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TRYING TO DESCRIBE THE RELATIONSHIP TO OTHERS
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Күн бұрынTrying to describe the relationship to others. This you will find is a big challenge as most people can’t understand what you were talking about. The narcissistic relationship is built to have you isolated and to feel like you are on an island. If you haven’t gone through the cycle, your average human being can’t understand what you were talking about. They will get burnt out of listening to you. Speaking with somebody who has been through the cycle and who has healed or who is well on the healing path, they now speak the language that you speak. This is the language that you did not ever believe you would speak, but here you are in the community. This language is meant for those who come through the narcissist abuse cycle and rise through the ashes like a phoenix and have healed or on the healing path of indifference. Sending you positive energy and abundance. Namaste
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@marylind1144 2 ай бұрын
This is so true, Andrew. I would also like to humbly put in to also don’t get too immersed in relationships with other victims. If you don’t use discernment on how much leaning you do with people, too much contact with other healing survivors can also keep you trapped in rumination. Also, if you are more healed than the other victim they will also latch onto you like a drowning person and keep you chained in place, keeping you from finishing your healing. I’ve been on this thing for awhile now and I’m almost to the pentacle of indifference, thank You, Lord. What has worked the best for me is breaking it up into thirds: 1) a third of your time “in school” every day educating yourself some more on cluster B personalities etc 2) journal and really dig into your responsibility to heal your core wounds and be real with yourself 3) The last third of my day, purposefully living my life forgetting all about it so you practice living a better life you want It worked for me, maybe it will help someone else. Sending blessings to you all. Rock on, Earth Angel, Andrew, you are a wise, strong smart BFF we all need. Sending you love that you too have the support you need. Namaste, friend.❤
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this..🙏💜😌💯
@Glyn-r 2 ай бұрын
I gave up describing narcissist abuse to my friends ages ago..1_ they never went through it, and 2- it makes you look crazy and thats just what the narcissist wanted .
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
😌🙏💜
@TheSeekeroftruth1 2 ай бұрын
Ditto! Even I think I sound crazy when I listen to myself. My family know my ex is a bad person and that's as good as it gets.
@delicatelace8830 2 ай бұрын
So true!
@Wanderedinto 2 ай бұрын
Absolutely to both
@cc1k435 2 ай бұрын
Not just that it makes you look crazy, but it's so "icky" no one can wrap their head around it all. 😕
@roslyncerro1263 2 ай бұрын
Tribe, let's pretend we are in a hugging embrace.♥️
@emilywilson7308 2 ай бұрын
Awwwww🥰
@michelledale3334 2 ай бұрын
I'm in, big hugs all round ❤❤❤
@roslyncerro1263 2 ай бұрын
Michelle, wouldn't the world feel kinder and gentler?❣️
@chazbickel4518 2 ай бұрын
When other people can feel it.....its not pretend, its real. ❤
@michelledale3334 2 ай бұрын
@@roslyncerro1263 no wonder these narcs love us all so much, we are tge best ❤💪🇬🇧
@jenwelch9039 2 ай бұрын
I’m currently going through a divorce with a narcissist. I was single 5 years before I encountered this monster and had no idea such evilness existed. I don’t feel like I’m going to make it. I’ve never been so depressed, lonely, and hurt in my entire life. Andrew, your videos (and Jesus) are making this time in my life bearable. Thank you for your videos. I sleep to them. Work listening to them. Etc. thank you for letting me know I’m not alone. Thank you for your hard work and efforts in these videos. I’ll forever be grateful.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Welcome..😌💜🙏💜
@cc1k435 2 ай бұрын
You will make it, because these dark times aren't forever. I feel shell shocked myself sometimes in this process, but I also know where I used to be. I certainly am not back there anymore, even if I haven't yet arrived at a place of total peace. ❤
@nicolajirving 2 ай бұрын
You are not alone. We are all here for the same reason. You'll make it x
@cynthiahurlburt2819 2 ай бұрын
You will make it. You are the door and not the doormat. You have a family who is lifting you up in thoughts and prayers.❤ 🙏 ❤
@Mere571 2 ай бұрын
You are not alone. We are here and are at different stages of the healing process through this mess. Keep using the tools Andrew is sharing with us and teaching us to use. Hang in there! You are doing better than you think! You got this!
@jhavajoe3792 2 ай бұрын
For every 10,000 words you calmly and rationally explain to a friend ( who has never been through it), who has the best of intentions to support you, they'll hear: " Sad. You were with the wrong person and they did a number on you." .. The majority of the Healing Journey, you'll go it alone.
@chazbickel4518 2 ай бұрын
From 10,000 words to silence. Maybe when we tried to explain to others it allowed us to release enough stress to keep us functioning at the time....?
@sabianstringer2112 2 ай бұрын
No Word, No Poems, No Songs Could Every Tell Our Story to the Point of Understanding.
@chazbickel4518 2 ай бұрын
@@sabianstringer2112 ❤
@KidsFund1 2 ай бұрын
Amen you are stronger then you think
@davebird534 2 ай бұрын
Hey Andrew love you too brother you're a national treasure for people like us that need your wisdom ,knowledge and help!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Thank you..😌💜🙏
@TanjaT-od4nw 2 ай бұрын
Treasure of the Universe 😊Treasure of the Earth. Hey, I'm from Croatia!
@davebird534 2 ай бұрын
@@TanjaT-od4nw hey tanja I'm Dave from Michigan USA. Croatia huh? I've seen pictures of some of the beaches here it looks very beautiful there! 😍 So how far along are you on your recovery?
@jamesmccusker2260 2 ай бұрын
This is how you end up with narcissist be careful can’t put yourself out like that to a complete stranger
@TanjaT-od4nw 2 ай бұрын
@@jamesmccusker2260 Are you writing to me or to him?
@carmenhayes8680 2 ай бұрын
OMG...Andrew I listened to this one channel this morning. And the said almost exactly EVERYTHING you say in your videos. I am seriously on the lookout since you mentioned people copying your content. Please check to see what you can do legally to stop these predators from stealing your exact words. Hect, I'll send the video I heard your exact words if you want. You've help me heal Andrew. I was in a really dark place after being discarded like trash. If your subscribers can help in any way, let us know. We've got your back, Andrew.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Thank you..😌🙏💜💜
@TanjaT-od4nw 2 ай бұрын
It's an impossible mission. It's also boring for most people to listen to. It also has a spiritual component in it.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
😌😌💜
@julieanne413 2 ай бұрын
As soon as I filed for divorce, I went over to my sister and brother-in-law’s to attempt an explanation and my brother-in-law LOOKED AT HIS WATCH while I was talking and my sister meandered upstairs. This is WHILE I WAS TALKING. 😳
@ElizzzaB 2 ай бұрын
@@julieanne413 It's not you. They may be narcs? You know your truth.
@suesanders1169 2 ай бұрын
@@julieanne413It might be your prospective ex has/had already started the smear campaign against you. It has been my experience a lot of people only listen to the narc and don't investigate and/or ask about your perspective of what actually happened. Narccicists only present their version of what's going on and don't self reflect to see what their input/actions contributing to the situation. 😔😔😔
@crispusmahea2135 2 ай бұрын
Exactly! The spiritual component!
@mariefrancebourget1749 2 ай бұрын
Don't worry Andrew we all have your back here. I will continue to report the scammers who steal your videos. Have a great evening Andrew 🙌💜
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Thank you.😌🙏💜🙌
@user-pv3px4nb2m 2 ай бұрын
Hi Marie, I haven’t seen you on Andrew’s other video from a day ago. How are you doing?
@mariefrancebourget1749 2 ай бұрын
@@user-pv3px4nb2m Hi, i am doing great. You are so kind, thanks. Looking forward to my vacations comming up soon in july. Hope you are doing great too and living your best life focusing on yourself and having fun. Have a wonderful weekend dear 😊🫶💞
@jhavajoe3792 2 ай бұрын
Those faked channels appear every day. Crooks.
@wendyreeves5408 2 ай бұрын
I wondered the first of those videos I happened upon. I stopped listening when I realized it was a still picture. So unAndrew!!! We know he'd never do that. I will start reporting them, as well.
@julieanne413 2 ай бұрын
“THEY DON’T HAVE THE BANDWIDTH FOR IT.” 🎯🎯🎯
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
💯💯😌
@cc1k435 2 ай бұрын
They really don't. It's bizarre, because they surely have seen parts and pieces or even have experience. But not everyone feels things that deeply, and not everyone bothers to process and heal. ❤
@cynthiawlaughlin5435 2 ай бұрын
I have a screenshot of the woman who attempted to recreate a channel with your videos ✅
@mercurysunlight5689 2 ай бұрын
My sister finally "got it" when she understood and accepted the fact that she couldn't make sense of the nonsense.
@Anne_W64 2 ай бұрын
My ex hated camping. I want to go camping. I'm DOIN' IT! 🤗
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
😌💯🙏
@gloriarangott8803 2 ай бұрын
YESSS🎉
@462ANIMAL 2 ай бұрын
You get out there and enjoy nature and all it has to offer. I just moved my tent trailer, ready to set it up and do some repairs before camping trip in August. I live in the country with deer and moose and black bears in my backyard / acreage.. and I too still go camping. Nothing like camping and having a big bull moose walking the roads to the campsites.. here in Ontario / Canada
@cc1k435 2 ай бұрын
Excellent decision. Happy camping! ❤
@Anne_W64 2 ай бұрын
@@462ANIMAL I'm in Ontario Can too. I used to be closer to nature somewhat. That's goin' a while back now. Your place sounds dreamy. I hope you have an awesome time when you go camping. -- Your mention of moose reminds me, once I was driving on a back road and had never seen a moose at that time. I wanted to see a moose and just prayed "God I want to see a moose, please please please." Rounded the bend on that single lane dirt road and THERE IT WAS!!! 😮 I wasn't going fast ofc and it was just past dusk so my lights hit it, so it stopped and I stopped. I had to lean forward toward the windshield and look up at her face. She was so beautiful and very tall. 🤗I was driving the first car I'd ever bought, a little pontiac acadian so you can image, I wasn't sitting very high. And now you now I'm no spring chicken lol. After a minute she just walked away, I thanked God for that too, she was a little intimidating. Wow.... If you read all that, thank you for letting me share my happy memory. 🤭
@Cowboy19735 2 ай бұрын
I've been Diagnosed with Narcissist Abuse PTSD, Now my mother understands and some other family members and friends. They were clueless until my Doctor finally found out what my depression was from a month ago, then I discovered your channel. Starting PTSD Therapy next week.
@camelotenglishtuition6394 2 ай бұрын
Make sure you do integration work and defragmentation work too
@sabianstringer2112 2 ай бұрын
Hi...I also got double PTSD...I was injured in Navy Brain Injury) only to Fight a Narc for 20 years + (leaving soon) Who Gave Me Second PTSD....I Choose to Be a Survivor....I am a Super Empath....God Bless...Good Journeys to You....
@jhavajoe3792 2 ай бұрын
@@sabianstringer2112 💪💪💪🙏
@jhavajoe3792 2 ай бұрын
👍 You just confirmed how powerful this channel is to bring awareness. The best to you in your healing!
@sabianstringer2112 2 ай бұрын
@@jhavajoe3792 The Empath's Pen is Mightier Than the Narc's Sword of Hate....Thomas Paine Reference
@TanjaT-od4nw 2 ай бұрын
I don't need any more closure. They've been broken into! I see them. Thanks to you too Andrew ❤
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
🙏💜💯
@cc1k435 2 ай бұрын
Good thing, because 1) You can't unsee it ever again, and 2) Not very likely going to get it anyway. I saw something the other day that I know I needed to see about how we need to give up on the idea that the relationship was going to end quietly or neatly or on good terms. It's like the last big hope they give you, I guess. 😮
@sadboi7537 2 ай бұрын
“The closure is how they treated you. That is the truth.”
@johnmaurer2035 2 ай бұрын
It's like having a heart attack in real life, rather than imagining what it's like.
@Thedisgardedoptimist 2 ай бұрын
If it was a choice I'd go the heart attack again..🙏
@johnmaurer2035 2 ай бұрын
@@Thedisgardedoptimist life in the shredder, for sure.
@aldelgado9343 2 ай бұрын
Narcisist aré very clever to mantain their mask, theyll do whatever It takes to keep It a secret from everybody else, once you unmasked them theyll discard quicky.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
😌😌💯💯
@jennifernewton4637 2 ай бұрын
Hey Andrew and friends! 🙌🙌😁💜💖❤️ Hope everyone is having a great day!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
☀️💜😊
@flowerpower4944 2 ай бұрын
Hi Jennifer ☺️👋👋❤️🙏💖🌹🫂💖☘️
@462ANIMAL 2 ай бұрын
Thank you Jennifer , enjoy the evening here.. much better now that the heat wave has passed.. but like many of us.. the mind is a powerful thing and keeps on replying the stuff that bothers us.
@deniselazur8370 2 ай бұрын
Hello sweety. We’ve been through it, huh?
@462ANIMAL 2 ай бұрын
@@deniselazur8370 For most of us , that’s what brings us here ? I’ve definitely had my share.. more than I realize I think..
@user-rh5vc6jj6u 2 ай бұрын
My husband of 50 years totally understands what I’ve been through with my mother, the covert narcissist….so now at the age of 72…I’m kicking my 94 year old abusive mother to the curb….I’m done AND DONT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH HER….im tired of feeling the stress of trying to please her…wish I would have learned about all of this sooner….but from the age of six, I knew something was wrong….i knew that she could flip out in a rage over nothing at a moments notice….i needed stomach medicine at 6 years of age…. Since I’ve kicked her ass to the curb about a month ago….my GERD…gastro intestinal problems have improved. She has always made me physically sick and I’m done . I’ve been record keeping and journaling and watching your videos for a month.. THANK YOU FOR SAVING MY LIFE…what’s left of it.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Welcome..😌🙏💜
@kathleencondit1660 2 ай бұрын
There come a time when we have to free our self, and protect our health and well-being. If, an older person has an estate, they can afford to pay for care. I learned that the hard way. Enjoy your own life with your husband. Keep healing free from abuse.
@pj3770 2 ай бұрын
👍💯🙏
@cc1k435 2 ай бұрын
Good for you for putting yourself and your health first after all this time. You have to, and you have certainly put in your time. These people seem to live forever. ❤
@RuthAndMax 2 ай бұрын
Only my lawyer understood me because they met my narcissistic a million times before but when it came to community I got drained very quickly, and sometimes insensitive because I would get impatient or I would get paranoid or I wouldn't be sure if they were a flying monkey or not can't trust them I'm a good person but less nicer than I once was. My recovery support groups never cover narcissistic abuse, which is learned as well. I'm not alone in the world, but it can feel that way. The worst thing that anybody ever ever said to me was "you brought it on yourself" that's all kind's of totally messed up, very triggering.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
😌😌💜
@cc1k435 2 ай бұрын
...by hooking up with a narcissist, so I suppose in that regard, we all did bring it on ourselves. 🙄 What a ridiculous thing to say to someone. If your child developed a terrible, life-threatening disease, they'd probably tell you that's what you get for having kids. 😮🤯
@LynBarone 2 ай бұрын
Andrew always refers to the pinnacle of indifference. Finally understand what that means TY Andrew 😊
@maureengreenhalgh822 2 ай бұрын
Good evening Andrew and everyone❤ It was the worst experience of my life. People said to me why don’t you just leave. I didn’t leave before because I was in the trauma bond etc. I saw the red flags but unfortunately I ignored them. But my life is getting better ever day now thanks to your channel and everyone in the community❤ 🙏🏼💜❤️😊
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing..😌🙏💜💯
@chazbickel4518 2 ай бұрын
❤
@maureengreenhalgh822 2 ай бұрын
@@chazbickel4518❤
@kathleencondit1660 2 ай бұрын
One does not just get over it. I couldn't even wrap my head around how I was treated by the siblings. It felt like there was no way out of it. Time passed and I found that I could pry myself loose from their clutches. Early on, I did talk to other people who listened, but did not understand my experiences. This site has been where I could voice myself. It helps to voice it to others who understand the experience.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing..🙏💜😌
@debracappiccille6485 2 ай бұрын
It’s impossible. They have called me crazy. They have turned their backs. And I’m even talking about my own children who saw firsthand what my husband did (they are also narcissists). And family and friends who have known me for decades. I’m destroyed. Thank you for letting me know I’m NOT crazy. But I am destroyed.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Welcome..😌🙏💜
@pj3770 2 ай бұрын
You are still here. You are not destroyed. They tried to destroy you. You are rising above the ashes. You will prevail.
@the-writerofmyownstory 2 ай бұрын
I am in a similar place, many people have turned their backs on me, I have felt destroyed. Being validated here that we’re not crazy is a big. I am alone in the world right now, but it is insulating to learn the tools and heal, and set boundaries. Keep walking through, remember the healing is not linear. You are respecting yourself and not allowing anyone to abuse you any longer, that is huge progress, and you are not alone! ❤
@flowerpower4944 2 ай бұрын
Trying to describe it ,,It would take as long as reading War and Peace,,t.y. Andrew,,namaste🙏💖🌹☘️
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
🙏💜😌
@user-bt4uy8yg3x 2 ай бұрын
The narcissist is phony. To keep them happy, you will have to be phony around them by focusing on providing the supply they want because they don't want anything authentic or they will abuse you to create distance.
@TanjaT-od4nw 2 ай бұрын
I know a lot of people who have been through narcissistic abuse and have not healed properly. It's such a shame. They walk in a narcissistic fog every day. Usually psychiatrists advise: "Move on with life and don't look back." That's how many do and remain half-aware of themselves and the nature of narcissists.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
😌💜🙏
@sabianstringer2112 2 ай бұрын
We Have to Overcome being a Victim and Start Healing by Being a Survivor.....Hi Sabian Here.....
@jhavajoe3792 2 ай бұрын
True. I've met a few like that. I never thought too deeply about their lingering fog or their half-awareness, because I was in the same state. One numbed person cannot feel the depth of injury of another numbed person, so I was useless in truly understanding and in support for them.
@TanjaT-od4nw 2 ай бұрын
@@jhavajoe3792 I can tell exactly where they are in the recovery phase. And when I warn them not to do something, they persistently insist on doing it their way, not realizing that they are playing with fire.
@TanjaT-od4nw 2 ай бұрын
@@jhavajoe3792 As Andrew said, everyone has to do the healing process on their own and I totally agree with him. A lot of work on yourself, study, perseverance, etc.
@joanns185 2 ай бұрын
Love the look you give at the end of the intro
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
🤔🤔🤭
@kimlorraine369 2 ай бұрын
😂 i love it too !
@sabianstringer2112 2 ай бұрын
The Narcs Destroy Everything We Enjoy With Andrew's Words We Will Try to Avoid The Ugliness The Nastiness The Narcissist Noid...............................Hi Drew Awesome Show...Poetry Fighting the Narcs....
@sabianstringer2112 2 ай бұрын
Drew Had to Replace 10 more ft of House Wall.....House is so small 7 ft bathroom 3 ft kitchen replaced...50 ft total......God Bless You thanks for your videos....
@Christina36911 2 ай бұрын
I just found your channel and I am very grateful that there are those that understand out there. It's been almost 3 years since my life shattering blindside discard from my psychopathic covert narcissist husband, taking my whole family, friend's literally everything with him playing the victim and blaming me. I was left homeless, penniless, no vehicle, no phone and no clothes but what was on my back. I wanted to die. I've healed some but not much, in my world it's just me which is OK because I feel safer this way. I'm not the person I was I'm not quite sure who I am yet but every day I try. Thank you for showing up and speaking your truth this world needs people like you.
@TanjaT-od4nw 2 ай бұрын
❤️🙏
@wendyreeves5408 2 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry, Christina. I was left in very similar circumstances. My two adult daughters left with him 18 months ago. There are no words for the pain or the healing. After 22 years as a homemom, I had no skills for the workforce and was left with a quarter-million HELOC. However, I can truly say that God has walked every step of the way with me, thanks to His saving grace. I have started on a career path, and God has paid every bill with the exception of the loan on the house. The wasband thought that the bank would honor the court's decision and avoided payment for months. The bank finally went after him and he makes delinquent payments now and then. Consequences are a form of God's justice...
@user-du9ep6rl5z 2 ай бұрын
🙏🌸🩷
@michelledale3334 2 ай бұрын
Sending you love and strength, from someone who has experienced the same thing ❤ 💪🇬🇧
@Christina36911 2 ай бұрын
@@michelledale3334 ❤️ May peace and strength always walk with you.
@carrielynnhoward4599 2 ай бұрын
You’ve helped me so much. I’m finally starting to feel like myself again. Thank you!
@carriedillmann4455 2 ай бұрын
Andrew you are so right as always !!! I have helped so many people because I have healed because of YOU! I’m proud of this ! It’s 5 years now since I found you and I will be forever grateful !!!! 💞💞💞😇
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing..💜🙏😊😊💯
@user-kh4nw8qm4p 2 ай бұрын
its horrible when your constantly told everythink is your fault for every issue in the relationship i was abused on social media by spying on everythink i did possesive jealous controlling 8 months since liberation day 15th october the day i walked away from vile draining abuse am now myself again i now put myself 1st 2nd and 3rd thank you andrew
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Welcome..💯💯💯💜
@flowerpower4944 2 ай бұрын
P,s, i wouldnt give them the time of day or anyone Toxic,,my love and empathy goes to genuine people,,,and people i see being taken advantage of,,,t.y.Amdrew and thanks to all here ,,❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Welcome..💯😌🙏💜
@BeTheLight624 2 ай бұрын
💜🌸
@chazbickel4518 2 ай бұрын
❤
@user-pv3px4nb2m 2 ай бұрын
…. I couldn’t even be able to find words to explain my mother’s abuse if I still had my friends, mother burnt that potential support system during smear campaign.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
😌🙏💜
@cc1k435 2 ай бұрын
My was the same. So with my husband, too. Narcissists love to ruin things, most especially at the end. 😢
@supervincemus 2 ай бұрын
I watch his videos everyday . I’m on the road to healing. 14 years with a narcissist.
@heathermixson1265 2 ай бұрын
Mother. The "husband". Sickening. Thanks Andrew!!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Welcome..😌🙏💜
@Rugbymom 2 ай бұрын
So much truth in this video! Will be watching this a couple of times to digest…I got so tired of hearing, “ I don’t know why you don’t just…” My supports mean well, but I’m really having to pull back as I am healing, as I am the only one who knows where I’ve been and where I am going… Thanks for a great message!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Welcome..😌💜🙏
@Siegefya 3 күн бұрын
Same. My pops who is the most supportive tells me "you just gotta get back out there son" and I'm like "I ain't ready for all at yet" *Tre from Boyz in the hood voice* lol. But yeah eventually gotta just take it your way, try not to burn those who are supportive out. Definitely a great point from Andrew.
@eternalrhythmflow 2 ай бұрын
You’re the best, Andrew. Thank you for your consistency paying it forward.
@FernFokes-tu6vs 2 ай бұрын
Yep.❤
@lourdesecheverria6209 2 ай бұрын
The process of “losing” myself was slow and imperceivable. I had no awareness of what was happening to me. I slowly lost my confidence and my strength, as I was fed a daily dose of lies along with witnessing a pattern of behavior that I couldn’t explain or make sense of. I was “programed’ to make excuses for the narc and justify my experiences to others. Explaining was not something I could do, as I didn’t understand there were creatures in this world known as narcissists. I thank God for His Grace and Merci in giving me the strength to endure and survive the experience. Gratitude for the knowledge, thankful for the wisdom and peace in the knowledge that I will never again be a victim of a narc or a toxic person. Blessings to all! ❤
@BeTheLight624 2 ай бұрын
lourdesecheverria6209 Thank you for sharing your experience and wisdom 💜
@camelotenglishtuition6394 Ай бұрын
God released me from this evil too. I was weeks, maybe days away from losing my life. God bless you!
@lourdesecheverria6209 Ай бұрын
@@camelotenglishtuition6394 Bless you!❤❤😘😘💖💖
@colettekennedywelsh6227 2 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, you need to go through it to understand it, even numerous times and in different countries to realise that the pattern is always the same no matter their class in society. I wish you all a positive and happy future going No Contact x
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
💯💯😌💜
@philmorrison6898 2 ай бұрын
I’m coming onto 5 years no contact with my beloved narcissist! Words can’t describe what it was like to be with a narcissist! My son and daughter are finally realizing how toxic their mother is! So sad! Namasta my friend!
@michelledale3334 2 ай бұрын
I wish my son would finally realise what his narc father is. I have been blamed and isolated, I pray everyday that my son will wake up and know the truth. Thanks for sharing it gives me hope.💪❤
@BeTheLight624 2 ай бұрын
So true, Andrew. Most people don’t or won’t understand the bizarre hell the narc puts you through, it’s like describing an episode of the Twilight Zone to someone and expect them to get it. Even we, the tortured and tormented are trying to figure out what happened to us. God bless Andrew for sharing his experience, exposing the methods and ways of the narc, how to escape, protect and heal and providing a safe haven for us to share, heal and become educated to the evils of narcissism. Most people won’t understand what we have been through. I am blessed because the only non-narc traumatized person I spoke to about my narc experience was my best friend from grade school…she listened and did not judge me. She and her husband protected and have helped me through this ordeal. I don’t speak much about it, only small bits when the narc has tried to torment me. Thank you God, Andrew and community for your support, encouragement and loving kindness to all. Let your light shine out the darkness of this world. ✝️✨☀️✨💖✨🌎✨🦋✨💜✨
@BeTheLight624 2 ай бұрын
By the way, Andrew…. you’re “you are not alone” at the end of every video…I can’t tell you how many times that helped me and got me through my healing process Priceless Thank you 🙏🏻💜🌲☀️
@marieeakin8534 2 ай бұрын
Valuable Truth 👍💥 Thank you! 🙏❤ 🌈🎀😘
@emilywilson7308 2 ай бұрын
So SWEET!💕
@DaveMasters1121 2 ай бұрын
I honestly think some friends washed their hands of me. I wasn't a good friend when I was with him. I totally lost myself and even though this was 2001 - 2007 the abuse still cuts me now. The words he said pop into my head sometimes and out of nowhere. Some of these even after the romantic relationship was over but before no contact. "You need to swerve the pies, you are looking chubby" "You have eaten too much" (on Xmas day) He RUINED my 20s. I was slim and pretty back then. It makes me so angry that I put up with that nonsense. I need to let go and hold onto the fact that I am wise and see these types for who they are now and block
@mariami2670 2 ай бұрын
🫂be strong
@richardhowe3951 2 ай бұрын
Having gone through it you can see it in others sometimes. I try not to tell people who are not ready to hear it. They all have a reason to counter what you say. Like me, they want to keep thinking it will be different this time. It is a good reminder of how hard this is when your in the thick of it. I am grateful for having found this channel and all the folks here! Thank you all for helping me get an stay here.!!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Welcome..🙏💜😌💯
@junepeterson4078 2 ай бұрын
Thank heavens you are there. Your podcasts are great support! Thank you!
@SherryWilson-dk7bo 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Andrew, love you and community ❤️ 🙏 🙏
@angelofthemosthigh7292 2 ай бұрын
A narc relative I was abused by told me once that he targeted and abused another relative because she had a "spark". Then proceeded to tell me I have that same ..spark which was why he chose me...while pretending he was helping.😮
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
💡💡😌💜🙏
@cc1k435 2 ай бұрын
That's exactly it. They see something good, know they sure don't have it, and so they get determined to kill it in you. 😮 I am determined to get mine back again and then some. ❤
@jhavajoe3792 2 ай бұрын
That "spark" is the light in you that they wanted to extinguish. Andrew mentioned this several times. Try to explain it to anyone in those terms and they'll think you're nuts.
@gangGreenthumb 2 ай бұрын
Being hung up on.. she did this frequently. I'd call her back... "I think we got disconnected... I love you." "luv you." Click. Had I understood back then it was a devaluation, things would have gone ..very.. differently. But she was playing a game that I didn't know we were playing. Now I don't take that abuse. I'm a very different person. Much stronger. She wouldn't like this version of me, she needs a people-pleasing push-over.
@mimap275 2 ай бұрын
So true , noone else understands except in the groups
@MEL2theJ 2 ай бұрын
Thank you again NARCDAILY 🙏
@sylviaamodeo7090 2 ай бұрын
I brought this person up from where they were in their Life, only to watch them attempt to destroy me. Never mistake my Kindness for Weakness, fools
@paulscoffiesandsnacks551 2 ай бұрын
Thank you brother.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
😌😌💜
@hannastrack4310 2 ай бұрын
don't go there they will only turn on you
@chazbickel4518 2 ай бұрын
When people turn away from you, it takes some time to let them go. The true relationships reveal themselves because those people not only pick you up when you fall, they are also there celebrating your moments of success with you. Narcissistic people will appear in times of turmoil, but they are absent during your biggest accomplishments. Trying to explain things to everyone can draw the wrong people in. It's so hard to remain silent until we learn how to remain silent. ❤
@hannastrack4310 2 ай бұрын
@@chazbickel4518 I agree💯
@hannastrack4310 2 ай бұрын
@@chazbickel4518 i agree 💯
@chazbickel4518 2 ай бұрын
@@hannastrack4310😊
@user-xb3yp2px6b 2 ай бұрын
True. They do get burned out. So much great and reassuring information here. Thanks so much for sharing this, Andrew. This support and understanding is so rare. You not only get it, you can articulate it. 💝💝💝💝💝
@shellykeit 2 ай бұрын
Andrew you are a God send!❤❤❤❤🎉🎉
@hibbertsh 2 ай бұрын
What Andrew is saying is 100% correct. I stopped talking about my experience with family. Watch what people are saying on the channels they are kindred spirits, the only people that understand the experience. All the information we get from Andrew has been extremely helpful for me to move forward. Brilliant video Andrew!
@JulieShah-in7zz 2 ай бұрын
I just wanted to add, to those at the beginning of their journey....do everything in your own time...slow your life down.... surround yourself with those who are loving and nurturing even if they don't understand. Everyone told me to see a therapist and that was the wrong advice in the early stages because my thought processes were scrambled. Exercise was and is my life line, going out having a coffee and reading helped. I didn't like being alone in the house because I couldn't focus or regulate my emotions. And yes it was a dark place I found myself in. And now a year on I'm healing, slowly but surely and you will too eventually.... just remember it was never you it was them. Sending love and hope 💜
@jodaniels8097 2 ай бұрын
It's hard to explain any of the madness to people as the narcissist does their slithery moves so sneakily and act so nice to people to their face if they arent the target. I keep it to myself now, have this channel to talk about it and for me i like to have this superpower and not to let new people i meet know i know about narcissists as that way i can filter narcs out before they hook you in. I couldnt go through this nonsense again 😞
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing..💜🙏😌
@jodaniels8097 2 ай бұрын
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone I do share these videos, though, as they are great at explaining, but in personal life I zip the lip, learnt the hard way on that one 😅
@marieeakin8534 2 ай бұрын
Smart Cookie 🍪👍 🌈🎀😘
@bestlife9925 2 ай бұрын
They won’t give you closure . So glad to hear this! Didn’t know this was a “thing”. Very helpful
@Mariah.B11 2 ай бұрын
So grateful for the wisdom shared here. Goodmorning Andrew to you and everyone.
@sylviacaldwell2139 2 ай бұрын
EXCELLENT ANDREW.... BEST MESSAGE YET!!!!
@jbtoptc7327 2 ай бұрын
You are correct. You will burn friends out trying to explain this insanity. NO ONE will ever know until they experience this first hand. I will never be the same again........ But I am much better off. 😎
@JFish-df2ep 2 ай бұрын
I told others about the things my nEx did, and they thought I was crazy for staying. I was. Never again.
@nemonoteworthy2200 2 ай бұрын
😮 sorry about that Andrew. You deserve better. ❤
@audreyzapata6445 2 ай бұрын
Moving Monday to the beautiful Carolina's. Wish us luck🍀🐞🦄
@audreyzapata6445 2 ай бұрын
🌺
@michellepurcell8703 2 ай бұрын
Great video. It’s so true. The people close to us that haven’t been through this evil cycle, have no way of putting themselves in our shoes and experiencing the mind games and hurtful things these people do . Keep watching videos, getting out into nature, listening to birds and animals who aren’t narcissists, but just being by yourself in nature is great for your mental clarity
@nancykrapf1948 2 ай бұрын
Thank you Andrew. Evil control. Is my reality. Thank you for doing this for those that cannot even comprehend (I couldn't) that is how it happened. HOW anyone could enjoy inflicting such pain.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Welcome..🙏💜😌
@user-xb3yp2px6b 2 ай бұрын
You're so right, Andrew. It certainly is a challenge and your stolen IP should be reported. I think they 've been on that train since they were really young.
@Duckfarmer 2 ай бұрын
They Can't Handle The Truth
@hongtruong4576 2 ай бұрын
One of the ex narc favorite quote was: A lie is not a lie, if you believe in it! Now, that makes sense in his twisted way of thinking
@jameslink6623 2 ай бұрын
Wow, as a victim also, this guy is spot on!
@MirAndHer 2 ай бұрын
Trying to explain narcissistic abuse to people who've not experienced it, makes us look like the crazy one!! Sad, but true. Only a survivor can truly understand your experience
@LKYWLF 2 ай бұрын
Namaste🤘😈🖤
@cleverkins 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for continuing to lift the fog of narcissism! You are exceptionally helpful, Andrew. Greatly appreciate your clarity!
@shellykeit 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for helping people Andrew!!!❤🎉
@mariami2670 2 ай бұрын
I'm so happy that you can understand us. Your videos help me and I don't feel alone and crazy. Thank you for everything ❤
@mtc-j9i 2 ай бұрын
This channel is grounding for me. I can’t completely cut the narc off, change my number, and move because we have kids together. So every now and then I have to deal with his pathetic and disgusting Hoover attempts. Generally I ignore and do not comment unless it’s about the kids. But sometimes I get so furious at his relentless foolishness. I keep this channel close in order to keep myself grounded. He deserves nothing - not even a response. I’ll vent my frustration elsewhere.
@gtrmarv333 2 ай бұрын
When Andrew says DO NOT accept a HOOVER ... believe it !!! No matter what they say !!! And they WILL s a y a n y t h i n g !!!
@plumduff3303 2 ай бұрын
There is only one andrew you are superb...this stream and Dr. ramani have helped me no end thank you for all you do.
@trayle1220 Ай бұрын
Being w a narcissist was one of the most torturous experiences EVER!!! I became a drunk Drank alcohol from am to pm just to cope. Now I’m healing. I didn’t even know who I was anymore 😢
@the-writerofmyownstory 2 ай бұрын
I’m not describing or explaining anymore. My uncle said the most cutting thing to me when I broke contact with my abusive narcissist older sibling. He said my Father (who died tragically when I was a teenager) would be disappointed in me. I have been smeared by sibling to everyone we know mutually. It’s hard to take them all on to explain. Not doing it. I wasn’t put on this earth to be superglued under narcissist’s thumbs. Looking forward to that pinnacle of indifference, so glad to have found this community. Thank you Andrew and All.
@hongtruong4576 2 ай бұрын
Your uncle can communicate with the death? Hummm! Very interesting 🤔 This is the time we know who has our best interest at heart. You are not alone!
@SLLiberty23 2 ай бұрын
Excellent video tonight Andrew … 🙏🏻🙂💝
@shellykeit 2 ай бұрын
Your so right on Andrew, I spend all my time with my dog!😊
@sandralindsay9739 Ай бұрын
I am thankful for this community because you all understand.. i felt so isolated because I felt no one understood the various emotions I experienced. I will continue to educate myself and continue my healing journey
@edwardspriggs5076 2 ай бұрын
OMG, until I found this channel some years ago, I was so lost in confusion. I was feeling crazy in trying to explain things to people who knew nothing about narcissism. Andrew is 200% correct, everything you go through is not everyone. The empathic people who have gone through narcissistic abuse is your family while you're going through it, trust me.
@bethhull1132 2 ай бұрын
I dated a narcissist for 15 years. After I went to one-on-one counseling to educated myself and desperately find answers, I then watched videos like yours to finally realize who he really is. I still struggle with one question that NO ONE in all these videos or a "doctor" that I talked to and paid multiple times, has ever been able to answer. Why us? Why an empath who bent over backwards for years? Treated him like a King. Faithful to the end, which he knew. By his side in the worst of his times like his oldest Son dying in a motorcycle accident in Hawaii or his prostate cancer diagnosis, just to name a few. All while I had children who were 8, 12 and 15 years old when they lost their father to suicide. Why was this monster brought into our lives? I really try but I can't see any reasonable, meaningful, rational purpose behind it.
@harperlewis1526 2 ай бұрын
Andrew referred to it as a 'spark.' They have to live a lie, and get 'supply' to fill that void in their soul. Usually the spark of their victims they can just sense it like a shark senses blood in the water, is usually our caring, kindness, empathy, people-pleasing, good-natured, perhaps vulnerable and lacking in self-confidence, or just young and naive, but "nice." The took the gamble, love bombed us, we got the euphoria (I was 19), were hooked, said "I do" and then the mask gradually slipped off in my case. Others, it came off immediately. Dr Jekyll on Sunday at church, Mrs. Hyde the rest of the week.
@Thedisgardedoptimist 2 ай бұрын
You just answered your own question... You are a nice person... It wasn't your fault.. You like a hundred thousand others of us met a narc.. and were nice... Did you have any other choice but to be nice? No.. You're a nice person... Don't forget that and don't blame yourself..🙏
@Siegefya 3 күн бұрын
After all of my research I have a different understanding. They don't always find "nice" people per say... They don't always find complete empaths. Sometimes they do sometimes they don't. Why anybody? Because they see whatever they need to see in that person to assimilate into them for supply, to love bomb and parrot them so on and so forth to take some aspect of that person. This whole idea they only find empaths I think is false. Sometimes they find lost and broken people for whatever reason, sometimes they find fellow narcs, or even sociopaths and psychopaths. I don't consider myself a total empath, I have plenty of empathy for humanity and even animals, I'm a vegan. However, I'm a veteran with combat related PTSD and I have a issues myself, part of the reason I think I have PTSD from combat is because I'm a sensitive person, I didn't serve a combat role in the military but I was exposed to a a lot of rough things war has to offer. What she seen in me? Idk but at the time I didn't think I'd find anybody in life to be with but I did have hope for it, I met her through a dating app. All the stages she did to me, love bombed me and parroted me... I thought I met my soul mate, I thought we had so much in common but it was all a lie, she just love bombed and reflected me. I wasn't always the nicest, in fact there was some reactive abuse at times as we were together I had gotten my diagnosis and shared everything with her, finding out my PTSD triggers etc she knew it all. When worst came to worst she used my triggers against me many times to get me to flip out, then she'd record me. I tried to do the same when she would be in a narc fit, slamming things, grabbing my stuff etc, but when I turned the camera on, she'd immediately stop and give the camera a big smile, why? Because she was acting. Everything is an act to them, it's all a movie, their fog is a bizaro world horror show. Why they pick anybody is up to them, whoever their target is, is for a reason only they know.
@cherinhunt9152 2 ай бұрын
Thnx Andrew.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Welcome..💜🙏😌
@Katheryninc2 2 ай бұрын
I don't need the narcissist. It's my superpower.
@collegegirl201418 2 ай бұрын
thank you andrew namaste 👏😇
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
😊🙏💜
@DC71235 2 ай бұрын
I just got a letter in the mail from toxic parents after 6 weeks of no contact with parents and sibling. I shouldn’t have read it. I came to the conclusion to go no contact after months of watching Andrew’s message (thank you Andrew)To them this was “out of the blue” and they “don’t understand “ and they “did their best” followed by memories and flowery words. I don’t recall those memories as good. I dreaded seeing them and had to recover after. It drained my energy and made me question my sanity. I admit it’s tempting to write back and tell them the reasons why but it took every ounce of courage to get out and I know it would suck me back in. It feels like going no contact all over again when a Hoover happens.
@kathleencondit1660 2 ай бұрын
One thing we can't do is to defend our self, or to explain to them. They won't read it. Figure out what to do with their letter, so that you don't keep reading it again and again, for days, weeks, and months. I have stacks of emails and letters. Family members do not listen. Our defending our self only keeps us in their loop which is a snare like for a rabbit. There are so many types of hoovers. Each one really tears out our life energy. Don't respond to the hoover letter. Stay free, even though it takes every ounce of courage you have. Best wishes.
@mayhemslim1217 2 ай бұрын
My Mom is 88 and saw that there was something wrong with her ....... I still cannot believe I am where I am. Life is dark and lonely but trying to stay strong.
@cyny6305 2 ай бұрын
It shakes me so hard that so few people understand, but we didn't understand once either. I tell people to think of Cults. It's exactly like that.
@Dregarf 2 ай бұрын
SALUTE to you Andrew - your mastery of the subject matter is truly amazing !!! Love your style & delivery too !
@Sarahkap Ай бұрын
I am so thankful for your videos. Everything you say is what I went through. Family is already burned out. Many people don’t understand. I need to stop burning out my family 🥺
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Ай бұрын
😌😌🙏
@AugustusTiberius-tq1gw 2 ай бұрын
Mr. Andrew is on point. My X left me for a rebound guy after a few years together. My X has shown her true colors. In the end, I upgraded, moved on and going to the gym. As for my X, she down graded with her new supply.
@shereeholland172 2 ай бұрын
Correct. You can not parachute into that territory. You must experience it first hand. The DSM; does speak about it. But the examples give peope a clearer idea of this reality that people live on a daily basis, and first hand.
@jhavajoe3792 2 ай бұрын
That the DSM does not speak of it is the mind blow. This type of Narcissistic mental illness is so pervasive, it's like a poisonous root beneath the social landscape, that should be high in priority in the discussions of Psychology .
@user-ou3sd2vp3u 2 ай бұрын
Excellent video Andrew! Thank you! ❤️
@cynthiawlaughlin5435 2 ай бұрын
Thank you once again
@sallybutler1005 2 ай бұрын
Andrew you saved me ❤ thankyou ! And i look forward to the beautiful flowers you post x
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 2 ай бұрын
Welcome..😌😌💜🙏🌸
@lananaspana 2 ай бұрын
Great video. Thank you, Andrew. ♥️❤️
@cheryleteale4902 2 ай бұрын
My goodness the evening after wedding, he peeled his clothes off, jumped into bed and that was it! All my efforts to look great was totally ignored and things ramped up and this was the beginning of my chaos for years and years.... till I couldn't do it any more! The Jekyll and Hyde personality was there for my benifit only! I say benifit but it was nothing of the sort, my self destruction was his end game! Thankfully it was not mine, I found my voice and seeked help and have not looked back! Taking time to mend and becoming the best version of myself!!! Excellent words Andrew, it's tough for people to understand, but I just say now, I was cut from an empathetic cookie cutter mold, he was not! It's difficult to discover, but discover I did and now look back at it as a character building experience and stop at that as IT is not worth any air time in my life/mind!!!!!!
@justdaisy316 2 ай бұрын
Thanks again Andrew..I so appreciate you! ❤
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