They do realise BUT their false self is in such control that they don’t and can’t admit fault or take accountability for their actions. The false self is protecting the real persons fragile ego and self so there will never be reflection. Reflection and looking in the mirror brings up feelings of guilt and shame so this will never happen. I’ve loved the person hard and it’s impossible to get past the false self guardian to the actual broken person inside
@cydknee8654 ай бұрын
"and now, your ex can go kick rocks" 🤣🤣
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🙌🏾😂
@Unknown02020-t17 күн бұрын
I freaking love the energy! “Fuck their regret and what they realize”, is the realist stuff we need to hear Weav!👏🏽
@WeavToldMe16 күн бұрын
Ty for watching
@alihall6764 ай бұрын
Oh, the value that nostalgia has on a relationship that is no more! I prefer to respect myself, walk away and never look back!!
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
💪🏾💪🏾
@rashidarowe78824 ай бұрын
As long as their needs are being met by someone else, they don't give a flying fuck about you. Real Talk !!!
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🤷🏾♂️💯
@morpheus31904 ай бұрын
So true, she knew what she was doing to me. Cold and calculated. All planned out down to her break up lies. Huge mistake on her part, but no way back for her, I’m done.
@amineouamalich50874 ай бұрын
Bro 3 months I did not talk to her or reach out and 2 days ago she sent a message saying “You disappeared and blocked me you used to call and for the last 3 months I haven't heard from you” No I moved on I'm happy now I'm enjoying my single life and my money. 💯✍️🏽
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
@josephwargo3880Ай бұрын
Dude, i got so abused by my ex. I did all this shit you spoke of. It was no “mistake”. It was her choice. And we got back together several times. Shed always get mad if i brought up the shit she did. Shed say i was trying to be negative”livimg im the past”. No responsibility ever. She has to see herself as this good person, all while shes emotionally abusing me. She could be the most giving person in some ways, but im starting to think its to mask the darkness she has underneath. She love bombed me to death, but shell quit like i never existed. Basically narcissitic in that way..I have watched many many relationship videos. Some quite good. But you cut through the bullshit like no one ive come across for a very long time
@WeavToldMeАй бұрын
Thank you for checking out the video. Stay strong bro!
@zakbmusic21944 ай бұрын
I appreciate these videos you put out 🙏. I’m currently going through a heart breaking, narcissistic break up, and your videos keep me in check mentally, physically, and emotionally. Thanks for hitting us with reality that we all need to hear.
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Ty for watching and following along. 🙏🏾
@meg35994 ай бұрын
And I'm not going to be around when she does realise it 😉👋 top work Weav as always!
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🎯💯🤝🏾
@amandat3924 ай бұрын
You make things so clear and theres no way Iam breaking no contact .Anytime I feel I might I just watch one of your videos and It makes me feel strong.
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Ty for following along
@mmt23104 ай бұрын
I really like you & your message. I find most relationship coaches create content on how to get your ex back, whereas you are like screw those people, work on yourself, you can do better. ❤❤ I find that much more useful and healthy. God Bless ❤
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Thank you. Truly appreciate the love!
@georgezajkowski272328 күн бұрын
Possibly the greatest video in your arsenal ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
@WeavToldMe27 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@daizenkamiya57394 ай бұрын
So my ex who was living house to house got close to me we ended up living together stupid I know. Left me for another dude took her back dumb I know months later caught her still talking to dudes I move out 2 weeks later she's back with her baby dad who she was talking to behind my back. Love makes us stupid at times smh personality was fire and she was so much fun so I knew what she could be instead of focusing on what her character actually was
@eraymunur74734 ай бұрын
Don’t be hard on yourself we all go through it
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
We live and learn with the experience. Give yourself some grace!
@dantenewyork73804 ай бұрын
'Could be versus what she actually is' .100%. how often do we project onto these feral street cats imaginary idealizations of what we want them to be - rather than simply judging their actions and behavior which is staring us right in the face
@Layla-hg4ux14 күн бұрын
Work on yourself, heal childhood trauma, focus on yourself and thrive, the right person will come into your life. Wish you well!
@judithhaven88204 ай бұрын
EXCELLENT insight Brah'!! Bravo!! Remarkable commentary: straight with no chaser!!🎉
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Thank you. Always appreciate the love! 🙏🏾
@ladyvirgo0134 ай бұрын
No take backs! I should have NEVER been just an option by a "husband". Thanks for Your 🔥 Fire W❤ You help me
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Stay inspired!
@marycampeau93783 күн бұрын
i will NEVER forget the last years. NEVER
@WeavToldMe3 күн бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾
@morpheus31903 ай бұрын
Weav is the best. He makes so much sense dealing with a senseless relationship. My DA ex may or may not realize that she made the mistake of her lifetime, either way she can GTH. Sometimes it’s no longer worth it to care for a person that doesn’t value you. Let them walk and live their crazy shitty life without you. Their problem, not yours.
@WeavToldMe3 ай бұрын
🤝🏾💯
@channonridgway39774 ай бұрын
You have no idea how much I needed to hear this Weav.....thank you
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Ty for watching. Stay inspired! 🌱🏁
@Cabbage_math15 күн бұрын
Love this fella. Spits straight facts!!
@WeavToldMe15 күн бұрын
Thanks for watching
@Cabbage_math14 күн бұрын
@@WeavToldMe Thanks mate, your talks have really helped me a lot🤙
@rspecialt20034 ай бұрын
Yep yep and yep all those things he did and broke me and now I'm healing
@wandahayes53333 ай бұрын
YOU ARE SOO !!!RIGHT MY EX HAS BEEN TRYING TO CALL ME !!! I HAVE HIM ON BLOCK!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH ABOUT YOUR ADVICE ON NO CONTACT!!!!❤💝
@WeavToldMe3 ай бұрын
Stay strong!
@michaeltaylor90964 ай бұрын
Im getting friend request from ppl IDK, google phone calls ppl IDK, texts from ppl IDK. Hmmm REALLY! I LEFT MY EX! KICK ROCKS
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Stay strong!
@erikas99454 ай бұрын
Weav always on point ❤
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@Jbo1434 ай бұрын
Nice! Never thought of it quite this way. Truth...
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@rspecialt20034 ай бұрын
My ex always told me kick rocks
@jenniferdavis4594 ай бұрын
He made me feel like it was my fault so I reached out to try and make peace but I’m actually glad he moved on when I remember all the bad so thank you for helpin me get through it!
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Live and learn
@Salshealing4 ай бұрын
Such wise wisdom ❤love this thank you 🙏
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Ty for watching 🙏🏾
@brandonyoung28944 ай бұрын
Thank You! I was thinking I was a wuss for thinking this way, but it just reassures me that a broken heart has no discrimination
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Ty for watching. Stay strong!
@brandonyoung28944 ай бұрын
Thanks for acknowledging! I am going through a tough one. Have my good days and my bad days. I need you as my constant voice of reason in my head 24/7 to keep me on point. 😁 I appreciate your Insight and your passion, please keep doing what you're doing hey let me know how I can contribute to help you! much love is
@user-tc3zq7uy9m4 ай бұрын
@brandonyoung2894 same here. In 9 months out. Still not right .
@user-tc3zq7uy9m4 ай бұрын
This video makes me think ima run into her... but the thing is I still got to get her out of my head. 5 years of everyday thinking of her aint going away in less than a year. Thanks for vid .I'm definitely taking it serious .
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Stay inspired
@user-tc3zq7uy9m4 ай бұрын
@@WeavToldMe 🫡
@timsmith27714 ай бұрын
thanks for keeping it real G
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🫡
@asowatanabe21314 ай бұрын
What a masterpiece!!!
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Ty for checking out the video
@Kelliedavis4 ай бұрын
This is sooo true! ❤
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾
@PARTSWHORE18 күн бұрын
WORD
@WeavToldMe18 күн бұрын
🤝🏾
@andreakeener63784 ай бұрын
I was safe until I was not! Those dominos fell one after another in rapid succession. I packed and never look or go back.
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🏁🏁🏁
@joannneal214 ай бұрын
Truth!👏
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🙌🏾
@MichaelCLesko4 ай бұрын
Awesome
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🙌🏾
@zacharysmith-se2bc4 ай бұрын
🙏thank you
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@MMA-wj1jz4 ай бұрын
So true
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾
@taylorgordon49203 ай бұрын
Broooo omfgggg this buys happened to me last week she hit me snap apologizing etc then saying she want me to be her husband in the future and now she wanna plan in the summer to go out to eat and go to a hotel lol wtfff I don’t hit her at all now she texting me everyday saying good morning handsome what should I do?
@WeavToldMe3 ай бұрын
No contact
@tredd90194 ай бұрын
My...ahem, THE Avoidant hit me up tonight after 6 weeks of his third, 5+ week disappearance (as payback for my telling him he kept me up all night. Yeah, not kidding). So, tonight, I'm here and white-knuckling (not to respond) and low and behold -drum roll, please- Here's a brand new Weav vid ON EXACTLY what I need to hear. Ain't no coincidences, folks.
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾
@imeraanmeyer18354 ай бұрын
How do I go about I'm doing no contact for 32 days already but my always text me only for the kids to Pic them up but no other talks how to to go about that
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Court order to communicate via email or court app. Try to stay away from texts, if possible.
@hottopicslivepodcast11114 ай бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾
@terranesha57843 ай бұрын
The mistake to get someone else pregnant while i was pregnant n blamed it on me for having raging hormones. Boom
@WeavToldMe3 ай бұрын
Wow.
@jan8542 ай бұрын
This broke my heart 💔. I'm so sorry this happened to you. He's a piece of shit.