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Tattoos downgrade the looks on a women.

3 rules for dating: No fats, no tats and no rug rats

If a girl has tattoos she's not hiding anything. In fact she's telling you everything you need to know.

Tattoos are graffiti. They're ugly on both men and women.

I dated a lot of women. Most women are nuts and impossible, but the tattooed ones do you the courtesy of alerting you to extreme danger.

As a clinical psychologist I can say that tattoos are the FULL manifestation of low/irregular self esteem. It basicly shows the degree of that individual's trauma.

I know lots of women who don’t have tattoos and are toxic as hell

"Every one of my tattoos has deep meaning"---said every stripper

I had a girlfriend that had a thing with plastering tattoos all over her. I designed some of those drawings, I went with her to the tattoo artist that did them, and she said those remind her of me. Now time has passed and she is plastered with reminders of me while dating another guy. There is so much true on what Rich said, most of the times the tattoos are influenced by men at some point in her life, when you date a very tattooed lady there is already a bunch of men living rent free in her head.

A woman with a tattoo is a woman with an attitude

25 years ago in my younger days my buddies and I had a phrase "The Guaranteed Lay Trifecta" - if you find a girl who smokes, has visible tattoos, and facial piercings, it's a guaranteed lay. And of course, guaranteed major daddy issues too, but I repeat myself.

I never understood why you would want your skin to look like your 7th grade doodled notebook

Tattoos are outer signs of inner trauma.

I looked back and realized that ALL the women I actually liked and gave it an honest effort, didn’t have tattoos. It’s not about the style or location of the tattoo…it’s the mindset of a woman who gets a tattoo.

Any tattoo on a woman is an indicator of a lack of impulse control and a lack of consideration of long-term consequences. This is a person who lives in the moment, and will make life-changing decisions thereafter in the moment. Is that someone that you want to plan a future with?

Ultimately, it's a red flag for attention.

never saw a tattoo that looked better than plain skin. Bumper stickers on lambos is perfect. Just like graffiti never made trains look better, or made the value of a neighborhood rise.

If she's not feeling attached after sex, her pair-bonding is fried. Leave immediately.

Tattoos to me, are like a graphic t-shirt you can't change. No matter how cool or funny the design is you'll get sick of it and want to wear a different shirt. Lots of tattoos indicates somebody with low intelligence or an addict.

Tattoos are a total turn off to me.

I never thought of self mutilation as a fashion statement.

I have no experience in this. Once I saw a tattoo, I moved on.

Can't abide tattoos on anyone . I recoil in disgust . There is NO good logical reason to get them .

I’ve come to appreciate their signage. It tells me, “Crazy on board. Keep walking.”

Once dated a girl with a tattoo of a heart with barbed wire wrapped around it, you can guess how that turned out. She was completely evil.

Nothing screams "uncomfortable in my own skin" like a tattoo

What's crazy is I'm finding alot of women don't get attached even after sex. Shit is nuts out here.

That she is an exhibitionist, and is using the tattoos as a means to show off her body publicly. Rich has highlighted this many times.

Had a run in with a girl I found extremely attractive over the summer who had tattoos down to her knuckles, drank and smoked weed every day . I invited her to come see me after our first encounter and she did a 180 out of nowhere! She was cold and distant only to just leave without explanation. She later showed herself having a ball and all smiles on her social media making sure I saw it because she knew she left me in total confusion. Her family later reached out and told me they call her a tornado and she destroys every guy she meets after she has sex with them . I had to look up borderline/ psychotic tendencies to even understand what I had encountered! I pray I never run into a demon like that ever again.

A woman with tats, piercings, or colored hair is a no go for me these days. But then again, I don't have a need for a woman in my life except for one need, so it's all pretty much a waste of time.

Tattoos, piercings, and plastic surgery are all forms of self-mutilation by proxy.

Women that have full body or large tattoos and cattle rings in the nose are major turnoffs for me.

I had a girlfriend and was in a relationship for 5 years. She had a tattoo on her arm removed. She said it was the dumbest thing she'd ever done and that it hurt a lot to remove it. I was a completely different guy then. Practically a boy raised by a single mother and raised to be someone who thinks women are wonderful creatures, they don't lie, they don't cheat and men are evil. Normally I would have proposed after a year because I was sure I had found "the one" unique woman. I didn't do it only because she kept saying that marriage is just a piece of paper and it doesn't change anything, it actually destroys it. Hahaha she was good at it. Plus, being with me, she didn't feel like she wanted kids, and she didn't like posting things on social media about us. After the breakup, while I was wondering why she wasn't trying to fight for us for the first time, she was already busy jumping on another one. She immediately became pregnant, accepted the proposal and posted about their love on fb every now and then. Now she looks extremely bad, she has stopped taking care of herself, her hair is down, "climate fight and meditation", and she has a huge fucking tattoo in the same place as before. And I'm 99.99% sure she recently became a single mother. She was a really beautiful girl, nice, likeable and we had some really good moments. Now I look at my past and wonder if I'll ever be able to be with anyone again. Now I don't think about it at all and I don't need women for anything. Yes, a lot has happened and I have completely changed. But I look at it all and wonder - who was I with? I get rid of negative traits and try to be a better person and a better man. And that woman is a complete different person today. I used to be the typical feminized boy who marveled at those dating much younger women. Today I understand them. Less drama, less baggage, less problems, more time until she becomes unbearable too. God damn it. Everything my mother instilled in me about women was a lie, everything she fed me about men was an even bigger lie. Single mothers are truly the worst thing that has happened to civilization. I will never even look at a woman with a TATTOO, colored hair, overweight, divorced. I have found a purpose in life and I will do anything to fulfill it or I will die trying my best. A woman can only watch it.

Where I live it is almost like it is mandatory to have a tattoo. It seems like every other woman here has a tattoo. Impossible for me to take a simple trip to a grocery store here and not see a woman with tattoos. Tattoos are mutilation, they do not inspire, they do not uplift.

“Bumper stickers on a Lamborghini “ analogy sums it up well

I dated a girl for years that got 5 different tattoos of things that reminded her of me........this girl is now married....RIP to the guy who ended up with that winner!

For me its the same for women and men. People with to much tattoos= red flag.

I read the comments here and now I really want a tattoo, just to keep that kind of men far away from me XD

In the Marines, I constantly felt pressured to get a tattoo, but I resisted. Many times, peope would come up to me and tell me that they were glad I didn't get a tattoo so they also didn't get one.

Tattoos on women looks like graffiti

I just think they're gross. What really blows my mind is the people who make excuses for nonsense. I also used to be a Marine and still didn't get any tats. You don't need a doodle to prove you actually did something with your life. With w*men, the issue is aesthetics as well as showing a disturbed mind.

Went on a few dates with tattoo girls. I have none. Here's my experience. Don't do it. They are masculine and promiscuous. Also, if you're not into ink, and she is, you best believe you're wasting your time, she will have absolutely zero interest in you. The tattoo girl is going to be looking for tattoo guy, ideally a 6'5" biker named Chad. When they found out I had no ink they immediately lost interest, subsequently when I realized how much ink they had I also lost interest.

Attention and impulse control issues. Eventually, she will discount you to feed the attention and impulse desires.

Every female tattoo has a story... A bad one. Behind every tat, is drama and trauma.

You don't but a bumper sticker on a Lambo but you do put them on a Pickup Truck. I like the analogy.

Yeah girl’s covered in tattoos aren’t sexy whatsoever. Just my opinion

One girl I really liked got herself inked up multiple times. She was impulsive and inconsistent. Had daddy issues and multiple relationships. Highly borderline personality. Had to let go of her. Then A married woman with one big tattoo had a month long affair with me. Phew.. I feel sad for the first girl but I guess dodged a bullet. Now I've started to believe tattoo are a big red flag

I dont like chicks with tats

Not a fan of tattoos. They make people disgusting.

Tattooed girl asked me what I thought of her tattoos. I replied I like them ,they are like the stripes on a wasp. She gave me a puzzled look and said there aren’t any stripes. I replied no I mean they tell you what type of insect it is. Then I walked away.

Tats mean manipulatable by trends. Red flag.

Tattoos are a turnoff for me.

I remember when the only people with tattoos were Navy/USMC vets and bikers. They make women look trashy IMO

Sailors tattooed themselves to make them easier to Id if something happens. It makes you more identifiable, so I don't have any.

Far as I'm concerned, even just ONE tattoo is one too many. A woman who permanently alters her physique with something she believes is decorative is manifesting multiple insecurities - body image, a sense of belonging, a sense of her own self worth, her ability to cope with difficulties or personal failings or insufficiencies - I could go on. She has a tat, she shows poor judgement and spiritual, mental & psychological flaws. p.s. I'm not sure this whole 'women bond in sex cuz oxytocin' argument is actually correct. I suspect that men release it as well (but in lower average quantities.) I also understand that men release other hormones that have somewhat similar effects. Simply put - a man and a woman will bond to some extent in the sexual act. The strength of that bond will be influenced by many factors, including the sexual histories of the two. But I do not agree (from personal observation) that men do not bond at all with a woman when they 'do the do' with her.

I worked with a woman who had multiple tattoos but wouldn't get the vaccine or even let her children get school enforced shots because of her fear of needles. Figure that one out.

As a man, I adore women with tattoos, I find them so sexy

One thing not mentioned in your discussion is the effect of beta-endorphins. These hormones are released by the brain during stress and pain events. They are also highly linked to female orgasm, much like oxytocin. This is the reason some women enjoy being spanked or rough sex. Ask many women of the experience of getting a tattoo and you will find it being sexual in nature. It's something taboo and rebellious. Done by a person touching the skin and reassuring them through the event, much like sex. This is another red flag of a woman who doesn't link sex with love. Sex isn't only for pleasure, it's a human bonding act.

in asia if female have tatoo and bright hair colour they will get shame by others parent... cause parents know they're rebellious kind of females.. i still remember my mom get really mad when my sister want to coloring his hair with red.

Todays women could not bond even with super glue and duct tape. good luck.

Debt free, tattoo free, virgin!!! If she’s legal, talk about a damn unicorn!!!

I have 2 tattoos as a man and I have always followed the same rule. Draw it, revisit after 12 months, schedule appointment no sooner that 6 months. If after 18 months you still want the sane design, same location then it's a go. If not walk away from the idea

I'm my experience people with tattoos want you to look at the tats and not at them directly. It's covering up some issue or insecurity; a way to deflect people's attention from actually seeing them ironically. They're subconsciously saying 'look at my tattoo, not at me'. Females with tattoos are a pass in an LTR, and guys are better off going to the gym rather than the ink shop when they want to up their game.

I'm 53 & so many guys i know got tats. It was never a desire for me. Almost all of them pressured me. Glad i stayed true to myself. Piercings are more stupid looking to me than tats, but at least you can just not wear the jewelry, unlike tats.

I dated a girl who’s ex husband tattooed her. What was I thinking. Lessons learned 😂

Like doing a crayon drawing over a Rembrandt.

Red flag

You've met, spoken with, and gotten to know every tattooed woman? Wow. That's pretty remarkable!

Tattoo chicks are good for one nighters but if you decide to LTR them. God help U 🙄

Have you ever seen a hott girl and thought "She'd be so much hotter if she had lots of tattoos" ?

I have two birthmarks -- one on my right shoulder and the other on my lower back. My birthmarks are my tattoos 👍🏼❤

Women who have no tattoos are bad enough to deal with, throw in the tattoos and you have a hell of a problem coming your way. Total turnoff to me as I find it totally stupid and unsightly.

So help me understand men want a tattoos free debt, free virgin, but they want to have sex with a bunch of women before they get married. How is that even possible each woman was once a virgin until a man slept with her do you see the flaw in your logic here I’m not trying to be unkind to men or women. It just doesn’t make sense to me. Wouldn’t it be better if everyone stayed a virgin until they were married

It's not just our observations, it's data. Tattooed women are more promiscuous. A promiscuous woman fails to pair bond (leaves relationships) and cheats way more prolifically. If she gave the boy next door access to her body nobody had to know. If she gave the tattoo artist access EVERYBODY is going to know. Also, who gets tattoos if they are not going to go out showing lots of skin? Bro... throw her right back. Cue Future, "She belongs to the streets."

For women. It’s mental instability and and screaming for attention, usually to feed the narcissism.

Good analysis of tats!

I am the ONLY woman that I know who doesn't have tatts. And I have had so many women call me boring for not being interested. Don't get me wrong, there is some amazing art out there .... I just associate it with men.

Mr. Kowalski is right. Women shouldn't go to bed with _ANY_ man "by the third date". They should _only_ sleep with a man after getting to know him well, no matter how attractive he may appear to be at the first glance, and they should make sure that he is also serious about the relationship after it has been established that the two of them are compatible. Otherwise, men shouldn't be surprised if they can't find virgins anywhere... 🤷🏼‍♀️

Nobody is going to cancel you as long as you have the red pull mob behind your back. This community is rapidly growing and becoming more aware

Squint with one eye and say a pirate's life is a wonderful life. Every time you see a tattoo on a woman.

You got that right brother about women with tattoos. We are all starting to see more of that, not just in the US and other western countries, but in NON western countries as well! I'm in Ukraine now, and I started coming here since 2005. I would see one or two girls once in a great while with a tattoo, but now I'm seeing many! Ladies, if you are reading this, PLEASE DO NOT make the decision to get a tattoo, and if you have some, please go get them lased off. I'm saying this for your own good. Women here are copying western ways, and it is NOT good! What was once a good country to find good women is now going by the wayside.

Tattoos = temporary.

Good information fellas

Tattoos are masculine. I have tattoos but I was in Iraq for 2 years

Can't tell you how many times I've heard women talking about getting they're new tattoo without even having picked what they're going to get 😂

It’s true. Every tatted up girl I’ve came across has always had something wrong with her.

No tattoos, or zero help with college, first home etc, is a hard prohibition I gave to my daughters. Don’t care if their instructors have them or not, and those that do often have sub-par personal lives. Indicative, not causal. Most men’s tattoos are garbage as well. Uh, I’ll take the #52 barbed wire, and the #12 Celtic design, oh, and since I am 1/32 Cherokee, throw in one of those too. Armed forces unit or group where you had to prove skill. Ok. Fashion is for clothes, not skin. Your actions define you, not skin decoration

if you're an in tune man who knows what the fuck he is about and knows what he wants and does not want why should tatoos even bother you? who fucking cares? things only have the power you give them... and that goes tripple for women.

@:025 It is stated that men do not relaease Oxytocin. That is incorrect, they do. According to The National Institute of health, they state the following : Oxytocin is produced in the hypothalamus and stimulates uterine contraction and milk ejection. While many people consider oxytocin to be a female hormone, it is reported that, in men, the plasma oxytocin level increases markedly after ejaculation.

Every year at thanksgiving & Christmas I visit with my wife's sister & brother in-law & OMG one of the niece's is covered in tattoos & I hate looking at her it's gross, I want smooth beautiful natural skin not ink.

There's precedence for this in nature. Most of the poisonous and venemous animals are brightly colored to warn off predators. As for men and tats, many male animals, especially birds, are more brightly colored to attract a mate.

The observation of about women with tattoos is very revealing, I hadn’t thought of it that way before. Thanks.

It’s a self destructive subconscious psychological reaction for a woman to get a tattoo as a way to bookmark a chapter in her life and signify a start to a new chapter, same as when women dye their hair …… it’s like making character alterations to a video game character when starting a new game. It’s symbolic to a new start …

Some studies mildly support the pair bonding issues as body count goes up idea... but those studies show it is pretty similar for male and females. Also, most of the studies on the subject don't support the thesis.

Tattoos are a Red Flag .... and my new favorite - Nose Ring. No exceptions, No excuse - instant turn off. Easy off. Early out.

True, it is a mark of the value she has of herself, what she thinks she “needs” to be apart of what group she values.

Even before the tattoo they screwed in the head, most of these chicks. But they can hide it. After the tattoo they’re still screwed in the head but now they come with a warning sign.

This is just as true for men if not more.

I don't care what anyone says to defend a tattooed woman, but she either made a conscious decision to ink/ruin herself, or she didn't think things through and inked/ruined herself. Either way you look at it, it's a red flag.