LMAOO that's their problem tho

I can see into your soul OwO

@@timelessninja OwO

Wahahhaa just fact

You jealous or is it a praise????

Words of wisdom .

very well said, RIP kurt. i don't know if this has been cleared but he was really high when he died maybe that's the reason no one understands the suicide note/he wouldn't have done it if he wasn't high. weird thought but yes.

Isn't our weakness tho? "Despreate to please"

@@xaviermaster1 We want others to think well of us, and we are fearful that they might think less of us for something we did, said or didnt do or say.

Same here 🙁🙋‍♀️

Right💀💀💀

same here :( still trying ill get there soon probably-

True.

Mam can you give some tips to grow as a human being an infp? I am a student preparing for competitive exams that would land me a job.

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No. You can be quite distrusting when it comes to leadership, you are lazy, too much in your emotions and very very irritating when it comes to playing victim.

Speak for yourself

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I agree and I’ve been delaying selling my art for so long…

I would add that probably ENFP understand us sexually the most.

words of wisdom

Sorry, but no. You don't just go around and share every thought with everyone. You need to be strategic and balanced otherwise you will be confronted with big surprises by assholes who just can't wait to know anything about you so they can use it against you.

Awesome description ig 90% applies to me too I can relate so well damn!!

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Same.

I think that on the internet there is a lot of unhealthy INFPs who with their comments and posts exhibit all the most harmful and embarrassing stereotypes about INFPs. But I am an INFP and... I like to be sociable, I like to party, I can take the initiative with other people, I can speak up when no one else could, I have a highly individualistic Fi dom function, but I still use A LOT of Fe and help people, think of other people and take into consideration other people's opinions...which, isn't always the best trait to have. The best thing is that all these stereotypes about INFPs, eg. crybabies, pushovers, awkwardness, extreme laziness, fictional crushes...also refer to me in big part but I actually don't brag about it on the internet, cause I don't feel a need to let all the people show on the internet who don't know me from wherever God knows they come from...I just consider it pathetic a little bit. I just don't want other people to be stuck in the conviction that all INFPs are awkward, clumsy, complaining queens, moody, egocentric, and simps for fictional characters. It isn't a thing to be proud of. It can be adorable to some people, and you still can embrace those traits to your close ones...but not to the whole internet xd and INFPs are doing that, but I realize (as an INFP) that it comes from not being understood in a real-life... Life is sad. Having in your stuck Fi-Ne-Si-Te (especially in this order) is something you didn't choose and having that you have twice, maybe triple times harder in life than other types, because of extreme emotionality, fragility, imagination and really strong bond with past. This isn't easy to deal with, and nowadays' society doesn't necessarily respect those traits. I think these days it's more about productivity, hard work, and getting a better version of yourself every day, so I think ESTJs are these role-model types of nowadays' society, and we're as the INFPs, we are an exact contradiction to that, so...out of all types we are the most "unwanted" personality in this world. And that's why life is so hard for us, and no other type can understand the additional hardships we have to deal with besides ourselves. But if an INFP...will embrace who he/she is, and learn self-love, and will use cognitive functions in a healthy way...damn, then you can be sure this will be one of the best persons you'll ever meet in your life.

well said dear

I am an infp with an infj friend. I'm so glad i can tell her anything without feeling judged. She supports my creativity too 🥺🥺

Thank you thats so nice of you

My infj brother talks to me literally all the time, and, in fact, I was the first person he told about his crush. I'm not always in the mood to talk, but he'll talk to me anyways, and I'll do what burnt out infp's do best: at least half listen or pretend to listen. He appreciates having someone to talk to. :] I like listening to him ramble too, sometimes. He has very interesting thoughts, ideas, and interests.

I was that INFP and EVERYONE did that to me. For most of my life. I couldn't handle being an emotional tampon for everyone after I turned 35 or so. It kind of broke me.

As an INFP, I first must compliment your words is more beautiful than you think is so poetic and utterly gorgeous so much more than nice, I feel like I want to take your words and use it as a script and perform on a stage.. :0 forgive me, but I love it..

Then we flip into Mighty Morphin Power Rangers!!!!!

as an infp, i can confirm that, that bullying will not last forever. everyone has a dark side, we’re going to eventually snap if the bullying continues.

@@lilonezplayz845 YOU ARE SPOT ON! BEST COMMENT IN THIS COMMENT SECTION!

@@Jusmeh ty

trueeee-

There are too many people. I already have enough made-up ones in my inner world.

I don't know why I do it because I forgot and now I'm stuck trying to befriend them again LOL

Yeah, I'm a bridge burner... not sure why.

No, it’s not “no reason”, I think he means spontaneously and suddenly. Which yes, we do in fact do after being taken advantage of far too many times.

As an e/infp, there is clear reason when infp cut people out. It looks like ‘for no reason’ coz the first step Nfp takes is staying away quietly to avoid quarrel which means wasting energy n time. If this doesn’t work, then nfp would not mind any verbal quarrel to let them know clearly, to the point of being rude.

Amen

extremely naive armchair activists with zero appreciation for logical nuance

😅😅😅

Your comment is everything I am going through rn .

I had same issue like you did and just recently cut off all the toxic people from my life, because they were trying to bring me down and is also tiring especially with people who think our kindness is fake... Like is never enough to them...

you should get top comment

Mate, I'm in your exact situation rn, but as an high school student I can tell you that, after I changed school due to family problems, I went in a class in which all the people around me at first were trying to be my friend and I was like " What a great start" but as time went by, I feel that the most of my classmates were and are still using me and my kindness, like my old class did, and I've not all the strength to pull of all my toxic friends because it's hard to me to say 'no' to them, so I really don't know what to do... Ps. Sorry for my bad English but I'm italian :D

you put it into words so perfectly

As an INFP, I've always admired ENFPs soooo much. They are such fantastic role models for me because they manage to retain all the NFP ideals and still be the star of the show, they are so friendly and tend to leave a lasting impact on me. I love ENFPs

Omg just be my friend already

TOOK THE WORDS OUT OF MY MOUTH! :D

2 sides of the same coin

I'm INFP so thank youu💜

Same. I abhor lying and don't understand why people do it so much. Hard to trust anyone once you know they've lied about something.

SAME! I told my daughter when she was about 11 that there’s nothing I can’t stand more than a liar. Told her, I’ll respect you more if you tell me a harsh truth than if you lie. So of course, she became a teen… at 15 I caught her in a big lie…. Oh my stars, she learned then to never lie like that again.

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Yes

I was bullied and alienated for most of my life - both in the academic and professionak context.

You are not alone. I was too. But we are great people, know that.

Hope you know that just because people don't understand you, doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. You're great!! Keep going!!

It was the same with me. But remember, nothing wrong with you. You are awesome

@Toltecs Gaming you guys always bully us !!!!

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Yes exactly we give people a chance. We aren’t hostile so it’s strange when people act hostile towards us. W

Yeah I usually give a benefit of a doubt. Thinking I could be wrong just because of fear anxiety. However, experience has shown me that My instincts or gut feelings about people, more often than not, turn out to be right. I find, I keep hoping that I'll be wrong About these people. the patterns that I see, and what i naturally foresee happening next.

@@wimsylogic65 i have similar experiences. You should never ignor it when you feel something is not okay. I always regret it

When someone dislikes infps, it's probably because they know that the infp can see through them. Most likely toxic ppl disliking infps

Thisss^^ I feel like extroverts have a prejudice towards me bc I’m not as open towards them. I don’t like trivial talk, I’d rather talk about something meaningful and/or controversial to have a better connection with them. This is why I tend to avoid those who can’t hold a deeper conversation, seeming “out of it”. We are readers after all, ig you can say the person has to pass the vibe check before we can reveal ourselves 😅

Omg exactly!

Yeah! Like I met a girl when I did an exam and immediately connected with her whereas someone who I knew all my life looked at me like I was a completely different person

Yeaah actually maybe? INFP’s can connect deeply with the right people, and if someone senses they’re not ”that” person maybe they feel insecure..? I have an ENFJ friend who seem to feel that way about me… We’re friends because we have lots of interests and values in commmon, still I have friends who I connect with better. But so does she 🤷🏼‍♀️

Embrace it. Bad people choose hate over love. So why be bothered by a bad persons opinion

Even if you change, others will turn to also dislike you eitherway. Accept that not everyone will like or will vibe with you. We can't please everyone. I honestly stopped caring. If I'm happy, then I'm happy, no one is being harmed, their dislike is their problem. If they choose to hate you without an explanation, GIVE EM HELL 😈

I think people can hate us. I respect their choice. But we shouldn't blame us without proper grounds, and we have the right to defend when attacked.

I was annoyed when someone hated me. But now I try to respect their opinions. We are willing to accept criticism, providing appropriate grounds. I'll withdraw myself for them

Makes me anxious too~ but I've learned that the sooner we accept that, the better. It's almost always just a tall shadow cast by a small figure.

I don't hate people I just dislike them a reasonable amount.

I see all the flaws pretty much the first day I know someone. My problem is I think those flaws are "character" and have trouble figuring out exactly how much bullshit I should be expected to put up with. I'm fine with people who dislike me just flat out not liking me. Simplifies _a lot._ Someone who says "I like you" but then proceeding to not act like they like you isn't a betrayal or a surprise, it's just more bullshit to deal with.

​@@samwallaceart288look at me necroing comment threads, but... I've been a relationship with an INFP for sometime (8 years) and now i think i understands a few things... I don't think INFP's are as good at reading people as they are narrowing in on the traits in people and events they dislike. They also tend to struggle thinking others care about them when in reality they hardly trip others peoples radars. As an INTJ personally, i find her desire to wear fancy outfits and odd tastes perplexing when she talks about wanting to blend into the background, yet insists on making herself stick out. I strongly encourage you guys to stop concerning yourself with others opinions of you A. because most people don't have an opinion of you and B. most people are worthless and their opinions are even moreso. I'm hardly an optimist, but nothing is perfect and theres value in seeing the good with the bad in both people and experiences. You aren't going to get the full range of experiences and growth if you cannot handle the bad with the good. There's nothing wrong with being wrong or making a mistake, only not learning from that mistake. I know my core mission of making myself better everyday is not something you guys often ruminate or on, and i know you INFPs are far less intrigued by the idea of tearing your thoughts and beliefs to shreds in hopes you might improve, but theres an incredible amount you can gain by worrying less and directing your energy towards being the best you, that you can be. Sidenote: I don't really think my fiancee can read me well at all, but then again most people who have strong emotions about things can't. I can usually guess her thoughts though, the logic she lets drive her decisions is very different than my own, but she is predictable in her own way.

I wouldn't say that... I feel sad for narcissists who cannot see the danger of their being... 😞

@@RosheenQuynh no need to waste sad feelings on narcissists.. 🙇🏾‍♂️

@@acharich You're asking me to not be myself by not feeling sad...

@@RosheenQuynh no, I’m asking u to steward ur emotions well by not wasting sadness on someone that doesn’t even deserve it.. 🥺

@@acharich Everyone deserves compassion.

LMFAO YEAH

We don’t like most people anyway 🤣

shush.

Exactly 😂💯

True 😅🤣🤣

Same! I'm an INFP-T... It's so hard to explain to people how you feel, when you're not even sure yourself ..

So true.

Yes, totally we mirror what other people do

@@adriasorensen2249 Ohhhhhhhh so I'm not the only one who does that 🤣

Lol this sounds serial killer-y

Communication is important though! Express how you feel, for the sake of your own wellbeing 💌

Sometimes my parents tell me I know what I did wrong when I don't and that hurts. But I also do that so I guess I am a hypocrite I mean I do not have friends but I do that to people I don't like. Like Victoria.

Awwww SAME!

you can get better at it as you grow as an infp

My imagination is a curse though. I lose so much time daydreaming. Also, I often hear fully formed songs in my head from my own imagination but get annoyed when I forget them and lose them forever.

@@richardrichard688 I hum a lot. The good songs are songs that resurrect themselves 3 times in a row even after I thought I forgot them. The songs I make a point to record on the spot the 1st time i think of it tend to be mediocre and I wonder ... _why_ did I record this? But there's a whole album of melodies I enjoy time and again that are that way only in my head and are that good because they survived my forgetfulness.

If you try to imagine yourself as the best possible warrior that has to have „No mind” basically zero thoughts. It will leave you with No thoughts going on, it’s a huge relief

This is so true as a high schooler infp my classmates often look down on me because they think I have no ability to do those works or just can't do it, but that's not the case!

True. I wish I found my voice again. I got silenced by so many bad experiences I had in my life with the toxic people, narcissits and other decieving people. I find it very hard to talk publicly. When they make fun of my spelling something incoretly or if they act like what I am saying is boring - it causes me to shut down and keep quiet. Also I was and still I am getting picked up on very often. Like often I am target for bullies, online trolls, toxic people. I don't have sharp tongue to tell them something or to come with some good comeback. I can stay silent ot tell them that they are toxic but the damage is done. They bite me and took my energy and I am left for the rest of the day with bitter or angry feelings or even one nasty comment can make me cry because it reminds me of how I was bullied in past and I can't stop it. I wish I could. I wish I was able to tell them something bad in return. I do have low self-esteem because of being bullied. Can I ask how did you become more confident as INFP? What helped you?

Same story here...Sometimes it's too hard.

Its been a while since your comment but the world has gone upside down in the meanwhile and I learned it the hardway. I practice respecting myself and saying no when I need to.there is a fight going on and we need to participate in it. Maybe when we participate it's no more such chaos that we expected of it. It's a practice of having a place in this world. Have gone through the same journey as you written down here and I feel hopeful. Wish the best for you.

@@DZ-jz8bj once I was talking to a person about this feeling that I get that people are bullies and they fon't like me etc. In response he was a bit cruel but spit out truth, "nobody thinks about you". I think as infps we have to understand that people are responding to their history of trauma and not to Us specifically. That's liberating. Helps us strategize and blend in and accept ourselves. Always think of your personality as a mask. Noone sees behind it and everyone is just going by their own perspective, mostly just reacting to their own inner deficiency.

@@shallowwatersoriginal And also, fat people are treated much worse than thin / skinny people.

I do not keep my head down, soeak for yourself 😂

if someone breaks trust of INFP they are gone forever lol, it's almost impossible to get the respect back

@@antzooma yeah that’s how it is with me. Or it’s very hard to get that back. Cause friendships and love is very special to me.

@@wroman1844 well as INFP you could judge for yourself, of course if you think someone made an honest mistake you can forgive, or you may want to give people the benefit of the doubt. As the video mentions it tends to be constant breaks in trust and you realize you can't do anything but cut them out

@@antzooma that’s abit accurate but sometimes a person messes up so much I can’t deal with it anymore. Even if it’s on accident.

@@wroman1844 yeah if you feel the trust is gone then there's nothing to do :)

Totally agree

The lazy stereotype are from an INFP who will prefer to spend time in their imagination and avoid interacting with the world. It is unhealthy to hide in your imagination when there is work to do, but it is fine when it is on your own time. I believe the difference is between the turbulent type and the assertive type but I might be wrong. Turbulence is when your emotions are overwhelming and assertive is when you are able to focus and direct them (this is my own opinion from anecdotal life experience). You are talking about healthy INFPs who will work day and night to make sure they have accomplished the task that was asked of them. Maybe having so many other INFP in your life has helped you from avoiding the unhealthy behaviours, which can arise from being misunderstood and feeling isolated or even mistreated. It can be really unpleasant to try and please someone who is critical and never satisfied with your work, this can trigger unhealthy responses towards that person and snowball if you value them (my mom was like that) and are never able to please them no matter how hard you try or how good your work is. Strangely I overheard her talk about what a good worker I was and that I did an excellent job when she did not know I was there. I was in my teens and this helped me change my feelings, I knew she was critical of me to get my best, she just failed to ever give me positive feedback as encouragement. Eventually once I was an adult she did start to acknowledge my hard work and accomplishments, we developed a much better relationship as a result.

I’m the INFP that is bad with deadlines 🙂 I work hard but I know that all deadlines are fabricated and they just don’t motivate me. It has been a constant struggle in school and work. Being a people pleaser makes it easy to get burned out and depressed and then deadlines REALLY don’t matter. Other people perceive me as lazy and they might be right, but it’s too bad that this perception affects other INFPs

I would say "distracted" rather than "lazy".

All the other replies above are great. I'd like to add my thoughts as an INFP. When I'm getting paid or when other people are really depending on me to complete a task, I'm on top of it and get it done in a reasonable amount of time. If a task is solely mine, where it's something personal and affects no one else directly, then that's when I tend to procrastinate, which looks an awful lot like laziness.

The mindset to have

I think that's a really good thing

I have autism too

While I'm really good at reading people pretty much as soon as I meet them, I still struggle to find someone I can really open up to. A lot of people just up and leave me the moment I was just letting them get to know me. Always because of other life stuff I know for a fact had nothing to do with me, but the timing still feels somehow personal like, "No, _you_ don't get that." Bruh.

Your comment is heartwarming !! Thank you for sharing your experience with us . Fellow INFP & HSP

Oh wow! It makes me happy to hear you seem to have found your place in life as an INFP. May I ask in which ways you connect the most with Jesus? How does He use you as an INFP Christian? I'm really eager to hear your wise advice, since as an immature believer and INFP I really struggle to find my place in the church and what the Lord wants me to be like.

Yes, share your story, wise one!

That's awesome. Reading your comment made me feel better. Could you send out some of your positive vibes to an INFP who struggles? 🤗

God bless you! Yes, I understood it as well in my adult life, because in school it hurts a lot when somebody didn't like you just because you exist. I was bullied through all my school years, but actually it made me stronger. I also found my peace in faith in Jesus.

Same🤧

as an older infp it doesn't make me feel depressed yet i agree with everything in the video. as you grow as an infp you learn how to get better at some things and learn to let other things go that are out of your control

Story of my life

Same

To humilliate their mindset publicly, is what comes better for curing that. So whatever drives this toxic behaviour inside them gets pwned and exposed so everyone else knows their flaw any time they be thinking to repeat it again against anyone.

Not really. People don’t like immature INFPs because they’re flakes, can’t take being teased, can’t take a joke about themselves well at all, make everything about overly-feely stuff and a lot are actually very fake and pathologically lie and cheat in relationships. I’ve known 3 narcissists who were INFPs - the personality disorder. Anyone can be one regardless of Mbti type. I’ve never been in a romantic relationship with one or slept with one. Usually end up with ENFPs, INFJs, other ENTPs. The worst types as friends or lovers in my experience have been: ESFP & ESTP. That’s the dark side stuff. I’ve had good relationships with INFPs besides that pattern of the above I’d noticed. I’m an ENTP though so I’m bound to be seen as antagonistic or high conflict, even when I’m not because I am an actual lie detector. I think you’ve written some decent things though btw. Not totally dissing you. I agree with your approach to life for the most part. You seem a good person.

@@wetwhistlinwillyjohnson5743 Do you know all what happened those as you call them "immature INFP" ? What may seem to you as being "flakes", can't take being teased, can't take a joke, it can be in reality that what other see as joke / teasing is for them unpleasant not because they can't take a joke, but because it touches their deeper wounds or reminds them some trauma from past. Every person can be fake, lie and cheat no matter what personality type it is. And when it comes to narcissists - thats not pure INFP person. They are disordered and they do not wish to make world a better place. Need to take that in consideration.

Lots of people dislike me and I dislike them back but they do not leave me alone. I wish they did but if someone I did not dislike did not like me then that would make me sad.

Facts!👍

@@bastienx3420 I agree with that (:

Indeed.

Im an INFP too and i can tell most of the INFP's are not lazy just unmotivated. Sadly a lot of us have this problem and it often leads to depression.

Indeed - it's good to let you out. And I hope you find peace

No you don’t need to be always nice and kind. I’m not either and nothing defines us all wholly anyways. I see a lot of memes or writing about how Infp’s want to help everyone and do things for others almost as if we were selfless. That would be nice but not reality usually.

Hey... fellow infp here. I know exactly where you're coming from. I've struggled with that as well. It was really hard for me but I realized that no matter how much good I do/ how nice I am I'm still a really bad person. In relation to the ten commandments (including you shall not lie, steal, lust, hate(Jesus said that lust and anger are just as bad as adultury and murder)) I was not at all good or kind and I was headed for hell (eternal spiritual death apart from God) rather than where I am headed now - eternal spiritual life with God. Only because Jesus has paid for my sins on my behalf on the cross I can be genuinely kind and unselfish. I realized that I couldn't be unselfish without Jesus (I'm still not perfect, but when I do wrong things I tell God I'm sorry, ask for forgiveness, trust that Jesus has saved me already, and try not to do it again.) If you have any questions at all, feel free to reply, and I'll answer as best as I can!

I think that's what makes you a good person. Maybe you don't feel like you are nice, but you definitely are not a bad person if you are feeling this troubled now. Of course you won't like everyone, or will say/think bad stuff about others, especially if you are feeling more emotional at the moment, but nobody is perfect, recognizing your errors and trying to do something about it is what makes you a better person than you think. Also, you are young! I'm not that much older but yeah, when I was a teen I could be really nasty at times, but it's not uncommon for teenagers to be like that from time to time.

@@lazyval27 thank you for your words , im feeling much better now :))

It's taken me a long time to figure out the correct amount of oversharing. Generally I try to read the room and share what can be made funny. Making it about humor and shared humanity helps avoid over-complaining and also gives me something to shoot for that isn't "dead silence". Trauma can be constructive rather than merely descriptive.

You know, I tried that for years on the basis that it would tend to open people up so they could share. But for some reason, in recent years, people started telling me, "This is not about YOU!" So.....I'm burned. What can I say? Maybe it's best to say something like, "I know someone who went through this and ..."

@@kalulu1675 That's a common issue Scenario A: people are talking about many things in the abstract: *good time to share your own story* (albeit remembering to read the room and keep it to the details you think will fit into the current conversation) Scenario B: one person is airing an on-going, emergent grievance yet unresolved: *bad time to share about yourself* because it downplays what is an urgent matter (to them, at least). And if people clearly aren't stopping to hear your point, it's just not the right moment and there's no shame in pinning your thought for later

@@samwallaceart288 That's a good perspective on two different scenarios. I'll have to think about that one.

Reminds me of one of the bosses I had. Sheeeesh. Crazy women everywhere.

Why do these nutjobs exist?

Good shit 😂 that’s something I would totally do. Same here I’m nice to everyone but someone people don’t like me . At my uni campus club my friend and I saw 2 of our old flatmates in 1 st yr. they walked passed me and hugged my other friend. I was like ok cool Fuck U in my mind. I’m telling u it’s bitches that do the most. I’m nice 2 everyone if u respect me and I respect u that’s it. Plain and simple . Sometimes I can get blunt as f or authentic I would like to say coz everyone is afraid to say it.

I have exactly the same problem! I wish I could just send to others (maybe in telepathic way) the picture or my feelings for them to understand. No matter how hard I try to explain how I feel, it looks like my words can't go throught them. I don't know why.

@@DZ-jz8bj yeah! its so frustrating cause i know what im saying makes sense or is smart but cause i can never get the words out correctly they always looks at me with the "uh huh..sure" look and it low key hurts XD

I Finnish everything/but dont do well with fresher/yet I put lots on myself/just take lots of breaks!

@@gentianvandewerken929 the last few years I am trying to make difficult things into routine... but I can finish as well...just am a bit slowlier at times

Me too

As an INFP who struggles with being an overthinker and who sets standards for myself I can't reach to then beat myself up over not reaching them ... I needed to read this, thank you

This is very sweet :') Those must be the reasons INFP has the stereotype of being depressed XD It's hard to control those thoughts (and they might be the main reason I actually became depressed :') but it's super nice to read another person talk about their point of view of those behaviours Thank you so much 💞💞💞

This comment is one of the reasons why I like INTJs. Thank you, insightful stranger!

@i .candy I agree with your first sentence; Gotta love good self esteem. Anyway, it's true that all types has self esteem issues, yes, even I do too. Though the problem is that it just seems as if the INFP type is more prominent and particularly deeper (Correct me if I'm wrong, this is opinionated) with the issues that I mentioned, which are the ones I get very concerned about. Sorry about the speeches lol, I do that too, though I wouldn't particularly consider it as 'jumping all over you', could you please give me an example? I didn't really understand your last sentence. In my opinion, INFPs are very agreeable and I often ask them for their opinion when I do something out of the mundane

@i .candy They're talking about our Fi-Si loop. Sure, other types can be perfectionists as well. But we have a tendency to enjoy our own misery, so to say. Right now, you are the one making excuses for your own behaviors by directing the problem on others instead of being introspective about it. That is an excuse. And obviously, not everything we do is always wrong in people's eyes. Did you not see how this INTJ has compassion for us and is sadden that we belittle ourselves more than anyone can do? Your perceptions are... well only YOUR perceptions of yourself. Most of the time, I'm sure people don't think bad about you as much as you already do in the first place. Of course, I'm not saying this with any bad intention to hurt your feelings, fellow INFP. I just want you to understand that most of the time, and no matter the type, we are our worst critique in life. Change the rhetoric in your head. Talk to yourself with kindness everyday. It will be hard at first but will become an habit slowly but surely. It's a start. We can only change ourselves. 💜 Sorry for any mistake. English is not my main language. 😅

I'd love to know the full story 😂

Lmao, tell us more

Yes! I have the solution for literal world peace, given to me by Jesus Christ, and I cannot do it alone. The plan is to befriend your literal neighbours, then gently encourage them to be friends with their literal neighbours. Then the overlapping circles of friendship = world peace. I have long realised that we have the solution to every problem, it's just selfishness preventing implementation. I was hopeless about that for a long time, but then I met Jesus Christ and He made it all better. He has everything under control, I just have to step back and watch Him do it, and play my part as He guides me to. I love Jesus ❤

@Toltecs Gaming np i think estjs are amazing love you

Plzz you remind me of my previous teacher...the same thing was going on!! THANK GOD SHE'S NOT MY TEACHER NOW 😒

I used to want more friends (never usually had more than a couple at once) but being quiet and reserved made me come across as antisocial I think. Ironically, it took me a very long time to discover that talking to people became easier once I stopped caring about the outcome and whether they liked me or not.

I know this kind of teacher but I will never understand them, like as a far as I know being a teacher requires you to learn basic psychology while you're in training and I honestly don't get it how some teachers are way worst at reading others compare to us. I always wonder, can't you read my mind???

you couldn’t have said it any better!! i relate to this so much like, once in high school my then best friend did something that made me not trust her anymore and that made it harder to trust ANYONE anymore… if u know what i mean.. like even tho the other people have nothing to do with it, it’s difficult to gain my trust after going through something like that with someone

@@clairoscheetos4184 I get you

Hey, thank you for your advices it really helps me. 24th March, 2024

I mean just look at spiderman (he is INFP) he made so many enemies because he always do right thing

@@xaviermaster1 I love that Spider-Man is an INFP. I can relate to him so much. Before I saw the movies (2 months ago) and found out he was an INFP, I felt shame towards who I am. He made me so much more grateful that we exist.

@@iHeartPiMore yeah but he always have a cost, he always lose someone after the battle/catch the villain

Right! We are truly better than them!

@@anandakai8028 hey since your infp i gotta ask, what do think/feel about the ukraine conflict?

It depends on how well-developed your inferior function (Te) is. If it's not developed well, sure, but if it had the chance to evolve, we are going to use that to our advantage. And if that INFP in question knows what he is doing, expect him to not only complete tasks but to also beat deadlines by a solid margin. The only thing that won't change is working under pressure, especially if it's other people attempting to force us to act like headless chickens.

I have trouble starting and finishing 😊

Relatable. (There Is so many thing that onself want to express, but will will settle with grattitude för now)

To feel comfortable with that person, to feel connected with that person, to know they are a nice person who can be trusted

Late reply but I did this once so that they could understand me better and not mistaken who I was and usually I don't do this to anyone unless I know they're a trustworthy person I wanna get close to

I’m trying to find a way to make this sound simpler, but can’t. Honestly though the second part is SPOT on, I had trouble understanding the first part.

True but it doesn't stop people trying to exploit our empathy.

@@TheAyrik Types aren’t equal to traits. Saying that all ENFPs are nice or that all INTJs are smart only leads to stereotyping. As an example, I’m an INFP who scores moderately-very low on agreeableness in the Big5.

​@@ikindajustexist520 Learn to read your natal chart . You can learn a lot about your energy signature or why you behave in certain ways . We just share the same cognitive functions nothing more than that. .

@@TheAyrik I agree that all INFPs have the same functions in the same order. I was simply saying that your functions are not related to personality traits. Also, what’s a natal chart?

How presumptuous and irritating of her. I would've used her own words against her.