Yes, i was very angry at the fakeness of the narc. I feel better now because i refused to give him any more attention. This is what he craves, now he has a narc injury and cursed out his brother for asking about me. The door is closed 🔐 and hes enjoying the Block Party. 🎉😊
@antoinettebulatao2299Ай бұрын
For all of you that have experienced this. I am truly sorry this happened. I learned and became more aware and knowledgeable about how narcissistic individuals works. I beat myself up for leaving my 20 year relationship for this clown of three years. I got out. You all did too. Big lesson learned and don’t blame yourselves. I blamed myself after the break up because i am a smart and wise woman and i couldn’t see the manipulation and betrayal. Now 5 months in my healing journey, i no longer blame myself. It was him. Toxic pattern he lived. I am happier and at peace. Stay strong all of you. We got out and we are free now.
@adriennebell5552Ай бұрын
I watched this three maybe four times...each time I watched it I picked up something new...I was truly letting everything sink in because it felt like you were speaking to me. I divorced him over a year ago and yes, I was mad as hell with myself because I ignored ALL the red flags and there were many! Never again. I'm working on and loving on myself. Thank you for the VERY impactful message!❤❤❤❤
@WeavToldMeАй бұрын
Thank you for watching and following along. Stay inspired! 🙏🏾
@HopeFaithExpect77Ай бұрын
Been 7mos. Was w her 8.5yrs. She discarded me for some simp way lesser new supply she monkeybranched to & did it by a text. Coward. Yeah was real angry a while but now....am @ indifference stage & its marvelous but took a helluva lot of work to get here. Yall can do it too. ✅
@WeavToldMeАй бұрын
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@orvelorten55868 күн бұрын
Damn right I'm angry, Weav, and very disappointed in myself for putting in so much and receiving so little, always making excuses for her and trying to fix her problems. I'm out now with my head held high, shoulders back and slowly moving forward. Once I truly re learn and reclaim my worth it's gonna get interesting.
@WeavToldMe8 күн бұрын
Stay inspired!
@Ms.B.WarrenАй бұрын
Ha! 7 to 10 business days! I wish. More like years and years...😢 But there IS light at the end of that tunnel. And I am now a better version of myself having endured and overcome!!! ❤
@WeavToldMeАй бұрын
Keep growing!
@Payday-ky7mbАй бұрын
I’m more angry at myself because I knew better and after twenty one years of marriage then finally divorced. I made a mistake and didn’t react.
@WeavToldMeАй бұрын
Lesson learned
@Tyson-tz2jrАй бұрын
It's been over two months and I'm still extremely pissed off. Thinking about everything she did to me. The lies, the verbal and physical abuse. Hell, she even met a guy when I was at a funeral. And I took her back after that like a fool. And just like you said, I saw the red flags at the very beginning, but I jumped in anyway. Never again!
@WeavToldMeАй бұрын
Lesson learned. Stay inspired!
@antoinettebulatao22993 күн бұрын
@@Tyson-tz2jr You will feel like that for a few months because that’s part of your healing in the beginning you are angry as they waste your time when they were up to no good. Just remember that you are the survivor. now, it is your time to heal, be angry if you want , feel what you feel, express your feelings, it will be better in time and just remember that you don’t have to worry about her foolishness and you are at peace. Focus on your happiness and as much as it hurts you are better off without her. Remind yourself that you are a good human being and give yourself a long time to enjoy yourself. It has been six months in my healing journey and it gets better in time I didn’t see that in the beginning because I was so angry with my ex narcissistic boyfriend. I am in peace and enjoying myself.
@Tyson-tz2jr3 күн бұрын
@@antoinettebulatao2299 Thank you 😊
@antoinettebulatao2299Ай бұрын
As always, Weave delivered once again. He has been with me in my healing journey and it has been 5 months now. Thank you for your support
@WeavToldMeАй бұрын
Ty for being here
@sherrymshephard-massat5929Ай бұрын
I agree whole-heartedly. I believe, though, that society teaches that you're a weakling if you let a hurt or a harmful event get too deeply into your emotions; too far under your skin. I only had one friend that would tolerate me bringing up the subject of my pain because the others would sigh, and hem, and haw, and give alot of "why don't you just forget about this dude? Why are you still giving this time and energy?" That's how we're conditioned to deal with heartache; just act like it isn't happening or didn't happen at all. I always thought that that way was the most harmful. I always thought that I would always be held prisoner by the situation if I didn't let myself physically and spiritually process the events of our time together unbiasedly, examine it like putting together a puzzle. See things the way they actually happened and not just the way I 'saw' them. Sometimes the pieces didn't quite fit but now, since I've done the work, that's okay. With acceptance, I wake up everyday saying to myself, "Whew! It feels good to be free in my mind, body and soul.
@WeavToldMeАй бұрын
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@antoinettebulatao229923 күн бұрын
I keep revisiting this video and it just gets more powerful and emotional and encouraging to feel and heal at the same time. When I am angry at the ex narcissist boyfriend , I revisit this and others of many videos that Weav delivers
@WeavToldMe23 күн бұрын
Thank you! 🙏🏾🖤
@foreigneverything2642Ай бұрын
💪🏾💪🏾🤟🏾🤙🏾🤞🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 dropping them jewels💎💎 on em per usual, WEAV is the 🐐☄️
@WeavToldMeАй бұрын
🙌🏾Ty for following along!
@melissalavrisa40553 күн бұрын
He was angry. I was calm. He was hurtful. 2.5 yrs and he threw it at me that i "invited myself over" Not his girlfriend" it was all for the sex " for him. Totally hurt. I left. NC for me for a month now. I realize i was the one putting in all the effort,and he took what ever he could get. I was do stupid. Hes 55, I am a nurse. His loss
@WeavToldMe3 күн бұрын
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@erikas9945Ай бұрын
Well said facts
@WeavToldMeАй бұрын
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@mortischahicks5341Ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@WeavToldMeАй бұрын
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@senatorarmstrong9459Ай бұрын
*Or ran when things started getting a little hard*. Those people, be they a man or woman, always run to someone else and paint us to be this monster, this villain, when we try to work on the bad, they throw away and use the new supply as a band-aid( bandaids dont hold forever😂😂😉). Use the anger as energy, fuel, power, to become stronger, better, than what you used to be. If they comeback, show them what they threw to the wind was something good. Now comes the decision, take em back? Or keep walking down the street to better and them get to oh so watch you go?
@WeavToldMeАй бұрын
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@orvelorten55868 күн бұрын
@@senatorarmstrong9459 keep on walking...they deserve none of your precious time or attention.
@charleshess3939Ай бұрын
Perfectly timed...I thought my current feelings of resentment were unhealthy... #ImPissedAtMySelf #ItsAllMyFault #HealthyFuel #RightSynergy #CherishingAloneTime ❤
@WeavToldMeАй бұрын
One day at a time 🫡
@rosalynarrington6818Ай бұрын
Oh yeah I was mad at my salf ( but not now thank you so much)
@WeavToldMeАй бұрын
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@TrinaTrina17Ай бұрын
Thank u
@WeavToldMeАй бұрын
Stay strong!
@antoinettebulatao2299Ай бұрын
I love it. The block party. Hahahaha. Glo up !!! Continue with your healing ❤️🩹.
@antoinettebulatao2299Ай бұрын
For all of you that have experienced this. I am truly sorry this happened. I learned and became more aware and knowledgeable about how narcissistic individuals works. I beat myself up for leaving my 20 year relationship for this clown of three years. I got out. You all did too. Big lesson learned and don’t blame yourselves. I blamed myself after the break up because i am a smart and wise woman and i couldn’t see the manipulation and betrayal. Now 5 months in my healing journey, i no longer blame myself. It was him. Toxic pattern he lived. I am happier and at peace. Stay strong all of you. We got out and we are free now.