When absence works and when it doesn't in relationships

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3 ай бұрын

When absence works and when it doesn't in relationships
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@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

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@ilovekandii214 3 ай бұрын

Fareen, you are seriously changing my life. I could cry. I wish I could hug you thank you so much! I am going through a hard time in my marriage ever since I had my daughter February last year. I grew up a lot and have changed my mindset so much. It also must be because I am now 26 and got married at 22 😭 I feel like my husband is not growing up or being the best husband he could be and it’s making my love for him go away. He’s responsible and a great provider (I stay at home) but he doesn’t value me for everything I do and WHO I AM! He is emotionally absent just like my father was. I bought your inner work course and bought both of your books. I am on the second video of inner work and I hope I can help save our marriage. 😢 I know I am part of the problem and after watching this video I realized I am that needy woman. Can you do more content on how to stop being a needy woman? Sending you so much love ❤

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Omg thank you so much for being so vulnerable and sharing with us your heart 🤍. Men mature emotionally much later unfortunately… the inner work course will help you SO much with what you need to do to work on yourself and what will generally happen is when you shift, he will shift. What I recommend is after you’ve worked through the course, feel free to email me and let me know what insights you got, from there if it feels right, schedule either a call with me or email session. From the learnings you get from the course, email me (or on our call) you can tell me your specific situation. I’ll advise you further on how to handle this specific situation at that time… we first want to get the basics down and get a level of awareness which you’ll obtain from the course 🤍

@ilovekandii214 3 ай бұрын

@@fareenashofficial thank you dear!! ❤️

@nunnunnunyabizzie2345 3 ай бұрын

Kandii, if you have a good man that is faithful and a "great" as you say provider, be careful about projecting onto him all of your needs and wants. He's out there busting his ass to build a home and cares to be responsible. He is fulfilling his role in his eyes. Quite frankly, if you're home all the time, you're going to be bored, and with boredom comes hyper-introspection. This can be detrimental. It might be a good idea to reflect on this huge burden you're putting on him to fulfil you. We have to fulfil ourselves. You were very young to get married, yes, but Kandii, you're really not missing out. You have the chance to build a beautiful life with a man who is providing and protecting you. He will catch up eventually. Do more things together, create bonding and fun. I cannot emphasise this enough - get out of the house together and do sports or games. Go make friends! There's mommy walking groups! Go build a rich life, don't sit there waiting for him to fill your heart up, he's busting himself to provide a home that keeps you and your daughter safe, cut him some slack.

@MirandalindaL.A 3 ай бұрын

It works when u have created unique connection and memories together. If you was always nice and there for him trust and believe he will come back sooner or later but in the other hand If u was always arguing or bitchy he won't come back to that. Guys like a relaxing environment drama free. I'm talking from experience I learned the hard way

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Connection is everything 🤍

@thecurrentmoment 3 ай бұрын

I'm a man and I'm curious - a loof men want a woman who can help make him feel at peace. I.e. drama free, and a lot of women seem to be learning this through experience. I know that a lot of women supposedly like drama but wouldn't you also want a relaxing drama free environment? Isn't this something that women would also like, or would they really prefer an environment where there is a lot of drama? I'm curious because when say what you've said, it comes across as a surprise to them. When I would imagine that most women would also want a relaxing drama free environment Let me know if I'm missing something, I'm here to learn

@thecurrentmoment 3 ай бұрын

@@fareenashofficialand Fareen, thanks for your channel, you are creating a great space for learning!

@hopefully2697 3 ай бұрын

Yes but your behavior make us that way, we become drama queens because u send us mixed signals or you keep us in situationships you dont want to commit and play hard to get. So we try to bs patient we try to change your mind but when we realise its hopelessly we start the drama@@thecurrentmoment

@JM-bv2mo 3 ай бұрын

I’m so glad you speak your truth about modern day women. Because I find that I take my time and hold myself to standards but they prefer women who won’t do anything for growth but feed their egos. But, when they meet someone with quality they freak out

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Yes!! I’m so happy to hear you are staying in your worth! Believe that the man for you will know, and will do what he has to do to meet you where you are 🤍

@lashatay29 3 ай бұрын

I just went through this, I thought it was heartbreak but I know my worth and won't feed his ego.. # healing and growing

@yvonneochoa1185 2 ай бұрын

You’re amazing!! ❤

@zsszikszai5180 3 ай бұрын

Your depth of understanding and integraty you have is mesmermizing and humbling at the same time. I am so taken aback. Thank you for sharing these things! I wouldn’t be where I am without you! You are a beautiful, one of a kind woman. What you teach is rare. It’s a lasting change that is building from the inside thanks to the inner work you share about. Your course and your books are one of a kind. The energies are present in both books. The course goes deep and uplifts blinders and breaks the ego so the soul can shine through.

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Awwww wow! What a beautiful message, thank you so much for this 😍😍

@sept2866 3 ай бұрын

Great advice, and may I add that your hair color and style are perfect on you!

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Thank you! 😊

@sarahsawrie 3 ай бұрын

Straight up FACTS. What a great analogy with your dog… like what do I bring to this person? What do they bring to me?! Am I giving them what they want or what I want for them?! Great point to reflect on. Really love how you’re giving pointers to work on to really help develop within. 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 You look GORGEOUS 🥰

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Yesssss! Bingo 🙏🤍 Awww thank you 😊 I love compliments ☺️😍🥰

@mee976 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Fareen ♥️♥️♥️

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Thank YOU! 🤍

@nattygamer4755 3 ай бұрын

Wasn’t long enough. Def coulda gone longer on this topic. 😂

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Haha! Okay noted - I will ramble some more next time 🤗

@mariav5930 3 ай бұрын

Such an amazing video! Thank you for your honesty and authenticity ❤❤❤

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

@longingforjannah 3 ай бұрын

It wasn't long at all😊, I could listen to your advise for much longer. I've come across some good KZfaqrs, but I've not come across anyone that really thinks the way that I do. I'm so glad I found your channel. Thank you Fareen❤

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

I’m so glad you’re here and you’ve found me and thank you so much for your beautiful kind words 🤍

@longingforjannah 3 ай бұрын

@@fareenashofficial You're very welcome 🤗

@Summer-tk8yk 3 ай бұрын

I feel so resonated with your content today. Thank you. ❤

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Thank you 🤍

@Joanna.Swiderska333 2 ай бұрын

Very good video, Thanku for Your Work ❤

@anita.5964 3 ай бұрын

Wow this was so good! 💖Thank you for sharing the truth about this. I know its hard for those of us who have been the one who made these mistakes but it is so helpful to understand so we can grow and be better next time ❤

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

You’re very welcome and you’re right, it can hurt but what hurts more is not having the awareness and undoubtedly repeating the same mistakes. So I’m so happy you can receive these messages with an open heart and mind! Thank you for sharing your insights here I love them!

@fiddles78 3 ай бұрын

Great advice Fareen ❤ I definitely need to work on my self worth. Please post more videos.

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Thank you and great awareness :)

@jazminm9052 3 ай бұрын

loved this video and your casual way to explain it, it's true you'll miss someone who added value and feel relief the other way, very helpful, thank you!! ❤

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Thank you and yes! You got it 🤍

@annaa6259 3 ай бұрын

Such a brilliant video❤

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

@tikax2085 3 ай бұрын

Really helpful, thank you

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Your welcome 🙏

@KTD888 3 ай бұрын

Fraeen i just found your channel and honestly i love and resonate with all your teaching and this video is juuuusttttt what i needed to hear today.....

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

I love hearing that! Thank you for sharing 🤍🤍 And welcome to my world! Happy you’re here 😍🙏

@kittymeow1113 3 ай бұрын

You are so talented in what you do dear Fareen, I love listening to you! :)

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Awww thank you for your beautiful words 🤍🤍🤍

@xuttnguyen Ай бұрын

I cannot express how much I love your videos. Yoy are exceptional! I dont think there are any other coaches can explain things clearly like you. I understand and resonate with EVERYTHING you say. Much love from Vietnam ❤

@fareenashofficial Ай бұрын

This means a lot to me! Thank you for sharing your beautiful thoughts with me 🤍

@shireen400 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for this video! I finally had a chance to watch. You explain the difference between high value and not so high value women so well. I loved how you used your dog as an example. Animals are the best. I can definitely relate 😊❤❤❤

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Awww thank you for this comment and I’m happy you enjoyed it!

@annaa6259 3 ай бұрын

This should be broadcasted on UK TV instead of King speech😄. Pure gold - had to download it so I can listen over and over ❤

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Haha!!! 🤍🤍🤍

@chippychick6261 3 ай бұрын

Your analogy to the relationship with your dog is so heart felt. Well done, Milo!

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Haha! It’s a stream of consciousness that just speaks through me when I’m present filming a video and I had no idea that would come out but it is so so true! I love my little guy so much!

@TiffJackz 3 ай бұрын

U speaking all facts! Just experienced this very recent 😁. Step up or get out the way & go with easy, I feel relieved he on my line as I’m typing 😂

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Yup!!!

@marypoppings12 2 ай бұрын

I love the dog analogy

@karolina3920 3 ай бұрын

Dear Fareen, i really enjoy your video's and i like your Vibe 😊

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 😊

@evolutionbe7150 2 ай бұрын

Lmao omg the comparison to the dog LMAO Im dying xD but it was perfect!

@eishaacatubig9812 2 ай бұрын

So true. ❤

@fareenashofficial 2 ай бұрын

🙏🙏

@annaa6259 3 ай бұрын

Thanks

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for the super like Anna! I appreciate it so much 🤍

@XxxX-wx3er 3 ай бұрын

Women will tell you to be absent to make a man want you.. and then tell you “actually, no”

@annaa6259 3 ай бұрын

12:21 yes! feels like detaching from parasite that was sucking my joy out

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Yes!

@positivel5530 2 ай бұрын

I just had an epiphany in my last relationship he loved our long calls and so I kept doing them because I liked them too. But we pulled back because we couldn’t do that too much and are adults with lives. But he stated well I’m okay with less time as long as you make some time for me” I wouldn’t be happy if you were too busy to talk to me all the time” which made me feel like I always had to respond and always had to be available for him l, so he could feel secure in our relationship. Does that make sense? Because I didn’t want to do anything that could jeopardize it

@juisjuis551 2 ай бұрын

post it... i would love vids like this!

@dianadias3 3 ай бұрын

Please make those videos about consciousness 🙏🙏

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Ok!! 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

@quicknotesmedia9540 3 ай бұрын

Could you please make a video on high value man whose standards include his woman don’t have guys friends. Is it standards or insecurity or jealousy? We both are high value with successful businesses. Thank you for making these videos and congratulations on your engagement. Well done! ❤ “Your only credibility is your outcome”, I always say.

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

I’ve noted this down for a future video 🤍

@jeveuxetrelibre 3 ай бұрын

Post the videos sister. We’re out here 👑

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

🙏🙏🙏

@panthers4440 3 ай бұрын

🐶 😂 great analogy

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

😊🤍

@simonaib7600 3 ай бұрын

Great video! How wo you change things around when as a woman you haven't met his needs as explained in your video?

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

I will do a video on this! My books will help a ton 🤍

@simonaib7600 3 ай бұрын

@@fareenashofficial, thank you. ❤️🙏 It would be great to put it into the context of a long-term relationship. I have your book on What Men want. I find that the dynamics you are talking about are easier to apply in dating or at the beginning of a relationship. It becomes a bit more challenging in a relationship where there is history. I really appreciate your work. 💞

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

@simonaib7600 so when you’ve not met his needs in a long term relationship? Is this what you’re asking specifically? What we do in the beginning carries forward… but yes I’ll do another video on long term relationships !

@simonaib7600 2 ай бұрын

@@fareenashofficial, yes, exactly. When you haven't met his eeds for a while in a long-term relationship and then he pulls away (not feeling good anymore). How and whether there are any ways still to turn things around. Thank you 🙏🙏

@possumpancakes1007 3 ай бұрын

I like your darker hair, it suits you better than blonde and looks healthy!

@jasmincordelia5477 3 ай бұрын

You talked about intimacy needs..For a high value woman, she is aware of the physical intimacy while she is not an easy woman that as you put it ‘spreads her legs’ soon…my question is how many months in to the dating phase or relationship can physical intimacy happen without being that easy female?

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

I go into all the stages and dating etc in “what men want” have you had a chance to grab that yet?

@aahmacchiato5527 2 ай бұрын

I was kind of confused by this situation that happened to me but also its straight forward: I was talking to someone for 5 months when suddenly they ghosted me. On the third day of ghosting, and out of hurt and confusion, i went on the deep end and texted them terrible things. Again, I was hurt so i said how i felt. They then told me they aren't interested in a relationship and said some terrible things to me. Made excuses as to why they ghosted me. Told me to stfu. Told me they don't care about me. Told me they dint trust me. Told me they dont know me after exchanging "i love you." I told them it was over and there's no coming back from this. Now they've been texting me but I refuse to answer after being disrespected and blindsided by their actions and response.

@brattingprincess 2 ай бұрын

So what do you wanna do?

@aahmacchiato5527 2 ай бұрын

@@brattingprincess I just want to be happy.

@brattingprincess 2 ай бұрын

@@aahmacchiato5527 if you’re in so much hurt as a result-maybe try a different person later.

@mirela... 3 ай бұрын

Hi Fareen, I was wondering, what should we do if a man acts like a jerk and we did nothing to deserve that. He just misinterpeted a situation and thought that I was trying to make him jelaous so he started texting other woman in front of me so that he would make me jelaous. So childish... He was angry, I could tell. We don't date we are just getting to know each other and so far he was amazing, a man that I could count on and a real gentlmen. We laughed and everything was perfect. Now I don't recognize him. I pulled away and I can see he didn't expect that. Should I move on for good? I think that maybe he's emotionally unstable or is that just that masculine energy? But he disrespected me and I can't forget that.

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Please purchase an email question and email me your situation privately. I’ll get back to you then 🤍

@Topper4321 3 ай бұрын

If a guy you like is going through a difficult time, is it wrong for the woman to reach out and ask if he's ok? Thanks

@111incognito 2 ай бұрын

It's not, we're humans first and should look out for each other ❤

@lou15176 3 ай бұрын

If you are one of the ladies triggered by the terms or words she uses then look into yourself as to why. Only a woman displaying said behaviour will feel called out x

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

🙏🙏 yes…

@deborahmoura7761 3 ай бұрын

Also you hear about stories like Robin Arzon. She’s a queen, right? She was engaged so fast.

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

I’m not sure who this is but yes, a quality woman will never give her exclusivity away without a ring and if that man messes up, well she won’t marry him.

@deborahmoura7761 3 ай бұрын

Agreed. I’ve got burnt on this- so it true. But with Robin, I actually think she did get a ring or some form of token.

@nattygamer4755 3 ай бұрын

Is there a difference in cultural differences? I tried this with the guy that I was trying to be with and he decided to just be done with me “once and for all.” I’m American and he’s European.

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

It depends on the way it’s communicated and the energy… have you read my books yet? That will go deeper…

@nattygamer4755 3 ай бұрын

@@fareenashofficial I’m currently working through an online course and I plan to order your books and focus on that once I’m done in June.

@millenka8089 2 ай бұрын

I agree when men come on too strong at the beginning it’s a turn off for me.

@Joanna.swiderska 3 ай бұрын

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@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

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@zsszikszai5180 3 ай бұрын

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@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

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@user-zg9ew7bn2i 3 ай бұрын

Brilliant, nobody details this topic. I love your channel. (Saying this with big sister love: you should pronounce masculine properly. It’s very distracting since you use this word very often).

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for your kind words! I speak how I speak :)

@cashmere85 3 ай бұрын

Oh interesting. I’ve never really paid attention to this till now when I read your comment, but still I don’t hear any differences! She is pronouncing her words just like how she pronounce every other words. Sound(pronunciation) can be unique to certain people, and for Fareen definitely I believe it’s her unique way of saying the word, and I love it.

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

@cashmere85 awww I love this thank you! Yup, words are words. Lol I also speak how I speak 🤗

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

@cashmere85 thank you 🙏

@margaretbuj4284 3 ай бұрын

Fareen hasn't asked for feedback on her pronunciation in this video🙂

@asiakhan5314 2 ай бұрын

The way you speak makes me unable to watch this video sadly 😢 Your sentences end in a high pitch and idk why it bothers me so much. I can watch some of your others videos tho where it is not so excessive ❤️

@Diarrheagod 3 ай бұрын

Can I just say I’m so grateful for you because your inner work course is completely changing my life ❤ I do one course per month so I can really integrate your teachings and I’m already becoming a completely different woman ❤ I can’t thank you enough Fareen!

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Awww I love hearing this thank you for sharing ! 🤍🤍🤍

@Diarrheagod 3 ай бұрын

Beautiful message ❤ and you look gorgeous

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

@goddessqueeny 3 ай бұрын

You're literally the best! Thank you from Switzerland 🇨🇭

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Aww! Thank you! I LOVE Switzerland! I stopped over there on a contiki trip I did about 10 years ago and we stayed overnight at this converted prison (then hotel)! It’s so clean and fresh and beautiful there! 😍

@Lindz7650 3 ай бұрын

This video has so much value!!! I love how truthful you are, even when the truth is hard to hear. Thank you Fareen 🩷!!

@fareenashofficial 3 ай бұрын

Awww I’m so happy to hear that! Yes, hard to hear, and also where the healing and light is 🤍. Thank you for sharing your appreciation and love for me!