No one wants a relationship built on lies !. Definitely not I .

Any girl asks for money...run.

Good advice Miss Jo Moon. Western men need to be careful with online love. If the girl readily asks for money that is a red flag. If she asks for money often that is a red flag. My wife is Filipina Chinese and she never asked for money but when I went to visit her and I saw things in her house that she needed I bought them. She didn’t have to ask. Sometimes she might hint about things and I would usually buy them. If she need help with a plane ticket to visit me I would help. Just be careful if the girl is constantly milking you for cash. Gold diggers are in every country.

Many many many such woman asking for financial support. Too much drama. Gold diggers or Scammers

As the old Beatle's song says "Can't buy me love" ! No. No. No....... Can't buy me love !

Yes a girl friend of about 3 weeks asked for money and got pissed when I said no. Never talked to her again.funny how pissed she got.

You are becoming one of my favorites!! You informed views are well received by myself. I also enjoyed the travel videos from China

Jo you're a real one. Love the wide perspective you bring on topics, how balance out reality with your own views and also ask for feedback as you acknowledge you could have missed something. Looking forward to all your videos from now on.

Free ATM ? It is a wonderful word. thank you

I loaned the same Chinese woman money on several occasions $2000 was the most. First time was a lockdown and she was struggling. She always paid it back. A couple of times she gave me more than I loaned her. She said thats for putting your trust in me.

Common sense wouldn't go astray. Every case is individual and subjective.

glad you made it back in one piece, your family must miss you as much as you miss them. meanwhile, very good relationship advice. Mostly what you say should be common sense but men tend to lose that when they think they are in love. a lot of what you said really applies to long-distance relationships. so many pitfalls in those relationships come about because of a lack of really knowing each other. anyway, keep up the vlogs, i really enjoy them.

Welcome back Jo.

Great job again. I enjoy your videos. I know you’re very sad for leaving your family. I understand. Keep doing the good work on KZfaq.

Your common sense cracks me up. Just adorable to hear your opinions. Stay well.

Nice job Jo

谢谢 … enjoyed it again! I’m learning a lot from u

Very nice advice

Well you were being a material girl to complain about receiving a nice gift. - "I don't like silver!" 🏅😆

Love your video's Joe. Humorous. When you say the word "sometimes" it sounds like someone from the American Southern States.

Appreciated watching you and hearing your comments, its good to learn about other culture in woman man relationship vs money. Thanks again

ive talked to many asian women online in the past, mostly filipina, just a few chinese. Honestly Ive never had a chinese ask for money. The filipinas that are a scammer will always have problems that only money will solve, most will never ask directly like you said, but will have no problem telling you their lights are about to be cut off, or they need medicine for their children or old parents, and so on. I have sent a few of them money in the past but never much money, mainly 20 usd or so, just as a test to see how they react. But any of them I talked to seriously I have told I will not support your family. If a woman lives with me, she just pays her own bills or debt that she brings with her, I pay all the house hold bills because i live by myself already and I pay those bills anyway.

Extremely uncomfortable, I don’t give anyone except my Son’s and the government

Hello Miss Jo Moon, happy that you had a great time with your family & Ty for sharing your time with them, (your niece is too cute). A man dating you, money should not be a problem in sharing it with you. After all you are worthy of it as a Gf!, Peace

Men I know who bought jewelry for their wives or girlfriends almost always found out she did not like the choice. And never made that mistake again.

Great video and good points, I would of probably never bought you a gift again if you complained about silver not being gold lol. But I also collect silver coins and bullion. I dont like gold honestly, i think silver is better looking. Congrats on being back in austrailia, hope you have a great night.

This is also the guy's responsability to date the right woman at the very beginning. It is not hard to check whether she is superficial. I met here in Europe a super nice girl from Shanghai 10 years ago, young but down to earth, sweet, very smart, kind of artist. We used to talk a lot, to get along very well. Never dated, however. After that, we kept in touch during years through Facebook, and then .... she disaperead. I feel kind of nostalgic when i think about her charming personality. If you get to know the person for a while, you take far less risk.

I think all you mentioned is not a problem at all

So beautiful ❤

7000 miles away and asking for money? Don't be a fool

🤔...😂...I like your style...😉...👍

Come on. It's so clear. Why would anyone send money anywhere in the world in a distant relationship? Much better to spend money on a vacation while paying a visit to her home country. That would work out cheaper. After she said that in the video: no money no honey

“I’m just a small KZfaqr. Who cares, right?” Ha! Back to the topic, there’s a bit of a simp-epidemic going on. So many men with more money than sense handing over hard earned cash. And I swear a lot of women try it on too, not just Asians. The irony is that if you call them out and refuse (not shaming too much, just turning it into a joke so they don’t lose too much face), they often respect you…a little bit more.

4 years and we never met 😅

No you don't give her large amounts of money and if she tells you that she will leave you then you tell her to leave and ps most girls can't finish me because I'm last to long and they all say that I'm so strong

You need some money? LOL

My gf asked money for her colporraphy for her wedding night, She said it was a one-time expense.

How do I meet an Asian female who would ask me for bank credits?

Jo Moon what I have discovered in life, is when we make demands of others. It leads to fights and quarrels. This is not to say we should not help one another. But when individuals have a lot of pressure. It can open doors for a lot of quarreling with one another. This is not the mature way in love. Like building a home together. Where should your focus be in life ? When you come to really realize this in life. You will have the most beautiful life together. When you are both pulling in the same direction. You will both acheive your destination much faster and with little struggle. I can see you are a very beautiful person. God Bless !

OK, I'm just trying to figure out what advantage it is me as a man to spoil these women. What do I get out of it. Sex is free. I never had a problem with that. But spending money on one like spoiling them. What's the point. She has a job. I'm lost. What am I missing.

Ok?

I like Chinese women

So much to chew on here, Ms. Moon.🤔 No money, no honey indeed. I think you identified a lot of the obvious reasons, beginning with the economic disparities. But I've only dated women from the West, and it is the same story, always finding ways to burn the wallet.🙂I think there is an evolutionary component that is less discussed. From a species-survival viewpoint, the female has always had to choose the male with the combination of genes and resources to protect and provide for their offspring. There was an interesting DNA research that showed that across history, only about 40% of men have reproduced, while 80% of women have, meaning, bluntly speaking, that the majority of men in any generation are unable to acquire the resources to attract a mate. So you get this asymmetry, where few men father most of the children. If, as a man, you are born with exceptional genes that make you very tall and handsome, you can get to reproduce, but that is obviously not the majority, since by definition the majority are average. But a man's resources have always been a near-guarantee that he will successfully reproduce and pass on his genes. It's different for women. No matter how much resources a woman acquires, almost universally, they desire a man who has more resources. Social media displays the "ugliness" of this rampant desire, but I think it's rooted in evolution. Of course it can be taken too far. Our morals and values can be the filter by which we ensure that we are not prisoners to evolutionary instinct. In addition, societies have come up with so many rules and constraints to curb our worst evolutionary instincts, in attempts to keep society relatively harmonious. But, like you said, at the end of the day, the male of the species must strive to built himself up and show that he can thrive. Or be born looking like Brad Pitt, Idris Elba, Huang Xiaoming or Prabhas!😀If not, then no money, no honey, baby. "Let's all be single together!"

Money scammer

JO I UNDERSTAND BUT AFTER YOU HAVE ESTABLISHED TO YOUR WOMAN A DEEP LOVE WHAT DOES HE HAVE TO PROVE TO HER PARENTS? MONEY DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU LOVE HER? MONEY DOES NOT KEEP A MAN FROM NOT PLAYING ON HIS WIFE. I DO AGREE THE MAN HAS THE PRIMARY RESPONSIBILITY OF SUPPORTING THE FAMILY! I AM A GIVER SO GIVING IS NOT A PROBLEM FOR ME. BUT IF I FEEL I AM BEING USED...THIS IS A DIFFERENT SITUATION! WOMEN REALLY DO NOT WANT A MAN WHO THEY FEEL THEY CAN STEP ON! THERE ARE TIMES SHE WANTS TO HER HIM SAY NO TO HER. BUT HE NEEDS TO KNOW WHEN TO SAY YES. COMMUNICATION and RESPECT IS KEY.

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