I think the number one thing we need to learn as survivors is going beyond surviving and giving love to ourselves.

@koduruvijayalaxmi3372 4 жыл бұрын

@@paulacrowder7701 yes..I appreciate ur decision,all the best and love urself

@H000REI 3 жыл бұрын

You articulated everything I subconsciously feel. I just want to love freely and be laid back but these run ins with masculine power trips and nasty control tactics are terrifying

@makaylahollywood3677 3 жыл бұрын

You can turn this around to become the strong, wise, confident person you were meant to be. Learn by books, Practice from tasks you give yourself. Do not give in to abuse. Beat it. Do Good in the world. Peace, Love, Joy sent to you.

@deborahlacitignola6688 4 жыл бұрын

My husband emotionally and mentally abused me for 15 years be for I left. He is now in a two way emotionally abusive relationship himself. Karma.

@TheMindsJournal 4 жыл бұрын

Sad to hear that you went through such pain for so long. All it takes is courage and will power to stand against it. Wish you healing, peace and strength dear person. ❤️

@Moonlight-xd6nd 4 жыл бұрын

stay positive and be strong

@queenvlogs6323 4 жыл бұрын

Deborah Lacitignola hey deb its hard i know but were strong and can get through everything❤️

@cygwanfogbe246 4 жыл бұрын

What about the kids? Where are they?

@midnight7350 4 жыл бұрын

You go girl!

@ZakEames 3 жыл бұрын

I have social anxiety probably because of the childhood emotional stress I had to deal with.

@ari3732 3 жыл бұрын

Good luck to everyone fighting emotional abuse, I hope you make it out and have a happy life. To myself: I hope you can stop smiling and show your emotions, I hope you can stop emotionally abusing yourself, you can do it, you will get there and it will feel good. One day, one day will come

@Magiccmeadowss 2 ай бұрын

Hello sister iam also in abusive marriage and there is no way out we woman are helpless in my country i have read many comments in videos related to this topic so i want us sisters to unite create a group and chat with eachother share our pain and think about solution we should make insta group any sisters interested tell me in comments then we will share our insta and add eachother

@Ashiryamills 3 жыл бұрын

If you are in an emotional abuse relationship, please leave because it will affect you when you finally do. You WILL NOT be the same and you won’t even know what happened.

@xahsinor4364 2 жыл бұрын

How can I get out I have proof though

@xahsinor4364 2 жыл бұрын

For my situation the narcissist hate me but won't let me leave. I show more and more signs of trauma everyday and my mom finds more false diagnoses to cover it up.The prt3 channel is the only channel I use now the first few links are for the prt1 channel then some for the PRT2 and I have 1 link for the PRT3. I've been feeling suicidal I have had depression ever since I was 8 and now I am ready to give up completely cause of narcissistic family abuse the same constant gaslighting,being framed for stuff,lied on,having to lie on myself and even put on acts for people like my parents and getting locked up to fit other peoples agendas. (Do not report this i will not get helped and my family will just make up a lie on me and I'll get locked up in a mental hospital Which is worse than prison.) I have been going through abuse my whole life and now i'm nearly 16.Now my parents can get away with it even more easily.Cause my mom has false diagnoses all over me 17+ I am sure there's more.Which I didn't actually start getting diagnoses put on me ever in my life untill I moved in with my mom for the first time when I was 10 the summer before 5th grade in 2016.which I moved back and forth so when I was 12 that's when she started getting serious diagnoses put on me.my family takes advantage of those diagnoses so now when someone makes a DSS report or the police get involved my parents can just bring up the diagnoses and the social worker or police won't even talk to me or look at my video evidence going back to when I WAS 8 I HAVE OVER 1104 VIDEOS OF EVIDENCE IN TOTAL FOR THE DAILY ABUSE EVIDENCE CHANNELS MAJORITY ARE FROM WITHIN THE PAST FEW MONTHS .My parents just tell authorities "hallucinating,delusional,manipulative,lying" the list goes on with excuses they can make.here are the people that are calling me crazy (PRT1 CHANNEL) (MY MOM she is first cause she is the one who got all the diagnoses put on me mostly by her self but with the help of Steven when he eventually came along) kzfaq.info/sun/PLnIepZjMetHxHdpwnsxPLoIc0ySGqo1t2 (MY DAD's insanity🌟) kzfaq.info/sun/PLnIepZjMetHxRDG9ajRU5Np94Xhco5HXW (MY MOM'S BOYFRIEND) kzfaq.info/sun/PLnIepZjMetHxvOn_PGnjpgkW0cL5REW56 (MY SISTER although she is not the cause of the diagnoses and had no say so in anything she she is a narcissist Enabler cause of all the abuse my mom took her though) kzfaq.info/sun/PLnIepZjMetHzG5KucsJdpwQPsJX4DckQl (Videos in correct order prt1 channel) Videos in correct order: kzfaq.info/sun/PLnIepZjMetHzaFRmkDx4pj9Fk0Kq5IVqr (THE FILES OF 52 PRT2 CHANNEL) School social worker called home went left sep25: kzfaq.info/sun/PLWoUsQs03da8M7xiOKrpErGZoyIncDHef Social services situation: kzfaq.info/sun/PLWoUsQs03da-ukQTlhX4afOPF2UTskVLS (My mom's abuse 2) kzfaq.info/sun/PLWoUsQs03da9tN6gRiUv2ENfX_9MNOmhZ (Steve's abuse 2) kzfaq.info/sun/PLWoUsQs03da8lHtFO11rbYZGOi-M6Kv3F (My sisters narcissist enabling) My sisters enabling 2: kzfaq.info/sun/PLWoUsQs03da-UcU5yFKr-BTpokm-qgkP3 (Situation with getting a job so I can save up) kzfaq.info/sun/PLWoUsQs03da9s_1gFEfK9dtl5LG2KtZy8 (This is why I have to watch my surroundings the playlist is dedicated To my family l telling life threatening lies on me) kzfaq.info/sun/PLWoUsQs03da9jHyjFYnM5mEF1c1x-8QNg (The dog situation.Steve's extreme animal abuse) 1.kzfaq.info/sun/PLnIepZjMetHwn6Y3z87EWmNfCcYrKDswI (steves animal abuse prt2) kzfaq.info/sun/PLWoUsQs03da-zvxKtIRTSDqHsrXEWURvG (My family say I'm disrespectful and never clean up 2) kzfaq.info/sun/PLWoUsQs03da9okWytM9pihLSpXcZIuJfu (Prt1) I get accused of never cleaning up or paying attention to how the house looks: kzfaq.info/sun/PLnIepZjMetHzGguacJjuheBZTLNrmpbAb (The ongoing lie my mom made up in 2016 that I don't shower) kzfaq.info/sun/PLWoUsQs03da86z7XOV4uTsdkH2_aFye8F Steve making a scene outside: kzfaq.info/sun/PLWoUsQs03da_3dDSZJ7MG7OExJmjg8PwZ Narcissist acting crazy in the car: kzfaq.info/sun/PLWoUsQs03da_aGLVkhvxQujnbBdZRCVi_ (PRT3 CHANNEL) oct25,7:14AM:steve crying and pretending he was gonna go kill himself see description kzfaq.info/get/bejne/radym66F09eXmH0.html

@victoryforever1915 2 жыл бұрын

This is very true.

@labeller2182 2 жыл бұрын

it's not easy when your abuser is your parents and you're just a kid

@xahsinor4364 2 жыл бұрын

@@labeller2182 right

@marjoriebattifora155 Ай бұрын

The silent treatment, being ignored, never apologising, passive aggressiveness wrecked me.

@Robertsmithlover_ 3 жыл бұрын

I’ve been emotionally abused by my parents and students from my school. It was hard for a while, but let me assure you, it gets better. You CAN get help.

@lunarsprinkle6580 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Thomas Jefferson

@ladyah71 3 жыл бұрын

My heart goes out to you 💕

@Robertsmithlover_ 3 жыл бұрын

@@ladyah71 thank you

@Robertsmithlover_ 3 жыл бұрын

@@lunarsprinkle6580 no worries my friend

@user-ej5qx5lr7p 3 жыл бұрын

How did you overcome it or manage it and are those that inflicted it still in your life?

@BlueVampire1995 3 жыл бұрын

I only realized that I was emotionally abused as a child, when I became an adult. Now I suffer from anger issues, depression, anxiety, chronic stress... and very unhealthy eating habits that I picked up as a coping mechanism. Unfortunately the 2 of the people who emotionally abused me are still trying to pull the strings... I makes me feel 2 feet tall, I'm still scared of them even though I'm 25

@makaylahollywood3677 3 жыл бұрын

Dear Valerie, you can turn this around. Be gentle. You already figured out the abuse. Now, it's time to learn to set boundaries and care for yourself. Journal, Make a list of positive qualities. And, start writing abut the way you see a better your life. Go slow. It is a process. Have a beautiful day. Take a walk in nature.

@uzmajamil105 3 жыл бұрын

Valerie TV sister I feel you! I’m at the exact same place and I’m just 20. The abuse has been going on for 3 years and these 3 years have been the worst. Only recently I found out that this was all manipulation. I pray that no one has to go through this. Ever. I’m still struggling with it

@diy2happiness80 2 жыл бұрын

every word you have typed relates to me. Even your age.. its so tough

@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 Жыл бұрын

So sorry I’m 40 and just realized the last few years my mother really screwed me up. When I started to push back against her she was lying to my sister about me. I ended up in a marriage to n which I was denied affection for a long time. Emotional abuse is something else.

@rachelsmith1123 Жыл бұрын

Same. Help.

@resplendentjoy 4 жыл бұрын

Hello. I was bullied, emotionally and verbally abused by my mother for several years as a young child and young adult. It diminished my self-esteem and confidence and I struggled with a lot of shame. In turn, my relationships and choices began to reflect how badly I felt about my life. I thought this was the norm until I sought counseling and a relationship with Christ. Now, my confidence and self-esteem is on a much higher level and I refuse to tolerate abuse of any kind. I have also discovered that the abuse was not my fault. It took many years but I was able to forgive my mom for her narcissistic behavior but now I have learned to put boundaries in place and protect my heart. I still have trust issues( but working through it:)

@TheMindsJournal 4 жыл бұрын

More power to you. Wish you get over it too. :).

@weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006 3 жыл бұрын

A relationship with Christ? How? I really am curious because I see a lot of people saying that this saved their life. But He's incorporeal. I can't see or hear him so..

@user-dt3sc8sh9j 3 жыл бұрын

Jocelyn T. Watson i’m so proud of you, stay strong❤️

@Incognito-bd4fu 3 жыл бұрын

We need more considerate people like you. Its all a Faith kind of thing. Just one day sit and look into the sky and look around your surroundings and just think...can a human have done this?? Nope, not at all. Once you figure that out just...lay down in the dark right before you go to sleep and call on Jesus name. You may feel crazy but its fine..Speak your mind and watch how he reveals himself. You will start to recognize the signs and symbols and you will just feel it in your gut. One last thing, just because you have Christ in your life..doesnt mean your life is going to be perfect. But it will be good times for sure, and when bad times come God wants you to call on him. He wants to help. He did not put you on this Earth to fail.

@makaylahollywood3677 3 жыл бұрын

Dear friend, you are doing it> It is time for you to take care of the wonderful, loving individual you were meant to be. Surround yourself with people who lift you up. Let go of anyone who brings you down- even once. Love will find it's way to you. Peace.

@leighm 3 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad they mentioned invasion of privacy! And gaslighting. The most subtle forms of emotional abuse can be the toughest. Outwardly to others it’s harder to see. I’m going to work on not reacting to gaslighting but so much of me wishes that the person doing the abusing wouldn’t instigate. I’ve learned to stay away from people that don’t respect my privacy. I had to learn that it is not a sign of love but rather torment for me. Loving myself means letting go of men that threaten my mental because of their insecurity.

@tl1033 4 жыл бұрын

Yes I expierenced Narcissistic emotional abuse. I had to go No Contact to begin my healing process. I did well for 5 weeks and mistakenly answered a call from one of his Flying Monkeys by accident and this conversation triggered my symptoms and pain all over again. It's been two weeks since that incident and I am struggling mentally, emotionally, loss of appetite, lack of motivation, depression, anxiety and I believe C PTSD. I have meltdowns also. I am determined to heal and am in seek of an expierenced Therapist specifically targeting this Trauma.

@makaylahollywood3677 3 жыл бұрын

I found a therapist. It takes time. Be gentle with you. Be kind to you. Go slow. You are on the right path. Keep Going. Make a plan for each day. Eat healthy. Take walks. Breath slow. Journal. I am going through this, it gets better. But, it is a process. Love sent to you. You are a Wonderful individual. Go walk and watch the birds or trees, nature will bring you instant peace.

@tl1033 3 жыл бұрын

@@makaylahollywood3677 My Therapist helps a lot. It's been 9 months now but emotionally it feels like yesterday. I am getting better day by day but the emotional scars will be there always.

@hustlemami8732 2 жыл бұрын

@@tl1033 try TRE by David bercelli. It's helping me

@adrianne8612 Жыл бұрын

i’m happy for u, i hope one day that i’ll get a therapist too

@jaegerbawmb687 3 жыл бұрын

I hope my parents accidentally see my watch history so they get the message. I don't care how much they make fun of me, they've already done that a lot.

@NouNou25 3 жыл бұрын

Lmaoooo sorry I have to reply because I had the exact same thought. I share a Spotify with my mom *wayyy to close for comfort* and I’ll listen to stuff like this in hopes she may accidentally see it but who knows. I hope you finally to get to conquer that demon good luck

@jaegerbawmb687 3 жыл бұрын

@@NouNou25 Same to you man. My situation is a bit different now so I'm working on resolving that as well

@Liamn615 3 жыл бұрын

Same but they won’t care

@jaegerbawmb687 3 жыл бұрын

@@Liamn615 It's been four months and I can safely say that they do care (a bit too much) but only when you reach your extreme point and freak everyone out However in my case they've also forgotten about it and I'm seemingly back to square one sadly

@Joel-vk3cf 3 жыл бұрын

Sorry man. How old are you?

@FruityHachi 3 жыл бұрын

so that's why i have problems with memorizing what i'm learning, emotional abuse at home, bullied at school and i was shamed and insulted by teachers and even complete strangers telling me "you shouldn't have chosen german as your major when you have problems with it", which caused me further blocks to remember grammar and vocab

@andreakeener6378 3 жыл бұрын

I knew I had CPTSD when I heard a man yelling after leaving a narcissistic emotional abuser situation. In the thick of it I was numb. But when I was “free” and heard a man yell, I felt more fear than I’d ever in my life. I immediately told someone I was in panic mode and why. I started to heal from then on.

@dailydoseofbeer8916 3 жыл бұрын

*Haha, I gotta hide this from mom before she finds out, I know what she’s doing to my brain.*

@xerrrrtt 2 жыл бұрын

same

@michaelfinney1778 4 жыл бұрын

I was emotionally and legit abused by my abuses as a teenager every day for two years. They even used the law on me as part of punishment on top of that abusing me. Now I'm a full grown up man and I suffer with PTSD. I'm on waiting list to seek professional help. I suffer with emotional triggers. 1 minute I feel fine and next minute I want to cry. Sometimes it's hard. I never got over my abuse

@bunni1821 4 жыл бұрын

Ever since I was born my sister, me, and my mom was being emotionally abused. I'm 16 now and still being emotionally abused by my dad. He acts like he don't nothing wrong and just put us in our place. I'm in constant fear. I have panic attacks when I just think of him yelling or getting upset. Tbh CPS talked to us. But since I didn't wanna be taken away I just.. Lied.. I want my whole family to escape. He's even mean to the dogs

@JayJay-bo5kl 3 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear about your experiences and I hope you recover fully one day it's so hard being trapped not able to speak to anyone due to the fear, may I pls ask what kind of abuse did they make you go through?

@michaelfinney1778 3 жыл бұрын

@@JayJay-bo5kl thank you. It was emotional abuse along with hitting me etc.

@makaylahollywood3677 3 жыл бұрын

You are not alone. Start small. Make a daily list of healthy things to do. It is time to get to know the real you. Do not give up. Shower, take walks, journal and read up on abuse. Love and peace sent to you.

@tobitaiwo7709 3 жыл бұрын

Me too. I was emotionally abused by my stepmother as an child and teen, my stepmother was resentful and jealous of me for some reasons, and I am now being emotionally abused by younger sister, my stepmother and I aren't close, I suffers from Anxiety and PTSD. It affected my self-esteem and confidence.

@tricialynn8279 3 жыл бұрын

I was SEVERELY emotionally abused by mother/ brother/ father/ stepmother. I pray God saw what they did...and Karma is forthcoming. I got abused...for loving them..... disgusting.

@anitaschuloff2557 2 жыл бұрын

My mother ruined my life. When I left home after college I never looked back. But the abuse came with me and is still with me. I’m 75.

@Phelokazii 7 ай бұрын

You are so brave ❤😢

@tl1033 4 жыл бұрын

Yes I have experienced emotional abuse and am fighting to pick myself back up daily after a terrible breakup. I was discarded from whom I believe has a Personality Disorder. It's been three weeks and it's the way I was discarded at the end that is unbelievable. Thanks for the video it is helpful.

@tl1033 4 жыл бұрын

This happened to me too. The discard is still unbelievable. I am convinced he is a Narcissistic Psychopath. I am educating myself and it has been helpful. I have also joined the Covert Narcissist Recovery group on Facebook which offers tons of support. Search all you can. I trust you will heal well and so will I.

@albertajones6133 4 жыл бұрын

i was told to leave my boyftiends apt give back the key and never come back after he told me i had only spent 6 hours with him who was i with the rest of the time he used a lot of cuss words not the first time but the last that was 4 months ago and he still knocks on my door we live in the same apt building if i am outside smoking by myself he will make all kinds of accusations if someone else is there he will say sweetheart wont you talk to me i had been dating him for over a year the verbal abuse started within the 1st few days i told myself he didnt mean it he doesnt love he controls i dont know if i can give you my #but text me ifu want it is 386-2630984

@anonymousanonymous4238 4 жыл бұрын

Yes I have experienced emotional abuse. 4 years into my friendship with a jealous guy and I figured out who he is. It happened once and I cut him out of my life.

@unapologeticella4540 3 жыл бұрын

Its a blessing in disguise i wish the narc discarted me he is too controling and harsh

@tl1033 3 жыл бұрын

@@unapologeticella4540 Pray for the strength to leave. Make a plan and follow through. It can be done, I would have left if I had been aware of what I was going through at the time. In other words if I knew then what I know now I would have ended it. Take care.

@DarkerSideOfDawn 2 жыл бұрын

I am a person who should probably be studied . I was married to a covert psychopath for over 30 years. He never once outright beat me Impression management a priority But the psychological abuse was unbelievable . And I have just realized that although he is now out of the house the abuse is still there just more covert and insidious . I believe he still believes he has control . It is the moment he realizes he has lost it that I am terrified

@pineapplecrew6421 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, my girlfriend is suffering from mental abuse from her mother. I'm across seas and can't do anything to physically support her and be physically there for her, this video opened my eyes to alot of things and could potentially really help me help her. Thank you very much!

@Sara-so1yj 3 жыл бұрын

there are less people like u thanks for being there for here..sending love for u both

@alex-ln2ut 3 жыл бұрын

i was abused in elementary school by my classmates and was in an abusive relationship, im so happy im finally coming to terms with everything and am starting to heal :)❤️ you can do this, you can heal, you can get help

@nexttuesdayy 4 жыл бұрын

I was emotionally abused by my ex for months before I cut him out of my life. I didn't know for the longest time that what he was doing was really affecting me until I talked to someone about it. To this day I am still finding out about things I do that I was not aware stemmed from his abuse. I have been trying my best latley to take care of myself and heal from the wounds he gave me. I have to be strong.

@makaylahollywood3677 3 жыл бұрын

Let your situation teach you to be stronger, wiser and kinder to you. Read books, was in nature. Stand tall. You are a warrior. You won your heart and life back. Love and Joy all the Day.

@harpalkaur2168 3 жыл бұрын

I've been emotionally and physiologically abused. It takes times to heal u need to take every day as it comes, go slow and be kind to yourself ❤️

@victoryforever1915 2 жыл бұрын

I pray that your life gets better and better 🙏🏾

@judybailey1199 3 жыл бұрын

Parents , other students , siblings , husbands , bosses and co workers , my own children , one nightmare after another

@bbubuchachaa 3 жыл бұрын

Hey stay strong. We are all on the same boat. Don't let their words makes you fall, that's not the best way to revenge them. Get up and shine brightly. You deserve everything, you deserve to be loved. You branded for everything you are unique and special. You are the best❤

@makaylahollywood3677 3 жыл бұрын

I love this.;-)

@mizzprezli 3 жыл бұрын

I’ve been going through this for the last 3 years & my husband scoffs at the idea that he is abusive. He even tries to convince me that I’m abusive to him which only make me frustrated to no end of the tears because half the time I don’t just cry myself to sleep in bed, I actually go on the offense using his tactics thinking I can get back at him out of my own resentment towards him but that only makes me look/feel & ultimately start to believe that I am the abuser😖 I’d rather be physically abused then mentally tormented. I’m too tired & have health issues that cripple me when I get upset with every little change of the weather & I would love nothing more to pack my things & leave. Just writing this is exhausting.

@traceypalangio9615 Жыл бұрын

Yep my ex-sibling is the same.i no longer call him a brother. Horrible person who blames everyone else

@catrinawilliams8476 Жыл бұрын

Same thing here and this makes my 3 Rd long term relationship

@heathersutcliffe2411 4 жыл бұрын

Wow, just recovering from yet another encounter in which I was emotionally abused. Praise God it all came out into the light very recently. I felt humilated but I am healing from this as I realise now it wasn't my fault. I believe my experiences and increasing awareness will make me so much stronger.

@makaylahollywood3677 3 жыл бұрын

It certainly was not your fault. You win the battle by choosing how to handle the rest of your life. You are amazing, and I am sending Peace to your heart. Keep Going.

@melaniekapko6013 3 жыл бұрын

Its so hard when they don't see themselves acting the way they do feel like I'm going crazy

@user-ti6wr5hx1i 4 жыл бұрын

have someone I can go to who wont put me to shame, who lifts me back up, and doesnt make me dwell on the past.

@sieradooley3267 3 жыл бұрын

I was not directly emotionally abused, to my knowledge...i experienced trauma in my dysfunctional family..i witnessed death, drinking and verbal abuse of my mother. I know it changed my brother & I. But we are doing much better today. Praise God :)

@sleepingbear1455 2 жыл бұрын

My mom used to do this to me and when I tell her she says things like "Do I make you feel bad?" or "Oh it's fine just go live with your daddy and when I die one day youll get my letter and be sorry." Honestly, pretty sad and I'm glad my mom has been getting better becuase her constant yelling and calling me names, is sad. I have emotional breakouts, and terrible anger issues. And it honestly hurts becuase people think it's fake and nothing near as bad as physical abuse.

@H.O.P.E222 3 жыл бұрын

The emotional abuse has my amygdala forever overreacting and overstimulated. I am always in a state of chronic stress all the time.

@patriciakirundi729 2 жыл бұрын

My father was always rejecting me at times beat me up for no reason ...as a child i hated him with all my heart we didnt leave with him he only came weekends only since had another family..I prayed to God for my mum to get rid of him nd finally she did but he had really damaged my growing up...when he died infact trully speaking i was glad we didnt attend his funeral since mum had nothing to do with him anymore....am now a grown up but have bad relationships..inpray that i find a man who trully loves me...

@aning08731 4 жыл бұрын

This is all i need😢

@jeffreyjackson5229 14 күн бұрын

I have but I am and did overcome it. How I know is, sad to say, I compare my life with the lives of my siblings who lived in the same house with me. They became teen parents, felons, drug addicts, and high school dropouts. I am a high school graduate, college graduate with almost a doctorate, a military veteran, no children, no substance issues, no legal issues, and have a professional job. While I can tell that there is residue there from my childhood experiences, I have gone through therapy, take what I learned from that, continue to educate myself, keep toxic people out of my life, and adamantly practice self care. All is well and will be well. Thank you for the video. It was extremely educational.

@laurensmyth4550 3 жыл бұрын

Big step out my comfort zone here but here we go I was sexually abused by my brother from 7 until 12 which made me focus on that abuse, everything I went through etc etc as a result I have bpd depression and anxiety... But as I got older I met someone at 14 and he ended up abusing me for nearly 10 years, he killled my dog, gaslighted me, got me raped etc etc But my trauma bond took the congnetive dissonance and tried to make it ok in my head which kept eating at me over time,then the last situation really opened my eyes .. I was dying...yup... Malnutrition so bad that it was killing me (won't go into the gory details) but because of him I wasnt allowed a bath, he even shut off the whole gas system just to stop me from leaving the bed out of freaking temperatures, I had to pee in a cat litter tray 😭😭 I woke up one morning when he never came home, it was like 5am or 6am and I got a taxi and went straight to my Nana's and spent all day getting a refuge, when I came back they got me a taxi to leave, he still hadn't returned that I could see, I got my cats a temporary home until I got back and ran as fast as I could and got the hospital care he wouldn't let me get... I was a woman on a mission after this, I learnt so much but it so opened my eyes to the emotional abuse and sometimes physical abuse of my parents, something I'd never even thought of looking into... Now I'm working on myself to fix what my parents did but considering I was born into this family it's literally gonna be like starting from a scratch so then I thought fuck it may as well take it all home and get rid of any and all toxic friends so did that too... Hard but tbh gonna be worth it, I need Lauren who doesn't take crap from anyone but still helps and cares and empathises like the usual Lauren ❣️

@101skysthelimit 2 жыл бұрын

My dad did this to me. Ironically he was a lay pastor. The kind, caring persona he was known for among the church members is the complete opposite of what he is at home. He body shames me, insults my mom and is unforgiving. He died 20 years ago from stroke and to this day I never missed him.

@terriedillman9198 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. My ex husband was horrible and abusive In every way. I was that frog in water that didn't notice the water was about to boil. I'm so lucky to be alive today. Terrie Dillman

@starchildslover 4 жыл бұрын

i get mental & emotional abuse all the time i've given up on ever finding love in this horrible cruel world i wish i could go to sleep and never wake up

@vanilla6754 3 жыл бұрын

SAAAAAAAAAME!!

@aelinadeire8693 2 жыл бұрын

I got verbally bullied heavily at school. It's been 3 years but still I am hurting n crying everyday.

@mgraulau 3 ай бұрын

Excellent video. What saddens me the most is realizing that I have been in a dissociated state for all of my long (70) life. I never knew, and none of the many, many therapists and psychiatrists I've been to ever knew, understood, or addressed it. Only through my 7 months of regular meditation have I realized how separated my mind has been from my life experiences and my own body.

@gloria2340 4 жыл бұрын

I have found that in my lifetime I cannot hav3 good relationship's as I cannot cover on an emotional level. When asked yo show my emotions toward my partner by a partner I freeze. I have also invited every abuser going into my life. At the age now I am learning why I am how trying yo help myself. But I know that their is something missing in me. Question I can't answer is that o was a good mother and raised my 2 son's who are able to be in loving family marriages. I was able to give them the emotional intelligence. So yes abuse can be the hidden secrets in a lot of people. But it never made me an abuser towards my family. I live in shame still and guilt. Something that I know but can't explain why I can't shake it off. Hope ok that I did go on about me. Thanks for your post 👍👏

@TheMindsJournal 4 жыл бұрын

I can totally understand. Wish you peace and love dear person (:

@mamabear-9.18.18 4 жыл бұрын

I can relate as I myself have just cut ties with my narcissistic parents because they are never going to change and since becoming a parent, a mother, myself, to my beautiful one year old daughter, I realized that my parents were playing emotional and verbal abusive and manipulative tactics on me and attempting it on my daughter. For my fiance, my daughter and my own mental health, I chose the route of parting ways. You can't miss something you never had anyway right? Never felt loved by my parents and as a parent now, I'm so petrified that my daughter will feel like that so I tend to over due and exhaust myself to prevent that from happening. I think as empaths, we give so much because we know what the pain feels like to not have. Doesn't make us wrong BUT we need to love ourselves and start with knowing our worth. Forgive yourself and others, not for their sake, BUT for your sake, so you can move on in your life, knowing you tried it all and at the end of the day, you were still the bigger person able to forgive the ones who hurt you

@makaylahollywood3677 3 жыл бұрын

Hello Gloria. You have everything you need in side. It's just scared and hiding. Journal about your thoughts and fears. Make a list of all your good qualities even the small ones. Be gentle.

@yurielee7200 4 жыл бұрын

It has just become abundantly clear to me that as a child, and even now (as I live with my mom), I was being emotionally and mentally abused by both of my parents in different ways. A lot of the time I'm unaware of it happening to me. But I carry many of the same effects and struggles due to it. I am just now understanding I need to heal myself from it and beginning to really, clearly see myself now as an individual. I hope to someday heal from all of this.

@ruthlessredbeard 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I'm learning to forgive my parents and brother. I actually talked out how angry and manipulative they've been with me. It was crazy trying to figure out what exactly was eating me away. I'm trying to get more in touch with emotions, more patient, and more respectful.

@moonchild3028 4 жыл бұрын

I can’t talk to my parents about how much they’ve damaged me because they can’t communicate without being manipulative. They would guilt me and pinpoint everything at my fault :( I’m basically trapped

@ruthlessredbeard 4 жыл бұрын

@@moonchild3028 it's incredibly difficult to deal with, I'm sorry. Finding escapes through music, games, or talking to anyone in your life you can find trust in really helps. Take it one step at a time. I'm still trying to figure it all out, especially since quarantine has made worse for everyone. Do your best and don't let people make you lose control, I've come close with my anger

@makaylahollywood3677 3 жыл бұрын

Wonderful and congratulations. You are on a good path. Learning about yourself is step one. Joy sent to you.

@natemorgan1996 2 жыл бұрын

@@moonchild3028 hi I know we don't know each other personally but I'm sorry that you went through that shit, you don't deserve that by no means, you deserve better

@johnpluta1768 Жыл бұрын

It can be very damaging and hurtful. And as a child you learn to understand that emotions aren't just feelings they're also weapons of power. However this type of power is very dark and dangerous.

@jessicahawkins6130 3 жыл бұрын

I am an adult who was emotionally abused as a child. Everything, except a few signs you mentioned, I see them in me now. Im not ready to tell my story. If I do, it will be in a published book for all to read. My dad is gone but he knew what I went through bc he too was abused, mentally and physically by the same person. His mother tells me the stories. I am not worth their time. I am worth more than the purse she carries. I am worth more than what 2 narcs can even dream of. I dont need that. No one does. It is a painful experience. Even the healing hurts. Im greatly loved by the ones who do love me. That is all I need. Thank you for sharing the video. I needed this.

@wouldntyouliketoknow1894 2 жыл бұрын

I've been through every abuse known to man and im still fighting for my life freedom rights and everything in between

@whyryenne1847 4 жыл бұрын

I feel like my anxiety has been through the roof lately and I find myself freaking out when I go to certain places where things have happened. I don’t want to think I’ve been emotionally abused but to be honest I feel like I have. I’m really just not sure how to fix myself.

@mayamuller9233 3 жыл бұрын

Honestly same. I've been triggered quite a few times this week. What I'm trying to do is to raise my self esteem by doing exercise (getting that dopamine going) and to give myself somewhere a safe environment like online or a game. Maybe this could help?

@makaylahollywood3677 3 жыл бұрын

That's okay. Good news, there isn't anything to fix. We are all here to learn. Be gentle with your thoughts. Get to know yourself. And, make a list of what you value. Also make a list of all your qualities. Love is sent.

@victoryforever1915 2 жыл бұрын

We all have to pray and ask God to heal us. We can't do that without prayer 🙏🏾 Emotional and mental abuse is something very serious.

@deevaw4129 3 жыл бұрын

My boyfriend used to verbally abuse me but he says it doesn’t really count because he had no malicious intent and it wasn’t physical. He tells me his threats were empty etc. I don’t get how he doesn’t understand

@truthmerchant1 2 жыл бұрын

He is gaslighting you. That in itself is abuse on top of the original abuse. He's not a safe person.

@exodus_gaming5282 2 жыл бұрын

Get out. State your boundary and say that you don’t tolerate this behaviour. Combine it with a punishment if he does. And follow through if he does.

@victoryforever1915 2 жыл бұрын

Get out now!!!!!

@Florencethomas405 Жыл бұрын

Prob a narcissist no consideration for ur feelings

@justinarazo8857 3 жыл бұрын

My mother was emotionally/mentally abusive, maybe even call her a narcissist, which caused me to become co-dependent. I am 35 now and have been married almost 10 yrs to an emotionally abusive high functioning alcoholic. I really could care less if he filed for a divorce which he threatens me about often when he's drunk - almost every other day - but I am so used to be with him everyday for the past 10 yrs, I feel like I'm being abandoned! Even though he's an abusive alcoholic! It all gets in your brain! I can't stand his drinking and mood swings and abuse, but I would feel stranded without him! Yet I know that's all in my head!

@rosealexander9007 3 жыл бұрын

I was emotionally abused as a child by my school teacher.

@LeonaMeyer 3 жыл бұрын

Rose Alexander teachers are the WORST! As a result of forceps delivery, I have a facial palsy.. yes the kids had the odd go at me. But the sustained ongoing relentless bullying came from TEACHERS...

@LeonaMeyer 3 жыл бұрын

Teran Poka 😭😭😭😭makes me want to jump off this spinning mortal coil ..💩💩💩

@coo7414 3 жыл бұрын

So was I. From 14 to 19. It made me so physically and mentally sick that I almost died several times.

@beaulieuc8910 3 жыл бұрын

So was I. My maths and my domestic science teachers. I can even see the look of anger in their faces, their faces scrunching up, the cutting belittling words. In the 70s they were absolutely awful. They need cameras in school rooms.

@rosealexander9007 3 жыл бұрын

Beaulieu C hi yes they absolutely need cameras 📷 in the classrooms. By the way I was a child in the 80’s. That’s when it happened to me.

@theoryofrebellion7275 3 жыл бұрын

The list of things that abusers do perfectly described someone that I grew up with.

@delaneystorm 4 жыл бұрын

I really appreciate this. It helps me to identify which of my emotions might be influenced by my brain development in regards to abuse I've experienced. Thank you ❤

@yayitako8289 3 жыл бұрын

My mother abused me emotionally and still does. She brings me down whenever she has the possibility and she makes that the rest of the family is against me. Sometimes I have a good day but most of the time I'm depressed and I want to die

@aitauaokesene5208 3 жыл бұрын

Aww well God loves you....and God said I remember this when he said to me.When I had no one he will keep me and when I had someone before he will keep me..

@wouldntyouliketoknow1894 2 жыл бұрын

I can relate

@victoryforever1915 2 жыл бұрын

I've been mentally and emotionally abused since age 22, which was my age when I got married. I started being mentally and emotionally abused by my daughter after she became an adult. I'm now 56 years old and I'm trying to break free and not allow the abuse to continue. I've always tried hard to do whatever I could to make my marriage last until death do us part. I've tried hard to also get my adult daughter to love me. No matter what I do, she still treats and talks to me terribly. She is my only child, but I've got to pray that I can let go. I pray ALL of you reading this and going through simular situations will find peace in the midst of the storm 🙏🏾❤

@jackieroussel364 3 жыл бұрын

The « fight or flight » response to stress. It took me a long time to realize that there is a thirth response that emotionally abuse person/child are using to survive and it is « freeze ». When you as a baby /child,had no right to your emotions,are not allowed to cry or make noise or else suffer the consequences you just shut out completely.when you are not allowed to express feeling it’s as if you don’t exist.As a child ,I was so impress when I saw my classmate crying,or when I heard someone laughing out loud,or being very scared when someone was angry.

@shelovesbts8182 2 жыл бұрын

I feel this harsh pain in my chest, it's like there's depression choking me sometimes I really cry too much , because if I don't this pain is not going away I live with a father who is mentally ill and verbal abuse me and my mom alot

@sugoe8motor967 4 жыл бұрын

yes i recently experienced this kind of Abusment but i survived it's a worst part of my life but i learned a lot and now I'm more stronger than my past Alhumdulillah

@sugoe8motor967 4 жыл бұрын

My narc is thinking that he makes people stronger 😁😂😂😂😂😂he is really a jerk

@cherryjig7983 3 жыл бұрын

People expect me to shut up, forgive, forget & ignore everything. & they call ME childish!

@sumanamudi1161 3 жыл бұрын

Take things positively as whatever happens..happens for good......we are destined to do something good.......those people are not deserving to stay in our life

@ohnomycrocs 3 жыл бұрын

I was emotionally abused frequently by my family when I was younger. It got so bad I was diagnosed with depression at 9.

@LeonaMeyer 3 жыл бұрын

Me.. aged 11 ...I lost my sense of smell as a result and only regained it decades later .. how did you cope with your depression?

@nicoletterabbolini5799 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this helpful video. I was recently the victim of emotional abuse in my former workplace. I spoke out during a meet with the person who was abusing me and she told me to leave. I walked away and feel so depressed now, knowing she got away with it..

@danielmeredith9724 4 жыл бұрын

That was just what I needed to hear. Some truth about the money and how it works with emotions. I've learned so much just be listening and loving and caring for others. I'm beginning to heal the scars that some and one other has done to me. I loved a man once but he break my heart without me realising it. That was how I got abused by thinking and not knowing and bring aware of my surroundings and people. This world is becoming more hostile. But with everyday that passes and every hurt I suffer. I'm only getting stronger and more happy each day ☺😊😀

@danielmeredith9724 4 жыл бұрын

More truth about the mind I meant to say lol

@sabrinaszabo9355 17 күн бұрын

Introspection, lead to realization of how boundaries could be used to protect myself, and how to use them properly. It led to self compassion, it led need to clearly defined my values, and integrity. It wasn’t PowerMan and allowed me to transcend the suffering of every day, life, Still refining, but I reclaimed myself, and though I experienced pain, the suffering is lesson. When no one else loves me, or values me. I don’t join their club. I take care of myself. And all of you deserve the same. There’s no reason not to love yourself you are wonderful, worthy, and deserving. Somehow a false belief could have been planted that we were not, but that is furthest from the truth.

@hachii01 3 жыл бұрын

My ex boyfriend mentally and physically abuses me everyday, I can’t live like this anymore

@holuuuuu109 3 жыл бұрын

leave him, please

@bird.amygrace7295 3 жыл бұрын

Its not that you can't live like this. Don't tempt yourself with taking your life. Its that you can't accept the behaviour you're offered anymore. Leave him, and stay alive 🙏

@Katteraxx 4 жыл бұрын

everything that you listed to look out for, all are being done to me, thank you for helping me see much clearer, it hurts, but I want to heal

@TheMindsJournal 4 жыл бұрын

That's Wonderful!

@alfsgirl3805 2 жыл бұрын

Idk if it was the calmness of the narrator's voice, but of all the similarly helpful videos I've watched tonight, this was the one that touched me most! Thank you. 🤗

@rose8448 3 жыл бұрын

I’ve been emotionally abused and threatened at home, bullied as a young child in school, and got into an abusive relationship as a young adult because being abused felt so familiar that I mistook it for ‘home’. For years I I thought I had a mental illness and identified the problem as coming from within me-when I was a child and my father would become abusive he would say that it was because I had provoked him and that I was dysfunctional, so my default explanation for everything was that I was inherently bad. But medication and therapies for mental illness would only be effective for short bursts. Recently, for the first time I have actually dared to start to recognize the abuse I have been through. It is hard but the healing and change feels so much more real and fulfilling than anything ever has before. I think victims of abuse are frequently misunderstood. I don’t have anyone around me who is helping with this but I am taking it day by day and videos like these are so validating! We are strong and we are healing ❤️ sending love to anyone reading this comment, you are so brave and we will get through this 💪

@katieburke2902 2 жыл бұрын

this is so true...self love helps retrain the brain...this i know for sure...♡

@tl1033 4 жыл бұрын

Also thank you for the video. I was in search of what this is doing and has done to my brain.

@lisalove8923 Ай бұрын

Just some Light n Love for those in need. This too shall pass stay strong plz ❤

@C12341 3 жыл бұрын

Loved this - the narration and animation are perfect. I learned a lot. Thank you

@shihapalhassan7944 2 жыл бұрын

You will feel safe, and relief once you find respect, love and care It's been almost 30 Yr of my life and oh god for so long I have hated my self, felt worthless, and it may not appear put I literally felt like people are hammering nails to my head and shut down any one, because I felt like am not worthy of love and accept it as a fact and and was afraid of people and physical or emotional contact Then One day I met someone God bless him and literally I felt like he pulled away a nail from my head when he said "it's okey to say no and to express your feelings and its normal to ask for your need , don't stress yourself, don't allow people to use you, you can be loved and you can give love, because you are worthy of it and it's going to be OK"

@outlawmaddie6683 4 жыл бұрын

I go through this every day since I was little. More now that I live with my dad, and I have to till I'm 18 so I gotta go through 4 more years of this.

@cygwanfogbe246 4 жыл бұрын

Now I understand everything!!! Thank you.

@rosa662810 3 жыл бұрын

Had the most heavy depression feeling on last month, it seem to being put down to the bottom of the sea, can not breath. However, I turn much better now. I find different ways to help myself to get out from the dark.

@curtistinemiller4646 4 жыл бұрын

Abuse is defined as any Behavior that is designed to control and subjugate another human being through the use of fear,Humiliation, verbal and physical assault physical battering,the words are fist in psychological battering the weapons are words.....

@jacquelinemagrans2413 3 жыл бұрын

I have been abused all my adults life. Now I just pray 🙏 to God, and I have changed my life.

@micojohnmillarez2461 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video. I am experiencing this abuse right now and im finding a way on how to deal with it

@lexarey9479 4 жыл бұрын

It has been 3 years since I left my abusive ex husband of 6 years. I am now in a very secure happy supportive relationship.. However, I still suffer from cptsd and GAD and depersonalization derealization as a result. Some days I'm ok, but other days it feels like Im losing my mind and I can't handle myself. Ive been on meds and stuff but I feel like I'm not healing. I some days feel like i don't even know myself anymore. Can you do a video on abuse and CPTSD?

@deirdrestuartneurostreet8170 Жыл бұрын

May God give me the strength and compassion to myself for the emotional incest that was used against me and may the beauty of my angel daughters be forever with me

@LDT7Y 2 жыл бұрын

I haven't seen him in over a year, but still can't think straight, have lost a lot of my memory, I've been in isolation for months and can't trust humans any more, I have moments where I lose all ability to talk (as if the language part of my brain has disappeared), I can't focus on cognitive tasks that I used to find easy. I feel as though I have brain damage. I'm also stuck living with a dad who is a bully with anger management issues and randomly flies into a rage when he can't control things. It isn't targeted at me 99% of the time, as I stood up to him and he knows I won't take his sh*t any more. But the sudden loud swearing/fights with my mother has definitely slowed down my ability to heal. I'm stuck living here at the moment though, and don't have any friends I can turn to for support. So I'm having to rely on healing myself, which is a slow and difficult process.

@muskankumari8330 2 жыл бұрын

People will let you feel that you are wrong but actually you are not.... And Then I used to cry, after that they will say that I am crying on simple things... They will act as if they had done nothing

@mamabear-9.18.18 4 жыл бұрын

Excellent video! Thank you because I was wondering what the medical effects long term abuse has on the brain and human development.

@TheMindsJournal 4 жыл бұрын

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@tayatheweeb5101 3 жыл бұрын

I'm 11 turning 12 and I'm being emotionally abused by my grandmother and I dont know how much longer I can take it. I'm too scared to report it because I care about my grandmother and I dont want to be taken away from CPS because I have an older brother and little sister.

@safewayman 3 жыл бұрын

Taya The Weeb Jeez I’m sorry, I’m currently 16 and yeah it’s kinda the same for me as well except it’s my dad who’s abusive, a friend of mine suggested going to a foster home but I hear almost nothing but bad things involved with foster homes so idk. I really hope you find a way out of the unhealthy environment you’re currently in, if you have any trusting friends, maybe talk to them about this if you haven’t yet. Wish you nothing but the best!!

@beaulieuc8910 3 жыл бұрын

Start planning to leave when you are 16, travel, go to college and be successful and happy. Your siblings will eventually leave too. It is your grandmother's fault not yours. Find a hobby like sport etc where you can spend as much time away. Stay at a safe friend's house perhaps. Stay away from young boys when you are older as they are too immature and will abusive you and then the cycle begins again. Take time to get to know yourself and set boundaries when you can. Good luck

@luzvimindasamonte6274 4 жыл бұрын

I'm experiencing that since I met him I didn't realise it but now I know I'm a bigtym

@sapnagoutam5127 3 жыл бұрын

I develop muscle tension in my lower limbs whenever I have panic attack of anxiety. Sometimes I found hard to deal with it but somehow I get over. I am trying to heal from the emotional abuse

@documentedrecords5364 2 жыл бұрын

My ex of 10-11 years trapped me in the bathroom because she wanted to fight, she threatened that if I touch her she bruises easily. I just sat down and cried my eyes out until my eyes were on fire and dry.

@azizaabalance5897 4 жыл бұрын

Why are people do cruel?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@youmylove9528 3 жыл бұрын

Because they have so many insecurity and don't have confidence to deal with it it's true

@babysenpai3883 2 жыл бұрын

Have I experienced emotional abuse, well that's why I'm here, I was physically and emotionally abused by my parents and uncle. Still till now since I can't move out, my 6-18 yo is so weak but I m more concerned about the damage my brain suffered from. Never crossed my mind till I experienced lack of Lust and concentration. I hope to see other videos on how to deal with this because saying "you should love yourself" is not a good idea, loving and accepting yourself comes in the way while you seeking help not doing it all yourself.

@carmenwong3620 2 жыл бұрын

Omg I'm so sorry to hear that from ya, I have experience emotional abuse in my family too and Im 19 now but can't really move out until I graduate college and we are having a lockdown in my country and it sucks 😭😭😭 if u need anyone, we can talk

@zunefsu87 3 жыл бұрын

my venezuelan mother called me names and distant herself my whole life. From the moment i played tennis in high school with her distance and winning the honor roll refusing to come. I wish it was different but she was always like that

@einareinarsson8662 2 жыл бұрын

Great video. Thank you

@KelzBernard 3 жыл бұрын

My wife abuses me both physically and emotionally. I feel dead inside.

@uzmajamil105 3 жыл бұрын

Kelsey-Bernard I honestly feel for you| I’m also going through the same thing with my family member. It is a very dreadful experience. I wish no one to go through this abuse

@KelzBernard 3 жыл бұрын

Uzma Jamil thanks for reaching out Uzma

@KelzBernard 3 жыл бұрын

Matt Karl thanks brother