What's The Difference Between Confidence + Masculine

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6 жыл бұрын

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In this video, Brian explains the difference between Confidence and Masculine and answers the following questions
1. Can you be confident and not masculine?
2. Can you masculine and not confident?
3. What are the qualities of a confident and masculine man?
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@dudewat212 6 жыл бұрын

I haven't even watched yet, but I am assuming, let me guess, the word "tension" will be used.

@PatrickPleau 6 жыл бұрын

Do you step into it?

@PatrickPleau 6 жыл бұрын

and relax in your masculinity so she can be in her fe???

@kugelmanno 6 жыл бұрын

Feel your legs! Brian we love you and your work :)

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

haha bring em on

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

Possibly

@jasonconley8667 6 жыл бұрын

Great video. This is a helpful distinction for me. It makes me think that men who are hyper aggressive may have learned to create and move toward tension and appear confident, but aren't as good at grounding it with the masculine. It explains to me why they are emotionally volatile like women.

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

Gad it connected!

@ibrahimchaudhry9024 6 жыл бұрын

Sensational ! So illuminating. Thank you inordinately, Brian !!

@dannyblade6824 6 жыл бұрын

I very much appreciate your work. Keep em coming... any reading recommendations?

@octane2344 6 жыл бұрын

Great video. What attitudes support the mentality of grounding, confidence, and expressing your masculinity?

@Cpatel217 6 жыл бұрын

Important distinctions made in this one. Thanks.

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

Glad they helped!

@ChicoBrasileiro5 6 жыл бұрын

Hello, Very good content, as usual. I would like to suggest to you an interview with the canadian psychologist Jordan Peterson. I think he has a lot to contribute with the themes treated on the channel. (Maybe avoiding the more polemics and political issues and focuse on the psichologycal ones.) Hope you consider this. Congrats for the work!

@franciscovasquez9417 6 жыл бұрын

I thought about this too. Jordan always speaks about “Sleighing your dragons” because they hoard gold. Tension is the fear the dragon causes you and the improvements is the gold you claim, in my point of view.

@michaelwardrip1894 5 жыл бұрын

Even as a guy that refuses to date, this is really interesting stuff.

@ceruleanclouds5871 3 жыл бұрын

And how come you refuse to if you don’t mind me asking? Have you dated yet ?

@foday529 6 жыл бұрын

"Confidence is what equals your ability to take action in the face of fear" "True Courage is not the absence of fear, but the willingness to proceed inspite of it". So confidence is the same as being brave or courageous?

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

True confidence certainly has courageousness in it, yes

@foday529 6 жыл бұрын

What if you are a confident guy who wants a woman that has confidence equal to yours or close to it?

@foday529 6 жыл бұрын

The Fearless Man Ok, so confidence does not = courage.

@mrwhite1771 5 жыл бұрын

Technically true courage would be doubting you can do something but trying anyway. Acting in the face of all doubts and fears. Confidence is knowing you can do it and doing it even if it’s uncomfortable.

@Epsillion70 6 жыл бұрын

I have followed your channel and a few others for a year or so now and I personally have come to understand that a man can be masculine and have the ideal attitude and physique and the right charm and mental acuity. But the issue I see now is that women are inherently and instinctively hypergamy. So if at the end of the day you are in an average joe, everyday job and the woman is a few pay grades higher than you. She wont bother with you and you wont get a look in. However if you get some serious cash behind you. Then she will be truly attentive to you.

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

I have clients who are physically disabled, short and chubby, bald, old, and on who have all learned to be good or great with women. I have clients who have been great with women even in the midst of financial struggles. When I was younger and totally hopeless with women, I had a roommate who was fresh out of jail, no job, no money...and he brought women home night after night. Another man I know lived in a van for a while and had a blast bringing girls back to his van. Because he owned it. He wasn't ashamed of it, and his confidence, charisma, and authenticity shone through. All the examples above did the same thing. I also have a client who models - looks like a GQ cover - and is shredded, but he came to me because in spite of that, he was still struggling with women because he didn't know how to connect with them and he still felt insecure deep down in spite of his looks and muscles. It's not your looks or money - it's who you're being and your personality as a man. Looks can help a little, sure, but they're far from the determining factor.