What To Do When She Won't Make Time For You - The Man Up Show, Ep. 209

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David Tian, Ph.D.

David Tian, Ph.D.

6 жыл бұрын

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For over a decade, David Tian, Ph.D. -- a uniquely qualified therapist, life coach, and former university professor -- has coached tens of thousands of people from over 87 countries to achieve happiness and success in their relationships, dating, psychology, and lifestyle. Dr. Tian has been featured in international media, as well as co-hosting a radio show on national radio and a weekly dating advice column in a national newspaper in Singapore.
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Boom! Stop. I’m David Tian, PhD, and in this video, I answer the question: What to do when she won’t make time for you? Welcome to Man Up Episode 209.
Masculinity for the Intelligent Man. I’m David Tian, PhD., and this is Man Up!
Hey, I’m David Tian, PhD., and for over the past 10 years, I have been helping hundreds of thousands of people in over 87 countries attain success, happiness and fulfillment in life and love. Welcome to Man Up Episode 209. I am outside Salzburg in Austria. I’m not going to try to pronounce the name of this actual place, but it is a beautiful resort that we’re at. There’s not much to say about it. I just got to show it.
We came out here to just check it out because we just checked in the resort, just checked out the lake, and I just couldn’t wait to film. This is not the ideal filming time, but I just want to get this out of the way because I definitely want to make sure we got a video here with this beautiful backdrop. It’s crazy because it’s empty as well in the middle of summer. Another added bonus for this particular property, SPG Rock. Okay.
So I got a question here from the private Man Up Facebook group. If you’re not in the group yet, join the group. This one comes from Mike. Once you hear it, it should be pretty straightforward, but I’m recording this partly for you to hear the question. This is a question that I get asked a lot, this sort of question. Okay, so Mike:
“Hey guys, I’m currently in a weird situation. I could definitely use some advice. So, I’ve been seeing this girl for almost two years now, and I absolutely love being with her. The only problem that we have is that we only see each other a few times a month, and the only reason that we see each other so infrequently is because she has a pretty busy schedule and she lives about 15 to 20 minutes from me.” That’s not very far, by the way, Mike. “But she seems to make all the time in the world for her friends whenever they want her to come out and spend time with them.”
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@marcleroux3426
@marcleroux3426 11 ай бұрын
pretty simple really, if you want me in your life put me there, i shouldnt have to fight for a spot in it.
@bohead01
@bohead01 6 жыл бұрын
Holy shit, he thinks her living 15 to 20 minutes from him is far? LOL that is nothing!
@Smitty-hr2mg
@Smitty-hr2mg Жыл бұрын
Look dude. Take a step back and do an honest self assessment. See if you're being too needy, or just trying to get her to do the stuff that YOU wanna do that she doesn't... And if it turns out that after your moment of clarity that you actually are being reasonable in what you're asking... Ditch her. If you're with a chick that only wants to see you like once or twice a month, then she isn't worth dealing with, she's not serious. And she also might have more than one iron in the fire.
@OMGJaffassssss
@OMGJaffassssss 6 жыл бұрын
Ive kinda just had the same thing and broke up with her 6 days ago! Like I'm 26 and she's 21 but she's had a history of lying about what she's doing and where she is to me etc. She always broke off plans or last minute before we are spent to stay over the night she just didn't say anything and cancels. But when mates come involve she makes the effort and goes to some party. I broke up with her as she lied to me again 3rd time & found out she got all dressed up bra showing etc and went clubbing! When she said she wasn't doing that, but she was. After i found her out, i sent her a message she didn't respond the whole night and i broke up with her ... i don't deserve to be lied to and treated like if she has time for kinda guy. Like i really love her but i think she's still in that stupid age. Long story but she picked her friends over us, btw she's been going out to party, house party, flat warmings, town a lot but never invited me, i don't care if she has a girl night etc but we never gone for drinks etc but her friends she had time for! Makes me so angry .....
@brianboccuzzi7300
@brianboccuzzi7300 Жыл бұрын
Leave them! And find someone else..
@arrykaloustiansr173
@arrykaloustiansr173 6 жыл бұрын
Bro I had similar situation. I basically gave her the boot.
@legendarypret5384
@legendarypret5384 3 жыл бұрын
I'm in the exact same situation as the dude and you actually opened my eyes thanks dude
@DavidTian
@DavidTian 3 жыл бұрын
Glad to see that!
@legendarypret5384
@legendarypret5384 2 жыл бұрын
@@DavidTian update we broke up and I'm happier then ever!
@goofyjohn6191
@goofyjohn6191 3 жыл бұрын
Move on before you waste years of your life with someone only capable of loving themselves and others are used to supply their immediate need.
@briefmoments6008
@briefmoments6008 2 жыл бұрын
I like my boy friend a lot but I works three to eleven pm so I rarely see my fam or friends or get to get things done except my days off but Everytime I'm off he wants to see me and sometimes I want my plans free
@Jmelpegues
@Jmelpegues 3 жыл бұрын
Had the same situation happen i just let her go no matter who she is if she doesn't give you the time of day let her go. I literally just had a situation where a female I've wanted a chance with for the longest I got in contact with her she responded one word then I told her how I felt ect I asked let's take things slow date and see where it goes I also let her know im not going to be sitting around waiting and putting my life on hold. Now if its meant its its meant if not oh well my main thing is once she's out of my system (head and heart) thats it. In those type of situations just let go tell her what you want she either say yes or no or don't respond if she says no or doesn't respond just move on with your life one thing use as men have to learn female's come a dime a dozen she might not give you a shot but go out start talking to women
@johnnycalderon9951
@johnnycalderon9951 2 ай бұрын
After we broke up she kept calling me a month later she isn't trying to hangout now she says she has no urge. My answer was please don't call me unless u want to see me. Why would I sit here and go back and forth with someone who wants a phone buddy or has low interest with me ? She loves me but isn't in love me with me. She's basically friendzonin me in her own way. It's not forcing its called self respect I don't want friendship so I'm walking away
@KunwarjeetSingh-pi3kv
@KunwarjeetSingh-pi3kv Ай бұрын
Great video
@rosso6342
@rosso6342 Жыл бұрын
Never related to a video so much before. Just in a weird position where I know whats best. Thats to end things and move on. But i dont know how to go about it.
@AntonioJunDonatelli
@AntonioJunDonatelli 6 жыл бұрын
TRUE BRO
@xmsparker
@xmsparker 6 жыл бұрын
Great advice bro
@DavidTian
@DavidTian 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Parker!
@OUD4444
@OUD4444 2 жыл бұрын
30 seconds in and I'm sayin dump her
@SuperBaby11
@SuperBaby11 3 жыл бұрын
My last girl lived an Hr from me lolllll
@marvinmorris4802
@marvinmorris4802 Жыл бұрын
If she doesent want to lead by you she wont make time
@TJ45223
@TJ45223 Жыл бұрын
It's even worse when you live with her.
@christianwright3157
@christianwright3157 Жыл бұрын
What you talking bout? If she live with you she don't have to make time for you, if she live with you, shes going to see you alot, your not experienced with woman I can tell to post such a stupid comment
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