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It feels like they have a vacuum on my soul to suck my energy.

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I did exit - with peace wishing the person well. I was sued right after. They’re vampiric even from the distance sometimes.

@@TheMarilynme I'm truly sorry to see this comment. I hope you are recovering from the evil you experienced. You did nothing wrong and as always, they lost a good person. 🙏

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LOL. Funny riddle. But sadly, I saw that take place. They are sick & slick.

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Thank you so very much for your support. It means more than you will ever know. Because loneliness has cut deep in my soul. The realization knowing I was so ignorant and so very trusting not to mention forgiving thinking well maybe they had a bad childhood, or maybe they didn't mean it . I have always loved people and really don't like to see bad in any person. I am idealistic , or many project my own thoughts and feelings on how I hoped they would be.. Thank you all so much for your love and support. Means a lot it can get lonely this journey and overwhelming. Thank you Andrew your sincerity shines through when you speak . I am very sorry you had to suffer , but you are helping so many of us who are suffering,or were once suffering. It does a job on your soul knowing people who are so uncaring and sick . 🙏🌻❤️

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The Narc is an Exemplary Chess player. They designate, and dictate, as well as, initiate Your Role; within Their Lives.' it's time to awaken.

​​@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAloneAnother Great Video, but Andrew, My Mushroom 🍄, and Especially Grandmother, Gloria, can attest, Many women will not pity a lot of these women. I don't give a shyt if Empath, They must take accountability. My Ex-Frances (Mushroom) 🍄, if hit by any man, would've left. Many Women will stay, and continue to be verbally, physically, and mentally abused, because of money. My Grandmother, literally ate out of the garbage, alongside Her children, just to avoid such abuses. 🗑️ Make a video about, "Accountability!!!"

Ok, We're reaping the rewards, this now, after such a very long hiatus, Maybe God works in very mysterious ways.

​@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAloneAre You part Native American Indian, Andrew?!! 😮

I've been working through the gospels..will be onto psalms soon..God bless you

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That s the last thing they take on the way out. Your hope to ever find love again.

They take away your joy to love.

Same. I feel better off by myself. I will never go thru anything like that again.

Everyone has to do what makes them happy. But i wanted to add something positive. After being with a narcissist, i can spot it a mile away and i have rock solid boundaries, now. It was about 2 years later that i met my current boyfriend. And he is a prince. It took me close to a year to stop being confused about why he was so giving and understanding and…normal. Just know that there are good guys out there.

I can resonate with that!

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What is there not to understand? They are basically walking human demons with no soul!

Their brains are wired differently, unfortunately.

*Because they are not human!* I see them! They are extra-terrestrial beings!

It’s really shocking they can be so evil! And they were that evil all along, we just didn’t see it.

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That sounds like my ex-narc. They're all the same; not worth a smidgen of thought or energy.

"lies of omission"-- came packaged with the Narc I knew ( but never really 'knew'). It can drive you flippin' insane!

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It’s the Love Bombing at the beginning that hooked me.

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Got me too. I was love bombed and he moved so quickly! I was so caught up in the fairy tale👌. So glad that it was only four months. The discard was the best, he had to offer. Yep he wanted what I had✔✔✔. Thank God he is gone and I am healing🌠🌠🌠. What a shocker🙃. But God, he is keeping ME🎯.

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❤Hang in there. This is for the strong and resilient. Very very hard. Dont give up. Place your mind on God and the things of God.

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Same situation. I filed last September and it’s been a complete nightmare. The constant lying, parental alienation, games and abuse. I stayed for 25 years I met him when I was 16. I can’t even begin to describe the painful things he put me through and how many times I tried to leave but felt stuck. Last February when I was terrorized while I was sleeping was it for me. I work 60 hours a week. He hasn’t worked in 10 plus years and always wanted to control the money and he did for a long time. I don’t think he ever thought I would do this. Now he is in complete denial of what’s coming. He’s living in my house that I have to continue to pay the mortgage on while he refuses to get a job and is having my wages garnished. Next Monday is finally the divorce conference and I have been waiting for this day for the last 10 months. I’m sad, scared, and angry that he put us in this place. He is the poster child for the man who had everything (housing, I paid for all the bills, a family) and he couldn’t even be a decent human being. I wasn’t asking for much, just respect and love from someone that I wholeheartedly loved very much and his rage fits, verbal abuse in front of my son got to the point that for my safety especially, I finally found the courage to file. He’s in complete denial about the house going up for sale because he has no plan about how he’s going to support himself financially. He has no education, no job, he’s going to lose my health insurance and the money train is stopping in a few weeks. He hasn’t felt it yet but he will and it will suck for him. When I start to feel sad, I just remember all of the horrible memories of what he’s done to me over the years and it makes me keep going. I’ve given so much of my life to someone who in the end, I learned never truly loved and appreciated me he was just using me. I never realized just how demonic he was until the fog lifted and I reflected back on what he had done and was doing over the years. As a mother, I couldn’t allow him to continue to see the verbal abuse anymore. My son deserves better and I will not continue to subject him to constant belittling and devaluing of his mother. I will never forgive myself if he grows up to turn out just like his father and he will if I stay. I thank god every day that I have a career and an education to where I can support myself. I know so many people who stay because financially they can’t do it on their own or down have an education and it’s a shitty place to be. He almost took my soul but I stopped him right before he was about to. I’ve tried everything from multiple counseling sessions, multiple separation and moving constantly, and I thought buying this house and giving him a beautiful life would fix him and in the end I discovered thanks to Andrew what narcissism is and I had my lightbulb moment. I was constantly changing who I was because everything was my fault and I was the one that had to keep trying to make my self better in order for this marriage to work even though intuitively I knew it wasn’t me. I don’t know how he puts his head on his pillow at night knowing the end is near and all he will lose yet he is more arrogant than ever. I don’t wish him any suffering and I’m not looking for redemption from him because I know now he is incapable of taking accountability for all the pain and sorrow he’s caused. He’s had so many chances and even when he had it all, he got worse. My focus going forward is to reclaim myself and who I am because I was constantly working for him and changing for him. And my other focus is my son and showing him that life is precious and to respect others and be kind. Thankfully my son has my personality and it’s not too late. I will pray for you to find the strength to see your divorce through because they will fight you on everything possible to delay but mine can’t delay anymore his time is almost up.

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Please DO NOT blame yourself for trusting people that turned out to be insincere. It is NEVER your fault when people take advantage of your kind, open heart. This is NOT your fault. We live and learn, and you most certainly have learned from trusting the wrong people. I wish you peace and blessings. 🙏🙏🙏

Give yourself grace and realize that you were in survival mode-I was the same way, and then menopause and a spiritual awakening changed all of it-I wish a mother would, but evil knows better at this point-you'll make it out alive, I promise.

It's not about what you knew, it's about what you needed. You were trying to get your needs met. No matter how much we know, until we build ourselves up, and find healthy ways to live, we will be targets.

Thank you all so much for your replies. Gives me a different perspective that I couldn’t see on my own, and I appreciate the support.

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I would also like to add my physical health turnabout...my hair is thicker, my migraines are gone, no more accupture, my skin cleared, I can take a full breathe and not have a coughing fit.

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It is good to hear from Andrew daily. It's like a daily reality check.

Thank you Andrew for all you do and for slowing down on your talk. It's hard to process when you talk fast. It was mentioned in a comment from a lady using c.c. so I'm also happy you communicate with your tribe.🌻 You are so helpful and caring to your group. Love from the beautiful state of Ohio.🌿♥️

My Lord... I'm so sorry. I'm glad that you are in a space where you can begin to heal.

So Sorry. We are out here and we care. God Bless

I was in shock over the story. Horrible to have to carry that lie by your parents along with that terrible memory of the youngest. I'm glad things worked out in your life! Real Glad!

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​​@@user-fe1pg5cf5uGlom is a word I haven't heard anyone else BUT the narc use , EVER. Thanks for the confirmation.

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Unfortunately, the fog of manipulation will do that. The slightest contact with him in any way, be patient but alert if he sounds unhappy. Tell him the "door is always open for him." The best thing would be to connect him to this channel, but would be too precarious. If his partner found out, she may tighten the leash. Loving patience and Hope is your best bet. All the Best.

@@jhavajoe3792 thank you for your words. I’m at the point I feel done, it’s what gets me through it. It’s just pure sadness. Thank you 🙏

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Most are not Christian or empathetic empaths and Christians are very rare in todays world

​​@@hannastrack4310 I got to see the "real" him (or at least, the mask). Lieing and gaslighting to justify things I called him on, etc .... THOSE things not godly!! When he wanted to delude/impress me or others with this facade, he would trot out the Bible verses, send me things he said he had been reading, claimed he was praying for A or B. If it was real, that's fine. If it was fake/phony, as all about them is, that's very low and DEMONIC!

@@user-yy9be9mi6n Deceitful intentions are demonic energies that are self-serving every evil thing is present

Always follow your intuition ,if something doesn't feel right it genuinely isn't leave well alone Your Intuition is your superpower

Mine was diagnosed with BPD, ADHD, bipolar, and after learning all that Andrew has taught me, I think she was also suffering from NPD- Narcissistic Personality Disorder. What a nightmare. I missed her for 15 years, and recently reconnected. She was worse than ever. She totally killed any feelings I had for her this time. Thank God she told me to learn about what she had, so that I was able to deal with someone with her conditions. That began my learning. I joined a Quora group, and I was recommended articles constantly. I was shortly thereafter totally turned off to her. And then I found Andrew. In less than 3 months she conned an additional $2,000 out of me, all the while acting like I did nothing for her. Rage fit constantly, screaming at me like I was dirt. I will NEVER allow myself to be treated like this EVER again! 007

@007stopjockin at least you have recovered and can see the signs. Turn that into strength and purpose. Think of that lost money as an investment in your future that you can learn from and never make the same mistakes again. Your ex is stuck there. Forever. Live, grow, recover, heal, become indifferent, grow yourself, challenge yourself,, pray and give thanks every day for your life, you are free of them!

@@sorearm Hi. Thank you. Definitely was a learning experience. And I NEVER let a woman treat me like this my whole life. She was the ONLY one who ever did this to me. She was my kryptonite for sure. 007

@@007stopjockin we live and learn 🙏

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@@jhavajoe3792 That is horrible.....good you never went back.

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You can find emotional support on this channel. As for no income , be creative , start walking dogs or housecleaning , are a few examples that can be started with minimal costs. ( I AM sure others can expand on this list. 😉 )

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God help me how I hate my husband!

@@MsBrooklyn62 : I understand your anger. It's NOT easy to KNOW that your entire relationship was built on lies and deceit. However, I strongly urge you to turn that anger into self-love. Instead of giving your husband ANY of your negative emotions, create an exit plan to get him out of your life, follow it, and remove him from your life entirely. In other words, BLOCK HIM AND NEVER COMMUNICATE WITH HIM AGAIN. When you let go the anger, you will open yourself to love, joy, peace, and light. I wish you love, peace, happiness, and many blessings. You got this. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

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Lol can't tell you how many times the ex narc wife said this as well!!! Drove me nuts and pissed me off!!! I'm also done waiting for the answers because I know they will never come 😂

They are players. It is all a act.

Bravo. Life turned for me when I stopped all booze. 10,000 less bad decisions without it. More clarity is like sunlight dripping on you like honey.👍

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Not Stepford Wife material I see! 👍👍👍

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@Jhavajoe3792 Ha,Ha,Ha.....I traded in my programming, I'm all that & more baby!!! Lol 👍☕

I'm on the same path right now. Good for you! ANYONE here can do THIS!

@mariefrancebourget1749 Most probably because I lived to many years under their thumb & when I became aware of exactly what I was dealing with...the jig was up BIG TIME! ❤💥

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I believe we are MEANT to hear to ask for clarification of what was said, only to be denied clarification. 😖😖😖🙄

Oh you did 33 years too? Unbelievable isn't it?

July forth is when I met my narc..

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@@ESSIEMARIE1998 ohhh myyyy…that is the best I’ve ever heard this. Thank you for sharing. Explains a few things that have been unexplainable. Hope you’re doing good❤️🙏

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" ... toxics want the empathy and then want to destroy the empath." That was something I had to learn ( the hard way ) to protect the empathy and compassion within myself--the "Priority."If you let these numbskull Narcs pull a con job on you, the aftermath will be a pile of energy wasted and expended on dealing with processing anger, a loss of faith in people and ... there's less energy for using your empathy to help others when it's really needed, i.e.," "The wounded have a harder time dragging another wounded person to safety." More and more, when properly doled out, Empathy seems to me like the most beautiful thing a person can offer.

@@jhavajoe3792 numbskull narcs triggered a laugh nerve 😂 What on earth would we have done without Andrew’s gift of this community? Andrew if you read this, thank you again. And to Joe and Martha- you two are full of so much wisdom 🙏✨🙏

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Well defined. Hard lesson. Almost deadly. I pray for guidance and protection and peace. 🕊️🫶🏻☀️

Enjoy the peace and your new life!

Yes, the key to not responding to yet another hoover (which I have done WAY too many times with narcissistic relatives who have no qualms about sucking me dry and leaving my kids with nothing if I let them) is to know, understand, and believe that they will never change. It allowed me to let go and get off the Un-Merry-Go-Round of devaluation-lovebombing-devaluation. Ugh! No more vomitous carnival rides! No contact was my solution.