I'm so glad you brought up the use of "rehoming". Children are not animals. You do not "rehome" a child.

From a Registered Behavioral Technician: Watching Aurora mimic your motions and speech is an absolutely incredible step! Her stimming and smacking her lips was also her just trying to help tell the story as well! She’s come so far.

Alex is an amazing young man full of love . i mean he cries and shows nothing but his raw emotions. Which is always love . that beaming 😃 ALEX is amazing .

What a terrible thing to say about Alex. That just broke my heart. It is never the child’s fault an adult chose to abuse them.

I think Aurora understood you were talking about difficult thing and she wanted to comfort Alex and Hannah

myka was actually warned about Huxley’s possible conditions before she adopted him. she actually said “he’s our son, we would never return him”

I cried when Alex cried. :( its not his fault the other "parents"didn't know how to parent him. they didn't love him unconditionally

What she said about Alex is the worst thing I have *EVER* heard from a "parent", if someone says that about a child then it's good that they lost all thier children, that is not ok no one should go through that! We love you alex and this was not your fault you are a fabulous person!! And we feel the same way for all of your family!!❤❤❤❤❤

Aurora is too cute when she hugged Alex and Hannah (her HaHa). Alex is the best. It really makes me angry that his other adoptive mom still says he was so bad. He’s not. He’s a really cool kid.

If you adopt a kid, you’re officially their parent right? Then how is it even possible to “give them back” to fostercare. That is terrible, you can’t return a kid like it’s a shirt that after all doesn’t fit you perfectly.. Also how strong are Alex and Hannah for bouncing back after going through all of this. And to talk about all of this so openly and vulnerably on camera. So much respect for the two of them!

It makes me phenomenally angry that Alex has been so mistreated. I cannot even fathom how you, Crystal, and Aaron must feel about it. I don’t know any of you personally, but from the brief time I’ve spent watching you and your family- I know for a fact that Alex is an incredibly kind-hearted, smart, brave and loving young man without a single bad bone in his body. To blame a child for your own failings as a parent is abhorrent. Nothing a child does or doesn’t do ever, ever, EVER warrants abuse. That man deserves be in prison, and that woman revoked her right to a family when she (from what I gather) abused her kids. I hope Alex gets to a place where he understands, whole-heartedly, that none of what he experienced is his fault. Hannah, too, for that matter. I know that it’s one thing to think it and another to truly believe it. Love you guys so much, thank you for all your open and honest conversations with us 💞

Aurora trying to comfort Alex and Hannah is the sweetest thing 🥺

When Crystal said that she said that “if Alex was a better kid I wouldn’t have lost all my kids” that just made my heart break so much🥺😭😭

Alex is the most compassionate kindhearted kid ever . he has those emotions on his sleeve . good guy . Alex you amazing my friend

It’s never the child’s fault. Not even knowing the whole situation I know without a doubt that it wasn’t even partly your fault Alex.

Look how far Aurora has come and I believe it was your parenting and love for all your kids that that makes your family so special. My foster parents abused me sexually, physically, and mentally, I was in from 5 to 12. So grateful that there is really good ones out there. I lost hope at an early age, Even if I did tell, I was abused more! You are all so special!!

Alex and Hannah are a really important perspective in this conversation that I have been seeing on the internet, especially as Huxley is nonverbal.The additional trauma, even without any abuse, of being removed from ANOTHER home and "re-adopted" that they had to deal with and Huxley is having to deal with is horrible and should never occur

I happened upon this series of videos several weeks ago, and I can't imagine an evening without catching up with your family. As a college professor of Child Development, it is my firm conviction and professional opinion that this is one of the most loving and supportive family groups I have ever seen. What a perfect setting for nurturing and teaching values and convictions. I will be using your family in my lectures, and I am profoundly grateful for your example of love and care. As the parents of two adopted children, my wife has often reminded them that while they did not grow "under" her heart, they grew "in" her heart.

Who else LOVES the crazy pieces? Because I know I do!

I love Hannah so much. What a sweet girl. The way she fixed auroras hair she is so motherly. Bless her heart for all she went through

I am a firm believer in the saying "everything happens for a reason" and boy does this speak volumes for Alex and Hannah; what an unfortunate start to life they both had, but without those events they would not have been placed in the safety of your family; the crazy pieces! They should both be so proud of how far they have come, Alex is such a respectful, funny and handsome young man and Hannah is so charismatic, gracious and a beautiful young lady! I don't wish anything bad on their previous adoptive family but all I will say is, they are the ones who lost out on these amazing kids through their OWN fault and nobody elses! Much love to your amazing family! 💙💜

I love this family. Crystal and Aaron are such great parents and they’re raising their children well and you can tell how much happier they are now

12 minutes in and I just need to say, Alex, you're seriously a beaming light. You can tell your heart is so pure. The love you have for your family and everything else in life is evident from just the little bit we see. I hope one day you're healed and you know you're amazing, worthy, and no behaviors you had or will have define you. I hope you know, value, and love yourself as much as you love everyone else. You're worthy and worth it.

I love that Aurora knows Alex and Hannah are hurting in this moment and comes to love on them

I am really glad that you didn't make a video just defending the parents, like many people did. And instead thinging more about the poor little boy and how he must feel now...

Alex, it is absolutely in NO way your fault!! That man is in prison for a reason. You are very loved and important!! I really hope you get to read this because you definitely deserve it after all you've been through. You are nice. You are loved. You are special. You are one of a kind. YOU are Alex!

Alex, your future is NEVER defined by your past. REMEMBER that. NEVER change the man you are because you will be the spokesperson for those coming after you. SPEAK OUT and bring the spotlight to these issues. You have what it takes to change the entire system. Remember the power of ONE voice. God bless you and keep moving forward and live your dreams. I've worked in this field. People will listen to you. USE the power of your voice and experience and I hope you are continuing to foster the relationship you have with your older biological brother. YOU ROCK BOY!!!

When I saw some news about her, I immediately thought of your family and how extremely blessed your children are to have you as their parents. ❤️

I hate when the kids cry it just triggers me to cry too with them. I’m so glad the crazy pieces kids got their forever family. I actually raised my niece and nephew my brothers kids. I never formally adopted I did have full and legal custody of them but they are my kids and they do call my husband and I aunt and uncle . If you hear them talk they refer to us as their parent’s. My niece was 5 now 27 working for a bank my nephew was 7 now 29 working for a crane company. It was hard but I wouldn’t change anything.

So cute how Aurora is Mimicking her mum with the hand gestures and body language.

I’m so proud of Hannah and Alex for being so open and helping to educate people!

Such an important video! So many people who have never been in an abusive situation have a really hard time comprehending the fears that go along even with the idea of getting help.

This made me so sad for Alex he is such a good kid I can’t believe a grown adult would blame a child like that.

Big hugs Alex and Hannah I know it’s not easy to talk about and remember I’m so happy u both have a safe n happy forever home where u can heal one piece at a time!

I am sobbing. I felt so many of the same emotions due to experiences I had growing up. Lots of virtual hugs going your way, guys! You’re so brave for sharing your emotions!!

The problem with Myka and James is that they DID “rehome” Huxley, like he WAS a puppy.

Broke my heart to see Alex cry 💔😢 it was like watching my own son being hurt. Silver lining Alex and Hannah are in their forever homes and that makes me smile☺️ Edited: Aurora is such a healing power!!! The love and the concern she shows her family in such a little body. Precious and Priceless! When she hugged on Alex after he got emotional she lifted a weight off him you could see it and feel it. Her hugs are her super powers. 🦸‍♀️

I’m the same age as Alex and I just want him to know that he is so dope, his previous adoptive parents were so wrong about him. From my perspective, he is an awesome sensitive wonderful person and a great son and brother. I would be lucky to have a friend like Alex 👍

It is so lovely to see your kids talk so openly and honestly about the tough subjects.

Alex! My heart broke when you got emotional, just know you are loved and cherished beyond measure not just by your family but by EVERY subscriber to the Crazy Pieces channel.

To Crystal: I can see that this issue still deeply affects you, I could hear it in your voice. It shows how much you care about the children you have adopted. I loved how you explained what adoption meant to you personally and I agree with you 100%, Adoption is not something to take lightly; it is not something to take for granted. Once you sign that paper, you are morally, legally, physically, and emotionally responsible for the life entrusted to you. Thank you for this channel... It really is a gem!!!

Thanks for addressing this subject. I used to follow the Stauffer as I follow you guys ‘cause I’m really curious about adopting. The Huxley case made me question myself on whether I should be searching for more adoption content on KZfaq or just drop it. But I can see that your home is filled with understanding, dialogue and - above all - unconditional love. Thank you Crystal and Aaron for being so inspirational and all the kids for sharing the adoptees’s point of view as well.

Thank you so much for allowing the older kids to have a voice but also make sure they are safe while doing so! I have heard you say several times that they don’t have to share tough things unless they are comfortable

I am so happy I found this channel. You are the living embodiment of everything I have been saying for YEARS. I get so many people judging me and saying such hateful things because I'm going to adopt. This is why I am!!

I don’t normally cry but hearing what Alex and Hannah went through the tears were streaming down my face. As a mum of 2 who are 16 and 10, I couldn’t imagine on giving my kids away due to behaviour or otherwise, I was abused as a kid and I have issues due to it, I have a mental illness amongst other stuff. Telling a child that it’s their fault is not ok and horrible. I really do hope Alex and Hannah know that none of it was there fault and they grow up to be happy, healthy and no damage x

We are adoptive parents and live kind of close to the Stauffers...we are heartbroken over the situation. Asking our almost 16 year old daughter (adopted from China at 6 years old) about the situation...she said it is good that he is with a family now who can help him become the best he can be.

Thank you for this vlog. I am a foster and adoptive parent. I agree with you 100%. My heart is broken for Huxley. I am a huge advocate for attachment and this is one more obstacle for him. I love how your children are willing to share their stories. They are amazing kids!! Many blessings to your family!

I’m so glad you have done this video, too many children are humping from one abusive home to another, the children deserve so much more, you are so right about training, I struggled with my boy when he first came to me but I got trained on nurturing attachments and developmental trauma, helped me understand so much how to support him

Thank you for addressing this issue. I hope it wasn't too painful for Alex or Hannah. Love them both! And Aurora, wow, she amazes me how she is mimicking and making so much progress with her communication skills. So precious! Every child deserves and amazing forever home like this.

I have enjoyed your channel so much. I didn't think I could respect you any more than I already did, but you proved me wrong. Thank you for just sharing your story and experience, but not bashing the Stauffer family. We have know idea nor do we have the right to know what was going behind closed doors. Thanks, Hannah and Alex for being so brave to share your story. I wish you and your family nothing but the best!!

These kids are so blessed to have you guys as parents. The amount of work you put into making sure these kids have a place of love and forever but also you help them to overcome and it’s very evident and amazing. What a wonderful family! And I know you’re blessed to have them also because these kids are pretty awesome!

I followed the Stauffers from the adoption until about the time Myra got pregnant. I pretty much was disgusted at the way she treated Huxley so I stopped following them. I believe, in my heart, that Huxley is better off out of their care. I pray that they placed him in a better environment that he can thrive in...But they don’t make good choices so I worry about Huxley. 😪❤️

This, for me, is the best video you have done. I have been following the media on Huxley and it is hard to know what to think. Your thoughts really helped balance things out for me. Also, Hannah and Alex, my heart breaks for what you have had to handle in your short lives. I am so thankful that you have found your forever home. We love you guys.

Aurora hugging them is just the sweetest thing 🥺 All the sibling bonds just make me love this family even more ❤

thank you for sharing your stories with us ❤️ also, it was so cute when aurora reached over to hug alex & hannah.. the relationship between everyone in the family is indeed precious

Thank you for sharing this, it means so much to see people speaking about foster care and adoption. I was placed into foster care at 6 months old and adopted at age 2. I was moved to 5 different homes before I found my forever home. I was lucky enough to be adopted with two of my biological siblings, but there are more out there I have never met. Seeing you guys be so open about things regarding adoption is heartwarming.

I appreciate this video so much. I'm an autism mom. Whom would love to adopt one day. I've been a follower of you and the crazy middles for long time. I didnt know how you would feel on this. I love how you support your children and made this about them. I hope Alex and Hannah continue to heal from that terrible time it was just a road to make it home to you. Thank you for what you do. The previous "abuser" [becauss no mother abuses a child] must be crazy because all I ever get from alex is great vibes and so much fun. I dont know how anyone could mistreat any child let alone those beautiful children who seem to always be smiling.

I’m glad y’all did a video on this. I just always felt in my soul that the stauffer family never really wanted Huxley, so i have mixed emotions about it. I’m happy if he goes to a home with a family that truly loves him. But, I’m sad that he will have to...once again...bond and learn to trust another person/family. I will keep praying for him. He is a precious boy! I wish him the very best. ❤️

Thank you for this video! My family needed to see this. My husband and I adopted two teenagers that had been through trauma and it has been difficult but I wouldn’t trade a second of it. We are growing and learning everyday. And now that we have found you guys I feel like it’s helping me more as a mother. Thank you

Such an emotional one today but such an important message to hear. It’s so amazing that you give your children a platform to talk about their past, as that is always going to be an important part of their lives. Alex, you are so brave and you should never doubt that it was never your fault. You were the child in the situation. Sending my best wishes to you all in these challenging times. Keep smiling ❤️

Growing up I have always known that I wanted to foster and adopt. I seriously admire you guys and how openly you talked about it.

This family is so inspirational to me. I am a much older lady “51” years old with all grown children and a grandchild. My nephew was placed in CPS care 4 times from abuse the 5th time the state stepped in. The mother wanted my baby in her boyfriend’s family care that had a very very long criminal background which the mothers boyfriend and his sister is the abuser. You guys have helped me learn a lot through your family.i never thought you could love another child like you do your own. My baby is like I gave birth to him I have the same love! 🥰❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️

Its great that you let the kids share their story and feelings. Its great therapy.

This was heartbreaking. Thank you Aaron and Chrystal for being the parents these kids deserve. Alex and Hannah you are both such beautiful souls and amazing kids.

I love your family and your videos so much! Aurora may be non-verbal but her compassion and love is louder than a sonic boom. It is so clear how much your family loves and cares for each other.

I‘ve been waiting for you to comment on this, because I really love your family and you handle everything with so much love and compassion.

It’s very refreshing to hear you vocalise everything that you feel as it’s probably how 99% of people would feel and react ... incredible humans you really are xxx

I’m new to your channel and I’m blown away by your kindness and compassion Crystal. All of your children are blessed to have you and Aaron as parents. Alex and Hannah you 2 are incredible teens and human! For you to have endured such terrible examples of “parents” or family, and to now be happy smiling and confident teens is amazing! It is a testament of not only your inner strength but a loving family environment that you can grow and feel love. ❤️

Watching Hannah's face is just heartbreaking and I want to give her a hug. God has truly blessed both of these young people (all of them actually) with such a loving family.

I got such a kick watching Aurora imitate her mom. I had to play it back and get my husband to watch, he had a good laugh watching her as well. I love the advice you gave Alex.

You guys are educating us! Thanks for explaining everything and being so honest about your feelings and emotions. Were with you all the way. So proud and inspired by you all. And the crazy middles. I would love to look into fostering one day when I'm ready.

This woman is an Angel. Seriously, thanks to you I believe in adoption. Thank you for giving so much love and peace to these kids. ❤️

I will never understand how someone could do that to kids. They already been through so much at a young age and then they still need to endure more torture? I hope Alex realizes that it’s not his fault. He is an amazing brother/son/ friend/cousin/ loving person. The same goes to Hannah, she is all those wonderful things as well! I am so glad they found their forever family with you guys! 💕 Also, Aurora was so cute when she came over and gave both of them hugs.. she could probably sense they were hurting a little bit and needed that.

As a foster adoptive mom I just want to wrap my arms around your son's neck. His precious heart 😥

I love seeing the pride for you your kids have when discussing this. 💕

Thank you to both of you for being so brave to share your story with all of us. I am in awe of your poise and maturity. I hope to one day foster and I promise I’m soaking up every bit of perspective you give us so that I can be a good foster parent. 💗💗

Wish Huxley could be saved by crystal

Sending love and prayers your way. I'm so proud of you guys for being brave enough to make this video. You 2 are amazing young adults and I'm so happy you got your forever family that you deserve

Crystal, you are an amazing mother . I hate that the kids had to go thru the abuse but look at them both now, happy, smart, beautiful kids.

I’m new to this channel. But I’m not new to directly working with kids of extreme negligence, abuse and abandonment. Thank you, mom, for reminding them that their abandonment is in no way their fault. It seems to me that you’ve educated yourself on trauma-based care to some extent. Props, and blessings to your whole family. 💗

Alex, you are clearly a beautiful human being. Anyone can see that by watching you. Hannah, you too. You sweet girl. Your stories break my heart. You are where you belong now, and are obviously huge blessings to your family AND those of us who watch your kind and generous hearts.

Alex you are amazing! Never ever ever think that was your fault! No one is perfect but you were a child and she was the adult and shame on HER for even saying that- and especially for the abuse she and her partner afflicted on you and the other children. Your real forever mom and dad love you SO much like you should be loved. I don’t even know you and I am proud of you and Hannah! The joy that you are makes me so happy and thank you for making my day better when I watch your videos. Keep being you!!! ❤️

I love the unconditional love your family has. Nobody is treated differently or loved more. You all are amazing parent's

Your kids are so incredibly special! Alex and Hanna you are both a blessing, you have the soften kindest caring personalities, you were meant to find this family! Your family!

Alex is so amazing and kind hearted after everything he has been through ❤️ I’m so glad both him and Hannah found their forever home with you guys

Myka stauffer knew he had special needs and adopted him anyways. What Myka did was awful . Poor baby .

I work for DCS in another state. The Stauffer situation has been weighing very heavy on my heart. I pray that it was a positive move for that little boy, and it will be a home that he'll thrive in. ❤❤ I love watching your blog/story. It continues to inspire me to be a better case worker, and helps recharge my heart after tough day.

I remember hearing your video about the foster care situation, court and the horrible abuse. This video has me crying putting a face to the story. Alex is such a bright, funny, charming & handsome young man I just don't understand. I'm sure you've done your due diligence to get his approval for the openness of this video.

Love this. Love you guys. You make me want to be that safe place for another child. My husband was in the system and he always says when we buy a house that he wants to foster.

Crystal Arron thank you for sharing this touching topic love watching it love you all have a wonderful and blessed day

All of you are so brave! Keep assuring all of your kids that this is, indeed, their forever home! Love you guys💞💞💞💞

I wish I could give all three of you a hug😭 I'm not adopted, but this really hit home for me. Im happy that Alex and Hannah are in a better place with a loving and wonderful family. ♥️

Aurora “talking” with Crystal is the cutest thing

Love you so much. You are such an inspiration x♥️

Wow!!! Such a heartbreaking story. Thank you Alex and Hannah for sharing. We know it takes a lot of bravery to talk about your stories. You two couldn't be in a better family now. You are in everyone's prayers to lesson the heartbreak from your journeys. Continue to be brave and shine in the love and patience from your forever family.

I'm watching this for the second time and I just want to give them both a huge hug! I cannot believe I've been watching for a year now! Looking up what was going on with Myka Stauffer and your input on it is what lead me to start watching your channel!

My husband went through a lot of what Alex did, his mother abused him and him and his brother was placed into Foster Care and his aunt came and got his brother but did not take him, his brother was raised with family and he was jumped around in the system and abused, unfortunately he was never adopted just stayed in the system. We was married 16 years when trying to have a child was unsuccessful and we adopted a baby girl from our friend who had cancer and was unable to care for her, she is now 4 and we named her Paisley. My heart is there for adopting sibling groups, we just have to get our finances in order and get a bigger home, I absolutely love watching you all and The Crazy Middles because it makes my heart so happy to see these kids succeeding and loved! Now for my question.. Alex and Hannah, When you all came to live with your mom and dad (crystal and Aaron) how did you act? Where you nervous if you wasn't perfect that you would be abused? How long did it take you to gain trust?

Alex and Hannah thank you for sharing more of your story, I cannot imagine how difficult it is to talk about. Children should never be blamed for adults issues, Alex any adult that places blame on a minor they are transferring blame, and or their guilt. Hannah you’re a very mature 13yr old, it broke my heart to see you fighting your emotions, you certainly are a very beautiful, strong, young Lady who deserves to feel safe and loved, Alex Sam and your other siblings from your previous adoption you all deserve to feel safe and loved. Aurora is the next level of adorable 😍, it seemed like Aurora was doing sign language to repeat what you were saying Crystal. As someone who cannot have children, abusive parents, neglectful parents who take their children for granted is definitely a sore spot for me. Crystal I am so glad you touched on the term “rehoming” I found that term to be out there, my kids are fur-kids, and when I heard that term I was shocked and was of the same opinion as you definitely a term that should never be used relating to a human being! Thankfully you all have found each other, and have found your forever home, that came with unconditional love respect and understanding!

Both teens are so brave for making this video. They’re shedding light on a topic no one wants to talk about. Imagine how many foster kids are watching this who think they are a burden. Beautiful teens inside and out ❤️

By watching you and all your children (bio and adopted) I can tell that there is ❤️ love for each and everyone of them and I send hugs to each and everyone of your family members. These adopted children have the best parents in you and Aaron.