WHY DO NICE GUYS GET NO WOMEN?

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Ай бұрын

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In this compelling episode, Sadia Psychology dives into the psychology of "nice guys" and why their lack of boundaries and assertiveness can lead to resentment from women. Discover why overly pliable men often struggle in relationships, and how both men and women can create healthier dynamics. Sadia also explores the challenges faced by people pleasers, the impact of societal pressures on dating behaviors, and the intriguing interplay between evolutionary psychology and modern relationships. Whether you're navigating the dating world or seeking deeper connections, this episode offers valuable insights into building authentic, balanced relationships.
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@rrdutch4111 Ай бұрын

Because nice guys treat women with kindness love and respect. Clearly the best strategy for attracting women in the modern dating scene is to hate them, disrespect them, and treat them like sub-human dirt. Only then will a woman be attracted to you… until you inevitably “catch feelings”, at which point she leaves ✌️

@jannaghaleiw5504 Ай бұрын

Unfortunately you're right, it's really sad, but true 👍🙄

@vinaymulukutla358 Ай бұрын

I wish I could say that you are wrong.

@rrdutch4111 Ай бұрын

I too wish I were wrong in my observations, I wish it weren’t the case, but unfortunately reality and the world of dating are inherently lacking in logic and reasonability …

@shrimpeyes4662 Ай бұрын

Yeah that's it, if you want to keep a woman look up narcisistic abuse they absolutely love it.

@user-co7ph1rm9z Ай бұрын

Nice guys and good boys cheat, lie, and commit evil acts at the same rate as the bad boys. The only difference is bad boys are cutthroat and honest about chasing hot women, money, power, and s*x. But nice guys chase the same things via corn, video games, movies, and their 9 to 5 jobs.

@zebakhawaja Ай бұрын

She's so right... beautiful woman are targeted by woman who are jealous and men who are interested.

@heartofpuregold Ай бұрын

Okay

@xanderlee4733 Ай бұрын

You can set boundaries with women and still get friend zoned. You can respect yourself and not roll over and still get disrespected by people. Modern western women do not want decent men. They want players. Being a nice guy does not mean push over. It means you are a decent human being.

@zebakhawaja Ай бұрын

What's wrong with your mind and thinking... everything you said is a what a 16 yr old would say...

@xanderlee4733 Ай бұрын

@@zebakhawaja What are you talking about? Modern Western women reward delinquent men. It has nothing to do with masculinity. There tons of decent masculine men who are over looked. Modern Western women are in love with the bad boy archetype. If this is what a 16 year old would say they are wise beyond their years.

@xanderlee4733 Ай бұрын

@@zebakhawaja What Sadia is saying is wrong. They are masculine decent men that are still being overlooked by beautiful women. Modern Western women do not want decent men. They reward players who cheat and abuse them. Facts. Hence why so many women on TikTok videos ask where are all the good men. Your statement makes no sense. Also if a 16 year old said what I am saying they would be wise beyond their years.

@funbarsolaris2822 Ай бұрын

@zebakhawaja Be realistic, its a fair point he's making even if it is an over generalisation. How many women do you know who say things like "why are all my partners narcissists", "every man I've been with has just used me", "men are always lying, cheating, manipulating etc"? Many, many women are attracted to and select over confident, cocky dckheads and then complain about the inevitable when it happens

@davnoble8472 Ай бұрын

@@zebakhawajayeah he sounds like a 14 year old girl

@felipedacruz3670 Ай бұрын

There isn’t enough GOOD women now days… they are all lost in todays fake world…. Continue to be a nice guy and a nice person… the Universe is watching !!!

@tjbroussard3524 Ай бұрын

Be an authentic guy that happens to be respectful and with boundaries even towards her.

@dennardleonard1228 Ай бұрын

FACT!

@hastensavoir7782 Ай бұрын

@@tjbroussard3524you’re still biting into that “nice girls are horny guys who want to get in her pants.”?

@truthseeker11-11 Ай бұрын

Define Universe?

@CA1567-v8p Ай бұрын

It's ok to say God

@Robert_Westwood Ай бұрын

I agree with her about 95% of the time. This will be part of the 5%. These days, men who have boundaries and expectations are called "controlling" and "narcissistic". If a woman expects a man to be decisive but she resists every decision she expects him to make, that becomes exhausting. I'm not sure if she's come across that in her research...

@JohnM... Ай бұрын

She’s a single mother who was dumped by someone. Her viewpoint on males is generally incorrect.

@maxmeister5064 Ай бұрын

As someone who's been in that pair of shoes in person, I can say the following: women want the agreeable guys (I'm not using the common term cos it's actually dubious) only as a shoulder to cry on. To complain about the wrongdoings of the thug. But in the end they're either gonna return to said thug or pick the next one. Cos tenderness and intimacy is the thug's business, not yours. If it were yours, she wouldn't have taken you into confidence. So you see, you provided your sympathy and understanding and she made use of it. Not what you deserve, and certainly not what she deserves.

@johnhardy4172 Ай бұрын

You can be a nice guy and good person and also not stand for no nonsence its called having a balance

@oladokunsamuel5923 Ай бұрын

Some of us just chill... Avoiding the drama

@ibizawavey8630 Ай бұрын

Peace and Tranquility

@ianwynne764 Ай бұрын

Hello Sadia: Probably the most vile place I ever worked was a duty free shop I worked in. Our boss was a woman, add the vast majority of staff were women. I heard from one of the women that the rivalry between the women was intense.

@thebirdclan Ай бұрын

The work environment depends on the boss not the gender.

@sanitary103 Ай бұрын

There’s a difference between being nice and a push over. Don’t be the latter.

@Lesly-ic3mq Ай бұрын

A man might be...REALLY...nice and rejected by most of his adventures. It depends on these women tast, choice, and...personality.

@ibizawavey8630 Ай бұрын

Nice in my culture means "misqueen" and you DON'T want to be called miski lol it is the same in the west, you don't want to be called a 'nice guy' but still, where i'm from it is BRUTAL and life will be hard for you if you are a miski.

@Lesly-ic3mq Ай бұрын

@ibizawavey8630 Whatever it's CALLED in your language or CULTURE...the CONSIDERATION is...the same...!!! Trust me, there's NO other way around.. NICE GUYS FINISH...LAST !!!! Onnce your show too much kindness...you QUICKLY become....a manipulative OBJECT.

@dmen0563 Ай бұрын

I'm learning

@Drenchkat Ай бұрын

I wonder if boundaries, leadership, and decision making is enough for the Miss "independent" "I don't need a man" trend that is a larger portion of women than days. I have had more the one relationship where they wanted their tyranical ex and their aladdin romance and think its achievable. 🤔

@EXPOSEDBYGABRIELPEREZ Ай бұрын

They get it but at the end of the line

@paulsmith1035 Ай бұрын

Women desire what they can’t have. When you’re a nice guy you are too easy for them and can then be sidelined or friend zoned whilst they look for something better. Women nowadays just go not value what they have or too happy to take a guy as ‘mr right now’ as break ups/cheating/ relationship boredom have become so normalised over traditional loyal long term partnerships.

@thebirdclan Ай бұрын

That's such bullshit. Friend zoned is a term men use when they think women should be sexually available to them, and women aren't just dropping their pants because they act "nice"

@eugenepohjola258 Ай бұрын

Howdy. I would like to refer to Anna Jorgensen. A nice guy is not the same as a kind man. A nice guy is a servil simp. A kind man does thoughtful things. Selectively. Regards.

@shootingbricks8554 Ай бұрын

Why not call the simp a simp?

@avon2alpha676 Ай бұрын

Doesn’t work like this overseas they love nice guys ✈️✈️✈️✈️

@ozzycortes Ай бұрын

Depends where you go.

@Monsignormagic Ай бұрын

When a nice guy sees that a woman is being abused or dosn,t look happy in there non nice guy business A nice guy is only going to feel that is self inflicted Sadia is your education Educating women that nice guys treat them well That women have a nice sex place is a bonus companionship and happiness is what nice guys have Just sayin I love you all the same❤

@m4riokartph3nom Ай бұрын

I feel like we need to shed more light into this whole "Nice guys finish last" because it's def true. I just feel like women like to deny this fact, and men like to over exegerate a lot of stuff from the redpill/blackpill.

@thebirdclan Ай бұрын

I don't think you are listening to the term nice guys.

@galina6707 Ай бұрын

I really respect Sadia's opinion. I agree with her on many of the topics she talks about. But in this case I categorically disagree. A mentally healthy mature woman does not need a man who has a desire to leave. This is a weak man in my opinion. A mentally healthy woman is looking for an equal partner for mutual respect, admiration, help, support, accommodation, love, sex, etc. If I don't reciprocation, I will begin to hate the man. I will stop respecting him. For example, this man and I live together. We have commitment long-term relationships. God forbit I get sick. He didn't help. He left. In a club, or with another woman. I can't respect this man. Because his attitude is a betrayal.

@robertobravo6834 Ай бұрын

I strongly recommend you all the song "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Alice Cooper. You can find it here on KZfaq.

@backyardrailroader Ай бұрын

It depends on the definition of nice. I am mice to ladies, but do disagree on certain things without being too much in your face attitude..... you know, the Ivam right and you are wrong position.

@sadbois Ай бұрын

whats this blokes name

@user-cy9bw6nt1w Ай бұрын

Chris Williamson

@marcin3136 Ай бұрын

Why is Sadia surprised that women don't support her? She's beautiful/ smart/ very valuable... Probably few women can compete with her (for men). That's how it works. If someone finally wants her, they will be nicer to her :D

@heartofpuregold Ай бұрын

Does she support women?

@user-tt3iv7ns1h Ай бұрын

Miadoto watiy plz

@alphabeta8403 Ай бұрын

3:40 Nice guys lack masculinity 7:30 Lead her, don’t second guess

@hastensavoir7782 Ай бұрын

Do those women who get BADBOYS end up Happy and Fulfilled and Well off???

@AnthonyManzio Ай бұрын

all low value women

@shrimpeyes4662 Ай бұрын

Lol no they end up with cptsd from all the narcisistic abuse they chase. Once this happens the women is finished for good.

@mr.mayhem7402 Ай бұрын

They end up as single mums.

@AnthonyManzio Ай бұрын

@@mr.mayhem7402 100%

@markpurvis896 Ай бұрын

The most important relationship a man can have is the one he has with himself. Men should be encouraged to be authentic and have intrinsic self worth. If women don’t like a decent man that knows who and what he is, that’s their issue. Empowerment is universal.

@steveh7823 Ай бұрын

I can appear to be nice but women only have one role in my life: amusement. I don't want know about her life, feelings and I never want to meet her family/friends. If she starts talking about abstract issues like politics or values, I'm off like a light switch. Nothing is long term. It's far better to be a day trader than be trapped in a falling market with worsening negative returns.

@Chris-hp2gg Ай бұрын

Nice guys finish last.😂

@carlswindelliv2701 Ай бұрын

Not if they are praying the rosary

@johnpower7732 Ай бұрын

I don't have the bad girls that have the good girl

@jessicahitchens6926 Ай бұрын

So "nice" means weak and not a man..

@TerryBecker-bw1vx Ай бұрын

It certainly isn't because of the nice guys. So most ALL excuses for women are to blame.

@johnpower7732 Ай бұрын

I wouldn't let any girl uses me because I'm the king of the Travellers

@rosswardrop465 Ай бұрын

Nice Guys like me.Dont get women.Because of looks money muscles .Flash cars.We are boring to them.we dont steal or use people.Nice Guys get used .i have been there.Singlefor 25 years.I cant be bothered.Better off lonely than sorry.To many Golddiggers.

@ismailpatel7222 Ай бұрын

Are you attective sadia

@heartofpuregold Ай бұрын

Yes shes an attractive woman according to cultural standards of the middle east shes a barbie. Its just a shame she uses her looks and the perceived threats they cause single insecure women online as a reason not to address the big problem of human rights abuses of women and children in islam because shes worried about getting hate. Is it about hate or empathy. Thats a good question to ask.

@trainz3982 Ай бұрын

I'm gonna be nice whether you like it or not who cares what you got to say I'm here to serve the Lord not you this is not about you sweet cakes "

@user-fm3tu6gu4r Ай бұрын

Women dont want me at all.

@andraserban3030 Ай бұрын

Stop telling that shit... They are no nice guys.... They are all wolves in sheep's clothes !!

@heartofpuregold Ай бұрын

Agree with something that she says disagree with others try being a catholic plenty of bigotry to go round. Shes not a clinical psychologist so I understand, No further expo required.

@jessicahitchens6926 Ай бұрын

This is so basic.. and all these stupid labels. "Nice guys" etc. You either have what I want or you don't. It's that simple. I'm not going to waste my time and energy on dross/energy vampires.

@Klown84 Ай бұрын

Nice guys do get fit birds. It’s all on looks mainly anyway. If you’re good looking regardless of whether you’re good or bad you’re going to get a result imo. It’s all good 👍

@performancephysixx4983 Ай бұрын

Sorry I get beautiful ladies and am a nice guy 👍

@user-tt3iv7ns1h Ай бұрын

Am sewaa niyi you nowo Sarah

@user-tt3iv7ns1h Ай бұрын

Plz itizi raya tumachee plz

@Trace7173 Ай бұрын

Seen any flying horses lately? derp derp derp

@BackeB Ай бұрын

Horses evolved differently from birds, in that they don’t have wings. In addition their wings would have to be enormous. This fact has to do with the relationship between surface area and volume (mass). Great question!

@user-tt3iv7ns1h Ай бұрын

Hiy mi s s y u o arowo towo