I did almost ten years in maximum security, and while I can respect a person for a philosophical stance on non-violence, in places like that, choosing not to engage in violence (more often than not) just creates an even more ripened culture of predation where you live. Bullies get encouraged and emboldened by their victims and the victims of others. An appropriate amount of force is oftentimes the prefect deterrence to a future of violence. You can't speak poetry to someone who isn't a poet-- when you meet a swordsman, draw your sword.
@mr.hokage75072 жыл бұрын
best analogy i’ve read
@mexicanamerican80622 жыл бұрын
That shit was poetic!
@jeanneedwards15212 жыл бұрын
Only he that draws his sword shall be meant with brute force
@actionjackson84392 жыл бұрын
You live by the sword you die by the sword
@simonyip59782 жыл бұрын
'You don't recite poetry to someone who isn't a poet' that's a great analogy.
@maxpower9175 Жыл бұрын
My brother is in and out of jail all his life, he told me if i ever end up in there, just be willing to fight. Don't matter if you win or lose, it's the fact that you WILL fight that matters.
@john0803 Жыл бұрын
What if you lose the fight, end up unconscious, and a homosexual decides to fuck you in the ass while you sleep? that's why don't go to jail in the first place
@Visceral. Жыл бұрын
Your brother is an idiot and I hope you have some sense to stay out of that shit hole.
@smythe7480 Жыл бұрын
What happens if you the small guy? And gets beat up all the time even tho you try and swing... is that still better than nothing and earn some prison respect? Serious question because I am a 5'9" 140lbs small build guy...and I know if I go up against a 6'0 200lb guy I know 1 hit would lay me out....
@tomthumb5445 Жыл бұрын
They need to know that while they can beat you in a fight, it will not be worth it for them.
@smythe7480 Жыл бұрын
@@tomthumb5445 but if you get your ass beat everytime isn't it worth beating your ass when you take everything anyway?
@eej1983able Жыл бұрын
Standing up for yourself is definitely so important in life too 🙌 well said
@sole__doubt10 ай бұрын
Its so ironic that people who dont like following rules go to prison where the rules are even more extreme. Like you said its important to stand up for yourself and its even more important when you're locked up.
@andrewkirkpatrick6266 ай бұрын
Yeah that's a matter of life and death many times when your locked up even if you lose get your ass beat whatever it's all about standing up for yourself stand your ground and don't ever let anyone ever punk u especially in front of a cafeteria full of other inmates cause they see that once and your most likely gonna be labeled a mark, target for anyone and not gonna have Any respect from anyone, it's a fucked up position to be in but gotta do what you got to do, simply stand up for yourself don't take shit from anybody, win or lose and u will b respected
@paulgrey802810 ай бұрын
"I don't want to fight" well that's just too bad. The one thing I was often told by ex-cons was that if I ever found myself in prison, some lowlife maggot would try it on to steal my shit and that the entire prison would be watching. Doesn't matter whether one wins or loses, as long as one has a go standing up for himself. This story is a good example of what happens when you don't.
@sherwinashford6 ай бұрын
I know I'm asking this question out of the blue but is Paul Grey your real name? I just got reminded of Paul Gray, the bassist from Slipknot. I also like how you referred to the stealing dirtbag as a 'maggot', another reference to the band's fandom lmao
@RandomYoutuberUsername25 ай бұрын
@@sherwinashfordlmao
@jacobpeters54585 ай бұрын
ok but like what are the chances of getting stabbed? cuz I think that's what most ppl are worried about, not the actual bruises etc
@paulgrey80285 ай бұрын
@@jacobpeters5458no one would stab another when a newbies being tested. Getting shanked is personal. One would have to do something to piss another off to get stabbed. Mind your own business. Show respect. Don't accept any 'gift' [nothing is free in prison] Don't gamble. Don't get drugs on credit.
@paulgrey80285 ай бұрын
@@sherwinashford it's my real utube name 😁 No relation to Slipknot.
@ranxerox6920082 жыл бұрын
There are a lot of guys not built for prison but are constantly doing things that will eventually put them there.
@justinparkerthewildwolf63942 жыл бұрын
It's better to have a little fight rather than get seriously hurt
@0BRAINS02 жыл бұрын
Not good to have a crutch like a pistol,knife or really any weapon. When a man can't rely on his hands, on his fists, he really isn't much of a man.
@JohnDoe-jt9oq2 жыл бұрын
@@0BRAINS0 If you judge whether a man is a man by whether or not he can fight with his fists you're going to find yourself in a cell.
@0BRAINS02 жыл бұрын
@@JohnDoe-jt9oq it doesn't make you a man but if you want to act like a man, you better learn how to fight.
@jalonzo3102 жыл бұрын
It's inevitable. Yea there are a lot of fck boys doing fck things but they aren't thinking about that when they are break an entry to score some glass or some black. Once they end up in prison they realize they are pssy and becomes ""boys". Going back to your comment ita true it's very true but it's still going to go down.
@RAPEDBYBLACKS2 жыл бұрын
This lesson is not just for prison, it applies to life in general. Prison has the same rules as the outside. People will exploit those who are weak.
@mattbell5552 жыл бұрын
so christians are weak because they think that you must turn the other cheek lol. Violence is for the weak and the animals.
@thewicked18622 жыл бұрын
No prison‘s rules are extremely extremely petty I watch a man get his face smashed in Over three Ramen noodles that he was going to get that evening it just wasn’t going to be that minute and he didn’t like that it’s a whole different world in there brother
@margowilcox44952 жыл бұрын
This guy^ ^ ^. When you never been to prison but act like it. Gtfoh with that comment
@santinoescobar51112 жыл бұрын
Nah not exactly
@D_23872 жыл бұрын
People will exploit those who are weak yes however don't act like people fist fighting over a candy bar is everyday life on the outside lmfao
@MichaelThomas-ll1hw Жыл бұрын
The last thing you said is key… not EVERYTHING needs to turn into a fight… don’t go in there guns blazing either.. odds are there’s someone badder than you. Only fight if it’s disrespect- if you’re getting tested. I knew a dude from county who got sent to a sober living type of house in place of the joint…. He fucked up there and it followed him all the way to prison. I’ll be straight up. I was a soft white dude, and I could have had a real shitty time. I was from a nice area and just got mixed up with opiates, eventually landing me in prison for my first offence. Part of it was luck, part of it was the fact that there were soo many strung out suburban white Boys in the downtown (urban af) jail system in the late 2000’s… they were able to give me a crash course in what not to do real quick. A few things that saved my ass: I can draw. In fact I was a classically trained fine arts major (of course nobody fucking knew that- I had enough sense not to share that lol)… this is good because dudes always want to send drawings/cards to their loved ones on the outs… the shit they wanted was always retarded as fuck. Skulls, roses, big tiddied bitches… if you can draw that’s currency. Find a hustle. * also I can read and write proficiently… lots of dudes can’t. A few times I wrote letters for people, spell checked letters to judges, I even wrote a gay ass love letter for a dude to send to his girl trying to convince her to ride with him…. This is a fine line though- you don’t want to come off as a scholar nerd. Don’t speak the queens English, just casually be like “yeah I can read and write good” Second thing that was good for me- I straight up fucking hate juice. The apple juice, orange juice grape juice… fucking hate that Tropicana bullshit. Let me tell you something about black dudes: they fucking love juice, let me tell you another thing about black people: they hate milk. I love milk, I was trying to get in shape because I knew I had a bit ahead of me (more good advice- workout if you’re facing time… don’t be fuckin Rocky running up the chow tables, but lift some water bags)…. I traded my juice for milk every time, with one dude in particular… kind of think of it as building credit… every time you honour a deal your trust credit goes up- he wasn’t bullying me into trading or anything, but he was a big ass black dude. Basically we had business. Eventually we became cool (as cool as a white hipster first timer and a Blood could be). 3rd thing that helped me was being funny….. you gotta be really fucking careful with this. You gotta make sure you’re making dudes laugh at what you’re saying , not at you. You gotta know what’s too far, you can’t constantly be doing Jerry Seinfeld standup bits like “what’s the deal with these coffee cakes? They’re not coffee and they’re not cake!”…. But fuck man, if you can get the boys rolling then you’re good… you’re helping the time pass, which is what we all want at the end of the day- but use discretion: if a dude just got back from court and finds out he was denied probation and is shipping out, dudes probably not in the mood. But I had a few big dudes who I could clown with…. When new inmates come in and see you laughing with the boys they register you like “oh he’s got people, he’s must be chill”…. Don’t be a weirdo and hide in bed all day. You gotta mix with people, if you don’t fit in, make yourself fit in… I wasn’t talking about craft beers and nirvana when I was in there, you’re gonna have to be flexible. You need people for your own sanity, and if you’re a fckin mute it’s gonna make people uneasy or think you’re hiding something. Another quick tip: phone time is a bitch. When all the dudes rush for the phones, just chill if you can. If dudes are in line and you can wait for rush hour to end, just do it. Little things like that can just keep you removed from any potential issues. Again, this is if you’re trying to avoid conflict at all costs.., don’t inconvenience yourself, but stay out of chaos as much as you can. If you’re next in line for the phone and you’ve got a dude ahead of you who’s phone call ends and he immediately picks it back up and dials back, he’s saying “fuck you, my time is more valuable than yours… what’s good?”… do you want to fight in that instance? Technically you absolutely should, but you don’t want to. Just wait until the phones are free if you can. You have to be an anthropologist and casually conduct your own ethnographic research in your head. An anthropologist observes, adopts new customs, doesn’t question stuff/doesn’t push their views and customs. You need to embrace the experience and learn to push through. Every hard experience you go through makes you stronger… if you learn to embrace the struggle then there is no struggle. Your attitude is *Fucking Everything*… it’s literally all you have, besides some bags of milk and an old maxim magazine. Nobody can take away your mindset. Not the guards, not the kid banging on tables rapping at 4 am, not the fat dude snoring… remember that it will pass. You will see your family again. You will order a beer at a bar. You will get pussy again. Time is just time. The experience made me stronger and more resilient. I was always a good bullshitter and master manipulator. The experience is humbling because you’re not going to sweet talk your way out of time with a judge. Living in the bottom of the forgotten waste bin of society puts stuff in perspective. Learning gratitude for freedom is a beautiful thing. Today I’m on track to getting a PhD in Psychology, and you bet your ass my time in prison is an asset to me today. If you find a way to make the experience work for you then it’s a positive. The legal system is a goddamn disgrace- I realize I can’t fix it, but I’m going to try my best to help specifically young men so they don’t end up there. Society is falling, and it’s falling because values like integrity, honour and civility are falling … it’s falling because men are falling. Some of the best people I met will never see freedom again, and some of the shittiest people I know are driving to an office in a Mercedes. Learn to tame the reptile, primate brain and better yourself and you will better the world. Respectfully, 608-173
@TheNittyGritty7352 ай бұрын
This is incredible…..
@Prod.VilianoGames2 ай бұрын
Ion ever read paragraph comments. But this one was diff. Good stuff
@TheNittyGritty7352 ай бұрын
@@Prod.VilianoGames right? Truly inspiring and eye opening
@jimgamerman12772 ай бұрын
Your time in served you well.
@dukemartinez75512 ай бұрын
Nice comment. It was easy to read and very insightful. You should write a book.
@TrichsRUs4 ай бұрын
"Well...your math good, but that's the wrong answer." LOL
@ShycrochetqueenАй бұрын
This comment right here
@SavageMrFox-dh7ip2 жыл бұрын
My best friend growing up went to prison at 17 years old for 5 years. After he came out. He has anger problems and wants to fight people over every little thing. It's sad
@crojackbojangles2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a good boxing career path opportunity. tell him to train and be an instructor. might as well get paid to do what you love
@SavageMrFox-dh7ip2 жыл бұрын
@@crojackbojangles Prison has messed him up too bad and he can't hold down any job.
@kennymondesir1882 жыл бұрын
@@SavageMrFox-dh7ip is he still your buddy?
@johnobrien89712 жыл бұрын
Sounds like regular everyday adulthood
@beentheredonethat59082 жыл бұрын
It will fade with time. I did 14 years, and when I came home, life was hard, I didnt understand how to live anymore. When people would do or say things that would be disrespectful in prison o reacted to it like I was still there, it took awhile for me to gain a new understanding, the same as it takes time to adapt to there. Honestly some groups or people to talk to he respects might make a difference and help. You have to go back to normal life, he has PTSD and emotional damage.
@YourMomsFavoriteCommenter2 жыл бұрын
If you're not the "prison type" of person... avoid prison AT EVERY JUNCTION.
@Raumplestomp2 жыл бұрын
Humanity isn't built for prison. For profit punitive justice has proven to perpetuate the problem by exasperating desperation. #cureviolence
@jakenake34012 жыл бұрын
You can be most clean Mf'er but not everything can be avoided my friend, laws have flaws which can end anyone in prison
@dl50142 жыл бұрын
Where I was raised if you werent ready to go all the way & crazier than everybody else fucking with u you wherent gonna be left alone. I had to put my pride to the side & let fuck shit slide because I knew I would end up in prison. these street thugs can see if your willing to go all the way & kill. If they dont see that just fist fighting aint gonna get them off your ass.
@bobbythespaceghost99342 жыл бұрын
I'm not built for that shit.
@doseofsense47272 жыл бұрын
Problem is anyone can make a mistake.....takes one drink too many and getting in an accident...... One punch in a fight that knocks out someone who falls, hits their head and dies...any number of things. The other problem is that the justice system is not about people and has zero capacity to even contemplate situations where people might have the opportunity to be helped. They have no interest or heart and are like robots that only know how to do things one way...destroying people and in many cases, families.
@bobbygene4418 Жыл бұрын
I feel like in Life you never let NO ONE put thier hands on you atlease thats how I was raised! You win some and you lose some but you live to tell another day! Anything is better then getting shot! Y'all Stay Humble.
@Firealone97 ай бұрын
"Whatchu want me to do??" "Grab a lock and hit him with it while he's on on the phone" 😂😂😂
@justcallmetruman6 ай бұрын
The blue phone blues lol
@markjackson35312 жыл бұрын
had a conversation recently with my nephew about not letting people take stuff from you. He is 8, and wanted to bring a $100 toy to school. I told him "make sure nobody tries to take it from you. If someone asks to see it, make sure it's somebody you trust to give it back. If they try to take it, take it back." He was apprehensive and asked "did that ever happen to you?" i told him yes, and told him a story about when i was on a school trip and a kid from a different school tried to take my hat. I took it back and made it clear I'd fight to keep it. I told my nephew, "if you let one bad person take something from you, other bad people will see that and think THEY can take your stuff, too. You stop it the first time." He's a generous kid, but he has already stood up for himself a few times, just hasnt had THIS situation happen and i was trying to prepare him if somebody tried to steal his toy. Many parents say "tell a teacher", but honestly that's bad advice most of the time for a young boy.
@GlazzedDonut2 жыл бұрын
This happened when I was a kid. My son went to the park with his RC the other day with implicit instructions If someone try to take it from you you have dad's permission to lay em out
@markjackson35312 жыл бұрын
@@GlazzedDonut I'm not having anybody take anything from my family without consequences, period.
@coolboy54282 жыл бұрын
@Wil Paul What? Let your son have toys you waste of space
@ceasarcruz8312 Жыл бұрын
@Wil Paul lil man got a toy because he a lil man, let kids be kids fucks sake...
@gabago0l Жыл бұрын
@Wil PaulHe's a child loser. The fuck is wrong with you?
@mo9382 жыл бұрын
ain't no fucking way I'm cut out for prison.
@caesar3492 жыл бұрын
Same 😂. I watch these videos as a reminder not to do anything stupid to end up in jail.
@alchemist11112 жыл бұрын
For real, I’d definitely fight but in no ways want to be in that situation. Clean living for me thanks.
@DannyCasino2 жыл бұрын
Good don't do nothing to put yourself in that position
@commiehunter7332 жыл бұрын
It's a young man's game
@kenyarawatson55022 жыл бұрын
Bro jail is not bad prison is not it tfoh 😒
@joshuahutchinson9982 Жыл бұрын
If you don’t fight, your own people will handle you because you didn’t handle an issue. Just get it done, win or lose, but you had the heart to just get it over with. No one faults you for losing, but they will treat you with absolute disrespect for not fighting.
@debbieangel9376 Жыл бұрын
You can say I'm corny but I just love these prison stories their art of survival is from a complete different world, Thanks man👌
@daveyboy_10 ай бұрын
Corny's not the word.
@lucasgregory63756 ай бұрын
They are a bunch of losers.
@Cpt-mz5qo6 ай бұрын
True these guys are scumbags have fun sittin in jail the rest of your life
@scottriedesel5 ай бұрын
Man it's worse than you can imagine
@ConGamePro3 ай бұрын
You aren’t corny or goofy. What you are is smart enough to appreciate that you will never do anything to end up in a prison. I say, good for you.
@dmo848 Жыл бұрын
I'm a small ass dude. 1 thing I learned in life. Be respectful, it goes a long way. Being like that doesn't show weakness nor strength just a pure acknowledgement of another human. Some don't understand this hidden law of life.
@johnterell8642 Жыл бұрын
You try being like that in prison, your getting folded. It'll work to a extent, but at sometimes in prison, you have to fight. Most times, it'll let people know you ain't going, and even though you may not win, but it shows you're not going to be a easy win, and they'll go to a easier target.
@jcherrax Жыл бұрын
Yeah but when its time to fight u gotta fight doesnt matter if u lose or win
@williambrown6889 Жыл бұрын
In jail if you don't fight people don't respect you I never fought my whole life I was a drug addict I was cool with everyone in the place cuz I knew everyone .. 1 day some dude gets changed over from another jail and hes there for a few days... So 3 4 days in he came up to me and tried to push me off the phone and I'm like bro I'm gonna be a few minutes I'm talking to my mother and he goes meet me in the bathroom .. 2 people I know said bro you gotta fight and I said fight? They said yea if you don't your life is gonna be over in here .. I went in fought him won and felt great about myself I never pushed no one around after that I got in maybe 2 more fights for my next 2 years there .. win or lose you fight it's about respect
@luthermcgee3767 Жыл бұрын
Agreed. I'm 4" short of being 6 feet, I've pulled concrete footers, laid block, worked at recycling facilities, etc. And look like a body builder, & took martial arts. But, everytime I meet people, I'm kind and courteous, life is too short to be unduly confrontational with anybody. Prison- well that's another matter.
@Matthew2077 Жыл бұрын
@@johnterell8642 not really dude. I've been to a federal place. Most fights I saw were over money. People not paying their debts, not honoring deals they made etc. You dont gamble, you dont have a bad case, you dont go around bothering people you will be fine. I was only in 6 months and saw several fights but never had to fight myself. Never had anyone steal my commissary or anything like that. If you dont give people a reason most of the time you will be fine.
@RcOffroad95132 жыл бұрын
I didn't ever want to fight, but if you stand up for yourself, the first time... You will have alot more respect from everyone and have a smoother stay.
@L0kias12 жыл бұрын
Problem is they just want you to catch a charge so you can be locked up in there as long as they are.
@Millennialaire2 жыл бұрын
@@L0kias1 naa man 100% motherfuckers gonna try you at some point especially if you got money. your option is show whoever tries you first that he tried the wrong 1 and as long as you're not a little bitch doing bitch shit you be aiight.
@isthatsrt81202 жыл бұрын
@@L0kias1 wont catch a charge most of the time. my homies literally jumped a dude in the courtroom and got no charges added on
@JohnDoe-jt9oq2 жыл бұрын
@@L0kias1 Once you get yourself locked up you're no longer a civilian, so never mind about getting out, just focus on surviving.
@sourdiesel6812 жыл бұрын
@@JohnDoe-jt9oq shit this is spot on my dude✊🏾
@theoneandonlybridge42108 ай бұрын
This is true, when my brother was in for 8 months, he had 5 months of peace and one day out of nowhere a new inmate tried stealing his lunch, so he had to fight. It can happen at any time
@steve3128 ай бұрын
I’ve been working in Corrections for 12years. I’m a Sergeant now at the Facility I’m at now and I tell all the new Officers coming in to always treat the men and women that they are there to watch over and keep Security over to treat with respect. That doesn’t mean let them run over you or other Inmates in the unit. It means treat them how you would want to be treated, how you would want your family members treated, but by all means when it’s time do do your job I EXPECT AND DEMAND that YOU do your Job by the Policies and Procedures that are put in place. They are there to keep you out of Trouble with the law yourself and to maintain Order within the Facility. I also remind them that, yes there are people there that will never change and will always choose to do criminal activities, but there are some and a good bit that are there that made a bad decision and are paying their consequences for it. These people will be getting out one day and they could be on your neighborhood or even your neighbors. So don’t come to work trying to make enemies out of everyone because that is what you will get and your days on the job will be long and miserable!
@gettingpolitical Жыл бұрын
My brother spent 42yrs in prison in CDCR classified GP/GP (gang profiled general pop) started lvl4 housing, ended lvl3 (both cell living). My brother is 6'9" 334lbs. He's never been in a single altercation in prison, not with inmates, not with staff. No one tried pressing on him (his size alone is a cautionary sign) no one tried pulling him into anything. Paroled out with 5yrs parole and a model inmate. I'm proud of my brother.
@user-hc6kd6kr7n Жыл бұрын
That sounds awful But it's awesome that he didn't get into more trouble. Being 6'9 is a lot different than being under 6' but I still count it. At that size, it would probably be easy to debo everybody.
@ErnestJackson-ix6zt Жыл бұрын
Sound like a lie
@gettingpolitical Жыл бұрын
@@ErnestJackson-ix6zt what makes it so unbelievable to you? Is it your own failure to better yourself? Your lack of success in life? Or your inability to accomplish anything? Recidivism only effects those whom have no desire to change. Many inmates go into prison and out without disciplinary actions against them because they follow the program.
@user-hc6kd6kr7n Жыл бұрын
@@ErnestJackson-ix6zt what's your evidence of this? Did you know you can say that about almost everything on the internet?
@jamesdorris6023 Жыл бұрын
Total bs. These idiots in the pen because they lie non stop. Fk this bitch. I'd slap him up
@TheThetaMan2 жыл бұрын
Bro in the video (the guy telling the story in parts) is a real one. Stand up dude. I can tell. Because he tried on several different occasions to help dude out and coach him into not having such a hard time in prison. Dudes biggest barrier in my opinion is fear or lack of desire to fight. I get it, I don't like confrontation myself. Extremely humble and laid back. However.. I understand that sometimes you have to fight. Ain't no choice. I mean you always have a choice but the results if u choose wrong can be worse then if you just took a black eye, bloody nose, whatever and got the fight over with. Shoot, you might even win lmao. Even if you scared. But win or lose, it's about respect. Dude in video really solid cuz he could have tried to ho dude around too being his own celly after the first time he saw he wouldn't fight. But he kept trying coach dude mistake after mistake when he didn't have to. Prison is a whole different beast with set of rules that I don't desire to experience. But even outside of prison, the common denominator I feel is standing up for yourself to be respected. In or out..
@JukeHighwalker2 жыл бұрын
He's a closetcase and your his partner. Quit cheerleading....
@TheThetaMan2 жыл бұрын
@@JukeHighwalker how much you get paid an hour to waste ppl time making goofy ass comments like this? ☠️☠️☠️
@sowhat...2 жыл бұрын
@@JukeHighwalker what you talking about?
@Garbeaux.2 жыл бұрын
Makes you wonder what he did to get 10 to 15 years if he’s not violent. Still he should have been prepared to throw them hands win or lose.
@sowhat...2 жыл бұрын
@@Garbeaux. how you know he got 10-15 years?
@davidjohn545511 ай бұрын
You gotta fight. Win, lose, or draw, you still gotta fight.
@randyg.79408 ай бұрын
That's life
@bystanderbutch35096 ай бұрын
100% correct.
@robertpatter55095 ай бұрын
Better to fight and lose than let others extort you. At least you showed courage. And that kind of honor currency is worth it's weight in gold.
@sirchawlez47184 ай бұрын
Highly doubt there are ever, "draws" in prison. Basically someone is always on the losing end unless it isnt an actual fight.
@MikeSuzuki-ih7yc3 ай бұрын
@@sirchawlez4718I've fought to a draw enough times....bloody lips ears knee scabbing on some concrete I can fight pretty decently
@jamesingebretsen6165 Жыл бұрын
I hate bullies. I would have a field day with them and enjoy it. At 68 years old a Vietnam Veteran. I respect all a true gentleman and very old school but don't tolerate bullies. Much appreciated for all your great videos. God Bless you and family your a good man
@howdyfucker443 Жыл бұрын
I used to be a bully. Let’s just say they don’t lie about what happens to hot heads in there. They humbled me fast in there that’s why I respect everyone now sir 👍🏻👍🏻💯
@mda1218 Жыл бұрын
respect a mature vet who can still 👊🏼 : would luv to see you in action 💪
@lelandkinsella73802 жыл бұрын
Some prisoners are so miserable that they gotta torment someone just for being weaker. Very sad and inhumane
@Xtino1989X2 жыл бұрын
That’s not just prison bro it’s like that in life and real world too there’s always someone around who has no problem fucking with someone who’s weaker then them Best thing I ever heard was hurt people hurt people
@mstarry2 жыл бұрын
@@Xtino1989X absolutely correct!
@YoungEli92 жыл бұрын
Bro that's nature, u gotta be stronger than your enemies in this demonic world and prepare for anyone on fuck shit, I had to grow up fighting because I was smaller than others, now as a grown man who's about 5'6 I have all the tough guys and big guys respect me cause they can just look at me and tell I'm not gonna take their psychological bs, half of the times your dealing with people I just learned they want your fear and nothing else, but they'll start fearing you when you give them their fears, if they don't fear anything well shit create one for them !
@lelandkinsella73802 жыл бұрын
@@Xtino1989X I agree......it's just far more amplified in prison.
@jamal_776462 жыл бұрын
@@YoungEli9 Its not nature.. it depends on the environment one is in.
@YoungEli92 жыл бұрын
The moment the guy said "he ain't wanna fight" I got scared my damn self lol
@sahirdamani1264 Жыл бұрын
I don’t get why he didn’t wanna fight tho makes no sense
@tonyp4914 Жыл бұрын
🤣 hell yea me too...I said OH SHIT SMDH
@OnasaD Жыл бұрын
@@sahirdamani1264 I’d understand if he was in jail looking at less then a year due to not wanting extra time added however dude was in prison, your time is already long. Do anything that’ll make that time better even if it means the hole
@emmanuelzanders1746 Жыл бұрын
Does fighting dirty make things worse ?
@Seabreeze674 ай бұрын
Funny, honest bro 😂
@pascopirate3 ай бұрын
That dude is talking about himself.
@hunterbreaux81604 ай бұрын
I did my 3 years in Louisiana so when you said “you might could let em take ya fruit cocktail” I went “yall had fuckin fruit??!!” 😂😂
@jreeffam8701 Жыл бұрын
Must admit haven't viewed one of your videos in about 3 months, but the algorithm brought this upon me. With that I first came across your channel roughly a couple years ago and you had roughly 30k subs. Now look at you. Very proud of guys like us who struggled and came out on top. Respect.
@Groovychu Жыл бұрын
Algorithm be buggn ion watch jail stuff but I watch bro I haven’t seen him in a few
@gbone1812 Жыл бұрын
@An Irishman ☘️ be his 3rd
@lynnhunley75972 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed this story. I had a friend who was in for a while , he told me I would make it ok if I ever went. I would never want to find out. But if I did I would be fearful of catching another case inside for fighting or killing someone purposeful or accidentally. Much respect to the folks who can survive that world and get out to make a decent life.
@jmz7125 Жыл бұрын
Lmao you’re full of shit man. You would be the latino gang member’s personal bitch and the only charge you would get is solicitation as you try to get more men to clap your booty cheeks
@nathanielgriffith5342 Жыл бұрын
Lmao people that say shit like "I'd be fearful of catching a case inside for killing someone" are the same ones that say "I couldn't go to the military because I'd swing on a drill instructor"
@michaelreay-gn3ft Жыл бұрын
Not necessarily
@truthseeker2321 Жыл бұрын
Don't do stupid shit that will land you in prison, and you don't have to worry about whether you will make it or not.
@Osama_Bin_Ladder Жыл бұрын
The fact you insisted like 3 times that you would be fine, leads me to believe that you were afraid the person that was gonna get killed is you, and not the other way around.
@mkn.567 Жыл бұрын
"You can't be letting nobody steal your damn chicken paddy in prison, Man! Maybe the fruit cocktail, but not the damn chicken paddy"
@mercurry718Ай бұрын
Lol....
@jimmyv175310 ай бұрын
People get so in there own head about how bad it’s going to be if they have to fight. It’s SO MUCH WORSE IN YOUR HEAD. Reality is you win some you lose some but if you carry yourself with some dignity and realize it could be a whole lot worse than some bumps and bruises. The real wisdom is knowing when you HAVE to fight and when you don’t.
@KangarooJoeMama3 ай бұрын
The other guy could be petty and shank you.
@jimmyv17533 ай бұрын
@@KangarooJoeMama he could do that anyways. You don’t have to be in a fight for that to happen
@dcpmootown2 жыл бұрын
my mate was a long time prison person he told us " if you fight in prison they will respect you"
@Brandon68plus12 жыл бұрын
If you don't fight it's gonna get really bad. Doesn't even matter if you lose every fight as long as u stand up for yourself
@emmanuelzanders1746 Жыл бұрын
What about dirty fighting
@ackerjawaka47423 ай бұрын
@@emmanuelzanders1746any kind of fighting will do, like most of the comments have said you have to fight or you will be bullied every day of your sentence...bullies are basically cowards and the last thing they want is people standing up to them...if they think you will hit back they will leave you alone, I've ended up losing remission for fighting but if I hadn't I would have been picked on all the more ⚡
@LabzAli2 жыл бұрын
Quick prison story: while being held for trial , I took in and looked after a 6foot tall guy with the mind of a 7yr old child . Made sure no one troubled him. 3moons later prison staff came and say to me "what's the best news I can give you right now " so I said " me getting out of prison right now " staff said " yep pack you shit your case got dropped"
@DannyCrow-16YearsAnd-2 жыл бұрын
Fair play man. Good karma came back on you.
@LabzAli2 жыл бұрын
@@DannyCrow-16YearsAnd- yep trust me bro it did.
@_007B2 жыл бұрын
Amen bro I had a similar story. Second chances 🙏🏻
@tbone6924 Жыл бұрын
Was this in the U.S? I ask because if it was, you were NOT in prison. If you were awaiting trial, then you were just in a county jail which is nothing like prison.
@_007B Жыл бұрын
@@tbone6924 you’re right bro. This happens a lot now more than ever in county. Overpopulated, Understaffed Corrections and DAs are a major problem
@mikewallace1196 ай бұрын
Its the same thing outside of prison too... I have a daughter that was bullied throughout highschool but no fighting. Just mental bullying. She just started college and her roommate was trying to bully her and she told me about it. Her roommate was waking her up on purpose just so she couldn't sleep. My daughter is a pre-med student and doesn't sleep much anyways. Her roommate is going to be a teacher. So I told her she better stand up for herself otherwise it will only get worse in life. She finally said something to her roommate and put her in her place. Next thing I know the roommate was gone for 2 days spending nights somewhere else. That shit stopped right away. I'm proud of her because my daughter is kind and nice but I told her when people start shit you finish it. Now she has so much more confidence.
@daveyboy_10 ай бұрын
Guys who talk about jail like it's a night at the Holiday Inn just wanna go back
@MrScArEy882 жыл бұрын
Oh man I'm so glad I'm not in prison anymore. Learned my lesson the first time I messed up. Been out almost 10 years and love being free.
@joegardner5386 Жыл бұрын
Same here man been out since 2008. If I go back it will be for life lol😂
@lucasgregory63756 ай бұрын
@@joegardner5386 oKaY jOe
@Will-wo6xz2 жыл бұрын
A real man keeps himself out of prison. I've learned that..
@TcVideoHosting2 жыл бұрын
More like a smart person, but there is many innocent people In prison. There is also people that should be in jail in prison. There's so many dirty cops in places like new York an La...LA.... After slavery was over they throw fake. Charges on a black man send him to jail and to work on. The rail road. Cause they was getting extra money for it.
@TcVideoHosting2 жыл бұрын
Louisiana still sentences to hard labor and profits from people labor. Angola state prison is built on top of a slave plantation. There not just grabbing up innocent people like back then but mf dirty....
@Will-wo6xz2 жыл бұрын
@@TcVideoHosting umm ok idk where that just went.
@serpentinefire9213 ай бұрын
@@TcVideoHosting wrong. Completely wrong
@abatt42333 ай бұрын
Not always the case, there are people out there currently doing time for defending their family or defending their religion/beliefs.
@Mike-qo4kp11 ай бұрын
Vid Is hilarious "your bunkie wants to fight you put him up to this" "nah, my advice was totally different" haha
@miguelprewitt930922 күн бұрын
You are the GOAT! You giving people out here that have no idea what prisons like. It ain’t no county jail. Keep on keeping on brother!
@buskingkarma2503 Жыл бұрын
My old uncle did a good bit of his life in jail,his advice to me as a kid on going to jail was,,, if you can be bad enough to get in there,you should be bad enough to handle it in there!
@user-dg3io4px6n5 ай бұрын
Like how your old uncle explained it. Well put by your old uncle dude. Im gonna explain it that way to my kids if i ever have to talk to them bout that kind of thing to them.
@itchyballsack66272 жыл бұрын
I've always said in situations like these, it's not normal but it's the taking part that counts. In jail you have to earn respect and you still earn it even in defeat. You got to be seen to do something, anything or your ass is toast...
@stevenRalf20162 жыл бұрын
DAMMMMM SO BASICALLY if you get your ass beat on that one on one ☝🏽🤣 They still least give you a little respect ✊🏽 💯
@itchyballsack66272 жыл бұрын
@@stevenRalf2016 Well yes and no. You get seen to do something so you don't become an easy target. Every jail and every situation is different of course and certain people just don't give a fuck who you are and will put it on you regardless. My point is be ready and do something...
@bigmanbarry22992 жыл бұрын
@@stevenRalf2016 it seems pretty similar to some of the rougher schools. If you do nothing people see they can pick on you and you wont fight back. Even if you lose a fight it means picking on you is going to come with some struggle. Might catch a busted lip even if i win. Also I’ll have a baseline level of respect
@DavidHernandez-dk1zs2 жыл бұрын
@@stevenRalf2016 Yes you will get respect even if you get your ass beat because at least you're showing that you're not gonna go down without a fight. No one wants to mess with a guy who will fight back and stand up for themselves, even if that guy is a horrible fighter.
@stevenRalf20162 жыл бұрын
@@itchyballsack6627 dammn 💯 NO WONDER SOME REAL GANGSTER RAPPERS. Be getting PCd up in Federal Prisons NEVER GUCCI THO
@michaelnally91582 ай бұрын
Step 1: don’t go to prison You’re welcome
@arieee818211 ай бұрын
Not the chicken pattie maneeee… lmao I died
@juankroosfrausto7411 Жыл бұрын
I'm a short guy. And I'm not tough or anything but throughout my life whenever I have gotten bullied to the point of fighting or someone harassing mean. I have not backed from a fight.
@JustinWatts-yz9ik Жыл бұрын
I avoid it the same way brother. Sometimes I be kind on purpose because I love fighting lmao I'm a Leo. Until they keep pushing and just snap
@user-dg3io4px6n5 ай бұрын
@@JustinWatts-yz9ikbecause your a trolly roller lmfao
@robertpatter55095 ай бұрын
Some of the toughest people can be short.
@user-dg3io4px6n5 ай бұрын
@@robertpatter5509 yup and viseversa as well
@sirchawlez47184 ай бұрын
Some of the toughest people ARE short, because they have to be meaner/tougher than everyone else to avoid being walked all over.
@delshadsaid7312 жыл бұрын
This dude does a real good job of explaining the story
@brittneybobby5275 Жыл бұрын
This dude is a f**** he probably runs with the blacks or he's a other
@deadbeats48947 ай бұрын
Very humbling goin into a fight you know you're gonna lose.
@djfreeman3940 Жыл бұрын
Im from Southern California, in association with the crips, however I was no die-hard member who started banging when i still had to be inside by the time street lights turned on. I did square things like work jobs, have girlfriends and hang with non affiliate friends at the beach. But at 27 I catch a case that I spend two years in county over to end up taking a nine-year deal which left me doing seven years in prison. Well the night of me catching the chain i was in a holding cell with a OG gangmember from a well known Compton set who was down from Prison on a family court case (he was also in a wheelchair). We got acquainted over the night and he told me some things that carried me all the way through my prison sentence and I will never forget to this day. He told me the first thing you need to know about prison is that every room you walk into theres somebody in there doesn't like you for some reason. And if you're going to survive you have to be on the lookout for these people and when they present themselves you don't back down or shy away from the issue. That doesn't mean go looking for that problem because the problem will present itself, just be ready when it comes. I ended up doing 7 years out of that 9 never going PC, never being considered a fish, or anything weak all because I had a set mind set of what I know I can't tolerate from any other individual inside that place.
@Senerian2 жыл бұрын
The biggest lesson and advice I have learned that if you are one of these goes that doesn't "belong " in prison so to speak, like the ones that want to avoid it all and not fight etc. if you really want to avoid as much trouble as possible, the biggest lesson I and gotten from all the ones that actually served time, is Mind Your Own Business.. If Roomie had listened, and follow the guys advice, that stuff would not have started to happen, IT all started for him when he didn't mind his own business... for the most part,
@wayneodom4142 Жыл бұрын
. Yo toes let them hands fly!!Keep yo eyes low and yo hands high. If one step k
@Kai...9996 ай бұрын
Honestly that's kept me pretty straight, I've known people in my circle that got murdered, got into shoot outs, typical violent shit. I usually don't ask about some situations and if they tell me I'll listen and be like damn, then keep it moving. Because even if you around the fuck shit, the ops might not knock you off if you a random they ain't beefin with
@newagain99646 ай бұрын
Eventually tho. U will be tested. Ppl be bored in there. And u gotta know how to react and when and how.
@RaulMAnderson101-pr6cj5 ай бұрын
Yep, minding your own business 95% usually insures you'll be left alone. You learn that in the streets, even if not from the streets, and find yourself there, you learn (if you want to survive) to mind your own business.
@alanalaurent63492 жыл бұрын
You look like you're thriving after your release. Sending you love and light
@Marcel03030 Жыл бұрын
6:46 “yo math good, but tht wass the wrong answer” 😂
@katiejohnson82696 ай бұрын
I’m from Indiana and when people go into a cell to get it in what you don’t do is crowd around the cell 2. Keep staring that way 3.cheer someone on and 4. You better fight if you can’t and learn to get them hands right
@thegoober87972 жыл бұрын
When you're in jail, you CANT BE SOFT! Everyone is constantly sizing you up and down and if you show even one inch of fear, your ass is getting beat. Oh yeah, if you're going to jail for the first time DO NOT ACCEPT ANY GIFTS FROM ANYBODY!
@loo0oop2 жыл бұрын
Right or u’ll get raped for accepting gifts....
@kevinbond89662 жыл бұрын
You're confusing jail and prison.
@scottywilliams24762 жыл бұрын
PFFT that's standard where i grew up in Queensland lol. going to Prison just means you lost!
@redfloyd692 жыл бұрын
Not even in the streets or in certain groups / cliques can you be soft or you'll get used & abused. Some jobs are toxic as hell and have the same clique crap of attacking others.
@dburna212 жыл бұрын
All facts, take my chicken patty get blammed with the tray!
@DazePhase2 жыл бұрын
Very true. A man have to stand for himself. Show no weakness in a place like this. If you think like a victim, you'll become one.
@micahwilliams12192 жыл бұрын
Even women walk over weak men.
@Frostyownz Жыл бұрын
The biggest thing he did wrong was disrespect everyone. They told him not to sit, he sat. They told him not to watch fights, he watched fights…
@toddmaurer9802 Жыл бұрын
I DID 2 years upstate Philly PA. Ain't had a single problem the whole time I was there. No fights, people paying others back, it was unreal.
@zacharypezz13762 жыл бұрын
"Maybe the fruit cup, but not the damn chicken patty" hahahahaha so good
@premium71822 жыл бұрын
😂
@panama24682 жыл бұрын
Shit had me crackin up
@negnanzabriko8523 Жыл бұрын
@@panama2468 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@CraigTodd924 Жыл бұрын
Better be giving me 2 or 3 jolly ranchers for that fruit cup 😂
@robbyb11072 жыл бұрын
Knowing too much is definitely making yourself a larger liability. Never thought about this scenario - Happy Friday!
@Ic5gear2 жыл бұрын
LOL not the chicken patty. The young cats go in there tell them when you go up for parole or you have a release date. Talk on that Death .... also talk about how these young cats will be probating for an organization and in their head they thinking that the people they probating for may hate a certain gang or race in reality they get along. Organizations are in place to handle problems that may arise. They or the people who think is your friends will actually have an organization heart check your ass to see what you will do. In this case that could have been what was happening the guy did say he was probating for SK . Sounds shady to me. They seen cat wouldn't do anything and boom they know hell no they don't want him riding with them. I seen people crash out on heart check before many times. I've also seen where guys was getting heart checked and guys had to come in and calm shit down because they didn't expect guy to lose his shit the way he did. They had to explain to them what was happening.
@stevenygabbyperez6958 ай бұрын
The moral of the story is don't go to prison.
@BrandonBell-r8lАй бұрын
It's really that easy really
@bigredd6684 Жыл бұрын
They need to get rid of jails and prisons. You murder someone you get the same thing done to you. Save us all the taxpayers money to house and feed these people and the criminal crap that goes on.
@bon7029 Жыл бұрын
Just like in life. You either face the bully or they continue to bully you. I tried to "ignore the bully" in school. Eventually things got to the point where I was a constant target until one day in the 4th grade I snapped and brutalized a guy who laughed at me for being down about my grandfather dying of cancer. After that I was a ball of rage that took out his frustrations on everyone who ever tormented him. I was still occasionally targeted by bullies, but by this time by pain tolerance was at a level where a shot to the face simply pissed me off even further. One kid found out the hard way that I was done with his shit when I spun him around and sent him sailing across pavement. And that's been my creed for the last 30 years. "When someone gets in your way with malicious intent, crush them."
@chuckplaysgames7925 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like you turned into the bully you used to hate . Good job kid!
@bon7029 Жыл бұрын
@@chuckplaysgames7925 I never hurt a person who didn't deserve it. I never harassed, taunted, or attacked the innocent. as Al Capone once said, "Don't mistake my kindness for weakness. I am kind to everyone, but when someone is unkind to me, weak is not what you are going to remember about me."
@kazman_68998 ай бұрын
How did you avoid prison?
@bon70298 ай бұрын
@@kazman_6899 I don't live in a blue state for one. That and the whole zero tolerance bullshit hadn't been implemented yet.
@chicagomike45872 жыл бұрын
There is enough psychopaths and sociopaths in the real world...but if you're in a state prison, then that density is increased. You need to adjust your thinking and treat it like the animal world...it sucks but you need to have a quick jump to violence underneath your diplomatic side. You have to remember where you are and who you are locked up with. Great story and lesson...
@samanthalandry229610 ай бұрын
I don’t remember if it was this guy doing the video who said it, cause there’s a handful of these guys I watch but one of them said he was new, went to his cell, and he knew someone wanted to fight him and was talking to his cellie about it and the cellie told this guy, “if you gonna fight for yourself , then we got your back. But on the other hand, if you don’t handle your business then there’s nothing I can do
@user-ii7gy1rw5w10 ай бұрын
Im from the Uk and never ever needed to Fight Keep your head down and do your Jail and you should be alright biggest rule dont get into Debt if uou cant pay for it.
@michaelmann1012 жыл бұрын
This dude is 💯. Really good video for the younger guys thinking about that life. This man man gave damned good advice on every single subject. But sadly you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink.
@brittneybobby5275 Жыл бұрын
This dude telling the story probably runs with the blacks or he runs other he's a ****** lame
@houseofsmoke3052 жыл бұрын
My first time watching you and I liked what I saw. Being an alumni of the Florida department of corrections, I can relate to everything said in this video. Prison isn't for everyone, you find out real quick where you stand in a violent world.
@arod1766 Жыл бұрын
Hated the bluebird ride to the panhandle 🤷♂️😂
@user-iv2dg7mh7d8 ай бұрын
I'm only 5'8" 180lbs. I had to do a skid bid. While I was in, dude wanted my sneakers. I knew what I had to do, so I laced up, and got my ass beat. I still have those sneakers.
@joejoe72127 ай бұрын
@@user-iv2dg7mh7d did you have to swallow ❤️❤️
@FLORIDAMANIAM-he2lz3 ай бұрын
I didnt even get the second boot on before it went down. I got the other pair of shoes back too.
@tellywells683511 ай бұрын
Some prisoners don't understand, leave those quiet ones alone and do your own thing.
@j.walker684526 күн бұрын
I think part of this too is that you gotta fight for what you want in life. If you just take what life gives you, it might be a raw deal.
@markkeller4705 Жыл бұрын
I've been to prison myself and the advice you share with younger people is POWERFUL because I've seen the same things in Indiana
@mychicksrthick Жыл бұрын
What's the crime putting people away in Indiana? I moved from Chicago hoping Indiana would be safer
@MilitaryHustle Жыл бұрын
@@mychicksrthick Gary Indiana? Way worse than Chicago
@mychicksrthick Жыл бұрын
@Jamey no I did not move to Gary. Why would I leave the frying pan to jump into a fryer? I moved to a small quiet town far from Gary, but apparently meth is a big issue out here.
@trillflako80042 жыл бұрын
Bro when I first started watching I had only been to jail, hella times. I just did my first prison bid, came home like 3 months ago and am glad to see the channel growing and you doing good homie. Bless up
@devin73762 жыл бұрын
Seems like your to comfortable. You’ll be back in no time.
@E-13372 жыл бұрын
@@devin7376 how about you wish that person a good future instead of judging them for their past. that man clearly knows he has faced the consequences of his actions and doesnt run from that, he owns it. judging on how focused you are on other people, one day you'll be the main character in someone elses "when you dont fight in prison" story.
@devin73762 жыл бұрын
@@E-1337 judging by how you put yourself in my way seems like you ain’t to bright yourself bud. Where am I judging this MF past? And you talking about how dude “owns it”? You know this Mf? you don’t know what this guy “owns” or doesn’t. You think he gonna rob somebody or go fuck a kid and say yep it was me come pick me up. Hell nah!! Dudes gonna get away with everything he can. Won’t we all? And here you are talking about judging right, then you gonna say you’ll be in someone’s story. Your a DA. Go read a book bud and get off YT comment section. Heres the deal, when you see a young cat getting to comfortable, call him/her out on that. Self evaluation is a key factor to change. Have some courage to tell a mf what he needs to hear. And be smart enough to know when you should or shouldn’t be on the keyboard.
@E-13372 жыл бұрын
@@devin7376 damn, did i hit a nerve? you think im reading that? im not a therapist, go pay one of them to walk you through your emotional hysterics. this isnt reddit, nobody gives a fuck here. if you plan on crying when people call you out for being a piece of shit, then either shut the fuck up, or stop being a piece of shit towards people.
@warren2398 Жыл бұрын
I thought poster was going to say these videos helped him with his politicking him in the pen… Nope, just showing love.
@arrondeclue782310 ай бұрын
A man has to be a man regardless if your in, or if your out. A black eye is a badge of honor.
@ct18112 ай бұрын
Do yall not see how sick this really is? People are not getting rehabilitated in prison. They come out worse an traumatized. There should be very little fighting even happening. The prison system needs to be fixed.
@1594simonsays2 ай бұрын
Humans are obsessed with drama and violence sadly
@jhgvlbvd853116 күн бұрын
Yeah. Couldn't be that hard. Lets do it y'all
@dustinpeterson30602 жыл бұрын
I had a situation where 18 yr old kid came in about 120 pounds. He had a guy trying to get them cheeks. He came to us for help. We told him stand up for himself and we’d back his play. He didn’t want to, I told him we aren’t going to stand up if you’re not willing to. Couple weeks later he was walking around like he was dudes old lady.
@rayesc02212 жыл бұрын
Had to be a White Boi
@vincentharris22592 жыл бұрын
@@rayesc0221 Damn Instead of Trying to Fight He became a Woman.
@vincentharris22592 жыл бұрын
I'm not a fighter but I would of at least Stood up for Myself Letting a Man Turn you into Woman is The WORST DISRESPECT.
@dustinpeterson30602 жыл бұрын
I’ve seen the same happen with all races.
@dustinpeterson30602 жыл бұрын
He didn’t have to be a fighter just man enough to stick up for himself, we would have handled the rest.
@keithmichael1122 жыл бұрын
0:54 for some reason this inexplicable edit of you blowing smoke rings made me laugh
@danteketchens5828 Жыл бұрын
It's not about winning or losing a fight in prison .... It's about standing up for yourself ...
@TrichsRUs4 ай бұрын
"Maybe the fruit cocktail, but not the damn chicken patty." LOL Facts
@HerbisRGreen Жыл бұрын
If you don't stand up for yourself when you get messed with, that mess is gonna keep getting worse, and harder to deal with when you finally do. This video made me remember something that happened in my life. Some 10-15 years back, this dude I grew up with moved to a spot in Oakland, CA. He's a Japanese cat, on the shorter/lighter side of the tape & scales. After he got settled, I went out to his spot to kick it. His crib wasn't in the worst part of town but it wasn't up in the hills either. When I got there we strolled down to the corner for some tall cans. On the way he tells me he got jumped by some kids in the hood. They smacked him around and took his wallet. He said we might might run into them. Now I ain't the biggest/toughest dude on the street, but I ain't the smallest/weakest cat on the block neither. I told him I'm down to scrap if that's what it is, but I'm not trying to take care of his problem for him. He was like, "You would mop those punks." I stopped walking right there to make sure I had his attention. I told him like this, "If we run into whoever and they give me a problem, I'm gonna handle MY problem one way or the other, but I don't gotta live here. I could roll out after and never come back, never see them again. You live here, and these kids live here too. No matter what happens if we see them while I'm here, yer gonna see them again without me. If we see them today, and you don't do nothin, it's gonna be worse for you next time you see them." He was like, "What am I supposed to do? I'm small and I can't fight." I said, " You're going to get your ass kicked anyway, so you might as well not rollover like a bitch, and give em a fight. There ain't no rules posted out here. It don't matter how you get down in a fight. You just gotta fight. Who knows? You might get lucky? If you don't stick up for yourself, you're a mark. You're easy pickins. Every time you see one of these kids they're gonna pocket check you cuz they can. Somehow, someway, you have to earn the respect you need to live out here. Otherwise pack your shit and find another place to live before they see you again. It's the same everywhere though. It don't matter where you are, everywhere is the same. If you rollover, there will always be someone more than happy to roll you." In the end, we didn't end up running into them. We grabbed our beers n hung out for a minute, then i bounced. I haven't seen him since. Talked to him a few times but that never came up. I know things are different than how it is in the pen. The principle remains the same though, and it's the same everywhere in life. Like I said at the top... If you don't stand up for yourself when you get messed with, that mess is gonna keep getting worse, and harder to deal with when you finally do.
@rickbonilla8308 Жыл бұрын
Here's a thought, drive to the liquor store next time, so you don't walk yourself into the same problem, lol
@throwedDummy Жыл бұрын
@@rickbonilla8308 lmao it’s not about that tho
@williamcorvinus8240 Жыл бұрын
@@rickbonilla8308 so youre adapting your lifestyle to avoid these people. Pure weakness..
@turtletanya5175 Жыл бұрын
Too much to read bro. But I bet it’s a good one.
@mandoky1647 Жыл бұрын
@@rickbonilla8308 Yeah wonderful idea. Then they can keep your wallet, steal your car, and drink your beer.
@TheRealDarrylStrawberry2 жыл бұрын
We used to fight over chicken patties in elementary school, which is silly. But on the other hand, WE KNEW TO FIGHT for OUR CHICKEN PATTIES in elementary school.
@ats-36932 жыл бұрын
Chicken patties are worth fighting for? Where do you stand if you don't actually like the damn things?
@dkimbrough72202 жыл бұрын
Huh Man! 💪🏾 I Remember Fighting Over A Milk!
@TheRealDarrylStrawberry2 жыл бұрын
@@dkimbrough7220 Milk was ever MORE serious. (lol)
@TheRealDarrylStrawberry2 жыл бұрын
@@ats-3693 Most of the fights were over the chocolate milks. (you ever been hungry?)
@ats-36932 жыл бұрын
@@TheRealDarrylStrawberry yeah I've been hungry, we just never had chicken patties though 🤷♂️
@jodyvance4114 Жыл бұрын
Have any dreams dawg? Better give em up 💯 glad I stumbled across ya’ll man, yall spittin’ knowledge on these boys. Well done!!! Even God cant help those who can’t help themselves. He got a good stretch……. He better get right!!! Thank y’all again!!! 🇨🇱🤘🏻🤠🤘🏻
@user-kc3dy3ds3qАй бұрын
On part 4 his mustache finally fully grew in on bith sides 😂
@hyrulemasterchef95732 жыл бұрын
I was in Richland and saw a kid get completely tormented and robbed by the heartless felons for not fighting smh it’s a rough grind in Ohio
@mikeatkinson98222 ай бұрын
Richlands not too bad of a spot but yeah you have to fight
@zeehutt7876 Жыл бұрын
I’ve never been in prison but I’ve worked blue collar with a lot of dudes who have been. And typically I try and chose the non violent resolution but some of these guys bring prison back with them. Got into a fight cause the guy saw I was trying to peacefully resolve and he wanted to pounce on what he perceived as weakness. Guy took a trip to the floor cause he didn’t know I had martial arts background and after that some of the other former convicts never tried to fuck with me again.
@henryettacollins90958 ай бұрын
Haha never happened
@edgarhernandez45294 ай бұрын
stand your grown.
@Realswisher9724 күн бұрын
@@henryettacollins9095I believe it happened
@stephenshuminski10373 ай бұрын
Matsqui institution Abbotsford BC Canada. I had a handicap cell without a handicap. The shower next to me and the cleaner job in Healthcare. Justice. Peace
@chrisgraham23272 ай бұрын
The moral of the story is to try not to go to prison. I did soft time, but tbh it wasn't that bad for me. Don't be a creep.
@anthonyferrell17982 жыл бұрын
Everyone should have(maybe even win) at least one fight in their life. It humbles you and teaches you a lot about yourself
@snowmanggaming37082 жыл бұрын
i got into one, and it is a very different experience being in a fight
@sploomwhale94242 жыл бұрын
i mean who hasn't gone to school?
@areuarealman7269 Жыл бұрын
Straight almost died messing with guys bigger than me but same size its hard especially after covid no friends mind keeps playing tricks on me rolling solo no connects I'm an easy mark.
@martinmunnelly5532 Жыл бұрын
Only a fool fights fair in jail every dick in the place wants a go with someone good with their hands if only to pass the time .the reality is you get yourself armed ASAP mix with the right people don't borrow or stick your nose into other people's business. And if someone bothers you you wait and get them alone. And never mention it again everyone will know anyway. Most men in jail will have less fights in jail than on the street if you got any common sense.
@erisgh0sted9612 жыл бұрын
Bro was tryin to help dude. "Hit him in the face with a lock while he on the phone." LMFAO
@BrandonBell-r8lАй бұрын
Called black
@InternetRepresentative2 ай бұрын
If you're going to prison and worried about if you're going to fight or not you're definitely not ready going to have a hard time.
@unknownunknown7979 ай бұрын
I'm a Christian, Psalm 144 1 - Psalm 144 Praise be to the LORD my Rock, who trains my hands for war, my fingers for battle. Oct-dec is human sacrifice wish all the homies would tap into the gospels and understand the satanic movement. This is a prison planet Jesus Christ can only set us free.
@Tater42002 жыл бұрын
i wish i woulda had a celly like this when i first went in. coulda saved me some broken ribs and a broken orbital lmfao. but i was 17. and fresh as a noodle.. i mean i was SO fkn fresh that when the judge sentenced me.. the entire courtroom said "AWWWW" dead serious lmao. i was cryin and shit. man that first jail visit was roughhh. but i learned ALLOT. and the next time i went in. i had no issues. well i had issues... but no issues like this
@dirkbogarde442 жыл бұрын
Obviously didn't learn sh** the first time then.
@satanspit41012 жыл бұрын
You got your cheeks clapped
@UrMe666 Жыл бұрын
@@satanspit4101 demolished
@colecampbell1906 Жыл бұрын
This is something I tried to explain to my family and girlfriend and stuff when I got out, you aren't really able to say no to a fight. You're better off fighting when someone disrespects you and getting beat up than choosing to look away and take it. Personally I didn't have to deal with it much, only got in 1 little scrap not much happened though, the fact that I worked out alot and made friends with alot of them probably helped, I made it pretty obvious that I was down to scrap if the wind blows that way and honestly that's all it really takes to not get fucked with.
@flipwilson9360 Жыл бұрын
""" You're better off fighting when someone disrespects you """ disrespects you- like huh.... with that type thinking .... it's no wonder you were sent to prison
@byronperez9199 Жыл бұрын
@@flipwilson9360On another note, these people clearly don't take Jesus's words to heart. Some people choose to be pacifists, it shouldn't be taken as weakness. Seems like with the material mindset and the aggressive mindset that these people have, the Devil has these people by the throat.
@praisethelordjesuschrist3554 Жыл бұрын
@@byronperez9199a pacifist isn't a christian.
@Whateveryoutube-cs9gi10 ай бұрын
Wow so self righteous you could not wait to brag on yourself. He said that’s the way to Be in prison and you took it as his life motto. Grow the hell up and stop casting judgment before you even finish reading.
@joshuageorge809 ай бұрын
@@byronperez9199Be a pacifist in prison and see where that gets you. They'll pass-a-fist across your face. Jesus chased men from the temple with a cat-o-nine-tails and Peter cut off a guard's ear. There is a such thing as righteous anger.
@Deiontajah2 ай бұрын
"WELL YO MATH GOOD" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@kevinsito08014 ай бұрын
“Naaa my advice to him was totally different” 😂😂😂 shit had me dying. Dam I needed that laugh. Thanks for that.
@ten4k9642 жыл бұрын
i did 18 days in LA County jail. Turned down a fight on my 15th day. Those last 3 days felt like an entire year in Hell
@mattzetts65012 жыл бұрын
Interesting... How so? Can you explain a little more?
@BreezeeGreenz2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that happened in your 15th birthday. Best policy for prison or jail is to do all you can to stay out. If you go in, you better 1.) put away the tough guy act (that'll get you unwanted attention) and be real easy, 2.) choose some stand up people to hang with, and 3.) resolve to stand up for yourself at all times.
@snowmanggaming37082 жыл бұрын
why did they want to fight?
@ten4k9642 жыл бұрын
@@snowmanggaming3708 Because im a soft soyboy and they saw a victim soon as i walked in
@TEX-704 Жыл бұрын
They wanted to get your time extended Because use of jealousy.
@El_Sharko_2 жыл бұрын
The guy telling the story sounds like a really solid dude, was trying to look out for his cell mate every step of the way
@brittneybobby5275 Жыл бұрын
This dude telling the story probably runs with the blacks or he runs the other he's a f****** lame
@MRJTD99 Жыл бұрын
Would be lucky to have a roomie like that, and homeboy messed it up.
@user-dg3io4px6n5 ай бұрын
Its because he was looking out for him and his celly was stupid and clearly didn't pick up that his celly was actually being cool and legit with him you don't find guys like that in prison and shit that easy dude.
@RaulMAnderson101-pr6cj5 ай бұрын
His cell mate was like Gilligan, I'm surprise the 'SP's didn't detect that prior to prospecting him.
@alreadyforgot23866 ай бұрын
The cell usually beats you up more than the guy you're fighting
@Keith267_8 ай бұрын
NEVER ride for someone, who won't ride for themselves, EVER!! if a problem comes your way inside, man just swing, even if u lose, ull be respected for atleast throwing them hands👌🏼
@MrMpm30012 жыл бұрын
“Maybe the fruit cocktail but not the chicken patty “ 😂😂😂
@TheBigSaxon2 жыл бұрын
I know a dude that was an undercover Fed and went into a State joint in PA on an operation. They found out he was undercover and when we was in the laundry room working, he was jumped by a bunch of dudes. So dude got pulled from the operation. Three days later the joint went into lockdown and a Spec Ops crew came in and took out every dude that was part of the hit that broke dude's arm including the on-duty. Lesson of the story - don't eff with the Feds, especially if that Fed Agency ends in an "A".
@brianismynamo552 жыл бұрын
Great fucking story
@Adrien_broner2 жыл бұрын
Ends with an A?
@Blake4014 Жыл бұрын
could be made up bs, got a source?
@TheBigSaxon Жыл бұрын
@@Blake4014 stories like this don't have sources.
@JustAllinOneResource Жыл бұрын
Well, all I can say is say NO to doing something which puts you in jail in the first place then you wouldn't have to fight to keep your chicken pattie. It takes real strength to do the right thing. For the most part we are our worst enemy, and learning how to respect yourself, and have self control is the first part of becoming a man.
@md9368 Жыл бұрын
Men of God and I'm talking REAL MEN, not the ones who claim to be God fearing but still not thinking or acting right can and HAVE survived prison without fighting. This situation is a kid that still wanted to live that life while also scared of fighting, which pretty much 80% of guys today that's why they don't want you to touch their guns. I try to live my life well but lord knows what can happen, my faith is God is above ALL and while I may not make it through without a scratch I'm not joining a gang inside as my protection. God makes things happen. So moral is, love your life well so you don't have to learn but if so it's time to change your life, find God and you'll learn like the rest of us who were once violent he will be with you.