LADIES: Listen to Tony! I followed his "How to Date Correctly" video (the one where he has on a white tee. He recorded it about a year ago, fyi) EXACTLY and it helped me enter into a healthy, loving, progressing relationship. Listen to Tony! Especially if it hurts your feelings!! Ask yourself why it struck a nerve and work on whatever that is lol

I actually believe it is much easier for average looking people to find good relationships than highly attractive people. People put too many bad stereotypes and assumptions on attractive men and women before they even get to know them. Attractive men are seen as players and beautiful women are seen as gold diggers and users.

All I can say as a single woman is it’s HARD OUT HERE! The dynamic of the female/male connection have shifted in a way where it’s frightening. Discernment is a must now more than ever. Vetting and patience is a must. My faith in God keeps me hopeful. I’m just gonna keep working on me.

This is just too complicated…it’s a lot of men walking around thinking they are a catch but not through the eyes of a woman.

I am considered a pretty attractive woman and this is what I have found. I have dated nice guys, bad boys, fine men, ugly men, skinny men, fat men, tall men, short men, men I was attracted to, and men that I wasn't attracted to. I have found that they have all cheated on me or been disrespectful in some way. I used to be thin, now I'm plus sized. The treatment actually got slightly better with more weight on me. At this point, I'm in my 40s, I take every man with a grain of salt. I have found that a lot of men approach me, but it is in a lustful way. I have also found that these guys tend to commit to more "average looking" woman. I have also found that my friends that are considered "average" are more likely to get into relationships. I have also found that most of the women I know who are in committed relationships have settled in some way. At this point, I just focus on living my best life.

Attractive women usually have a lot of men who only go after them for sex. And when that happens often, she has to have discernment. It is not flattering when a man doesn’t take you very seriously cause they simply see you as a piece of meat or a “fun time”. I’m now super cautious with a man’s intent. There is no shortage of them who just wants a little fun at your expense. Believe that.

To be beautiful and naive is the worst combo for woman

A woman told me when I was a teenager to have a boyfriend that was unattractive so I would not have problems with other girls wanting my boyfriend. I have learned that the unattractive men are disrespectful as well, it's the personality of a person that makes a person attractive, some men that are very attractive can have a ugly personality because they are conceited because women cater to them because they look good, they never make them accountable for their bad behavior

Why are 99% of KZfaq videos about how women need to lower their standards but never for the man to lower his standards? Or come up to financially meet her where she is?

At this point just wait on God! Singleness is not a disease no matter how old you are!!! People like who they like and we should be so focused on trying to get into heaven because we are in the last days!!! Your soul should be in order 🤷🏾‍♀️

When you're attractive these men just want to do you, happens to me constantly 😓

If a man can dehumanize and disrespect a woman based on her appearance he’s not worth anything anyways. No character or morals.

the problem with the world is so many people have issues stemming from childhood that needs to be addressed - before they start dating. Folks are superficial, ungrateful, ignorant, heartless, hurt, and arrogant. Instead of being stable, good, sensible, humble, more appreciative and open. There are both single men & women in the comments that can find mates if they "thought outside of the box" & worked on themselves 1st. Yes, I said it. Women will spend $hundreds of dollar doing hair, makeup nails, (on the outside) yet won't go to counseling and ( send $1) to fix what's going on in the inside. Change and compromise is necessary. Focus on that instead of thinking others should change. Start by changing yourself. Real talk!

I’m single because I’m a socially awkward introvert. I meet men all the time but I always manage to say the wrong thing or put my foot in my mouth. I also don’t get out much. I’m trying to get out more and meet more people. I feel awkward going to things by myself but I’m getting used to it.

Proverb 27:20 -- Hell and destruction are never full; so the eyes of man are never satisfied.

The problem is that it’s hard to find a man with good character. They all want to hook up so we have no other choice but to be selective so we won’t get hurt!!!!

When you go searching for love, they seem nowhere to be found, but when you don't, they come into your life at the perfect time. 💙KZfaqr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

Date on your level. Be realistic on expectations. Take a deeper look at yourself. Check your preferences vs. standards. Look at face value not fantasy. I’m going to have to watch this again. This was a great message. It requires a rewatch.

I know my husband was sent straight from God. He didn’t check all the boxes when it came to “preference” when we met, in fact I thought he was a square. Was the best decision I have ever made! Don’t be tricked by preference ladies, you may miss out on a blessing!

Nowadays, it just seems like some men want the extra glamorous woman..they say they don't but when it's a more natural looking woman in their presence, they tend to focus on the other type..I've seen this happen too many times..and when I say natural meaning straightened hair too..very lite makeup opposed to the woman wearing the latest style wigs and makeup like they've just left a photo shoot or runway..I'm not knocking at all..just stating when I've observed for awhile now. It's like men actually want you to be apart of the joneses.

Basically beautiful/pretty women have options and alot of men are insecure. So no it's easier to be with a average woman who will settle for them and never leave. It's all about security. Beautiful women are hard work and guys are lazy lol.

A lot of attractive people are lovers of themselves and the world and you can’t be that and seek the kingdom and love God first, we’re just a vessel on earth. Solid relationships and marriages are like a braid=three strains (Man/God/women), a two strain twist (just man/women and no God) will always unravel. A braid locks a man’s has to lead in love but they have to be equally yolked spiritually, but attractive people that are humble and seek wisdom from God are the unicorns and set apart of this earth.

I was 5’-11” before I broke my neck. My husband was 4” shorter than me. I’ve never cared much for men’s looks or height, and I just wanted him to have a decent job. But that still didn’t get me a good man. One of the reasons women’s preferences get so high as they get older is, because we didn’t care about superficial things when we were young, and we got dogged out anyway. If I’m gonna get dogged out, he’d better at least be hot. All men are acting like players these days, so what’s the point in giving any subpar man a chance when he’s just gonna act like the rich model guy, too?

I’m classed as an attractive women. Not by my own standards or inflated self esteem as I don’t have any, but by what I’m told , peoples reactions to me, strangers telling me in the street etc. people think you have it made as you’re attractive and it’s not true. I’be dated many men and they see me only as eye candy. They don’t care about anything else. I’ve literally said to men, you treat me like I should sit there and just look pretty. It breaks my heart. I’m Also intelligent, funny, grounded, empathetic, creative, artistic, and so much more. But all that doesn’t matter. Men tend to come and treat me mean to keep me keen. They will go out of there way too put me down and assert themselves… and there is no need at all. Some have even said “if I boost you and give you wings you’ll fly away” . They keep me at arms length as they fear someone worse will come and turn my head as they feel they don’t deserve me- when I’ve deemed they do. They don’t have to earn thousands or be a Greek god. I liked them as I’ve connected with them on some level. My list is base level at this point. I’ve no where else to go… and let me tell you, the lower the level the worse they treat me! Fact! I don’t look for supreme or above average earnings, I’m looking for consistency, effort, connection and love.

Definitely took notes being a single 26 years old woman and it makes a lot of sense thank you for the pointers uncle Tony I will apply these moving forward 🎯 the what do you desire is where I am .

I'm an introvert, shy & definitely don't approach men, which in this day & time, my friends think I'm too old fashioned. I live in Biloxi, MS & inspite of going to the beach, out to lunch/dinner, movies, shopping, men do not approach me. I smile & look pleasant but still nothing. It has been this way for 8.5yrs. The only thing I can think of is God is protecting & preserving me for whom he has specifically designed for me.

It's different when he is submitted to CHRIST..

As an attractive person I can admit people instantly judge me and don’t even try putting effort into me cause they think I’m a player. But some attractive people truly are hallow. They have nothing but their looks so they have never had to develop their personality. I’ve noticed this especially with people that have been attractive their whole life.

This was such a real conversation! We have to look in the mirror and check ourselves! Sometimes We are the reason why we can’t get what we want in life.

My man makes over six figures (I do as well) and is well over 6ft. Owns property. Doesn’t care if I work, but prefers a woman who will be very involved with the children, like you mentioned in the video. He said some ex dumped him years ago because he didn’t have a six pack? He is built like a burly football player, so definitely still in shape. To that woman, I say thank you. There are tons of single women still out there because they want the whole superficial list and are not looking at deeper qualities like is the man a good person, attractive to you, financially responsible? I was a late bloomer, so didn’t start getting attention until maybe two years ago, but my standards have remained the same God-fearing, responsible, tall, never married, no kids, good career, good person. A receding hairline can be covered up with a good haircut by the way, lol.

I think you should be a little more honest and state that when these black men begin to make more money or reach a certain level of status, they will then pursue a lighter skinned or white woman.

Tony is going to speak that truth no matter what. Real talk. We gotta look at ourselves and see if we need improvement to attract what we want.

I listened but I thought this was going to be about why attractive people just flat out are not approached. There are many attractive people who have good personalities and are not spoiled, but are still single.

Many people considered attractive are also often treated with hostility by men and women. But especially women. People also sometimes act as if the pretty/beautiful woman is going to be nasty. I found most beautiful people I know are extremely kind…and sometimes even more kind than usual because of the expectation that she or he is nasty. Some of my beautiful friends are often attacked if they are in the vicinity of a jealous person when someone compliments. It is sometimes a vicious and debilitating experience for the attractive person. Believe it or not there are some people who don’t know, sincerely don’t know how beautiful they are because they were raised to believe beauty is vain. Which it can be

I'm definitely the reason why I'm single. I passed up on alot of decent guys who wanted to build with me because of my preferences. I appreciate this video definitely gonna apply what I've learned here.

What you explained around the 30 min. mark is exactly what happened to Kim and Kayne. The way he talked about her when they first got together(glamorizing and worshipping her) changed because he wanted to domesticate her and she wasn’t that type. Now he talks about her like she wasn’t crap before she met him and he’s the best thing to every happen to her.

Just because people find someone beautiful it doesn’t mean the person sees their self as beautiful. I am told almost daily that I’m pretty or beautiful or have a pleasing face but the catch is I had a stepfather that told me I was ugly as a joke from age 10-14. After being told you’re ugly repeatedly (even as a joke) you start to believe that it must be true. I’m now 52 and notice more attention than in my whole youth. I now look back and realize I was catered to but I didn’t see. I was so insecure that every compliment was bs. I was jealous of pretty women so I couldn’t be one of them. Until 4 years ago I believed men looked away when I looked at them because they found me unattractive. Now I know it’s because I’ve caught them looking at me. Again, just because other people find someone attractive doesn’t mean the person finds their self attractive. I’m single and I am still chased by men from the age of 22 to 72. I avoided dating really good looking men all of my life because of the fear of losing them. I’ve mostly dated men I’m not attracted to physically and usually end the relationship’s because sex with someone you are not attracted to is torture. There have been a few men that I was initially attracted to that I ended up falling for and they were players/cheaters. For that reason I’ve decided I will only date men I’m physically attracted to. It’s still hard to choose a man when there are so many. Now I look for men that go out of their way to get my attention and the men that are a little nervous to speak to me. I find that when a man is nervous it’s usually because he cares to win me over.

Certain men will treat women like exotic dancers even if we have natural bodies. No butt injections or boob jobs, 9-5, domesticated and still somehow want us to be stripperish 😆

I get it!! I see many people in coaching who are listening but not really hearing and putting things in action in order to effect change within themselves. I still have faith in reaching clients where they’re at. Great analysis of the realness in singleness today.

I used to dislike being short (5”1 and a 1/2). But listening to these videos over the years has made me appreciate being petite so height was never really a big deal to me because all guys are taller than me lol. I didn’t even realize women went so hard behind that detail.

Well I tell you this hit home! Ladies TG is just giving us the truth I took notes TG always say listen to his videos 3 times! TG spoke so many things to my spirit and I should have shed some tears but because it was so real. I had to put my big girl undies on and take it! I had to listen and receive this word that I’am living right now! What hit home when TG said most singles are single because of themselves. TG speak on it! Speak 🗣 on it, Ladies it’s so many jewel’s in this! THANK YOU TG! Blessing to you and the Queen! 🙏🏾☀️

Being pretty can put you in very dangerous situations. I understand why some cultures choose the daughters husband. 😴

i feel really good about being attractive, but in a sense it’s not that great when people assume things about you before they even get to know you! also, you might like a person for who they are and they will reject you because they don’t feel worthy of you. also, when you get a boyfriend he will barely compliment you because he doesn’t want you to get “big headed” lol

Just wanna say Tony is a blessing to us...keeping it real, regardless of how hard the pill is to swallow. THANK YOU!

This was so good!! Made me go back to my “list” and update based on my growth/maturity over the last years. It put a lot into perspective. Thank you!

Love your reactions of how people act when their in their feelings. Keep doing your thing my brother. You always spot on. Even if the lesson may sting a little. Some of us need someone to tell it like it is. Appreciate you !!!!

I love your harsh realty even tho it’s indeed hard to digest but it’s good for us

Thank you Tony, peace and blessings to you and your family. Taking notes thoroughly from this video

I’m single bc I keep attracting the men who only want me for my body and not trying to actually get to know me for me.

My argument is....this is wayyyy too much! I'll just stay single. It shouldn't be this complicated to have a mate.😔🤷🏾‍♀️

You are so right Tony. I have watched so many male life and dating coaches, from that "Toxic" one, to the christian ones, you all say the same thing about beauty and what men look for in a woman. From what I see, most love a natural beauty.

This video made me take a good long look in the mirror and be honest with myself. Fear of rejection and past trauma is why I am single. Loneliness feels better than pain and trauma.

I appreciate your knowledge and the way you break each Scenario down it has given Me different things to look At and evaluate why men are Interested in different women And what to look for in dating What a awesome lesson

**Rolls eyes** Had to speed this up 1.5x to even get thru this. Lol smh. He's saying 'Pretty/beautiful' is going to be ultra selective. OK then I would want to ask, explain 'Very NOT attractive ' men being equally as selective? Lol 😆 😆 Saying THIS MESS, is why alot of men 'assume' attractive wmn are ultra picky, WHEN most of us are not. So what happens is, the avg guy will think the 'attractive' wmn, wouldnt even want him, so he comes thru with HALF ASSED EFFORT. And THAT'S the sh*t that turns alot of wmn off... and why alot of 'attractive' wmn are single. Alot of these guys are very lazy in making the effort to geniunely get to know 'attractive' wmn and learn what SHE NEEDS emotionally frm a man. The very simple answer, if youre an attractive wmn and you're struggling to find a man, either date out or date older, because usually, the men in your immediate circle just simple cant afford you. **shrugs** Sorry, to say it, but this worked for me. lol 😆 😆 lol 😆 😆

Thank you Bro Tony for laying down the Barber shop talk to us. I love this ‼️❤️💯

I saw the title and I know this is going to be good🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🔥🔥🔥. Ready for this knowledge!!!

Great video Tony, and this totally makes sense. Working on the 3 B's consistently so I can attract what I want. I would love a continuation of the Single & Ready series...I have no idea where to find eligible singles.

You Are Spot On Tony ! Unrealistic Expectations for Both Women/Men ! We bought into the Fairytale!

This message, so glad I was represented in the many examples..got clarity and wisdom, thanks Tony🙏

Yasssssss a long video!!!! Im ready to take notes 📝

This message made me stop and listen. For me this is the most valuable insight that I have personally been able to receive and apply to my own life. There are so many key takeaways. Like he said, some will get what he is "not" saying and read in-between the lines. This answered life long questions that I have been seeking answers since I was a child to the 33 years of age I am right now. I learned so much - from the way I view myself; my perceptions vs realities; personal dating experiences; and why I stay in relationships too long that no longer serve me. Thank you, Tony Gaskins, for your wisdom, insight, discernment, and obedience to God's instructions for your life.

Im listening Tony. And I can absolutely own that. Im still working on becoming the best version of myself. If I was to be in a relationship today I wouldn’t be operating from my best self. Get the knowledge ladies! Its okay NOT to settle, it’s okay to need to talk to someone, it’s okay to question yourself. But be intentional and lets hold ourselves accountable

As a slow starter in dating, I realized my values were stronger but what guys portrayed was confusing. I did not experience dating boys in HS because I was looking for an outlet to accomplish my goals. My desire to become educated was my main focus. My first relationship happened at 24. I experience a powerful connection with this man. My boyfriend at the time was a hard worker . He was decent looking but I overlooked that only because he said and did the right things to know that I was his. At the time, I was a college student. I was very active and outgoing. To most, I was very attractive to other men and this made my boyfriend furious. I did not see this as a red flag and did not know that his insecurities would cause our relationship to fail. I never knew what insecurity looked until then. This relationship did not make any sense because we wanted different things. I thought I share an experience. Thank you.

Be blessed Sir. I love you!

Great video Mr. Gaskins! When we are tired of being single we also have to learn to create a space for the person we want. Independent women/men become tooo independent. 🌹

The negative stereotype of attractive women and men is very unfair. This is their God given face/eyes/lips/body yet people are scrutinizing them for what they were born with. I personally have been labeled pretty and beautiful for the most part of my life but I've never had doors handed to me. I have never made a list of what I want like many women do which to each its own. Attractive women /men main issue is the very thing they get hated on. You get people that see you as candy to look at and to display but don't want to know you personally/internally. I never thought as I become 30 there will be SO MANY RULES AND STIPULATIONS of dating to be married. I literarily feel great being single right now.

Real talk- this was a really good conversation. This is the first time I tuned into this channel. I am honestly saying I didn't know who Tony Gaskins is/was, but this conversation is literally a conversation that I have had with myself and my inner -circle so many times. It is hurtful to hear, but absolutely necessary to speak on. I will definitely tune into this channel again.

We´ve been needing this video for so long already! I was getting a bit confused this past months. Thank you Tony and thank you Lord to keep Tony going. 😇

I understand. I agree. I am a plus size women.i know not to go after a fit man until I take my health care with discipline. I'm 5ft. I no longer want a 6ft man. As long as your taller than me at least 2 inches I'm good.

Been waiting to watch this all day after work. Taking mental notes! Literally a whole Masterclass 👌🏾✨

As always Tony, thank you for your wisdom and lay it out like it needs to be laid out. I am grateful. Keep it coming...the longer the better...I am taking it all in. Thank you for you obedience and time Tony. It is much appreciated.

Extremely deep! I am thankful I invested the time to listen. It’s 02:30 in the UK 🇬🇧. Keep up the excellent work. Thank you. 🙏🏽

i'm single because i want a man who can support me in the life i want to give myself. i will create that life with or without a man. i want a man but there are BOYS out here, not MEN.

I must say Tony, you are extremely conscious of your words when delivering a sensitive message. I find that super praiseworthy! Not to mention, I love the humor you throw in every now and then! Lol

I hope this message blessed everyone love your content Tony n Mrs Gaston you Rock hugs to the beautiful children many more blessings in this new year amen 🙏🙌.

All I can say is I’m super grateful for this video! This is pure gold and 100% the truth thank you for being straight up and giving us a man’s truthful perspective.

Stay single as long as you can! We’re living in critical times, hard to deal with…the last days! It’s not worth the energy, time, or money. Love 💕 yourself and appreciate who you are becoming. Get a circle ⭕️ of friends you can relate to.

A lot of people don't do well with too many options.

To me this makes complete sense, I appreciate this, as I got a lot from it and will refer back to it. I think sometimes we need a reminder and be made aware of our own actions and decisions and how they can greatly affect opportunities for ourselves. If we can be truly real wit ourselves and look within to see what we may need to work or focus on it only be positive and create opportunities for blessings and true connections, apose to trying to play someone we ain't. And by doing so we only fooling ourselves and blocking what's meant for us. At the end of the day we ain't in competition with no one, but wit the person we were yesterday (my believe).!!! ♥️♥️♥️

T. Gaskins what a word that needed to be delivered 🙌 you stepped on my toes a couple of times, but I receive it and needed to hear it! Thanks for all that you do! God bless!

“Oooh i love that forrest whittaker the way that eye squint” 🤣😂🤣😂🤣

I'm listening with my feelings out of the way!!

Thanks Tony! I appreciate your rawness and honesty. All you said are all valid FACTS!

Point,Blank,PERIOYYD!! I need to sign up for a one-on-one section b/c I'm 39yrs old woman with Standards,morals,values.I hve 2 grown kids an I need a outside person not related to me to help me see where are my missteps!! Be Blessed family Thank you Mr.Tony Gaskins

Now this is the most accurate breakdown of what’s going on in 2022! Profound!

Hi I just want to say I appreciate your video, men and women need to open their mind and hearts, beauty is skin deep its sad to see so many females out here feeling like they need to look perfect in order to deserve love.

That video session was fabulous and raw. Thank you Tony. Some parts made me say ouch, but this is what I am looking for to correct and give me insight. I will be looking into ‘me life mentor’

Wow! Am listening for the second time. Am not where i need to be and am working on myself to reach where i need to be. Thank you Tony.

Tony, we need a part 2 b/c this was good and needed to hear this

Tony messages always open my eyes to new ways when looking at relationships. But Tony do you recommend more women to be SAHM in order for marriage to truly work? Or at least women who don’t over work themselves in a job if their goal is to have their dream man (outside of looks, height etc) I always was desired by men but they only offered me good looks. I do want a certain type of man for marriage but I also know to be realistic when dating. I noticed you normally never see a good looking couple together because it’s much deeper than “looks”.

I really enjoyed listening to your teaching, it was very well needed. Thank you so much. 😊

Amen TG!!! Going on 6yr single & celibate. I am 46. Been listening to you for many years took your business course I am an entrepreneur

Okay, I totally agree! Would like to share my story. I am an average looking woman, and take care of myself. I have been a group fitness instructor for over 30 years, and am a former body building competitor. Yes! The men I dated back in the day that were per say... good "Eye Candy" never measured up. I didn't waste too much time with these types of guys. " FIRST red flag, " my track shoes were always nearby lol! 😅. I decided to do as you mentioned in this video, and dated a man that was kind, thoughtful respectful and of great character. He didn't make much money and that didn't matter to me. We were very young. He was such a gentleman and I fell in love with his chearther. We got married after 2 years of dating.( we were in our late 20's.) Was married for 18 years. He later got a job making 6 figures and he was a great provider. I truly loved him. We had 2 children. Our first has exceptional needs and considered a total care. Now here comes the truth after all this time that I found out years later. 1. I was not his preference. (I Didn't have a college degree) and he thought I was uneducated. He was extremely smart and degreed up. I believe I fell in love with the representative. 2. He was a mamma's boy and I often had to compete with her. His parents attended every vacation, and I was often the butt of their jokes. He was also an insecure man. I didn't know who I was because I was so young and was in love with the thought of being pursued as a catch and being married. I have owned my faults and truth in all of this. 3. Having a special needs child that required 24 hour care was a strain on our marriage. Therefore, I started my own fitness business for 6 years, training children in fitness to help financially and my mental health. It was very successful. However, I didn't get much of his support from him. 4. It became harder to be attracted to him later in the marriage, after years of passive aggressive behavior, punishments such as neglec helping with the children after arguments. I would have to get permission to buy groceries and necessities as I didn't have access to the budget. He wanted me go back to school to do real estate, and or become a nurse to have a job title. That was hard, because we would have to pay someone at least $20 an hour, 8/10 hours a day to care for our child. I had come to the realization, that I was married to a "Grown Boy. I prayed all the time and fought for the marriage/ went to canceling and everything! I worked on myself to be the best wife I could be but when you are not a preference, don't meet their expectations, and as a result of the mental emotional a*****, I filled for divorce. It has been over 7 years now. He remarried 2 years after our divorce. (Yes, she has a title.) Your videos have helped me heal on multiple levels! Thank you! I am happy and still desire to be married again. I am 56 years old I still teach fitness, as it is a gift from The Most High, to pour positive energy into others during their weight loss/fitness journeys. I currently train officers and supervisors that work for the government. I believe in my heart that The Most High has someone in store for me. Meanwhile, I am humbled, and stand in my truth and peace. I have learned so much about myself, always putting in the work wanting to be righteous in the the eyes of the Most High God! To him be the glory for my life, your platform Tony, and all you do for our community. May Peace, prosperity and joy continue to bless you and your family. 👏🏿🙏🏾😊

Thank you Tony. I'm definitely listening. I'm working out and losing weight because I refuse to settle. I want to be at a healthy weight for me that I feel comfortable at and I want a man that wants to go to the gym and try healthy foods as well. I've worked alot with my personality flaws. Like being a know it all. Interrupting when another person is talking and going from one conversation to another before actually finishing the last one off. You've mentioned that comes from not getting out and being stuck in the house to your own thoughts so when you get the chance to talk you are very overwhelming to the person you are speaking with. I see woman already in the comments with these character flaws. Men can call you beautiful all day and date you but "ARE YOU THE PRIZE" Like the title of one of your videos. I'm doing what I can today while I'm working on my tomorrow. I also donated ALL my clothes and started an up to date capsule wardrobe. I noticed me and my grandma's clothes were about the same in style and people kept thinking I was in my 40s. I just turned 34. So now I get the wear you going looking cute and men turning the heads to look back as a pass by.. I usually put my head down(still working on confidence and eye contact) Listening to understand is what a mature woman does. But I've noticed alot of women listen to find a flaw so they can say you are not talking about them (the beg to differ spirit lol) or to get fake offended so they can turn off the rest of the message. Like you have said people will go more towards working on their strengths and wonder why they are not getting strong in their weaknesses. Thanks for this video. I will be relistening to it

This was on point!!! And totally right on time from what I'm going through at this present time. And you are all the way right. Ty for being completely honest! Ty!!🔥😊

You told the truth....wheeew, I got work to do. Thanks for your honesty.

Yay .. I was praying about my single state and this came on ..

Tony is describing an attractive woman, but one who is naive and stupid. I was that very attractive woman, and, if you are intelligent, you figure out pretty quickly from all the experience of get from these men, that most men treat you like crap. Particularly the posturing ones. I've dated less attractive men, poor men, fat men, bald men, etc, because I look for personality. Looks mean shit. I am married. I know women like those you describe, and yes they are still single in their 40s, they have a bucket list with looks and money requirements, but they are also foolish, and not all attractive women are.

Thank you Tony! This message was on point! God Bless🙏🏼

Your changing so many life's Tony god bless! Thank-you so much for accepting your calling and doing it sooo well!