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Prof. FJ, I just wanna say: You put the wrong video card. It’s the smartest video, not the emotional 😅 Oh, thank you by the way. Have a beautiful Sunday!! 😊

I need this mug- Since I figured out I’m ISFP, Introverted Intuition is in my stack!

I for one like transporting beverages to my face. But being a minor I lack the ability to exchange US currency for such a mug. My sincerest apologies.

@@ethandominic-13 I have a 15 year old who has found lots of ways to do this. Some of them may even be legal!

It would have been really cool too to have MBTI lesson in school.

Including teaching about what a mug is

do we know what he actually works as??? or is that private info

@@uw4636 i THINK he said in an old video hes an accountant, if not then i probably read it somewhere

@@kgiselle19 oh thats weird i had a feeling it was something like that

thanks!

YES !!!

I vote for this.

Do all of them have loops? (@_@)

@@marxiewasalittlegirl Yes, all of them do..

@@aryanprakaash361 ooo

Me too 😂😂😂~ENFP

I would find this fun.

Literally the same ! I'm careless and adventurous, and also feel super hypochondriac cause a headache or a weird zit will make me think like I'm gonna die one second and then I realize I'm being dramatic and carry on the next

🤝

Same, but i just cry instead - INFP

Amen!

Yep😂😅

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA YES, I MUST ADMIT IT, YES HAHAHAHAHA

The news stress me out but feeling like I don't really know what's going on stresses me out, too 🙈😭😆

Ha, lol. *tears*

How do you "work" on your Fe

@@kertkoljada1891 If you're me, you do it by thinking about it and how to use it. Watching how other people do it is definitely part of this process. Then you practice, and keep practicing, until it almost feels natural (though still tiring.)

Please enlighten me

Same thing happened with me as well. I've been working on this for past couple years and now people do come find me when they're stressed and needs to calm down. -an ISTP

@@kertkoljada1891 For me the biggest help was fictional stories, it allows you to see things from different perspective and you can learn how different people handle and feel about different situations and I'll agree with @Ceilnih It's very exhausting

Every day is a brand new day for another existential crisis 🥳😱

@@malumachado4561 🥳🥳🥳

Never saw something more true

It's a funny thing, that coffee thing. Because I don't do that. In college, people would call me "the robot" for never eating or drinking during breaks. I want to rely on as less subtances as possible. I want myself to be trained and healthy like a mental samurai, I don't want myself to be on dope. You need to world-dominate for long a long time and smoothly, which implies doing it healthy. All this chemical stuff seems to 'confiscate' your strength. Like, 'I'll give it to you only if you drink my potion'. It's one of the most stressful things: becoming dependent. Dependent in the sensory world. Dependent on social success. Dependent on some 'results'.

@@Moussaka47 I'm not a coffee person too because I'm afraid to become dependent on it. I'm generally afraid to be dependent on things that I cannot be the one in charge and in control. When you let the sensory world do its thing, and you're just going for the ride . . . it will always be freaking bumpy, and I hate it.

😅

He’s so versatile and funny and ironic, his complex personality always keeps me guessing, his effortlessly beautiful looks get me every time! ( that’s probably why I can’t really concentrate on what he’s actually saying, I’ll watch again lol) He’s never boring and all of that makes me happy for no particular reason. God, I love this man!

Frank does have a job

@@louisejoel i think he's talking about his character in the video, not Frank in real life

His outfit in this particular video is just horrific but generally he gives off polished doctor vibes. Agreed.

Just reading this made me burnt out. That's too much planning.

I'm super curious - what kind of problem solving tests would you do? What if someone who doesn't usually problem solve in their day to day life becomes a strong problem solver during, say, a computerised test because they know they're doing a problem solving test? (also this sounds super interesting and as an ENFJ I'd actually work with you to make this happen lol 😂)

Same. - INTP.

I'm an INFP, and my husband is an ISTP, so this is helpful. Thanks.

Emotions are hard to understand, when I get stressed I become a pressure bomb of anger along with a glob of other built up emotions - istp

I'm intp and I'm very much the same. And it can be anything that stresses me out, really. Not all the time but if I haven't had a meltdown for a while I should know when ones coming and I really need some alone time to recuperate and recharge. Although, I guess it's not just anything that sets me off, but when I'm irritable and upset by anything then it's a sign that I need time to rest and be by myself

Yeah, pretty much the same

Nope, can't relate to it at all. Butttt, I understand.

I think enneagram type plays a role in how a type reacts to stress. I happen to have strong type 9 tendencies- I really want to maintain the peace. A type 4 INFP might experience stress differently.

Agree.

Yes that's exactly it (I'm 4w5 but relate a lot to 9 too)

I make people so mad. I write out a potential phone call. I can go by that script perfectly and the person on the phone wouldn't even know it.(Just call them and act natural, uggg) 😆😆😆But that's how I remember. Even if I don't have the little piece of paper I wrote it down on it...I will still remember... because ***I wrote it down.*** It goes directly to a file in my brain.

Infj here. Nice explanation. I can relate to being overwhelmed or distracted by Se at times. I do agree it is healthy to find balance between the "inner" and "outer" worlds. I enjoy music as well and hiking in Nature. These are my go to's for finding balance without being over stimulated. I can also relate to the house fire analogy Frank presented...lol. That's where Se is a useful function. Hey your house is on fire! Time to take action! Lol

I agree, I have discovered that I easily can get anxious about things when I'm by myself thinking too much. That's why I really appreciate school where I can use more of my sensing.

Fe is also easy enough to satisfy when you learn how to do it properly! The problem is learning how to do it properly 😅 it takes years and years (but you get there eventually)

That makes so much sense actually! I get so overwhelmed with my Te, but this past couple of days has me forced to use it exactly because I noticed I barely do! It's stresses me though, but I do feel good after everything!

@@mbtinerd8531 Yeah, the channel Love Who said that people like to exercise their inferior function, it's just that it needs to be done mildly/slowly/carefully. According to LW, if you can give someone a good experience using their inf function, they'll probably start to like you more. :)

Same. I become control freak and bossy

I'm sorry, this is like what I do all the time- doing what I want and not care about what people think (INFP). But when I'm mad, I feel like acting as INTP, I wanted to just spit out sarcastic logical reasons and not care how people feel.

@@katnipkatnips We're opposites then

@@ls_waifu2789 Interesting. I like the INTP humor though. I'm not knowledgeable about all things, but I kinda know the emotional touch points of people. I made an INTJ cry once. Well, not badly, I just know how are they feeling actually and can't help but 'help'. I guess you do you when people are wrong. That's good then leading people to right decisions when they are led by just what they feel.

@@katnipkatnips I guess I never know how people are feeling, but I can imagine what they are thinking about a situation... So sometimes I can help... But the most part of the time I just (with no intention) make sure they are complety aware of the level of "bad" the situation is, which makes everything worst! Plus i usually end up saying "it's not that big deal, stop complaining" 😅🤓😭

Yeah they could be really stressing! My dad has a strong Te and when I try to explain my feeling about something that I troubling me, he gets angry and says stuff like "ok what can you ACTUALLY do to solve this, stop complaining " and I get angry too xD Ps Yeah, he is right, I complain a lot but sometimes I just want to express my sadness and being listened xD

@@diana5616 He is a jerk. Parents needs to be suportive if he can't do that he is a failure.

@@cotocoyerakson8195 oh no... he IS supportive in his way. He is like "no no I am not good with feelings so I am gonna help you with the practical solutions of your problem" Sometimes he is a bit unsenstive but he always wants to help me

@@diana5616 I think I got it. I am an INFP too and I have a ISTP father. Sometimes thinkers can be rude but they have their momments isn't it? Sorry for that. Bad parents and unsensitive people just get me mad. Don't feel bad about complaining... everyone have bad days and life sucks sometimes

Please feel very hugged right now 💕

@@danika9411 tyyy u2

My mom sometimes make jokes that I might ended up staying calm and unbothered even when the house is on fire lol . Like I knew this was gonna happened so why I ended up here my might just lost in thought more😂

I thought it was the dominant one that supports the 3rd but I suppose when you get into a loop they are supporting each other

That's true I feel closer to my Ti then to Fe sometimes. Especially when i'm in the Ni-Ti loop.

lmao fellow ENFJ , relatable

Good point! I think something like that happened to me, this is why I am so confused about my type (and I am 27, i should know myself 😅)

I actually had this happen to me. I'm an INFP and it's complicated but during my highschool, I ended up trying to convince myself to 'reject' this weird part of me and try fit in and be like everyone else. I know it sounds like Fe, but it actually isn't since the whole time I never looked into others' feelings but always just zooming in to myself. Constantly asking questions like "is this the right thing todo?" or "am I living my life ok?" and at the back of my head, I was actually trying to convince myself to stop. But I wouldn't listen, I had actually conditioned my mind to reject my identity. Now, being bad at BOTH my Fi and Fe (yes, i sucked at using it), I literally just felt so empty, like I had no idea who I was anymore. The only respite was at home where I had no qualms just being myself. I also 'hated the world' and blamed social norms for my actions, when really, it was just me. I have a feeling other people can relate to this also, but this kind of act resulted in me feeling like I have not made any real connections at all, and at the same time pushing away those I could have had connections with just because they also didn't 'fit in'. I was a terrible toxic person not only to myself but also to my friends, no wonder every year, while everyone stayed with the same group, I always had a friend change. Ever since I discovered I was an INFP (after long thoughts of thinking I was an INFJ), I have started to accept myself. I'm so happy I'm not the only one who has some weird world in their head, or think similarly to me, I'm so happy that I belong in a community. Now, I'm trying to change for the better. Luckily, due to online, my friend in the last year of highschool still talks with me since we're also in the same college course. I used to not feel too much connection with her since she was one of those I befriended when trying to 'fit in' (I think she's an ESFP) but now, I'm starting to see that we actually accept each other and am starting to really appreciate that she still keeps talking with me, and until now, wants to meet me. I would have thought that was annoying before. I'm showing her and my other ESTJ friend sides of me that I would've never shown, and they all accepted it. I'm still developing now, idk how long that would last, but I'm still so glad I ended up in this community. ended up sharing my life's story all of a sudden :))) Just felt that I needed to share it somewhere (as long as I'm anon :)))

@@mbtinerd8531 i am really sorry for you. Maybe your friends still accept you because, even if you tried to hide yourself, maybe those aspects of you have always been visible to them. Smoothen, probably, but they exist. I mean, this is you. And btw you should not be afraid to be yourself (unless you are a sociopathic killer. In that case, NO🤣). If someone does not like you, it only means that you are not "compatible" and you are going to find someone else :) I can get the Fi covered with Fe. To me, it's like I am always kind and concerned about to not make others feel sorry. But I am always like "oh if someone did this to me, I d feel really bad so I won't do it!" But sometimes I do not realize that maybe that person does not give a shit about that and he/she so much more easy going than me . Still confused of I have Fe or Fi, actually

@@diana5616 Oh, and I also get that thing abt not wanting to cause trouble for others! I dont like feeling like Ive caught the other person hurt either. I think differentiate if u have Fe or Fi is more about how aware you are of the emotions of others or yourself. I think if u spend a lot of time thinking abt how you feel abt things, it's most likely Fi. But if you feel that you know how others feel more than yourself, then it's most likely Fe. Though, honestly I don't believe that if ur a specific type, you can ONLY use the ones in your stack. Like just cuz you're an INFP, you can't use Fe. MBTI is just a matter of preference and tendency. Depends on what you like using, it will take time to really know which one's your preference but you'll find out soon :)) Good luck on that part!

@Moon I miss the "natural ego" and "super ego" definitions :/ are they from Objective Personalities right?

How annoying. - ENTP

I'm on the boarder of intp and entp and I would 100% do that too

I once got a random pain and I was like "Well I'm dying". I'm an ENTP also.

This is how the grip presented in me as well. An eating disorder and social anxiety. For me, the only thing that helped and got me out of it was to identofy the stressor and remove it (in my case i ended my degree). And then I took a timeout for about 6 months to heal and spent a lot of time just by myself and with my thoughts, taking long walks, enjoying quiet and learning to be okay with the silence. I wish you all the best! Everyone's journey is different. Admitting that something's wrong is the first step. - lots of love, a fellow ENFP, one year out of the grip

You did wait, though. I saw a girl in junior high have one and knew instantly from the look on her face when it started. Then she went over.

@@richsackett3423 That's great... The quicker the better! I was attending school after 2 years and the guy wasnt facing me so I was kinda confused what's up

What job do you hate that made you use Te/Si

Yeah, we apparently enter the ‘Gordon Ramsay in the Hell’s Kitchen’ mode under profound stress. Rare but scary.

I feel you.

@@Chigger 🥲

"everyday trivial silliness" oh I feel you.... ~INTP

Entp more big xm i have to give more problematic is this...n scary thing is 50% time is its right

Our inner dialogue can be so loud. Maybe that's why we kind of need to zone out from time to time. Seem like other people don't think that way at all. But if it's some emotions involved I can't zone out. As INFJ...you pick up on other people's feelings so much you will forget about your keys or where you parked, etc. Anybody else done that?

@@charleslinley4288 Been there done that. Last night I was on the phone with my mom. She was upset and of course I was as well. I made myself some tee to calm down a little bit .... and I lost the cup. I found it in the bathroom 2 hours later and I don't even remember I was in there. Every time I leave my house I have to go through my check list: keys, lock the door, my purse, mobile phone. I have to remind myself to concentrate and to stay "on the ground".

Your comment made me laugh!!!

I've experienced it too, so I believe it as well. Maybe not everyone's susceptible to it. I'm enfp but during one 6 year long period iny my life, i became quiet, passive-aggressive, dissociated, obsessive (i developed anorexia), i also had social anxiety and never went out of the house, had periods of intense brainfog, amnesia almost. I removed the stressor (a degree that had me rely overly on Si and Te, besides other things) and ended my already badly damaged relationship. I overcame the eating disorder. And I've become a different person. I feel like I've finally woken up from a long, dreamless, dark sleep. I realised I had a lot of trauma to work through I used to run from and I finally sat down and did some work. It was hard but it needed to be addressed. It felt like a frickin psychosis. I used to test as infp before but I think I was mistyped because of my trauma triggered social anxiety. I've really done a 180 and I'm a lot more comfortable in myself and I feel a lot more "real" ... There's still a way to go. But yes, the grip is scary.

​@@mandarinadreux9572 amnésia é trauma, Tambem passei por isso.