You should think about having kids, you can't give lessons to anyone, you are 36 year old woman... I'm 27 and wouldnt even look at you for having family...

I really appreciate your overall approach and views and then at the same time you know there's a lot of validity and Truth to that too it's a it's a it's a collective effort you know what

Exactly

Walking away is weakness…

@laviniusamuel5256 not at all. If you found a group of people who refused to engage with you, refused to get to know you, befriend you, hang out, etc you wouldn't eventually walk away??

​@@kevin15776Walking away is power. It's liberating. Shows that you're not settling for less than you deserve and not scared to be alone.

Walk. be a proud man.

So what do you do, watch prnn instead? It goes against natural instinct

Single men have it rough these days, that’s true; but all this narcissistic women in the end will not ignore the few real men walking around them that don’t play their game. Be that men and crazy women will move away but good women waiting for mr. Right will swarm around you to pick one. Don’t shut down; just be picky and you will succeed

Well said. So true. I do think there is something to be said for which part of the world she comes from. I notice women outside of the west seem to hold traditional values from my experience.

@@PeteJames_ that's true; american women (and women from countries very influenced by the US) in particular are increasingly "damaged" when compared to women of other nationalities, for some reason

Laziness is root of all evil

Why do you all do that?

‭Genesis 3:16 ESV‬ [16] To the woman he said, “... Your desire shall be contrary to your husband, but he shall rule over you.” Respect does not mean the same thing to women as it does to men. He must be on the "pedestal" so she respects him. She wants him to consider her feelings and preferences, and then for him to make the decisions. This gives her the emotional experience she wants and him the leadership he wants in the relationship.

most husbands are constantly blackmailed with the loss of their children, home and various alimony. they live without dignity because they cannot have their say if the woman does not allow them or the alternative is to lose everything i've heard these blackmail conversations in public so i can't imagine how many couples have these conversations in private

Married man here: I realized that "being romantic" as a man seems to simply mean "spending money for a woman".

100% true mate they dont care about your concerns and if you start stablishing boundaries and say no to this and no to that they just leave or makes your life miserable. Many women dont have a pure HEART, and they can lie and cry so easily, dont go in their games, stay tuned to the red flags, they are always there

Ok but there are two points to what she was saying... If you take away her resources how does she feel safe around you?

@@Shay416 yes exactly... if you cannot provide, you are not worth anything as a man?

Because women live in that same environment and r told same things. Plus, people r more calculating than d generations before. They’re more protective of their own future and potential family. They don’t wanna repeat same challenges/issues they saw in their own household as children, so they tend to seek more stability in their own potential family. Sadia isn’t considering certain facts that d past couples dealt with and analyzing things based on cherry picked facts. Men went to wars, mostly because they were forced. Not because they chose to, as a way of living or building a future. Women got married early and had kids, not because they chose to, because they were practically forced to. Including d fact that they had no birth control. Average girls got married for stability. And because if u didn’t u would age, and good men would b taken off d market by youthful girls with every wave of marriages. And once u were married, communities expected a baby. And u had no control over ur reproductive cycles, even with a loving husband. He’d expect sex, and u had no birth control. Plus, many other facts that this woman is completely disregarding.

@@RojaJaneman yeah, she completely disregarded the whole shift of society after birth control. If it was so fun to be young wife and mother, why do women want to go to college now instead?

This. I was ready to get settled 10 years ago. No such luck

A 25 year old male has not reached his optimum yet. He'll be more attractive to women when he is over 30 with the time to earn more wealth, collect experience and wisdom, and if he is top shelf and knows women's behavior he can set boundaries. There's a reason why women prefer older men. The 25 year old man has more work to do yet.

​@@Snarge22What a Lie! Nothing IRRITATES AND INSULTS ME MORE THAN AN OLD MAN HITTING ON ME! SO GROSS! I WANT A YOUNG ATTRACTIVE MAN THAT WILL BE FAITHFUL FOR LIFE, ATOP LYING ABOUT YOUNG WOMEN, WE ARE SICK OF IT!!!

You're absolutely right.

I'm sure Britney and Shakira feel the same way. Soon Miranda...

@roncharity so what is the alternative? A life of self indulgence? There are good women out there and we need functional families for civilization to survive another 100 years.

@@chad1682 do what you love doing and live happily ever after. Get a motorcycle…and a life :)

​@@chad1682The alternative is an iron clad prenuptial agreement period! No exceptions.

They all talk about they need the man who can "protect women", "protect the village", but they forgot that the environment evolved since the Neolithic period, men are fucked,bugdown with restrictions, beside we have a police forces, not chieftains or the local biggest guy who own a horse and can work metal, that's the difference l. You can't even take the law in your own hands to defend yourself today, you will still face justice because you saved yourself while any warriors from the past could. This woman and many others like her are dreaming in their r head wanting an ideal savage male that they pick from history books, but if you want to bring the Neanderthal back, try to be good cave women and stop asking weading rings. I agree with some of the things that she said but I don't like the emphasize at blaming young men only, because they don't have the right environment to be the best of themselves. Everything constrain them, making every moves delicate. It's not just the man fault but rules of today's society. You can go to jail for every possible reasons when a woman lie about you. You see those people forgot that women didn't lie as much in prehistoric Neolithic or the stone ages .

This is why vetting is important (for both men and women). So many people jump into relationships and marriages based on feelings and never even discussed expectations, values, lifestyles, household structure, etc. Heck many single people can barely take care of themselves and then jump into codependent relationships.

@@pikalee3492 💯

Unfortunately vetting doesn't always work either. The odds may or may not be better when you roll the dice.

Proof of scared young men refusing responsibility. This observation

Yeah, like Will Smith.

@@ekl2947 Men aren't afraid of responsibility, they are afraid of divorce, especially no fault divorce.

​@@ekl2947.....Your SIGN language is noted. 😂 nice try...you go girl😂😂!

@@ekl2947Lol, you dont understand the point. Men accept responsibilities, women dont, that is the issue

​@@ekl2947the responsibility of their actions, always are the "victims" (not all but the majority) . The thing is that men have to be aware and avoid those women or behaviors, set boundaries, keep learning and growing not for women but for themselves.

in fact the only ones who play are those who haven't understood the rules of the game

Agreed. What’s the point of a marriage when I can get what I want without signing a lifelong legally binding agreement with the government?

Relationships are just not worth it anymore

Fighters don't quit and quitters don't fight. So don't be quitter, be a fighter. We all have it ourselves, and there are women out there who can recognize it 👍🏻

@@zvonimirvidovic1714 Wisdom comes when one learns to pick their battles. One doesn't have to show up to every war they are invited to.

Wait let her hit menopause 🤓

Bang on 🎯 NAILED IT BRO 💯

😂😂am almost 40 and can't deny that fact 😅

I know guys who were like you, they in their 50’s now. They aint adolescents anymore, reality has hit 😂🤣😂

She can speak for herself. I’m in my early 40s and have college girls coming to my place. I’m not complaining

Maybe that feeling of “great” goes away when you’re at the hospital alone and really old. Idk?

@@paulhorsager well, that can happen to somebody who even got married lol divorce is a thing. Nasty divorces are very much a thing. I would prefer not having gone through that. And having a myriad of different experiences with women instead

exactly 👍

Read that miss Sadia or do you not read your comments 😂

Lol.. You are the guy she was talking about!!😂

have you just come from Joker’s channel Better Bachelor? 😂

@@kevsmith4320 I certainly hope so!

@@kennydee8296 He's good.

No anything

Well said

if she told the truth she would not be able to do her grift... see it from that perspective then you will find the light

​@@James_36What?

It's easier to create single mothers than to create a meaningful relationship nowadays

Men now = weaker mentally and physically Women now = 304’s Both are to blame.

and getting respect is not a present, right? you need to stand up for it. being willing to make her unhappy short term but keep or gain her respect mid term.

@@robertschiller5422 it is already a red flag in itself - you chose a wrong person when you need to set boundaries. Leave them immediately if they try to test your boundaries

@@DanyloZorin good catch! however, many women today are raised as "princesses" in a feminist society and despite of that deserve a chance (pre marriage) to become an equal partner that respects boundaries and does not dodge self-responsibility. it is tough to be married to a modern "strong" woman as it requires open discussions and education but possible to create a happy and worthwhile marriage - at least with my wife :)

Maybe only western countries

just because its unfair does not mean it is terrible. the risk is great, but the reward for choosing wisely is great as well.

​@@bigvisk1125nope the risk is all 1 sided what Leonardo dicpario is doing is smart just ask Tom brady how great marriage is.

@@cobrakaiisback4709 the risk isnt all one sided but yes the risk is far greater for men. but that does not counter my point at all, not even a little bit. i admitted the risk is great. if a man chooses wisely, the reward can be great indeed

@@bigvisk1125 the risk is far too great you will find out eventually

dont generalize everything

There are still good women out there. Sorry to hear that you suffered for real.

I can relate and that's so sad

​@@nico7819he wasn't. That was his experience. Not a rare one either.

Agreed m8. The reason why I'm single is because I've never seen good examples of marriages, that I could follow (and I come from a big family). It's very discouraging to see constant bickering and fighting.........

She is entirely in a woman vantage point, far from men best interests but women's best interests. Some stuff she said are true, but others is bullshit. The ideal man that she describes need an ideal world that is far gone. The men that she dream off didn't have to completion females at work, he lived in a man's world and women were subservient. You see there is a trade value, if you remove something from the balance, you can't obtain the same weight on the other side

Lol she rides the carousel in Dubai

@@jmd3236 meaning?

But there's no balance in family law. So it's from a womans prospective.

Bro i learned a lot from her. I wish laws were more encouraging tho.

Its become harder for traditional man meet traditional woman nowadays, but possible if you will open your geographic 😉

Social media has basically made it tougher for guys to meet girls on dating apps but girls have more option. Many guys are just wasting their time looking for a quality girl today.

And my dog ate my homework

Go to a better living area, a better university, a more affluent area. A higher class women, but with it maybe higher expectation. But a women more educated, healthier. 👍🏻

Having a spine and balls makes a man. Spine of his opinions and values, balls to live by them👌

Find out the difference in characteristics of toxic-feminist-women and traditional women and learn better vetting strategies.

Too right. He can be an old man, but he is selfish and basically has no incentive to take care of the woman who has wasted 38 years of her life on him.

Good men don’t get looked over. Just the simps or mediocre guys. You think some Chad’s aren’t smart and good too? 😂 At least be honest

And being lectured about "toxic masculinity".

So so true …

Those traits also need to be valued and appreciated. Instead we reward their opposites

She wants simps

myrandavismd+ Haha, I love your sarcasm in the statement. Perfect

MOST OF THIS SONS UR TALKING ABOUT CAME FROM SINGLE WOMEN WHO DIVORCED THEIR HUSBANDS

​@@travoxworld9839Fix your caps lock.

​@travoxworld9839 actually there's plenty of women who are "married single mothers" especially the traditional man who thinks childcare is 100% a woman's responsibility. Seen plenty of men who just worked to provide and were uninvolved in their sons lives. The sons became mommy's boys so basically they got cucked by their fathers absence.

That's why they end up with each other.

I have one of those unfortunately.. can’t wait until he’s my ex

Are we talking about men or women? The reality is women are a responsibility to men...always have been. The problem is women today offer far less benefit to a man, but with all the liabilities and risk. What exactly did you bring to the table?

@@poopingwhilestanding5801 .. correct. Good question. I think probably "not much".

I had that extra child who was weak with no sense of accountability or boundaries. she's now my ex.

@@dcnfsu2 .. no accountability indeed and running when going gets tough... :) She's my ex now too.

Women inherent nature is to be led. If left to their own devices they will indulge in Haram.

You would think with all the bs about they can think for themselves that it would be true but they are like children sadly and as a man you have to chase them around to make sure they dont light their hair on fire.

I'm almost near 6 and good looking too but I don't think I'm attracted to even 20 percent let alone 90percent .

make the woman contribute in every way, dont simp and pay for everything then you maybe wont be so scared

What's a 7 digit income? 1000,000 ?

Good point 👍

well put brother

The type of woman who's attracted to dealers and bad boys are unhealed, traumatized, and druggies themselves. A healthy minded woman would not be attracted to that at all.

😂

I believe 🤣

Here's one 🙂

You’re justifying yourself

@@psico_steph As any man should be, he is the only one that needs to justify himself. Take notes. 😉

​@@ClassicMan33.....Remembering women's SIGN language is hard for a lot of men in a moment of weakness.

@@tommygun5038 It may take a few lifetimes for them to overcome it, but they will. 🙏🏾

classic men lose in the end 😅

She discussed immature men actually. You need to improve your comprehension

@@Bookooky if you pay attention to my comment you’ll see me and you we are saying the same thing

@@Bookooky The ones who have multiple women chasing after them have no incentive to mature.

@@qmulus1 correct

​@@qmulus1depends if that man wants the attention from many women, or just one. Motive to not sleep around exists in some men even with means and opportunity.

Sorry to here this.

You mean you want to reverse your transition?

With that mindset, you won’t attract a woman you deem “deserving”. You will attract those who aren’t because that’s your first thought meeting someone new and you will nitpick every single thing. Which will lead you into a cycle of not getting to know someone for who they truly are.

It's a role YOU deserve.

@@laurendarrling nice gaslighting, but thanks. As I said deserving ladies are really rare. Majority of them are consumed souls expecting you to fix them. I am even not diving into the field of femininity which is heavily lacked or pretentiously presented.

@laurendarrling with dat mindset he will be absolutely prepared to see through the farce and spot d bullshit very early enough which will also inadvertently lead to him avoiding unnecessary pain and trauma from d wrong kind of woman..

She is talking about what happens psychologically on a subconscious level when a guy merely states a boundary. It's not that the girl needs to be instructed like a 2 year old, she just needs to be made to feel like her partner has a spine, because that is attractive, and that is what happens when a man states his preferences - it makes him look more attractive and masculine in his partner's eyes.

@@karasmusic123 I don’t care if it’s subconscious, stop making excuses for poor behaviour. Your an adult.

You could never

You did not listen between the lines of what she wanted! ... You gave her too little attention! And also there is ego ... yours and her! Go read The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman

​@@XPuntarwhat about what he wanted and needed a relationship isn't one sided. If a man has grovel for affection he's already fighting a losing battle.

Nah she doesn't have a clue

At the end of the day everything about living according to your nature and being in balance with yourself 👌

young men have been bullied and shamed in this culture from childhood for seeing themselves as a protector to women. women themselves push away from men who can assert themselves and gravitate to those who dont challenge them. but then when everyones grown up and its about sexual attraction and mating prospects, now there's an issue

But she forgot that women have extended their adolescence to their 30s as well.

@markceci9896 *40's

@@S.M.E.A.C 50’s maybe now! I was being conservative lol

Women communicate verbally only 7%. Rest 93% is feminine non-verbal communication, and that Sir, is what creates 'Polarity' in the relationship.

I am very happy for you that you found your unicorn of a wife. Being realistic however, with the divorce rate and with the rapid rate that women are becoming permanently single, a lot of men are simply choosing not to marry and start a family at all. I turned 40 recently, half of my friends are married with children, the other half are divorced and a few are single. Society today is an extremely challenging and risky environment to start a family.

@@gavinr9107 don't give up brother. Women of this generation are terrible and selfish. I had a colleague at my old job who was in a similar position seemed to have given up on marriage, the dating doesn't work. One day after a long break from work he said he got married to someone from the far East. Time went on, we were close and he said this girl looked after him, appreciated him providing, god fearing, he told me his life is in order and she wants to be a mother and he thinks she does a great job. I am from a Muslim community where marriages are often arranged. My marriage was semi-arranged, filtering out women that are not serious about marriage and who were feminist frankly. Anyways the dating game has major flaws. Good luck bother

Some of us tried and our relationships just failed because you can’t guarantee someone happiness Life is worth living ❤ with or without ur dumb wife

Wasted their 20s?? Time is never wasted when you're wasted all the time... Seriously though, finding themselves, figuring out who they truly are & what they want is wasting time? It takes some longer than others. Building a nest egg before popping out kids & taking on debt is wasteful? Your friends don't need to be pitied. I know plenty of divorced guys trying to live the 20s they missed from getting married too soon so be conscious of that before thinking you're better than your friends.

There is no right definition of "wasted " you pity your friends who wasted their 20s, well I know legions of ppl who got married and had kids early who wish they started their families at later age and missed out enjoying their younger years . So no need to pity anyone just concentrate on your own life

Another scared kid commenting on this video. What does “following your passion” even mean? In your 20s you do college or trade school and start making money regularly and setting up your adult life: start to pay bills, student loans and adjusting to take care of yourself without mommy and daddy picking up your toys. Your “passion” mostly would be either a glorified hobby which may or may not be a joyful waste of time, or a useful practice you can keep doing after marriage perfectly. Many married men have “passions” they enjoy often, but your biggest “passion” will eventually be providing for your family and be the reason they feel ok and secure. Nothing tops that for a man. Let go of your child ways and you’ll naturally gravitate to this, because you’re a man and that’s the natural habitat for us. Join us

@@gadget00 I'm a grown man, father of two adults who did exactly that. Following your passion means finding your life purpose and developing a craft that is in line with that. If you had learned how to read you may have gotten the full extent of my message.

@@gadget00 No thanks.

@@Ausnapify sure, kid; now go to your momma

@@gadget00 I'd rather go to yours, she's playful.

why are you yelling

Stop writing in caps.

@@nathand4500 do something about it. U can’t? Waa waa. What was the point of that u must having nothing going on in ur life

Which culture are you from?

Well said

All those things, but no need for a legal marriage. If she leaves, no need to give away most of your sh*t..

I agree with this 100% unless you are going to have kids. That’s my opinion just for myself don’t think it needs to be for everyone but once I decide to have kids I believe that my life needs to be in service of them and I do believe a marriage is the right foundation to raise a family. But 100% understand what ur saying!

👏👏👏💪 this !! Word per word you have precisely described what my husband and I have laid out the blueprint for our our two boys. They are already on that path and haven't even hit their twenties. Im so chuffed and happy to know there are other parents who have such vision and clarity ..working as a team to steer Their families to the best they can. Brilliant!! Blessings for your beautiful successful family. 🙏

fuck 20's you should be training your whole life. Never stop improving.

@@luker1hutcher315 That is a different context.

You should try to get deep under their skin , you may get hurt but it the only way to really understand the relationship

🤷‍♂️

Wat a wimp😂

I have the same feeling 👍

good insights.. a man who has mastered himself.

Probably its not easy to admit reality for many men nowadays , but Im happy to see there are still man in their masculine nature out there..

You had to watch this to learn something? Seems like common knowledge.

That last sentence. 🫡💯. Everybody is capable of being something great. But everybody isn’t capable of pulling the greatness out.

Yes it is! You did not listen "between" the lines! You gave her too little attention! Read The Five Love Languages by Garry Chapman and Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus by John Grey! Also read What Women Want When They Test Men by Bruce Bryans ... You take her for granted!

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​@@XPuntaryou are joking, right?

Hey. Thanks for sharing that one and sorry for your loss. Mind if I ask how does she justify it?

Yes, correct, since nature tend leading to the balance ..

men want wmn who won't divorce and won't take half money, alimony, child support and kids