It’s true that’s what I started doing :D I prayed to God today He made me realise I only wanted to be LOVED by someone ! My african household, I am the ONLY girl child, so it’s safe to say they didn’t really know how to treat, cater for a woman’s needs, development, and I experienced mummy /daddy issues! But God has show. Me I no longer need to run for a boyfriend and be tested bad by those UZELESS boys that I entertained! We good now! I AM LOVED! And don’t need a boyfriend right now! Forgive my rant but I was set FREE today LOOOOOL this is a BIG character development for me!!!

Thank you so much for this I needed this♥️🙏🏾

I feel this way everytime I try to make my point and it ends up in the trash like what i am saying don't matter or isn't rational

@@adorabrands Clearly he's not the one for you. I used to be like this. Tolerating bad treatment from my ex-husband. The Lord warned me not to date him, but I didn't listen. I slept with him when I shouldn't have prior to marriage. That's a soul tie & that's why I couldn't leave! Sex bonded me to him. Anyway I married him & he tried to strangle me to death! I had to take FULL accountability for disobeying GOD. Ladies...take accountability and realize you are God's beautiful, cherished daughters. By the way the woman whose boyfriend 'took' her virginity???? Unless he forced you. . YOU gave it to him. Wake up sweetpea.

Been through this very thing.

You normally date reflections of yourself

@@realnettieb they are definitely a reflection of each other.

@JC if you’re a giver they could be a taker ... it’s something familiar drawing you together. No one dates someone that’s completely off. If the guy is a narcissist you may be a people pleaser deep down

@@DailyDepositsADHD absolutely it’s no other way. But a lot of women deny that accountability

same for women but men do not have a history of getting women killed like women get men killed.

Bingo

Actually she sound weak, emotional, needy and clingy. No man wants that.

Say that again💯💯💯💯

They do!

Exactly right 💯

ouch so true

Which is ironic since he treated his own wife Rita like garbage.

When I heard this for the 1st time🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯

​@@zannahmartell9813his wife's name is Rita Marley

@@the_rightshade7811 you know you are totally right. Let me go correct my mistake x

Yep. My husband of 10 years forcefully kicked me and my daughter out of the house even though he knew that we had nowhere to go and my daughter ended up having to go live with her dad while I ended up having to live in my car. He made me homeless did not give a fuck about me, didn't check on me once to see how I'm doing or if I'm alive while living in my car in the middle of Texas summer. And he also didn't let me spend not one night out of the heat in the house that we still own together, he's threatened to call the police if I show up at my own house trying to stay there 🤬

Your name is also on the lease he's not allowed to kick you out. If I were you I would be the one calling the police. In fact I would have been the one calling the police to begin with and I would have reported him for domestic violence if he tried to physically remove me from my home. Legally you are allowed to get a locksmith to enter the home. If he gets irate call the cops and report him for domestic violence.

Hmm!

Be content!! You are the only one who can make yourself happy!

🤣😂🤣🤞

marriage for happiness

That’s why I’m divorced. It was the look of disgust he would give me. I could be just cooking dinner, for him! I could be just trying to have quality time, trying to be near him. I stayed 3 years too long. 6 year non marriage. But, I’m free now!

My boyfriend does the same. I'm so grateful.

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@@jasmine_milkyflower 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Real men defend you regardless of who it is.

I hope u can have another child. Im happy for what u posted. Thats great news to hear.

Reading this made my heart smile. I love that for you!!

well done!!

Even if you two had a disagreement that is unacceptable, im glad you left his behind.

You go girl

@@relaxwithme__ Thank you dear.

@Star Bright Thank you! That showed me he didn't give a dam.

Quit blaming men n b accountable for your own actions/everything has more than one side/hahaha 😆

@@ifearless495 pls be quiet

I mean idk if that’s true there are people I hate because they are genuine terrible people

We hate the traits in others that we hate in ourselves, we are reminded of what we do not wish to be and how we are at our worst or most unattractive.

@@ifearless495 men should also be accountable for their own actions. Don't you think.

Those types are narcissistic men and they hate you from day one

It's hard to leave them

The ruining special holidays and Birthdays were the worse

@@cphilogene7 Yes Gurl 😕 I know smh

this is my dad. & I hate dealing with that type of energy

Thats what he tells me...he was attracted to my light. But seems to hate me

Yes! I felt the same way. Also I had to realize that you can never be enough for a person that is wrong for you and stop trying to blame myself for why things ended.

Yes!!!! There nothing like feeling alone in a whole entire relationship!!

Wow my situation right now im beginning to realize all these clues & understand now🤦

I’m the fool that pursued things even post breakup. He would and still does insist he is still in love and misses me and that wanting to be with me was never the issue, he says it’ll never work cause of the constant arguing. The truth is, he has issues that he was unwilling to get help with. I offered therapy several times and he declined. He would rather breakup than try and make things work for once. I believe he held all the issues on me and there was nothing I could do because he was still the same. But he doesn’t think he’s wrong or has done anything. How do you believe a person who tells you everyday they still love you, and he still shows affection and buys me gifts randomly (I’m still moving out, which has been very hard cause I’m states away from where I need to be and have 3 pets) but they refused to make the relationship work…

True

@@BreenyLee We do love you, Breeny! Stay strong and greetings from Germany 😘

@Never Give Up, totally believe so too..... What I don't understand is what they wanted in the first place since they didn't love you?🥺 I mean it makes no sense hunting someone you don't know just to hate them🤬

Great and TRUE comment. They were play acting. It was an illusion, truth be known.

@@lolitazavala1879 They are narcissists. They can only have shallow relationships with people and use others for validation. And we, decent human beings, fail to understand them but that's fine because why should we waste time like this? Instead we should set boundaries and look for the red flags.

Best note! He will regret it so much I’m sure. Best of luck sis ❤️🙏🏽

Don't wait to make excuses for yourself to stay.

Rooting and praying for you!

Run girl. Run! And keep rewatching this video to remind yourself.

He actually had the audacity to think you will stay & swallow it. You showed him he messed with the wrong one.

What😳why are men so wicked

Very sad and sadly more common than not :( sexism is sociopathy. They aren’t born with it-but most are trained in it. Hoping to see the days where love rules on this planet instead of sick ego.

@V A You're absolutely right. He has a lot of childhood trauma that he hasn't dealt with. He talked about it whenever he would drink too much, so I knew deep down he was really hurting. I recognized his pain, and tried to take on a job that was fit only for God. I tried loving him through it. I tried talking him into seeking counseling, but in the process I sacrificed myself. Sometimes the best thing to do is to let go and let God. I honestly believe I was getting in God's way by trying to be his "savior." There was absolutely nothing I could do with his level of trauma except get myself hurt, and that's exactly what happened.

@@KindTiffany I found that I’m not up to dealing with any dude that’s got STRUGGLE because life’s too short to get the short end of the stick. I move on and forward.

@V A, not all women. The last person I dealt with (a female) has a lot of issues and insecurities but refuses to work on them. She hid them well until I held her accountable the first time she showed disrespect. It's not a gender issue, it's an individual issue.

The fact he went straight to her they may have set it up 😑

@@Msking-dm7cy yeah, sketchy ass situation and that dude is a pile of poop, good riddance

So sketchy wow

Lol

Hmm… Did he know this chick?

Women do the same shit to men, relax

@@battletested2934 nah men are ruthless!

Nah if you don’t love yourself you can’t love someone else. They don’t do it out of love they do it because they have a low sense of self and they’re codependent and insecure asf

@@MissTracyyy223 but isn’t that what humanity is about?? What is the point, being in a relationship/marriage if you can’t depend on ur partner? Plus men are suppose to protect..we as women need love and affection, we were built that way.

@@battletested2934 they do, but it's not on the same scale most of the time. Be realistic.

He mad cus he realized he's not as funny as he thinks he is. Good for you for not stroking his ego. Glad you got home safe.

@@nla5307 Thank you 💕

Whoa- psychopath

Healthy men will appreciate caring woman. Only toxic men take it as weakness

My mother always told me 'it's okay to love a man but let them love you just a little bit more so if anything goes wrong it won't hurt so bad.'

They hate they self.

He probably had a bad relationship with a narc mother. My ex’s mom is a total narc and she severely neglected him and the other kids. So double whammy there with the trauma.

@@acd1168 exactly

Couldn't agree more. Women need to stop showing this level of desperation. Men do not appreciate it, and as a result become resentful of these women. He doesnt necessarily 'hate' them, but women's apparent clingy, dependent behavior can build up this annoyance and resentment in men.

@@28761d Exactly I don't think it's hate I think it's disgust. I think they refuse to care for someone who doesn't value themselves.

Great advice...

Kinda good advice but most people have never had counseling or therapy so thats a tall order. Turning someone onto that idea if they don't see a need might be tricky.

@@TheMariemarie16 You're right. Especially when they watch channels like this as an alternative. Watching videos is helpful but a video is no substitute for a professional in a safe setting.

When you’re in a relationship with them/ married to them, and they tell you “we’re not together, and I will talk to other people” and then blame you for cheating on you… ufff

Jeez this comment touches deep.....

@@lisbethpichardo7755 that is what I went through it hurts soo much .

@@valerieshinia8526 same, hang in there you got this! We got this!

NO! THEY shouldnt be in a relationship with someone they hate! wtf - it is a voluntary, non legally binding association - were not married and were not blood -!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Yessss I can agree! His mother must have gave him a negative impression about woman, why he validates subconsciously mistreating woman through his life!

@@BreenyLee I’m making a video about this Breeny!!

Daaaaaamn...

😂😂😂😂😂😂 thank you

Periodt👏🏾👏🏾

😂🤣😂 ok!

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Amen

Yes ma'am! 😊😊

this is why i need a man who is already successful

Truth. My husband of 23 years hated me because I was more successful than he was. But he didn’t want to leave because it was not financially beneficial for him to leave. I had to file for divorce. Then 1 month after the divorce he got engaged to a light skinned Spanish young girl. That engagement did not even last 2 months. Congratulations to her . She dodged a bullet.

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they start to dislike u when they realize they are not good enough for u. when u set strong boundaries and have high standards for urself. when they cannot use u. weak men don't like strong women.

This ^^^ all of this!

Smart

Can confirm that lists are helpful

The list helps me refocus at challenging times, I also have his angry face on his contact pic and psycho ringtone, so I'm all set for any forthcoming bs

I was in that situation! After we broke he wanted to get back, and i just kept contact with him online to not forget what he is like!!! And when u ready to block these type of men number , u must block it not that he cant reach u, but u let not reach him! Brrr.

I don't know about that. I think he just doesn't have any idea of what love actually is . Some people just like the chase and loose interest once target has been acquired..I don't even think its malicious..some just don't have the capacity and the better the woman they lose interest in, the more confused they are . Find a man who is in touch with his heart and authenticity

@@kkibela Nah stop giving these men the benefit of the doubt when they show you their true colors.

Totally can relate. Emotional trauma. I find I'm always looking for a secure emotional connection due to that!

It's not easy to experience these things. But life shows us things we don't want so that we can choose something else. Your ability to be aware of the bullying means you can choose to be respected, appreciated, and loved honestly.

My father is an abuser, i watched him break my mother, my entire, childhood. Then i married a worse version of him.

@@kamilleking4708 wow that's deep. I hope you have happiness.

Very insightful.

Good point. We should listen to how he talks about is exes and note how he treats his mother and children’s mother. I’m going to have figure out a way to talk to his ex the next relationship. Question. Wouldn’t dating (collecting data) be getting to know him? What’s your perception of getting to know him vs. dating?

@@ladyb3796 Getting to know him means observing his patterns over an entire year. Patterns never lie. Keep him as a friend - no sleeping together or dating. Literally get to know his friends and his lifestyle. If he can handle this for a year without abandoning the friendship, than he could be worth it long term. In this time you will likely see him interact with other women, this is to your advantage even if you feel jealousy. You have to vet men because they are conditioned to lie to women to get what they want. Even their own mothers teach them to be superficially charming and kind. It’s up to us to give them less chances and observe more than interact.

@@missminti Ohhhh thanks!!! You mean literally playing the “friend” so they can open up more than they would if you were dating with intention for a long term relationship. Thanks!

@@ladyb3796 You’re welcome!

@@missminti This is Exactly what I do and It works for me.

Well then they can't continue to use and abuse you, does a cat just the a mouse go? We have to leave anyway...I'm so tired of women saying, "he won't let me" bb it's on you to find the strength to leave, an abuser isn't going to just let you go, no. They are going to try and manipulate you back under their thumb, and for obvious reasons.

You realized 5 months sooner than me 🥺

Feel you sis is very sad sad sad realizing this feeling

This is a beautiful comment. 🌻

#ThattPartt

So true

Ladies, all you need is love and attention from YOURSELF. You don't need love from men. You are bravi and independant

I hope Breeny makes a million from this video...ive shared it so many times xxxx

the question is who was actually in the relationship? it seemed like one was and the other did get the message!

So many women look at a mans "potential" "i can change him" NAH believe exactlyyy what he shows you now.

Easy to say until you realize he’s a narcisstic abuser

wow your story has inspired me.. i wrote a list of what i want in a man in 2019, yet i keep attracting scumbags! God will one day fulfil my heart desires.

I am going to make my own fresh list again.. I settled for a guy too and got attached in an unhealthy way for absolutely no reason.. he was only giving me to he crumbs.. gonna make a new list

This is truly inspirational and uplifting. Thank you for sharing. I did a similar thing with a list, I still haven't met that special someone who is a man and not intimated by my ambition but just writing and having that list makes me feel empowered and worthy. Breeny's ex was not man enough to encourage and support her success. He was jealous and his jealousy made him spiteful. Breeny can now continue to prosper and flourish without him. 🙏🏾💜

I wish the best for everyone but these guys are competitive, it's crazy. The ones fucking them over they pardon, they must think they deserve nothing He thinks he is fooling everyone but my friends are happy I'm free.

This needs more likes.

Man for real

Wow

Currently in the “get to know you” stage with someone, red flags flown high & bright, sadly this person is showing so much envy towards my achievements & accomplishments, I will not ignore this, I’m always encouraging, positive, “look at the bright side”, in our conversations but another red flag , those conversations always become about him. I will not be continuing this process with him, it’s a NO for me!

Lol he said his ex he didn’t mention this guy , it could be any ex

Her grandmother died recently and the holiday to Sierra Leone, plus the picture are all recent. It's her most recent boyfriend. She made many videos regarding this relationship...

I know of a man who can help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate 🔚🔚🔚🔚🔚

WhatsApp him 🚾🚾🚾

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@@faithvictor7160 Thanks but no thanks. When it's over it's over.

@@benjaminslife9424 He can help you get him back if you still love him 🥰

Seriously can we normalize not taking the bare minimum cause that’s all the person we love has

@@lotusbomb6402 louder 🔊🔊🔊 there are folks at the back who need to hear this. We gotta stop accepting the bare minimum. 💯

Agreed. And i just hate how women are blamed for the destruction of the family... just cause we refuse to stay in abusive relationships.

@@sadiemakesmesmile exactly!!! We have to start giving each other as women a voice and the right to not tolerate nonsense.

I wish we were more honest with each other concerning what we're really experiencing with our partners. I'm actually really surprised to hear all this after it seemed that Breeny had found the perfect partner. We often hear such stories and the minute they break up, it turns out that the guy was a narc etc. He didn't change overnight. I know that people would rather be envied than pitied but... let's be a little more honest.

Because they are miserable and want to make you miserable as well that power makes them feel good it’s sick

I said the same! Anything I dont want to be bothered with I want AWAY from me🤷🏾.

Ikr? I was ready to end the relationship several months before it actually ended (because he was unsatisfied), but because he said he didn't want to, I reconsidered. Even in the end, he wanted a break instead of a break up. I think this guy was too insecure to leave me, yet he was really bringing me down.

Stop simping dude ....this is the problem we have right now in the world

@@zackbrown5201 it’s called appreciation, don’t come with that pill nonsense.

I'm glad you prioritised your happiness you got this💪🏾 I wish you healing and growth with God in this new season of your life❣If you like to read, i'd like to suggest you some books on Amazon that add more infos to what Breeny is highlighting, it definitely helps to be more self-aware and see toxicity from miles away👍🏾: "breaking generational curses by marilyn hickey" "wendy dilemma: when mother stop mothering their men by dan kinley" "Things I wish i'd known before we got married by Gary Chapman"

@@historiqueafricaine thank you for the suggestions, I'll definitely check them out. I'm currently reading "Peace from Broken Pieces" by Iyanla Vanzant, "Trust" by Iyanla Vanzant, "101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think" by Brianna Weist and "Woman Evolve " by Sarah Jake Robert's which I highly recommend as well

Best of luck to you Sarah

My ex friend/ situationship did the same thing as your ex did. It is literally the worst feeling ever I am so sorry for your position if it ever gets too bad I would contact a lawyer immediately and file an order of protection take screenshots of everything and don’t reply to him or tell him to leave you alone.

@@carolinejune9873 I'm sorry for what you went through. Its incredibly hurtful to know that someone you trusted stabbed you in the back like that. It's been around 9 weeks for me since we broke up and I'm in a better headspace now. When he had us followed and made threats, we informed the police who called him in and warned him. They assured us we would be safe and even offered police escort to the airport. You sometimes here stories like this but never think it will happen to you!

Thank God that he exposed his crusty self. Onwards to bigger and better love. Congrats friend.

Sis he's a confused fuckboy, GOD saved you. Consider yourself lucky and focus on yourself and you will attract the right healthy person!

I am sorry you were deceived. Hopefully, you will find someone genuinely authentic to being committed to being in a relationship with you.

That's bizzare.

In 6 months, you want even think about it. You were in love with the idea.

No. No more wannabe kings. I'ma build my kingdom alone and adopt some kids. I intend to live as a Phoenix Queen. Trust me the majority of men are not ready. I graduated an elite high/secondary school in 2000. 75% of the men are still not married and 25 % of the women are divorced. Only about 10 of the men are married. The odds are not in our favour. 10 out of 100 men at age 40?

Thanks so much for that!

Sengisaba kwam'jolo weh Lwazi

Don't worry sis

@@nokwandajobe1021 hayi sana kurough mo' 😂😂

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@@MsDutchess336 ❤❤❤❤❤

The self disappoint is REAL. You're more angry and heartbroken over what YOU ALLOWED TO HAPPEN and the fact that you stayed when they didn't give a shit

@@obsidian3510 That part! I can't lie I learned a lot about myself.

@@imaqtat16 you do. After being broken down emotionally IT FORCES YOU TO TAKE A LONG LOOK AT YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR. It's better to be alone than to be with someone like that. Even if it gets lonely

Yes!!

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Yes!!

Men are socialized by society/ the system to hate/ dislike women. Women who dislike men are typically due to the direct actions of a man. That's why misogyny is fact and misandry is fiction.

im glad you learnt your mistakes. Next time run after the 1st red flag

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It’s worse when theses guys are aware of their inner demons and the whole spiritual concepts but truly don’t practice what they preach. Those are the true demons and after tolerating so much disrespect from my last relationship I’m glad I was able to open my eyes to the manipulation and I was done with with being compassionate and understanding and chose me. Going through the grieving process but grateful for the lesson to love myself unconditionally and always choose me from now on. We are all queens and we deserve authentic love. Never Settle for less ladies !!!💓

This the one!! We women are not bandages for broken men, they will drain you and leave you with NOTHING

A lot of toxic men but there are good men. Good men are providers, protectors and professors of their love. Have to know difference between toxic and healthy masculinity.

She didn’t say that she talked about women who stay. We know the abusers don’t leave…. The are the ones with the power. Abuse is about power

Very true!!!

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All fax

Why would they ? They don’t leave because they are still getting something from it - either sex or validation (the abused person’s desperation ).

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God’s got you and your awaited bundle of joy 💯

These comments are literally breaking my heart🥺..I'm so sorry you had to go through that💔 Ladies guard your heart and stay close to God and Pray!

Yep. Devil been there!!! Waiting to take us out!! Subscribed.

That is messed up. You deserve better

So true. They'll turn others against you too. X

So true

yep! sounds like one if its' all about him & being so deliberately toxic and evil

You’re not alone sis. I had to start recording our conversations after a while because he was such a professional gas-lighter and Narc.. He even told all my business, including the things I was most insecure about to his sidechicks 😆 one of his one- year long side chicks even “felt so bad for me” that she helped me pack my shit and move out.. only to start fucking with him after and get pregnant by him twice..oh, I was also married to this guy by the way..smh. 😔

I've experienced this. Darkest time of my life. Haven't been in a relationship since and this was in 2018💀 He's a scorpio & I'm a pisces. I'm not emotionally available so I've just been in this space of self development and focusing on what I want for me and I've found I'm happier this way. No compromising, no second thoughts, I just do what makes me happy.🥰

@@lisbethpichardo7755 Oh my God 😩 I'm sorry angel.🤍

You are not alone ...

Same... You lose your mind...and Ask yourself if its normal ...if you Ask too much...

Yes, this!

!!! Its natural for a man to solve problems because they are logical thinkers

@@cierrataree3366 well guess they’re not male if they can’t do themselves the favor. It should naturally happen but somehow it doesn’t and the Fuck up is real. Yet continues to ask what do you think about whatever it is and become severely pissed if not decisions made on your behalf. Only thing that does if woman doesn’t catch it is surely turn her into a him/her with her logically doing everything including the thought process. Where’s the logic in that? Sounds like a serious problem there. Only the healthy ones are naturally whole to even process logic. Lots of my male friends continue to say “it’s becoming very thin as time moves forward of them witnessing a fully masculine male”.

@@sexygabby30 🙆 bruh...what are you even trying to say...lord

@@cierrataree3366 lmaoo… aye aye aye I know I didn’t put my punctuations but read it again you’ll get what I’m saying. But yes you are right it’s supposed to a natural thing for males to be logical thinkers. But that’s very thin today. Seriously

Except she was the one who discarded him as opposed to him discarding her. What are your qualifications to make this diagnoses of a man you Haven’t met? That word narcissist is flung around wantonly to ascribe to any man who a woman doesn’t like and actually comes from a position of Gynocracy and sexism. Imagine a man walking around describing women as having a cluster b personality like Schizo or Borderline personality disorder ( which affects mostly women) just because he doesn’t like something she did?

@@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229 Peace!....

@@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229 Did you not just watch the video of numerous recollections of how he treated her? Stop defending despicable behavior and trying to normalize it. You’re just as disgusting as him.

@@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229 don't worry we already know ur a Narc.

could not have said it better, love.

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At this level,That's from the devil!!

Single life is the most peaceful life lol!! Speaking from experience

I agree. Value your singleness and build a personal relationship with GOD. I felt the same and it lead to me wasting a lot of time with someone just like who Breeny Lee described. Time is precious. You are blessed gotta realize that. You are not missing out on anything. Trust in the Lord and let him guide you not society. Society will lead you a dark rabbit hole and leave you there to die and only Jesus Christ will be able to bring you out.

Ask GOD to reveal your true identity in Christ and ask him for a revelation on your purpose.

Find a therapist. Also get the book by Stephan Labossiere love after heartbreak

Meditation, breathing exercises, and therapy. Believe me I felt the same way for 5 years after I left. I'd say therapy was the most effective and I now know that everything that happened to me was not my fault and I'm not crazy. I hope you find peace.

@@shawnlee220 wow...I love how you put this...I can so relate. Great advice!

Going through the same thing. It’s been 3 weeks since we broke up and just like you I’m feeling so stupid for tolerating so much sh*t and ignoring all the red flags. I think the biggest flaw we have as loving and kind people is that we always want to see the best in people so we cover the bad with the good they do. I often reduced my own feelings in order for him to be happy. I prioritized his needs before my own. I was so busy constantly trying to prove myself worthy of his love that I forgot to love myself. I now have learned that we need to be kind and love ourselves enough to say no. And we don’t need to prove ourselves to anyone. We need to set boundaries and understand that we are not in charge of how other people respond to those boundaries, and we should never compromise the things that are important to us. We need to guard our hearts enough to respect ourselves and give ourselves the same kind of love and kindness that we so freely give to others♥️ I am slowly learning to not be a people pleaser. I will never again lose myself in another human being because I now know that people will always end up disappointing and hurting me in one or another way, it’s a part of human nature. With that said, I know how you feel and what you’re going through, trust me. It’s been 3 weeks for me and I still cry everyday, having trouble sleeping, eating and manage work but I keep reminding myself that he did not deserve my love and that God saved me from this man. After the breakup all my friends and family told me that they never liked him anyway and that they were afraid to tell me because I was so blindly in love with him. Just try to be kind to yourself and trust the timing of your life🙏🏽♥️

Felt 💕 and you’ll get back to being you in no time. Just keep going!

@Pandemicsurvivor144 Glad you're now in a healthy and loving relationship. Wish you all the best 🙂

Amen.

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🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤

Narcissisme is a spiritual thing not a medical condition!

Amen 🙏

Y don’t they just date there female friends

Girl I would have pulled awa

Away

You said a word right there!! "He didn't have a NATURAL CURIOSITY ABOUT ME"

@@deespeaks._6315 exactly!!! 💯💯💯🤦

I definitely understand

Hugs

@ayokilaza it’s an excellent read. It is a page turner. Couldn’t put the book down.

Please where can I find this book?

@@mayendraekopi1918 Amazon by Janice Hylton Thompson

@@mayendraekopi1918 on Amazon. Did you watch that movie “The Help”? Well it is a similar concept. She interviewed hundreds of wives and ex wives and they remained anonymous. They told exactly what they deal with in their marriages and warn women never to overlook red flags.

I got that book

He probably never loved it. That was a love bombing act to bait and switch. He more than likely wanted to take that from you before you left.

@@ladyb3796 true😭😭😭😭

Doesn’t seem Like he got much from The relationship. Seems like she was the one who wanted everything.

@@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229 & maybe that's bc she had unmet needs & his were already being met? how did u come to this conclusion?

Mine too

The way I screamed when she said that 😭😭😂😂😂

😂😂😂😂 she's on a mission to set women free we need this

@@christy7516 I’m glad we all acknowledge it’s a spirit 🤣🤣🤣 we are free indeed !!!