my mom roasted me one time saying "mija, you bisexual, you got twice as many suitors, y todavía estas sola? 😒"

Gadiel is 30?!?!?! OMG I thought he was like 20 something

My mom's already fantasizing about grandkids... I'm 20 and I've never been in a relationship 😂

Whenever my mom and I talk about me having kids, she tells me not to rush. She'll be like "Yo quiero que el padre de tus hijos sea un hombre bueno y no uno de esos locos de la calle." She's not wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️

My mums a hustler she wore a cardigan and trousers to her wedding then went to work cos she ain't gonna miss getting payed 😂

"Gadiel no me haga abueela" 😂😂

See here's the thing with some Latino families. When the girls are in high school the parents don't want their daughter(s) to have a boyfriend because they're young. But when they do they judge him a lot. Now come around college time that's when the parents are telling their kids when they're going to get married and have kids when just in high school they didn't like the idea of their daughter dating.

I want more of these videos, just sitting and talking

My grandma just straight up came to me and said: do not ruin your life by marrying. Stay single, no kids. You'll be happier that way

I hate the "when are you gonna marry?" question. Man, this isn't 1960-80 its 2017. I havent even gotten my degree yet how am I supposed to support a spouse? work at minimum wage? NO. I get that marriage is nice and all but times have changed. Dating has changed. Why settle and be miserable when you can gain something better? Is the idea of not having a spouse so bad?

The same as boyfriend. I was 19 years old and did not have a boyfriend because I was living my life but my mom and sisters (I am the youngest) thought that I was gay because I did not bring a guy to the house! It was so funny listen to them from my bedroom all scare talking to each other and tying to look for any clue. Lmao

I'm 23 and I don't plan on getting married ANY TIME SOON 😂 my parents were already married with their first baby by 23!! luckily they don't pressure me about marriage but there's ALWAYS that Tia that asks you why you're still single 😂🙄 times are different and kids are sooooo expensive! I need to get my life together first lol

I cannot relate to anyone of y'all. My parents are old fashioned and are hella strict. However, they never mentioned marriage to me. they always pushed me to go to school and continue to get my bachelor's. Once I mentioned that I was interested in a guy, my parents freaked out. All they kept saying was "¿y tú educación?" (and your education?). they care only about me being successful and going to college. Not about kids or marriage

I remember my mama (grandma) vividly telling me what characteristics to look for in a man, when I was 10 years old lol I'm going to be 22 next month and all of a sudden that changed. She's all like "Mi hija, todos los hombres son basura. Mejor quadate soltera, y comprate una casa". Then there's my mom who thinks it's too late for me to find a man. Basically, that I'm not going to get married because I'm "old". It's all laughable, honestly. Everything about me goes against what my family tells me to do lol I want to get my Masters degree, move to a 3rd world country and provide communities with schools. I want to live my life humbly, and want to have someone who supports that lifestyle, I want my future kids to grow up knowing how to love people, you know? Like if they see someone without shoes, that they would give them their own shoes for the sake of love. It's funny because the whole reason my parents immigrated to America, is so that I wouldn't have to live in poverty. Here I am wanting to go to these places lol Btw, I want to have like 10 kids hahaha 5 biological 5 adopted. #rebel

maaaaaan, as a Salvadorian! My my entire keeps asking me when I'm gonna have kids instead of the marriage. they say forget the marriage they want they grandchildren from me lol shit 13 siblings wasn't enough already lol gees

I turn 25 in July and my mom wants grandchildren and Im single 😒 my brother's both have girlfriends once 26 and the other is 18 and they DO NOT plan on having kids any time soon. We're too young mami we need to live our lives like for real.

Just today my grandma was all like when you get married and have kids...and I told her I didn't want any kids, the face she made 😂she was shooketh 🤣

I got married when i was 18 and my family was so happy. People thought I was weird except other Latinos. My grandparents want grandkids asap but I'm not ready fo dat yet lol

My dad is like that. He thinks I'm never going to date. He says I play to many sports. That I act and dress like a dude... like papi, I'm trying to be comfortable.

jajjaaj mis papás ya andan en la misma onda! "Ay! ya tengo 60 años y ni un nietecito todavía! me voy a morir y no soy abuelo, quiero poder llevarlo al baseball, al colegio!" jajaajajaja!

I'm going to buy a cat and a dog those are the only grandchildren my parents are getting.

I'm with the love of my life and He has always been my everything and my moms like, " when are you gonna give me babies? When is your boyfriend gonna be my son in law?" She already calls him her son in law and she tried pressuring us to get married on valentine's day and its like, " Mom! Let us make our own discussions..." I got a good job now, Thank God! But we just wanna take things slow because we both were in bad relationships before we got together so we wanna make sure we both are fully healed. There's so much pressure in my family to give grandkids the pressure is real.

Julissa is so beautiful, I love her personality 💜

I'm Puerto Rican and I get this but my parents dont pressure me cause they never got married but my grandparents kind of do. They expect me to be the one to start a family first since I'm a homebody & stuff. I'm 21 now & they are already planning a wedding with my best friend/crush , Hispanics are funny never a dull moment

yes, did my abuela used to say OMG this girl is never getting married. Thankfully I have been married for 21 years one daughter who's 20. my abuela died the day after my baby was born she never saw her. I named after my abuela Felicia!#misshereveryday

I love these guys! And Gadiel's lips though 😻it always looks like he's wearing the perfect shade of lipstick lol

So I guess latinos and africans have the same struggles!

Tengo 50+ anos, soy china, divorced with no kids. My mother (already an abuelita a few times over) still wants me to get married (and stay so) and have kids. I feel your pain!

I'm Nigerian Cuban. BOTH sides of my family are obsessed with marrying me off

ill soon be 16 and my aunts are worried cause ive never been in a relatioship. like they at my age were dating and by 18 they got married and had children and i be like: GIRL I WANNA HAVE A TITLE FIRST

I would not pressure my daughter, I respect her decision and standards. It is her life.

I'm a child of divorce. Marriage is not a priority I was raised with fulfilling. If it happens, it happens. I have never, ever felt pressured to it. Not even by my grandparents. Odd Latina, I guess.

Don't rush anything important. Wait until both of you are 30 to get married and start a family. Go to college and get a master's degree first. Also go to real estate school because you never put all of your eggs in one basket. Build yourself and live.

I love pero like! Keep making more videos!!!!!

YOU GUYS SHOULD DO MORE VIDEOS LIKE THISSS, TACKLING LATINO TOPICS!

I love those new graphics!

my mom has step-grandchildren the only grandchild she has from me her biological daughter is a 10 pound Chihuahua mix named Cujo lol

My family started asking me when I was 19 when was I going to get married

Yaaaaassssss 👏🏽 the pressure is real

ANY ECUADORIANS HERE ??? 🇪🇨🇪🇨🇪🇨

Curly u hit the NAIL ON THE HEAD. hehe i can relate totally 😁✊✊👌💋

can totally relate!

I hear you about the limit. My Dominican grandmother asked me about having kids. For reference, I was 29 at the time, turning 30 in a couple of weeks and already married for a few years. When she asked if I was 30 yet, my mother was like, "NO, Jesús!" like I wasn't basically 30 already. I don't know what mom had in mind... Maybe that becoming pregnant and delivering a full-term baby in 14 days was possible or that she was protecting me in some way. After 30, Dominicans that I have encountered would rather believe that I couldn't biologically have children rather than the idea that I was waiting for a better time to have them. It is all truly wild.

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we're actually thinking about getting married. we're both mexicans living in México and, even if my family isn't expecting kids from me, my grandma has been like "you've been with him for quite a while now, so you better get married or move on to the next boyfriend" since I turned 1 year with him lol so YES the pressure is real.

Why is this SOOO relatable!!! I’m Latina and my mom has been asking me for grandkids forever! And my mom asks me constantly. And I told them to chill I need to get myself right first then I will settle down :)

I loved watching this not because they were all so honest...especially Curly 😄 but also because as someone from an South Asian background, I could really relate!!

My mom says to “take your time” because when she becomes a grandma she will feel old That girl wanna feel young forever

I am 43 years old and i still have no desire to get married or have children. I am perfectly fine with my life as is.

I'm 31 and married. i told my husband and mom to give me a year of marriage before we start trying for kids. my in-laws were great and gave me no pressure. once that one year mark hit i got pressure from all sides. we tried for 3 months and then i told them all i needed another year. I've been getting the pressure since i was 18. last year i had 7 cousins pregnant and I've been going to baby showers almost every month for a year and a half.

I'm 34 and am currently pregnant. I struggled for 2yrs to keep a baby and my Mom seems to be more excited about finally telling my Tias and Primas about it than me overcoming my struggles. I swear, who cares that I graduated college and have a good job. I think she'd be prouder of me had I stayed home and just popped out babies... I love my Parents but boy do they have different priorities.

I'm 28 and my fam are starting to ask ... pression is on lol. Good video guys.

My mom puts so little pressure on me and it's amazing, I'm almost 19 and I haven't even been on a date. It's an odd type of calm to know that I have the rest of my life to make my dreams come true.

I remember hearing and seeing other people freak out about it right after 20. Even a few family members would bring it up. I couldn't be phased in the least bit about it! I knew it was foolish to stress out about that at such a young age. Now, I'm a little older/wiser, and in a better headspace to evaluate what I want. The people before you have already lived their lives, they love you and want the best for you. That being said, you must realize you are the one that'll take the consequences of being married. Financially, physically, mentally, time-wise, and space wise. I'm not saying this is bad, but you have to be prepared for it and be realistic. If you and your partner aren't ready - forget it. When it's something both people truly want with each other, it really is beautiful. Take your time, and make the most of life. For the people who pressure you, talk to them, remember "Hablando se entiende la gente."

I must say I'm not even a little Latino but love Pero Like. My culture (west Indian)and yours are so similar but still very different and that's why this show keeps me interested, not to mention I just love to see people living in their truth.

only for you i watched the videos because you are an angel i love you dominican girl!!!!

Este video estuvo muy bueno

CURLY!!!!! WHERE DID YOU GET THOSE OVERALLS!! I WANT THEMMMMM SOO BADDD

I don't think I ever felt pressured ( although it does get mentioned to me a lot)and I always made it clear to my parents I wanted stability before marriage or kids. Now that I'm getting older, I've been in a long term relationship for awhile now and my finances are to where I'm comfortable it's a much more real conversation. That being said I've also made it clear to my s.o. either way I'm good but I would like to know if the option is on the table or if I should just carry on as is.

Awesome people,my Moreno familier..Greetings from the motherland Africa 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿👍

they need a podcast

My mom keeps tellinee went I'm gonna make her a grandmother, and I'm like "mom, I don't have my own car, my own house or even a job, I'm still studying and I'm only 20 so back the F down"

I just don't get it, like why would you pressure your kid like that? Let them live their own life and make their dreams come true, geez. Even if they never get married or will not have kids, it's not a tragedy for marriage is no light deal and people should have kids when they are 100% sure they are prepared and they want them.

Hi there! That is really an interesting topic. I am coming from Rusisia ( but Iam not Russian). In my country there are still a believe to get married, the sooner -the better. Everybody is doing that. As a kid we moved to one countries of Europe. So I spend the most part in my life in this country. In theese days I have been in the relationship for almost 20 years. They happened so quick, they were totally awesome, And we are not married. It works for me. I feel safe and loved. I dont think that the wedding ring is a guarantee for happiness. I had my first child when I was 33. Anyway, lika the Curly said, it is good to have an option. And it is up to a every person, it is your life, You have to live it the best way possible. By the way, I love you channel, you make me laugh :))) I wish you the best :)

I’ve always felt pressure from my family to do the “traditional” thing (college, marriage, kids). I just graduated in April so I’m trying to figure out the career thing but I just don’t know if making lots of money is what I saw for myself.

I love you guys

I'm recently turned 20 and have never had a boyfriend and I think that concerns my mom a bit and I'm sure she's always telling her friends and our family since I'm constantly getting questions like 'tienes novio?' 'Cuando vas a tener un novio?' Part of the reason is that I don't think most guys my age are all that interested in me, so it's not really my choice hahah but I've been told that I can be intimidating sometimes and if someone just passes by me on the street I just don't look interested at all and that I seem quiet/serious and I can be but I can also be quite a bit talkative and loud oops haha but also I'm a full time student and I have 2 jobs to pay for college out of pocket so I don't have all of the free time in the world and sure there might be people in a similar situation that have a significant other but for me at the moment that's not a priority anyways, if it happens then cool but I'm not going to be actively looking for someone so it is my fault as well. Plus after college I plan to be living in Japan or Korea (depending on which language I'm better at when the time comes haha but I'd still like to visit both) so if the guy isn't cool with coming with me then it won't be a very long relationship, if all goes well then I have 3 years left and I'm pretty sure I won't get a boyfriend today or anytime in the near future so that's less time so maybe I'll just wait until I'm a bit more settled down but yeahhhhh my dad on the other hand is okay with me not having a boyfriend, he has that 'eres mi princesa chiquita y pienso que todavía tienes 5 años cuando en verdad ya eres una adulta' type of attitude so I'm sure he'll be totally okay with me becoming a cat (well in my case dog or turtle haha) lady. I do hope to find someone and get married one day but I'm okay with waiting longer and don't really want to rush it, but I want to know where I'll meet the guy (like if I go to Japan will i meet him there?) or if I've already met him like I just want to know! The universe doesn't have to tell me his name just whether I've met him or not and if not then where will we meet haha oh well that's my rant for today best wishes to everyone that has read all of this (which is probably no one but still best wishes even if you haven't read this)! (:

Jajajaja me encanto la parte de crazy cat lady

I'm not Latina, I'm actually Bengali but our cultures are very similar as I've seen through Pero Like. We might have different languages, history, food and clothes but I see the way boys and girls are raised, the topic of kids/marriage, etc are on the same level of thinking. I'm only 20 but like Curly said, the topic of marriage has always been there even in small ways with the "When you get married" or "when you have kids". I see it with my elder sister who's a few years younger than you guys, but is still getting pressure from extended family. Our parents, however, are more understanding since she got her PharmD so she was in school for so long. But my sister, my mom and I always have discussions on the dynamic of women and men within marriage, both the couple themselves and the family surrounding the relationship. I love these talks because regardless of where you're from, these will probably always be relevant topics

I felt the pressure at 20, I'm about to turn 23 and it's gotten worse. I'm chillin' though, I like being single, traveling, and giving my 100% into all the things I want to accomplish.

My great grandmother that I was named after got married at 16, and her husband was 27. Granger this was like the 1910s 20s but still it freaks me out every time I see their wedding photo, knowing she’s my age and was already married, and to a man 11 years older than her and had ten kids.

I just found out abt this channel. I love it so far! But itd be helpful if u still put english subs for nonlatino fans. Plssss

I SHIP GADIEL AND JULISSA SO MUCH!!!! WHO ELSE IS A #JUDIEL OR #GALISSA OUT HERE?? ❤

I'm Hungarian, I don't speak any spanish at all, but I can relate so much. Hungarian moms are just like this. My mother keep asking me, when I'm gonna marry to a nice man, when I'm gonna have kids ect. I'm turning 24 this year, and when she was my age, she had a husbend for 5 years and 2 kids. :D

That is the truth, my mom has been bugging me about that too. 😂

I’m about to be 22 and I’m feeling the pressure already

I turned on the English captions to read what they are saying in Spanish and all the English caption says, "speaks foreign language"!!! bitch I know they're speaking foreign... I wanna know what they're saying in Spanish 😂

My parents ask me all the time when I'm getting married and having kids. I'm 33. 😒😔

When I was 31, my father and I had a heart to heart [love roadtrips]. He some how blamed himself for my sister and I not being married. It was heartbreaking to hear him voice such concern and truely belive it was his fault for my sister and I to be such strong independent women. Now I'm 33 and my sister is 31. She and her husband celebrated 1 year of marriage and have a baby on the way. He still blames himself for me not setting down.

the pressure is really there for me

I'm 26 and starting to feel the PRESSURE!!!

I see Gadiel, I click .

lol can totally relate and it gets worse when the other relatives or friends ask my mom y tus hijos... ya se casaron... my mom scrambles for words. i believe you have to enjoy and live life do what makes you happy.

Now that I'm over the age of 30, I've gotten the aren't-you-worried-at-your-age question a couple of times, as if your ovaries magically dry up and blow away once you're out of your twenties. My brother and sister-in-law have been asked when they are having kids several times and it's exasperating for them, because they don't want children. Thankfully, my mom doesn't put pressure on either of us because she realizes it's our lives.

Yes, there's a lot of pressure. Even yet being married and having a kid....we still get "cuando van a tener otro Bebe," "mira esta solito el niño," o "ya esta grande" etc. but my husband and I are pretty happy just having one, we get to enjoy our son and be more prepared for the second one economically. Plus we still get to go out now and then.

Yar, I'm Pakistani with a dash of that nice Kuwaiti goodness, but lemme tell ya, my familia pulls the same stunt! It's always about me and my relaitonships (or lack of) every family get together I go.

after finding the one too soon i admit i actually dont think i want kids, as the youngest of 3 its a pain since my older sibling cant have kids and has gone threw the phase of being god parent to lots of kids so they have it out of system, my middle sibling does but she doesnt have anyone since she is a pain to deal with. Also my parents are cool if i dont have any kids too which is nice, but my other half, he wants kids, his family wants us to have them amd they have all these plans but... that is where the presure is, he has never asked if i wanted them, i have he posibility of carrying twins (rather do 9 months with 2 and get it done and over with than 18 months with 2 and do the process twice over). But im unsure if 1 i want them and 2 can i even cope because at the moment im trying to look after a manchild (yeah he does nothing but work with no pay and study so not as bad) but still i get the tantrums and everything, sometimes i question if i can do this with mini ones but ... i dont think i can . I wish i coudl talk with his and figure it out but i dont think that is ever gunna happen

I'm glad both my brothers have kids so I'm yet to get the when are you going to have kids question. However my parents have never really put that pressure to settle down and have kids on me. I'm grateful for that.

I dont speak spanish, usually perolike vids has more English than spanish or at least they sub it. So this one got me confused

I'm 13 and my mom's like weres the boyfriend at😐? I even told her I don't really like anyone at my school. One time I brought my guy bestfreind to my house and my mom thought we were dateing 😂😐

im 25 2 kids been married since i was 20.i never really felt pressured by my family to get married. but ounce i got married the pressure was on to have babies from relatives. my parents told me to wait. my mom didnt really want me to get married young or have a bunch of kids she was kinda proud that i was married for 2 years before getting pregnant . she would brag to everyone.

Is it possible to get English captions for when y'all speak Spanish please?

My parents are 81 and my mom is like "no seas pendeja. Go to school, get a job, travel, have fun.". I have a son but my mom always told me Latinas need to stop this idea that they need to get married really young and be baby machines. She had 9 kids so she personally knew all the hardships you have to go through. -------- Is my mom the only one like this??

My mom's friend wanted me to sign up onto dating apps. I'm only 23 and I'm trying to go to school right now. I would love to have a boyfriend but I am patient. Also the guys I like are always super quiet or shy lol

Facts curly!

So real. I lived with my now husband for a couple years, and my parents would always asked when we'd get married. We got married, and the constant questions of the kids is asked by everyone now. People will ask, and we gotta dodge the question all the time. They'll come to our house and say, "wow, this house is so big, you need kids." Or make weird assumptions when I say I dont drink. People need to stop asking questions, and putting pressure on others. We all have a story, our priorities, our goals. Whether one wants to get married, or if and when to have kids should be one's decision. You do you!

I love the video's, but i don't speak any spanish words.. so sadly didn't understand everything

My dad was already talking to me about marriage and grandchildren when I was 11 the struggle is real

You see everyone is different! I'm 22 and married 😅 lol You know when you're ready or If the person is the right one for you!

My aunts have been harassing me with the "when are you gonna get a boyfriend question since I turned 15 (I'm 18 now). My mom used to do the same but she stopped after a while. My aunts keep asking me that and I just answer that I wanna focus on my studies *sips tea in lesbian*.

Gadiel is 2 years older than my dad 😂 im seeing theses on 2020