Why Selfish People are better for society

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@PariS-uw9we 8 ай бұрын

Felt like u narrated my life story😢 now i have become full selfish for my CA final exams coz i had to sacrifice my career for my family in d past. but nw somewhere I can feel tht de aren't happy wid me at present coz i couldn't clear CA. Nw i jus think abt my studies n nothing else. I learned dis lesson very hard way so better u teenagers learn it from dis video❤️😌

@mundaambarsariya5698 8 ай бұрын

Same here ...😂 I m the person who always cares for others ..easily don't say no to things ..helps other etc ..but it made be frustrated after multiple attempts..becoz u will find people everywhere who needs ur time ..and they don't cares about ur studies .we need to change our attitude..and become self responsibile for our time ...

@mamtasoni1906 8 ай бұрын

Same mere sath bhi same yhi ho rha hai , seriously feeling like u narrate me story in few minutes ... I am regretting now kash me 2 sal pehle khudk bare me sochti aur selfish ban jati to aj me khush hoti ... Today everybody is happy excluding me ...

@PariS-uw9we 8 ай бұрын

@@mundaambarsariya5698 exactly... My relatives toh gives example of others who have cleared that de don't use phone n don't talk to anyone n all. But wen i started doing it de couldn't digest tht n now de made me Vamp among all relatives tht she never picks d call n all😂 how these people don't remember their own words I don't understand 🤣

@PariS-uw9we 8 ай бұрын

@@mamtasoni1906 don't worry dear... It's not too late. U can also be happy... Jus keep urself as first priority 😌 everything will be fine... Ek hi toh life hain... Death bed pe regret nai hona chahiye k kaash woh karna tha n all... So go gal... More power to u ❤️

@mamtasoni1906 8 ай бұрын

@@PariS-uw9we thanks dear today I really need this msg ...

@saurabhnair8529 8 ай бұрын

Bina aukaat k aaj k time me hamare parents bhi hamari respect nahi karte........bitter truth 😮

@sonam3183 8 ай бұрын

💯 agree

@shalmalipawar9870 8 ай бұрын

Han bhai... 😢🥺 💯sahi kaha

@udaykiran8717 8 ай бұрын

Sahi kaha bhai. Main toh chutiya Bana mere mummy ko respect dekar dekar

@jyotigupta451 8 ай бұрын

100%

@neha_65 8 ай бұрын

Ha Bhai apne ghr mein hi beijati hoti h 😢

@neelthakker2023 8 ай бұрын

"Being selfish is the first step towards being selfless later." This line 🙌💯

@DominateNeet7201 8 ай бұрын

कई दिनों बाद मेरा दिल यह सोच कर रो दिया।ऐसा क्या पाना था जो खुद को खो दिया 😢 Trust me guys at end u will regret on yourself by this line Leave every body Your career will remain with u at the last breath of ur life।।

@sameersam7316 8 ай бұрын

I already lost everybody because of caring now am scared of caring or loving someone,.. I realized it very late that I don't fit in there friend ship list bcoz I couldn't achieve anything better in my lyf, I am struggling..

@shivanirajput722 8 ай бұрын

Shi kha

@anujmaheshwari3254 8 ай бұрын

ऐसा क्या पाना था जो खुद को खो दिया❤❤❤❤

@perceiving_it_shrajan_way 8 ай бұрын

"Become selfish now to serve selflessly later." - Pragmatic and relatable message. Kudos 🙌

@khanakrathore 8 ай бұрын

You need to be selfish if you want to succeed irrespective of your field... But that does not mean being rude everyone. Your nature should be down to earth. But bit selfish when it comes to achieving goals.📈🗿 That's it!

@CANEHADATTA 8 ай бұрын

Absolutely!!

@cacmafinalstudent.11 8 ай бұрын

Yesterday my friend called me and I didn't pick up the call as I have my exams few days after and I didn't want any negativity in my preparations and comparison ki tumhara Kitna hogya and all.. later , I was like ki am I being selfish? And I got the answer in this video.. thank you diii

@deeptijain6246 8 ай бұрын

Lekin koi apko doubt puche to.....

@shivamnagi1298 8 ай бұрын

@@deeptijain6246 tumse kyun puchna h doubt phone band krke padne lago ya jab free ho tab attend kro

@aayushibhandari2125 8 ай бұрын

Sabki nazro mai acha bannane se behatar hai khud ki nazro mai banjate hai 😊 Thank you didi

@pradeep8841 8 ай бұрын

"Being selfish is the first step towards being selfless later." This summarizes it all 💯

@jiyavarjani3562 8 ай бұрын

When you choose to become productive to achieve something in life....people will call you selfish, rude, arrogant.... But eventually when you achieve that goals they will start recognizing you..... So this concept of being selfish is just short term

@priyankasoni3445 2 ай бұрын

Trueee

@Krishnanjali555 8 ай бұрын

I am 19 year old ...and I have suffered a lot cause I was not a selfish person ... Now I cut all sorts of strings from people who drain my time and energy without letting them know cause no one will easily let go someone who can cross an ocean for them despite they never had cross a pond for me

@shivanirajput722 8 ай бұрын

Right sister

@Krishnanjali555 8 ай бұрын

@@shivanirajput722 I hope that your future will give you everything which your soul craved for ❤️

@dc_20 8 ай бұрын

Honestly didi, now I don't feel bad about someone calling me selfish. Thanks to Srimad Bhagwad Gita! And yes didi, thank you for creating such content, it helps and heals me a lot. Hare Krishna

@lalatendusahoo7531 8 ай бұрын

Can you please explain what bhagwat geeta says on being selfish?

@hariomhariom937 8 ай бұрын

@@lalatendusahoo7531yh jindagi karmbhumi hai or jb baat dharm ki ho toh apno se bhi ldna pdta h ...jese Arjun ji ko naa chahte hue bhi apno (korvo) se ldna pra apne karm ke liye👍

@saurabhnair8529 8 ай бұрын

Tab tak duniya k liye selfish ban jao......jab tak aap financially free nahi ho jaate.......ek baar financially free ho jaane par aap selfless ban sakte hai.......dusro k life me value add kar sakte hai 🥰

@Muhammad-yn8dt 8 ай бұрын

Jb 23-24 saal cross krte h na or financially independent ni ho te tb duniya ki haqeeqat pta lg jaty hai or complaint kya krna yahi process hai ek waqt pr zindagi ki ladai akele hi ladni padty hai

@bhavisha5465 8 ай бұрын

It may sound rude, but at end selfish ones win.. It's more of priorities than being selfish.. it's better to be selfish with what you want to do and invest your time and energy... Because once time is gone and as she said in the example as well then later you regret not taking that chance..selfish is better than regretting later.. Wese bhi nobody cares at the end you have to live the consequences of your choices , so better you choose what's best for you.. Also we need to stop glorifying being selfless, just go with what you really want in your life because you have got only one life to live, so live it the way you want and do what your heart wants... And we don't need to feel bad about choosing best for us, because what parents wanted to do they did that, what others wanted they did that, now in this era nobody thinks about you other than your parents and parents also care up to an extent.. And even if you sacrifice your opportunity for someone and crib later they will have the answer ready -humne kaha roka tha tumhe.. So better prioritise what you truly want.. Because there is no point in living the life where you didn't live the way you wanted.. Just ask yourself will I regret this later in my life.. And remember you have only one life and you can not get the time back again.. So choose wisely ❤ Your perspective may vary, consider this only if it feels right to you...

@Learner243 8 ай бұрын

I agree with you. And that line hit me "humane kaha roka tha" Very well articulated 😊

@annusharma4175 8 ай бұрын

humne kaha roka tha tumhe.. ------ Bahut chubhti hai this line when they said

@dryok 8 ай бұрын

Wonderful comment..well articulated..have heard it from friends, family & parents..jinko marne tak se bachaaya hai, khayal rakha hai, seva kari hai - humne kb roka tha? Krti apna kaam..hm log manage kr lete..jb logon ko need hoti hai to tmse saari umeedein laga ke aise dekhte hain jaise tm nhi karoge unke liye kuch to tmko hi guilt ho jaaye..aur jb kaam ho jaata hai to phir wahi - hmne kb kaha tha ye karo wo karo........wo kehte hain na - uparwaala meherban to gadha pehelwan..ye sab friends & family apna achha samay aane pe tmhe aise hi dikhaayenge jaise ye self sufficient hain..so it is always better to be a little selfish because time & tide wait for none..

@youtubeuser6974 8 ай бұрын

Glad I came across this comment. Since 2 years I had been forgotten living the life. Was escaping from myself with the scare to accept the fact of my life. Just before I was looking at my books at I studied and bookmarked this in 2021. Kisko pata tha ki Mai khud ko hi kho dungi dusro ko aur khud se crib , complain krte ,. Bas thodi since himmat dikha letii bas thodi si sahi apne andr ke dar ko bhagane aur khud ko samjana me toh Mai khudse Jeet jati. Par ye Sab shyad mere destiny mein face krna likha hua tha. Allah Miya hi ab meko himmat denge aur safal krenge Meri life mein. Thank u🤧

@Tyler_durden5259 8 ай бұрын

Her words " Dhyan rkho apna " is all someone would need❤

@lifeGoesOn_kimo 8 ай бұрын

Many times being selfish is equivalent to " saying NO " But it doesn't mean that being helpless at all 👍😇

@sanyogitasuryakant6601 8 ай бұрын

I am in that situation right now.. Have bottled up so much emotions and have started hating everyone around me.. Sometimes I feel depressed and I feel like I need some therapy and all that.. But every time I watch your video it gives me a different kind of motivation I feel like something within me is healing.. Thank you so much Neha for doing what you do.. Sending so much love and virtual hugs 🤗🤗🤗❤❤❤

@mahigarg3823 8 ай бұрын

Pta nhi kyu jho mental issue face karti hu samne mai Neha didi aa jati hai just lots of love and thankuh for everything Neha didi keep it up

@ruchis2687 8 ай бұрын

Selfless later ka toh pata nahin, par selfish ho toh hi aage badhte ho. Today. tomorrow and always : Being Self centered is 🔥

@ruchiaggarwal3678 8 ай бұрын

Exactly ...I can totally relate with you... Ek time bad log kevl humari aukat dekhte hai tumare career se.

@ritashewakramani934 8 ай бұрын

I refused to meet my friend who had come for 2 days to Mumbai on an official trip since I has to prepare for the webinar..she was upset but I knew she would cheer up😊

@Decent_lover_boy 8 ай бұрын

Soft heart❤️ people got hurt by selfish people ...

@saurabhrthakur 8 ай бұрын

Being selfish is first step towards being selfless later 💯.

@bmCommando0 8 ай бұрын

Genuineness in your every single sentence uffffff😢❤

@sanjunagpal2841 8 ай бұрын

Ryt.... I'm also facing this situation.....ab koi achha nhi lgta na ghr wale, na friends, na boyfriend koi nhi......sbka krte krte khud ko pta nhi kha kho diya h.....ab na kisi se baat krne ko na pdhne ko kuchh bhi mn nhi krta.....itni bheed me akele se ho gye h...sb jse khtm ho gya h......ek tym ke baad maa baap bhi respect nhi krte.....bitter truth ryt😢😢

@bintekhalid6902 7 ай бұрын

You are absolutely right. I did not realize it before but due to my selfless behavior and not standing for my degree completion I am in such a low phase of my life that for the husband whom I paused my degree called me a loser and now I am at verge of divorce. And the same family for them I sacrificed a lot they are not admitting that I did anything for them

@khushboodutta30 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this video! I've realized one thing in my life. People will remember only your financial support and they most often forget the time when you have supported them physically.

@VibeQueen24 8 ай бұрын

Thanks yaar.... really need this ...

@A11781 8 ай бұрын

You are absolutely right dear❤

@jayashreegayan8591 8 ай бұрын

You tell always the true reality sister...Such a real soul you are❣️

@priyanshi5954 8 ай бұрын

Sachme di aap bht ache se describe krte ho choti choti cheeje..i really like all your video 🤍🤗..finally i commented😅❤

@meenujhajhdiya9735 8 ай бұрын

You are absolutely right dii❤

@sweetyroy3867 8 ай бұрын

One of The best thing I ever did this year.. Was subscribing to your channel... You're so real... Give so realistic advice.... I can wholely relate to each and every video of yours, like it's for me..

@Successfulme01 8 ай бұрын

Thank you dear…this is totally me .now you have given me clarity

@anjalisharma-dq1yi 7 ай бұрын

Thanku so much di

@ritwikravii 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Ma'am....🙏🏻❤️

@JayantiArt 5 ай бұрын

'' dhyan rakho apna'' always touches my heart.

@CAStudent978 8 ай бұрын

Thank you Neha

@vijaymeena9959 8 ай бұрын

Thank you very much ma'am, you are absolutely right 👍👌

@bhaveshbohra2031 8 ай бұрын

Thanks a lot ma'am, this kind of video was expected from your end, finally it's here in front of us..

@bankpoaspirant5250 8 ай бұрын

Bahut relate kr rhi ho apse se

@riyaa_kakkarr 8 ай бұрын

Self love isn't selfish 🙃🥲❤️

@saurabhnair8529 8 ай бұрын

Self love means high self esteem 🔥🔥😀

@Jogeshree 8 ай бұрын

Thank you di❤

@D-vd1wo 7 ай бұрын

You are absolutely right ma'am.

@arihantjain3699 7 ай бұрын

thanks... can perfectly relate to myself... thanks for guiding di...❤

@radhikarj04 8 ай бұрын

True didi❤ thanku for your guidence❤

@vaishnaviverma2240 8 ай бұрын

I completely agree with your every single word. It's Good to be selfish sometimes for becoming SELFLESS .

@bhagyashribhendarkar7374 4 ай бұрын

Kitna sahi sochte ho aap ❤

@poorvansh_gupta 8 ай бұрын

One more lesson learnt from another day of life. Thanks for being with us. And now I am being a liittle selfish 😅😅 love from MP❤

@bharathpadiyar8670 8 ай бұрын

Thank you didi, aapki baaton se mujhe ek naya perspective mil gaya 🙂

@IamAChampion496 8 ай бұрын

Thank you Mam , that was much needed❤❤❤

@shijithjacobjohn8091 8 ай бұрын

MAAM THANK YOU SO MUCH ..... this was very helpful.... I needed this..... please continue to be our guiding light....❤❤☺☺

@beingpallavi3272 8 ай бұрын

You are absolutely right Neha san. Bottom line is only we are responsible for our future.

@SnehYadav562 8 ай бұрын

Mindblowing diduuuuu ❤❤❤❤❤ aapke hr baat samajhane ka tarika hi sbse different h ❤❤

@arpitagadia27 8 ай бұрын

Thankyouuu di for everything.... this video makes me more powerful to stick to my selfish decisions.... As being selfish person makes me later the selfless person... ❤

@Anna-pz9bg 8 ай бұрын

You are an eye opener ❤❤ god bless you always !!!

@alfiyakhan5536 8 ай бұрын

What I think is when you have wit of your own, it's a pleasure to credit other people for their🤍🤍glad u made a video on this topic cuz people should know all this and should change their mindset .thankyou ❤❤

@Bhaktmahaakalka 8 ай бұрын

Yes you are correct ma'am. I agree totaly with u. Your guidence is always fruitfull❤❤❤

@ahmedsekh 6 ай бұрын

Dear mam When you tell us " dhain rakho apna" it's hit our heart ❤️

@ankitamishralive_ 8 ай бұрын

This video is so important for me that I've saved it to watch it further again and again and again until I understand this thing 100% "Aaj selfish ho lete hain kal selfless hone ke liye"

@noname953 5 ай бұрын

This is so so true mam thank you for such guidance.

@rutujaramteke-tm6be 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much di❤❤

@its_bangashh 2 ай бұрын

Awesome video Dil pe lage apke bateen ❤

@globalexcellence7405 6 ай бұрын

Your last words in the video r heart touching ..dhayan rakho apna ..u told such a beautiful journey of life and ❤

@pankajrawat1685 8 ай бұрын

Ma'am..u r saying absolutely right. Ma'am ur lesson is based on practical life .. Thanks u very much .🙏❤❤❤

@ravikantsoni4334 8 ай бұрын

Very true words said Mam. I had already doing for myself, stealing time for myself along with the responsibilities of family, friends and my close ones. It gives some space in mind and a thought that I m living for myself as well. One more thing I have done is doing less complaints. Just face the situation and do whatever required. :-)

@sameersam7316 8 ай бұрын

Aapki vedio bahut kuch sikhati hai.. Keep on teaching.. ❤

@208_krishna 8 ай бұрын

Thank you Neha Ma'am 🙏☺️

@nandanigupta6267 8 ай бұрын

Ekdam sahi baat h di 💯🔥

@mayur_je Ай бұрын

It's individualistic not selfish whole western society is individualistic

@roshniahuja8317 8 ай бұрын

Thank you Neha for inspiring us everyday❤.

@akshaysekhar4890 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely❤

@minkalnarula26 8 ай бұрын

Pure soul❤ love you so much di❤️❤️

@Siya-zp8ik 7 ай бұрын

True words❤

@saketektate243 8 ай бұрын

Cannot agree more with you Neha on this. Even self-help content will not work in the true sense without being selfish.

@Thearmybrattt 8 ай бұрын

She is absolutely Right. Experienced it 🫶

@surendrakumar7381 8 ай бұрын

Best thought hai , didi🎉😊

@deepshikhasharma4439 8 ай бұрын

Yes mam you are definitely right 👍

@captain-Jack-Sp 8 ай бұрын

I just want to thank you😊 You have solve the dilemma I am going through

@Tsering_Diskit 8 ай бұрын

Your talks are such a great inspiration for me... Every time your talk motivated me to do my daily life things in the right way... Thank you ❤️

@Debdeep700 4 ай бұрын

So True 🔥❤✨

@sumitrabehera2003 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Didi thank you God bless you love love love 😍 😊

@poonamdhawan1183 8 ай бұрын

Thank you ma'am

@satabdipande7316 8 ай бұрын

Akdam sahi bola

@sybelaeroy7220 8 ай бұрын

The end is so sweet nd heart melting. Dhyaan rakho apna. As if she is personally guiding1:1. ❤

@KNcreations03 8 ай бұрын

According to me khudke liye kuch karna is not selfishness Selfish means jaha aapki wajah se kisko harm ho rha ho Logo ka kya hai Kahi jaao toh bolenge ...exams hai or gum rhi hai Nhi gye toh ....1 2 hrs bhi nhi h friends family k liye Just do what u love ❤that will only give you happiness

@lalatendusethi2216 8 ай бұрын

Beautiful video diii ❤❤❤

@jyotivyas9286 8 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊❤👌💐Being Selfish is Good mostly...Kaash main bhi ho paati....😊❤

@Studywithreyan 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much didi i got your point and now i feel positive😊

@SakshiiJadhav 8 ай бұрын

Dii you are very genuine and direct.. I love this thing about you so much..😇

@gulatiji0007 8 ай бұрын

Absolutely right mam Mere saath bhi yahi ho chuka h

@shadankhan7544 7 ай бұрын

Ma'am aap jiyo hazar saal . Aur aise hi baatein batate rahiye . zamaane ko aur humko aapke gyaan ki zarurat hai. literally Dil ki gehraiyo se bhi gehri hai aap ki baatein.

@meghaamaresh8414 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much didi for this video keep rocking

@LaboniDasDance 8 ай бұрын

I needed this video now , I have exams now and I was thinking to help a friend by giving study materials , ur advice saved me.I will help them later

@35priyageography57 8 ай бұрын

I completely agree with this bitter but truth mam ❤

@vaibhavprakash4487 8 ай бұрын

Well said Neha. One should give priority to him/herself whether then the surroundings give him/her the selfish tag. If you didn't make yourself happy then you can never make others happy. ❤