When Things are Out Of Your Control

When Things are Out Of Your Control - Teal Swan -

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8 жыл бұрын

Sometimes we find ourselves in situations where we have no control over what is happening. This makes us feel completely powerless. In this episode, Teal explains what to do when we find ourselves in this scenario where we are out of control.
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Teal Swan is a revolutionary for personal transformation and is one of The Most Spiritually Influential Living People in the world. As a renowned author, speaker and social media star, she travels the world teaching self-development and teaching people how to transform their emotional, mental, physical and spiritual pain.
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@lowellcalavera6045 3 жыл бұрын

Words can't describe how valuable this person has become to me.

@luciadesilva1991 2 жыл бұрын

I second this. ❤️

@user-to4lb5qw1m 2 жыл бұрын

To me too

@dayanahoyosvera4170 2 жыл бұрын

Teal is terrific

@salmalachgar 2 жыл бұрын

Same dude.. Same.

@lbeschrich 2 жыл бұрын

Right?! Her videos help sooooo much

@luciadesilva1991 2 жыл бұрын

When I feel emotionally consipated. I come to watch these videos and can cry. Deep pain. I think it's because I can use these videos to feel heard and understood. It's in those moments I can sperate from the pain and give myself compassion. I can't ask for help I don't have anyone. But the videos help for me to release the pain. Then I feel relief and space, and I can think and breathe again. The expansion that comes I'm grateful for. ♥️ Thank you teal

@moonbabyhealing 2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful. I feel validated and understood with her videos

@luticia 8 жыл бұрын

I LOOOOOOVE "Have a good" week at the end so much. Honestly in each of her video I'm looking forward to this sentence. It's the way she says it, her expression, her smile, her everything. All together have such a loveing, calming and safe effect on me, in my life where NOTHING is secure.

@kaylacarpenter272 8 жыл бұрын

The things she's saying, whether it from.her mouth, or someone else, these things are JUST TRUE PERIOD. This is unbiased, factual, therapeutic information. What she is saying has been said for THOUSANDS OF YEARS, BECAUSE IT WORKS. Jog on, dude.

@SoFkwHat 7 жыл бұрын

Also Known As Suggest you find a good therapist.

@maishazarinanan5028 5 жыл бұрын

I feel you

@kristilu1987 4 жыл бұрын

This is where I choose to find hope in this out of control time

@nelidaaceves2383 8 жыл бұрын

Think is exactly what I needed to hear and what I needed vibrationally, You are saving me so much money in Therapy, please never stop what you are doing!!

@leaa8445 8 жыл бұрын

+Nelida Aceves I know, she's saved me a ton on therapy too, which is awesome :)

@MTgantua 8 жыл бұрын

+Leyla Avci there some pretty awesome comments

@infinity401 7 жыл бұрын

Yes, me too, her voice is so soothing also :)

@lornastreamsofdreams1096 7 жыл бұрын

Nelida Aceves a

@angiep8217 6 жыл бұрын

Nelida Aceves it happened to me already & cost thousands of $

@thebotanicalmind 8 жыл бұрын

I could listen to this every morning and still learn from this message, and improve my vibrational attunment to what I need right now. :-)

@nightsky8012 3 жыл бұрын

I've been having suicidal thoughts since last year. And I've been watching your videos ever since. It's like you understand me more than I do. You don't know how much you've helped me spiritually over the past year, just by me listening to your videos usually.

@Megan6772 10 ай бұрын

I've been there. Going through a rough time now. How are you these days? ❤

@alex-ander-13 Ай бұрын

Keep walking the path. Your bravery is so inspirational to so many of us. You got this.

@CommonSense247pls 5 жыл бұрын

"As long as we are seeking control, we can not let go and allow" - This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear, thank you so much! I feel like I just dropped so much weight off my shoulders and it help to counter my Type A tendencies haha.

@miss.ahsheya 8 жыл бұрын

thanks again. i was curled up having an emo moment. this made me feel 10x times better.

@Raidoven 8 жыл бұрын

who on earth would create a painful situations for themselves? i did. because i broke up with my ex despite still loving her, because i didn't think i was good enough/could make her as happy as I wanted her to be. i knew it would hurt like hell once she finally moved on with another guy, and now that's a reality. It's still hurting, but your videos are helpful. It was in my control but that's in the past. And maybe on a subconscious level I know that it's not good for us to be together, back when i was still less emotionally mature, and that getting through this pain will make me grow in ways I never have before.

@tonyrocket2103 5 жыл бұрын

You saved my life Teal Swan :-) Thank you

@leayahia8880 3 жыл бұрын

Same here . Thanks Teal

@michellewright5767 2 жыл бұрын

❤️

@GabrielTravelerVideos 8 жыл бұрын

Wow, that was awesome, especially at the end, you were really flowing with the spirit.

@camwilliams1 7 ай бұрын

In the biggest learning curve, my Mom passed away 6 weeks ago, I come from a family of five, I am one of two family scapegoats in the group. The golden child provided lies, manipulation, and secrets and has built teams who will cosign based on getting wink-wink deals, he is the executor of the will. Wow want a great place for me to grow, thank you God. I had started launching into grant writing company before my Mom passed. I slipped into attaching to the inheritance as my ways and means. WOW LOL did that take me down a path of beyond my control, which has given me an opportunity to release the concept of "my way." I also consider myself as a Christian in process, meaning the hot water bottle on my belly. I have felt incredible rage, and awful gut punches from the 3, I call them the 3 musketeers. The other side of this expanded view of I am supported by the universal sources of all things. The rivers of abundance right in front of me. It does not mean I turn into a milk toast it means I acknowledge that my ways and means have always been steadfast. My rough bumps have unfolded to teach me my ability to trust the force of God. My compassion has grown for myself, I am not alone, these golden children also have low self-esteem, most likely do not sleep well at night, and they are suffering. My compassion has grown for all of us who were taught by a wounded Mom trying to heal through her own life traumas. What is dropping off me are barnacles of non-truth, which could look like manipulation, pain, sorrow, and hurts. My desire is for our souls to be reset to the purity of who we are, claiming we are a spark of Divine here on earth

@beckhamseven10 2 жыл бұрын

What do to when things feel out of control. Brief overview of the video for anyone who would like a quick reminder: 1. Give up trying to control 2. Create positive momentum in another area of life 3. Focus on the choices you DO have 4. Set small goals to acomplish daily 5. Ask for help 6. Get to the core of your fear. What it is you are truly afraid of? 7. Regroup & reassess your genuine wants and needs. Find out what you really want and need. 8. Understand the nature of uncertainty 9. Love & apprecate anything you can.

@alex-ander-13 Ай бұрын

Thank you for the time invested.

@beckhamseven10 Ай бұрын

@@alex-ander-13 you're welcome

@dolligrl2000 5 жыл бұрын

Teal, I know this is an old video but I really needed to listen this today. I was diagnosed with something nefarious and have been desperately trying to micro manage outcomes I have no control over at this point. Thank you.

@selftaughtbot 8 жыл бұрын

Teal. You have saved my life and gave me the advice I needed in my recovery. I wouldn't be the same person I am today if I didn't find your videos. I had the opportunity to briefly meet you in LA workshop and it was truly amazing. I just wanted to say that your perspective on things are very unique and probably scare a lot of people, but seriously you motivated me to face my demons and find self love. You helped me in my journey. So thank you.

@Emily-us4gq 3 жыл бұрын

how are you doing these days??

@BenjaminLupton Жыл бұрын

If we are here, despite some ephemeral changes, we will all comes to regress and fall further below the sheltered privileges necessary to thrive in the empire. Time expires and by the time we've gathered enough control our swim, the empire has expanded, changed the rules, and left us to perish as ashes to fertilise those hopefully more fortunate.

@pamchesler242 3 күн бұрын

I experienced years of consistent trauma and then more years with therapists who basically said the exact Opposite of what you are describing. Then, years of medications that made me sick physically on top of the emotional trauma. You basically summed up, step by step, pretty much everything that I needed to hear and validated every one of my challenges and my desire to understand how to heal myself. I cannot express how grateful I feel towards you…I know your history and since I’m in the beginning stages of healing, feel pretty much horrified and angry (as I see it as a mirror of my own feelings) but not to compare. You are accurate when you expressed that what you experienced led you to your calling. Ty for being brave enough to go through the healing process and paying it forward Teal. I do not believe that the healing process ever ends. But, one can come a long way to become the beautiful, powerful, and devine soul that they were born (created) to be. Does not matter what the trauma, you ARE meant to be loving, loved and valued. This, you give to yourself above all else, than those who are doing the same “work” will come to you. Just believe in yourself and know that you are worthy of of all these things ❤ Namaste 🙏

@Dayana-mk5ch 10 ай бұрын

5:50 - Teal begins giving her recommendations.

@rationalityrules111 4 жыл бұрын

Teal is really good. Really really good. One of the best in the world. Top-notch psychologist and therapist.

@Rainbow2dcore 5 жыл бұрын

How can someone dislike this healing video! Thank you so much! I cann't imagine life without this video :)

@Dayana-mk5ch 10 ай бұрын

I love what Teal says here about the vibration of empowerment and how to be empowered.

@leezaloo 2 жыл бұрын

1) Give up control completely, consciously give up, surrender. You can't let go and allow as long as you're seeking control. Cut your losses! Change is needed. Spend time in this space of total surrender to the universe at large until that no longer feels like relief and then you may be ready to move forward. 2) We need to set our momentum on the right course. Negative things manifest in our reality when our momentum is going down a negative course and is has built up so much speed that there's no real way of stopping that momentum. We have to create positive momentum until that is unstoppable in our current life. Control is the byproduct of fear. Empowerment is finding alignment in any small or large way. 3) Focus on the choices you DO have. What we do have control over is the way we feel about our circumstances. When we are focused on the ways that we're limited, we cannot see the ways that we're unlimited. That reality seems so far away from us because we can only be aware of what we're a vibrational match to. Play a game: Take all of your attention off the things you have no control over, and place you're attention instead on anything you do have control over. 4) Set small goals to accomplish and scratch them off your list. 5) Ask for help. 6) Find out what it is that you're REALLY afraid of in this situation. Often we just disempower ourselves and are waiting for something outside of us to change to feel safe enough to act etc. But we're completely unprepared to face the consequence, so we've become paralyzed. Once we are prepared to face the consequence, we are no longer stuck and powerless. 7) Regroup and and reassess your genuine wants and needs. What do I really want and why? 8) When you're struggling with feeling of being completely out of control in reality, then you are dealing with uncertainty. Vid: How to deal with uncertainty 9) Love in any way or form possible. Opposite vibration of fear is love. In the absence of fear new opportunnities open up.

@patriciac2066 6 жыл бұрын

You truly are a gift.

@donkeydave3246 8 жыл бұрын

Watching this on 0.5x speed in the settings is so psychedelic

@mondoraptor 8 жыл бұрын

+David Krolak LOL ! Very trippy indeed!

@alisas.8897 8 жыл бұрын

+David Krolak Bahahahaha

@anjanipathak3458 8 жыл бұрын

+David Krolak oh god I came to watch this video in a really serious mood and i just cant stop laughing now lol

@alecverkuilen3920 8 жыл бұрын

+David Krolak hahahahahaha!!!! Thank you :)

@InvertedSeal 8 жыл бұрын

+David Krolak AHAHAHAHA! THIS IS FREAKING GOOD!

@shamyshamuswow213 4 жыл бұрын

All my thoughts and fears i let them go.... All we really have is this moment

@IThinkItsForYou 8 жыл бұрын

It takes A LOT to get to this stage, but it helps and is so life transforming. Me currently: two narcissistic parents who couldn't care less that I'm poor because I sacrificed all my opportunity to make their lives easier, I have £700 gas bill to pay and not that in the bank. I'm spending days eating very little and completely alone. But the current people in my life are such hell that being manipulated by them any more is worse than all of this. I feel peace despite all this and somehow just know that I'll be alright. But how did to that state of peace? Sheer HELL!

@alexandramarie5668 6 жыл бұрын

The ending of this video was poetry. So beautiful Teal! I'm so happy you exist

@leahtaylor4848 8 жыл бұрын

You are such an enlightened being. Thank you for sharing your gifts of wisdom and empathy on KZfaq. You have helped to heal me.

@leydimoralesATL 2 жыл бұрын

Came across this video in 2022, when the world literally feels like it’s lost it’s mind… yet it’s still manages to get even worse somehow. Thanks teal ✨♥️

@FlatWorld_Jomhuri_Regime 6 жыл бұрын

And listening to this makes me wonder, now, why people want to attack Teal Swan??

@stariadreamtea 2 жыл бұрын

Because she comes in waves. She's had a lot of beautiful videos like this lately. There are times where I found her sarcastic and really out of alignment. Not kind in delivering the message - like something was going on for her in her private life that was distorting the message. Like an extremely evolved and controlled person with BPD. Very fragmented. I feel like she's been very well for a while now and gaining more popularity. Well earned.

@FlatWorld_Jomhuri_Regime 2 жыл бұрын

@@stariadreamtea Happy comment.

@HomicidalDavid 8 жыл бұрын

The background is awesome.

@danikahli 5 жыл бұрын

You`ve been saving my life these days.

@ZeroPointZap 8 жыл бұрын

excellent... i am going thru this and just had this revelation yesterday... thank you so much for the confirmation... maybe i won't take myself out.... its easy to say a lot of that stuff when you are not HOMELESS tho...

@starqueenlotus3755 2 жыл бұрын

Whenever I listen to you Teal i feel my heart touched so immensely that it connects to my tear glands and tears dripping out drop by drop. I feel as if I am healing live on stat . You are a gem on the planet ..

@psmills2984 8 жыл бұрын

I love this!! Such a wonderful, eye-opening perspective of life!!

@Mountainman1971 6 жыл бұрын

I enjoy seeing how much love there is between you and your fur baby. 💓 Thank you Teal.

@skygelbron6321 8 жыл бұрын

I needed this today. Perfect timing. I asked for answers, and here I receive them... Thank you, thank you.

@cecetheindigo2934 8 жыл бұрын

thank you so much Teal! you've been such a big part of my own spiritual awakening and you stay on my gratitude list daily! Keep spreading truth, light, and love, and inspiring people to wake up and speak up!

@FlatWorld_Jomhuri_Regime 6 жыл бұрын

This helped me get over an Ex. Thank You Teal.

@Sugabullets 8 жыл бұрын

We are co-dependant validation seeking creatures, this ensures we connect with each other and spread love. Thing is, all the questions we have contain the answers within them, we have the ability answer any question without any assistance independently. Yet we continue to ask from the ego perspective. It is the time to understand this so that we can work interdependently to build a more loving and flowing environment around us and most importantly within us. Allow love to guide you not fear.

@bellodee 8 жыл бұрын

YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS I NEED TO LISTEN TO THIS 10 TIMES AND BIG CLICK FOR ME THANK YOU

@Guanaalex 8 жыл бұрын

I am grateful, that your are doing what you are doing! Thanks for your good heart, helping the ones that have stranded with there ships on some beach and are stuck. Thank you for your beautiful soul of compassion.

@youngatnaruto 8 жыл бұрын

Teal make a video about your thoughts on EFT TAPPING

@lilianakostova11 7 жыл бұрын

YES PLEASE!

@1derfultink 8 жыл бұрын

Teal Swan, I have been seeking the advice you just gave. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you. My entire life has come undone and I have been busy fighting it! I am going to watch this again until I can learn your lessons. I am ready to move forward and recreate my existence.

@gaian6497 8 жыл бұрын

Resonated with this with a different perspective.. So intriguiing how Teal always seems to repeat her words but yet are able to bring in freshness to these energy blocks

@osiriswills6749 3 жыл бұрын

Teal I just wanted to let you know how powerful this video is. This couldn't have come at a more important time in my life. I am currently dealing with a situation that is out of my control and yes I have experienced the despair. I will surrender and understand that this physical manifestation is for my greater good

@sailyx3jupy 2 жыл бұрын

Watch this video over and over and over again. Then watch it again.

@timoverdier5577 7 жыл бұрын

This is huge! --a leading edge of human "being" and awareness. Thank you Teal.

@limeros88 8 жыл бұрын

The greatest depths of spirituality is within serving others and surrender.

@tracieyudichak2315 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you. This video applied back the first time I felt things were out of control and I happen to find your channel while youtube surfing. I am feeling things are out of my control again and this video applies. The only main difference I feel now is that I am no longer out of control; even though things (and also thoughts that come out of my mouth) are out of my control, my feelings do not feel out of control. This time around, I received a different message because I am no longer trying to convince myself and believe that self-love is good. I know it now and live it passionately, as well as share it. There are mistakes I am still making from the moment I decided I am important in this world. There are still times I am completely perplexed at the results verses the ideas I began with. Through whatever form adversity plays into my life, the message I got this time around through this video is, Whatever has happened, Whatever is happening, Whatever may happen is never as powerful as what I allow to happen. Thank you and have a good week! Thank you Teal!

@starsinmybrain 8 жыл бұрын

Perfect timing for me to hear this!! Thanks Teal!!

@SalmissraTP 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you Teal for sharing your gift of insight and wisdom - grattitude x

@kelseymeyer7381 8 жыл бұрын

Much love Teal. This message was something I needed right now. Thank you for shining your light and sharing your message

@michellewright5767 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Teal. Everything you said resonated with me, and I really needed to hear this. You are amazing ❤️

@narayajourney 4 жыл бұрын

Perfect for the current situation of tightening global control! Thank You from my High Heart!

@sophismpress 8 жыл бұрын

Brilliant as always Teal. Thank you.

@Whatworksthisworks 8 жыл бұрын

Once again you nailed it! Thank you!!!

@rebekaht1314 8 жыл бұрын

i really resonated with this message and it has helped me get through the day. peace and love for all of eternity

@Eli666Ms 8 жыл бұрын

this is really true. It happens to cause myself times of uncertainty just to experience complete allowing, acceptance and grounding in the present moment..

@keilighthousediary 8 жыл бұрын

I love you, boo

@cbgadmin379 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Teal so happy to have found you, love always

@shezzababy1 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you Teal, you have given me so much and made me understand my world, be able to deal with my negative emotions and the bad experiences in my life. You came to me in a time when I needed you most, I hope that others can become attune to all that you have to offer the world. Keep doing the great work that you are doing for humanity.

@Jiiyun 8 жыл бұрын

Aww that puppy!! So full of love for you!! Thank you for this message. Literally stayed up all night until this video was released, I knew I was going to be getting an important message. (MY current lesson is this!)

@JohnGalt2028 8 жыл бұрын

I appreciate You, Teal Swan. Since I don't have extrasensory abilities, appreciate KZfaq and the World Wide Web to be able to connect with you.

@Gushara 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your perspective in pealing the layers of the onion. Feeling it in each moment ..... the relief.....bless

@larrycork1361 6 жыл бұрын

You help to create peace in a crazy world

@juliab.75 5 жыл бұрын

She knows what she's talking about!

@ametrine7 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you Teal. Blessed Be.

@Qetesh773 8 жыл бұрын

Awesome video! I love you Teal. Your innocence and love shines so brightly ❤️❤️

@meowed 8 жыл бұрын

REALLY NEEDED THIS TODAY! THANK YOU!!

@leafitoussi1028 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Teal ! This is wonderful ! Helps me so much ❤

@wanimusician 8 жыл бұрын

the dog at the end!! SO ADORABLE!!

@ayeshawindsong990 8 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU SO MUCH TEAL!!! :) Thank YOU!

@iamjcsmit 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Teal. Much love to you.

@kiijordan9905 5 жыл бұрын

You are so Brilliant Teal... thank you so much...🙏🙏🙏

@NicoleRonse 8 жыл бұрын

This was exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you Teal!

@ArankaPoliak 8 жыл бұрын

As always perfect timing Teal, this another yours video will help me to start this day, week, month....Thank you xoxox Your book is awesome. Love it. This teaching should be part of schooling system.

@peterhaywood4111 2 жыл бұрын

So many powerfully helpful videos. And this one came at the perfect time.

@dianap550 8 жыл бұрын

just what I needed. perfect timing.

@laquiviahand8077 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this reminder teal. Namaste

@levi3slc 5 жыл бұрын

My sincere thanks to you for helping me adjust my perspective. My best wishes to you.

@naturelover3147 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you for making this video!!! Perfect and I soooo needed those outlooks at this time in my life.

@JT-wc7me 2 жыл бұрын

I've been prevented from what I want and need. It's becoming senseless to keep going

@Google990g 5 жыл бұрын

this is exactly what I needed to hear, thank you

@gs3258 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you for yet again another amazingly helpful and meaningful video. I wish you well Teal, you are doing amazing work. This video spoke to me and my current situations very clearly. I got the message I was searching for. You are truly wonderful Teal. LOVE & PEACE

@imst805 8 жыл бұрын

Thanks Teal for this (and your other videos) they help me a lot. x

@tyramuhammed6480 7 жыл бұрын

teal; I got to admit you've done so much for me by me watching your videos do appreciate it love you so much!

@scottmaslinfiftyb5121 8 жыл бұрын

amazing woman of spiritual wisdom and knowledge much love

@threelilpigs3797 5 жыл бұрын

Really, really good one! Right on time! My instincts are getting so much better!

@surfhempster 8 жыл бұрын

The ending and message has me smiling and in my heart again ~ thank you Teal ~ ♥

@ElleSeven 8 жыл бұрын

loved it! thank you Teal. wisdom plus genuineness.

@ElleSeven 8 жыл бұрын

my favorite to date. next month I'll have a new one!

@haleynic 6 жыл бұрын

your voice is super calming to me

@foofy3406 6 жыл бұрын

this channel keeps me sane

@spiritnexus999 8 жыл бұрын

Perfect. Exactly what I was looking for.

@tiffanym9648 6 жыл бұрын

I watch this all the time as I have always had such a hard time with not being able to control everything in my life, along with my Ocd has caused me havoc in my life. I still have such a hard time “surrendering “ out of fear

@SeemaChowdhury 8 жыл бұрын

Thanks Teal, needed this message so much today :)

@nelidaaceves2383 8 жыл бұрын

Thank You Teal... You are Amazing.. Thank You!!

@mariee2092 8 жыл бұрын

Teal, please make a video about how to understand , how to find what exactly yours , where is your place to work, to create, to access your abilities. Please please!