I misunderstood then. Sigh. My brain. Thank you for letting me know!!

but the news article in the beginnings says she was the writer? 😮 I'm also confused haha

No? She was def the writer. So far it seems like no one really knows about the alleged partner fame-wise and shes noted multiple times as a comedy writer.

She was listed as a writer for the show.

Now I’m wondering what happened to Benji.

Yes. It looked abusive from both sides to me.

Agree, I didn't know if his reaction was a turning point or a normal reaction on their relationship

Reactive abuse is something I'm personally familiar with. It's much more complicated than people realise

@@HobieInTheBox of course. You can only hurt someone so many times before they start to fight back.

​​​@@SnapeArgento he totally flinched at 4:35 and then later too. But they both need help

Not as much as her partner endangered by pulling her out if the seat well she drives

@@Necrophyllis. first of all: she wasn’t driving. He did that as soon as she stood still in that intersection. Second: yes. It was stupid. He should have just jumped out and gotten out of there BUT SHE PUT HIM THROUGH THIS ABUSE FOR HOURS!! You’re not thinking logically anylonger by then. There’s a reason she’s the one charged.

@Lunadeus333Still doesn’t make what happened ok.

​@Lunadeus333 thank u for sharing insight, she seems so disrespectful to him

IKR like the way she was smacking him

I don’t want to come off as stupid but I just want to clarify- are you saying that SHE is defending herself by saying he’s killing her???

@@brittneybabeee4031 I realize my comment needs clarification I’m saying she’s wild for saying he’s killing her while I see it as self defence, he clearly wasn’t killing her I believe it was drama for whoever was on the phone. Granted like said in this video we don’t know full context. I initially saw him grabbing her as self defence but who knows maybe they’re both abusive to each other. Regardless they both need serious professional help. Hope that clarifies.

Same.. being pushed to your limits is so painful and scary.

Same... she's honestly lucky bc I'd have snapped tf off and I scare myself when I get to that point

He wasn't scared. He was annoyed.

@@brijmsn are you speaking because you’re the victim because if you’re not, you have no idea how he felt in that moment and you can’t read his mind so don’t suggest you have any clue what he was feeling

@@emilylawless89 If he was scared he would have asked her to pull over and got out of the fucking car. Instead he needed to assert his dominance to show her her place. Thats why he kept calling her the C word. If he was genuinely afraid he wouldn't be talking like that.

FR

Agree. Seems like she's not used to getting her hair pulled.

​@@apriljk6557 she doesn't seem scared. More surprised.

knowing her this theory is entirely possible

​@tatiana4050 Yup, she definitely didn't sound distressed. Unfortunately I've seen women in those situations and this did not seem like that at all... she was more shocked he was brave enough to touch her back than scared he'd actually hurt her.

Textbook narcissistic biatxhh!!!!

I regret looking at the rest of the stream. That was so disturbing and unsettling.

Does no one else feel like she thought it was funny he was fighting back and it didn’t really hurt her and she just wanted people to feel bad for her?

@@gabimaza780 that's how narcissistic females maintain control to the outsider they are the victim period but this one let the mirror slip

@@gabimaza780 Yeah her reaction definitely sounded like she was exaggerating for the camera. I'm sure it did actually hurt but she appeared to play it up a lot, especially when she started screaming about how he was killing her??? I get the impression she wanted to make herself out to be the victim. Especially since she's the one who posted it, I would imagine that in her mind it was evidence of her being abused rather than something incriminating herself.

Alright, n assumin kids arnt involved/affected. Some ppl r fundamentally broken. Beyond repair. Isn't it better dey end up wit up some1 else beyond repair den wit a "normies". Yes some realtionships have toxic elements but both ppl really do love each other n arnt deliberately tryn 2 fuk wit der partner. Also in rare rare very rare cases, a physically abusive or verbally abusive partner can change. I know personally but don't want 2 say anything else on dat. All Im sayin in realtionships der sometimes start abusive but later it's been more den 15 yrs, since an act of abuse happened. Its very rare but I think if 2 ppl love each other n want help with der realtionship dats der business. I have a hand disability dat makes typin painful n usually my partner is asleep wen I'm usin Reddit so I can't scream at da talk to text which is required cause of my speech impediment so I use phonetic shorthand dis is a copied message to

@@itchild5803no. I feel if someone is “broken and beyond repair” (which isn’t necessarily true) they should be alone and work on themselves than end up with another broken person. It amplifies the suffering.

That's what I heard as well. She said IF I had seen you connect your hand to his body, then it doesn't matter whether or not he wants to press charges, she HAS to arrest her.

Same She did say “If you would have hit him in my presence”.

Yea it didn't seem like the cop saw anything. Not to play devils advocate, but you can't make an arrest off something you didn't see

I also heard the if from the cop

Right, it seemed she was just making hitting motions but not making contact, and the cop was warning that if she actually hit him she'd be arrested

No fr I'd have done worse... I'm surprised he didn't actually break her jaw or something in that moment. My personal anger issues would have sent her to the hospital, ESPECIALLY if I had the patience enough to tell the person to STOP hitting me SEVERAL times first...

The way she went from raging at him to calmly talking to whoever that was on the live stream is genuinely SCARY. She's not a safe person and I hope they just get away from each other and leave each other alone for good.

@brooklynnbailey4356 maybe you should work on that lmfao having that much issues with anger sounds like a weird thing to brag(?) about

@@brooklynnbailey4356 If you're not joking please seek help. Nothing wrong with self defence but you seem pretty overjoyed imagining hurting someone.

No husband cheated therfore he loses all rights as human.

Spot on! Been there and through this all myself. Remember that Eminem song with Rihanna? That verse, "Next time imma tie her to the bed and set the house on fire" yeah that was his favorite line to use because at the time, this song ("Love The Way You Lie") was popular. My ex was actually on parole and he had caught new charges out of county and out of state, called me to get him from the police station on a Saturday night @ like 11:00pm, before his PO was notified and bring bail money. $1,000 cash to be exact. I was working double after double at my job as a Patient Care Technician on the mental health floor of the hospital. He'd take my car, numerous staff would witness marks on me and I always had a reason, an excuse for fingerprints around my wrists, forearm, biceps and my neck. He'd sit outside my job waiting for me. He switched our bank account cards because Wachovia bank cards looked the same back then and he had been withdrawing money sporadically from my account and knew that I would never use my bank card unless I was taking money out of the machine. He started using substances daily (we'd occasionally be "rolling face" on the weekends, I'll admit it but I was very careful about substance use because I am in recovery and could've been hit with a random test from my job at anytime) Well, when I bailed him out, driving from New York to Connecticut in the middle of the night on my day off, right after getting out of the shower, he gets in the car nonchalantly and friendly to the cops, I started driving and BOOM! FIST 👊 TO FACE! He was screaming that I told his sister and I kept saying that she called me and told me what happened and where you were. Didn't matter. I was so used to being treated this way that I tried to unalive myself that night. For 2 days, he watched me vomiting in my sleep, unconscious and did nothing because he didn't want to be sent back to prison. Thank God my coworker and big sister like best friend from work had called me to check on me and was waiting for me at our job. When he answered my phone, she knew something was wrong and demanded to know what's going on or she was going to call the cops and trace my phone to me. It got him scared enough to fill the tub with cold water and place me in it and I was out of it but responsive enough to go to a hospital close to where I worked but that didn't have a mental health floor or affiliated with referral service to one. While they were checking me out, they had to make my ex leave because he kept answering questions for me and he was "aggressive towards the staff and there were questionable markings on my face and body". He actually left the hospital and met his dealer while I was alone in there. This was 72 hours into what I had attempted and failed at doing. My best friend/coworker who called was onto my ex's game at this point and she coached me best she could of what to say to avoid losing my job due to the entire situation. I'm editing the best I can, so just imagine what was occurring, as I feel like you can relate. When they finally let me go, he jumped on my bail, so that grand was gone and as I was trying to recover, I had to drive around looking for him because his family was constantly placing pressure on me to financially take care of him and they refused to really help at all, except for his older sister. Now, I been the loyal girlfriend while he was locked up before (twice, both bids) and I ended up finding him and his parole officer was enraged at me because "the longest and most stable (my ex) had ever been was with me and for 9 months, you looked me in the face and lied about what he was doing to you!" .... I ended up having a miscarriage, finding out I was pregnant after he went back in and had to max out his bid and start new felonies charges he had received. I couldn't continue the relationship anymore. My parents got involved when on a county jail visit, we're allowed to hold hands and hug before/after visitation, my ex had grabbed my wrist and smacked me across the face for not doing something right, I don't remember what I had done but I was 19 years old and back home with my parents who were pissed off and my Ma called the jail and the C.O. that was watching visitation admitted to seeing me crying and they watched the tape and needless to say I refused to press charges on him. I was banned and he was sent to "the box" for a month. A couple years later I ran into my ex coworker from a previous job and he had always liked me, he could tell I wasn't doing well and he was like that strong, caring person I desperately needed. Fast forward to present day, now we're married, have our own home and we have our precious daughter. I'm still dealing with C-PTSD due to numerous things that I have been through but everything I shared was just a snippet of the type of things that I had been through. Before I was with my ex that I had just discussed, I was with someone from a "rehab romance" which I DO NOT EVER SUGGEST ANYONE GO THROUGH BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT SUCCESSFUL! I am sharing this because I don't want to appear like I'm innocent and virginal. I made a lot of mistakes and learned the hard way. If anyone can relate please, please, please call the Hotline # that @bluephoeenix posted in the comment above. Your life is worth living happily, "normally", free of fear and having to walk on eggshells all the time.

My ma acted like this with me when no one else was around, acted like an angel in public

Lmao samezies

Mine too 😔 She will never change. I've been dealing with the trauma for decades.

Same.

I'm sorry your mom was this way. Mine, unfortunately, was like that too.

really who?

@@Lanaaaaa45 James Ward-Nichols aka "Jimmy The Christian"

Thats just pathetic.

Oh 100%. They've both been abusing each other for a while. There's zero chance she just started abusing him because of the cheating. Now i have no idea who the initial perpetrator was but Jesus H Christ... crazy all around

Pigs do be kinda THTOOPID.

She didn’t make contact. The cop said that was the only reason she wasn’t getting arrested.

Yeah thats why cops are jokes. They typically disregard abuse victims

But she also threatened his life if you didn't hear her

@@jeannabeckman7424 oh yeah for sure that’s why I say still insane they didn’t go ahead and detain her

Even if her hand did touch him, that is irrelevant. Predominant aggressor policies. *_That_* is why it is so rare for female perpetrators of DV to be arrested, because law and policy requires police to gender profile men when making a DV arrest, regardless of who is visibly injured.

@@radicaldreamer927 110% I feel like she used that to justify her not taking action but I feel like she was obviously escalated and aggressive and I think they should’ve stepped in

Abuse aside, I don’t blame the other woman. It’s the cheater to blame and I surely don’t blame the person who was cheated on. I think that is the mistress did know that’s a huge problem. You can see it’s a safety issue for her. Ppl get heated in these situations so I always think it’s crazy for someone to put themselves in someone else’s relationship. It’s just asking for trouble.

same lol

Me too

I was respectfully distracted

I deleted My initial comment because of the video topic but same

ASDFESGA right

That’s absolutely not true in every case. Some cases are “bad” enough that no matter what you say the state will press charges.

Yeah, Zscorro calls EJ the If-You-See-Kay & See-You-in-Toronto words nonstop, hundreds of times a day.

yeah it actually made my heart race, and the fact he didn’t let go when she was screaming that she was sorry, would pull over, etc. also it looks like he’s trying to ch0ke her which is so scary, i feel like what he did was quite excessive, but also he wasn’t really in the right state of mind :/

Suppose you and your partner tend to explode after therapy. A: your therapist is not doing a thorough job because they shouldn’t be allowing you to leave a session so activated violence could potentially ensue, and B: you need to take separate cars if you’re going to in-person therapy if it’s not in person. Suppose You’re doing it over Zoom. Try being in entirely separate locations during your session. Sometimes, having a refractory period can be immensely helpful and allow you to process your feelings before your raw emotions Illicit a response you’ll regret

It's not always the loneliness there can be belittling into the thought of self defecation. Not to mention blackmail or any petty stuff these people can drag up to make your life a living hell.

Part of why it's hard to leave is because the brain produces certain chemicals in toxic relationships with a lot of ups and downs, you get addicted to it. When you're in it you might describe it as "passionate". Secure relationships can look boring afterwards.

​@@jurassicroom7673self-defecation 😭😭😭

@@erinkinsella91 dammit I wrote depreciation.

Remember the abuse victim loves the abuser in most cases and wants them to change.

Thank you that’s my reaction too.. It’s obvious she’s been violent before but it’s equally obvious that he’s been violent as well. I had a friend who’s in a relationship like that and she would provoke him and harass him and embarrass him to the point where they both got violent and then she pretended like he was this explosive monster and she was a perfect little lamb. It’s not self defense when you have the physical upper hand in less than 2 seconds and still continue with the violence. This was horrific to witness and it’s obvious to me that none of the people involved are mentally sane in any way. To all the men in the comment section saying he just defended himself: you just love watching a woman get beaten over something you can justify in your small mind, don’t you? I feel like people maybe didn’t watch the whole video or why aren’t more people shocked by how violent he became so quickly? I know all about reactive abuse and am a survivor myself but all I see is two unstable people who need help and/or jail.

Yeah, his response was nuts. She was being unnecessarily physical, and then he gains control of her head violently while she is operating a motor vehicle?! As far as I'm concerned, that looked like attempted murder-suicide. When I was once in a similar position (being hit by the driver in a vehicle and them driving erratically), I popped the door open once I got free and tucked and rolled out into the ditch. I took a lot less damage than I would have if the driver had hit something.

Yeah for sure, at first I was like "good on you, you warned her and you shouldn't let her keep hitting you like that!" but then pretty quickly it seemed to become excessive and I kept mentally telling him to stop. He was doing way more than what could be justified as self-defense. I understand why he'd be in a heightened emotional state and lose his shit, but that doesn't make it okay.

Oh thank god someone else had this take. I had to scroll for way too effing long. Like are we serious rn? She was the first by hitting him but his grabbing her scalp with both hands and pulling as hard as he could is fcking WILD. I'm not saying she's not violent but like, jesus. He was obviously way more powerful and extended in his attack. jesus lord almighty I hope these people separate.

Yeah, being cheated on is absolutely soul crushing, not justifying abuse but like I understand.

Yeah, both the parents are top-tier multi-billionaires. The mom does not communicate with him, and his Dubai Daddy gives him millions to “fritter away” and pays Jr. to stay “away” in the states. He did recently sell his Beverly Hills apartment for $2-3 million. This financial wizard/advisor in Florida known as Ganval has become fast-friends with Dubai Daddy. He will be in charge of Zscorro’s(Mister Based Slave’s) finances/allowances from now on, all allegedly.

She's was bad, but his anger was scary to me

Somebody posted a pic from him of the glasses. They were smashed in half and cracked all up.

That term, "reactive abuse," really rubs me the wrong way. Self defense isn't abuse.

I was just thinking the same thing. I’m styling it different ways in my head rn.

She could’ve avoided the danger if she dated someone not married, but yes I agree. I’m just saying y’all need to be careful for your own safety.

I anyway left because I know the truth.

9:20 Elisa supposedly would sent all ss from Szcorro when reality she wanted to blasted Sarah's nxdes through discord. And this is how Sarah told Szcorro and Elisa to stay away from them. It's obviously revenge pxrn since Sarah didn't consent.