" A man must first provide an environment where his woman can experience trust and honor:" I really wish more men understood this

The woman comes with assets: 1- She's a partner 2- She brings rest to his life 3- She's the multiplier 4- She's the reflection of his manhood 5- She's the man chief intercessor 6- She's the caretaker of his legacy 7- She's the prize! 🎉

I watched my dad treat my mom well. She was a classy woman. She was confident had 7 children. We growing up never worried about money or security. I felt safe growing up with them together. I miss them both very much. May they rest in peace.

My dad always talked to me about men & how they really think, feel & behave. I was well schooled & warned about this as a young girl & teenager. His advice rang so true with a lot of guys I dated when I was younger. I was spared of some heartache along the way. Now I am happily married to a decent man, a gentleman who truely sees my worth, we will be married 24 years in October. I lost my dear dad in 2017. RC Blakes keep preaching! 🙏🏻💕

Ladies: We don't need to audition in the kitchen or the bedroom. A man will know within 1 year if you're his wife and you should know as well if you have a relationship with God and discern his spirit. Don't just rely on him to tell you that. You should have your own relationship with God. You should know who you are.

“The condition of a mans woman (emotionally, physically, spiritually) under his CARE , is the measure of his manhood” 🙌🏽

Here's a nugget: Men will be nice and when they see they can't get you they will be mean to you. They don't have time for you.

"A man can have strong sexual attraction to a woman, and hate her at the same time." Amen. Know and understand your value. Good word Pastor #RCBlackes!

He don't deserve even CASUAL interaction if he only sees me as a sex doll

Im a wife. Im a lady and my dads only daughter and i have always felt powerful in not giving out and knowing i can walk in a room knowing not a man in sight has Had the pleasure of me.

I have been married twice and widowed twice. After my 2nd wife died a group of male friends were expressing their condolences (sometime after her passing) and they asked what I missed most in the "cacophony of silence" that my home had become. I shot back and answered that "I miss having the female perspective and point of view in my life." Collectively they looked at me like I was nuts and one even said, "Really? Are you serious?" Yeah, I am. When my 2nd wife died we had 20 minutes together to say our good-byes. She was at peace; we held hands; her final words to me were "thank you for all you have taught me." She could not possibly have said anything more meaningful.

As a man I’m gonna break it down. We need fathers like this to educate and lead us by example and enlightenment. I was a hard working successful professional man. But I didn’t have a spiritual education until I was adopted into a men’s ministry that educated me to think like this. This Pastor broke it down. This is the best sermon I’ve heard in some time.

I’m 74 years old and how I wish you had been my father to give me this precious valuable information 👍🏻😢!

It’s definitely not deep when a man tries to sleep with you, especially on the first night or just right away... When they talk about sex or make a comment about my body, I run away real quick.. I’m offended. I’m done.

i wondered why some men don’t have these conversations with their daughters. but sometimes the father themselves are also misogynist.

Celibacy is power. I see unhappy women who gave into a man early on and are not treated well. I will always be treated well, either alone towards myself or with my wonderful husband I haven’t met yet. I am a Priestess! So are all the women here.

I been celibate 2 years. And havent met 1 man that sees more than sexual value. I gest at least being alone is better than being used.

A man can love a woman sexually and hate her at the same time is Soo true.

The woman is the prize... did it for me! Only a real man recognize this 🙏🏽💪🏽❤🖤

"The Woman is Built to respond to the Man"....thank you so much for that enlightenment. Seeds of distrust, dishonor and insecurities is all I have ever known from men. This is why I continue to be happily single as I know my worth and what it requires for me to commit. I REFUSE to waste my time with someone who does not have this level of awareness. Super hard to find......

My husband asked me to marry him after 6 months. Every man I have ever been close to has asked me to marry them either 6 months in or before. I guess I have wife material stamped on my forehead lol. But I knew he was the one. When he hugs me, all of my stress fades away. We complete one another. Thank you Most High!

The unfortunate part is that there are men out there that meet women who could be their wives, but they lack the patience to wait until marriage for sex. They end up frustrating themselves in the process and wonder why they can only find women who want them for their money or their status and do not respect them otherwise. A woman who doesn’t know how to respect herself/her body will not know how to respect her husband (inside and outside of the home). I see it everyday.

It’s 4 am and I’m watching this… Amnon, hated her exceedingly! It broke me! I can’t stop crying. I asked God to reveal to me the truth. Your teachings are God’s word to me. He is revealing it to me. It’s painful and so hurtful. Thank you Pastor. God Bless you and your knowledge. It is so very meaningful.

I needed to hear this . thank you so much. I got into a relationship with a man in 2012 and this video is making me cry because it's so spot on as to what happened to me. I left the shallow man 3 years ago and I'm still wondering what the hell happened. I met a very nice man online months ago and we are going to meet up and I fear a repeat of my past. It's heartbreaking because so many woman will just jump in bed and it makes it almost impossible for those of us that won't. It's almost impossible to find a man that understands and will be patient. I'm 66 and I see men in their 80s expecting sex on a first date. UNREAL! Thank you again as I need a reminder NOT to repeat my past mistake.

A man must provide his woman with trust & honor.

I wish I’d been taught this as a young woman before I began dating intentionally

Thank you so much for this information! I was a daddy's girl growing up and had him ripped from my life at the age of 17. A crucial time when a young woman begins to make decisions and choices about men. You're of words of wisdom reminded me of the talks he used to have not just with me but the other young girls and boys in our neighbourhood. With the trauma of losing him, my brother molesting me and my mother forcing me to have an abortion in order to appease the church the church we attended all within a years time; I lost my way! My heart was crushed!! I pushed that betrayal and pain down so deep that here at the age of 56 I just remembered it. I couldn't understand why I lost sight of my value. I've been an empty shell making bad decisions for so many years! But I have been on a quest to reconnect my heart. It's a hard and daunting process. But I am so grateful for the opportunity to get it right! Every morning I rise is my chance to make it better and truly learn self love before ANYTHING else. Again, thank you!

I'm in a transition in my life. And I've noticed that what he said is right that when I sleep with some of these men I'm basically losing myself and I'm losing my self-respect. This video will change my life. I promise I am not giving myself up sexually like that anymore to a man. I have so much more to me. And the only way that person will see that is I have to make them work and I can't give into any type of Temptation or pressure.

Yes. Value yourself women! I recently heard a man say, "sex is everywhere, I can get that anytime".

I’m patiently waiting on my whole healthy Godly man, until then I’ll be working on myself to be a healthy woman.✨🙏🏾.

I am 20 and I have never been romantically involved with anyone. Going through the teenage years was filled with girlfriends getting their heart broken all the time. I started reading the Bible when I was 10 and it has helped me with everything. To learn that the heart is wicked and feelings dont tell you the truth and that many people dont know what love is or even how to truly give it away. The "hardest" part is people thinking that I am sad or ashamed or that I have some bad view of men, which is not the case. But you see, many times the adults that worry about me love life are married....but not exactly happy. I am thankful for their worries about me. But I have so much peace inside. Our Father says that celibacy is a gift not everyone seeks (or even tries to understand) God gives you a sense of confidence and satisfaction that frees you from the preassures of society. I feel so complete that my version of my best life is staying this way forever. Now, if in the future a pure and rightious offer comes, maybe I'll think about it. But if it never comes my way, the joy remains in me. I am aware that marriage is serious and is not always easy. I have a respectful fear of it, and I know that will keep me safe. If you are still waiting for that person, it doesn't have to be so dark. You can only be in a relationship once you are ready to give, but you first need to fill yourself up. Maybe when you are already filled up you'll be surprised at how less you need someone else. Then you'll be ready.

I’m 21 year old kid living in newyork . I resonate with your message big brother . I appreciate the knowledge. Going thru enlightenment at the moment and I’’m grateful to come upon this wonderful message .

EVERY WOMAN IN THE WORLD NEEDS THIS WORD AND MAN TOO

This will go right over the average man's head.

They ought to be teaching/preaching this in school beginning in early childhood all the way up senior homes!! Thank you so much for sharing Pastor 🙏

Pastor preaching better than we're shouting! 🥰 I needed to hear this message today! Pastor's wisdom is priceless and always on time! I've been conditioned by the toxic aspects of my culture to value myself as an object. I'm healing and growing more spiritual!

A king will instinctively know how to control his hormones for his queen 👑 A lust driven BOY will never understand this concept. I’ve had SEVERAL conversations with elders & couples married 20 - 40 + yrs & the one thing they all had in common was patience and RESPECT. She was his PRIZE 🙏🏽

This is exactly what a lot of people don't understand intimacy is a spiritual thing especially for believers We were not created to be " sex objects " that is not how God defines love.

This should be required viewing for all couples before marriage as well as something parents should share with their children...both boys and girls...as they mature and begin dating and forming relationships. This is pure gold Pastor, what you are doing on this platform is pure gold. Thank you! I am blessed by this message as I have been by many others.

I'm going to have to listen to this everyday until it gets roots. I needed to hear all of this. I'm going to need the daily reminder for a while. I have had no "successful" relationships with men because I don't believe in premarital sex and have never engaged in it. They get so upset that I'm not willing to let them bastardize my body. One guy actually said "you act like your body is a prize." They are so manipulative and deceiving. These men didn't care about me, so I'm glad they are gone. When I heard you say that women are "spending their time trying to be sexy when they're a genius." A very popular KZfaqr makes fun of women that value their PhD. That is one of the most prestigious degrees anyone can get. That man doesn't even have a college degree I've heard. PhD women are consulting with GED men, like you said. Men try so hard to devalue women to break them down until they no longer see their value. Sometimes it works. God has protected me. He's given me discernment, but I've had some close calls. Serpents are still cunning--even to this day. Someone once told me that when you have sex, you give away a piece of yourself that you can't get back. One by one, those men chip away little pieces of you that didn't belong to them. I decided that I wanted to be able to give my whole self to the man that I marry, not the leftovers. I do view my body as a prize. I've lived life of dignity and honor. I wear a band of rubies on my hand as well to remind me of Proverbs 31:10. I'm sad that I'm alone sometimes, but I don't regret it. One day someone will see my non-sexual value like you talked about and I'm waiting for him.

The 33 that didn't like this video are probably men who think that they're the prize or women that don't know their worth 🤫😂🙃

More men need to hear this message!

Thank you for this message!!! I get thoroughly offended by men who are too shallow to swim in my ocean! I was settling for the foolishness for too long. I’m no longer devaluing myself by settling and continuing to play the game.

I swear i never get tired of learning from this pastor he just continously blesses me, every time im weary or feel lost or confused this brother shows up with a word to lift me up and my mind back on track❤

If we are to "train up a child in the way they should go", then why aren't we putting this much passion into raising our boys to be godly boys, adolescents and young men as we do our girls . We continually lower the bar for boys. We say "boys will be boys, that's how men are, he's a guy". This provides excuses to all bad behavior without accountability. We let an ungodly, unholy society raise and train our boy children and then we are shocked by the demonic behavior. It is easier to build strong children than FIX broken men.

I'm not bashing men but I say to the young women who come into my life, if we as women allow this negative treatment of us to continue, then they will! I love men and masculinity but as a woman, I set the pace. You cannot and will not treat me as a play toy.

I love how you hurt me, it makes me grow. You helped me dismantle a 25yr old soul tie. I was a virgin to a woman hater you describe here. I was so nieve and in denial. Dismantling him had me see him and myself clearly. You helped me set myself FREE ❤ His brokenness, broke me more than I was already broken. When a woman really gets this her self esteem lifts through the roof, I'm flying

All women need to hear this and apply it to their lives! 🙏 Thank you for sharing this wisdom!

Was definitely groomed by my father to look, act, and speak in ways that is most desirable men. What a waste of time in my life attracting men who were only after the superficial stuff. I was close to 30 before I woke up and decided to vet men based on how they respond to my intellect, my dreams, and my ambitions. I led with my brain and attracted a really smart and modest man who was willing to commit to working together on building a life together.

I am 61 and should have been married but because nobody talks like this i just had wasted time thank you but i am still dreaming before the lord comes

I am so happy I just discovered your videos. This video about the non-sexual value of women made me feel my importance for the first time in my life and I am now a senior woman. I knew only verbal abuse from a man and had given up hope of there being good, truly Godly men out there for my daughters and granddaughters. We need to clone you! May God bless you immensely!!! I am so happy I found you.

Thank you for this! I am 54 and somewhere between getting divorced and online dating the last 10 years it is hard to believe my value and worth. I do seem to be the woman who is not dating much and still single. I liked hearing that the man who deserves me is out there but might take more discerning. Thank you!

My discernment when it comes to the choosing of a husband and life partner is now next level. No more settling for less than I deserve, thank you so much! For this advice that I wish I had in my life much sooner. And Lisa is truly a prize, that small gesture of bringing you the water shows how good it can be when we hold out for the real thing.

THIS HAS TO BE THE SMARTEST MAN ON THIS EARTH!!! I SAY AMEN AMEN!!

I remember as teenage when I learned that hard truth about how man look and value women buy what they can get and use her sexualy it literally crushed my soul because I was so hurt and disappointed so I just cried and very down for while and after that just lost complete interest in man and just didn't want them to even look at me.

So many gems 💎 in this one!! If I could narrow it down to 3 points that hit me the most, I’d say.. 1. If men want to measure their manhood beyond how they can put it down in the bedroom, just take a look 👀 at your woman. Is she healthy inside and out, walking with a good amount of self esteem and confidence? She is reflecting your treatment and care. 2. Women can be a man’s greatest asset and his ultimate resting place if the man is willing and able to tap into her innermost qualities and value her beyond just wanting sex. When she feels safe, loved, seen, respected and heard, it allows her to naturally put her guards down and exude more of her natural beauty and femininity- making her a place of shalom for her man. 3. The right woman can be a multiplier for a man’s vision. If he sees her with the right perspective he won’t compete with her. He will appreciate the grace that’s on her life and feel extremely blessed that she was literally created to pour all of that genius onto his dreams and goals. Wheww all I can say is Yah blessed me with a beautiful righteous soul named Joseph on 2-17-23 and life hasn’t been the same! We BOTH have been watching RC Blake’s videos and getting great insight, wisdom, knowledge and understanding. I personally look at RC as a spiritual father figure since my dad wasn’t there for me and I had very few positive experiences with men in general in my youth. I’ve done a lot of my own healing ❤️‍🩹 work over the years and spent time getting to know myself and how much I was loved by the Father ABOVE. It was lonely at first but years and years later I am in a better place in life than ever and was open to receive the best possible love relationship with a man which is rooted in Yah (God) and founded on friendship first. He was willing to wait until we were in a divine covenant (marriage) until making love, and even after becoming one says he will go at my pace. Ladies and gentlemen, good WOMEN AND MEN still exist when you rewind ⏪ slow down and start to do things the way the Heavenly Father prescribed from the beginning. Again, thanks 🙏🏽 RC Blake’s for the ABSOLUTELY INSPIRING, AND INFORMATIVE CONTENT 💯🙌🏽💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎

I've been a wife for boyfriends for the past 6-7 years and its been very depressing. Father God lead me through my love life lead me to my ordained spouse and help me achieve true love 💘

Sobbed my heart out listening to this. Just come out if an abusive relationship.. this was so healing to me to see a man acknowledge a woman's value and humanity like this.. thank you so much pastor Blake's.. I'll be getting the father daughter talk soon too. It's very valuable work that you're doing. It really is.

I needed to hear all of this. I thank God for you. My father unfortunately never shared this wisdom with me and that led me to great heartbreak and I grew up in the baptism church. In being exposed to your spirit and message, I'm confident if I keep hearing and holding this wisdom close to my mind and heart I won't be lost anymore. I feel it in my spirit and it gives me great joy and peace. Thank you, thank you, thank you😭🙏🏽

Wish I would have heard this 40 yrs ago this is beautiful God Bless you!

My Daddy use to say "Men are resposnsible for why Women do not commit" Generations of Men have set the stage for women to become so independent and Men have become an "OPTION".

This needs to be played in every High school. 💕

I just love his reaction to the glass of sparkling water! Teach these men Bishop!

This is so good! "When a true strong man of God shows up in the life of a true strong woman of God, the man is able to see beyond what's between the woman's two legs." Thank you Pastor Blakes, this is so true! God bless you and your family, amen!

I feel like I've been the right thing to the wrong men!! I didnt know a lot of this because I had no teacher or example! But NOW that I know, I feel like I've discovered Gold!

My ex husband was exactly like this. I was growing and he was at a stand still in his life and I thank God for removing me out of this toxic relationship!!!

i needed to hear this, as well it brought a lot of healing to me as a daughter, a woman who never had a positive male figure in her life to tell her the truth about these things, a dad , a brother , even a pastor, growing up. why do I feel like it's too late to live life more abundantly now that I know the truth?...Being treated as dirt I knew in my soul it wasn't right , Ive been a christian all my life , my narcissist told me he was gonna school me give me the game , it definitely wasnt this , it was the complete opposite. Thank you RC Blake,I truly needed to hear this it set my soul free from manipulation.

I'm honestly at a point where I actually believe I will never have a man that loves me. Most of my life has been alone. Its depressing and frankly unmotivating. Such is life these days. Congrats to all the people who found love.

i surrendered 4 months ago! I ghosted the man that you explained. i will not compromise my virtue from the father. I deactivated fb and ig. I feel so much better i do notice that the men that do try to talk to me within the 4 months are a different caliber meaning they want a wife not a sex partner. im in therapy to do the inner work and releasing the soul tie. i will not carry baggage from the last man i was with. thank you bishop for confirming and rebuking women in love. i receive this wisdom from a man. Men know men #moralCode period

Unfortunately the dating aaps has huge negative impact on the sexual market, the society is becoming disposable!! Very sad

This should reach to the Spanish speakers community because all these teachings and insights are in so high standards and love that is very difficult to find in Spanish language; especially when the word of God is preached and explained at this confusing time in the advance of a non value world. Thank you.

Bishop this is so true. I been a victim of this in the past! I’m Greatful for this platform. Your platform helped me heal from it! I didn’t realize I had a soul tie with him. I’m Greatful a church mother told me I did one day after she prayed for me. Continue to pray for me and all our Queens 👸🏽 who has been tricked abused by these men .

Thank you for that message. I feel women carry so much pain and guilt because our value is not honored. It really encouraged me today!

He is so right. Men get sooo offended when I tell them I'm not just tryna be used for sex.

Yes a man can lust at u but hate u at the same time. This guy I was texting had hatred for women. He even told me he loved me on the outside but doesn't like me on the inside. The audacity. Anyway I texted him only because I was bored .He thought I would give into his desires after texting for four months but I ghosted that fool.

Thank you pastor for letting us know what our parents should have told us. May God bless you and your family

This message is absolutely divine and it's extremely important

This is by far one of the most safe, wholesome, uplifting, CLEAN messages I have ever heard in my life. Thank you Pastor Blakes.

Awesome signal!! Great talk, much needed

I really needed this message today. I feel so free to heal myself and everything mentioned is such a break though, allowing me to recognize I allowed a good man to shop in my mall when stores were still under construction hoping he would help me continue with construction and build MY MALL. So with listening to Mr.Blakes I'm opening up to a new Queenology healing .❤ Thank you so much

"The woman is built to respond to the man ...and whatever seed the man provides, the woman will incubate it and give him a harvest" - Such powerful words, so if we generally are responding to men, no wonder when we still act in our masculine with certain men, it's because of what they put out. Essentially as Pastor Blakes said " A conscious man will allow and cause a woman to act in her natural feminine self because he is acting in his masculine the way God made him to. Amen to this word!

It becomes a crossroad for many women where you have to be ok with embracing singlehood & recognizing based on the lack of standards many men have, that you very well may be alone for a long time. However, be conscious of how you define being alone. It does not have to consist of sadness or a be bad thing. Being single has allowed me to define much of the greatness within me (the journey continues). When you give yourself a break from the "norm" of society as it relates to dating, you will learn a lot about yourself, increase your standards, and become comfortable with who God created you to be. We as ladies must truly walk in the very essence God created in us as women.

Great message!! Heard Creflo Dollar say, “when you sleep with a man before marriage then he stays at that level”.

Thank you for this message Pastor Blake. I've been so blessed through this word. God Bless and keep you and Lisa 🙏🏾

This is great! This is the type of stuff I tell my husband I want him to explain to our daughter because many dads are not explaining these things to their girls.

This was a timely word for me! 🙏🏾

I wish somebody gave me this lecture when i was 20

Amazing words, as always. Thank you!

More men /grown little boy needs to really subscribe to your channel and learn from you. Amen 🙏

My husband needs to HEAR you! He once told me I need to put him on a pedestal. I responded only GOD!!

Thank You for this wonderful word! I was scrolling through KZfaq and you came up on my feed. This was so encouraging.

Brother Blake's, this session was very important to me because it made me even more sensitive to the things that my son should be aware of when it comes to women. Thanks so much because it's important to discuss with him the appreciation and price of having a woman at his side with respect and partnership.

This brought some tears to my eyes. I've been needing to hear this for quite some time.

Thank you once again for setting us right! We need to hear this and change how we do things! Narcissists will hate you but use you for sex. Awful people!

This was so good & refreshing! Thank you 🙏🏼

Love the LOVE SHOWN, after LISA, brings PASTOR BLAKES, some “SPARKLING WATER”!!!❤️

Thank you for this. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been brushed aside by many guys because I wouldn’t lay down. I felt ugly and undesirable. I then learned that it was just trash taking itself out. Also, I have always felt like women gave it up way too easy but I didn’t feel like I could say anything because of society. I felt as though I was in the wrong for having the self respect. This empowers me to continue on my path. Thank you so much.

It's hard to get a man when you have high standards because they go for the ones that are easier and then they get mad that they're not treated well. It's just a cycle that just continues around and around, if all women just wouldn't give it up and expect High output from the man then we would all have a better time

I am so happy I took the time to listen to this :) thank you thank you!

RC Blake’s, you are underrated to most and held HIGH, to the woman or man who is ready to dig in the depths of one soul. Thank you!