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Why I'm not leaving the UK

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Ely Wananda

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@babayaratv9756
@babayaratv9756 2 ай бұрын
Africa is the goal, but it can be very difficult to live, there is a multitude of issues we face as we get back home , I have seen hundreds of brothers and sistahs fail , i have even seen ones and ones die , we differently need to have networks and communities in order to sustain ourselves in Africa , once that is in place we will thrive
@Wayne-fn1sw
@Wayne-fn1sw 2 ай бұрын
Black people don't unite
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
We'll get there, it's just going to be a bumpy ride. The fact more and more folks are attempting to make a life there is a sign of progress.
@MoneyGist
@MoneyGist Ай бұрын
Why though? Asking as an African btw.
@evelyna_paula1747
@evelyna_paula1747 6 күн бұрын
YOUR goal. We all have different plans and needs.
@InquisitiveTelly
@InquisitiveTelly 2 ай бұрын
Uganda and Jamaica, those kids got a good heritage
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Yeah I think so too 🙂 They've got the main regions of the diaspora covered!
@TheSageisBack
@TheSageisBack 2 ай бұрын
@@elywananda It's important when Black bi-ethnic children are born, because it makes Black global unification more possible.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
@@TheSageisBack True. And in the UK, I imagine that a high proportion of Black children are in that category.
@RemofRenaissance
@RemofRenaissance 2 ай бұрын
Whattt?! Ugandan! Hitting subscribe now! The name should have gave it away ages ago for me. lol
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Yes indeed! I'm a foreign Ugandan! Welcome ssebo!
@ademolaadebayo1005
@ademolaadebayo1005 20 күн бұрын
The reasons you gave are why my wife and I will not be leaving the U.K. I still believe that the U.K is one of the best countries in the world to be a black person. I have been to many countries in the world, including the U.S, China, many countries in Europe, I have lived in Nigeria (for 15 years) and I still maintain that the U.K is the best country for me.
@temiade-john6553
@temiade-john6553 2 ай бұрын
I defo understand your reasons. As you know I lived in the Caribbean for over a decade, but I left the UK when I had no children or committments. Was fortunate enough to be able to work remotely as well. Discovering that our eldest son is autistic and may not get the educational support he needs is what made us decide to come back here. Luckily the support network wasn't much of an issue for me in the Caribbean as I had friends and my husband's family but I could see how it definitely could be for others. And I definitely have a great support network in London and my son's infant school has been absolutely fantastic, better than we could have imagined. It hasn't been easy being back here but I understand how when you have children leaving the UK becomes more of a challenge, particularly when the kids are young.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Hey Temi, I'm glad that your boy has been really looked-after since coming back. That's another thing actually, for all its issues - the systems here provide a huge amount of support for us. I really learned this via my children. the healthcare system gets a lot of stick, but there won't be many other places in the world where you can get care and support for "free" as we do here. If the winters here weren't so long and dark and cold, I'd have no issues tbh.
@temiade-john6553
@temiade-john6553 2 ай бұрын
@@elywananda the healthcare system is definitely another thing! Initially the plan was to return for about 3 months and look at schooling possibilities for my eldest before deciding. Then about a month after returning I discovered I was pregnant, and being what they kindly referred to as a "geriatric mum" that became another serious consideration. The NHS for all it's faults, still offers far more than many healthcare systems and it's free! I also had reconstructive knee surgery earlier this year which if I were still in the Caribbean would have cost me thousands without question.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
@@temiade-john6553 🤣🤣 That whole geriatric mum thing is mad. They really ought to update their nomenclature in this day and age! But yeah totally agree. People cuss out this country a bit lazily imo, almost pretending that it's some awful place with nothing going for it whatsoever.
@gardeniainbloom812
@gardeniainbloom812 2 ай бұрын
@@elywananda I've had to rely heavily on the NHS and yes we can complain but honestly I could only get this care if I were rich elsewhere. I've been under the care of consultants who treated the Queen. I've stayed in private hospitals paid for via the NHS. I could go on. And like you, it's the long, grey, winters that are the only drawback.
@dlc2479
@dlc2479 2 ай бұрын
What job did you have that allowed to work from abroad? I'm trying to do the same
@ldn876
@ldn876 2 ай бұрын
Jamaica and Uganda ❤. Beautiful mix. Blaxit. Loads moving from the UK to Jamaica.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Thank you! And I can't wait to finally visit JA. Well overdue.
@kayBee-Licious
@kayBee-Licious Ай бұрын
Not true.
@elliethousand
@elliethousand 21 күн бұрын
Sorry, what's your evidence for this?
@London_miss234
@London_miss234 2 ай бұрын
I like these videos. Keep it up!
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Glad to hear that, family. I definitely will do. It's great to be connecting with people about these practical life matters.
@ghostchipoko6929
@ghostchipoko6929 2 ай бұрын
I was raised in UK and moved back to my parents country in Africa through earning income online. I think you were a bit harsh on yourself as far as never visiting Africa and not working in tech. I'm in my late 20s but it's still rare for most people my age to earn true location independent income. I still count myself as lucky to have pulled it off. I definitely agree this is a young mans game primarily and it'd be tough to uproot your whole family without a lot more planning than someone like me who has been travelling and vetting countries since I was 18 and after 10 years, found my ideal country to expat in. All the best to you in your journey.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Thank you man, and that's amazing to hear your experience. You've done very well and I hope other younger folks learn from you. Peace!
@MarianLivingLife
@MarianLivingLife Ай бұрын
I think it's a little bit easier to move to a country where you have some connections, as well as having a good income. My father was Ghanaian and some of my aunts and cousins still live there but I don't know if I'd be able to earn a good income there. My mum is in Jamaica so that would feel easier for me to live there. I would feel more drawn to go there though as opposed to a country where there's no networks.
@nathanielmedia8625
@nathanielmedia8625 19 күн бұрын
Very Good Content!!
@crazymoe8494
@crazymoe8494 23 күн бұрын
Keep making these videos, I live abroad now but I like finding channels like yours to keep up with Black Britain.
@bluepeter128
@bluepeter128 Ай бұрын
I find it so interesting how the grandchildren of the original immigrants, have crossed married people from other parts of the black world. JA & Africans, other Caribbean countries etc. Very good.
@briggittebuchanan9786
@briggittebuchanan9786 2 ай бұрын
I love your video. I hope to visit this year. I envy the culture, diversity and tradition. We don't have that in the USA.
@gardeniainbloom812
@gardeniainbloom812 2 ай бұрын
Relocate to London Ely and family please😂. Listen my family are Jamaican but I was born here. You don’t even have to open your mouth before they know you foreigner😀. Your parents should have taken you back to Uganda periodically so that you could lay down some roots. I wish my parents had taken me to JA when I was a child. I think it’s important for us to maintain links with our homeland. We’re going to have to figure it out if we’re going to nation build across the diaspora.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Haha, you're not gonna let that lie are you!! In my trips to Africa, I've generally been alright as long as I don't speak. In fact, I get found out because people talk to me assuming I know what they're saying. But yeah, it's imperative to sort this out. I would say that I'm quite risk-averse. Other in my situation would probably be bolder and just handle the challenges that come.
@Wayne-fn1sw
@Wayne-fn1sw 2 ай бұрын
People are not integrated anymore everyone out for themselves these days life is a struggle people are not trusting anymore .
@gardeniainbloom812
@gardeniainbloom812 2 ай бұрын
@@elywananda I'm a scaredy cat too😃
@gardeniainbloom812
@gardeniainbloom812 2 ай бұрын
@@Wayne-fn1sw You only need a small group of like minded people. You got this.
@80skid83
@80skid83 2 ай бұрын
I would absolutely leave the UK in a heartbeat, if I can get a good opportunity elsewhere. Not a lot of ppl like the States , but I would choose that over UK right now tbh
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
The US would be a great option, especially as lots of it has great weather (and language wouldn't be an issue). But, I'd probably prefer to stay here. The US just seems a bit too... mad for me! (Sorry to any folks from there reading this!)
@shernhow6021
@shernhow6021 Ай бұрын
And don’t forget the expensive healthcare…
@joealdred5615
@joealdred5615 2 ай бұрын
I find it helps to strengthen connections by visits to the root places of one’s heritage and culture; which helps a hybrid experience a foreign.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Absolutely! We will take our boys, though the cost is so prohibitive (many thousands in total) that we need to plan carefully.
@joealdred5615
@joealdred5615 2 ай бұрын
Please check out my book: Flourishing in Babylon: Black British Agency and Self-determination
@MarianLivingLife
@MarianLivingLife Ай бұрын
I think that wherever you were born and have lived for the majority of your life, it will always feel easier. Like you said, you have the networks, you speak the language, you understand how things work. However, easier doesn't always mean it's better for some people. Hence the reason so many move abroad. I think people have to decide on what type of life and lifestyle they want, what skills they have and how much income they can earn, and then research the countries they might want to live in. I was born in the UK but hope to live abroad one day. My mum retired to Jamaica and my late father was from Ghana. Although, most of my friends and family live in the UK, I don't like the way of life here, especially how expensive everything is and the rubbish weather, lack of community etc. As you're married with children, that plays more of a factor in any decision you make.
@nkosi1388
@nkosi1388 Ай бұрын
Bingo!
@Marvinhagler87
@Marvinhagler87 2 ай бұрын
From 3:30 you make good points given your own perspectives. thank you for the video
@Mr.GeeKhan786
@Mr.GeeKhan786 2 ай бұрын
Hi - you talk a lot of common sense in this video 👍 I’m 53 and born and raised here but my family ancestry is Pakistani. Am thinking about retiring there but am so used to living amd working here I’m not sure I can do it.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Thank you! Do many Pakistanis here end up relocating back there?
@Mr.GeeKhan786
@Mr.GeeKhan786 2 ай бұрын
@@elywananda I’d say there is an increasing number emigrating in recent times to not just Pakistan but to the gulf countries also but I think they are people with good incomes. There is a sense that Great Britain is no longer so great in terms of quality of life anymore.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
@@Mr.GeeKhan786 I see. Interesting stuff. I grew around a lot of Pakistanis and other south Asians. We've got a lot of similarities in our cultures, through unfortunately there's a fair amount of distrust on both sides too.
@Mr.GeeKhan786
@Mr.GeeKhan786 2 ай бұрын
@@elywananda Honestly some of the nicest people I’ve ever met in UK have been people of African and Jamaican heritage and in the UK we share something major - we both faced discrimination and racism together. I’m old enough to remember the days of skinheads and the NF and they targeted both our peoples - in those days we often stood together against them - I consider you guys my brothers and sisters and always will.
@ruthcooper7900
@ruthcooper7900 Ай бұрын
I only love your channel which u just stumbled across. The topics are ones i also think about. Keep up the good work. 😊
@leah1170
@leah1170 2 ай бұрын
Makes perfect sense Ely
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Thanks sis. I wish I'd have been thinking more clearly about this stuff years ago. Better late than never I guess!
@TitoDistrict
@TitoDistrict 2 ай бұрын
Very pragmatic assessment as always Ely❤️🖤💚
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Hey Titoooo!!! Wonderful to hear from you family 🙏🏿🙏🏿. Pragmatic is a key term. So much of my thoughts and actions in life are mainly pragmatic in nature. It's the way to get things done, even if they're not the perfect things.
@TitoDistrict
@TitoDistrict 2 ай бұрын
@@elywanandaExactly! I’ve seen so many returnees go to the continent on a whim and a dream and end up coming back because they really underestimate considerations like finances, transportation, etc. Gotta play the long game.
@WJ1043
@WJ1043 2 ай бұрын
The big elephant in the room that no immigrant wants to talk about is social isolation and the risk thereof for you and your offspring, if any. If you’re from a strong family, it is never going to be a problem. If not, you and any offspring will suffer its consequences, which would be far less likely if you hadn’t immigrated.
@TheSageisBack
@TheSageisBack 2 ай бұрын
I have to ask, if you were to return to Uganda, would the people see you as a foreigner or as one of them considering your Ugandan heritage?
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Erm, it'd be a bit of both overall. But my not being able to speak the languages (and my accent when speaking English) would always mark me out immediately as a foreign. A foreign Ugandan perhaps.
@Jstar697
@Jstar697 2 ай бұрын
​@@elywanandaHow can you no speak your language?
@ugoekwegh4581
@ugoekwegh4581 2 ай бұрын
​@@Jstar697 asking silly questions
@elliethousand
@elliethousand 21 күн бұрын
Oh hell no. Black woman on six figure salary. Work in IT. Staying here to claim what's rightfully mine. 😂
@user-tw3ty4tk9g
@user-tw3ty4tk9g 2 ай бұрын
These are not reasons not to go. It’s a big world out there go and live it. The world doesn’t stop and start in the UK, sometimes we need to help out our own economically. If you really knew the history you may have made a different video.
@reduitman
@reduitman 2 ай бұрын
⁠ @Wayne-fn1sw Where exactly have you been outside of London ? I have lived in a part of Derby for 3 years now and have not experienced one racist incident. The locals have been very friendly and it is very multicultural where I live. Black folk have been here since the 1960’s or even longer. I travel about a bit and have not experienced any racism in Birmingham, Nottingham, Leicester etc. Maybe it is down to the areas I visit which tend to be pretty mixed in population there. There are loads of black people already living here so it is not to say we are new and a big shock to the insular local indigenous population 😅. You cannot live your life in fear and let these fears limit your movement and growth.
@MarianLivingLife
@MarianLivingLife Ай бұрын
I live in Birmingham and haven't experienced any racism either. Deby, Leeds, Nottingham, Worcestershire, have always been friendly and welcoming.
@bluepeter128
@bluepeter128 Ай бұрын
I think you have to think very carefully about and move and why, these days unlike when the immigrants of the 1940's moved from they're countries. As a brit, and a black brit, one should move with caution. Britian is really something for a black brit, to have. Having moved around the world and seen how people live and behavior, the Uk, is right up there. regard manners, politeness, standing in line, etc. A lot of counties are 100yrs, behind Britian, including the US and don't get me started on Australia and New Zealand...
@samyoe
@samyoe Ай бұрын
I would move to the US if visas were easy to get. I work in tech, and graduates there often start on 6 figures. States like Texas have low taxes, as well as great weather. 20% of the Americans earn over 6 figures, whereas only 5% of the UK earn that much. People often complain about health insurance, but if you have a good career, your company often provides a decent health package. Indians tend to always be where the money is, and many Indians go to the US to study, then get a job and stay there. I'm inheriting land in Kenya, and am getting my passport but it's hard to command the same salary over there so I'd probably just invest there unless I got a convenient remote job. Fortunately, I also have trustworthy extended family members there who are wealthier than me, and so aren't incentivised to fleece me. Even fully remote jobs often restrict international travel for data privacy reasons. Also, most of the multinational companies that pay high salaries prefer roles to be hybrid.
@Stephanie-wf6xr
@Stephanie-wf6xr 2 ай бұрын
Your better of in the UK. British born Jamaican heritage. I don't know about Ugandans Jamaicans too bad mind The world educates their children from abroad, in the UK .. When the children are grown and independent, you are mortgage free. . . You and your lovely wife, the world will be your oyster. That's my advice 😂😂
@Wayne-fn1sw
@Wayne-fn1sw 2 ай бұрын
The UK is in mess everyone running away from the UK to Australia, and Spain.
@Stephanie-wf6xr
@Stephanie-wf6xr 2 ай бұрын
@@Wayne-fn1sw I know people immigrate, when sickness comes they want to come back. Nothing can't beat NHS. To be honest I would go Portugal.
@Wayne-fn1sw
@Wayne-fn1sw 2 ай бұрын
@@Stephanie-wf6xr The NHS is crumbling the care and service is gone there is better treatment in other countries the NHS in the UK the nurses and doctors are under great strain.
@Stephanie-wf6xr
@Stephanie-wf6xr 2 ай бұрын
@@Wayne-fn1sw You have to have medical insurance. I feel exactly like you. I moved out to the countryside from London. Biggest mistake, different world. Had to move back where more ethically diverse. Dont have to drive miles for a plantine 😀😃
@Wayne-fn1sw
@Wayne-fn1sw 2 ай бұрын
@@Stephanie-wf6xr 💯 agree
@evelyna_paula1747
@evelyna_paula1747 6 күн бұрын
Don't believe in support from relatives. . . unless that point helps to make this video long enough for KZfaq's algorithms. Do you really need those relatives? Are they trustworthy?
@Mpz3cat
@Mpz3cat Ай бұрын
I live in Stoke-on-Trent. I have no black network here. It’s just me and my family. It’s very isolating 😢
@MarianLivingLife
@MarianLivingLife Ай бұрын
Have you considered moving to a bigger city like Birmingham. There are some many diverse communities here. It makes a big difference. My area is full of black people. I've lived in areas where I was the only black face in the crowd and it isn't a nice feeling at all.
@blaqueruby4946
@blaqueruby4946 Ай бұрын
Sounds like you married a non-blk person.
@BroadwayBully1
@BroadwayBully1 2 ай бұрын
Whats the reason so many black people desire to move outside of the UK in the first place? Perhaps this should be addressed.
@PLACESNONDESCRIPT
@PLACESNONDESCRIPT 2 ай бұрын
Ulimaliza kusoma Kiswahili?been 10 yrs how’s your swahili?your Kenyan Neighbour
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Haha! Swahili yangu ni mbaya sana sasa. The problem is that every time I start learning, I have no-one to speak it with and then I just slowly forget. I could probably quickly pick it back up again if I lived in KE or TZ for a while.
@Riku_addict
@Riku_addict 2 ай бұрын
I thought you were Jamaican actually 😂 wow your wife's influence is evident!
@YardyBritishfamily
@YardyBritishfamily 2 ай бұрын
I am also Jamaican. It is nice to see a Jamaican marry an African king.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
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