🎀💕✨HI ANDREW! YOU ARE A GOD given Blessing! THANK you so so much for this video!!!🎀💕💕✨✨

Yes,they are demons in a human body

The second they start making excuses you know they are cheating.

I don’t think the narc is capable of realizing how great we were. They can’t compute.

Narcissist live in fantasy🌏they create an alternate reality. That's repeat cycle is insanity. I been silence mode lately. Thank you for exposing those coward clowns 💯👏❤️

Others outside the family are more important for them.

Hello Andrew and Everyone! Stay Happy, Blessed, and Narc-Free!

When I found my ex-narc’s secret Tinder profile, he looked like a different person, and the description included hobbies and interests that I hadn’t heard him mention before. They can create a new mask just like that. They have no center, just a bottomless pit of envy, greed, dissatisfaction, and a constant need for shiny new objects.

You dont know what you got until its gone!!

I surprised myself the other day. I am a retired professor so I worked with a lot narcissists who have lost their supply because of becoming widowed (2), divorced (1) or lack of fawning students. I used to be prime supply. Something Dr. Ramani said the other day really hit home. She described the narcissistic mind as a paranoid storm. I immediately envisioned a sphere filled with thunder, lighting, high winds and rain. The other day I passed a retired professor I think was looking for supply. My immediate thought was "Do not pull me into your storm" and just kept walking. You made your bed now lie in it.

The Narcissist does not and will never reflect, ever - not the true version of reality anyway. They must disassociate themselves from the truth, by believing, wholeheartedly. their own lies. You are not any more special than the next person to them, don't for a second think they valued or miss you at all, they don't.

The only thing the narcissist is doing is monitoring me 24/7. That is truly sad and pathetic.

DO.NOT.ACCEPT.THE.HOOVER It really does set you back to square one. Lessons learned. Great video, fellow empath.

I am so glad that I don't have the narcissist in my life.🎉❤🎉😊

By being on this channel I finally feel like I wasn't crazy. I'm not crazy. I was with a crazy narcissist who just about took me down for the count. Andrew you make me realize that I really am a beautiful bright shining light and it feels so good. I've been free for 3 years and still need to listen to you so I can continue on the healing path. God bless you and all the people in this community

Let us live for the beauty of our own reality, which is our LIVES completely Narc-Free! ❤♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

I hope you're right Andrew. He seems to be in seventh heaven with the new supply, whom he knew before me. During the discard, I was told that he wasn't sorry for me (finding out he'd cheated), that my cooking was lousy and that I was the worst lover he'd ever had. To this I replied "It took you 39 years to come to that conclusion!". What a fool.

So true!!! That’s why I am in the middle of a divorce. Married and with him for 25 years. No contact works.

“You don’t want to be anywhere near the narcissist if their cell phone dies” 🎯🎯🎯😂

Us Empaths Rule!!!

Their Abuse woke us up to Who We Really Are! Greatness! No going back,

I still find it hard to believe that someones mind could work like that. When you know how their mind works, the narcissist in your head starts to shrink and you realise they are the antithesis of how they present themselves superficially.

I spent 6 months dating a single mother narc. Her own son told me 'she has demons' and he knew she had an alcohol problem. I thought alcohol was her only problem until I realized she fits the narc description and does every indicator that she is one to a T. Never allowed to have fun, always negative input, her way or the highway, I bought the wrong flowers, didn't pull the right weeds, the food wasn't perfect and the waitress was not polite enough. It never ended. Goal posts moving. I broke my ass and finances for her and her kids, and got nothing much for my efforts, just punishment for not doing enough. She walked in front of me in public, I never knew that was their thing until I researched a bit. I like my life, but I still think about her, and struggle to grasp how it was not real love that I felt for someone so hollow who obviously got off on treating me like crap. Serenity is mine!

Something I didn’t expect in this entire experience was the reflection on my history with others throughout my life. Seeing how I had been ‘trained’ throughout my life to be drawn to narcissistic abuse. I’m still processing all this newfound wisdom, but it really has already changed me in substantial ways. God is so good!

my Narc Husband has been in Hospital a month, not eating but about 5 bites full, can barely talk, outlook not good. I didnt visit him the weekend, our grown kids one out of state have not been to visit him. He has lots of health issues and lays there sleeping and/or thinking. He had the perfect life he did what he wanted when he wanted how he wanted and if he didnt want to do anything he didnt but he continued his Narc activities.

When reality hits they become severely vicious... not able to accept defeat or loss.They may experience narcissistic injury causing them to spiral into deeper delusions. Once new supply appears...it's game on once again & again, it's all they know! Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘

This is happening to me right now.. in real time. Thank you Andrew 😊

9:20 the loop of lies and manipulations-the high narc. trait person said every one of those. Plus, "I'm sorry you see it that way." Brilliant, Andrew! "They're trapped in their tiny little pea brain." 😆"A petulant child in an adult body; they will never be accountable, change or grow." "yeah, you did, because that's what you do." 🤣😆 Keep bringing the hard truth! We need it.

Pushing 200 Thousand subscribers! ... and I'm not surprised! In my entire life, I've never had one person say: "You've saved my Life!" Andrew has dozens of those comments. That is the meaning of a true success! No one can ever take that away. Thank You, Andrew! Namaste🙏

Thank you and God bless you for all you do Andrew.

I got a call one night from the narc just like this. I knew something was really wrong when he asked how I was. He then told me his life was terrible. I was shocked. The mask slipped. He was honest for one moment, and it wasn't pretty. He married for 20 years, got money, career, everything and couldn't stand his life and called me. Sad for him. Fortunate to have left decades before. Thanks, Andrew.

Applause for truth you can hear it in the the leaves!!!!!

Great message! So much deflection during the relationship. He is not facing the reality of divorce papers..it’s exhausting having had done everything while in the relationship and now having to do everything to end it… Have a great evening!

Holy moly Andrew you’re at 199K! This is such evidence right here of the bright shining light that has overcome and has shown so many of us the way out. ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨ That’s one life making millions better. An inspiration and we are better for it. 🙏thank you Andrew. Great message ❤ 🌳

The narc I experienced would take the reality of a situation he didn’t like and rewrite the script into his bunch of lies that made him look better or worked for him in a different way and totally believe that as what really happened. His daughter separately confronted him on doing this, as had I. So I’m not positive he would think I was the one who got away. I totally believe he did not know what he had in me, and from what I’ve seen I don’t think he could do any better. Frankly, I don’t care what he thinks and I don’t want to know what he thinks. I am in the process of trying to remove any thought or memory of him from my mind 🚫 Total Narcectomy 🚫

When I went to hospital needing 2 blood transfusions, he was mia for 2 weeks. I had chronic illnesses by now, after 6 years of the cycle of abuse. I needed to leave, but found I could'nt. It felt like dying, trapped in a web with cptsd, and emotional disregulation. Within the year, every crumb was removed- I was casually discarded. It's been a long journey which continues. I'm grateful to be free🙏 and for this community of support- and for answered prayers.❤️‍🔥 **Never break no contact.** ❤️‍🔥

Im watching this...by myself....and realise Im knodding my head....in agreement that yes, Mr PeaBrain does spend his sad life juggling strangers online in isolation of eachother, monitoring who is getting too knowledgeable....who's getting smart, attending to multiple apps and sites.....using after work time to meet up with strangers and all the while thinking nobody knows he is still doing it all.

Thankyou Andrew for sharing, yes I am a person that when I love I love with all my heart but when getn used & abused by evil pathetic human being that's when it's time to walk away & close that chapter of my life. When that reality kicks in I hope he realises his lost a wonderful amazing woman.

True. Reality hits hard and it’s the same for everyone. The narcissist does a nasty number on others but primarily on themselves. It’s destructive pattern of behaviour and it’s also self destructive. Narcisists are blind arrogant fools stuck in their alternate reality of pride and omnipotence. They have made idols of themselves.

My narc tried to wear a new mask and it fell off so quickly ….its almost like they can’t hide their true selves for too long lol

I love your content man. It gives me hope! I'm living the biblical story of Job and to boot my significant other tried to destroy me! I'll get back up on my feet God as my witness and I'll walk again and even run!

By far the worst (and most clueless) narcissists are the ones in your own family. They spend their time wrecking the lives of people and aren’t even cognizant of what they’ve done. I remember one time, while walking past my father. We weren’t speaking to each other over two years, due to his narc BS. He walks past me and says, “Hey… are YOU still angry with me?”. I thought “what a narcissist thing to say- he just figured this out now?” and didn’t even reply, as I didn’t feel like hearing his BS. This was HIS doing, not mine.

when the sh..hits the fan game over

For 30 years I made excuses for my narc husband’s strange behavior. Finally figured out what he is about 6 months ago. I’ve forgiven myself for not being aware when I was younger, and I’m now making plans for my life. Your videos are helping me put into words what I’ve experienced. Pray for me as I make my exit plan. It won’t be easy 🙏

Always Nice to hear you Andy…. Can’t never thank you enough my Brother ❤

Love your hair, Andrew! I really look forward to your daily videos. Thank you for doing them! 🫶

Hi Andrew and Everyone. I'm not doing well as all. After 2 plus years, I let myself get sucked back in with the sibling narcissist. I can't sleep well. I'm hurt and very sad. The narcsib is taking it out on other family members. Because the narcsib haven't spoke to one another for a week. I've got to get myself under control. Having a hard time. I slipped and in that moment the narcsib got me real good. I feel like I'm back to square one. Everything you said is this video Andrew is true. Everything. Thank you for being so truthful. Hit me like a brick. The brick I needed to get hit with. My wakeup call. I need to heal up fast. I can't go through this again. But, I'm going to block the narcsib. The choice is clear. Fellow community family, I'm asking for prayers. And I want to personally thank each and everyone of you for sharing your stories as well. Thank you Andrew and Everyone 🇺🇲 🙏

Thank you Andrew for another great video ❤ your the best

Thank you Andrew

Andrew, you are truthfully amazing! I’ve listened to you for so long. Again, I never get tired. What you're saying is spot on. You are reaching every single vibe in me. Thank you and I am forever grateful to you.

I've been healing and it's an on going process. The narc is out there doing what they have always done- sex parties, numerous sexual conquests and drinking alcohol living their life to the full. Karma is a bitch and I really am a great believer of karma

You’re so good. Thanks for another week of beautiful flowers, words of wisdom and great videos. You’re up to 199K subscribers! Enjoy the rest of your weekend and have a good week.

They do apologize. They can word them perfectly.

Great message Andrew thank you for sharing.🐛🦋🐛🦋

Since i started watching your videos i have learnt alot, this way i gained knowledge on how to free myself from narcissistic abuse, and I'm almost through trauma bond, thank you and God bless you.

Wise words. I started to build a picture of him during the time we were together through the disturbing things he shared. His reality was distorted way beyond anything I could truly understand. All I can say is he was the most destructive individual that I have ever known and he will continue to decimate the life of others until he physically can't because of his alcohol addiction. I have a fulfilling life to live now doing what I love......he has no place in that and never did....healing 💜🌟

Thanks Andrew! Great info! Love the background!✨️🙌

Mine apologized so WELL. It was mind blowing that’s why I was so confused

You've got troubles, you've got worries, you've got wounds to bind....when I woke up this morning.

Your content has been truly instrumental and getting me through!

Always good to get a refresher and it does help

You are sooo funny! So on point! I just got a new animal. New kitty rescued from a hoarder situation!!! All my energy and focus is on her. Humans suck. Pets give unconditional love. Narcs will never change.

Love you andrew your knowledge and GOD SAVED MY LIFE

GOOD Monday morning Andrew🌿🌿🌿💯🇫🇷🌱🌱🌿You are the TRUTH Andrew!! Thank you for your Clarity of these Narc/ Vampiers!! We are Bright SHINING LIGHTS🤗🤗🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟THE light over powers their Darkness!! God Bless you too,, Andrew,🤗🌟💯🙏

Best video on narcissists I've ever seen. Literally hit every head on every single nail. God bless you. Namaste.

I exposed my own Mother and sister and all hell broke loose and totally gaslight and destroyed my reputation God Bless

All praise is do to Allmighty God

Thank you so much for the knowledge you provide..I’m so grateful to have received this information 30 years of a whirlwind nightmare..im healing slowly

Thank you for this reminder...i was beginming to sucumb to defeat.

My prayer for our community is that when we put our head on the pillow each night , may we recall to oneself that we gave our best . You gave all you had to the relationship because you loved.❤❤❤ Again, thank you, Andrew!

Excellent. 👍❤️🙏👍

I am on the healing path. What I would love to hear from anyone else.. how do you ever get over the feeling of regret and embarrassment that I could be so stupid and gullible to accept the Hoover? It changed my life forever. Any advice how I can forgive myself is greatly appreciated. ❤

thanks andrew love the background😊🥹

Your comment Andrew about the narcissist copying and pasting the same text and sending it to a group of people really hit home. I found out by chance that my narcissist has been doing this when I spoke to a friend and he told me about a text he had received from her. He read it out to me and it was EXACTLY the same one I had received. You are so intuitive Andrew and I thank you every day for confirming that I am not crazy; she just tried to make me feel like I was. ❤

Andrew, I'm nearly 5 years free and I still watch your brilliant videos because it's a back up of everything I feel, have felt, have seen, now see and have gone from what the hell to ah now I understand! Thank you so much for your continued love and wisdom. You have touched so many people far and wide and we all owe you a hug! That's a lot of hugs! Looking forward to the next one and thank you again ❤

Thank you Andrew! I am in the ending of a toxic (narc) relationship. Feels good when you hear others have been through the same and come out on top. Thank you again, namaste.

My life has not been the best and I've missed much, yet I've still found beauty and contentment in meaning and in smaller things. "Predators" have taken it upon themselves to rewrite my past and tell me what I should regret or what I should appreciate. Mindless busy-bodying that would drive anyone crazy...

Thx Andrew, you are a bright shining light! I keep on walking with Jesus aka with love. The narcs walk in the dark of the nothingness, blinded by the fake light of money, fame and the power of control! I which everybody will see the light of love and will feel the warmth of the embrace of this loving energy. ❤

Did anyone have a moment of clarity where you were looking at things from the outside? The realisation of what you went through raises a new set of emotions of shock, disappointment, shame.

You are glowing Andrew like the bright shining light that you are. Thank you for your courage, your truth and your lived experiences. I am truly grateful for the learnings and relatable content. Healing, recognition, clarity from this relived trauma over and over again has helped me break this cycle of abuse more so than just severing people for my own sanity, peace and quiet. What felt innate helped me explore my own attachment style and how I act, react to certain situations and people. I have a lot of childhood wounds which relates to the trauma bonds that I have. I have a lot of love to give. I am love and have become love, but I have learnt that I can’t share that joy with everyone. Namaste ❤

Thank you, Andrew for those beautiful words😊⚘️

Great gems Andrew. Reality comes to us ALL🎯 They face it differently😮🤯😫🧐🤔🙃. BUT they will eventually REAP what they have Sowed❗💯. KARMA rules✅✅✅.

I know my narc cousin is going to be so sorry after I tell him he has to move out. I’m still getting my brain ready to do it, which will be soon. He had it super made in a nice big house with a yard for his dog and my late husband’s big shop for his hobby. He blew it! Again!!! We are 71. He will never have what he had with me. You describe him exactly!

"Because that's what you do" Thank you, Andrew!

Thanks Andrew for your encouraging words of wisdom. Persevering in Prayers Psalms 1-150🙏🙏🙏🇯🇲🇯🇲🤲🤲🤲

Wow, wow, wow, shoo BEST podcast I've heard on narcissism, really, thank you. I am at the stage of educating myself + understanding, after 20 years, why, however hard I tried, prayed, read up, my marriage remained a rollercoaster, an empty loveless prison - starting to take steps, baby steps, but God I really hope to free myself soon.

Hey Andrew 👋 You always express that you love us all at the end of your videos and I believe you. That’s why I’d like to say that I love you as well. As a female at the age of 55 I can honestly say that the narcissistic situation I’ve been through has been the most painful and difficult thing I’ve ever experienced in my life. Life changing. I thought I’d die so many times, and it was like a death. I loved this person so wholeheartedly I’d do anything for him to my own detriment. But as bad as it’s been I’m so grateful to begin to truely understand that yes I am a beautiful bright shining light. I always have been and always will be. For a period of time it was taken from me and it changed me in ways I don’t fully understand, (yes I guess it was the narcissistic fog) but the narcissistic abuse truely took its hold on me. I’ve been learning that this is the biggest lesson I’ve ever had to learn, and as painful as it’s been I’m truely grateful that I’m not a narcissist. When you explained the narcs thought processes about what they are thinking about and how they constantly need to do things to people to keep surviving I thought how exhausting and awful it must be to keep up with so many lies and so much deceit, planning, fakeness, traitorous, betrayal and back stabbing. What they do to our emotional, mental, physical, financial state is so horrific but at least I’m at peace with the fact that I was kind and giving and compassionate, and I will never ever be like the narc that takes takes takes quite happily and utterly destroying lives with no remorse and zero accountability for what they’ve done. I think for us as empaths it could never even cross our minds to think that way, to manipulate and control and destroy anyone or anything for their own gain and think it’s ok. I’ve been out and free for 15months and I’ve not fully healed yet and I don’t know if I ever will fully or want to fully heal because I don’t ever want to forget what was done so it never happens again. Day by day I’m slowly feeling better about myself and thanks to people like you I’ve learnt so much. I hope that makes sense. What a thing to go through but I am strangely beginning to accept and understand that for me it’s been the biggest experience to learn to love and protect my precious, pure, loving and giving heart. We are special but a scripture comes to mind about “not casting pearls before swines” to be vigilant in knowing that not everyone has our best interests at heart but we should…and really remember to use our gift of discernment to keep ourselves safe from wolves in sheep’s clothing. I hope we all continue to learn to love ourselves with compassion and gratitude for who we are x I want this for all of us. Love you Andrew and thanks for your everyday efforts with teaching us and for validating us. I know you do it with love and I know you have walked the path xo

If you accept the hoover, I promise you, you will suffer ten times worse. It gets really messy the second time around. Go no contact. I wish I had this advice years ago. Great message thank you.

Every time you say this 5:50 and this 19:17 😭😭. I can’t stop crying. Thank you, Andrew! 🙏🏾 🌺

They hate me.....I am a loud...truth teller and expose them immediately......my discernment is POWERFUL.....

Good afternoon Andrew, Where you live looks beautiful. I appreciate your videos. And you help. I do find it hard to cope as the power imbalance resulted in tragedy

I always go back to your videos Andrew to remind myself what my situation is. Currently had to deal with 2 narcs, one overt the other covert. I now see the pattern and how they operate. Boundaries up. You are indeed a wise Warrior and your light shines through. God bless you!

Amen to this video. I went through my divorce in 2021 but I fought and fought got 50/50 for my kids and my daughter called me up Tuesday and told me she wanted to leave her mother now she realized she was brainwashed. Thank God her eyes opened at 14 and didn't take till 18 or older

All of that is classic discard language..he or she cannot take the blame..they are telling those same lies to your group of friends..my ex narc husband tried that and my true friends laughed in his face..he told them I didn't cook or clean or take care of him..instead of saying he was a cheating lying POS..

Do they know they are lieing? Do they know you are truthful and they are the one's changing facts?

Wow! great video! That is exactly what I needed to hear today! What a precious brother and torch bearer you are! You are lighting the way for those of us coming out of the darkness of abuse trying to figure out what happened. Thank you so much for this insightful content. Blessings of peace to you! ❤

Think about that for a minute. Lol😂. Then they throw you out like a sheet of paper on the freeway. lol I’m happy that I’m moving into a happier space. More than a year and a half later but we all heal in our own time. Thank you for helping with the tools and the affirmations.

I love how you do your face! I try to do that now and remember you everyday. Thanks Andrew

Hey Andrew, here's an update: my x husband (the ultimate narcissist) has one hell of a police record----after taking him to court for attacking out 9 yr old son (at the time) was convicted of spousal abuse and domestic violence, now has 3 dui's on his record, is now 69 yrs old, bald and a multitude of wrinkles (the picture of Dorian Grey comes to mind) is having difficulty finding another overseas job and seems he's living out of an RV on a one acre lot and the women don't find him cute or charming anymore. Seems that it really sucks to be him. I'm having a great life in SC.

Andrew you are like the energency room. Block Decline the hoover.