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Why Does OCD Feel So Real?

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Chrissie Hodges

Chrissie Hodges

Күн бұрын

The thing that makes OCD SO dang hard is because it FEELS SO REAL!!! While we can see that the thoughts are not what we want, the fact that it can impact us physically but also that it is so all encompassing makes us doubt! I know exactly how miserable this is, and I'm so sorry we have to deal with this! You are not alone. :)
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@Ellael98
@Ellael98 2 жыл бұрын
People, if OCD wouldn’t feel as real as possible, we wouldn’t react to it and the disorder would not manifest. It has to feel real in order to worry you. You wouldn’t even worry if you could see through the lies. And also, I always look at it like this: my OCD has access to ALL the feelings in my body or mind, so it can really just push a button and activate everything. So it feels real because we really feel it, but not because the content is real. The brain is so powerful, it can produce everything you don’t want.
@emily-gm2xf
@emily-gm2xf 2 жыл бұрын
You are so right, sometimes when my anxiety is high I try to think of it like this: If my mind is so powerful that it can be convinced of anything, wouldn’t it be possible to also fight back and be able to convince the brain that ocd fears have no power against you?
@Havana428
@Havana428 2 жыл бұрын
This comment is great and makes so much sense. I have suicide and existential ocd and sometimes it really makes me doubt myself a lot when i am panicking. People say “just label it as OCD” and i am like “bro my OCD feels so real it makes you doubt it’s even OCD so it ain’t working” 😥
@hydrogeddonn
@hydrogeddonn 2 жыл бұрын
OCD is so strange because we can recognize how frivolous our fears/triggers are, but our brain has a response that is so convincing as if our fears were true. OCD is pretty paradoxical most of the time. It just throws us hyper-logical OCD people for a loop every time. Thanks for sharing.
@stonerbubble
@stonerbubble 2 жыл бұрын
I think it's your brains way of warning you of what you're afraid of. Your brain is saying "look out for this" or "remember to check for this" but the most effective way your brain can communicate this is by giving you the most accurate example that it can, with feelings, sensations, images. It's like a virtual simulation. If you have anxiety your threat assessment software is overactive so you'll get an exaggerated version of threat levels
@hunterjc3231
@hunterjc3231 2 жыл бұрын
Chrissie, can OCD brainwash your mind into completely “knowing” (convinced) that you’re a pedophile, suicidal person, and/or monster? My heart and right side of the brain knows that all of those are horrible things but it’s almost like “the doubting disorder” completely distorts my thinking process to where I feel like THATS ME and I just hate feeling like I’m in denial or just turning into a monster. I want it to stop and am so afraid it’s going to turn me into something I’m not
@Samantha-rt5nz
@Samantha-rt5nz 2 жыл бұрын
yes that’s what exactly ocd does
@fothify
@fothify 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so open, down to earth and revealing, I really appreciate that you're willing to let people know everything, I think it's something that's missing in treatment in a lot of ways because of embarrassment or people's backgrounds. I think the more upfront people can be, the more effective and the treatment will be and the sooner getting better will be too.
@willbesoon6601
@willbesoon6601 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for another great video Chrissie. You deal with OCD with such passion and humour. Very grateful.
@tatianaduran2346
@tatianaduran2346 2 жыл бұрын
Thank God I found your channel, I just had therapy and felt so bad because of my ocd symptoms and just having a laugh about this whole situation is what I needed and the clarity! Thank you 🙏🏼❤️
@KirstenFaithy
@KirstenFaithy 2 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! I don’t feel so alone now that I know about your channel
@destinylavonne2305
@destinylavonne2305 2 жыл бұрын
Hi destiny Lavonne Randell and i hear you 100% I also suffer from pure o ocd and in those times the intrusive thoughts that come into my head makes me feel paranoid I hate more than anything but when I get on here and I'll listen to what you have to say about people who suffer from pure o ocd I feel better and feel like you know what I'm coming from and I think that's a blessing because I truly believe in my heart that God wouldn't let you suffer alone no matter what it is so I think you again keeping it real and 100% honest as you can I know and understand that that can be difficult as well and one more thing you're in my hometown so that's a double blessing for me🥰🥰🥰
@sarianaschneider6541
@sarianaschneider6541 2 жыл бұрын
Chrissie, I literally can't count how many times you've saved my day or even my life - speaking very seriously. You're an angel! Thank you for your honesty and the amazing work you're doing... if I haven't found your videos, I don't know exactly where I would have been today ❤ I asked you on instagram in your dm's where to get help in Germany or how to find something comparabable to NOCD... but I guess you can't answer it all... so if anyone knows please let me know... Chrissie, you're amazing and I really wanted to say thank you!
@kaelie7315
@kaelie7315 2 жыл бұрын
Very true! I had physical sensations in my hand with harm OCD and now I have physical sensations in my ear with my schizo theme. Feels super real!!!
@brothlcreeprs
@brothlcreeprs 2 жыл бұрын
It can make such silly things feel so real! You can look at them and go 'well, if I didn't have ocd this might be a bit embarrassing or strange but it's fine' but with ocd, it heightens it to 1000x
@jahchris6430
@jahchris6430 2 жыл бұрын
Lovely Chrissie Hodges
@briancramer1290
@briancramer1290 2 жыл бұрын
Chrissie, you're the best, I love your video's.
@cleverhandle420
@cleverhandle420 2 жыл бұрын
The physical sensations suuuuuuuck 😂 I get the groinal and it’s the one thing that brings me back to that theme. It also turned into a sensation where I can’t tell if I need to pee or not. That’s the fear. What if I have to pee?! I have post it’s in front of the toilet that say “GET UP AND RISK IT!!!” I also have a fear of having a heart attack and heart failure and of course when I “notice” something my chest tightens and my HR gets faster 😭 😂 that feels the most real. I go running for erp and it doesn’t bother me a lot but if I’m stressed, tired, or in a cycle - yea. It feels like I’m dying. Ignoring it feels like jumping off a cliff feeling like there’s no parachute on your back but yea. If you focus on the behavior it really does help. I’m running a marathon this year to prove to myself that I can do it bc running is a guaranteed trigger for me and I already know I’m going to panic but I also trust that I will have practiced enough to believe in myself and not the OCD.
@k.f.9875
@k.f.9875 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video. ❤️❤️❤️
@maddycole
@maddycole 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful video Chrissie!!❤️❤️
@6ix669
@6ix669 2 жыл бұрын
Your vids help too
@maddycole
@maddycole 2 жыл бұрын
@@6ix669 thank you !💞
@MaceWidow
@MaceWidow 2 жыл бұрын
I've had this for a year and I used to get bad sprouts of anxiety and sadness but after a breakdown I havent felt anything since I dont have any anxiety anymore I just feel trapped. And because I dont feel anything uts gotten worse it just feels so real. I'm only 15 I don't want to be like this but I worry that one day I will be. I keep getting moments were it tells I like the thoughts and I dont see anything wrong with it and I hate those moments and everytime I think back on something I keep asking myself weather it happend or not. I just don't feel like my anymore I dont want to be like this but I'm that on day I will be. I just want to be normal I just want to be a good person.
@natz8274
@natz8274 2 жыл бұрын
you are inspirational ythank you for telling your story
@stonerbubble
@stonerbubble 2 жыл бұрын
I've had contamination ocd. When I put on a pair of socks I could "feel" the germs traveling up my legs. Of course I knew that you can't feel germs but my brain gave me what it thought was the most accurate example of what I was afraid of
@beccaw74
@beccaw74 2 жыл бұрын
I dealt with contamination ocd for a very short period, and it was really only triggered at work, but what you said reminded me remember how I used to feel "germs" on my hands if I touched anything I thought was dirty. And then I had to go wash them. It throws you for a loop.
@stonerbubble
@stonerbubble 2 жыл бұрын
@@beccaw74 right? It shows that your mind can imagine literally anything and the more afraid you are the more vivid it can be
@yolandacarmenherreravaldei4021
@yolandacarmenherreravaldei4021 2 жыл бұрын
For real? Could you elavorate on the sensation?
@stonerbubble
@stonerbubble 2 жыл бұрын
@@yolandacarmenherreravaldei4021 well, for me it was uncomfortable tingly feelings. The same creepy crawly feeling you might get if you imagine, say bugs or spiders. There's also the sensation of being unclean, wich is difficult to describe
@nicolas19676
@nicolas19676 2 жыл бұрын
@@stonerbubble I feel something on My mouth when I think about blowjobs and it feels so real and because of that I'm scared I'll like it or something and I always think that maybe other people have HOCD and I'm just represed
@unclekarl9474
@unclekarl9474 2 жыл бұрын
Lovely Chrissie Hodges sometimes my amygdala and Hippocampus be killing me.
@shazam1334
@shazam1334 2 жыл бұрын
Heyy! Came just in time when my OCD started kicking in Again😅😀
@stonerbubble
@stonerbubble 2 жыл бұрын
I've had an ocd fear about different timelines. I don't even know what you'd call that. If walked through a doorway I felt like I would leave part of myself behind and forget who I was before. I was afraid If I went to sleep I'd wake up in another reality, where the people I love don't exist. But how could you know if something was up with REALITY?? When you have anxiety you already have a general sense that something is wrong so that gave me a feeling of existential terror for about 10-15 years. How do you even talk about that without sounding crazy?
@brothlcreeprs
@brothlcreeprs 2 жыл бұрын
I had existential problems for YEARS growing up. Not sure if it was OCD, DPDR or a mix of both but every time I explained it to a councillor they would have no idea what I was on about and our sessions would just be spent explaining what it was to them lol
@stonerbubble
@stonerbubble 2 жыл бұрын
@@brothlcreeprs I can definitely relate. Nothing makes you feel more insecure about a condition then that blank stare. Thank goodness for Chrissie and all the info available now. Judging from the evidence I can say with confidence that, in my case it was a mix of OCD and DPDR. Magical thinking ocd now that I think of it. Though with the time slip theme maybe that should be sci fi thinking lol
@brothlcreeprs
@brothlcreeprs 2 жыл бұрын
@@stonerbubble thanks for saying! Its crazy how at the time you feel absolutely isolated and now we find out we both had kinda similar experiences! Hope youre doing better now x
@stonerbubble
@stonerbubble 2 жыл бұрын
@@brothlcreeprs great minds think alike, as they say lol Thanks, I hope you're doing well too :)
@atreides47
@atreides47 2 жыл бұрын
I love this lady. She always has me weak asf somehow lmaooo
@noelle7512
@noelle7512 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah lmaoooo “sh!t’s gonna move!” 😂😂😂
@ricardorigual87
@ricardorigual87 2 жыл бұрын
It is so difficult, it happened on my on a dream yesterday, too much struggle.
@bornwithoutconsentobviously
@bornwithoutconsentobviously 2 жыл бұрын
OCD is literally going to kill me one day. I know I should look at that part of my brain as something that wants to warn me and notifies me that I am basically alive and that my body functions as it should (I have sensorimotor OCD or hyperawareness OCD so it's mostly focused on my body or my bodily functions). I can't look it that way. It's a part of my brain that's trying to fight me. It's a bully that feels like it's never going to go away. Just like those kids in high school only now I can't see my bully but that bully is always with me in my head.
@danielsagardia9466
@danielsagardia9466 2 жыл бұрын
Because it is real, that’s the scary part. It’s real and it does not have a stop button it would hang like a pendulum.
@rogersalazar3646
@rogersalazar3646 2 жыл бұрын
LOL I have the same energy as you when it comes to making sense of the ocd themes most people will say “ ooo you thought about that you’re that”
@mrunixman1579
@mrunixman1579 2 жыл бұрын
I noticed that I have Scrupulosity quite bad. Even killing a rat will cause the symptoms quite bad. I think it can be linked to other OCD such as harm if I was to act on it.
@wilhelm9619
@wilhelm9619 2 жыл бұрын
I have had pocd now for 2 years and I have been dealing extremely much with groinal responses and I practice erp and ignore the toughts. I have been at a therapist and I try to ignore the groinal responses and let them be but they are still there. I start to get a bit desperate to get the ocd to go away. What can I do? I try to let the ocd be and don’t do compulsions. Groinal responses are the most difficult part and I know what I have to do but they won’t go away…
@kay2028
@kay2028 2 жыл бұрын
Can ocd really make you feel like you’re attracted to the gender you’re not actually attracted to? And can it make you loose attraction to your preferred gender?
@maddierose8123
@maddierose8123 2 жыл бұрын
i think it can this has been happening to me
@zovi3363
@zovi3363 2 жыл бұрын
Does anyone here have bpd as well, that makes their doubts even worse because of having an explosive anger at times?
@StuSiney
@StuSiney 2 жыл бұрын
I get you x
@emily-gm2xf
@emily-gm2xf 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so confused, I thought you had recovered from ocd. I know that there isn’t a cure but I thought you could fully recover to the point where these things wouldn’t bother you anymore? I came here for motivation but this just made me feel worse
@emily-gm2xf
@emily-gm2xf 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t know how I could go on knowing that I’m going to be anxious and feeling these horrible feelings all of the time. If you don’t care about them, doesn’t that mean that they should just go away? I don’t get it
@emily-gm2xf
@emily-gm2xf 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh I am freaking outtttttt, I didn’t want to gain another theme, this is so confusing. Can people even recover from ocd? If u can then shouldn’t that mean that these feelings should go away on their own??
@kaelie7315
@kaelie7315 2 жыл бұрын
Emily, OCD is chronic. It will always be there. However, it cabs become manageable and get to a point where it no longer bothers you or disrupts your life.
@kaelie7315
@kaelie7315 2 жыл бұрын
Can*
@stonerbubble
@stonerbubble 2 жыл бұрын
Hi there, I hope you're doing ok. I'd like to offer advice if I may? I've had good results from Dr Ali Greymonds video's kzfaq.info Also I've also had good results from channel Therapy in a Nutshell On how on soothing anxiety in the nervous system. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fLZ4aKZ3uNO9dYk.html People like me are prone to ocd but it can be managed So what's happening here (as I understand it) is the part of the brain that manages fight/flight/freeze response (amygdala) is overactive. That and the filter (caudate nucleus) an important part of the brain for learning and memory is flagging every thought that causes fear as a real threat and worthy of analysis and problem solving. That makes it very hard to disregard the thoughts/feelings. But this is exactly what you must do, no matter how urgent or real it feels. You must retrain the brain so it stops sending these warnings urging you to check, analyze or do compulsions. I used to have ocd about germs, I kept refusing reaction and pushed though, eventually the feelings stopped. Even during the pandemic they didn't return. That means you can retrain the brain. To be honest my ocd has switched themes but I'm working on curing my ocd completely and I'm doing much better. I promise you can too, it's not impossible! Sorry for the long post, I hope this helps
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