Andrew, your commitment, motivation, and determination to use your voice and past experience to help others and raise awareness is an inspiration to me. You're strong, authentic, and resilient. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. May I use my voice and past experience as effectively as yours. Sending you uplifting energy to connect with you and to continue to strengthen you. 💯🎯👌👏🙏

They are stalkers. They pay more attention to you after you leave them, not during the relationship. Be careful.

They are. VICIOUS with a smile on their face. Flowers and candy in their hand. This is EVIL

Narcissists are predators. Narcissists are very good and faking deep pain and being deeply offended to make you feel guilty and keep you subjugated. Narcissists want to own, destroy, and discard. That is why it is so important to detach and stay detached from narcissists forever.

Living solo, no one is hiding and/or breaking my belongings. Ah, freedom!❣️

If he saw me crying, he always yelled at me. So grateful to be solo now ❣️

They always lose the game once you become aware they're playing one with you.

Their hearts are closed off and dark. The more you give love and compassion, the more distant they become. I'm sure we all held hope they would change and allow your love help them, but it never will. ❣️🤗

I still have nightmares nine years later after that creep.

The narcissists are cold hearted people. And one of the things i hate about them is that they project their lack of empathy and feelings onto other people. Especially the empaths. It is a passive agressive thing to do. It is flat out violent. They are so jealous of others and want to destroy us. Have a lovely afternoon Andrew 😊💜❤️

They feel anger, and jealousy, that's about it.

He never addressed me by name, because he was a cheater and couldn't mix up names!❣️

They humiliate you. Every opportunity they have

"When you can't feel, you can't heal" - I shall remember that phrase. Your delivery of the message is passionate and heartfelt. Thank you.

They NEVER PAY FOR A.N.Y.T.H.I.N.G.

For some reason I realize now is that he NEVER called me by my NAME. I trully know now that I had been absorbed by him and I was nothing but an object or toy to be played with and used for his benefit only by him. I am FREE I am Happy I am rid of his TOXICITY. I filed for divorce and I am watching him COLLAPSE in real time. I am now and forever on the very top of the MOUNTAIN OF INDIFFERENCE. THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR INSIGHT WITH ALL OF US.

I snuck out of the house while my husband was gone. That was on Easter Sunday. I blocked him and filed for divorce. The court system is so slow...still waiting for the hearing to get him out of my house. It's non-marital and he has no claim to it. So, he's living in my house, and I have to wait for a hearing. I'm working on my healing, but feel I can't really heal fully until this divorce is final. It's frustrating. He stays in my mind because I'm waiting for the divorce to be over. He's already running an ugly smear campaign and mutual friends have abandoned me.

My dad died 2 years ago at the age of 94 he married my narc mom& he did so much for her & my 2 narc sisters. One of my sisters is a golden child & the other is a self centered narc too.I am the empath & the truth teller. I have always worked & tried to do what was right never took money from my hard working dad but my two sisters were always there to take from dad . They always had short term jobs they'd quit but dad would always help pay their expenses & cars ( they expected it). Unfortunately he sacrificed so much of himself giving & giving & giving. I live in another state & I keep my distance from them. No one wanted dad when he couldn't walk & was suffering from dementia he was useless so my sister got power of attorney put him in a home & he died there alone & both my sisters lived less than 30 minutes away from the home they did not sit with him when he died. Evil & selfish I pray they will repent & change even my narc mom.

The Empath's Pen is Mightier Than the Narc's Sword of Hate....Thomas Paine Reference

You must knew the message I needed today. I was discarded for the unteenth time this has been going on for 20 + years of marriage this time no crying no nothing the second he walked out the door. This message gave me the strength I needed to not fall victim to his tactics again. Family please keep me in your prayers ❤

Thanks for being here !

Things can sneak up on me even when i have a no contact order he found ways into my household and wow what a force its so awful! 21 years it was sooo classic fragile/covert. I literally am 3 months out with 6 kids and its crazy for me at points when i realize how poisonous this has been so riddled through everything Mine was at the scary point and it was so messed up My brain feels like its scrambled I get afraid when i feel happy! How ridiculous is that! The healing continues….. Thankful for this community and these videos are currently the most valuable part in my movement to renewal of health

Great clip...and a virtual hug to your good self, also...

They are soulless. End of story. #evil

It's a great day to love & celebrate who you are.....the jealous narcissist tried to squelch your beauty because they know they can never be as precious! Blessings along the healing path! 🌈🎀😘

They collect human souls.

The narc inadvertently brought me to God. I was forced to do prayer meditation and the 12 steps I was losing my mind. Now I do it because I'm grateful to God for saving me and I want to stay on this healing path

“They are the anthesis of you.” In a nutshell

14:06 Narcissistic tears. She did cry in front of me.. out of frustration. Before I knew anything about narcissism, I saw that she was not invested in the relationship.. as Andrew often says, she was punching holes in the boat. I withdrew emotionally, and would not allow her to manipulate me, I didn't take the bait when she wanted to start an arguement. I went stoic. And THAT is why she cried. She lost her supply, tho we were still living under the same roof, tho she slept in my bed each night, like strangers. She lost control of me and that narcissistic rage was the very last straw. I asked her to leave my home. And it was mine... she didn't work, she had no income. She had the best narc supply she will ever, ever have in her life...I was grade-A Prime at that time. And she destroyed it herself by pushing me away.

When I was in my 20s I bought an electric typewriter which cost a lot and my mother took it and gave it to my older sister and I always wondered why. Then my grandma made a quilt for me. And my mother gave it to my niece. Yes, It seemed like what I had, my mother took things and gave them to some others in my family. But I changed that and I give to others. An acquaintance gave me a book and it was written in different language. It was quite neat. I never had anything like it. It also has taught me to learn different words in a different language. This acquaintance also understands narcissism. Andrew, I am so glad how you say be who I am.

So thankful for your help and wisdom. Im on the Healing path now.❤

195K Congratulations Andrew 👏💕🌈💝🤗 You are helping people all over the world affected by narcissists. Thank you ❤️ your videos have helped me so much on my healing path

If You Can Get Back Up Off the Narc's Battleground Then You HAVE NOT FAILED..... If You Fall Down 1 million times get back up One Million and One.

When I was a little kid, most of my belongings would disappear. I always thought it was the house that was taking them. Many of the items, I never saw again. I just accepted that there was some strange Bermuda Triangle in the house. I would search and search, but never found them. I do suppose now, that one of my siblings took them. So much of my childhood does not come up again in my mind. I just learned to not be materialistic, and to live in the present. In a way, blessings. In regards to tears, I was not allowed to cry as a child, at home, or at school. It is rare that I can get out a few tears. Movies will bring them. Last year, my doctor said that tears release toxins from the body, so they are good for us. I was really proud of myself when I could squeeze out three tears. I did learn to be resilient. I'll take that blessing. In thinking about it, the not being able to drip tears was way too much grey rocking in my childhood. Got that skill of not letting them see me bleed down well. No not a normal childhood I now see. A childhood that went with the 1950's and 1960's. I have always known I was a huge sponge inside for the emotions of others. Did not know I was an empath until last year.

Once i saw my oldest narcisist brother get discarted by a girlfriend, he was devastated, i taught he would never recover from that discard but i was so wrong, he got a new supply really fast, these people get on their feet real quickly.

Andrew, i can tell you went through it. When i was living with a narcisist, it was like hell. It is hard for us ‘normal’ people to comprehend someone would actually be so evil as to try and break another person’s soul over a prolonged period of time, but i realize that now. I dont know how i survived, maybe one day i will share my story as well. You are saving people from literal hell on earth by making them understand what narcisistic abuse is. Sometimes i almost forget because i removed myself physically and i listen to you so i dont ever forget. Thank you.

The weather is beautiful here in Iowa, sun shining, blue sky, no clouds, I'm sitting on my back porch, listening to this video, enjoying my peace....thank you for the great content.

Empowering!!! Thank You 🙏 🤗

💯 EMPATHY EXISTS 💯 Truth always thank you ❤️🙏 🌳

Cry and they don't even hug you. I lost where I lived. It is now his rules. Trying hard but my kids married narcs and i am left to living in my car. Wait they call themselves "Gods". I am throwing up every day. I am in survival mode.

WOW that's so true ,,they have none of the Qualities that make People Human,,,that Absolutely true Andrew,,,,👍💖💖💯

One of the best videos on this channel! Gotta love the passion in this video! 🍀

I'm trying to exit the marriage with young kids. It is the most challenging and painful experience of my life. I wish all others in this situation well, and u are not alone.

Thank you Andrew ❤ YES...they have nothing inside them...they are empty of true emotions but masters of fakery!! I have cried so much over his treatment of me and the loss of something that was never really there at all . I'm healing slowly, the path forward is a much happier, brighter path to walk along😊❤

Thank you, Andrew. For anyone else who has young kids with them, it's 10 times worse because we just can't get away from them.

He absolutely destroyed me. Namaste, Andrew.

Great video today. Thank you for the message, Andrew. 🙏🏻❤️

I whole thing to the Lord to settle the justice of the matter,no contact for a year and getting better every day thank you for your help and support 🙏😂❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

Your a genius Andrew love your passion in helping everyone cope through this

Wow! What a powerful message!!❤ As always perfect timing.. The more i watch your videos the clearer i see all of it!! & everyone!! What a beautiful gift you share with all of the community!! Its still incredible to me these people walk amoungst us on the planet!! Thank you for the education on identifying them! Love to you Andrew & community!! ❤

Thank you Andrew 😊🙏

OMG!!!! It's like u were there, Andrew!!

Omg, Andrew you 100% nailed. When I moved with my parents/family, my mother and stepfather threw away all of my favorite toys and read my diary and got rid of it as well. Wow. It’s rare that anyone covers this particular segment so I really appreciate you doing that today. Thank you.❤

Thank you Andrew these videos help me stay strong. I lost all my family no moRe sisters or mom because I've gone no contact but I do have peace

100% Andrew! narcs cheat their way through life! The person they cheat the most is themselves, but that is too much for their pea brain to comprehend. Went to a concert last night. It was wonderful to experience without the narc ruining it for me. I walked away happy, satisfied and content. Another feeling of freedom. My precious Father let me go away to college and stay in a dorm the summer my narc Mother was trying to give me a nervous breakdown. When I came home at Christmas break everything and I mean everything of mine was gone - she threw it all out and gave my room to her mini-me narc golden child little sister. I hated that room anyway. A narc is a narc no matter what form they take in your life. Remove all toxicity from your life, heal and live your best life. 💜

They feel nothing....I was in the room but he didn't see me...I spoke but he didn't hear me....he took my energy and left me questioning my very being, my reality.Now I'm free... nothing quite like it. I know who and want I am and he only stole me for a while.....he's gone 🌑👿

Good evening this is so true real talk 💯 percent real talk been there and done that had a wife like that, thirteen years I've been single , 4 years divorced I am living my best life. Thank you Andrew

My ex never shed 1 tear. 💧NOT ONE.💧Who doesn't cry in 11 years of life events. You know who.... the hollow heartless soulless narcissist masquerading as a person. 💯 every video, Andrew. ❤

My feelings, my tears, my emotions, my inner world is so valuable, I have to protect it well- that's ME. I won't let anyone trample on it anymore! Thank you Andrew, a virtual hug back to you! 🙏💜🇩🇪

I lost my pain and emotions during the relationship. They have trickled in here and there but I still think I'm reaerved and protecting myself from harm

WOW, THANK YOU again Andrew and EXTREMELY powerful vid🎯👍💯… Love from NSW Australia… May God keep & guide all truthseekers🙏🕊️❤️🌻

I remember taking a narcissist to the movies, this was something I thought was good "quality time" together. They would always sit silently, checking their phone, feigning attention here or there. Then we leave and immediately they are ready for the next thing. So exhausting.

I read this about living with narc after many years. It goes like this..people say your see your whole life pass before you when you die. In the case of living with the narc " their life" passes before before you. 😢

The void actually exists in the consciousnesses of narcissists.

The nex in my life never cried. He did try to “share” the blame. It was never him, it was always “we”. My anger is what saved me. He tried to get me to meditate for separation from my feelings. His thought was that we both needed to separate from our feelings. I am so appreciative of my feelings. They saved me. I hurt, but that’s ok. It’s normal & natural to hurt when you are treated like trash. The anger gave me the strength to walk away & block him. I hold my feelings very close. All of them. They are MINE. He can go pound sand.

Your a great man. Thank you so much for all you do!

The narcissist gave us a great gift...suffering and knowledge. Plus it's better to love and lose etc. Suffering produces growth and wisdom. Thank you, narcissist! I recommend the Ram Das channel for further spiritual awakening content. It's excellent, as is Andrew's. I feel like I'm your brother Sir. God bless, keep fighting everyone. Remember, suffering is grace.

The narc in my life would empty my medicine containers. Now that's sick😢

Oh my ...you are good!! To a "T" on this one. I am moving forward. Saving this one. Thank you

I can only say thank you and wish You good health. See you tomorrow Andrew . 🦉… . Nice day today

🙏💯🌿🌱🌿🌱So well said !! THEY ARE HEARTLESS & NEVER EVER HAVE your best interest!! MY NARC/sister is JEALOUS & WAS counting on me to FALL & REACT TO HER EVIL ACT , way back in June 2022, , I /We didn't !! WE HAVE high value & shining even brighter over here in Beautiful South of France💯🙏🌞MERCI

Thx for wise knowledge about narcissist. I listened and continued watching you every day. Keep up a good work 👏 thx again

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We Must Learn The Lessons on Our Own for a Change to Occur....Humility is One of the Most Important Emotions We Must Be Taught in Childhood with Our Parents Allowing Us to Feel, Face, and Address Our Emotions.....Hey Drew

Hi Andrew… I don’t know you or your experience but I know, you know exactly what you are talking about. People can call others Narcissist easily when they are just bad people. But when you have experienced a true narcissist there is no doubt about it. You have helped me so much because everything you say is my relationship with my mother. I am now 61 and after all these years trying to have a mother I realise I never had one… I have now faced and excepted I am alone in this life and it is OK. 😊 your channel helps people and I wait to the very end every day, because I love to see your smile before you finish. Have a great day 🤗

This absoloutly needs be be said in that their conscious effort is to cause as much damage to your or anyone elses life...they are Trolls who leerk under the Bridge of Humanity. One of the quickest way I have learned to identify these types is the habitual use of word salad language...Chaos.

When you can feel, you feel pain and although it hurts we should embrace it and be grateful that we are alive and we can feel that pain. Thank you 🙏 Andrew . God bless you ❤

He could not handle it when I was not crying over him anymore.

Andrew this battle is difficult 😢

I would H8 the way Narcspouse had the whole "Stop me before I get worse" or "I can't control myself!" attitudes. For a person who calculated and planned and conned and maneuvered expertly, only to conveniently claim a lack of control to escape responsibility... were moments of the most refined Bullshittery. 😤😡

Andrew I believe you are a very special person, like an angel. What you have taught me, is making my life better. I am the family scapegoat. It’s extremely painful to be the only empathy.

Tbh I feel as if the movie example was kind of a bad representation of empathy because that “empathy “ felt from the movie was artificially projected from the movie to the person crying at literal acting from what I’ve observed true empathy comes from understanding real life situations on a personal level without judgement on one’s self or on another and yes it starts with emotions but once evolved it has to be logically considered

Thank you, Andrew!

Andrew you are a warrior and what your saying is truth. God Bless you my friend.

Thanks, Andrew. Exactly as you explained it.

Love and blessings Andrew and community and hugs back. My things go missing or I find them damaged or broken all the time. 🙏

The problem is the "love-bombing" and mirroring of common values aso. After that, more and more ghosting, followed by replacement, discard etc.

I'm planning to be planting a garden with my free time. A beautiful dream I have been looking forward too.

Thank you It will be almost be 2 years, since our sons girlfriend hasn’t contacted us in any way. We haven’t even met her family. We found out her Mother passed away months after her passing. Our son has been with this “speck of dust” five years this November. Sadly it seems our son has changed to be the same. To me God is the one that’s helping me to be strong. I’m not the narcissistic person. I pray God is guiding our son in the right direction, sadly I don’t think he’s listening with his correct organ. 🙏

Yep, after the discard I saw what an empty shell he actually was.❤

I Truly would like to let you know Andrew that I tremendously appreciate you and your content .Thank You for your contribution of insight and taking the initiative to create consistent content .extremely enjoy and it’s very helpful to many whom are out there engulfed in these difficult situations

Going through this has taught me how to disengage from people who display these things. There is a calm in me now I can't describe it feels freeing.

GREAT CONTENT ANDREW!!!! U are number one!☝🏾

“They did not want you to have your identity” - I have a pretty family name ( or so I’ve been told). He only called me “ Gus”. He said my name was just silly. I believed the lie that he was the most important person in our family. It was all about him. He trained me to be everything for him. I’m out now. It’s too much work to groom my replacement- it’s not worth the effort to put in the time to recreate what I was for him- so he is alone. And boy is he playing the victim.

Thank you Andrew. God has given you a gift through trials. I’m by sure I CC will see you in the next life. You’re a true angel! Bless you mightily. 🙌❤️

thank you ❤

Yes! And they can be really nasty and not care a fig. Who needs that? The further away you become, clarity on this point is inescapable. When you truly accept they don’t care about you - they become insignificant after all of that crazy drama!

Awesome job Andrew! You are giving me energy to fight against this evil person. I am just exiting this relationship. May God bless you and keep you in good health and spirit.

My ex had the emotional depth of a cardboard box...I had to love for both of us.. I was perfect supply for her..🤦 Have a good day.. 🙏☮️✨🐬

I can't wait to write the book of my life.