Elisa wasn’t a writer; she was Benji’s girlfriend; he was the writer for Stern’s show.
@READYTOGLARE4 ай бұрын
I misunderstood then. Sigh. My brain. Thank you for letting me know!!
@NathalieCwiekSwiercz4 ай бұрын
but the news article in the beginnings says she was the writer? 😮 I'm also confused haha
@watshername20124 ай бұрын
No? She was def the writer. So far it seems like no one really knows about the alleged partner fame-wise and shes noted multiple times as a comedy writer.
@FuneraryGirl4 ай бұрын
She was listed as a writer for the show.
@teacupglitterinfested15254 ай бұрын
Now I’m wondering what happened to Benji.
@Nbbirkin4 ай бұрын
There is a term called "reactive abuse", but I def agree this situation is so much more complicated than something you can sum up with "guilty vs innocent"
@Nobody-s8244 ай бұрын
Yes. It looked abusive from both sides to me.
@SnapeArgento4 ай бұрын
Agree, I didn't know if his reaction was a turning point or a normal reaction on their relationship
@HobieInTheBox4 ай бұрын
Reactive abuse is something I'm personally familiar with. It's much more complicated than people realise
@Nobody-s8244 ай бұрын
@@HobieInTheBox of course. You can only hurt someone so many times before they start to fight back.
@tatiana40504 ай бұрын
@@SnapeArgento he totally flinched at 4:35 and then later too. But they both need help
@zannadunstrand62894 ай бұрын
She also endangered SO MANY OTHERS when she drove around like that!
@Necrophyllis.3 ай бұрын
Not as much as her partner endangered by pulling her out if the seat well she drives
@zannadunstrand62893 ай бұрын
@@Necrophyllis. first of all: she wasn’t driving. He did that as soon as she stood still in that intersection. Second: yes. It was stupid. He should have just jumped out and gotten out of there BUT SHE PUT HIM THROUGH THIS ABUSE FOR HOURS!! You’re not thinking logically anylonger by then. There’s a reason she’s the one charged.
@forensicdarling4 ай бұрын
That's disturbing. I never stumble upon stuff like this online. No wonder you were taken aback. And they need to STOP couples therapy and never speak to each other again. Kids or nah.
@jasonflatley71144 ай бұрын
@Lunadeus333Still doesn’t make what happened ok.
@cleoh6664 ай бұрын
@Lunadeus333 thank u for sharing insight, she seems so disrespectful to him
@thecatlimitdoesnotexist4 ай бұрын
You weren’t kidding when you said viewer discretion is advised…wtf.
@linawithay2 ай бұрын
IKR like the way she was smacking him
@lunamothfitzpatrick75714 ай бұрын
I was honestly expecting this to be young influencers in their teens or early twenties, not full on adults. Christ.
@jenn_ash4 ай бұрын
Her saying he’s killing her.. that’s just straight up self defence.. none of this is ok. They both need some serious help
@brittneybabeee40314 ай бұрын
I don’t want to come off as stupid but I just want to clarify- are you saying that SHE is defending herself by saying he’s killing her???
@jenn_ash4 ай бұрын
@@brittneybabeee4031 I realize my comment needs clarification I’m saying she’s wild for saying he’s killing her while I see it as self defence, he clearly wasn’t killing her I believe it was drama for whoever was on the phone. Granted like said in this video we don’t know full context. I initially saw him grabbing her as self defence but who knows maybe they’re both abusive to each other. Regardless they both need serious professional help. Hope that clarifies.
@davidking87444 ай бұрын
To push a person to reactive abuse is really aweful. Obviously what he did is wrong, but we did watch that man in real time get so scared/angry/hurt/abused that he did what his brain told him he needed to do. I've been there, I've been that scared.
@doyoufeardeath6664 ай бұрын
Same.. being pushed to your limits is so painful and scary.
@brooklynnbailey43564 ай бұрын
Same... she's honestly lucky bc I'd have snapped tf off and I scare myself when I get to that point
@brijmsn4 ай бұрын
He wasn't scared. He was annoyed.
@emilylawless894 ай бұрын
@@brijmsn are you speaking because you’re the victim because if you’re not, you have no idea how he felt in that moment and you can’t read his mind so don’t suggest you have any clue what he was feeling
@brijmsn4 ай бұрын
@@emilylawless89 If he was scared he would have asked her to pull over and got out of the fucking car. Instead he needed to assert his dominance to show her her place. Thats why he kept calling her the C word. If he was genuinely afraid he wouldn't be talking like that.
@tenebrousoul93684 ай бұрын
She didn't just threaten to dox the girl, she *did it*
@zickykane52064 ай бұрын
On a side note...it feels like she trying to provoke him into attacking her, and when he did, her crying for help seemed kind of fake. Like she was performing for the camera. I could be totally off base, but her saying help hes killing me just seemed really over the top and fake.
@SillyLittlePookie4 ай бұрын
FR
@apriljk65574 ай бұрын
Agree. Seems like she's not used to getting her hair pulled.
@tatiana40504 ай бұрын
@@apriljk6557 she doesn't seem scared. More surprised.
@milk89144 ай бұрын
knowing her this theory is entirely possible
@brooklynnbailey43564 ай бұрын
@tatiana4050 Yup, she definitely didn't sound distressed. Unfortunately I've seen women in those situations and this did not seem like that at all... she was more shocked he was brave enough to touch her back than scared he'd actually hurt her.
@LuisAngel02144 ай бұрын
Damn her mood changed real quick when he defended himself from her 💀🤡
@vanillafire26524 ай бұрын
Textbook narcissistic biatxhh!!!!
@anjallama49864 ай бұрын
I regret looking at the rest of the stream. That was so disturbing and unsettling.
@gabimaza7804 ай бұрын
Does no one else feel like she thought it was funny he was fighting back and it didn’t really hurt her and she just wanted people to feel bad for her?
@emilylawless894 ай бұрын
@@gabimaza780 that's how narcissistic females maintain control to the outsider they are the victim period but this one let the mirror slip
@KreeZafi4 ай бұрын
@@gabimaza780 Yeah her reaction definitely sounded like she was exaggerating for the camera. I'm sure it did actually hurt but she appeared to play it up a lot, especially when she started screaming about how he was killing her??? I get the impression she wanted to make herself out to be the victim. Especially since she's the one who posted it, I would imagine that in her mind it was evidence of her being abused rather than something incriminating herself.
@Joey2454 ай бұрын
Literally gasped upon seeing the footage. Holy fuck, never realized how bad that was.
@Jesus_equals_LOVEnForgviness4 ай бұрын
I remember listening to a therapist once say that she quit doing couples therapy because it's virtually impossible to help the couples. She said that the only goal is to save the relationship, and often it soon becomes apparent that isnt what the goal should be. And because the collective duo is the client and not the individuals the therapist cant accutually say to them individually what is best if its at all detrimental to the interests of the other partner.
@itchild58034 ай бұрын
Alright, n assumin kids arnt involved/affected. Some ppl r fundamentally broken. Beyond repair. Isn't it better dey end up wit up some1 else beyond repair den wit a "normies". Yes some realtionships have toxic elements but both ppl really do love each other n arnt deliberately tryn 2 fuk wit der partner. Also in rare rare very rare cases, a physically abusive or verbally abusive partner can change. I know personally but don't want 2 say anything else on dat. All Im sayin in realtionships der sometimes start abusive but later it's been more den 15 yrs, since an act of abuse happened. Its very rare but I think if 2 ppl love each other n want help with der realtionship dats der business. I have a hand disability dat makes typin painful n usually my partner is asleep wen I'm usin Reddit so I can't scream at da talk to text which is required cause of my speech impediment so I use phonetic shorthand dis is a copied message to
@smfreij4 ай бұрын
@@itchild5803no. I feel if someone is “broken and beyond repair” (which isn’t necessarily true) they should be alone and work on themselves than end up with another broken person. It amplifies the suffering.
@theclassfreakforever4 ай бұрын
I would never make light of abuse. That being said, the way she immediately switched her attitude the second he retaliated had me rolling my eyes.
@itsyaboi12484 ай бұрын
I heard the cop say IF i saw you hit him
@MuseOfMisery4 ай бұрын
That's what I heard as well. She said IF I had seen you connect your hand to his body, then it doesn't matter whether or not he wants to press charges, she HAS to arrest her.
@ssplague4 ай бұрын
Same She did say “If you would have hit him in my presence”.
@CornCob15334 ай бұрын
Yea it didn't seem like the cop saw anything. Not to play devils advocate, but you can't make an arrest off something you didn't see
@croshaide31684 ай бұрын
I also heard the if from the cop
@KreeZafi4 ай бұрын
Right, it seemed she was just making hitting motions but not making contact, and the cop was warning that if she actually hit him she'd be arrested
@hannahshark80804 ай бұрын
Wow she changed her tune really quick once he started retaliating.
@brooklynnbailey43564 ай бұрын
No fr I'd have done worse... I'm surprised he didn't actually break her jaw or something in that moment. My personal anger issues would have sent her to the hospital, ESPECIALLY if I had the patience enough to tell the person to STOP hitting me SEVERAL times first...
@NUFAN13134 ай бұрын
The way she went from raging at him to calmly talking to whoever that was on the live stream is genuinely SCARY. She's not a safe person and I hope they just get away from each other and leave each other alone for good.
@helixxia93204 ай бұрын
@brooklynnbailey4356 maybe you should work on that lmfao having that much issues with anger sounds like a weird thing to brag(?) about
@Vampress094 ай бұрын
@@brooklynnbailey4356 If you're not joking please seek help. Nothing wrong with self defence but you seem pretty overjoyed imagining hurting someone.
@HobieInTheBox4 ай бұрын
As a victim of familial domestic abuse, this angers me to no end. She's evil, point blank.
@Necrophyllis.3 ай бұрын
No husband cheated therfore he loses all rights as human.
@ofi79114 ай бұрын
This video made me sick, and at the same time mother is slaying, what an emotional rollercoaster
@LorenisShining4 ай бұрын
as a survivor of man violence against women, I'm pretty horrified by the response many male victims face from authorities and society at large. Decades ago women would get blamed, shamed and laughed at when reporting intimate partner abuse instead of dismantling those attitudes now male victims face those challenges. I can't believe our care for abuse survivors became gendered somehow :( thanks for talking about the hard stuff Julia xx
@bluephoeenix4 ай бұрын
As a DV survivor i spotted several things. 1. Shes done this before in private. She felt comfortable enough to do it on camera and in public, because this is her new normal. 2. He is used to this type of behavior. He wants out. Her gaslighting the mistress on the phone, saying all those things what he said. She wants the mistress to take her side. 3. Mistress isnt falling for it. I think the mistress and this woman child knows each other in some way. 4. Shes sending the guy to mistress way. Its a form of manipulative behavior. Like haha i win. 5. He flinches often. Im sure shes done worse behing closed doors. I think if she wasn't driving,she would have went full psycho. 6. She doxxed the mistress. Shes trying to gain control of the mistress. She said some horrible things to the mistress using racist speak. 7. She used every trick in the book of a narcissist. 8.He snaps and she cries put as a victim. Trying to act scared. Shes not. 9. Shes comfortable enough to show her true colors to the cop because shes a woman. The cop failed him miserably. 10. She's not scared of her behavior. Shes gotten away with this behavior probably since childhood. From me watching this over and over i can tell hes not her first victim nor will be her last unless she's imprisoned. She keeps bringing up the mistress race to the cop. She is racist. Period. Shes a full on narcissist. No one is safe around her. She needs jail and therapy. Edit: she wont change. She's evil to her core. For him hitting her back and calling her names. I see a victim snapping. Ive done it myself towards my ex husband. After years of abuse i did snap and hit him. To get him off me. To stop his attack. I left him after 4 1/2 years of pure hell. I never looked back. Its hard to leave an abuser because they gaslit a person. Plus fear. Fear of how am i going to survive without money. If youre in a DV situation, please get out. My ex husband was close to unaliving me. 1-800-799-7233 DV hotline.
@mamabear-9.18.184 ай бұрын
Spot on! Been there and through this all myself. Remember that Eminem song with Rihanna? That verse, "Next time imma tie her to the bed and set the house on fire" yeah that was his favorite line to use because at the time, this song ("Love The Way You Lie") was popular. My ex was actually on parole and he had caught new charges out of county and out of state, called me to get him from the police station on a Saturday night @ like 11:00pm, before his PO was notified and bring bail money. $1,000 cash to be exact. I was working double after double at my job as a Patient Care Technician on the mental health floor of the hospital. He'd take my car, numerous staff would witness marks on me and I always had a reason, an excuse for fingerprints around my wrists, forearm, biceps and my neck. He'd sit outside my job waiting for me. He switched our bank account cards because Wachovia bank cards looked the same back then and he had been withdrawing money sporadically from my account and knew that I would never use my bank card unless I was taking money out of the machine. He started using substances daily (we'd occasionally be "rolling face" on the weekends, I'll admit it but I was very careful about substance use because I am in recovery and could've been hit with a random test from my job at anytime) Well, when I bailed him out, driving from New York to Connecticut in the middle of the night on my day off, right after getting out of the shower, he gets in the car nonchalantly and friendly to the cops, I started driving and BOOM! FIST 👊 TO FACE! He was screaming that I told his sister and I kept saying that she called me and told me what happened and where you were. Didn't matter. I was so used to being treated this way that I tried to unalive myself that night. For 2 days, he watched me vomiting in my sleep, unconscious and did nothing because he didn't want to be sent back to prison. Thank God my coworker and big sister like best friend from work had called me to check on me and was waiting for me at our job. When he answered my phone, she knew something was wrong and demanded to know what's going on or she was going to call the cops and trace my phone to me. It got him scared enough to fill the tub with cold water and place me in it and I was out of it but responsive enough to go to a hospital close to where I worked but that didn't have a mental health floor or affiliated with referral service to one. While they were checking me out, they had to make my ex leave because he kept answering questions for me and he was "aggressive towards the staff and there were questionable markings on my face and body". He actually left the hospital and met his dealer while I was alone in there. This was 72 hours into what I had attempted and failed at doing. My best friend/coworker who called was onto my ex's game at this point and she coached me best she could of what to say to avoid losing my job due to the entire situation. I'm editing the best I can, so just imagine what was occurring, as I feel like you can relate. When they finally let me go, he jumped on my bail, so that grand was gone and as I was trying to recover, I had to drive around looking for him because his family was constantly placing pressure on me to financially take care of him and they refused to really help at all, except for his older sister. Now, I been the loyal girlfriend while he was locked up before (twice, both bids) and I ended up finding him and his parole officer was enraged at me because "the longest and most stable (my ex) had ever been was with me and for 9 months, you looked me in the face and lied about what he was doing to you!" .... I ended up having a miscarriage, finding out I was pregnant after he went back in and had to max out his bid and start new felonies charges he had received. I couldn't continue the relationship anymore. My parents got involved when on a county jail visit, we're allowed to hold hands and hug before/after visitation, my ex had grabbed my wrist and smacked me across the face for not doing something right, I don't remember what I had done but I was 19 years old and back home with my parents who were pissed off and my Ma called the jail and the C.O. that was watching visitation admitted to seeing me crying and they watched the tape and needless to say I refused to press charges on him. I was banned and he was sent to "the box" for a month. A couple years later I ran into my ex coworker from a previous job and he had always liked me, he could tell I wasn't doing well and he was like that strong, caring person I desperately needed. Fast forward to present day, now we're married, have our own home and we have our precious daughter. I'm still dealing with C-PTSD due to numerous things that I have been through but everything I shared was just a snippet of the type of things that I had been through. Before I was with my ex that I had just discussed, I was with someone from a "rehab romance" which I DO NOT EVER SUGGEST ANYONE GO THROUGH BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT SUCCESSFUL! I am sharing this because I don't want to appear like I'm innocent and virginal. I made a lot of mistakes and learned the hard way. If anyone can relate please, please, please call the Hotline # that @bluephoeenix posted in the comment above. Your life is worth living happily, "normally", free of fear and having to walk on eggshells all the time.
@BelindaShort4 ай бұрын
Her behavior is pretty much just how my mom acts. The hitting still happens outside of fights like this, and she thought it was okay
@conniescrustycharredcooter24764 ай бұрын
My ma acted like this with me when no one else was around, acted like an angel in public
@reanndacli34214 ай бұрын
Lmao samezies
@bizzlejams4 ай бұрын
Mine too 😔 She will never change. I've been dealing with the trauma for decades.
@ericaboisvert4 ай бұрын
Same.
@cece43314 ай бұрын
I'm sorry your mom was this way. Mine, unfortunately, was like that too.
@KilledTheRainbow4 ай бұрын
she also regularly defends her friend who is in prison for being a real sicko predator
@Lanaaaaa454 ай бұрын
really who?
@KilledTheRainbow4 ай бұрын
@@Lanaaaaa45 James Ward-Nichols aka "Jimmy The Christian"
@kaskus71474 ай бұрын
To me it looks like a toxic pair that probably get into fights like this on a regular basis. They most likely assault each other a lot because they don't know how to manage their anger.
@brijmsn4 ай бұрын
Thats just pathetic.
@mcd083 ай бұрын
Oh 100%. They've both been abusing each other for a while. There's zero chance she just started abusing him because of the cheating. Now i have no idea who the initial perpetrator was but Jesus H Christ... crazy all around
@raewren4 ай бұрын
That officer was livid at her, and rightfully so. My word…
@gabrielleroussel66764 ай бұрын
Omg my jaw dropped when she slapped him in the face. Wow
@TryingNotToPanic4 ай бұрын
That cop failed. Really said she hit him in her presence and let her off😂 also threatened his life in front of her?? What a joke
@themajesticspider-man61164 ай бұрын
Pigs do be kinda THTOOPID.
@KimSearch8654 ай бұрын
She didn’t make contact. The cop said that was the only reason she wasn’t getting arrested.
@kimmiefromnarnia20594 ай бұрын
Yeah thats why cops are jokes. They typically disregard abuse victims
@lemonhands84244 ай бұрын
If someone says they’re gonna hit you back if you hit them and you still do it?? I’m by no means surprised he started attacking back but wow that was a tough watch.
@user-nj3gm2bl1e4 ай бұрын
She should be called all the names in the books. I dgaf what he says after she is BEATING him
@aaolsen14 ай бұрын
Because her hand didn’t actually touch him that’s why the cop didn’t immediately arrest her… still insane
@jeannabeckman74244 ай бұрын
But she also threatened his life if you didn't hear her
@aaolsen14 ай бұрын
@@jeannabeckman7424 oh yeah for sure that’s why I say still insane they didn’t go ahead and detain her
@radicaldreamer9274 ай бұрын
Even if her hand did touch him, that is irrelevant. Predominant aggressor policies. *_That_* is why it is so rare for female perpetrators of DV to be arrested, because law and policy requires police to gender profile men when making a DV arrest, regardless of who is visibly injured.
@aaolsen14 ай бұрын
@@radicaldreamer927 110% I feel like she used that to justify her not taking action but I feel like she was obviously escalated and aggressive and I think they should’ve stepped in
@angrypizzagirl4 ай бұрын
The cop said IF I had seen you hit him and in the video you can see she puts her hand on his arm, probably after cocking a fist back but not following through. I'm pretty sure she did not hit him in that moment but acted like she was going to, hence what the cop said.
@citruslimonia4 ай бұрын
That outfit is fire 🔥🔥🔥 Also, that woman is unhinged, she commited a lot of crimes on a single stream, I can't feel so bad for him for cheating but also no one deserves to be robbed, assaulted and doxxed bc of it, idk if Sara knew about him being already in a relationship but she also didn't deserved all of that, a lot of people were being racist to her too
@belovedobserver4 ай бұрын
Abuse aside, I don’t blame the other woman. It’s the cheater to blame and I surely don’t blame the person who was cheated on. I think that is the mistress did know that’s a huge problem. You can see it’s a safety issue for her. Ppl get heated in these situations so I always think it’s crazy for someone to put themselves in someone else’s relationship. It’s just asking for trouble.
@kimberlygladhill94214 ай бұрын
I am looking disrespectfully
@halcyon31164 ай бұрын
same lol
@SillyLittlePookie4 ай бұрын
Me too
@lovelywallflower4 ай бұрын
I was respectfully distracted
@emilylawless894 ай бұрын
I deleted My initial comment because of the video topic but same
@midgematic86594 ай бұрын
ASDFESGA right
@amanda_ruck4 ай бұрын
Am i crazy or did she wildly miss when she was in front of the cop. I thought the cop said if you had touched him, you would be going to jail
@purplezombie49404 ай бұрын
Thing is, the cop asked if he wanted to press charges and he said no, so it's not like the cops can really do anything
@samanthahope13164 ай бұрын
That’s absolutely not true in every case. Some cases are “bad” enough that no matter what you say the state will press charges.
@_MissLoLo4 ай бұрын
That top is phenomenal
@hurtorheal4 ай бұрын
There's something that happens when you're abused, no matter who you are gender, race, whatever. The fawn, flight, fight response kicks in. Some people will respond differently too it. And there is no such thing as a "perfect victim" like the media likes to think. See the circus show amber heard vs Johnny Depp case. When I was abused I often would fight back unfortunately and it's because you've been in that environment so long. Not to say everyone has the same mentality, but I am just saying sometimes this can be the case.
@MaraJadeSkky4 ай бұрын
Thank you for speaking up for ALL victims.
@brandonschmidt66354 ай бұрын
Also the way she says your fine after she hit him and keeps waving her hands in his face to make him flinch, she has been abusive before. She is enjoying the power she feels over him and you can tell, even watch her face after she hits him the first time in the car, at first she looks mad but then has a gross smirk afterwards
@ErebusNyxJay4 ай бұрын
They're both toxic , Sarah needs to stay away from them.
@ManMade.PawPrint4 ай бұрын
Yeah, Zscorro calls EJ the If-You-See-Kay & See-You-in-Toronto words nonstop, hundreds of times a day.
@tuh-my-ruh4 ай бұрын
if she did this live, which is absolutely insane , i can’t imagine what she does in private. 😟😟😟
@basementdwellercosplay4 ай бұрын
They both need to be arrested and get help ASAP,
@thatwitch-ep4rd4 ай бұрын
The way he was pulling on her tho, that was so hard to watch for me and I don't usually have issues with that. But my ex used to regularly drag me around by my hair like that. They both need to get the fuck away from each other. That shit is so fucking real and someone is going to get seriously hurt or killed.
@georgiall043627 күн бұрын
yeah it actually made my heart race, and the fact he didn’t let go when she was screaming that she was sorry, would pull over, etc. also it looks like he’s trying to ch0ke her which is so scary, i feel like what he did was quite excessive, but also he wasn’t really in the right state of mind :/
@amandajoz_4 ай бұрын
Not even half way and I’m already heart broken this is so sick and saddening
@jurassicroom76734 ай бұрын
Look how quick she pulls the damn "please help me" but bro you need to walk home the courts will not be in your favor.
@emilylawless894 ай бұрын
Suppose you and your partner tend to explode after therapy. A: your therapist is not doing a thorough job because they shouldn’t be allowing you to leave a session so activated violence could potentially ensue, and B: you need to take separate cars if you’re going to in-person therapy if it’s not in person. Suppose You’re doing it over Zoom. Try being in entirely separate locations during your session. Sometimes, having a refractory period can be immensely helpful and allow you to process your feelings before your raw emotions Illicit a response you’ll regret
@Ghostie____4 ай бұрын
It truly baffles me how people like this stay together. Are you THAT scared of being alone? You would rather stay with a person who talks/treats you like that? Mind boggling.
@jurassicroom76734 ай бұрын
It's not always the loneliness there can be belittling into the thought of self defecation. Not to mention blackmail or any petty stuff these people can drag up to make your life a living hell.
@doyoufeardeath6664 ай бұрын
Part of why it's hard to leave is because the brain produces certain chemicals in toxic relationships with a lot of ups and downs, you get addicted to it. When you're in it you might describe it as "passionate". Secure relationships can look boring afterwards.
@erinkinsella914 ай бұрын
@@jurassicroom7673self-defecation 😭😭😭
@jurassicroom76734 ай бұрын
@@erinkinsella91 dammit I wrote depreciation.
@jacobw54604 ай бұрын
Remember the abuse victim loves the abuser in most cases and wants them to change.
@samanthahope13164 ай бұрын
I’ve reacted in some unhinged ways while being abused. I’ve ripped my own hair out in front of my abuser before, broke my own shit, screamed, yelled. Just truly not okay things, BECAUSE i was being abused😅 i don’t react like that anymore because no one’s abusing me to that point.
@angelac1414 ай бұрын
He repeatedly asked her to stop she ignored him and carried on hitting him he reached breaking point and reacted
@jenna67164 ай бұрын
Can we all agree on one thing? Abuse is not ok regardless of age, sex, gender whatever... Keep your hands to yourself people.
@lorenacoleman70584 ай бұрын
What is he supposed to do? Sit there and take it? He did what he did to make her pull over and get out.
@BeeKee4044 ай бұрын
I really don't know what to make of this. I feel like what we're seeing is her being abusive and him defending himself but taking it too far. It honestly just seems like they both need some mental help. I could be wrong.
@kelseyparker48034 ай бұрын
Idk he wasn’t restraining her. He looked like once he got ahold of her he started yanking and being way more violent than needed. They’re both unhinged from what’s on video
@mimz11734 ай бұрын
Thank you that’s my reaction too.. It’s obvious she’s been violent before but it’s equally obvious that he’s been violent as well. I had a friend who’s in a relationship like that and she would provoke him and harass him and embarrass him to the point where they both got violent and then she pretended like he was this explosive monster and she was a perfect little lamb. It’s not self defense when you have the physical upper hand in less than 2 seconds and still continue with the violence. This was horrific to witness and it’s obvious to me that none of the people involved are mentally sane in any way. To all the men in the comment section saying he just defended himself: you just love watching a woman get beaten over something you can justify in your small mind, don’t you? I feel like people maybe didn’t watch the whole video or why aren’t more people shocked by how violent he became so quickly? I know all about reactive abuse and am a survivor myself but all I see is two unstable people who need help and/or jail.
@Nylak-Otter4 ай бұрын
Yeah, his response was nuts. She was being unnecessarily physical, and then he gains control of her head violently while she is operating a motor vehicle?! As far as I'm concerned, that looked like attempted murder-suicide. When I was once in a similar position (being hit by the driver in a vehicle and them driving erratically), I popped the door open once I got free and tucked and rolled out into the ditch. I took a lot less damage than I would have if the driver had hit something.
@KreeZafi4 ай бұрын
Yeah for sure, at first I was like "good on you, you warned her and you shouldn't let her keep hitting you like that!" but then pretty quickly it seemed to become excessive and I kept mentally telling him to stop. He was doing way more than what could be justified as self-defense. I understand why he'd be in a heightened emotional state and lose his shit, but that doesn't make it okay.
@lawliet69102 ай бұрын
Oh thank god someone else had this take. I had to scroll for way too effing long. Like are we serious rn? She was the first by hitting him but his grabbing her scalp with both hands and pulling as hard as he could is fcking WILD. I'm not saying she's not violent but like, jesus. He was obviously way more powerful and extended in his attack. jesus lord almighty I hope these people separate.
@Karensmclarenn4 ай бұрын
Saw this video yesterday. It made me so vividly uncomfortable I was praying it was staged in some way
@Ms.K3054 ай бұрын
Wow that was a lot. They posted this willingly? Just wow. And now I have the opinion for people who go to couples therapy: you should go in separate cars.
@grandsome14 ай бұрын
They bring the worst in each other they should be separated before someone really gets hurt, that moment she made him snap could've been much worse. Their shit could've also involved a 3rd party in an accident given they were on the road.
@imtired15094 ай бұрын
I think theyre both bad tbh...
@Necrophyllis.3 ай бұрын
Yeah, being cheated on is absolutely soul crushing, not justifying abuse but like I understand.
@Wuzuw8n4me4 ай бұрын
He's a trust fund baby, billionaire parents. He lives in California, and they had an airb&b in west palm beach
@ManMade.PawPrint4 ай бұрын
Yeah, both the parents are top-tier multi-billionaires. The mom does not communicate with him, and his Dubai Daddy gives him millions to “fritter away” and pays Jr. to stay “away” in the states. He did recently sell his Beverly Hills apartment for $2-3 million. This financial wizard/advisor in Florida known as Ganval has become fast-friends with Dubai Daddy. He will be in charge of Zscorro’s(Mister Based Slave’s) finances/allowances from now on, all allegedly.
@namizou33054 ай бұрын
If you're being abused it shouldn't even matter if you call your abuser names. They're beating you so calling them names isn't even wrong towards them.
@jennyb15374 ай бұрын
Oh Jesus. They're both horrible
@jennyb15374 ай бұрын
She's was bad, but his anger was scary to me
@k.k.london4 ай бұрын
This man clearly has had enough
@amandabolling70584 ай бұрын
This makes me think of how the officers treated the Gabbi Petito situation - in that everyone should have taken it all so much more seriously because domestic abuse is so deadly
@bloop0034 ай бұрын
Love how as he immediately attacked her back in self defense she immediately played victim
@techwithbec4 ай бұрын
They're both abusive and a mess
@PunkkTTV4 ай бұрын
personally i find it funny how she goes from so confident punching him in the face to, oh my gawd hes killing me.
@CringeyChan4 ай бұрын
The people apologizing for her because of her attractiveness are the same people that think Dahmer was hot. Yuck!
@michaelamendez39294 ай бұрын
They both need serious mental help
@manicmechanic284 ай бұрын
Ma'am I'm gonna need you to purchase that top in every available color
@maddieainsley4 ай бұрын
the correct term is "reactive abuse", in which the abused become the abuser to "survive"
@carlouuu___.4 ай бұрын
The video made me sick to my stomach, oh wow
@ayrproductions4 ай бұрын
They’re both clearly toxic
@zappa-happy4 ай бұрын
Peace ☮️ out 🦋🦋💖 DV (literally) Destroyed my life. In a wheelchair with broken back for 26 years with No justice🦋
@mprpdx4 ай бұрын
Honestly, they both seem like awful people.
@Wuzuw8n4me4 ай бұрын
Cobra Starship kicked her out before they became famous, because she was CRAZY
@ThomasKirby-ub4vy4 ай бұрын
Guy is the son of a billionaire, donated thousands of dollars to her thru her livestream, but bro can’t call an Uber and stay in hotel room and remove himself from situation. “What do I do now?” I don’t know dude get an Uber and stay away in hotel for a while she didn’t force him into the car
@RachelD3864 ай бұрын
OMG when she slapped his face. Jesus 😢
@ManMade.PawPrint4 ай бұрын
Somebody posted a pic from him of the glasses. They were smashed in half and cracked all up.
@yashinaka61394 ай бұрын
Hey beautiful. I hope you are good and are taking care of yourself. I hope you're happy. ❤ Also.... This woman is unhinged. She's dangerous. Reminds me of that case where that "influencer" stabbed her boyfriend to death. Afterwards there was evidence of her abuse. It's disgusting and more men should tell on their significant others. He immediately told that police officer it was, "ok". They do it because their instinct is to protect. She doesn't deserve protection.
@celestedemure98004 ай бұрын
My family has a lot of issues. I personally feel that if it all possible when you have family or couples therapy, you do not go together and do not leave together in the same cars. We don’t have this much issues, and it is better for us to have time and space apart after each session, then to get into a car together
@Jesser19754 ай бұрын
I think he was cheating because she's abusive. It's a method that some people use to get out of a toxic relationship. Not the smartest method, as it can provoke an abuser, but people still do it.
@middledog4664 ай бұрын
that is absolutely disgusting
@julylady244 ай бұрын
The violence on both ends is BAAAAD
@sjworrier06134 ай бұрын
Cheating is bad, being an abusive piece of sh*t is worse, much worse.
@laiciemortensen15994 ай бұрын
Not that way, they started abusing each other in front of the cops. 🤦♀️ Idiots.
@honeyyve31914 ай бұрын
I’m obsessed with this top on you! The fit and the colour is amazing!! The blonde hair def brings it together
@Deadpool4president4 ай бұрын
Reactive abuse isn't the same as mutual abuse.
@radicaldreamer9274 ай бұрын
That term, "reactive abuse," really rubs me the wrong way. Self defense isn't abuse.
@Nikki_812 ай бұрын
Wow, as soon as he fought back to protect himself she plays the "oh poor me" card ... insanity!!! She really thought people would side with her!!!
@atr0phaneura7264 ай бұрын
Very upsetting... I don't think the woman is justified in her actions,but at all.but he's no angel either
@momsphonephone85924 ай бұрын
I heard the cop saying that she didn't connect when she swung at him.
@cameronmoore51524 ай бұрын
They’re both at fault in this specific situation, IMO. He warned her what he would do if she hit him again, but then proceeded to call her names knowing very well how she will react. Toxic relationship at its finest!
@halcyon31164 ай бұрын
MAAM LINK THIS CORSET PLEASE :)
@keke55774 ай бұрын
I was just thinking the same thing. I’m styling it different ways in my head rn.
@The_game-4 ай бұрын
“He’s killing me!” Girl bye
@ariell37704 ай бұрын
They’re both bad for each other. She got caught up in him donating to her channel. He has been calling her out of her name. There’s so much footage of them arguing and saying the horrible things to & about each other. The verbal abuse turned into physical
@hayleybluebird4 ай бұрын
My mouth feels so dry all the sudden…
@FarahRoseSmith4 ай бұрын
Wow, this footage is horrific. Though it shows how DV cases can get complicated in terms of who did what, where did something start, etc. Just a mess. I hope they both get intense therapy.
@SillyLittlePookie4 ай бұрын
Miss I’m trying to stay straight your top is making me feel gay 😔
@MikaelaJoArroyo4 ай бұрын
My mom always raised me, because I have a lot of Brothers, that if I want to walk, talk and fight like a man then I better be prepared to get my ass beat like one! And I 100% agree with it!!!!
@EllieEspnoz4 ай бұрын
Yes, you missed something, the police officer said “you’re lucky that your hand didn’t hit him, if you would hit him right in my presence you would be going to jail “
@kimberlygladhill94214 ай бұрын
Mother
@s0urce.ow04 ай бұрын
I'm less than 1 year out of a 4 year relationship with a girl who did this exact same type of shit. The exact same sort of behavior and everything. Going to try and not project my situation on this one. Though I can say that with me, there's only so much abuse you can take before you feel you need to defend yourself. I feel I know exactly where this man is at and I hope he gets out for his own sake, because it really does feel like everyone is against you. The police will assume you somehow started it. So you cant look to them. Friends and family will say "just leave", but its insanely difficult to get out or get them out if you're both on a lease or have pets or kids or you pay for the house but she wont leave. So you stay and this shit keeps happening over and over. At a certain point it feels like your only option is to meet her violence with more violence, but if you fight back she'll immediately play the victim and use the predisposition to see men as abusers against you. Regardless people will still debate whether or not hitting her back after being repeatedly punched in the face by her and grabbing her is also you somehow being abusive? Like I dont think this would even be a conversation if the situation were reversed. Point here is for everyone: be EXTREMELY selective about who you get into a relationship with.
@ErebusNyxJay4 ай бұрын
Update: Today I was in Elisa discord for little while but turned out that Sarah has kid even tho shes only 20 and the fact Szcorro and Elisa are way older than her , having Sarah's personal stuff as in having her nxdes without consent , that's obviously revenge porn and they shouldn't be released from prison. Unfortunately they are today. Sarah even told them to leave her alone , so idk why shes in that server still but if I were Sara I would sue those scumbags. And those people from Discord server are creepy af.
@belovedobserver4 ай бұрын
She could’ve avoided the danger if she dated someone not married, but yes I agree. I’m just saying y’all need to be careful for your own safety.
@ErebusNyxJay4 ай бұрын
I anyway left because I know the truth.
@ErebusNyxJay4 ай бұрын
9:20 Elisa supposedly would sent all ss from Szcorro when reality she wanted to blasted Sarah's nxdes through discord. And this is how Sarah told Szcorro and Elisa to stay away from them. It's obviously revenge pxrn since Sarah didn't consent.
@velentr4 ай бұрын
So all off this could have been avoided if that one cop had just _done their job_ ? Cool.
@sfooshy45174 ай бұрын
The red on the guys nose reminds me of the time a customer misheard what I said, and FLIPPED OUT on me. Sir Im just trying to make your poke bowl.